Silas1067 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
135	Super secret tip to discovering he has feelings for you	RELATIONSHIPS	Silas1067	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/20 03:03 PM
20	Women and the consequences of shallow, controlling relationships		Silas1067	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/20 04:10 PM
5	Most women don't want men who challenge them	CMV	Silas1067	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/20 11:23 PM
1	Some misconceptions about the 80/20 rule and "Alphas"		Silas1067	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/20 05:15 PM
1	Is wife's feminism ruining our marriage?		Silas1067	/r/askTRP	18/01/20 01:53 PM
1	Red Pill is male feminism, and about as destructive		Silas1067	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/20 04:38 PM

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2	Q4W: Could you view a man that is crying as a protector? well yes and no. My father ran around on my mom. So no, they didn't trust each other but I do trust my wife, and some women I've know were worthy of some degree of trust. Many were not. Honesty, fidelity, consistency, are not values women hold in 21st century America. but the point was, can you love someone you don't trust. Absolutely. It won't be a pleasant experience, but it can happen. I know	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/20 01:38 AM
7	Q4W: Could you view a man that is crying as a protector? men have loved women they don't trust for ages. Most women simply can't be trusted, and guys learn this pretty early on. we trust our comrades, our brothers, etc. women don't usually enter into that sphere. A woman's love and affection is almost always conditional and contextual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/20 11:20 PM
3	Q4W: Could you view a man that is crying as a protector? remember that not all men express intimacy through sex. That is a common misconception among women. Many express intimacy through other ways, such as a confession, and proclamation, etc. For instance: I like to write, and in addition to fiction, I write some poetry. If I ever show a girl one of my poems, that is a huge expression of intimacy, because I almost never do that. I'll put something out to publication before I show my lover something I've written.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/20 10:59 PM
2	Q4W: Could you view a man that is crying as a protector? The idea that men should never shed a tear is a relatively recent one. In the 18th and early 19th century, it was common for gentlemen to become emotional in extreme moments and shed tears. There was a famous episode in Parliament when two friends tore each other apart verbally and were crying while doing it. Philosophers, saints, and even warriors were known to shed tears If your man never sheds a tear, even when beholding something of sublime beauty, chances are he isn't stoic, he is just shal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/20 10:50 PM
4	Red Pill Men Who Want Relationship if she is a high-class, high-quality women, of course	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/20 12:43 AM
1	Distinguishing the Alt-right and the Red Pill for outsiders oh it's the little faggot that hides behind his keyboard and stalks me on reddit lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/20 05:17 PM
1	How to deal with anger? and you a loser who needs to go get a job so he can support himself and stop living on other people's earnings. You aren't entitled to shit	/r/askTRP	26/05/20 05:14 PM
5	How do you see the relationship futures of young millenials/Gen Z Men will continue to chase garbage women like traders on Wall Street seek the lowest quality junk bonds, thinking that short-term yield guarantees long term results I can think of 2-3 women in my entire life I can spend 10 minutes in serious conversation with, or who were worthy of marriage. All the rest were ignorant, vapid, shallow, slutty, unreliable, and a total waste of time. Modern romance brings very little value to a man of quality. But Millennials with their feminine cuckiness, or Gen Z…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 10:57 PM
1	Q4All: Was dating easier in the 80s? there have been numerous claims online about this. Here is one https://www.metro.us/one-night-stands-the-down-and-dirty-on-the-one-and-done/ many of them aren't very scientific, so it is hard to say, but ...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 04:54 PM
1	How do you sick fucks even have casual sex? I like sex a lot, but I am the first guy to admit that casual sex with some thot is like Burger King. Barely worth the bother Once you have had a fair number of partners, you start looking for something deeper and more substantial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 11:57 PM
0	Do you believe in love? If you don’t then tell us why. You might not believe in love, but love believes in you sounds sentimental, or even sappy, but believe me, if you run into a certain women, you could fall hard, and it isn't even rational. We are biologically wired to pair up	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 11:08 PM
