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| 1094 | We need a sub called "Am I With An Asshole". | FDS RESCUE MISSION | SigourneyReaver | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 01:00 AM |
| 77 | Reading MDS as a woman over 40: LMFAO | SCROTES MAD | SigourneyReaver | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 06:22 PM |
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| -1 | Peak stupidity. Amy Coney Barrett is a woman, and Clarence Thomas is black. Roe v. Wade being overturned cannot be the fault of "old white men."Nobody was talking about the original ruling, Einstein. I was stating that the majority of justices of the recent ruling were old white men. 3 out of 5. I mean, since youre in MRA, I understand that logic and cognition aren't your strong suits. Welll, if you had any strong suits you wouldn't be in MRA, complaining that the world owes you because your foreskin got stolen as a baby. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 05:10 PM |
| -1 | Peak stupidity. Amy Coney Barrett is a woman, and Clarence Thomas is black. Roe v. Wade being overturned cannot be the fault of "old white men."That makes zero sense, unless you're just claiming that in order for women to benefit, only white men should be in power. Maybe we should remove all men from power, using your logic. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 01:53 AM |
| -4 | Peak stupidity. Amy Coney Barrett is a woman, and Clarence Thomas is black. Roe v. Wade being overturned cannot be the fault of "old white men."That is correct. In 1973, there were zero women on the Supreme Court. What exactly is the point you're trying to make, lol? That it must not have been an issue of sexism if all the white men in the ruling committee decide to rule in favor of women? r/SelfAwarewolves content, right there. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 04:37 PM |
| -5 | Peak stupidity. Amy Coney Barrett is a woman, and Clarence Thomas is black. Roe v. Wade being overturned cannot be the fault of "old white men."I'm pointing out that the majority of justices who struck down the decision were still old white men, obviously. Isn't that the point of the original meme? Alito, Kavanaugh, and Gorusch are white men, right? 1, 2, 3? You can count to three, right? Three white men? | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 04:20 PM |
| -4 | Peak stupidity. Amy Coney Barrett is a woman, and Clarence Thomas is black. Roe v. Wade being overturned cannot be the fault of "old white men."Who were the other three justices? Oh yeah...old white guys | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 02:09 PM |
| 0 | How are people not seeing this as blatant sexism?That's what I'm saying. There's a lot of components to the procedure that are necessary, but not covered monetarily by insurance, much less any sort of compensation for other people. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 01:00 PM |
| 5 | How are people not seeing this as blatant sexism?It should be just "parental leave." | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 12:54 PM |
| 0 | Roe vs Wade has been Overturned; If we truly believe in Human Rights, we must support a Women’s Right to ChooseWhy would people be entitled to infringe on others rights just from having individual rights? And if that's the case, then why have ANY individual rights? | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 04:51 AM |
| 0 | Roe vs Wade has been Overturned; If we truly believe in Human Rights, we must support a Women’s Right to ChooseWhat's extreme? Do you not agree that pregnancy takes 9 months and is physically challenging? Do you not agree that childbirth takes many hours and is physically damaging to genitalia? Your wife being "agreeable" reflects nothing about her physical comfort nor the pain she experienced in childbirth, right? Isn't it just as reasonable, then, to assume that if babies who experience circumcision and get over it and are subsequently happy babies, then that means the procedure is actually no big deal… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 04:48 AM |
| -1 | Roe vs Wade has been Overturned; If we truly believe in Human Rights, we must support a Women’s Right to ChooseDon't you think that making a woman endure nine months of genital mutilation, which also affects the entire rest of her body, against her will is demonstrably more severe than making a baby endure seconds of it during a minor elective procedure? If those few seconds are enough to give a baby "lifelong PTSD," what do you think nine months and a dozen or two hours of labor does in the PTSD department for a woman being forced to endure it? If you think genital mutilation is bad,why don't you think … | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 04:18 AM |
| 5 | How are people not seeing this as blatant sexism?Exactly, which is fucked up enough just in itself in so many ways, because the one support person a new Mom has after pushing a watermelon out her junk is, most likely, the Dad. But nope, she's supposed to suck it up from 9-5 so he can file his TPS reports. That said...employee healthcare is, inarguably, individual healthcare first, a part of wage compensation. You have to have a legally recognized partnership to be on someone else's healthcare plan. I can’t think of any insurance that isn't sho… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 04:00 AM |
| 7 | How are people not seeing this as blatant sexism?If you are not on your girlfriend's healthcare plan, or an employee of Dick's, why would you be covered? You're literally not covered tangentially for anything else on someone else's healthcare plan. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 03:49 AM |
| 10 | How are people not seeing this as blatant sexism?It's healthcare, not a vacation. Are you similarly mad about maternity or paternity leave because you may not have kids yourself? | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 03:47 AM |
| -1 | Roe vs Wade has been Overturned; If we truly believe in Human Rights, we must support a Women’s Right to ChooseNo, literally never heard. Is that the one doctor in the entire country who performed illegal abortions at his illegal clinic and was prosecuted for several murders? Deemed an actual serial killer? That guy? There have been several serial killer/maimer doctors, but there's no reason to criminalize the procedure itself. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Roe vs Wade has been Overturned; If we truly believe in Human Rights, we must support a Women’s Right to ChooseAren't individual rights the logically smallest scale? Also, it doesn't matter if people "think slavery is bad" if a) it is legal and b) people are being enslaved. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 03:33 AM |
