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| 2 | Using AI to analyze texts for manipulationAI is incredibly good at this (use one of the paid more advanced versions) as well as telling when an AI wrote something lol. For your own peace of mind, you’ll get an answer. pattern recognition is (for a few more months maybe, before the leap to AGI) what makes AI AI (i’ve heard from multiple reputable friends that at least 3 companies already have AGI and are still figuring out how to tell the world). But as the others have said, it would do you no legal good. nobody would care. YOU would kno… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/25 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Lawyer feesif you don’t have complicated assets and it (at least at first) appears straightforward you can certainly start out trying that. but before you put ink on any paper you should have your OWN lawyer read it over. that shouldn’t be all that expensive and it’s worth every penny. these things have a lot of nuance and the difference between one word being there can make a world of difference vs that one word not being there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing online dating wrong?i think what we are ultimately actually having is a discussion on letter of the law vs spirit of the law. they’re really different from each other. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/25 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing online dating wrong?i think the legal standing is the same in 49 of the 50 states…? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/25 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing online dating wrong?i can safely assume you’ve never been with an escort, or if you did you had a really bad experience and i’m sorry, but no, you do not wear a condom for a bj. i’m not saying I have, but i am willing to say i’ve been in the room when friends have no shortage of times. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/25 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing online dating wrong?high end call girls do not make you wear a condom for a hummer. you’re not gonna catch an std. in the incredibly off chance you somehow manage to, it’s not as big of a deal anymore. yes you may have some physical discomfort for a bit depending on which one, but there’s pills to take care of it. and no, you will not catch hiv. even if they’re positive they’ll be on meds that keep their count undetectable and thus literally can not pass it on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/25 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Am I doing online dating wrong?of course they do - wouldn’t you want to verify the person first? it’s a crime without victims in a time when the cops can’t keep up with the victims of the crimes. the last thing and police department is interested in is wasting what little prison resources they have on some white collar guy that paid $500 for an escort for an hour. go to your local escort page and ask your self how allllll those girls - and even in smaller city it’s often pages long - could possibly be making a living if peopl… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/25 12:20 AM |
| -1 | Am I doing online dating wrong?you don’t have to pay for every platform all at once. but you should just bite the bullet and pay the piper for the one you are actively using. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/25 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing online dating wrong?well for actual dating and not just hookups tinder probably isn’t the best option. depending on your area hinge or bumble tend to be, but again it’s whatever sort of catches on in your area. except tinder. that’s for hookups. my point is you got 2 matches total between 3 platforms. and, not to be a dick just to put it in perspective, 1 date a month off ANY platform is not good. How much do you make an hour? I’m going to just guess for maths and say you make twice as much per hour that the cost o… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/25 11:41 PM |
| 4 | Am I doing online dating wrong?that doesn’t happen in real life. any call girl you find on a website that’s been around for a bit has a damn close to 0% chance of landing you in trouble. the people that get in trouble are the ones busted in raids picking girls up off the streets. and even THAT is exceedingly rare. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/25 11:16 PM |
| 4 | Am I doing online dating wrong?my guess is that number is very low. there are easier ways for women to get validation. than making a dating profile they don’t need for dates they don’t want to go on just to hear nice things about themselves. i’ve been a little harsh in my comments, which i don’t mean to be especially on a supportive sub like this, but i’ve also been on here and around enough to know guys get into a victim mentality about the topic too easily. as one commenter said, it’s also a numbers game. not even the best … | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/25 11:13 PM |