1	Q4All: Was dating easier in the 80s? I was a teenager in the 80s, and I lived in Europe. AIDS was a big thing back then, and it kept a lot of us in check. Casual sex simply wasn't a thing, save for rare situations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 10:59 PM
2	Q4All: Was dating easier in the 80s? women have been marrying later, so that means more partners. Nevertheless, the N count isn't as big of an issue as other things, such as one-night stands, threesomes, etc. 50-60% of women in the US have had one-night stands. Many have had more than one. That makes a girl a slut. Now it doesn't mean she can't mend her ways, fly straight and become a good wife eventually, but ... So men in the US learn at a pretty early age to lower their expectations and dismiss any notions of romance with a girl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 10:58 PM
1	People who think " if you didnt want us at my worse, you don't dont deserve us at our best" should be avoided. I'm not necessarily talking about the studies (there have been a few informal ones done), but from personal observation seriously, women are told from the time they are girls to expect top-tier men (and I don't just mean looks) , even if they have barely anything to offer. So when you say women "compromise" or settle, it means that they are chronically disappointed. I can understand that to some degree, as a lot of men are garbage. But even the ones who do have quite a bit to offer have to settl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 12:04 AM
3	People who think " if you didnt want us at my worse, you don't dont deserve us at our best" should be avoided. of course there are guys from bad families who will embarrass you but women go for the top 20% of men, even if they are not in that league. So they have sky-high expectations, sleep around with these dudes, knowing full well it will never go anywhere, etc. My point being is that men are harshly critiqued and evaluated, while women get a pass because vagina. It is time we hold women to the same standards	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/20 09:18 PM
2	People who think " if you didnt want us at my worse, you don't dont deserve us at our best" should be avoided. what insight would your guy friends have on this? And how am I wrong? Now note: I didn't say ALL women are like this, but most are, and men need to stop overestimating women and assigning them a greater worth simply because they are women. Every read "Pride and Prejudice"? Every woman in that story was generally shallow (through no fault of their own), and all of them, save for Lizzie, looked at Mr. Darcy as desirable because of his money, and his social position. Lizzie's mother is obsessed wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/20 06:42 PM
21	People who think " if you didnt want us at my worse, you don't dont deserve us at our best" should be avoided. as you will see in my post above, men NEED to start evaluating women as if they were investments. Right now, guys have very low standards, are just looking for sex and companionship, and end up with vapid chicks with no potential and loads of student debt. Chicks from bad families, and who lack culture. Chicks who will embarrass you when they open their mouths in certain company.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/20 03:14 PM
12	People who think " if you didnt want us at my worse, you don't dont deserve us at our best" should be avoided. Women (and people in general) are very poor judges of character, worth, and potential in men. This has been something that has been commented on since the days of Jane Austin (women are also very poor judges of risk--go outside an see all the women in a state of hysteria over COVID-19, when they are many times more likely do die in a car accident or another illness) In other words, even if a guy has great potential (very intelligent, driven, responsible, has good paternal instincts), a girl will…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/20 03:06 PM
10	Are most people who can only imagine fucking young girls (18-24) around the same age bracket? Young girls (teenagers specifically) are lousy in bed 99% of the time. They are inexperienced, self-conscious, and immature. Sexual energy is all about confidence, maturity, knowing what you want, letting-go, etc. So women in their late 20s are much, much better in bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 02:13 PM
1	CMV: Men don't really love women for who they are It is an issue of maturity, and we cannot generalize. There are many young men who fall into this way of thinking: they idealize women, make them into something they are not, objectify them to some degree, etc. Immature and shallow guys are not interested in a woman's hobbies, ideas, etc. --because these guys probably have none of their own. But let's face it, most women don't even have interesting hobbies, are not particularly cultured, and have nonsensical, or silly ideas about the world. Quit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/20 02:15 PM
