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GeneralSignificantTime5436/r/MensRights22/11/25 01:45 AM
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Wether you feel bad or not is irrelevant, as the world does not function based on morality but interest. This is not to mention that it simply forgets the geopolitical angle of an “industrialized feminist society “ is only possible if is there is no wars and the economic dominance of said country, which is usually maintained by the exploitation of another is maintained.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:59 PM

Nice hypothetical, but the use of force will always be an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:44 PM

Yeah I addressed that , but pre agriculture. I doubt women had more than 8 . Considering that hunter gather were at most 100 people .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:44 AM
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How are you a man making a generalization of your own gender like this. You’re right most men don’t wear makeup because they think it’s gay or feminine but most men work in their haircut and style . Op also talked about things that could instantly improve attractive by 3-4 points like buying makeup,wigs, wearing provocative clothes, or even going up to men .
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:59 PM
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In life , it’s important to think before you type. When you say most men are just very poorly and their cut is awful. Style is just subjective to some women may like it , some don’t. Ironically men out the most effort into their haircut and sometimes it does the trick. For Balding , do you think most men want to be balding?? It’s out of control. They have to take finastide and minoxidil for the rest of their lives if they don’t want to be balding. That’s if they’re lucky enough to not get horrib…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:18 PM
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Oh yeah , the woman is between a rock and a hard place there. The guy obviously won’t like the fact that he’s not the best , But not being with a toxic guy is also what’s the best for you . Sleeping around until you find the better sex is also risky as you could increase body count too much, which decreases the desire for men to settle down with you . Going for a guy who has a high body count is also risky , because what if he just wants to have sex and not commit? If you commit , what if he’s h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:45 AM
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There's various ways to vet toxic men before sleeping with them. Especially in 2025. Just making him wait long enough, asking him various indirect questions , evaluate his emotional intelligence etc etc. Also I doubt best sex is always with toxic men, that may just be confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:34 AM
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Not blaming the woman, just saying be careful if you're not her best. I don't know why you're saying typical, the only time I see a man unjustly blame a woman is when talking about single moms. Women are usually the ones to blame men for everything,
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:28 AM
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any man who says that enjoying pleasing your partner is bad, is a fool
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:22 AM
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This? Are you talking about body counts or comparisons with previous partners? Because it's not the same. you're allowed to have your preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:18 AM
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"When women say "i stop caring about the exes when im with a new guy and genuinely into him" men don't listen. But from what I observed, it's true. It just matters that you make the woman happy overall and then this shit doesn't matter. But most men are insecure." From what I have observed it's not true. Even when you make her happy, Men are insecure? Yes men are humans and could be insecure about things it differs from gender to gender. But to say "Men are insecure" as if to imply women are mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:04 AM
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what's the disagreement? like 45% of genZ men are virgins. Women have to put in little effort to make a guy get an orgasm, if she can't even do that.... Also not everyone is like your first husband. If a man is not having sex frequently he will leave ,just like a woman should leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:57 AM
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Purity culture is recent? It has been around since the agriculture revolution. Even when it wasn't a thing I doubt women had 9,10,11,12 partners to have sex with ,in their little hunter gatherer tribes or villages. "And as always it was enforced against women" you think it's unfair? lol men were the ones to provide recourses and their physical strenght was needed to protect against the other men who lacked said resources , hence the patriarchy and why men had power for a long time. A man wanting…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:42 AM
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I don't know why you're saying how convenient? it's the truth. I do know some women who don't attach feelings with sex though. It's due to biology and socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:21 AM