| -1 | Roe vs Wade has been Overturned; If we truly believe in Human Rights, we must support a Women’s Right to ChooseYou know abortion has zero resemblance to your little Stephen King fantasy, right. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: Do men have a moral obligation to physically protect women in dangerous situations?Oh, don't worry. Women are mostly killed by men even in these current times, as well. Feminism hasn't made that much of a dent in that statistic. So your delusions of chivalry, historical or otherwise, are misplaced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 04:35 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)Or you get off your ass, spider killer. If housework is so EaSy, do your share. Again. Women work too. We manage households on top of that. Your job is not an excuse to do only it. You aren't a teenager with a paper route. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 07:39 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)You mean a partnership where your big boy job and the occasional spider death somehow earns you a lifetime of free cooking and housecleaning, but you'd likely have a wife who earns as much or even more than you, but you stick her with everything else? Sure, bud. Please look back at your own post history and the bubble wrap still on your dick after 4 decades, and tell the rest of us how you have relationships all figured out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 07:33 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)Basically nobody, until the wife finally hires it out. Today's men don't know how to fix anything. Same with spiders. Like seriously, you think someone should do your laundry all week, every week, because you killed a spider? Grow up. You sound pre-adolescent. Seriously, ARE you 12? Does your mom let you skip chores and sit on your ass all day because once, you killed a spider? I bet not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 07:19 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)Says the gender whose only positive trait is working outside the home. Because just like all other work around the house, if you can't pitch in to help your wife, what fucking good are ya? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 03:02 PM |
| -1 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)And now you know what it's like for women when you do nothing. It's a god damn job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 03:32 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)Sigh. There's a big difference between "having desire" and "being wet enough for penetration to happen." MMMKAAAY?? And yes. Men ARE in fact supposed to delay penetration until women are sufficently aroused. IS THAT SO HARD TO UNDERSTAND? Figure out how to be remotely fuckable, men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 03:30 AM |
| 1 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?Mmmmhmmmm, is it snowing in April? I definitely see flakes. What a predictable weather pattern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 08:09 AM |
| 1 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?I'm not talking about a single parent, no. I'm talking about the average amount of time it takes to shop, cook, and clean up after yourself. I invite you to do your own research. I have no interest in spoon-feeding data to someone who has yet to recognize the basics of gender roles as they pertain to uncompensated labor. But you can google work productivity and women to get a good start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 07:18 PM |
| 1 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?Well, I'm sure some eternal bachelors subscribe to Pottery Barn. But we're talking about upper level positions requiring the achievement of a certain level of status, and being a lonely only dude in a shitty apartment doesn't demonstrate that, and a guy with a wife making his dinner and arranging the lawncare and picking up his drycleaning does. It's the implication of benefiting from the arrangement of household labor. It is literally why so many "traditional values" type proponents expect a wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?Look, you're talking about labor that has been vastly documented and quantified. But basically you're talking about a couple hours a day, plus weekends if you are managing a single family home. Those nights and weekends are considered an impediment to the capability for maintaining a high-level position. This is exactly the reason why women are rarely promoted to those positions. Again: this is a documented issue. Ever hear or read someone make the demeaning comment, "get in the kitchen and make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 06:20 PM |
| 2 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?That's because eternal bachelors have to manage their own home life, whereas with a married man, the implication is that his home life is managed for him. Basically, from a house labor perspective, it's like looking at a man who can afford servants and a man who can't. The first man can focus all his energy on work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Here is the OkCupid DataIt still doesn't make sense if those same guys are complaining that they never have luck on dating apps, when the reality is that they are only targeting women who would never need to date a loser like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Here is the OkCupid DataThe blog literally said they are solely going for top tier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 08:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are improving in certain fields, but also getting worse in othersNow kith | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 08:01 AM |
| 2 | What *should* men/women's standards be? If you criticize them for having unreasonable standards, what should these standards be then?LOL. And what do you think the 5% of men demonstrate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 07:21 AM |
