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Man, so I have a friend who married a woman who is fairly liberal in all things but this. She doesn't even message a guy from her past in any capacity without running it past her man first. People call it controlling but that IS how it should be and it sets the groundwork for a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:54 AM
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Yo some of these red pill dudes are a bit too blowhard but your casual dismissal of real issues is pretty stupid as well. Men are doing fairly poorly across a lot of metrics right now and it's a constant in the news cycles, stop pretending there aren't real issues
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:51 AM
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I think it's deeper than modern dating even, it's a trend towards isolation driven by technology. People are online and using social media way too much. They're also inside playing games and watching endless TV streaming instead of going out and having real social interaction and cultivating quality experiences. Loneliness, depression, and anxiety are high across the board, so there is definitely a general dysfunction in society that runs deep right now
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:46 AM
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It's the stupidest comment I've ever seen. I don't know of any man who is happy with a lack of sex with their wife. It's a constant complaint and leads to tension with divorce being common, eventually. Some bear it for the sake of their children or because they think it can change with great effort, but that's another thing entirely Dude is delusional here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:57 AM
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Never said I did and I do know there is individual variance. I even have some friends I suspect are asexual. With that said, I know my experiences as a man, and I know other men who share my experiences. In my experience, they are the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:54 AM
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Yeah that's why so many people are in dead bedrooms and constantly bitching about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:29 AM
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No offense but I don't think you should speak for men as a woman. Even when I was having meaningless sex, my mental acuity was sharper, energy levels were higher, and I just felt an overall sense of contentment I didn't have when I was sexless. Yes, emotional connection is superior but for a man, any sex still helps a lot. It's still validation and helps stabilize you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:28 AM
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This shit is always gaslighting imo. We have known that sex and intimacy is important for psychological and social reasons for at least half a century, but you'll still have assholes telling people that it's 'not a need'. Does anyone think it's a coincidence that shooters and members of radical political and terrorist groups tend to be of the incel persuasion ? Obviously there are other social deficits present in these people, but it still bears repeating that a lack of intimacy and sex is a con…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:24 AM
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I mean, I'll be honest, both sexes are full of assholes. People suck, especially in America
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:35 PM
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Eh, I wouldn't go that far. Too many may fit into that but there are still decent women out there. Finding a good one isn't the easiest, however
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:56 PM
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Pretty much, the lack of empathy is astounding. You'd think they're talking about pedophiles or something
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:38 PM
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Blaming it on projection and imagination is just a petty attempt to deflect from the fact that you're strawmanning and arguing a different point altogether. I'm sorry, but most socially awkward people aren't the extreme and they still get along well enough with people in their lives. It doesn't help them but it doesn't make them into whatever you want to paint them as. Id argue the subset of people that are supreme weirdos is a small percentage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:57 PM
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Op didn't state the guys wee ugly outcasts/pariahs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:55 PM
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Agreed. I avoid fat women like the plague
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:39 PM
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For most, maybe a few sessions tbh. When I think back to those days, I swear it only took like 2-3 before I figured out my rhythm and stroke game. It's a natural thing and once you're getting more comfortable, you just kind of know what to do by instinct
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:39 PM
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Yep. Women are the masters of double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:35 PM
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Lol the original op doesn't say he has to be the literal hunchback of Notre Dame. It's you and the person you responded to that tried to paint his point into a corner with your bullshit strawmanning. It's not personal or projection, I just don't like disingenuous takes that try to change the original point to fit a narrative better
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:32 PM
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Nah not semantics. You're painting an extreme situation and extrapolating it on every inexperienced guy. The vast majority are perfectly fine and functional people outside of lacking in sex. I've known many guys like this and they maintain friendships, careers, and hobbies. They're just kind of awkward when it comes to relationships and sex due to a myriad of variables I'm sure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:48 PM
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Ok I think there is a spectrum between ugly outcast shunned by society to socially awkward, functional man who's not the most attractive. Tf, let's not resort to utter extremes here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:38 PM
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It's so funny though, because it doesn't take long to figure out how to fuck properly and what makes her go wild. If someone is everything else on paper, it's so beyond stupid to reject them on sex sucking for the first few times. We're talking about long term partnerships, even life, and women can't give a guy some time to get into a groove? Then they complain that their man turned out to be an abusive fuck. Hilarious. For all the guys who are inexperienced out there, there are women that allow…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:29 PM
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Too many variables to make a blanket statement, honestly. If you were fat and unkempt during your 20s and decide to groom better and lose the weight / get fit, you'll do better in your thirties. To say nothing of more disposable income in most cases
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:42 AM
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Date younger
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:53 PM
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He may be displaying wealth more effectively than you are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:22 AM
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Why? If dude is well put together and has financial stability, women in that age bracket are prone to select for that. At that age range, peoples looks are considerably diminished by age and othet factors. There isn't some fierce competition with chads lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:43 PM
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We really need more studies on the psychology of online dating /social media on woman's brains. There is no way that much choice hasn't led to some serious issues psychologically. We already know that it's affecting people's mental states and happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:38 PM
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Well then you need to address the fact that you insane in the membrane lol. Something is chasing them off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:36 PM
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That's because us millennials rrmber a time before smart phones and social media, so our brains aren't as fully melted as you poor zoomies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:35 PM
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I agree that he could meet people and obtain dates, BUT he's not wrong in how different it is today. I remember being in college 12 years ago, before smart phones took off, and it was totally normal and expected to just start convos everywhere. I'd get dates by talking to a girl on the bus on the way to class, or get dates in the fucking library. Nowadays ? Man I don't think it's so easy to pull that off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:34 PM
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That's another issue - your personality and other variables can shine irl, but the specter and temptation of online dating is still an issue. I've been obese and dated fine ass girls but eventually they wander due to the hotter guys who are in their dms and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:31 PM
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Im talking about more serious long-term considerations, like having a family. Men can still negotiate their lack of Attraction with other things they bring to the table in order to get married and have kids. Obviously, this won't be a perfect relationship but it allows men to further their genetic lineage, which is more important than love from bitches anyways lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:27 PM
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Kind of. Women still marry guys they aren't truly attracted to because they need children. Lots of women aren't rolling in dough either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:23 PM
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I don't think guys are wired evolutionarily yo give up. Many guys will never have a woman who truly lusts for them , where they have that fire so to speak. That doesn't mean that the guy can't get some pussy and more importantly, have children. The latter can make up for the former, somewhat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:21 PM
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This is just like NOT ALL MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:19 PM
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Lol people that say this have never experienced being average or God forbid, unattractive. Just because guys can overcome with massive amounts of charisma and status doesn't mean that their attractiveness, or lack thereof, has done them any favors
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:23 PM
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Yeah I agree but women don't tend to date men with lower incomes so it usually falls on the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:47 PM
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Well no shit. Men stand to lose a lot more in divorce than women do if their incomes aren't close. With that said, I know a lot of couples where the guy makes more than the woman. I don't see the reverse all that often
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:38 PM
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I kind of get what you mean with some folks, but surely you see how your perceptions and the value you place on education in a rather arbitrary sense contributes to that, yeah ? I have friends that make upwards of 100-150 k that sometimes feel inadequate due to not having an education and they feel a need to display their intellectual pursuits or to downplay education, but that's merely a response to social pressure. When people are judging you based on a piece of paper that doesn't say much abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:41 AM
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I still don't have an answer to why the educated portion is relevant then. Why would a basic bitch with a useless degree be preferable to a basic bitch without ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:31 AM
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Fair enough. Honestly, this just reminds me how divided we are by class and it's sad. While you could afford a good chunk of what you're talking about on a lower income, the whole benefits and time off thing is so bad if you're not in the upper middle class. Shits bogus, dehumanizing, and keeps people apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:31 AM
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What kinds of things ? Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:17 AM
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I'm talking about your preferences. What changes in someone when they get a four year degree. What qualities are inherently different?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:13 AM
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Rephrasing : would you rather take some basic bitch dude who got a poli sci degree and who never reads a book once he's finished or be with a guy who works a trade but is reads literary novels on the regular while researching political, social, and economic issues on the side? Who would be more interesting in reality? Plenty of dumbass frat bros that skate through college getting clap for credit degrees
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:10 AM
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Then wtf do you need a college degree for ? There are plenty of people that read the ivory tower bullshit all day without entering a college
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:05 AM
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The way you phrase that is so weird to me. So when your incomes combine, his budget and lifestyle wouldn't increase? Every guy that I know that makes more than their women has elevated their lifestyles. Will you enforce that he stays within that lower income lifestyle or will you combine incomes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:04 AM