I guess it’s just subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:14 PM
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It’s different In that it’s not what made them decide to get in a relationship with you , but once in a relationship or getting to know you they will naturally have curiosity,they will talk about your career, be curious about it , you could talk to them about your workplace environment, passions ,skills learned , if you like your boss, they could care about your goals etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:07 PM
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Well it’s not that they don’t care , it’s that it is not an important criteria
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:05 PM
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You may be right. Honestly as a guy I've never considered plastic surgery to enhance my beauty so I'm not really in those spaces. Now that I think about it ,it's very likely that some male celebs have gotten surgery and I didn't notice. I'm assuming women are more targeted by the plastic surgery(beauty) industry due to the societal expectations on women and their beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:47 AM
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Women would get the ick if they found out a guy went under surgery for his face. At least all the women I know in real life would . It’s an option but unless he has bad deformities before, most women would get the ick by it . Also women getting surgery is far more normalized. I’m not advocating for either to get surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:49 AM
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I agree with you. Even if you don’t become a “Chad” you should still put in effort to increase your chances,but most men don’t put in effort , you would think that they would be putting in effort to make a decent amount of money if they’re not putting it in their appearance. But a lot of men are not even doing that . What I was saying is that there’s a low upper limit to how attractive a man can become even if they put in effort and women usually overestimate it .. like when you say most would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:37 AM
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Truly is .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:53 AM
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The upper barrier is much lower for men though. You can do hair, beard and clothing style, that could boost you up maybe 1,2 points, 3 if you're lucky . But that's it. It's nowhere as effective as wigs, extensions, make up, push up bra's, bbl's, breast implants, yoga pants techniques etc etc. In fact if a woman is not overly Obese wearing revealing clothing could boost attraction up pretty quickly. Things like height and facial structure can't be faked and that could make a guy go from a 5 to a …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:52 AM
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The guys on Tv are usually already attractive. Also women won't respond well to men that wear make up. I know "Not all" but majority will be turned off. I know you know this already though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:17 AM
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you're comparing relationship dynamics with men wearing make-up? Wow I've seen it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:14 AM
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those guys are already attractive, also when you say plenty of guys online are you referring to actors in a movie? Regular content creators are not wearing makeup, unless they are gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:10 AM
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she knows this, she just wants to be contrarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:09 AM
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What I was saying is that men don’t really care about it when picking gf/wife. Why ? Because they know they’re probably going to pay most of the expenses in the relationship anyway and for men looks and personality are waaay more important. Like a woman’s job doesn’t make the women more or less attractive for men . Where for a lot of women what the guy does for work is an important selection criteria. (unless she does OF ,Porn and for some men nurses) That could turn some men off. Now in a relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:57 AM
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lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:26 AM
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It depends. If you wife is a porn start ? Or a nurse( fidelity) , maybe a doctor. Then yes it matters. For most men a career does not increase attraction or make them want to be with you . Although yes there’s some turn offs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:45 AM
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lol they’re looks match doesn’t want to date them . Women usually overestimate their value and go for men who are more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:00 AM
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I agree with everything except “In fact, there are so many mid men who attract amazing women that I am stunned by the claims here that women are increasingly selective.” No there are not so many ,that phenomena is very rare . If you think they’re mid in the looks they most likely have a lot of money , or you’re just overestimating the value of the woman. There’s also another angle where she is “amazing” but she’s just in it due to the power dynamics. All in all it’s very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:51 AM
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Well most men do understand socioeconomic status does influence dating dynamics. That’s why you either have men complaining about needing to much money to date or you have men wanting to make a lot of it so they could have the pick of the litter . Men are also aware of the phenomenon of women not dating down. So you were talking about men explicitly telling women “ I don’t care “ in a conversation ? Yeah no man I know does that and they shouldn’t do that. It’s just that from what I’ve seen most …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:07 AM
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Yes men are not a monolith some men do care. Higher valued men are also not a monolith some do ,some don’t. What I’m saying is that for most men that is not a criteria for selection. Sure they should show interest and be curious about what you do . But it’s not inportant for most men . I would not be offended if a woman said “ Your career doesn’t really matter to me , I only care about how good your personality is and that I’m really attracted to you .” I guess we just take things differently. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:52 AM
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Yes they could be supportive and interested. But it still won't be the reason why they're with you. It's not an important factor for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:12 AM
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? They're saying that they don't care in the context that it's not the reason they pick you. Men usually choose women based on attractiveness and personality. You can't choose what the opposite gender finds attractive. Also what do you mean why are they there? You don't need to care deeply about another person's career to be in a relationship. Men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:03 AM
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Impressive way to misrepresent what men truly mean. no. Most men don't care about your career when it comes to choosing a partner. They just care about looks and personality. Would they take interests in what you do ? yes. Would they care about if you like it? yes. but it's not a deciding factor in relationships ,because most men are assuming that they will be expected to pay for all the financial responsibilities anyway so what use is having a carrer be a deciding factor? Unless you're a nurse(…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:58 AM
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Yes more and more men are doing just that. They just have to get over "If you really loved me you won't ask for a prenup" or " Why do you think the marriage is going to fail"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:48 AM

2009 dating apps and mentality of women are different from the 2025 ones. Also I see people use 80/20 rule to explain that is who women truly want and fantasize about. the 20% being Tall, well groomed ,rich ,confident and assertive. I'm sure you know this tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:17 AM

wow good thing I read the whole thing ,you blue pill guys are something else. "As you can see from the gray line, women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium. Very harsh. On the other hand, when it comes to actual messaging, women shift their expectations only just slightly ahead of the curve, which is a healthier pattern than guys’ pursuing the all-but-unattainable. But with the basic ratings so out-of-whack, the two curves together suggest some strange possibilities for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:14 AM

I see what you're saying. But in general ,a Tall ,rich, well groomed, confident and asseritve man, will be attractive to most women. Especially if he's rich and in good physical health. That's why most men work on being fit and getting in shape ans they actually see very positive result. I've even see men in real life and social media go through that transformation with my very own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:37 AM