| -1 | Am I doing online dating wrong?case in point. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/25 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Am I doing online dating wrong?I don’t understand the mentality of something needing to be free for something so important. you’re talking about not just your time, but ALSO a fair bit of money for the actual date. the monthly charge is an inconsequential pittance in comparison. I don’t mean this in a mean way at all, just in general, but i don’t have a ton of sympathy when i see guys complain about how bad they’re doing out there but aren’t even investing a few bucks to increase the odds. it makes me wonder about their menta… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/25 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing online dating wrong?This IS true but only to a certain degree. when someone gets scammed, usually the scammer deposits some of their own money into the bank account first. if you only give the stick and never the carrot, people will quit and stop paying. so they are incentives to both find you matches and not find you matches. but if you do the profile right there will be more than enough carrots to work with. EDIT: (sorry for all the edits today people). i’ve also read stats on how long people still keep paying ev… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/25 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Am I doing online dating wrong?if he’s even reasonably attractive and he’s well put together, he should be doing better. so i think there’s something broken here. men’s stock rises and they get older, which is the reverse of women. so the two work hand in hand with making it pretty easy out there well into your 50s. assuming you’re not ugly, broke, and look like a slob. EDIT: gonna assume it’s a hard no on op linking their profile in this anonymous cesspool of humanity, but i bet my bottom dollar it’s bad ones. girls will at … | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/25 10:53 PM |
| 1 | OK is this what I have to do California Divorcethink about what the forms are asking, and then ask yourself who the only person that could possibly know the information to answer the questions is. is that person you or is that person your lawyer… does your lawyer know things like what bank accounts you have and what their account numbers are..? does he know what credit cards you have and what the balances are..? does he know how much money per month you spend on the 30 things it asks how much you spend a month on? or do YOU know that informa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/25 02:23 AM |
| 2 | OK is this what I have to do California Divorcewell, what do you THINK you should do with the forms when you are done filling them out for someone? In this case your lawyer, who gave you the forms to complete.. what do you think you should do with the forms your lawyer gave you to complete once you finish completing them for your lawyer …. good luck and god bless with this process my friend. you are going to need need a lot of critical thinking skills to get to the other side… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/25 01:48 AM |
| 1 | OK is this what I have to do California Divorceplease tell me this isn’t a serious post… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/25 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here who has been divorced for 3+ years, haven’t been in a serious or even casual relationship since, and still feel miserable?Asking what you do or where you work is fine - that’s normal small talk. Anyone asking you about your benefits or anything about your income - basically at any point throughout dating them - is all 3 strikes in one. I think you know that. Can’t really diagnose internet strangers based off just a few words but my initial impression of you and the way you presented yourself was as a total beta. I think women are getting the whiff of a man they can control, and maybe that emboldens them to ask ques… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/03/25 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here who has been divorced for 3+ years, haven’t been in a serious or even casual relationship since, and still feel miserable?you guys have something to offer someone. everybody does. i think the problem is more with your game than it is with you. you don’t need to be a player and buy a program for how to score with women. but you do need to have down the basics. being fit, clean, and well put together is 80% of the battle. making a good first impression with questions that are 1) interesting and 2) about her will get it going. just listen to what she is saying, don’t think about what you’re going to say in your head w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/25 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here who has been divorced for 3+ years, haven’t been in a serious or even casual relationship since, and still feel miserable?I’m gonna be honest here, and I know this is a place where we be positive and lift people up, but i don’t want someone to read this and think this is actually what it’s like. i mean this in the kindest possible way but it kind of sounds like you suck at dating. first of all you come off as being pretty cheap. things are still largely traditional out there and guys just pay for dinner and suck it up as the cost of doing business. don’t kneecap yourself by now only paying for coffee. i would also … | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/25 04:51 AM |
| 4 | I came outthis is just tough. for everyone. we’ve all convinced ourselves that something is true with the stakes being far lower. i understand not wanting to blow up your life over something you aren’t sure about. you did the right thing in owning it and making a change. i’m coming out of a reverse situation, of 25 years. you did fuck over some of her best years, but you say they were not wasted years and you were both happy. i cannot tell you how common it is, to the point of cliche, for middle age women… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/11/24 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else think about "switching teams"?even tho this is my regular account, posts and all, i have no problem saying i identify as bi. i was married for 20 years, had a great sex life right up until the end even tho shes now decided she’s a lesbian. and don’t let the great sex fool you - she was an absolute nightmare of a human. you can have sex with a guy once to experiment and not be bi. twice , you’re bi. i could never be in a relationship with a man but trust me - they are MUCH easier. and I basically only sleep with guys in their… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/24 02:58 AM |