| 7 | What *should* men/women's standards be? If you criticize them for having unreasonable standards, what should these standards be then?Men should probably start showing some intellect and character instead of arrogance and criminality, in that case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 07:09 AM |
| 1 | is the pandemic making men on dating apps more sexually aggressive?They're not Chads, they're just thirsty assholes who think they get to act like predators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 07:01 AM |
| 23 | Do: disregard the opinions of men Don't: put a drill near your lady partsSo they don't know how drills work either. Got it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 09:12 PM |
| 7 | never ceases to amaze what men will demandJulia Gulia | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 09:04 PM |
| 3 | never ceases to amaze what men will demandYou win | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 09:04 PM |
| 9 | never ceases to amaze what men will demandYeah. Cute is borrowing your concealer to "cover a zit" and then you notice he's using it for his undereye circles too. WTF is so cute about wanting you to put his last name on your dissertation??? Imagine this same guy's reaction if she told him that he has to change his last name professionally to hyphenate with hers before he applies for his next promotion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 09:01 PM |
| 6 | Saw this on FB today...I won’t be that woman again 🤦♀️Let me guess, he favors a certain impressionist painter. That guy must be absolutely desperate for attention because he DMed me too. He tried to claim that my way of thinking is the same as his. Before I blocked him, I pointed out that one major difference between me and him is that he's DMing random people on FDS demanding their attention, whereas I don't give a flying fuck what MRAs think or that they exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Typical male feministWho says anyone was comparing? But it's not uncommon for an ex to come up in reference on occasion. After a certain point (like age 24) it gets pretty ridiculous to expect people to never, ever bring up an experience they had with an ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 10:06 PM |
| 99 | Imagine speaking that badly of women and not even reaching 6ft.Crayon eater with 86 IQ and no civilian job prospects berates the future women he'll be living off of while he takes his PTSD out on them... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 03:10 PM |
| 32 | Winner of the r/amitheasshole LVMsWhat lifestyle? She sounds like she barely has shoes while he drives a corvette. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 02:13 PM |
| 22 | Typical male feministThey're about 5'11" with the chip on their shoulder, which you'll discover once you try to wear heels, have a better job or mention past boyfriends taller than they are... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 08:50 PM |
| 10 | Reminder: men/women who are willing to meet while in this pandemic are TRASH. -not my convo-Welcome to Reddit, home of the radicalized alt-righty who's been too busy sucking up every meme that Pepe elected Trump to turn women back into submissive pornbots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 04:19 PM |
| 0 | Men over 50 who have never marriedHe was never married because he was grieving for 20 years? Sounds like a basket case. Or he had "high standards"? So glad he would be willing to date someone like me now as opposed to back when he had high standards! /s Ordained? Now we're really reaching. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 03:00 PM |
| 21 | Men over 50 who have never marriedTake it from a rare vintage lady like myself: Once you're 45-55, you may very well be at the top of your career game, after which there's a good chance it starts winding down title- and pay-wise. That is the point where you start sitting on your money and your 401(k) like Smaug the dragon. The last thing you want to do ever is let some guy get comfy enough to plan on sucking off your retirement fund in another 20 years or so when every single penny counts. Look at a guy who is 50 and tell yourse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 12:44 AM |
| 3 | Men over 50 who have never marriedIf the women's strategy is to never marry until she meets a compatible HVM -- however long that takes -- you can't judge a 50 yr old man for not marrying. Yes you can. It means he's not HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Men over 50 who have never marriedAt this stage in your life, you may very well be in a position where you can float your own boat and don't need to form a legal/cohabitating partnership in order to maintain your desired lifestyle. Seek men for companionship but focus on putting yourself first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 12:27 AM |
| 19 | Men over 50 who have never marriedThat'd be a big no from me, dawg. As someone in the same age bracket, I know for absolutely certain that there are enough nice men in the world that I don't need to play Captain Save-a-Hobo with a guy who lost his shirt in a bad business deal or divorce, or never moved out of mom's house. Those reasons might sound slightly more "noble" than straight up Peter Pan Syndrome, but the result is the same- a guy looking for a nurse or a purse. It's not my job as a woman to take on a fixer-upper. EVER. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 12:26 AM |
| 37 | The objectively least terrible person in Tiger King is receiving death threats and being surveilled by insane scrotes trying to prove she murdered her husband.Sounds like a woman who's gonna need more sardine oil... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 12:04 AM |
| 144 | He expects her to remember his mother’s birthday for himLOL. "That's totally different! That's a date important to ME, not important to someone else!" Said Selfish von Selfcenteredstein. MIL should have raised a guy who cared. Hopefully OP stays strong against that tide of idiocy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 11:47 PM |
| 5 | Dump Him.Yes. And if he won't, then spit it in his face because you're not his dog. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 11:25 PM |
| 7 | Dump Him."Disrespectful." You're not his subordinate. If I heard that, the next thing that guy would feel was my incisors. Tell him that if he doesn't feel like it's a big enough issue to break up over, it is not an issue to bring up ever again. And that he can get respect when he starts showing it to you himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 11:20 PM |
