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| 2 | Beauty standards for men are far more unrealistic when it comes down to datingYep, personally, I think people that get BBLs look disfigured. I imagine average men would be deeply divided on this sort of "body type". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Should “trapping a man” count as rape by deceit ?Got it! In short form, the way they stop sperm production hormonally is by stopping LH and FSH from being created, but those same hormones are responsible for telling the testicles to make testosterone. https://www.givelegacy.com/resources/steroids-and-male-fertility/#:~:text=A%20study%20that%20observed%20anabolic,unable%20to%20properly%20produce%20sperm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Should “trapping a man” count as rape by deceit ?Did you read the link I posted? It discusses many different attempts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Should “trapping a man” count as rape by deceit ?Sure! It's a long read, but I'll copy and paste the one most people are referring to where "men gave up when they experienced the symptoms women deal with", and it's because someone committed suicide. That's not even getting into the ethics of what the long-term use looks like, if this is a "testosterone replacement therapy for life" sentence for a given percentage of users, and if it will result in permanently-reduced fertility with extended use, which are all things attributed with long-term u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Identifying toxic and predatory womenExtremely common. Incidentally, it was also the first question my wife's father asked (he's an immigrant). When you remove the facade of western etiquette, it's seemingly something a lot of people want to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 01:31 AM |
| 2 | How important is it for you and your S.O to be on the same page?Not hugely important to me personally as long as it's not a radical difference. My wife and I don't agree on absolutely everything, but we do more often than not. I primarily was looking for someone that respected others and was respectable herself, and that's easy to size up in the first minute of meeting someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 01:06 AM |
| 4 | Should “trapping a man” count as rape by deceit ?Complete shutdown of endogenous androgen production is not at all comparable to women's birth control. By this logic, vasectomies and tubal ligation are exactly the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 08:44 PM |
| 7 | Men don’t care about women’s career?It's all going to be relative. My wife is a doctor, now a stay at home mom (by her choosing), and it's great that she's magnificent at helping our kids with their homework, but I wouldn't have been more or less attracted to her if she was a waitress or working for NASA. It's always been a "that's neat!" type thing for me and indicative that she's pretty smart, but her income wasn't a factor. We always wanted children, and I believe it's rather common and understandable for a mom to not want to w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Weight Preferences in Dating - Most Comprehensive Dating App Study To DateYou're right that it's supposed to be around an 8% difference, but most of the research directly measuring bodyfat has shown a larger difference, with women being significantly fatter than BMI formulas would predict (i.e. a man at a BMI of 30 has roughly an equivalent gender-adjusted bodyfat to a woman at a BMI of 25 -- in other words, a 5'4 145 lb woman is probably clinically obese, but I would wager a majority of people are conditioned to see that person as normal weight). I think it makes it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 10:26 PM |
| 2 | What are some things you like about being your gender?I appreciate not being infantilized, no one makes excuses for my failures, and I don't have to wonder if personal accomplishments were pushed along through the bigotry of low expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Western Women, how much of a turn on is it for you if a guy is rich?I can also tell they haven't met many wealthy people. The idea that wealthy men are like an evil monopoly man trying to build out a brothel is pretty hysterical. Real life isn't Instagram, most rich men aren't NBA players nor grew up wealthy, and the vast majority you run across in the real world you'd have no idea what they've got. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Do you really struggle with dating and what is your relationship status?Depends on the age and stage of my life you're referring to. I'm married, and I had no problem finding dates in my very late 20s, but I'm reasonably tall (i.e. I meet the arbitrary cutoff) and am pretty financially stable. That said, maybe 1 in 10 were actually viable for more than a single date because there was truly prolific emotional baggage involved (i.e. a pediatrician asking me to fill narcotics prescriptions for her). In my early 20s the situation was reversed. I find the conversations h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenEven accounting for the gendered healthy bodyfat range, you are correct. A BMI cutoff of 30 is inappropriate to apply across genders (and ethnicities, for that matter). It works reasonably well for Caucasian men as a population group, but women are likely far more obese than the CDC data suggests. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.4081/jphr.2017.904 In the present study, the optimal BMI cut-off values corresponding to obesity, as defined by BF%, showed important differences with respect to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenWell, I don't want to start a "which gender is fatter", but there's a lot of research out there suggesting that we're significantly underrepresenting obesity in women. Realistically, the BMI cutoff for women should be shifted down quite a bit, which would reclassify nearly 2/3rds of women in the US as clinically obese, and a majority of the remainder as "overweight". Unfortunately, we'd be left with ~10% as "healthy". https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.4081/jphr.2017.904 In the present stud… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenI live in the UK and I would have thought we aren’t that different to the US but then I see posts like this. I look around myself and I actually see very few overweight people … theoretically they must be somewhere but I just don’t see them… at the station, supermarket, bar… etc… pretty much every young person (20-35-ish?) around me is a healthy weight and slim. Is the US really that bad? Damn. So I've spent quite a bit of time in the UK, and that definitely hasn't been what I've seen. Is obesit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 01:00 AM |
