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| – | I noticed that many people are performative progressivesMen assume I’m straight and hit on me. You’re mad because men want to have sex with you, women don’t, and all this is political? 🤪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?And men can get sex without getting married and social validation without having kids now, too. I don’t think it’s as simple as women don’t want marriage, people in general don’t feel pressure to marry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 09:51 AM |
| 1 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceYeah….think of a completely neurotic guy like George Costanza from Seinfeld. Very obsessed with external judgement, and will scheme to protect his ego. The only difference is George was fundamentally lazy, my ex definitely wasn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 12:01 AM |
| 1 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceIn Yiddish a Schlemiel, a bumbling loser, but one who causes his own bad luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Do abusive men have good personalities?It’s also the type of humor. A gentle,witty or slightly self deprecating sense of humor that puts people at ease is very different than what Lewis Black does, even though Lewis Black seems like a sweetheart off stage. Humor that’stoo dark and edgy can work against you romantically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 11:54 AM |
| – | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescencePart of him being neurotic was a fixation on his image to others, a very unstable ego and self image, which meant he would only accept the highest level of success in all things. His inability to have a healthy self image ended up to be his downfall. He wasn’t going to be caught dead marrying his first girlfriend (me, but he didn’t really spell that out for a few years), wasn’t going to be caught dead in public with anyone deemed insufficiently attractive, wasn’t going to look like either he set… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 11:38 AM |
| 10 | Do abusive men have good personalities?The Gilgo Beach serial killer was ugly as fuck, but his wife, daughter and female colleagues all thought he was a great guy. Sociopaths know how to hide their anger and hatred. There is initially some halo effect where more attractive people get a pass as well. That said, if you DON’T have the social skills to hide your anger, bitterness, and disagreeable attitude, yes..you will absolutely turn off women. And “humor” won’t save you. Humor can be endearing and extremely attractive if it’s the rig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionSpeaking of vulnerable, high risk efforts,….. relationships, dating and romance will never be equal until men get the opportunity to push bowling ball sized humans out of ping pong ball sized orifices. All other gender roles can between couples can be negotiated except for that one. Until then, it’s up to the male to convince the female it’s worth the risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 09:43 AM |
| 17 | Do abusive men have good personalities?If this guy is as bitter, demeaning and confrontational irl as he is in this thread, I might be nervous to be around him too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 03:45 AM |
| 30 | Do abusive men have good personalities?You haven’t said a single clever, funny or entertaining thing yet. You seem like you might actually a bit of an asshole and lack sufficient charisma and social skills to mask an inherently displeasing and disagreeable personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 03:23 AM |
| 22 | Do abusive men have good personalities?I think op might not be a good person after all. As in not only is he lacking in social skills and charisma, he might be a bit of an asshole too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 03:17 AM |
| 7 | Do abusive men have good personalities?You are thinking “bad” as in morally bad and “good” personalities as morally good. The longer you know people, the more your opinion on their personality aligns with and is influenced by their morals. But when you first meet people, what people generally think of when you say personality is having social skills. People with “good personalities “ are often not good people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 02:44 AM |
| – | Women don't really view men as human beings in romantic contextsIs that what women are wondering about, why no one will marry them? “Among all adults ages 18 to 34, 20% say being married is extremely or very important for people to live a fulfilling life, and 22% say having children is extremely or very important. For comparison, 68% say the same about having a job or career they enjoy, and 62% say this about having close friends. There are no gender differences in young adults’ views of the importance of getting married or having children.“ https://www.pewr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 06:00 PM |
| – | Let's have the uncomfortable conversationBirth rate delta. lol. Did you miss the almost 18% decline in one year? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 02:40 PM |
| – | Let's have the uncomfortable conversationThat birth rate includes the women having kids in the 90’s. If you look at all the data in the link, the birth rate in Afghanistan was pretty steady for decades until 2000. It’s been dropping steadily since then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 02:38 PM |
| – | Let's have the uncomfortable conversationAfghanistan’s birth rate and total fertility rate (TFR) have been steadily declining. The total fertility rate sits at roughly 4.6 to 4.8 births per woman—down from peaks of over 7 births in the 1990s Only a slight decline last year, but 2024 was a doozy. Afghanistan’s birth rate for 2024 was 29.12, a 17.83% decline from 2023 https://www.macrotrends.net/global-metrics/countries/afg/afghanistan/birth-rate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 02:21 PM |