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Well specify you meant a householder next time. Obviously that is going to skew higher than average income at a younger age. You also tried to shit on people that would tell you that Americans don't make that and they'd be right. Not everyone is as privileged as you are dumbass
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:00 AM
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You're out of your goddamn mind if you think half of all people in that age bracket make 90k a year. The median household income is ~78k and that includes two people lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:42 AM
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Trust fund baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:38 AM
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Lol having a college degree doesn't make you a thoughtful, empathetic, or interesting person. I don't understand this shit. Some of the most basic bitch people I know have degrees, while the most intelligent and thought don't. It all boils down to the individual
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:37 AM
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Lol is that all? I feel like you don't have enough retarded stipulations
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:34 AM
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So what if he was a passionate social worker making 50 k saving kids from literal rapists and abusers ? You couldn't carry more of the salary load ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:31 AM
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Teachers lol . Good one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:27 AM
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Yeah, it's really annoying it see someone judge others on education. Most degrees are a fucking joke. I have three distinct bachelor's and one minor (long story), and guess how much I can remember for each subject ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:24 AM
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Lol where do you live man? 90 k is a lot more than the average dude makes across the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:22 AM
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This is why not finding someone when you're both younger kind of sucks for men. Been thinking about this lately and it sucks to not truly know if someone is ride or die. If I could go back, I would have tried harder to find that girl who loved me when we were both poor. If a girl loved you when you surfed couches, she truly deserves your love and support after you gain status
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:20 AM
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That's fair. Most of these guys grew up eventually. It's often easier to break that cycle when you're wanted and people care about you, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:43 AM
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Nah man, I didn't miss a damn thing. I knew guys that had serious gaming issues but due to being attractive and not socially inept, they never struggled with getting laid and dating gfs. I'm talking dudrs who had girls put up with sitting on their bed watching them play games for years lol. Dudes that failed out of college due to halo but could still get laid every fri to sat night. I'm not saying they didn't suffer negative outcomes and that eventually it didn't ruin relationships, but attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:13 AM
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I don't buy the video games thing at all. I've never seen a correlation based on that. Attractive guys who don't have glaring mental / social issues that game constantly still get pussy and girlfriends. You're kind of right if we're looking at the subset of ugly and or fat nerds, but a lot of them are unattractive and/or have mental issues or autism, depression, personality disorders etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:30 AM
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Yeah maybe in the 1930s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:25 AM
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He's not entirely wrong though. Some guys do allow their woman to control them to unhealthy degrees. I've seen it quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:19 AM
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Lol dudes story is so fucking stupid. Dur the women aren't at the bars with the alcoholics therefore single women don't exist. What a clown
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:46 PM
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Kind of. Attractive women are usually the ones that can get away with murder and / or their positive traits amplified. This is more of a halo effect thing in general
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:23 AM
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The nightclub/bar/restaurant industry dude
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:13 AM
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Eh try again. I've known men in their 40s who aren't high class or big earners that have young girls into them. You see it a ton in the service industry
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:34 PM
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I have. I've fluctuated between obese and in shape and it's pretty true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:22 AM
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Lol if that's the case why are there always hotties camping squat racks and other equipment in basically the sexiest fitness outfits imaginable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:20 AM
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Not wrong, same goes for women. Country be fat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:16 AM
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It's more that they don't care. Nor do men for that matter. The truth is that as a man, you need to look out for yourself and realize that no one is going to bat for you unless you have something to offer, and even then it's largely transactional when you peel back the layers. This goes for anything in life so get used to it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:02 AM
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Kind of. I used to pull girls way above my league while being overweight or maybe even obese, but it was always an uneven endeavor ie hard to maintain long term and girls would stray or cheat. Sex happened but never felt as lustful as I wanted. Losing weight and styling better though? Suddenly I had to put in far less work and women were more likely to put in a lot more effort and feel dread, which led to them being more accommodating. Sex felt more lustful as well, with a visible eagerness in p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:18 AM
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Yeah even redpill back in the day highlighted how there are different 'chads' so to speak. Facial attractiveess and being at a normal weight are always huge, but you have to account for style and status, which differs between scenes. At the end of the day, you still see pretty guys mopping up though. Ugly guys in scenes rely on status and to some extent, personality. They're still prone to getting dogged on thigh. With that said, all things equal, being fit and decently muscular rarely will hurt…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:30 PM
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Hate to break it to ya but after college people move away, get married, and have kids. Couple that with jobs and other hobbies and you see them less and less. It's good to have those connections and networks, but they're not what they once were
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:02 PM
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Difference being that in the case of adoption, you're taking in parentless kids with a partner? So it's a mutual effort from the get go?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:46 PM
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What is noble about it, honestly? If anything it's just self sacrificial
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:20 PM
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What's difficult to grasp? If the man is single and childless, dating a single mother is worse in every way vs dating a woman who never had kids. A single mother is often fatter and has physical effects from having kids, kids that are not the mans. The kids are expensive to raise and support. The woman's focus will be on the kids 80 percent of the time so you're never really in an equal partnership. They're not yours so even if you pay for everything and raise them, they'll still get unruly and …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:19 PM
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Yes and no. If a man takes care of himself and has a good career, they are certainly going to attract girls. It's not going to replace the lustful 20 something flings they missed out on though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:32 PM
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Dungeons and dragons. Isn't that the acronym? Fuck if I know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:10 AM
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I wanna be your friend haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:23 AM
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Well that and because it sounds terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:01 AM
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I believe it because a lot of latins are very conservative and religious. Have a buddy who has a girl like that and while I think she's a little too much, there's no denying her utter loyalty and honesty. Hard to deny
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:59 AM
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Yeah this. Women are mostly extrapolating their experiences with a subset of men that can get away with being lazy, an asshole, and/or selfish because they're attractive. Whether that's due to status or looks, it doesn't matter. Lol like, average to below average guys can't do any of the above if they want a shot at any even halfway attractive pussy. That's the long and short of it. Average guys tend to work way harder than the alternative. What these women want are the unicorn chads but that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:45 AM
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I can't take women seriously when the majority of them are obese, they don't cook or clean, and they lack meaningful hobbies. Don't even get me started on their lack of conversational skills
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:26 AM
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Yeah this kind of makes sense though if his upbringing was conservative and or religious. I've seen this before. The guy either adapts to the ho nation or he meets a conservative girl who shares his viewpoints.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:15 PM
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Yeah I can think of two examples: The guy was king sperg. Still got laid a lot but could never maintain relationships for shit due to his obsession with magic the gathering, DND, and just generally being a sperglord in conversation. Many redditors would recognize this guy in themselves Guy got loads of attention from woman but had cripplingly high self esteem issues coupled with bipolar. He also had some weird ass hangups with sex in general, even though he was experienced from his past. Hed reg…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:13 PM
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The definitions do vary but I'd say any girl with a kill count in the 20s-100s before they're thirty is fucked in the head. I've never met a chick like this that was mentally sound, just saying. Even if they're pretty alright, they're very rarely marriage and kids, bring them home to mom material
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:57 AM
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I've personally never met a highly promiscuous woman that wasn't mentally fucked up to some extent or another. Meanwhile, the vast majority of girls that had low n counts and married early seem almost too stable ie boring to me. With that said, I know which one I'd rather be the mother of my children if I was inclined to have kids lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:56 AM
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I've lived in one of the most liberal college towns in the US and even there you'd see well adjusted, normal guys avoiding sluts for commitment. A lot of them would be turned off even for sex, if her rep was high enough. It's embarrassing, gross, and the mental issues are on full display. Only loser dudes would seriously defend these women and consider dating them. Just because something is unsaid doesn't mean it isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:55 AM
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I don't get how so many of you spend inordinate amounts of time on here but still don't know trp positions. With how much trp is concerned with game, frame, and a host of other behaviors, its ridiculous to say that it's only concerned with looks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:01 PM
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Good God that woman talking was cancer. Boys, no amount of good looks is worth dealing with that Also, your whole assertion that the reason men don't want to deal with hotties like this is due to being weak is laughable. I'm sorry but life is too short to date a girl like this. Have fun for a bit sure, but after that you get out. No level of attractiveness is worth dealing with this shit in pereptuity, but you'll figure that out as you get older
/r/TheRedPill12/08/23 08:02 PM
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That's always a risk you take unfortunately. Some people place an insane premium on sexual compatibility and if it's not 100 percent there on the first night, they fuck off. Women and men do this and it's fucking annoying. Expectations are way too high for sex early on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:50 AM
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It honestly bothers me when people write off sexual compatibility at the outset. So many variables and id argue the sex starts to actually get good within 3-5 sessions, give or take. It's only up from there