| 2 | My marriage is no longer viable, but divorce will ruin me financially. Am I trapped?lots of advice on here falling into several camps. I’m going with the one that because you have time on your side you should be setting up the chess board in your favor. Seriously think about quitting your job and going for a passion career - just as long as you earn half as much. Slowly over the next couple years move money into an account that is only yours (you can google how to do this correctly). Basically look at life as you know that right now everything is 50% off. Today if you pay for a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/24 05:35 PM |
| 1 | She has HIValso, i did not look up if meds from 7 years ago could get your load count down to being undetectable and that’s why it didn’t come up in the prenatal screenings. because really that’s where the razors edge is the sharpest - that absolutely would have been tested for. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 05:40 PM |
| 1 | She has HIVlike someone else said, the razor points to that. just throwing out something that is a more plausible alternative than from a transfusion or accidental needle poke of which there is literally zero chance of. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 05:38 PM |
| 3 | She has HIVyou don’t have to wear a condom for the rest of your life lol. there are drugs that pretty much completely stop any chance of transmission. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 12:22 AM |
| 3 | She has HIVShe could very easily have been taking meds all this time - just with a different doctor or even county clinic - which explains why you don’t have it. It’s pretty rare now a days to get it because we have drugs that suppress it to undetectable levels. My guess is she had it from before you met, didn’t want to scare you off, and has just been taking one daily pill this whole time - which can easily be done without insurance - and not telling you. She probably planned to, but then time kept marchi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 12:20 AM |
| 0 | Should I get a divorce?this is such a great conversation. it’s just so indicative of our entire society. there’s no “you go girl. go live your best self” as the 99% majority here. there’s a logical rational worth it/not with it discussion that only men can have. and not the instant default of blow up 3 lives because you might be a little happier if you can’t figure out how to just do that while still married. especially because you said you don’t care that much about sex. (have your testosterone checked btw - i mean t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/24 08:01 AM |
| 9 | Took my kids to surprise their Mom at work for Mother's Day; Big Mistakethis is an interesting one. when i first read it i was about to say damn, this woman is next level bitch. but then i read this take on it and i can’t say i disagree. i think maybe this was the exact reaction you expected - and wanted - and that maybe there was some part of you wanting your kids to see her as a bad mother. because the apology really only emphasized the point to them via reverse psychology. if your first thought really was the kids, you would have completely downplayed it, not upl… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/24 12:46 AM |
| 2 | How do you start dating again?can confirm. just got back from thailand. i could show you pictures of “four floors of whores”. anything you could dream of, you point to them on a stage with a laser pointer. and they are sweet and they care more than anybody you’ll ever meet over here. masturbation is underrated as well. think about how horny and worked up you are going into it. then think about your indifference after and if you even want somebody else in your space. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/24 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Married and trappedthis is literally the worst advice i have ever heard in here | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/23 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Girl (28F) that I've been dating has had guys over at her house, should I (30M) leave?this line deserves a lot of credit | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/23 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Men in your 40s dating younger women, what are you guys doing?unless you literally live in a puritan city. again, nobody cares what you do behind closed doors. Just don’t pick up hookers on the street - you wouldn’t want to raw dog them anyways. find a proper website - not exactly hard - pick out exactly your type, and that’s that. i live in a west coast major city that it very liberal (if you can’t guess the city then you’re probably too dumb to do this anyways) so usually i’ll just get a nice hotel room for the night. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/23 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Men in your 40s dating younger women, what are you guys doing?Nobody gives a fuck if you bang as escort. the police won’t be knocking down your door. consensual sex is very, very low on their list of priorities | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/23 06:25 PM |
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