| – | Women don't really view men as human beings in romantic contextshttps://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0306453016301846 I gave you an entire run down about about how all the senses, including the imagination, contribute to female desire, and all you have to say is none of it counts if they don’t get horny looking at pictures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 02:03 PM |
| – | Let's have the uncomfortable conversationInteresting, but that’s from 2023, so somewhat shortly after many of these laws were put into effect maybe? Because for 2025, the correlation seems to be gone. One side effect of the overturn of Roe has been an increase in sterilization, even in young people. https://www.medpagetoday.com/meetingcoverage/acog/121103 https://www.healthaffairs.org/doi/10.1377/hlthaff.2024.00824 If abortion bans boosted birth rates in the short run, I think it’s doubtful to have much effect in the long run. People a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 01:58 PM |
| – | Women don't really view men as human beings in romantic contextsWomen do desire men, not just as spontaneously and viscerally as men desire women Compare it to hunger. Men see a picture of “food” (ie sex) and think I want to eat it. Women need to see it, smell it, feel the steam rise, remember the enjoyment of the dish the last time, appreciate it more when they spent the afternoon preparing it with their own two hands, thinking about it and anticipating how good it will be. The fact that it’s healthy and nourishing is a plus, and it pleases her even more. D… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 01:42 PM |
| – | Women don't really view men as human beings in romantic contextsImagine the destabilizing effect on civilization in all of the last thousands of years if women wanted to hump randos. I think the ones that did throughout history were probably not successful on an evolutionary level because women with spontaneous desire likely saw few of their children reach adulthood. Let’s say women did suddenly want to jump on random dicks? What “protection” do you propose? Condoms? lol. 98% effective per year if used perfectly. That’s 54% effective over 30 years. In realit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 01:09 PM |
| – | Let's have the uncomfortable conversationSource? I’m curios because I’m not seeing it. My google search comes up with Colorado (4.5%), Idaho (3.8%), Utah (3.6%), Washington state and Nebraska (each 2.6%) as the states seeing the largest increase in birthrates . Colorado and Washington state still have very liberal abortion laws. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 01:00 PM |
| – | Let's have the uncomfortable conversationI disagree it’s the economy though. Even in countries with great parental support, birth rates are low. Funding alone won’t reverse these trends. People don’t have as many kids because most of them actually don’t want many kids. People rarely wanted as many kids as they got. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 12:45 PM |
| – | Women don't really view men as human beings in romantic contextsIt’s unflattering to be treated like a woman treats a man and not like a man treats a woman? Fwiw, someone wanting to throw a dick my way because they like my ass isn’t really all that flattering to me either, because I know I’m just one of dozens he might see that day that sparks lust in him. Should women want to jump random dicks like dudes on Grindr? The problem with unwed motherhood and fatherless children is already massively out of control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 12:20 PM |
| – | Women don't really view men as human beings in romantic contextsYou state on one hand that women understand fiction from reality, so maybe the real problem is most young men can’t distinguish porn from reality. Women don’t expect a pirate with a six pack to show up to ravish her, yet men still seem surprised when women don’t crave sex like a bitch in heat and don’t want to be jackhammered in an uncomfortable position by some random dude. Women that fulfill those fantasies are also mythical creatures. You are absolutely right, men are not going to spark lust … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 12:12 PM |
| – | Women don't really view men as human beings in romantic contextsOr maybe those girls are actually smart to be authentic from the beginning about who they are. Sometimes it’s the ones holding back her true self to appeal to a more uptight partner who are the ones acting. At what point in the relationship will the mask come off anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 11:53 AM |
| 9 | Most women aren’t looking for a provider they’re looking for a teammateI am a woman and I approve this message. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 02:40 AM |
| 0 | Orgasm gap is just experience gap.This is probably the most fair take. Some guys are selfish, some women have a harder time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Orgasm gap is just experience gap.I actually didn’t teach him anything really except what felt good with fingers. He was just tuned into my reactions to things. With my first? I honestly didn’t know better. He was cute and I was horny. He wasn’t a bad guy really, but he was clueless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 01:50 AM |