| 14 | how should i end a long-term relationship with an extremely lvm?Learn how to drive so you can go in July. Or sell that car. He's a substance abuser. He may OD or not but that is his doing, not yours. Don't let him hold you hostage with his substance abuse. There is no "audience watching at home" or out in the world judging your performance as a good girlfriend. And even if there was, they would wonder why a nice person like you is doing with a scumbag who will only bring you down. Even if you have to rehome a dog, it is better than all of you staying in a te… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 11:14 PM |
| 9 | What Do Women Want Out of a Relationship?Reciprocity. I make my own money. I want someone who cooks for me when I cook for them, who cleans up after themselves and does the chores without my having to go through inordinate negotiating for fair and equitable divisiom. Who "sees" the things that need to be done the way I see them. I want someone who brings strengths to the relationship that I can also benefit from. Not just weaknesses to siphon off of my strengths and generosity, or laziness to add to my burdens. Not just "potential" tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:49 PM |
| 24 | This sub is turning into a LVM hall of fameLow Value Mondays | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:42 PM |
| 17 | I hAVe tO TeSt DriVe yOU fIRsTExcept they would actually pay to eat a pizza. Men try to date women like they want the pizza to order itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:38 PM |
| 44 | "mEn dOn'T hAvE a WaLL"More like trying to be promiscuous, and getting mad at women for having standards that excluded him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:31 PM |
| 14 | After my divorce, idk what to do with myself...Go ahead and find a therapist. Think of it as a way to reset your thinking from being validated (or not) by your relationship with this person. It'll help fill the hole with your own well-being instead of tempting you to fill it with someone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Can I get the biggest NAH, SIS that's ever been and will be from the big bang until the heat death of the universeWe haven't had enough millennia of free labor. Time to cough up some more! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 08:06 PM |
| 13 | Woww so appealing :$He probably works there. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 07:59 PM |
| 9 | TruthSome guy on a Facebook Craigslist group posted an ad to "find someone to Netflix and Chill for the pandemic." Like could this dude have made a lower value effort? Maybe if he wrote "someone suck my dick --> PS bring pizza" in front of his house in sidewalk chalk, maybe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 07:04 PM |
| 7 | For those men who are 35+ and say ‘i’M nOt lOoKiNG 4 aNYtHINg sERIoUS’ my dude you’re half way to being elderly lmao like get it together Michael. Stop deluding yourselves into thinking you’re a spring chicken, you’re not!Costanzas who think they're Clooneys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 07:01 PM |
| 18 | Male dating strategy is a "numbers game" where he approaches as many women as possible. Female dating strategy is about selectivity, where she rejects most of the men who approach her.Men treat dating like grocery shopping. They want a huge pile of apples and oranges so they can take as many as they like. They just get offended that women see themselves as fellow shoppers, not as the apples and oranges. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:13 PM |
| 15 | The internalized misogyny in rpw is realDing ding ding. He doesn't want to "captain the ship," he wants free maid service with no reciprocity. And really, he's "unhappy" he's not getting it? Who isn't unhappy that their free maid service hasn't manifested? I know I am. RPW who lurk here should ask themselves, what exact tangible benefits am I getting for this arrangement? Because the OP is realizing haha, there aren't any. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:05 PM |
| 11 | ME: This is the greatest song of the 90s ALSO ME: It's a Pick Me anthem ME: :-OHaha, yeah, even in the 90s I was like, this Tracy Chapman song is NOT about another guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:01 PM |
| 41 | Never going to date a broke man ever again.Exactly. The hallmark of an LVM is calling you a gold digger for expecting them to contribute on their own behalf. "All you care about is money" is their mantra when you call them out on not contributing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 07:32 PM |
| 42 | I’m learning faster and faster to cut these loser clown idiots off at the pass. My dreams don’t die the second I meet some dude. 🙄Block at "do my taxes." Fuck that guy and his admin work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 07:37 PM |
| 60 | BDSM normalization. PickMe normalization. All of it bullshit.Or a paper clip, because that lock isn't exactly Iron Mountain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 07:35 PM |
| 52 | Girl calls a guy out and he makes her feel bad about it...Schrodinger's douchebag. He was totally joking!! Didn't you get his joke?! Ha ha ha ha ha ha Unless you'd said yes. Married 40 year olds are only comedians when they get shut down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 07:33 PM |
| 28 | It’s hilarious how men think we are broke because we expect them to pay $50 for date when we spend $500 at Sephora and they make such an issue over $50 😂😂😂Everyone should be polite and respectful. Aim higher. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 03:01 AM |
| 5 | Ending things with a HVMThere isn't something wrong with you just because a great guy on paper doesn't row your boat. It doesn't mean you crave toxic relationships. It means that being great on paper doesn't make up for a fundamental lack of chemistry. You have to cut him loose so you don't treat him poorly and ruin him for the next person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 11:23 PM |
| 6 | What do you think about have a secret bank account? Husband finds wife’s secret savings account (in case the marriage goes south) and feels betrayed. I’m leaning towards thinking this is fine but I want your takes on this!If your account has to be "secret," you've already majorly fucked up your life by picking someone with whom you need subterfuge to retain any autonomy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 11:16 PM |