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:48 AM
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Men don't hate that if she's consistent about it. What men hate is it she gives it up easy to other guys but then they're the schmuck who has to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:44 AM
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Man you could have said that he made that statement under duress, knowing that upsetting her with the truth would be emotionally straining
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:37 AM
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I think another issue is how horny guys are in their teens and twenties. To not have much sex is really demoralizing and I'd argue it fucks up a young males psyche something fierce. Even worse when it's none at all, aka late bloomers. We've seen the statistics and know that since 2011 or so, more young men are not getting into relationships and having much sex. I honestly think this trend is to blame for radicalization and mass shooters - you always have these variables when doing a profile
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:56 AM
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No offense, but guys don't exactly advertise it, least of all to women lol. There are average guys having great sex lives for sure, I'm just saying that I've noticed it personally with guys I'm close enough with , hence our candid discussions
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:52 AM
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Lol what? Most of the friends in question either dont game anymore or game very infrequently. That is not the issue at all. Funnily enough, I know a Chad like dude that games heavy on all sorts of nerd shit ( seen him finish elden ring in a week) but he has always had no trouble getting frequent and quality sex from partners. Hes fit and attractive, imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:05 AM
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Most people don't talk about it but I have a disturbing number of close friends that express dissatisfaction in their sex lives. Lack of frequency, spontaneity, absence of favors (usually blowjobs), and of course, a feeling that the wife/gf isn't all that into them physically. Sometimes the guy is uglier than the woman, but not always, so I don't even think we can chalk it up to 'shooting out of their league'. Then you have the self deprecating jokes, which are an expression of thinly veiled rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:04 AM
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Oh please, as if women don't send out mixed signals and as if the messaging around what is and isn't approved isn't confusing and arbitrary
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:07 PM
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There is a lot more nuance to this and your desperate need to make it black and white means you're not open to discuss it in a productive manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:01 PM
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Look, I agree with you for the most part, but let's not pretend that the messaging around what is and isn't ok doesn't confuse many well meaning men. You definitely need to discard said messaging and go bold, but it certainly sets men up for failure at the outset
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:56 PM
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Agreed. Having an average income isn't going to be as harmful as having less chances at sex and companionship. If we were talking severe poverty, then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:47 AM
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I never said he was Chad incarnate, but he clearly is muscular and built, with heavily masculine features to offset any weirdness he exhibits. You're fucking lying if you say this would apply to some scrawny from, chubby average man, or just a plain old ugly person. Come on stop it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:05 PM
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Lol and who's subsidizing all your endeavors ? Get real, you're not shit without latching to a powerful man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:02 PM
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Well fucking your way into money is def a valid strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:34 PM
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Yeah but none of that would be as appealing if he wasn't an extremely fit and attractive dude lol. I don't think anyone is under any delusions as to what an already attractive guy can get away with / pull off
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:27 PM
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Well I wouldn't say I have no respect because there are women that aren't like that. I was merely stating that it's far more common than you'd like and it becomes impossible to discern who isn't like that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:53 AM
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Yeah but those divets and bumps vary in frequency and size depending on looks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:38 AM
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Oh please. Friendships are transactional and dependent on mutual benefit. You're basically trying to shame him for being self aware of friendship dynamics vs acting out of subconscious, which is more common. Even with people that lack the ability to critically examined their relationships, there comes a point where they realize it's one sided and let the other party go, fully knowing they the lack of reciprocity is the crux of the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:27 AM
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It's even more eye opening when you become the Chad, so to speak. I've dogged so many attractive women that were with guys far better than myself. It's actually colored my perception of women and given me trust issues
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:16 AM
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I disagree, especially with younger people. Many guys do run through lots of women and the women dote on them for long periods. I've seen dudes run through friend groups, coworkers, etc with no end in sight It's not that they're stashing away, it's that those women are stuck on them. This makes it hard for other men, because if dude gets bored one night and texts the girl, she will drop everything she's doing and hop on his dick. There's a time limit to these things of course, which ultimately v…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:13 AM
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You can't look at these things as conscious, self aware thoughts. This is powered by the sub conscious which is informed by thousands of years of evolution. Most people don't think too deeply about why they do what they do and biases are left unexamined
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:09 AM
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It's so fucking true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:05 AM
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Man young people have no idea how much better dating was before smart phones and the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:08 PM
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Yeah I feel that. If we're talking your twenties, then yeah, sure. But people just disappear with marriage and kids. You might see them occasionally but it's not very constant
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:11 PM
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Doesn't even make sense. Tons of feminist oriented seminars, books etc that relate to dating. There are a lot of other ideologies being monetized
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:23 AM
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Yeah there's a hilarious amount of beloved liberal icons that are hilariously hypocritical and or incompetent in matters they lecture on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:22 AM
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Kind of. It's more that as you age, things that get you hot and bothered aren't conducive to family and marriage. A lot of women don't marry guys that turn them on in the same way that their flings did, it's for stability when reality sinks in
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:08 PM
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Nothing really. However they shouldn't be lionized for being idiots, the cultural adulations can go
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:12 AM
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I mean, tell this to the men I know who are sexually frustrated and feel neglected by their wives after marriage. There isn't a monopoly on this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:13 PM
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Yeah I'm sure cases like this make up a percentage but I challenge the idea that it's a big percentage. There's a reason that lower income people tend to have these issues in spades
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:12 PM
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Oh come on, the frequency of this sort of thing is not high in well adjusted men. I could see at lower income levels, sure, but there isn't some epidemic of well off, well adjusted men abandoning their children. As for someone changing after marriage, that applies to everyone and it's an inherent risk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:11 PM
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Of course people reserve judgement lol. If you say anything, you'd be a social pariah, doesn't mean many aren't thinking it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:11 PM
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Maybe on this reddit but in real life? Lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:09 PM
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I mean, deadbeat dads are already criticized so not sure what your point is. The issue is that single moms are not held to similar standards of accountability. After all, they are the ones that choose a mate of low quality and subsequently choose to keep the child with said guys
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:08 PM
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Yeah lol, this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:54 PM
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I feel like most people that say this are either a. Wired differently than the average person or b. Very young. With the former, their perspective can be ignored unless you are a part of that niche, and with the latter, they haven't witnessed the attritional loss of friends over time to marriage and children. Once you're well into your thirties and single, it's not lonely because of a lack of partner persay, it's lonely because everyone else has other priorities and it's hard to hang out and ret…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:11 AM
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Unironically, this whole argument that women were chattel is really annoying. You could maybe argue at mercantile classes and higher, that there was inequality, but that was an insanely low percentage of the population and let's be honest : most people were fucked compared to mercantile and royalty. Might as well be aliens to the average peasant The funny thing is that most peasant households divided labor and it wasn't uncommon for women to assist with farm work, to say nothing of their childre…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:59 AM
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Not to mention that if you're posting a pretty pic, there isn't much to roast about because the person knows they're attractive. The roast was basically the only thing that could get under someones skin that looks like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:49 AM
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Man I just skimmed this and I want to say as someone that used to abuse stims in their past, it's not a good road to go on. Legal, illegal, it doesn't matter. That shit will fuck you up mentally and physically. Stop while yorue ahead
/r/TheRedPill29/05/23 10:03 PM
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There's a difference between suffering from mental disorders that distort reality entirely, and actually being ugly and coming to that conclusion from evidence borne from lived experience. I definitely think guys need to try harder to maximize strengths and it's not true that they have to die incels, but your post is kind of useless without knowing what you look like and the depths of your delusions from mental issues in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:00 PM
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Not always. I've found that fucking hotter girls isn't actually hard, it's more keeping them around long term lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:58 PM
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Yeah I know guys that are actually conventionally attractive enough to do pretty well irl who still have issues on tinder. They get some matches but the actual follow through rate is low and most of said matches are below their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:56 PM
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The problem is feminists shoot down the idea of egalitarianism and say feminism is sufficient. That's where the conflict srisee
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:54 PM
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This kind of topic feels kind of useless when we have no idea what you look like. For all we know, you had completely delusional thoughts about your above average looks, or you suffered from severe mental problems. Being ugly and thinking you're ugly are two different things. With that said, I agree that with proper grooming and fitness, most people are not too ugly to find a mate. I think the real disconnect is when guys are shooting above their league in looks and extrapolate that to everyone.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:51 PM
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The truth is that dating is not moral or fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:29 AM
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I guess my question is why does a man having insecurity automatically matter more than the other traits? Plenty of decent to awesome people with low self esteem. If most everything else is solid, does weighting that aspect on a premium make sense ?
