Signal1469 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
36	How can one be married to a woman and misogynist? It must be possible. I realised I was married to a woman who hated men. Many of her "friends" also hated men, and they were married too.	/r/MensRights	27/05/25 07:47 PM
8	Mentally exhausted I know where you're coming from. It's not going away quickly unfortunately. I went through an "I should start dating" phase, and did. It worked for a while, but it wasn't a great idea, and I with hindsight I was lucky I didn't make the same mistakes all over again. What I've learned is that what you're calling loneliness is actually freedom. It's a priceless thing.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/05/25 04:08 PM
3	This woman is about to announce she's divorcing her husband but he doesn't suspect - does this sound familiar? Yeah, there are two kinds of jobs in a modern marriage. One is general household jobs, for which both partners are responsible. This would be cooking, cleaning, washing, childcare, etc. This was the case in mine regardless of the fact that I worked and she didn't. The other kind is mans jobs. All the ones you listed, and more. Not even up for discussion, and count for nothing. I didn't really mind, it is what it is, and things like love, loyalty, family, stability for the kids, etc, are more imp…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/25 11:00 PM
5	This woman is about to announce she's divorcing her husband but he doesn't suspect - does this sound familiar? Hah, well she can't wait to be "happy". Clearly he's going to be devastated, temporarily, but if I was betting on who's going to be happy in two years I wouldn't be putting any money on it being her.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/25 07:36 PM
4	When do I stop giving a shit? Exactly this. The best thing to do is ignore it all. Easier said than done but you'll get there. The truth comes out eventually, but you can decide it doesn't matter sooner than that.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/24 10:45 PM
3	Seriously, what goes on in their minds? Unable to answer the question but I hear you - I lost my three furry best friends in the same way. And a whole load of other beloved animals along with them.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/24 05:29 PM
5	I think I have officially lost. I know exactly how you feel, and I can tell you for sure you can and will get past this. You're probably sick of hearing this but you need to work on yourself. It's a cliche because it's true. Exercise a lot more, eat less, eat better. Meditate. See a therapist. Do things you love. Actively take care of yourself. The rest will follow.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/24 09:51 AM
12	Has anyone’s Ex-wife ever apologized for putting them through hell? Everything is somebody else's fault, and the things she did? If she says they didn't happen, that's the truth. The evidence isn't real. So no, she has nothing to apologise for.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/24 08:46 AM
2	Men are you okay with Woman on this sub commenting and posting? Personally I don't mind it. And I'm not sure what could be done to make it so your ex couldn't be reading? I totally get and respect where you're coming from though.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/24 09:59 PM
4	Need Book Suggestions: Navigating a Relationship with a Potentially Narcissistic Partner I think you proabably know the answer, but a book recommendation anyway: Stop Walking On Eggshells.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/24 03:17 PM
3	Don't let your hate towards your ex wife turn into hatred of women Hopefully it's not about hating. There are good women and bad women. Likewise for men. However, I spent 26 years with a woman who I was sure was one of the good ones, and she turned out to be very bad indeed. I don't know if she changed from good to bad, or if she was bad all along and I couldn't see it. What I do know is it would be stupid of me to ever trust one again, and I never will. (and the same would apply to men, but I don't have hormones or whatever other biological maladaptations that…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/12/23 10:46 AM
4	Survival Mode That's a great list. I've done and continue to do everything on it except #4 (tribe), for which I just don't have a clue. Well, ok, #5 doesn't apply, I'm retired. For now. Un-retiring is on the horizon for reasons that are probably obvious! As for #6, I only thought of the getting tomorrow's clothes ready the night before about 6 weeks ago, but I've done it every night without fail since. It seems trivial, it saves you milliseconds in the morning, but the psychological win is huge for some reaso…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/11/23 08:50 PM
2	An interesting idea. Probably one of the many horses, but it's hard to decide which one.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/23 10:14 PM
3	Venting methods Two things have worked for me more than anything else. One is sitting with the feelings, allowing them to exist, noticing where they are (body, not mind!), observing and accepting. They're happening to you, but they are not you. Kind of the opposite of venting really. If this is hard, meditation could help. The other is lifting weights.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/23 10:21 PM
2	The BEST parts about being divorced Thanks for that, I realise there are at least two sides to every story and I appreciate your perspective on this. I'm sorry you went through that. I think mostly (there are exceptions!) we were all doing our best with what we had, husbands and wives, with nothing to guide us except the example of a marital relationship we observed as children - usually a shitty one. And no matter how determined we are not to repeat that and pass the same on to the next generation, by the time we're aware of all …	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/23 07:04 AM
25	The BEST parts about being divorced Oh yeah, the good old "What's wrong?" - "Nothing" (then continuing sulking/glaring a few more hours). Any young men reading this - the first time that happens, walk away and never look back. Best advice I never got.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/23 05:41 PM