| 42 | It’s hilarious how men think we are broke because we expect them to pay $50 for date when we spend $500 at Sephora and they make such an issue over $50 😂😂😂Ha! Yeah, I make a 6 figure salary myself. I can afford a nice meal, so you should also. I'm not looking for a rent boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 11:11 PM |
| 11 | "You ain't a prize"If an LVM treated pizza guys like they treat women, they would be all over r/Dominos and r/PapaJohns, foaming at the mouth because pizza delivery drivers aren't just handing out free pizzas to everyone, since hunger is a biological instinct. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 12:22 AM |
| 12 | The gf proposed to him and now he is encouraging other women to do the same insteadBetween the LARPers and the rape story masturbators, sometimes I wonder if anyone on TwoX is an actual woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 10:12 PM |
| 36 | The gf proposed to him and now he is encouraging other women to do the same insteadReddit dwellers have fetishized the concept of mommygirlfriend who does everything so he never, ever has to worry about having to put on his big boy pants and do scary stuff like talking to girls, grooming himself to be attractive, or working on his career. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 10:09 PM |
| 6 | Is im sorry the new ghosting?"I'm sorry" isn't the new ghosting. It's the old rug-sweeping. LvMs love their crocodile tear-filled apologies because they think it's a reset button for tolerating their shitty behavior. Rule of thumb: if a guy does something shitty and apologizes for it, refrains from doing it for 2 weeks, then goes back to the same behavior after he thinks you've "calmed down"? And this pattern happens more than 3 times? He's just a shitty guy and a serial apologizer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 09:55 PM |
| 25 | Another night on OKCupid.....Whiplash is an injury to your neck from the inertia caused by a swift and violent change in direction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 06:39 PM |
| 38 | "You ain't a prize"LVM free pussy seekers will always be mortally offended when someone values themselves. It's like, if I were an actual hooker you'd have to cough up a lot more than the price of a cup of coffee and a bagel, so get the fuck over yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 04:31 PM |
| 31 | OooooofI'd say making Black History Month in February is right up there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 04:19 PM |
| 39 | Don’t send long paragraphs explaining how you feel to men who don’t careYeah, I would also add that whenever you run into some MRA Gamergate dipshit on Reddit who's posting some inflammatory misogynistic bullshit with the excuse that he "needs to hear your argument to change his mind"....just don't. Tell him he can google his own homework assignment and educate himself. I've unsubscribed from a lot of female-oriented subreddits because they're always over-catering to these bad faith-posting asswipes. And then they moderate those of us who point out that they're full… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 11:40 PM |
| 7 | Refusing to have sex in a relationshipIt's not that. It's like, we have a word for relationships with no sex. They're called friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 06:45 PM |
| 11 | The 10 Stages of Giving Up on OLD.. I'm currently at stage 9 - withdrawal and FOMO - but I'm sticking to it! Anyone got any stages to add?Additional steps: 2.5 You realize only 1/50 you're swiping past is remotely cute 4.5 Feeling validated from thirsty matches and super-likes lasts about 10 minutes and then you feel a bit like a piece of meat 5.5 Meat feeling intensifies when dudes hit you up to come over immediately with significantly less charisma and incentive than they probably spend convincing a woman on Craigslist who requires 300 roses for her visit 6.25 unicorn hot dude turns out to be catfishing incel who berates you for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 02:21 AM |
| 11 | dating in your 30s, 40s - double edged sword? is it something that have both favorable and unfavorable consequences?You never run out of dating opportunities unless you turn into a complete bridge troll. You run out of patience for building men. Because by then you will have likely built yourself, and realized what a futile prospect it is to build a man who isn't self-motivated enough to build himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 01:42 AM |
| 12 | Is there such a thing as a male pick-me?Well, there is plenty of anecdotal evidence of men who self-report a love for oral and amazing skill at it, but little documented evidence or published studies to support that claim. See also: anecdotal evidence of men who love to cook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 01:25 AM |
| 41 | This feels like it carries LVM energy but I’m not sure. 90% of me feels like I should cut him off because he wants me to act exclusive after three dates but taking no initiative to make that choice himself. Thoughts?Lolol. "Babysitting the cat every other day?" It's a cat. They don't need babysitting. Girl he lives there. With his girlfriend. His "I need to know you're attracted to me because one time boo hoo" spiel is him trying to dare you to let him into your pants. "Exclusive" after 3 days? So you two can be "serious" enough to bang? Byyyyeeee Guy. Send those texts to his cat's IG so she can know about the other pussy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 01:15 AM |
| 42 | Worst AITA I've read to dateThat was exactly my suggestion too. I doubt the prenup says "must pay half the rent no matter what". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 12:58 AM |
| 4 | Lmao, I’m 19."George Clooney did and he has a penis...I also have one therefore I am also like George Clooney" - every bald/fat guy using 10 year old pics so you get to know him for his personality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Anyone out there who actually wants to be a SAHW/SAHM? How to make this possible without being taken advantage of?You can't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 05:57 AM |