1	Discussion: The sexual frequency of men and women that is interesting, but it is still different than the other study. That one was simply looking at people having sex more than 4 times a week. So it would be 2% of the 73% of men who have actually had sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/20 08:56 PM
0	Discussion: The sexual frequency of men and women The study doesn't say that these men are not having sex. It says they are having sex less than 4 times per week yes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/20 08:36 PM
1	Why is promiscuity seen as the norm around these parts? I am in my 40s, and I've dated a bunch, and I know a lot of women. Many of them are pretty candid with me about their sexual histories, and I have met many of their boyfriends. I live in the suburbs of a big city. Doing some quick math, I jotted down what I knew about them in terms of total number of sex partners. Most of the women didn't marry until pretty late, and some never did. For the 12 women I have good data on, the average number of sexual partners in their lives was at the very least 8…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/20 06:01 PM
2	So, maybe this isn't controversial enough... Men value friendship for its intrinsic qualities, and comradery. Men throughout history have put their lives on the line for their compatriots, and their wives and children that's not how women see friendship. For them, it is transactional and exploitative. When society is threatened, and the nation is in peril, women simply figure out which side will come out on top, and act appropriately--they will side with the enemy, simply because that enemy is victorious Do all women do this? Of course not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/20 01:53 AM
1	Distinguishing the Alt-right and the Red Pill for outsiders unless things have changed dramatically, most of the women I've known and dated were not liars and schemers. Sure, I dated one who was a pathological liar who had me deceived for months (was still seeing her ex-bf in another state, lying about all kinds of other things, etc. --she ultimately ended up divorced), but she was the exception. Now that we have dating apps and social media, I suspect that women have more options and are in need of more attention, so there is more temptation to be shift…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/20 03:24 PM
1	Distinguishing the Alt-right and the Red Pill for outsiders well yes--I don't think we are going to have any kind of white ethno-state here in the US. Europe is a different matter But Europe will be largely Islamic within 20-30 years, save for some countries in the east. It isn't necessarily because of all the immigrants and refugees, but because Christianity is dying (for a multitude of reasons), and Europeans themselves are turning to Islam.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/20 03:09 PM
3	Distinguishing the Alt-right and the Red Pill for outsiders Well some clarification is needed here in regards to the Alt-Right / Dissident Right / New Right Many in those movements want to fix the problems surrounding gender relations in the following ways One vote per family (not totally disenfranchise women, although a small minority want that). This will make sure men and women are on the same page politically Fixing the legal system in regards to marriage, something MRA guys have wanted for a long time. Traditional gender roles, as you have stated Et…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/20 02:05 PM
2	Have you ever met a FDS woman in real life? Well FDS women are pretty delusional, because almost every woman I've known has wanted to do something simple for a first date, like coffee or ice cream. They don't want to be stuck at a nice restaurant for 2 hours with a dude who they don't like. And I certainly never wanted to be stuck with a chick I wasn't attracted to for 2-3 hours either. Nothing to do with the money	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/20 01:39 PM
6	We are lonelier then ever because everyone is disposable Well aside from the fact that some people do view others as disposable, I would ask "what makes you different from other women?" You obviously have a good career, and you are in decent shape. You have some athletic hobbies, but what else? Are you witty, with a terrific sense of humor? Are you well-read and able to engage in meaningful conversation about great works of literature? Do you have good taste in music, and enjoy going to classical concerts or operas? Do you have artistic pursuits? (pai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/20 06:51 PM
1	What are some signs that a woman is low SMV? SMV would mean how society as a whole evaluates her, not necessarily how I would But there are some factors that would make a woman a poor choice to most men: 1.She doesn't want a family Poorly educated and not particularly bright Impulsive and might have substance-abuse issues Dresses down and lacks style Is from a bad family, and has a sketchy past (high N count, etc.) For me I would add Lacks culture (no appreciation for the arts, not well-read, poor musical taste) Bad ideology (feminism, r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/20 03:08 PM