| 5 | Orgasm gap is just experience gap.No. My first boyfriend was a few years older and had tons of experience. We were together 6 months and I thought he was great in bed at the time 🤪. I just figured I was one of those many women who never experienced orgasm from partnered sex. His favorite move was to wait till something actually started to feel good and then completely change pace and jackhammer, often in doggy. I was with my ex for 7 years and he was a virgin. He was better than my first boyfriend almost immediately, within a fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do many women find it unacceptable if a man has paid for sex in the past, but are fine with a man who has slept with hundreds of women through regular dating?Okay, I’ll buy that. Sure, it depends on your social circle. But he wasn’t mostly hooking up with average girls with n=4. He might have snagged a few low n count girls, but most of those women are also outliers. Math still the same. Five percent of women are sleeping around, but the 95% who aren’t having sex for coke aren’t lying. This is Reddit and half of them have never been to a party. So when women say they aren’t interested in fuck boys, they aren’t lying. I’ve actually known some total ug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Why do many women find it unacceptable if a man has paid for sex in the past, but are fine with a man who has slept with hundreds of women through regular dating?Society, common sense, and the law all hold consent to sex to a much higher standard than simple monetary transactions. If you enter into a contract to buy a car with someone too incapacitated to consent, that’s a civil matter. If you have sex with someone too incapacitated to consent that can get you arrested. If you enter into a contract with someone legally too young to consent, civil matter. Obviously sex with someone legally too young to consent, despite them being extremely willing and bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Why do many women find it unacceptable if a man has paid for sex in the past, but are fine with a man who has slept with hundreds of women through regular dating?She said consent for sex is different than consent in other monetary transactions …and no matter how you slice it, it is different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Why do many women find it unacceptable if a man has paid for sex in the past, but are fine with a man who has slept with hundreds of women through regular dating?Okay, what’s that have to do with anything I said? What makes sex in exchange for money different than paying for getting your grass cut? “Hey Bob, would little Timmy be interested in making some spending money this weekend? Sure would be fun to stick my dick in his ass. If he’s busy, maybe your wife Carol has some free time.” “Gee Harry, little Timmy is a bit young and Carol’s ass is still bleeding from last weekend “ But sex is just another service in exchange for money 🤣. Yeah…,no it’s not. S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 12:14 AM |
| 4 | Why do many women find it unacceptable if a man has paid for sex in the past, but are fine with a man who has slept with hundreds of women through regular dating?You don’t see why sex might be different than a hair cut? How would you react if someone stopped you on the street and said “hey I hear you give haircuts for $20” and how would you react if they said “hey, I hear you give blow jobs for $20”. Do those things seem the same to you? How about if they ask your wife? It’s just a service like getting your lawn cut? What if the neighbor asks your kid if he wants to cut his lawn or put a dick up his ass? Do both simply sound like same to you? Offering mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 12:03 AM |
| 4 | Why do many women find it unacceptable if a man has paid for sex in the past, but are fine with a man who has slept with hundreds of women through regular dating?The number of straight men with an n count of over 100, who didn’t get to those numbers with hookers, are extreme outliers in one way or another, rock stars, pro athletes, etc. There’s probably 1% to 5 % of women who might consider sex with a real outlier once, actual groupies who do it regularly are extremely rare. If a one in 10,000 guy can even get 1% of random women to sleep with him, he sleeps with a hundred women. The part of this equation you fail to understand is that the 99% who wouldn’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Why do many women find it unacceptable if a man has paid for sex in the past, but are fine with a man who has slept with hundreds of women through regular dating?Look, I think it should be legal, I think if it can be determined there is no trafficking or coercion, then one person should be able to consent to having sex as either an employee of employer. I still would absolutely never be interested in someone to wanted to rent a living hole to stick his dick in. Sex for me is an intimate, connected act, even casual sex is more than the mechanics of part A goes in part B. If you don’t see the difference between renting a hole in a trade agreement and havin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 10:50 PM |
| 3 | Why do many women find it unacceptable if a man has paid for sex in the past, but are fine with a man who has slept with hundreds of women through regular dating?Yeah, sex work to me would be on par with unclogging toilets for a living, and that guy doesn’t do it for fun. He does it for money. Hookers also do sex work because they like the money. But the big difference is I’m not paying him big money because getting poop to go down my sewer is entertaining and enjoyable for me. Because that would make me a creepy weirdo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 10:00 PM |
| 6 | Why do many women find it unacceptable if a man has paid for sex in the past, but are fine with a man who has slept with hundreds of women through regular dating?It’s not cheap because the vast majority of women would be completely and utterly grossed out by having to do it. If the women were actually enjoying any part of it they wouldn’t charge twice what the guy who comes to unclog my toilet charges. The fact that some dude can actually enjoy sticking his dick is someone who would 99% always rather just get the money than have to have sex with him, it’s just creepy to me. How much fun is it to throw your dick in a woman when it’s a chore for her? I’m s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 09:50 PM |
| 4 | Why do many women find it unacceptable if a man has paid for sex in the past, but are fine with a man who has slept with hundreds of women through regular dating?Not all men see prostitutes because they are desperate, although obviously many are. Desperation is not the half of it: Men who see prostitutes…..”display a preference for having sex with a variety of partners, as well less relational and committed sex (Xantidis and McCabe, 2000; Farley et al., 2017). Furthermore, male clients of prostitution express more permissive attitudes toward extramarital sex, (Monto and McRee, 2005; Monto and Milrod, 2014), and access pornography more often than men who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 09:29 PM |