| 1 | I wonder if many of the guys that cannot date are actually enjoying the suffering"The left wing media" is just as capable of projecting personal failure onto uncontrollable external forces--racism, classism, capitalism, sexism, the patriarchy, the rich etc. etc. There's literally a thread posted today with someone blaming their inability to get laid on capitalism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:56 PM |
| 7 | Where have all the good men gone?So I think using middle or high school as a barometer of achievement is going to be a bit nebulous, particularly now that they're phasing out standardized testing, which boys have traditionally outperformed girls on. My criticism of our education system is lengthy, ranging from poor structure to ineffective, undereducated teachers. For me personally, I was the type that didn't put in effort in middle or high school. As I see it, everything in life is a cost-benefit analysis, and the benefit to c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 12:16 AM |
| 2 | What common themes do you see perpetuated by others in this forum that you never see in real life?And I could point you to quite a few (I was one of them) that earn a lot more than their partners. Yeah, I think it depends on the circles one is in and their age. When I was 24 and fresh out of college? No, income disparity was minor if present at all. Now that I'm in my late 30s? I meet couples with massive income disparities every single day of my life. My wife and I are one of those couples, all of my wife's colleagues and siblings, my parents, her parents, along with most of my friends and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 09:18 PM |
| 8 | Would you be okay with your partner having a good friend of the opposite sex?I tend to agree. I don't spend time with women alone because it would make my wife understandably uncomfortable. If I really want to maintain that relationship, we can all hang out together. Likewise, she shows the same respect for me. I've never demanded it of her, it's just something we feel is rather obvious and it's a sign of respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you leave the seat up? Or do you put the seat down?I purchased a smart toilet that does it all for me. Outside of that, I put both the seat and the lid down. If I presume there's no lid and it's a question of just the seat up or down, then to me it doesn't matter. Anyone else is just as capable of pushing the seat down as I am of lifting it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Do women cheat at a higher rate than men?As a population group I'd wager no, but it's hard to get accurate data I imagine. I did find this study interesting which seems to indicate it depends on the specifics: "...a longer relationship and a younger age at the first sexual encounter were significant correlates of the engagement in face-to-face emotional EDI. Women with higher education were approximately three times more likely to engage in online sexual EDI." https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-015-0576-3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you really want a stay at home wife?My wife predominately stays at home. For me, it really makes no difference if she wants to work or not--totally her call. If I was making $59,488 (to use your figure), we'd have to do some budgeting, but fortunately that's not the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Male Delusion Calculator!It's not even height, weight and sex--that would be a lot better--it's just height and weight. I'm also one of those "BMI is flawed" types, but from a different angle. It's decently accurate at predicting obesity (not great for overweight) in average-height, white men at a population level, but the cutoffs typically underestimate the overweight and obese in every other demographic. (i.e. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1046/j.1467-789X.2002.00065.x) While BMI is actually a more reliab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Statistics on single women buying properties on their ownYou don't think that's a bit aggressive? My wife is a doctor, but in relative financial terms, it's not possible for her to meaningfully contribute because the gap between our respective incomes is too significant. Your recommendation is to kick her to the curb and go find an heiress? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 06:19 AM |
| 10 | Seen repeated claims “there are more attractive women then men.”I think it's because there's a lot of young people on here. Young women in particular find other women more attractive than young men do (particularly middle aged and older women). Incidentally, young men also will rate young women more highly than they do other men. https://www.frontiersin.org/files/Articles/333220/fpsyg-09-00561-HTML/image_m/fpsyg-09-00561-t001.jpg Things sort of converge in middle-age a bit, where the gap in attractiveness between male and female faces begins to close, and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Why do people think that individual men are responsible for women value in regards to body count?I'm 37 and my wife sure as shit asked me when we started dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 11:02 PM |
| 1 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?Apologies -- missed the label. I'll delete. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 06:50 PM |
| 1 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?I'm not a redpiller, but I don't understand why the rationale is difficult to grasp. Car enthusiasts like low mileage cars and understand that miles = depreciation, but that doesn't mean they should feel bad driving or that driving your car some is some sort of moral wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 06:02 PM |
| 41 | What is Creepiness?I'd say that video taping random men in the gym is pretty creepy behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 12:25 AM |
| 2 | When a woman earns more, her man should be proud of her and support herQuite honestly, I don't know how there could be a 7.5 hour gap in weekly housework. I live in a home that's over 5k sqft, I'm a neat freak, have kids, and there isn't 7.5 hours total of housework to even do in a week. Combined we spend maybe 20 - 25 minutes a day keeping things tidy, doing laundry, etc. and nearly every bill is autopay. Are these people repainting a room every week? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 12:09 AM |
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