/r/TheRedPill24/05/23 08:03 PM
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Other indicators of health. I never said working out and maintaining a normal weight isn't a good thing I should have specified looks in general, not muscles though
/r/TheRedPill24/05/23 07:11 PM
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Right , but that doesn't discard what im saying at all. The reason you have to fix it as a masculine figure is due to the same evolutionary pressures im talking about. It'd be a far better situation if women evolved to put a premium on intelligence and moral character over raw physicality and social skills, but that takes thousands upon thousands of years. We've far outpaced our previous evolution and were unfortunately enslaved to the primitive. I mean shit, look at all of the political issues …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/23 07:10 PM
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Ehhhh. I would argue that the sexual market place and evolutionary pressures that govern mating are hopelessly outdated when compared to where society is now and where it's heading. Unfortunately, it takes thousands of years for evolution to catch up with all things cultural,technological, and social. Big muscles, height, and badass social skills don't translate to the traits that society truly needs and values the most ie intelligence, high moral character etc. Think about all the nerdy scienti…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/23 02:11 AM
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Lol topic closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:39 AM
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Man they need to come out with a gay pill IMHO
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:42 AM
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Creeps exist and they suck but I'd rather take the creeps and have those effortless options than the reverse. With the amount of blocking and reporting options available on any app, it seems ridiculous to cry about it. If you're willing to meet with guys over and app and suck their dick, you should really have a thicker skin heh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:11 AM
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Oh yeah, you see it on both ends. A girl or guy can be an absolute saint but if he/she is ugly, it won't do as much good as an attractive pedosn putting forth less than 10 percent of that effort, if that. It's wild to see men and women caught up on attractive or high status people who offer very little in return
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:02 AM
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Quite the contrary, actually. Id say there are plenty of assholes with good looks but id argue that good looks contributes to a 'good' personality rather than ugly. For one, it's hard to be bitter when things go well for you, socially, sexually, and romantically. It's also easy to develop social skills when you're given all sorts of chances and awkward faux pas are excused. It's a positive feedback loop that leads to a terminal case of just world hypothesis, And this does lead to greater confide…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:01 AM
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I've never met a player that was seriously punished for this behavior. A player, by definition, fucks a lot. That always entails he has something going on, often it's looks but it can be status and game too, or a combination of the three. Women give these guys countless chances before they really call it quits and other women say one thing and do the other, which in this case is literally doing him lol. I just see this as free advertisment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:57 AM
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I mean if she's asking for big favors like that after the cat is out of the bag, it would feel pretty manipulative. She knows dude has feelings and she's basically banking on him continuing to do shit for her
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:34 AM
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I never said otherwise? I'm just saying that this is readily observant when there is a mismatch of attractiveness in many cases
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:10 PM
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A lot of guys I know wouldn't be with attractive women if they didn't have a higher income lol. Facts really
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:28 AM
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Funny, I thought a lot of Canadian cities pride themselves on being progressive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:46 PM
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Time to find a new city then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:45 PM
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Oh for sure, the fact that everyone is using this garbage makes it harder not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:31 PM
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Honestly , a lot of guys need to work in the bar/restaurant industry, especially if they're young. Even just one or two weekend days as a barback, security, or bartender. They'll be shocked at how much quality pussy will fall into their lap. Not all of the girls will be long term partner types, but they'll get experience
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:01 PM
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Oh for sure, hence why I said within. Toxic tech like dating apps and social media are also being used irresponsibly and making everyone develop mental issues and loneliness. It's all self inflicted though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:53 PM
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Super lit for chads haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:52 PM
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College is like the easiest place to date without money lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:51 PM
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I get that things aren't as good as boomer years, but life is objectively better across virtually every metric in history. I feel like a lot of the negativity stems from within
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:36 PM
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So because a very small percentage of men get violent, it's ok to pretend that the vast majority are like this? This is sexist as shit. It's like me saying 'befriending black people can be deadly and dangerous due to their demographic engaging in a disproportionate amount of violent crime's.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:56 PM
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Yeah and I'm sure she's perfect. Def better than all those men around her lmao unreal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:47 PM
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Lol this is so ridiculous. I'm sorry but if you're an at least moderately attractive women, your estimations of your self worth are grossly overinflated if you actually think that the thousands of men that you could potentially tap into are below you. We always tell men to lower their standards to match their own worth and the same should go for delusional women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:46 PM
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Sometimes. I've known and slept with a lot of women that fit your description and they were hypergamous as fuck and shat on countless guys that wanted to date them. You can be emotionally damaged and low self esteem but still find guys repulsive or non dating material.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:32 PM
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While I agree that these men are sabotaging themselves, you're kind of over simplifying things. Some people are wired to be more confident regardless of circumstances, but I'd argue that a lot of men, or people in general, have immense trouble with maintaining self esteem and confidence without a positive feedback loop. This gets even trickier when you factor in the impacts of poor upbringing or the fact that a large portion of society has mental issues of some sort. Every man would benefit from…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:34 PM
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Did they control for the financial status or looks of the males? I feel like this would be more complelling if they did
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:30 PM
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To be fair, confidence will definitely help a lot but I agree that looks and status are too often underplayed in these discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:29 PM
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Yeah I always wondered what the actual pass rate is for guys that even go to court in France. The fact that you have to spend money and time to go to court already has a built in chilling effect by design, but I definitely want to know the actual likelihood of being granted your request.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:06 AM
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This would be more convincing of an argument if we weren't already subsidizing a lot of bullshit for many demographics. We aren't exactly efficient about it. Let's face it, if an issue like this was affecting women, something of the same severity, wed fund it no question