| 2 | If women treat sex as a reward, men should treat his money as a reward.Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. You are describing an incredibly toxic relationship. If my husband is going to try to coerce more sex out of me by withholding money, that will get interesting fast since I earn more. If he is going to try to get me to do more cooking and cleaning, well that’s actually hilarious to even consider. Maybe a healthy relationship is better all around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 09:40 AM |
| 2 | The male/female sexlessness gap is the result of net biological differences playing out over a free sexual marketplacehttps://ifstudies.org/ifs-admin/resources/figure1final-w640.png Latest survey shows sexlessness is now higher for young women?. I think a lot of data is unreliable and a moving target. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 09:19 AM |
| 5 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceThere is often an overlap in neuroticism and introversion, the combination almost always spells lack of romantic success , but I agree with you that neuroticism is the bigger obstacle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 01:06 PM |
| 4 | If you don't disclose what you want sexually before commitment, you have no one to blame but yourself if the woman doesn't like it.She’s actually an extremely attractive woman for her age. Her experience with online dating as a middle aged woman… “The odds are good, but the goods are odd”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 01:02 PM |
| 6 | Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur.Politics of either stripe won’t solve your personal problems and the establishment isn’t responsible for, or capable of, making you fuckable. Politics might get you healthcare, lower taxes, access to firearms, access to abortion…whatever sort of “change” you’re looking for. It won’t fix your autism, make you taller or more handsome, cure your porn addiction, or erectile dysfunction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 12:41 PM |
| 6 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceI had an ex that definitely was a late bloomer, and is single still to this day, despite having tons of friends in school. He’s still friends with several people he went to high school with. He was extroverted, talkative and generally well liked by his peers, very funny with a self deprecating sense of humor. Probably going to an honors school where intelligence was highly regarded was helpful. He was definitely neurotic though. He overthought everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 11:36 AM |
| 11 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceI think the converse is true, that the majority of men who were bullied will at some point struggle with dating, but I think there are way more reasons men can have a hard time finding a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 11:23 AM |
| 6 | Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young womenMmmm, I actually think that research aligns with their first sentence. It states “unlikely that getting younger attractive women will become easier as you get older” is probably most factual. Let’s be honest, you can always find a partner if you settle hard and dumpster dive. Most sexually unsuccessful people simply don’t want to date in their league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 10:47 AM |
| -1 | Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young womenIf you want to define “peak” as having the largest percentage of women in your immediate social circle all fighting to have sex with you, then your peak is 70’s when women really start to outlive their husbands. My ex said his father told him in his 70’s he would be swimming in pussy if he could still drive at night. Sadly, his dream was not wanting 50 years to be rewarded with a vast selection of dusty old widow pussy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 04:59 AM |
| 2 | You cannot convince me that most men deserve women's submissionWell, typically not the most reliable method to orgasm for me, that’s generally from receiving oral first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 03:40 AM |
| 6 | Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young womenUncomfortable truths. Not going to say I’ve never seen a hot age gap couple where the older one was still sexually desirable to someone younger, they definitely exist. But I have definitely also seen many, many more age gaps involving people with, to put it kindly, fewer romantic options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 03:31 AM |
| 1 | If you don't disclose what you want sexually before commitment, you have no one to blame but yourself if the woman doesn't like it.They would look longingly in your eyes if you had 1000 baht taped to your forehead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 03:19 AM |
| 2 | You cannot convince me that most men deserve women's submissionI think you have weird porn brained ideas of what sex should look like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 03:12 AM |
| 1 | You cannot convince me that most men deserve women's submissionDynamic? We like to fuck. Often. Pretty vanilla. Then we cuddle. Everyone now has to have some formulaic dynamic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:27 AM |
| 1 | You cannot convince me that most men deserve women's submissionOkay . lol I’m not “normal” according to you. Don’t care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:18 AM |
| 1 | You cannot convince me that most men deserve women's submissionOkay. Or maybe I’m just personally not into it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:12 AM |
| 1 | You cannot convince me that most men deserve women's submissionlol, well not all of us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:06 AM |