| 11 | From #Datinghell: 'The misleading millionaire'So the guy simultaneously wants her to fall all over him for his "millions" and go eat the free hamburger at Red Robin??Splenda daddy alert... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Role-Reversal: Don't Do ItThe hardest part is setting it within yourself. You have to approach situations rationally. Figure out your boundaries and establish points at which you won't tolerate one-sided behavior. I think that's part of the hard work because many codependents have poor boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 01:50 AM |
| 6 | Role-Reversal: Don't Do ItI have a loooot of insight on this topic, thanks to a long relationship that suffered and ended due to a similar dynamic. Thanks to a kinda crappy childhood with self-involved parents who were very intermittent in their demonstration of love, I have perfectionist behaviors and a strong drive to be independent and self-sufficient, which on the good side, made me relatively quite successful as a woman. I have a great job and do very well financially. But thanks to the abandonment/self-esteem issue… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 01:07 AM |
| 19 | How I picture men who expect their wives and girlfriends to be their bangmaid mommies.It must suck to peak at 9 months | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 07:55 PM |
| 8 | Do highly accomplished women have trouble finding a life partner?Please read the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 05:46 AM |
| 7 | What do you do when you’re already doing everything right?Obsessing can be a bad negative feedback loop. Sometimes the best solution is to consciously redirect your thoughts so it doesn't feed into itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 05:42 AM |
| 28 | End Result of Pick Me Behavior: Paulina Porizkova got with Ric Ocasek when she was an 18 year old supermodel and he was 40 and married; 30 years of marriage later he cuts her out of his will and leaves her with nothingAs she was literally his caregiver | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 02:08 PM |
| 26 | Fuck. We’ve been found out. Ladies, we need to restrategize ASAP! They’re onto us.capture and harvest our souls capture and harvest our souls CAPTURE AND HARVEST OUR SOULS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 01:44 AM |
| 7 | I guess another thing young women need to worry about now is angry short men infiltrating work spaces and intentionally trying to sabotage their careers because they can’t fuck or grow a couple inches.This guy probably wrote his "careermaxx cope" on his work computer. Guess how they're going to find out about your "subtle" plan, Kevin! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 01:32 AM |
| 3 | I guess another thing young women need to worry about now is angry short men infiltrating work spaces and intentionally trying to sabotage their careers because they can’t fuck or grow a couple inches.I'm not sure that building a shrine to Chad in your house is gay per se if you don't actually want to bone them. Just pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 12:46 AM |
| 7 | I guess another thing young women need to worry about now is angry short men infiltrating work spaces and intentionally trying to sabotage their careers because they can’t fuck or grow a couple inches.LMAO. Peon ascends to lead peon and he thinks he's "careermaxxed". Soon he'll be on fries! Somehow I think all the "roasties" he impedes will quickly re-discover their career progress once they quit their call center job and get real jobs. Meanwhile there he'll sit for years, lording over the bottom rung from the second-bottom rung. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 12:35 AM |
| 18 | The real reason why LVM want to go Dutch and why they prefer drink dates over meal dates.Coffee should be at best a preamble to a real date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Confused (but not falling for it?)Well, to quote the immortal Kenny Rogers: You got to know when to hold'em Know when to fold'em Know when to walk away And know when to run | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 05:35 AM |
| 21 | Reading MDS as a woman over 40: LMFAOMale dating strategy, where all the wannabe pussy hounds mortally offended at the things we post try and HiGhLiGhT ThE HyPoCrIsY by reposting submissions with the genders reversed or double down on PUA myths like we're all drooling over alpha Chad our entire lives and desperate for companionship after we hit the wall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Confused (but not falling for it?)Crushes suck, because we're willing to read the tea leaves so hard we'll believe anything. BUT, either way you deserve a guy who is way more into you than a passing phrase on IG. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 12:12 AM |
| 26 | I’m sure many of you have seen this already but HOW ARE THERE WOMEN STILL ASKING THIS QUESTIONThe best part is that they think that the girl might not be good enough in bed to be worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 11:17 PM |
| 19 | I’m sure many of you have seen this already but HOW ARE THERE WOMEN STILL ASKING THIS QUESTIONYour vagina is not a gay wedding cake. You're not required by law to provide it to just anyone who wants it. Especially with the laughable "YoU ShOuLd TrUsT Me" line. Oh, you should trust the guy who refuses to provide evidence that he's trustworthy? mkay. Let this guy and his sabertooth crotch crickets find another sucker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 11:10 PM |
| 12 | Confused (but not falling for it?)We live in different cities anyway He's been in my city once since then I don't even know how long he's been single It seems like hes hooking up with lots of girls he's never replied to my stories He's overseas with his band Which part of the above made you think you even have potential for a relationship? The part where he didn't act like a total dickbag after you hooked up? Wow, he was a decent human being. Must be wedding bells! Seriously, though...is there a reason, psychologically, that you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 11:01 PM |
| 8 | How does FDS rule on inexperienced men?Ugh, he is being a codependent "pick-he-sha." Surely nearly anyone else (or no one) is better than a jobless stoner hot mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 09:51 PM |
| 27 | Reading MDS as a woman over 40: LMFAOLOL, no doubt. They probably think that copypasta and switching genders is just as much work as writing it the first time, too. Can't even dis women without being set up to do it by women first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 09:41 PM |