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:05 AM
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Lol don't worry about being a cuck and failing in the one thing we're here for. Be a cuck, happily. Heard it here folks, case closed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:05 AM
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Dude I've been with at least 7 girls that were in committed relationship and or married. Many of them didn't seem like the type, and they all lied straight to his face, convincingly and guiltlessly. It got to the point that I was the only party that felt guilty and I have trust issues from just being a participant and seeing how easily lying comes to some women. It's disturbing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:03 AM
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Unreasonable but like other posters here, you're glossing over the fact that the op is advocating for a mandatory test at birth, applied evenly to every woman, not just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:02 AM
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They wouldn't, because even if it's around 5-10 percent of men that are cuckrd, that's a shit ton of extra state spending. This is the main reason that mandatory paternity testing will never, ever pass. It's in the states best interests to have cucked men paying vs the state shouldering extra burden
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:00 AM
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Lol if it's administered evenly among the battery of tests at birth, it wouldn't be unfair or singling out anyone. Use your head
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:57 AM
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Lol what the fuck? The larger point here is she knows it could be the guy or guys she's fucking on the side, and her main guy is obviously not privvy to that information. Its irrelevant whether or not she knows for certain it's a side dick or not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:50 AM
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Lol or we could just add it to the multitude of tests at birth and avoid this drama, successfully weeding out the hos that wanna fuck men over. Why are you against that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:49 AM
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Fair enough, but those things have a lot more support than mandatory paternity testing. The Democrats have a vested interest in catering to their minority and female bases, so that won't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:24 AM
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This topic comes up every so often and I always say the same thing : the state will never willingly paternity test at birth. The state would rather have you pay for a kid that isn't yours for 18 years than have to subsidize a single mother. It's all money because you're right in assuming it'd be a relatively cheap and easy test at birth I will add that a lot of women and feminists also support this for obvious reasons but the main push against it is due to cost over time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:01 AM
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While I agree, many people aren't built that way. They put way too much of their self worth into relationships. If you want a family by a certain time, you're also constrained by that as well Oh and in your 20s it's not fun to be longing for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:36 PM
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This is definitely true. Even when I finally managed to have a rotation of hot girls within a small time period, it was mentally draining and felt like a waste of time. Sex is great but putting up with attractive girls bullshit is not lol. About a million other things I'd rather be doing. I finally understood into my early thirties why guys often settle down with girls that aren't super attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:34 PM
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What do you mean by advanced age? I feel like when you say advanced age, you mean over the 50?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:32 PM
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Lol no. That's why you see decent guys putting up with absolutely shitty women, doubly so if they're attractive. Even if a guy is attractive and has some status, he still might not reject her due to the amount of effort meeting new girls entails or he doesnt like the hooking up game. Shits annoying even when it's easier when you're working full time, have hobbies and friends, and getting older. Who the fuck wants to deal with that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:29 PM
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Man I've dated girls that had the most red flags in the world. I'd even be in my car asking myself why I'm doing this as I drove to pick em up. Answer: hot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:00 AM
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You're reading into it too deeply. It's just a short way to say number of sexual partners..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:16 PM
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Disagree. Most guys want a girl that isn't a religious virgin. They just don't want a girl who's a mega slut
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:15 AM
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The problem with your scenario is that it's rarely a one off. I don't think that most people would care if she made a mistake and learned from it. It's the fact that we see these girls make the same mistakes, over and over again, and then we're expected to be there later on without any of the adventurous stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:19 AM
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It's not as if they just turn off in a marriage lol. You're still gonna lust after her and other girls
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:16 AM
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I think it's disingenuous to frame it as if the only choices are girls with obscenely high counts with tons of partners or a virginal, religious late bloomer. How about a guy wants a girl with some experience, but not to a reckless extent? I don't think people care if you primarily slept with people in relationships and maybe had a little bit of fun, it's more the fact that modern women have kill counts of 25+ lol Also I've seen a lot of girls settle with guys who were polar opposites later in l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:14 AM
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Lol yeah wtf? Women are the best at hot and cold behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:45 AM
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That's great but I've had tons of casual sex and it never left that category into relationship. It's possible you're selecting for a certain type of woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:40 AM
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And it's not as if the vast majority of these women stop being attracted to the guys they fucked for a decade or more prior lol. They just get older and shrewder, realizing that most of those guys weren't stable for a long term commitment. Marrying a stable, successful nice guy who will be a good father and financially support her forever is more desirable after a certain point, even if the spark isn't there sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:34 AM
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I think I addressed this elsewhere, but I often find that these girls aren't wild anymore after settling with a stable nice guy. I know of many guys that fit this bill and most actively complain about a lack of sex or certain sexual acts, or they joke in a thinly veiled manner about their lack of sex life that betrays insecurity and discontent. I even know a guy who fits this bill that says they schedule sex weeks in advance lmao...how romantic All of the girls in question were wild, adventurous…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:27 AM
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It's true. I've known strippers personally who have made good money for years, and yet they somehow squander fucking all of it. Its absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:45 AM
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Why is this always a thing brought up by women, all the time? Seriously, most people are proficient at sex and even if it's clumsy and awkward at first, it usually falls into place in a short while as you grow accustomed and comfortable with the partner. This is all assuming you're attracted to him But seriously, the only people I see obsessing over sex like this are women, and they often reject guys on this basis before actually giving him a chance to grow into his own and get comfortable . Be …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:41 AM
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I guarantee you if you flipped the script here and talked about a male prostitute, many women would be equally repulsed. Or even a guy that used prositutes or at least only fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:33 AM
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Much like employers who are offering shitty jobs for high qualifications , maybe a lot of women are just not paying well enough, or lack in benefits. Maybe the company culture is toxic !