I'm the one saying that. When women say personality trait they usually mean a "nice person" That guy could have what he described above and still be a bad person. But it would not matter ,women will still be attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:03 AM
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These women are purposefully misunderstanding g what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:24 PM
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There are men that say it to denigrate women or lower their self esteem. But most men I see saying it ,say it as a matter of fact. They also usually say it when women say that their degree makes them more attractive or valuable, men usually answer with “ well men don’t care about that .” I don’t know why that would lower women’s self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:16 PM
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“I’d love to stand out in the dating market based on my merit.” Unfortunately you don’t get to choose what the opposite gender is attracted to. It’s unfair that only men get to benefit from? Lol most men wish they weren’t picked based on their career. Only a few men truly benefit from it . In fact most men wish that their career wasn’t a deciding factor. But then again you don’t get to choose the criteria of attraction of the opposite gender . Wealthy educated men would most likely marry beautif…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:11 PM
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It’s not lazy , it’s just not something that attracts them . Women are not entitled to attraction based on their selected criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:02 PM
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First of all , everything you were told growing up was a lie. Except for people not taking your accomplishments seriously. After all a “real man , a secure man” you don’t know what a real man is. “You see those power pulled and you want to be like them” That’s your own desire . “Your circles should have more and more intelligennt and educated professionals as you move il..it should make it easier to find your match” Yes you’re right, if you’re in close proximity to them you’re highly likely to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:01 PM
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No it’s “ I don’t really care about what you do for work , just have a good personality and don’t be ugky .” How is that not appealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:39 PM
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All you women in this thread are wrong , they care about divorce laws ,just not as strongly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:18 PM
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I never said women are not allowed to avoid men . I just said the reasoning is often the same reasoning that racist use. “ If men are lonely ,because women are avoiding them and choosing to stay single, the so be it “ I’m assuming you’re talking about the male loneliness epidemic? Well it’s a myth.Yes there are men that are lonely, but it’s not as much as social media thinks ,said loneliness doesn’t have to do with women ,it has to do with friends and third spaces.Also I feel like you underestim…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:00 PM
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Ye , but the thing is , It’s much cooler to you(minority opinion) but to most women being with a Chad is what they want and most men want to be the Chad . Would it leave a lot of people left out ? Yes . Would it be more beneficial to just chill and be yourself? Yes . But most people are shallow and they won’t do that . Hence why I disagreed with the “women date their gay best friend” thing. But I do agree with embracing being weirdo’s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 12:57 PM
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Problem is (for my genZ) a lot of men want to be Chads ( going for a specific type of women ,fantasizing)and a lot of women think they’re Becky’s (think they’re better than they are) of course everyone’s not the same , but this is the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 12:32 PM
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You’d be surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:27 AM
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It’s not bitterness it’s observation of reality.It’s like when men say they won’t sleep with women who wear revealing clothes. It’s just something men say to not sound shallow. Everyone could see the reality that if a man says that he’s most likely lying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:14 AM
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Would date their gay best friend? If I was a betting man , I would bet that they’re just saying that to boost their self image of not being shallow. They’re cap
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:06 AM
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Wrong person I replied to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:44 AM
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We’ve had vastly different life experiences then. I’ve seen women make fun of men they didn’t like .Frequently, but I think it’s maybe a generational difference as you’re a millennial
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:42 AM

What matters is subjective, saying “men can do better” just left me curious to what you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:03 AM
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too much cap, women think about men a lot ,whether it's for romance or safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:58 AM

1.Looks(no makeup,plastic surgery) 2.income 3.Intelligence. Of course humans are not a monolith and there’s differences between the genders. But from what I’ve observed men and women are equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:54 AM

when you say "men can do better" what do you mean? The average man and the average woman are equivalant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:33 AM
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wow, this is an amazing way of misrepresenting an argument. 1.I've never seen a man say women does not have the right to avoid men, if they do (don't think they do) then they're wrong. so you using "Women's right to avoid men" is very...wow. 2. If a man has ever equated it to Institutionalized racism then he's wrong. They usually say that the generalizations women put on men as a reason of avoiding them is equivalent to a racist mentality. You have prejudice against a certain group " A preconcei…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:26 AM
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I agree with the guys on "waiting at the finish line" is unfair. I also agree with you that a man who doesn't want to be a parent should get a permanent restraining order for it to be fair. The thing is we live in real life so things will never be fair, nobody truly cares about fairness unless it benefits them, women think they do, but they don't. The men on this topic obviously do not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:49 AM
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I have no hatred, nor do I view them as the enemy ,I just felt I needed to let out my thoughts and I was curious if there was other people that noticed what I noticed.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 08:32 AM
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Damn my reply low key hard to read 😂
/r/MensRights23/11/25 08:23 AM
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I’m genuinely responding to your points.First I will start with the Definition of Misandry:Hatred,dislike of,contempt for ,or ingrained prejudice against men (i.e the male sex) Definition of Prejudice: 1. Preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience. 2.dislike,hostility or unjust behaviour deriving from unfounded opinions. My point in the original post was that misandry has real life consequences, Women often ignore it by denying the real life consequences. Society (Soci…
/r/MensRights23/11/25 08:23 AM
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It makes sense. Although misandry is not a driving force behind laws men are more likely to receive longer sentences on average. While women are more likely to avoid incarceration when eligible for alternatives. Judges usually cite “family responsibility “ as some bs reason. When it comes to domestic violence the male is more likely to be arrested ,even when the situation is mutual. When it comes to sexual assault cases ,Women perpetrators are less likely to be charged or receive shorter sentenc…
/r/MensRights23/11/25 02:42 AM
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