| 6 | How do I respond to my friends blaming me for expecting the guy to pay?Exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 07:22 PM |
| 17 | How does FDS rule on inexperienced men?I think the idea that "a guy gets a high score out of the gate" is the basic underlying concept that needs to be dispelled across the board. If you can start a video game at 0 and enjoy figuring out how to play it, you can start the dating game at 0. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 07:00 PM |
| 26 | How does FDS rule on inexperienced men?Boys are not HVM. What exactly is of value in a person with no experience in socialization? If I have no credit history, I have a low credit score, not a high credit score. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 06:16 PM |
| 1 | How do I respond to my friends blaming me for expecting the guy to pay?The same can be argued for libfems who conflate actions that may be necessary to operate within a patriarchal construct with actions that perpetuate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 05:05 PM |
| 7 | How do I respond to my friends blaming me for expecting the guy to pay?Try not to be too hard on libfems. Women of the last couple generations have grown up with the mindset to be results-oriented, so too many women mistake their successes in parity with men to be "equality." Because they've also subliminally been trained to discount the EFFORT they have put forth to reach their goals. They also assume that men also had to put forth the same effort. It takes a long time to realize that the opposite is true - that it's much more likely that women have been busting t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 04:24 PM |
| 36 | How do I respond to my friends blaming me for expecting the guy to pay?Dude. In the first pages of "Valley of the Dolls," (FDS required reading, frankly) a book that was written in 1966 and describing a scene that takes place in the 1940s, the main character Anne was applying for a secretarial job and was speaking to a fellow secretary, who said "The fellows I know not only expect me to keep my job, but at the same time I should look like Carole Landis in a negligee while I whip up a few gourmet dishes." Sound familiar? So, the more things change, the more they sta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 04:12 PM |
| 12 | things to worry about instead of men?Your career. Read "Nice girls don't get the corner office" and learn how to negotiate your salary and take charge of your career trajectory! My friend and I have done this and I have legitimately doubled my salary in the last 5 years and she has TRIPLED hers. TRIPLED. 300%. if you're not willing to settle for scraps for your love you sure as fuck should not settle for scraps for your productivity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 03:50 PM |
| 65 | Man using his girlfriend as a literal sex doll; she’s worried about offending him for not wanting sex 6 TIMES AN EVENING. Ugh.I'm sure if hers is gifts or acts of service he's Santa Claus and she doesn't have to lift a finger. 6 presents a night! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 03:28 PM |
| 108 | How do I respond to my friends blaming me for expecting the guy to pay?In my 20s (in the 90s), women insisted on paying for themselves so LVMs couldn't expect them to put out afterwards. It was supposed to remove the "strings attached implication." Obviously it's no surprise that today's LVM has twisted that to the expectation that a woman pay for herself AND put out. Lmao. That doesn't make it right. LVMs are still looking for free booty. Don't fall for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 03:23 PM |
| 3 | I keep meeting LVM with no successful careers to the point where I’m considering trying a sugar daddy dating website.A reality show made Donald Trump seem shrewd and successful. Just saying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 01:18 AM |
| 61 | DON'T BE AVAILABLE! They absolutely love it. He basically asked me to meet this weekend but I have a huge deadline so I said no. (Idk what him being a future lawyer have to do with me being busy tho)It means he's trying to take credit for accomplishments he has yet to achieve. Next time just correct him to say, "so an undergrad?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 01:14 AM |
| 21 | He'll evEnTuaLLy fINd SoMeOne wHo will be available 24h7, also he's saying he's a busy man, he's a kindergarten teacher (I'm still waiting for him to block me lol)He does blocks for a living | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 12:50 AM |
| 3 | LVM be like..."Must dress sexy but not have skanky friends." Where am I supposed to get sexy outfits with my non-money if not for my skanky friends?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 12:48 AM |
| 13 | We need a sub called "Am I With An Asshole".People.could nominate posts like they do for bestof. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 04:47 AM |
| 23 | AITA post, I’m speechless.The guy who was like, "eh, I banged it together in an hour using stuff I had!" And then his next sentence is complaining she hates it and doesn't think it's the most amazing creation ever. Like does this guy still have drawings on his mom's fridge? It takes longer than an hour to cook a meal from scratch. Does he act like it's the best food he ever ate and will cherish it for life? Hmmmm... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 04:11 AM |
| 32 | We need a sub called "Am I With An Asshole".Those are the ones I was thinking of! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 03:16 AM |
| 55 | We need a sub called "Am I With An Asshole".It seems we need it. I also have suffered from dealing with guys who use "gold digger arithmetic" and it is shady and insidious and is based on a man's sense of entitlement. A guy like this doesn't base his percentages on what he earns vs. what you earn. He bases them on what he thinks he DESERVES vs. what you earn, and will treat you like a servant while they siphon off 80% of your income. Fuck. That. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 01:31 AM |
| 47 | AITA post, I’m speechless.At least all the idiots claiming "it's the thought that counts" are getting clapped back by people saying "$6? No." Apparently even Reddit has limits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 12:50 AM |