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:00 AM
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I don't think aa woman should be telling men how it is or feels tbh, especially if we're talking about something from the perspective of a man. There are a lot of guys that really struggle hard and it goes past attitudes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:59 AM
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In theory I agree, but society judges men extremely harshly for not being partnered up. It doesn't even matter if the guy is regularly slaying, he's still judged past a certain point. You can't win
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:11 PM
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Oh for sure. Sorry, for some reason I thought you meant something else lol, but i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:54 AM
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I just don't fully understand your comment. You mean picture that they're in with other couples?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:34 AM
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Which is hilarious because married men and women cheat al the time lol. It's rarely the single friend you have to worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:19 AM
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Elaborate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:18 AM
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True, I can't argue with that actually. But I was kind of having tunnel vision and thinking about close friends, and usually shaming comes from the wife and the man becomes her mouth piece
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:44 AM
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I agree and honestly find the bias to be stupid, but I can't say she's wrong. People can't handle single people and it's in group/out group bullshit. Many of them actively find it threatening, as if a singular person breaking their miserable script is an affront to all that is decent and good. It's even worse if he's a single and successful bachelor with new womeni on his arm every so often. Other men's wives are brutal about it and most men are fucking cuvks so they nod their heads and agree. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:14 AM
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If anything, being an angry misogynist on old trp got you downvoted to hell and called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:02 AM
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Especially in a club lol. Girls love shooting down average dudes there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 09:40 AM
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Who said not working ? I thought the argument was that they work but don't strive to work hard or get further education aka ambitious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:04 AM
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Gtfo man, I know of people that have guns and go to the range who make maybe 40 k a year wtf. Hunting and guns isn't that expensive, especially if you're living more rurally which many of my friends are. The only thing that makes sense in your argument is a boat, but that's not super common or required for say fishing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:01 AM
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Lol what income do you think you need to afford fucking gaming? Unless you're in a stupid high col area, you can often comfortably on 35-65 k depending on your interests. I'm assuming you're from a high rent area
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:59 AM
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Funny you mention gaming because it's really not that expensive really. Depends on the frequency and type of purchases but 250-500 for a system, roughly 15-20 for subscription services, and massive sales all the time reducing game prices to 25-40 percent of their MSRP makes it really cheap for what you get out of it. I struggle to think of many hobbies that cost less than that tbh. Even athletics get costly when it comes to gear
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:57 AM
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I've honestly rarely met women that can truly empathize with men lol. Even when they are well meaning, they just can't seem to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:34 PM
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The only guys that get away with that are the guys women want lol. It's hilarious that they project this on the average guy Truth is they're ignoring the average or below average guys and these are quite literally the only guys they see
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:33 PM
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Ah I see. Yeah that's a bad position to be in because men will often put up with some serious bullshit once they get some pussy. I've been there for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:57 AM
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Mileage may vary. I just don't have the time or care for sex if it comes with massive strings attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:46 AM
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And substitute is probably the wrong way of looking at it. I'm at a point in my life where my horniness isn't even a fraction of what it was in my twenties, and my time is at a premium. Unless a girl is actually interesting / not annoying, I'm just not putting out the effort to hang with her. I'd rather wack it and play video games on a Friday night after a week of work. Obviously , when I meet a girl that is cool I see where it goes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:45 AM
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I'm saying when my options are annoying ass girls that will waste hours of my time for a bit of sex, I often find myself just beating off if the urge arises. It's hell to waste my limited time on women who Are a pill to be with, I don't care how attractive they are. Getting into early thirties makes you really not give a fuck half as much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:42 AM
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Ya but I'm just saying after sleeping with them a few times, I get bored fast and actually start to feel contempt if they're boring, annoying, or have some other unsavory traits I cannot stand. It's not worth it a lot of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:40 AM
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They attractive but spending time with them makes me ntk want to fuck em
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:55 AM
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Eh. I've def chosen porn, video games, or insert whatever interest here over girls, even hot ones. A lot of women are fucking annoying and boner kills. It's fun for a bit but I've often asked myself ' what am I doing, I can't even stand ger' while driving to meet with them lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:10 AM
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Women broke free of their previous gender roles but they're happy to keep men chained to theirs lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:46 PM
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Honestly, if he has the money then whatever. Sounds aight to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:10 AM
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Cheating can really fuck up a dude, especially if he's all the things you say he is. That's a mindfuvk that can really wreck a person ime
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:56 AM
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I honestly believe that if your options suck, being single carries more dignity than settling. The things I see poor schmucks put up with just blows my mind, friends and family included. I disagree with celibate though. If you're gonna be a bachelor, use that to your advantage and fuck women imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:54 AM
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Ok well then be clearer with words and admit what you guys are : porn addicts. Completely abstaining from masturbation is downright silly for the vast majority of the population and by advocating it you're just trying to pretend you don't all have serious, depraved addiction problems by extrapolating it to everyone. It shouldn't be called no FAP, it should be called porn addictions anon
/r/TheRedPill19/02/23 04:32 AM
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Dude for real. There is no evidence that jerking off within reason is bad for you or depletes mana or energy forces or whatever stupid fucking bs idiots on here believe. Lol it's actually healthy to masturbate in moderation Any perceived benefits are pseudo science at best and most likely placebo. If it works for them I guess have at it, but my god is it stupid
/r/TheRedPill18/02/23 06:17 AM
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Man unless you're jacking off like four times a day, this is so overstated. I've jacked off before fucking women that night. It doesn't deplete anything, especially in your twenties and early to mid thirties. I have no idea why there is this insane obsession for no FAP here and elsewhere on this site
/r/TheRedPill18/02/23 06:14 AM
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Lol. No woman? I've never met a guy who has community dick that is in anything but high demand. Cmon
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:13 AM
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Lol right ? Can't imagine someone admitting this to anyone. There's a reason the whole affair is discreet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:21 PM
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It's true in so far as you'll get a chance to fuck women you could never swing in tinder. I should know because I've done it. However, if you're over weight or broke or whatever, you're still competing against those guys and she will lose interest and or not treat you as well as youd like over time. This I also know
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:55 PM
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I never said they don't have those friends, I'm saying they want and treat attractive / high status friends better. Those guys often complain because their friendship is one sided and non reciprocal ie they're useful idiots for her but she doesn't truly value them and will drop them like it's hot when they're inconvenient. It's a fucked situation for guys in that position because they don't get oussy or a real friendship out of the mix
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:53 PM
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It's not like I go into it with that intent ya goof. It just happens because it's how it is. You spend an inordinate time with someone of the opposite sex and these things happen. I'm not talking about people I see every so often or group friends, I'm talking about when I've tried to treat a girl as one of my best friends. They often initiate it for gods sake
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:51 PM
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Not even that attractive really. It's just the natural order. I agree in that I've slept with most female friends in my time as well, or the optim was there numerous times and I decided to reject it. Can't say that about guy friends !
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:48 PM
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Both sexes do this. Women are way more likely to want a guy as a friend if he's attractive. They usually treat him better if he's attractive as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:46 PM
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Yeah it's a common thread when I see women defend infidelity. Like Jesus Christ, find other outlets to relieve stress instead of fucking other guys while your husband is on his deathbed, or whatever other crazy scenario has been presented here. I'll go one further and state that if you can't engage in any real self sacrifice with a partner, you should fuck off and not get married. Hamsters man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:00 PM
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It's also kind of insulting to most guys who have gone long stretches of time without sex to frame it as if you cannot make months at a time without sex. How weak can you be lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:09 PM
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So true. I'd even sum it up with a simple statement for guys : if you ever have to ask yourself, 'is she into me ?', then she's not. No girl will make it so ambiguous. If she likes you, she's putting out effort and showing her desire. She's parading you on socials and inviting you out with her friends. She's texting you a decent amount and making plans. She's making it clear with body language and sex. Seriously, think about your female family members and friends when they date a guy they're int…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:00 AM
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Usually what I see is they just end up being cornered / attacked. They'll go on dates and act slow as fuck with escalation and the girls will jump their bones lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:52 PM
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Oh for sure lol. I've even noticed this when I'm fit vs fatter. When fit, the girls have more energy and are more visibly dtf. They also don't ask as many in depth questions involving career or what have you. When i was 60-70 lbs heavier, it was all interview shit. Little to no hope of sex that night from the outset was the vibe. Much lower energy. Fucking awful imo I will add I've never dated girls that wertenrt at least above average attractiveness though, so I'm sure in the latter category, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:51 PM