| 21 | Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young womenJust to add, if you are a man with a big ego who thinks he snatched a younger woman because you’re highly desirable, think again. Most age gap relationships bear no resemblance to Hollywood romances. “ In direct contrast to conventional wisdom and most economic models of marital age gaps, we present robust evidence that men and women who are married to differently-aged spouses are negatively selected. Empirical results show lower cognitive ability, lower educational attainment, lower occupationa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 12:50 AM |
| 1 | You cannot convince me that most men deserve women's submissionYou are seeing a real phenomenon but coming up with the wrong conclusion. The more women are into you, the more they will mirror your desires. Everyone does this to some extent. It’s not that women become more submissive the more they are into the men they are with, they become more submissive to you because you value submissive behavior. My own brother, a lifelong atheist raised in a secular home, actually went to church for a hot chick. My very rational, non woo woo friend spent a shitload of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 10:49 PM |
| 8 | If you don't disclose what you want sexually before commitment, you have no one to blame but yourself if the woman doesn't like it.You joke, but a friend of mine traveled an hour to meet a strange guy she met online (VERY rural Maine) and brought her teenage kids, because he was a professional musician and all her kids play and all are very into music. The kids LOVED him, they all jammed together, then he pulled her aside and asked her “what kind of porn are you into”. 💀. First meet and greet with her kids literally feet away. Hard to explain to teenagers why you don’t think you want to date that great guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 09:39 PM |
| 3 | You cannot convince me that most men deserve women's submissionIt’s a Catch 22 for me, some guy who doesn’t want a woman equally as intelligent, capable and assertive as he is, he is not worthy by definition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 04:38 PM |
| – | Women supporting Isabel Rose proves that feminism is a cult and doesn't care about justicefrom liberals, who otherwise do the most for the development of humanity and champion for the downtrodden is disappointing. 🤣. That’s adorable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 02:16 PM |
| – | Women supporting Isabel Rose proves that feminism is a cult and doesn't care about justicehttps://www.sddp.org/post/republicans-fail-to-end-child-marriage-again These aren’t 30 random wackos https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1BPETMonEp/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 02:14 PM |
| 5 | If you don't disclose what you want sexually before commitment, you have no one to blame but yourself if the woman doesn't like it.Looking at the responses here, the survey where half the women engaging in these acts report they were not always wanted, and my anecdotal discussions with female friends, people seem willing to admit to being vanilla to everyone except the person they are actually having sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 02:10 PM |
| 5 | If you don't disclose what you want sexually before commitment, you have no one to blame but yourself if the woman doesn't like it.Tried it exactly once with an ex and his opinion was the same fortunately. He said, to paraphrase, “why would anyone prefer that when I have a perfectly good hole nearby that self lubricates, hugs everything, can take any speed and tempo, and I don’t have to worry about what might come out after”. Neither of us was impressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:51 PM |
| 10 | If you don't disclose what you want sexually before commitment, you have no one to blame but yourself if the woman doesn't like it.When as the top comment says “it’s about getting what the last guy got”, the willingness to engage in kinky acts is not always about the act, but as a proxy for being seen as desirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:44 PM |
| 5 | If you don't disclose what you want sexually before commitment, you have no one to blame but yourself if the woman doesn't like it.The sweetest three little words my husband ever whispered in my ear “Not into anal” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:24 PM |
| – | Women supporting Isabel Rose proves that feminism is a cult and doesn't care about justiceI rarely see Republicans condemning Trump despite the fact he admitted to sexual assault on TV. Most Republicans are not actively pro sexual assault. What’s your point? That people are tribal? Shocking! Jfc, the education system has failed us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:06 PM |
| 4 | If you don't disclose what you want sexually before commitment, you have no one to blame but yourself if the woman doesn't like it.A 2019 survey found only around a third of participants considered choking to be rough sexual behaviour. You are definitely behind the times. https://theconversation.com/more-than-half-of-australian-young-people-are-using-strangulation-during-sex-new-research-231269 Despite women commonly engaging in and even asking for rougher behavior, many are still conflicted with only around half saying that these sexual acts were always wanted. https://comresglobal.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/Final-BBC-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:02 PM |
| 12 | If you don't disclose what you want sexually before commitment, you have no one to blame but yourself if the woman doesn't like it.How old are you? Because porn has definitely affected what is seen as desirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 12:39 PM |