1	Have you ever met a FDS woman in real life? Men enjoy a variety of women, and do not typically have a "type". While I like my little brunettes, I also like athletic blondes (think Katie Sackoff), redheads with pale skin, Persian girls, hell even some black girls are hot to me. Women like basically one thing: tall dark and handsome (and fit). Over 6 feet, chisled jaw line, etc. That is the archetype for 99% of white women of almost every culture. Sure, some women say they like the thick lumber jack dude with the big beard, and maybe they d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/20 02:49 PM
2	Have you ever met a FDS woman in real life? there is a difference between thicc (which is a curvy but athletic girl, kind of like one of those collegiate softball players) are just plain fat and out of shape she was the latter	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/20 02:30 PM
2	Have you ever met a FDS woman in real life? in her case, she was overweight and didn't have good prospects. So she was in no position to demand some high-achieving guy with a 4 bedroom home in the suburbs. so it is true that men need to grow up and stop depending on women to help them mature, but everything is a matter of degree and context.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/20 02:24 PM
3	Have you ever met a FDS woman in real life? I misspoke on the check situation. Yes, they want the man to pay on the first date (or any date) My position on that is already stated. The person who does the invite covers the bill, and it is customary for men to pick up the tab on the first few dates. Now if she wants to take you out later,she can pay being seen as cheap is an immediate deal-breaker for like 90%+ of women. If you can't pay for ice-cream on a first date, what are you going to be like as a LTR? Shylock doesn't get action.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/20 02:22 PM
9	Have you ever met a FDS woman in real life? I don't think she was overtly FDS, or read the materials. But she had the mentality to some degree. At one point, when she was 28, she was dating this guy who was a mechanical engineer. Smart dude, good career, and was very good to her. Not even a bad looking guy, just a bit short and boyish. She dumped him, even though he was interested in marrying her. I was like WTF? And she simply said "he still lives at home and has maturity issues!" He would have matured just fine, and was responsible enou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 06:45 PM
13	Have you ever met a FDS woman in real life? I looked through the FDS site to see what they believed. Much of it is truly awful advice, although a few things are reasonable. For instance, they are correct in saying that men should demonstrate effort and "chase" them to some degree. Romance is good and fun, and it can show agency and imagination. But women should also demonstrate interest as well. And they are right about stuff like splitting the bill on a first date. If a guy asks a girl out, he pays. If he doesn't, he looks like a cheapsk…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 06:22 PM
2	Q4women Why do women often sleep with a guy who their friend previously did? Mimetic desire	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 05:33 PM
1	Have any of you genuinely tried to become a HVM? (by the FDS definition) Yes, I've done those things, but not to get women. I did them for myself. For instance: I like going out to nice restaurants and having fine wine, and having a nice looking girl there is an added bonus. A well thought out date is typically one in which I am going to have some fun, or get enjoyment out of (opera, theater, cultural tour, or even something like tennis). I don't plan dates that are going to be a chore simply because I want to impress. I am not big on texting unless I have something …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 05:27 PM
2	Alot of men could avoid heartbreak if they stopped pursuing shallow relationships. While some of RP has legitimate complaints, it's members consist largely of sexually frustrated losers (incels), guys with mommy issues, and poorly educated teenagers and if you really want to see that dregs of their community, go check our the married RP guys. What a collection of miserable humanity	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 02:24 PM
1	Alot of men could avoid heartbreak if they stopped pursuing shallow relationships. no, I didn't post on mgtow there was a post I made on asktrp months ago about some financial frustration with my wife, involving her inheritance and a couple of other things. At the time, I thought she still had some creeping feminism that was creating some issues in our marriage but guess what happened? I confronted her and we worked it out. It created some friction at the time, but as an assertive guy, I pushed back. Dude, what do you think marriage is exactly? Like the dude from Ex Machina wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 01:40 PM
1	Alot of men could avoid heartbreak if they stopped pursuing shallow relationships. simp lol. Maried for a long time quite happily you keep going through life with that attitude and you are going to stay a virgin. Chicks aren't sympathetic	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/20 10:31 PM