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I'm not married but I'll give you a rundown based on the guys I know who are definitely beta bux or settled for : The biggest is a lack of sex. Sex that is scheduled in advance (yes I know a couple like this LOL), denial of spicier sex acts the husband wants ie as basic as blow jobs to anal to ???, And just a general frustration in not getting enough sex period. She has a kid from another guy who is a polar opposite of you. Enough said. Used to be promiscuous / 'party girl'. I've found a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:46 PM
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Lol agreed. I used to work in service industry and so many women fucked guys 20 or more years their senior. Not even lying, I can name personally like five people that did that while I worked there. Not one of them over the age of 24 and none of the guys were under 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:38 PM
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Like all things, it depends on the girl and what stage of life she's in, but I agree. Attractive guys can lay it on pretty thick and aggressively and still get laid that night. There Are lines that can be crossed but it varies
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:36 PM
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Also doesn't help that they contradict what they say and do. In one breath, they tell certain guys to be respectful and this or that, and then they proceed to respond positively to all sorts of crazy bs with other guys who happen to be attractive. Like no shit the ugly guys will emulate what they see working with other guys. It's only after experience that they realize that attraction is what determines the grade of behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:32 PM
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To be fair, you can still be a nice guy if you're hot lol. I've seen attractive guys employ both strats with success. It's a big part of the disconnect when genuinely nice, good looking guys spout that advice. It does work for them, but not for reasons they think (or entirely due to(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:30 PM
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Cool story but I know guys that maybe spend three hours a week in the gym and game a ton. Two of them even watch anime. They all have girls into them constantly and must have kill counts near 100 by now. You def don't need to be some gym freak wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:56 AM
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Sometimes sure. But you never acted on that and I'd bet that many would be down if you did. This is barring obvious social barriers that would make it too risky / undesirable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:06 AM
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Lol I've lived this. Never been a looker but I'm enough of a human to convince girls to fuck me. Every time this happens, all of a sudden other girls want me bad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:05 AM
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It's just an excuse really. Sex isn't exactly rocket science and while the first handful of times might be rocky, I'm pretty damn sure most of the population would be proficient in a short time frame The real reason is that it's not unattractive. A man who is undesirable to other women usually means he's unattractive or has some extremely bad behavioral issues Religious exceptions exist of course
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:03 AM
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I agree that as you get older with a career and such, you become more attractive. The issue is this is a practical arrangement, with the woman not really attracted to the guy physically. Ive lost count of the number of guys that fit your description that lament their lack of sex life, favors, intamacy or whatever with their much better looking wife. From where I'm standing, it seems these guys skip the whole fun phase of dating in their teens and twenties, where responsibilities are lower and re…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:30 AM
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So you broke up with him due to social pressure or ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:25 AM
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Yeah and if you get to know these guys well where they open up to you, many will talk about the lack of sex , lack of favors etc. It's clear that they aren't getting their needs met to their satisfaction which really sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:24 AM
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Well yeah, but that would qualify as an extreme case. No one said they being attractive will always work out if you're a sperg
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:31 AM
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Not always true but it's a chicken and egg situation. I think my issue with the whole 'have confidence, don't be insecure !' crowd is that on paper, it makes sense and will help their sex / dating life. However, if you've gone through most of your life fat and/or unattractive, you haven't had positive reinforcement, which creates a feedback loop that is pretty hard to break out of, even if you have become more attractive over time due to certain variables. Some people are able to rise above all …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:12 PM
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Man it's really wild tbh. I'd say over half the guys I know ended up being what trp calls betabucks and they're always complaining about not getting BJ's, sex is too infrequent etc. Shit is real lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:54 PM
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How does a social scientist understand how poverty works if they're wealthy ,? Or how drug addiction and it's effects work if they don't do drugs ? Stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:06 AM
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I don't love this dismissal tbh. Imagine if we held these standards to scientists or sociologists lol? Oh because you aren't active in a certain community, you cannot understand evolutionary biology and it's effects on mating strategy. Or if you aren't a drug addict involved in such circles, your research is meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:05 AM
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Yeah the real issue is that most of the guys in question has red flags from the start but they were attractive and / or confident/charismatic. When you discuss this, you're often met with a defense that implies that many of the guys are supremely good at deception and it isn't til much much later that cracks begin to show. While this happens, it's not extremely common. Women overlook red flags most of the time for reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:30 AM
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Yeah but this has been countered so many times that it's entering ad nauseum territory. Even the infamous awalt was never intended to explain every individual behavior. It's just a generalization and highlights that relying on exceptions is dumb because they truly prove the general rule. Some guys will luck out and find that attractive unicorn but banking on it leads to undesirable outcomes and misery for many.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:43 PM
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Yeah I agree wholeheartedly. Another issue is that there are a host of variables we cannot discern over anonymous social media. For instance, we don't know how attractive the person is giving the advice. We also don't know if person giving the advice just settled like whoa and is with or gets with very unattractive people - standards and the subsequent difficulty of attaining them differ widely. A guy giving advice on how to get women that is with a fat and or ugly chick is not really one to hee…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:38 PM
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Lol ok, tell that to every attractive guy I've known or know that get a bad rep and end up sleeping with almost everyone they want. I'll admit that some girls might not fall for it but so many do that your statement is asinine. Attractive guys / in demand guys never have issues, reputation be damned
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:52 AM
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Let's be honest : most of the girls in that group would likely fuck the dudes in question lol. When's the last time you saw an attracrive and or wealthy dude have issues due to a bad rep
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:39 AM
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How is it a good concept? These women could embellish and make shit up. Or their viewpoints could be unbelievably warped due to a myriad of factors like mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:38 AM
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Now that's be a dope list
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:36 AM
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Sure, but if said guy has run through ten women , it's almost certain that naming and shaming won't even matter. In fact, it might help his chances even more. I've seen it a thousand times, where girls talk shit and said attractive guy still rails her friends and acquaintances. Women don't put any money where there mouth is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:34 AM
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And that's why being fit and controlling for every physical aspect is so important. Might not fix everything, but if you can make a woman physically attracted to you, the sky's the limit honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:47 AM
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I mean, data points to it being true but asking for anything more than theory is a bit much. We're not talking about the physical sciences here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:39 AM
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Lol why would they even admit to that ? Makes them sound like utter losers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:28 PM
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The only time I've had good advice from a woman was when this girl was straight up spitting red pill esque stuff lol. Besides her, it's usually just candy assed, feel good nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:00 PM
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Only on Reddit will be engage in semantics and take a borderline autistic stance on how rigid a need has to be. It's like they can't separate needs that kill you in an acute manner from needs that lead to diminished quality of life and physical problems down the line Maybe we should separate needs into two categories. One for needs that will kill you with deprivation and one for psychological ones lol. They can't grasp it the other way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:10 AM
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Where is this ever stated? Incel forums? There is always one of you in every topic yet I have yet to see anyone state that women should be forced into sex slavery to satiate the needs of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:07 AM
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Yeah the people that die on the hill of 'sex is not a need' wig me out lol. Psychological needs are valid and problems stemming from a deprivation of intimacy, love, and sex are damning. These problems also extend into the physical when you consider shortened life spans, a rise in depression which leads to suicidal ideation and even attempts, to say nothing of neglecting other aspects of your life that affect the physical, and a general increase in rates of stress which leads to an increased lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:56 AM
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Only true when a guy isn't accustomed to regular attention tbh. I'll agree that your average dude will put up with massive amounts of bullshit before cutting off a girl for sex, but I've def had friend who had no qualms getting rid of women, especially if they exhibited problematic behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:32 AM
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Lol I dunno if I'd say he played gangster later in life. He saw prison time, got shot at on multiple occasions, and was heavily affiliated with gangs
/r/TheRedPill24/11/22 01:04 AM
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Ok while I agree with many people, your sampling method is skewed. There are a lot of people that don't frequent bars and clubs, so you're self selecting here
/r/TheRedPill24/11/22 01:01 AM
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Not even bartend, just work in service. Whether it's a bouncer or waiter, doesn't matter
/r/TheRedPill24/11/22 01:00 AM
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If a girl takes good care of herself and she has at least decent genetics, she'll still be able to lock down guys better than her though
/r/TheRedPill24/11/22 12:51 AM
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It's not even sexless, it's just full of unsatisfying encounters and girls that treat you like shit in relationships. In some ways, that can be worse haha
/r/TheRedPill24/11/22 12:50 AM
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He's kind of right though. Like sure you can, but it's a lot easier to spout this shit if the guy you're with is an objectively attractive male that hits all the metrics governing attraction with flying colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:07 PM
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I sort of agree but that kind of thinking leads to friend zone and disappointment lol. It works for some better than others though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:02 PM