| – | Women supporting Isabel Rose proves that feminism is a cult and doesn't care about justiceOne of those establishes a political party and actually has some support from important cultural figures like Elon Musk. Guess which? Hint: it’s not some nobody woman and her 30 wack job friends in her prayer circle. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Britain_Restoring_Underlying_Values_Party When an account on X praised Tate’s formation of the "BRUV" party and claimed his involvement would transform British politics, Musk replied, "He's not wrong". Musk also occasionally stepped in when Tate's polit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 10:50 AM |
| – | Women supporting Isabel Rose proves that feminism is a cult and doesn't care about justiceYou have a flair that says “red pill man” but how much crossover is there between supporters of Andrew Tate and self identified red pill men? Is it fair to say red pill is a cult? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 09:47 AM |
| – | What would happen If science someday proved or suggested that housewives were healthier and lived longer than women who go to work and are finantially independent?If this was somehow discovered, I would imagine that some profound shift had happened in society where the health, happiness and overall well being of people was completely decoupled from financial status. That’s not our current reality for average people. Our current reality is that 50% of marriages end in divorce, and the vast majority of women without a career will suffer if they get divorced. Many who don’t get divorced also suffer by staying in unhappy marriages for financial security. Weal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 09:55 AM |
| – | Women use chores to avoid submitting to menWomen need alone time to recharge their batteries sometimes too. That’s why they occasionally ask their husbands to “babysit” their own children and clean up after themselves. Like any adult should. Not as some ridiculous mind game to assert control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 10:27 PM |
| – | Women use chores to avoid submitting to menThis is stupid, and I don’t need excuses to not submit to stupid. I follow my husband’s lead when he knows better, he follows mine when I know better. And it’s sad that you just want your woman to leave you alone. Wtf is up with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.I definitely need to cross post this with some slight editing “So I enjoyed your long screed about how women have historically contributed absolutely zero to building and maintaining civilization. Then men turn around and act surprised when women decide to be doctors and engineers instead of having that second kid. After deciding women are historically worthless, now you question why we “refuse to mate”. Maybe you guys need to get on the same page. You certainly don’t make having and raising chi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 01:14 PM |
| 12 | Women’s mating strategy (Hard to get) ruining our societal civilization, thus women need to change their tactic from Hard to get to Fair to getWe just had some long screed about how women have historically contributed absolutely zero to building and maintaining civilization. Then men turn around and act surprised when women decide to be doctors and engineers instead of having that second kid. After deciding women are historically worthless, now you question why we “refuse to mate”. Maybe you guys need to get on the same page. You certainly don’t make having and raising children seem like the most productive personal choice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.Ahhh, yeah. Not totally paralyzed with fear, but reasonably cautious. I definitely vet a dog and let it suss me out, sniff my hand and will usually ask its owner if it’s friendly. I’m not stupid. You are still statistically most likely to be bitten by your own family pet, not some “smelly, growling” dog. That’s partly because people trust their own pet that they have already bonded with, and partly because most people are smart enough not to thrust a hand in front of a strange dog without a prop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.Still doesn’t mean that the frequency of dog attacks would make being cautious of dogs in general was vindicated. Yes it does. This is the most smooth brained analogy of the day. Do you just go up to strange dogs and try to pet them before letting them sniff your hand and asking their owner if they are friendly? Three in five dog bites involve family members. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7603431/ 92% of fatal dog bites are from male dogs https://www.johndaylegal.com/practice-areas/pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 11:43 AM |
| 5 | CMV: There is no discernible difference between an asexual woman and the average, heterosexual-identified one.because mannerisms, how he moves, seeing him in 3D and in motion, is actually a huge driver of straight women's attraction to men 100%. Absolutely. Add in the way they smell, the way a male body feels to your touch, the way their hands feel when they touch you, the sound of their voice. The way it feels when a pair of masculine arms scoop you up and the way it feels when holding you close, you can tell he’s aroused. It’s not like men’s looks are irrelevant, but it’s a whole package. And when it’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire?Well …first of all, straight women are definitely more aroused by the actual physical presence of an attractive man as opposed to a photo. I’ve argued many times that online dating is a disaster for men because our superficial level of attraction is affected by how he smells, how he moves, what his voice sounds like, etc. If you're gay, wouldn't you be sexually aroused to the very physical being of that gender you are supposedly attracted to instead of just reading descriptions of it as well? Ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire?This is the real answer. If women aren’t as aroused by photos, or immediate visceral attraction, then according to some guys here “men don’t arouse women” It’s as ridiculous as saying if men aren’t turned on by erotic literature about women in sexual situations, then men aren’t aroused by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What would you do if your partner cheated on you? Would you immediately leave them, or would you give them a chance for forgiveness? Do you think there's a gender-based difference in how people react to being cheated on?Been there done that. Broke up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 12:40 PM |