1	Alot of men could avoid heartbreak if they stopped pursuing shallow relationships. OK bro. You can go back to your anime porn now	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/20 06:31 PM
1	Alot of men could avoid heartbreak if they stopped pursuing shallow relationships. I'm not a boomer, so ...	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/20 06:17 PM
1	Why is it so hard for women to be honest, especially when it comes to relationships? But women don't even know what they want, and that is the crux of the problem (also an issue for some men, aka the Madonna-whore complex)	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/20 06:00 PM
1	Alot of men could avoid heartbreak if they stopped pursuing shallow relationships. no, men don't have to accept promiscuity, and women don't have to engage in it you can do what you want, and remain unmarried or you can try and fix the culture and society. Boomers don't want to fix anything, and Millennials and Gen Y just want to cry and whine about how things are unfair and will never change	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/20 05:59 PM
1	What are some harsh truths/redpills about men? Shelly, Bronte, etc. all terrific writers, but still not in the same zip code as the guys I mentioned earlier. Woolf and Eliot don't deserve a mention quite frankly	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/20 12:39 AM
0	Alot of men could avoid heartbreak if they stopped pursuing shallow relationships. not sure where you are getting that assumption. I assure you, things are just fine in my home, and no one bosses me around and I have plenty of experience with women. You can either listen to guys who know what they are talking about, or frustrated incels and teenagers who don't have a clue. Up to you	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/20 12:37 AM
10	Alot of men could avoid heartbreak if they stopped pursuing shallow relationships. OK, but not every girl is whoring around in her early 20s. Not every chick racks up a big N count. Yeah, RP guys will scoff at that, but it is the truth are women more promiscuous these days? Probably. Is the whoring around a problem? Certainly. But making these universal generalizations are silly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/20 12:35 AM
1	Alot of men could avoid heartbreak if they stopped pursuing shallow relationships. Gen X yes I really think you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and blaming everyone else fo your neurosis is AF/BB a real thing? Sure. Is is universal? Absolutely not. I know guys who got screwed in marriage, and others who are happily married to good women. Yes, you need to vet hard, and yes, you need to improve yourself and your prospects sorry kid, life isn't fair.You need to man up	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/20 10:11 PM
2	My LTR gets emotional when her ex (she dumped him) texts her stuff, and I'm not sure what to do. Any ideas? I'm married, and I don't have any kind of contact with ex-girlfriends. I have zero interest in what those chicks are up to, and even having them lurking around my social media will cause problems. Same goes for my wife. If she starts friending, texting, etc. ex-boyfriends, I am calling that shit out immediately, and it will stop. Nothing good is going to come of it. The fact that she is doing that with impunity, right in front of you, displays a lack of respect. It also seems like a giant shit-t…	/r/askTRP	10/04/20 07:47 PM
1	My LTR gets emotional when her ex (she dumped him) texts her stuff, and I'm not sure what to do. Any ideas? Why the fuck are you allowing her to contact this guy? I would tell her "one more text to him from you, or from him to you, and we are over" pretty simple	/r/askTRP	10/04/20 07:35 PM
12	Alot of men could avoid heartbreak if they stopped pursuing shallow relationships. Considering I've been married for almost 20 years, and I am in a pretty liberal area, I think it is possible to find quality. And unless you are oblivious, and she is lying, you will know what kind of past a girl has. But expecting the hot woman with an N count of 2 when she is 28 and ready to settle down? Yeah, good luck with that. I've seen literally one example of that my entire life, and the girl was very religious (might have been a virgin). My wife's N count is higher than mine, but she di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/20 07:31 PM
5	At what age do women fix their standards? Women at that age don't want commitment or responsibility I went through this with a LTR in my last year in college, and then for a few years after that. While I was focused on career and future, she was waiting tables, traveling, and volunteering. When she hit age 27, I realized she was never going to get her sit together, and wasn't looking for marriage from me. A complete waste of time Most women will start getting serious by their late 20s, but some never do	/r/askTRP	10/04/20 04:16 PM