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Well I wouldn't go that far. Depression and sex aren't mutually exclusive, but a lack of sex is enough to cause mental issues
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:04 AM
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Lol you think the guys sending money to only fans are the guys women are going after and or have options? Overlap is very small there lol Also, I've been with hotter, more exciting women, and it gets old over time. Speak for your own shallow self. At this point in my life, I'm not looking for insane beauty standards but rather personality and attitude. Some attraction needs to be present but it's not even close to the best I've gotten
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:11 AM
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Yeah the guys in question getting the lions share of nudes on these apps are a small percentage lol. Let's be real If you translate what she's saying , 'the hot guys that are in demand and have countless women throwing themselves at them at apps will lose interest'. Vast majority of normal dudes I know don't get nudes that often
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:09 AM
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To be fair, she's a tatted up only fans sex worker lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:00 PM
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You say you were a bad dude but that sounds like my experience with a lot of women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:55 PM
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Yeah and it's not even like there is no chemistry but the lack of sex or sex acts is pretty damning lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:27 PM
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Yeah pretty much lol. Usually when I see big mis matches in attraction, the guy has some CLEAR strengths in status and/or income. And I often hear the girl doesn't blow or have sex enough etc etc. Im sure there are some exceptions but whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:55 AM
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Which is fine for the sick and babies, but grown men? Not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:38 PM
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So many female therapists are USELESS for men. When I used to be having troubles, I had to basically discard every female therapist I consulted because they just didn't understand male problems nor did they understand how to talk and prescribe treatments that work. It's all mindless talking and the prescription of methods that primarily help women. The exception was one hard as nails older female therapist I had, but she was from another gen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:37 PM
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Its silly because the lack of sex and intimacy is what drives many men mad in the first place. Most mental health professionals would agree lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:36 PM
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I really hate this line of argument I see so often. It is a fucking mental health concern and no one is saying we enslave women to fuck men, but something should be done, even if it's just open communication and less shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:35 PM
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Lmao dude, a lot of the men I know cook better than their gfs and wives and definitely have more working knowledge on all of that shit you mentioned. Also big lol at emotional men being attractive wow. I'm sorry but the modern woman let's the pussy drive the entire ship on average. No skills brought to the table and too independent to do chores
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:57 AM
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You're an idiot. No argument so you resort to name calling. Not an incel btw you clown
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:30 PM
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Then explain the studies that point to a general reduction in life span with unmarried men? Or increased rates of heart problems in single men? Or the fact that most psychiatrists /people in psychiatry will say that sex and intimacy are important in order to maintain a healthy mindset. And again, you're just putting more words in my mouth. I never said loneliness is merely confined to relationships. I'm saying that the outcomes for those unsuccessful in romantic/ sexual endeavors are poor ie sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:02 AM
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Where is the evidence that a sexless life isn't highly detrimental to physical and mental health? I have seen mostly evidence to the contrary. And in no way did I ever say that mental illness is due to this and this alone - of course people in all circumstances and situations suffer from it, but I think it'd be wrong to deny that lonely people don't suffer immensely. Lol c'mon man, loneliness is a killer and the data supports it. I just dont like the constant undermining and minimization of this…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:42 AM
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Explain. This is heavily documented across research and it's pretty much agreed upon that a lack of those things is a damning prospect. I feel you're trying to make it sound like mental illness precedes those outcomes but that seems unfair when you look at studies and their controls
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:24 PM
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Oh come on man, you know what im talking about. It's a common republican line if someone has the audacity to allocate any funding to said items for qol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:23 PM
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I'm not entirely against every point you make, but you aren't doing yourself favors when you undermine the impact that a lack of sex/intimacy has on physical and mental health. U also sound like one of those republicans that say 'lol why do you have luxury items when you're poor!'. Comparing sex, and access to it, is certainly not a 1:1 with poverty, but you're kind of being reductionist here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:11 PM
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Yeah it kind of reminds me of the 'why do you own luxury items if you're poor!' people. I can agree sex isn't something that can or should be guaranteed, but I'm never comfortable with how much people downplay it given the research on the matter. The fact remains that without intimacy and or sex, people lead shorter lives and often develope severe mental issues which impact qol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:09 PM
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Yeah it sucks but it's real and actionable advice. Men have to find alternative avenues for that sort of thing and it will usually be family, psychiatry, and close friends. Just how it is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:14 PM
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Fair enough. You're right that hypothetically men could seize power from women at any time. Men are stronger and will always dominate the police and military forces, alongside infrastructure and hard labor. In theory, women could choose to enter these fields more, but we know that isn't going to happen anytime soon. Thankfully, men have decided to evolve though and tend to care about more abstract ideals of community and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:29 AM
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I agree that men are weak but it's an evolutionary problem. I highly disagree that women don't have more power now with all the protections and rights. You can't even say the word slut now without condemnation lol. I'm not saying that's a bad thing persay, but I'm merely highlighting how liberated women are and how much power they do have. If men step out of line, then the state gets involved and ironically men are the one to check other men. Again, not a bad thing, society should progress. Your…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:40 PM
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Sometimes feelings develop. A lot of men are also under the impression that being friends first leads to relationships. A lot of times it does! Most of the girls I fucked and or dated started as friends and/or coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:20 AM
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Then why place it with the other more objectively bad things. It's a pretty odd thing to include
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:40 AM
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Not to mention that the reason for arranged marriages and planned pairings was due to necessity. There were no cushy clerical jobs for most people, let alone women. For the vast majority of human history, you worked the land/mines/ fought in wars and women assisted in the running of the household and , contrary to feminist garbage, helped in farm work and other occupations the men had to do. You can make an argument for the mercantile and political classes, but those were such a small percentage…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:39 AM
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You're not saying anything lol. You're spinning wheels here. It doesn't change the fact you're engaging in logical fallacy that's been known since the Greeks and likely before them. Maybe the vast majority of people are hypocrites, but what of it ? At any rate, if any heros as you call them exist, it's going to be women that act as agents of change, not men. This however will never happen. Heroic men change things in society regardless of sex or station. Women will never concede power or balance…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:04 AM
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I mean, guys don't owe you a friendship lol. If that's not what a man is looking for, that's just not what he's looking for. Taking the personality is bs. Furthermore, women do this ish as well. When I'm fat girls don't give a shit about being a friend but once I drop weight again, all of a sudden they all want to be friends and hit me up regular
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:39 AM
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To be fair, no one forced him to do the damn shower music video lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:34 AM
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I guess lol. Men are still legally obligated, with the real threat of jail time, to support any mistakes. Furthermore, men are just as susceptible to stis. As for violent men, sure, that's a problem. But women can be violent and damage men in other ways too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:41 AM
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Man it's really not that hard even lol. I was like 235 lbs and dogging woman in my early thirties as a bouncer / barback. Iirc, the ages were 24, 21, 26, and 25. At least I can remember four of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:43 AM
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It's not mainstream but many act in accordance with it whether they realize it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:40 AM
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It's verboten to say in most circles and definitely not accepted in the mainstream. Most men have a natural aversion to wifing a promiscuous woman but you cannot say it really
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:39 AM
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So true lol. Men are beholden to standards
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:38 AM
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The average may be that low but it's not that rare to see mismatched couples lol. I see it all the time. You're sample size doesn't discount that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:36 AM
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That gift also leads to natural confidence and social competence. I know many will tell guys that it's a numbers game, or that you gotta grind til you find her etc., But let's be honest : it's hard to remain positive and even confident depending on your odds. This leads to social dysfunction and mental issues that self perpetuate themselves over time. No way around it really ,atractive people are easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:57 AM
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20 girls in three years is pretty damn good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:34 AM
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Lol yeah wtf ? 500 pound flat in fucking London? Top five percent of earners ? Over 6 foot? 23 partners in less than three years? Lol wtf Edit: NVM I see what he's saying. I agree actually. The thing is, guys that are average or god forbid, below average, rarely if ever experience that kind of lust and instant attraction. I'm more or less in a similar boat and have chad friends that get so much attention due to a good face and a smile. Hard to argue against it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:33 AM
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Yeah I don't read trp anymore, but I never shelled out money to anyone lol. I always disliked that idiot gay lube oil because he was an utter poser trying to charge guys for his services. Like have you seen and heard that guy talk? Total idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:35 AM
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Couldn't disagree more. If someone acts in the way described, they certainly are not following red pill correctly. The truth is that bloops are the ones that get swindled ; it's insane to see how much effort, time , and resources guys will spend on girls without even getting pussy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:33 AM
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