| 8 | LVM thought he could get away with a $6 engagement ring from Amazon. His fiancee found out when she was going to resize it at a jewelry store otherwise she would've been fooled.Eh, this video isn't very relevant. The author tries to claim that men's spending is tied to "femininity." He's not a stingy asshole because you didn't get your nails done or wear enough dresses, Sharice. 🙄🙄🙄🙄. Sounds like a woman drinking the redpill koolaid, more like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 10:12 PM |
| 23 | Another 40+ LVM for your pleasure.. as fun as it is to scour my past screenshots for you ladies this is just depressing and remind me why I'm so happy to be off the apps!Dude can't even commit to a conversation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 09:55 PM |
| 33 | Why I hate living in a college townBeing in that bar is probably the closest thing to college these scrubs will ever get | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 09:53 PM |
| 10 | I am finally kicking my husband to the curb this weekend and he doesn't know.He would actually need to go to appointments to accomplish that, so your kids are probably safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:41 PM |
| 49 | Promise I’ll swear off LVM no matter how much I want the validation. It’s not worth it!Hopefully he promised not to knock her up anymore... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 06:58 AM |
| 56 | Lol! I don't need to look at the post history to figure out the OP is a man. Let's all agree to NOT follow this advice!All those guys sound like they've had sex with like 2 women between the lot of them. The rest are trying to extrapolate from porn and pillows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 02:23 AM |
| 26 | Has anyone ever dated a covert narcissist? What were the signs? How did you escape it?Here are other Tricks to watch out for: If you confront them about something that upset you and you actually sound upset, the issue will transform instantly into how you're yelling and being really mean and making them feel bad. They will insist you're doing it even if you've barely raised your voice. You will go crazy trying to achieve that perfectly calm, rational voice they insist you need to achieve before you can discuss that issue that has upset you. But if you ever do achieve the perfectl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 01:50 AM |
| 35 | Has anyone ever dated a covert narcissist? What were the signs? How did you escape it?Warning: novel Covert narcs are sneaky, because they disguise their self-centeredness in low self-esteem. An extroverted narcissist will act like they're better than everyone else and that makes them special, a covert narcissist is more like the type whose narrative consists of the idea that "nobody understands them." They're weird, they're different, they're "dark." Maybe they're walking around dressed like Trent Reznor, or maybe they look like your average, regular dude but say they are "dark … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 11:27 PM |
| 7 | IrresistibleIf this were a job listing, it'd be the kind that requires a Ninja Rockstar self-starter willing to hit the ground running and wear many hats because we work hard and play hard. Required: office skills, writing skills, coding skills, data skills, graphic design skills. Level of experience: 1-3 years, salary $40k. Great opportunity to get in on the ground floor and work your way up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 10:22 PM |
| 25 | So disgusting.Not surprising. Reddit is full of mattress humpers who think that a woman is the worst person in the world for "trying to change a guy" even if he dresses like he's homeless or has a petri dish for a pillow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 10:14 PM |
| 14 | Common LVM online dating phrases, translatedSubtext: Have lower expectations for me than you do for yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:35 PM |
| 11 | Common LVM online dating phrases, translatedBecause getting leered at in a nightclub requires leaving the house | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:35 PM |
| 50 | Common LVM online dating phrases, translatedObama graduated from the school of hard knocks. Having a GED and 2 babymamas and a half-assed welding job because you can't pass a piss test does not make you the graduate of anything. You're just a shit show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:32 PM |
| 52 | Common LVM online dating phrases, translatedSee also: "You will be making every single entertainment and dining decision for both of us if you want any sort of date" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:24 PM |
| 24 | Two wonderful comments on yet another "AITA for spending next to no time, effort, or money on my fiancé's engagement ring???"Yeah. Imagine this guy being told that he can only have a $50 television for the duration of his marriage because that's what OP had in the house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:27 PM |
| 20 | Why is all advice about toxic males on reddit the same???OMG, the armchair psychologists on this site...apparently if you have depression you should be able to get away with murder. Oh, your husband quit his job, stole all your money and used it to build a cabin in the woods, then quit bathing, and started collecting ammunition and smearing mud and leaves on himself for camouflage? Maybe he has depression. You should talk to him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:02 PM |
| 7 | Why is all advice about toxic males on reddit the same???Because it's apparently every woman's job to be the fuckface whisperer. Everyone also likes to pretend that women everywhere must have only been seething in passive silence the entire time over their problems; then you read the OP and invariably they've been blatantly telling their SO to their very piehole over and over exactly what the problem is and what the SO needs to do to fix it, and just getting shut down by ridiculousness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:00 PM |
| 19 | Two wonderful comments on yet another "AITA for spending next to no time, effort, or money on my fiancé's engagement ring???"A guy who thinks a lifetime of commitment is worth about an hour in his hobby shop. Sounds like we have an LVM mascot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:52 PM |
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