| 3 | What is the average female sexual experience like?The first time with someone I have zero expectation of good sex or orgasm tbh. I don’t think it’s necessarily any of his fault, some things take time. The guy is usually going to be way over excited, hump like a jack rabbit and cum in two seconds. But it is all about seeing if there is compatibility, comfort, and cuddles. You are naked in bed for the first time with someone twice as strong as you in a highly emotionally charged situation, is it feeling weird, awkward, or creepy? Or does it feel … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 11:24 AM |
| – | CMV: Traditional "gentleman" gestures are mostly performative and not indicative of authenticityI didn’t date guys with kids either. Not everyone who has kids and then gets divorced will be bad partners. It just makes more sense for single parents to date each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 05:46 PM |
| – | CMV: Traditional "gentleman" gestures are mostly performative and not indicative of authenticityisn’t functionally necessary in modern society, it’s symbolic. You’re making a distinction that doesn’t exist and arguing against your own premise. Good grooming and a suit and tie to a business meeting signals I understand the rules of polite society, I am willing to prove I am capable of fitting in with my environment. A tie is actually the ultimate symbolic gesture, a woman might actually need a man who will open a door one day, (like when she’s 9 months pregnant or holding a infant). But a t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 10:16 AM |
| 8 | Glorification of step dads is harmful to societyDid they not know that, if they let guys nut in them while they're off birth control, they might get pregnant? You do realize when a form of birth control is 98% effective, that’s only how effective it is during a single year, right? Your risk over the course of a single year only 2%. Over the course of 30 years of fertility, your 98% a year effective birth control is slightly less than 55%. Ever nut in a woman with a condom? Do that consistently, and perfectly, for 30 years and your odds of bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 07:26 AM |
| 4 | women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectificationThey reject objectification by men who scare them or feel unsafe too. We get hit on by gross, old men as soon as we show breast development. It’s both scary as shit AND gross. So we start out young deflecting sexual interest from virtually all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 10:35 PM |
| 1 | The majority of sex should be oral sex performed on women.Personally I LOVE it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 09:52 PM |
| 2 | The majority of sex should be oral sex performed on women.I have no idea why you got downvoted. It’s my favorite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 09:52 PM |
| 6 | I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnelIt’s definitely a majority of apparently middle aged people, such as yourself, who were supposedly highly successful with the opposite sex, but never bothered to settle down and have a family. Who would have thought that there would be so many middle aged, childless people who want to remain childless. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 10:11 AM |
| 14 | I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnelThere’s a whole lot of word salad to unpack here. As a man, I will provide romance when I feel that I am in love, not when I feel in lust Yes…love, if it ever develops is at the END of the tunnel. Lust leads to sex, which leads to infatuation, idealization, and obsession. It also leads to trust, sharing oxytocin, pair bonding, etc. and if all goes well, if you have healthy perspective on the former emotions, and you have enough of the latter, you hopefully find enduring love. This enduring love … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 04:29 AM |
| – | Is it true that you find most men your age ugly?they feel like not having that in return = they're ugly Yep. More broadly, they think lack of immediate, visceral attraction means unattractive. All the men that I have dated were attractive to me, physically attractive, by a combination of the way they look, the way they move, the way they sound, the way they look at me, their smile, their laugh. Most of all, the way I feel when they touch me. It’s a genuine physical attraction I have to men I have dated, it’s just often more factors than first… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 01:55 AM |
| – | Is it true that you find most men your age ugly?Oh sure, fair enough….my ex was cute but physically pretty average, I wouldn’t have really found him a standout simply by looking at a photo on Tinder. But we lived in the French Quarter in New Orleans and later near the meat packing district on the lower west side of Manhattan. He definitely got IOI’s from dudes, with mixed feelings. On one hand…hey someone finds me attractive…on the other, it was never a woman. :( Most straight guys here don’t understand why straight women aren’t the visual cr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 01:40 AM |
| – | Is it true that you find most men your age ugly?This, exactly. Unlike young women, the majority of older women and men of all ages simply pass through life without their appearance making any sort of impression one way or another. Most men aren’t ugly, because the way average men look simply doesn’t even register. You have to actually be really ugly before my brain says “whoa, that guy is ugly” or really handsome before I think “that man is handsome “. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 12:49 AM |
| – | What do you believe is the effort you make in your relationship(s). What value do you think you add to the man in your life? Is it comparable to what your spouse brings to the relationship?is comparable to the value and efforts your spouses bring. I’ve been married a long, long time. Maybe some days it is…some days it isn’t. Sometimes you need a soft place to fall, sometimes you need to be the soft place to fall. This kind of bean counting and demand that each gets an “equal deal”and have “equal value” is corrosive. Life absolutely will get hard, you won’t be your best, or she won’t bring her best. All that matters is you each get what you need, and only most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 08:07 PM |
| – | Most of the “successful marriages” are mirageThe typical man in a marriage today is suffering alone Lots of people living the “perfect, happy single life” are also suffering alone. Not ever having committed relationships isn’t always the answer. Most divorced people remarry and men remarry faster. Seems many miserable married men find being single even more miserable. Maybe the point is people need to learn how to have happy relationships, not necessarily avoid them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Real relationships cannot replace escorting.Well, at least you do recognize you are the outlier. I’m sure you can see why evolution has generally favored a degree of serial monogamy, and humans that to some extent, pair bond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Real relationships cannot replace escorting.>I don't understand how people tie the two things together. Our biology ties them together. Paired sex, if done right, releases bonding hormones, which is pretty convenient, since sex is, at it’s very core, an act of procreation. “Oxytocin also acts as a chemical messenger in your brain and has an important role in many human behaviors and social interactions, including: Sexual arousal. Recognition. Trust. Romantic attachment. Parent-infant bonding.” >No different than hiring a gardener or mecha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 12:43 AM |
| 1 | What defines woman's immediate decision, if she wants to get to know the guy better and invest time and effort into learning his personality?>When men approach women, in the street or in a social setting – the response is immediate, and in vast majority of cases ultimate and negative. As in “I don’t want to hang out with you, I don’t want to get to know you better, I just don’t like you”. It’s very specifically the fact that he is doing this, approaching an entirely random woman on the street, that MAKES him unattractive. 1. it feels unsafe, if he is willing to cross one unspoken social barrier, what others will he violate? 2. how de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Would you enter a relationship your ideal male partner if you could never have sex again?That’s not how I read it…they can kiss and cuddle…so they can give oral or mutual masturbation One of my best friends is completely in love with a guy who can’t get an erection after a surgery, they have sex all the time. And despite him being inable to get erect, he can often orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Would you enter a relationship your ideal male partner if you could never have sex again?>dating an asexual person or someone who is incapable of sex is completely normal because they’re attracted to you and you’re attracted to them you need a dictionary more a·sex·u·al /āˈsekSH(əw)əl/ adjective 1. experiencing no sexual feelings or desires; not feeling sexual attraction to anyone By definition, asexuals do not feel sexual attraction. this person can kiss and cuddle , but not give oral or mutual masturbation? if you can kiss, you’re actually able to give oral, so they obviously don’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 11:22 AM |
| 4 | Do you understand what men mean when men say that the risk is not worth the reward, in reference to women today, and approaching women, and being in relationships with women?You know what I don’t do op? I don’t spend my time on a bunch of subreddits about things I’m simply disinterested in. I haven’t every gone on a model plane building, or a rugby, or a fly fishing subreddit simply to announce I have no interest in participating in the subject of that subreddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Would you enter a relationship your ideal male partner if you could never have sex again?I didn’t “date” gay men because we obviously were NOT fucking. I have been friends with incredibly attractive, wonderful gay men who I have had friendships with , not sexual or romantic relationships with. Sex is not a factor in why we have monogamous relationships? Are you serious? I’m glad you recognize that a straight woman dating a gay man, much less having an exclusive relationship with one, would be odd, unfulfilling and probably delusional. Good, that’s a step in the right direction. Yet … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Would you enter a relationship your ideal male partner if you could never have sex again?Oh hell no. I’ve had relationships that almost are identical to this , with gay men. Even down to the platonic cuddling. Except they didn’t expect me not to sleep with other men. The thing that distinguishes a sexual relationship from a friendship is the sex. Duh. What’s the point of entering into a monogamous sexual relationship if you aren’t having sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 03:13 AM |
| – | From who would you rather take advice?In his teens he worked at a burger shop, and during college he kept working there until 10 p.m | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 12:27 AM |
| 4 | From who would you rather take advice?Well this is a weird one. If it takes person B years before he has $10,000? Obviously I choose person A. I had well over 10k in the bank when I graduated with an engineering degree by tending bar. After getting that degree, I haven’t struggled at all financially. What’s the point of him getting that degree? To flip houses and continue to struggle? Why did this idiot not major in something that pays well and gives him a 10k bonus every year? I already know how to make money, people with generatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 10:53 PM |
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