2	Why do older guys think younger girls are attracted to them? Ugh, I disagree I know from experience that the most female attention I've gotten was after I turned 40. Now I am the same weight I was when I was 20, and in even better shape, but still. I have the grey streaks in the hair and beard ... with the age comes a lot of money, style, and confidence. I get 10 times the attention now as I did when I was in my 20s. Women view me as mature, reliable, and a bit mysterious. Too bad I am married lol. so if a guy keeps himself in good condition and has the r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/20 02:45 PM
3	What are some harsh truths/redpills about men? good point	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/20 02:42 PM
12	What are some harsh truths/redpills about men? some of this is true, but I disagree with one point "Men are overtly less empathetic" Society will have us believe that, but it isn't true. Men are actually much more empathetic than women, because men can see beyond themselves, and have agency women don't have. A women typically views things from how they affect her, improve her condition, etc. Have you ever had a bunch of heart-to-heart conversations with a female friend, only to realize later that those conversations entirely revolved around …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/20 02:31 PM
40	Alot of men could avoid heartbreak if they stopped pursuing shallow relationships. Unfortunately, shallow relationships are the things shallow people get, and most people are pretty damn shallow Men here complain about vapid, shallow, and ignorant women, but there are plenty of low-class, uncultured, and shallow men out there as well. This problem is not gender-specific. Eventually, a guy is going to want to get married and have a family, despite all the MGTOW tantrums and RP obsessions. You don't want to be the 50 year old creepy uncle with no wife and kids, any more than a w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/20 02:08 PM
14	Tattoos are a red flag because they are linked to promiscuity. Science proves this. as if there is anything iconoclastic or rebellious about having a tattoo these days. It's pretty mainstream at this point A girl in a flowery dress is truly rebellious these days	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/20 01:50 PM
1	Why is it so hard for women to be honest, especially when it comes to relationships? this is what my female friends tell me, and it is reinforced by the behavior of women in our society. Much if it is cultural. don't shoot the messenger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/20 01:47 PM
1	Why is it so hard for women to be honest, especially when it comes to relationships? no	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/20 02:08 PM
1	Harvard study - Expectations of wives’ homemaking may have eroded, but the husband breadwinner norm persists. yeah ...if you are going to come back at me and try to be clever, at least put up something scathing and clever that's just lame and stupid. go back to school kid	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/20 09:48 PM
1	Harvard study - Expectations of wives’ homemaking may have eroded, but the husband breadwinner norm persists. I make more money in a month than you do in a year little boy, and I've been with far more women but hide behind your keyboard like the little fag you are	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/20 07:53 PM
1	Why is it so hard for women to be honest, especially when it comes to relationships? The reason that women like bad boys is quite simple, and it isn't what others here think. Women hate two things: To be held accountable for anything sexual or relationship-oriented Commitment Young women want to be "free", and bad boys expect nothing from them save for sex (which is easily given). The worse a guy treats them, the more they can be assured that he won't expect commitment, and won't hold her accountable for her actions. The bad boy doesn't care if she is sleeping with other guys. H…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/20 06:43 PM
9	Why is it so hard for women to be honest, especially when it comes to relationships? if women don't want to be a fuck buddy, then why are so many of them doing it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/20 06:29 PM
-1	Harvard study - Expectations of wives’ homemaking may have eroded, but the husband breadwinner norm persists. you don't know what soy boy is, so go do some research kid	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/20 05:23 PM
9	Harvard study - Expectations of wives’ homemaking may have eroded, but the husband breadwinner norm persists. I actually don't want my wife endlessly scrubbing the house, plating flowers, and cooking. I want her to spend quality time with me and the kids. If that means I have to chip in and do the dishes here and there, or other household duties, I am cool with it. My mother endlessly obsessed over the house and was constantly stressed. I don't need a repeat of that	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/20 04:01 PM
2	[discussion]Look at this gem from r/relationships and the importance of n-count history There is a huge difference between a girl with a pretty high N count, who has been in a lot of relationships, and a chick like this, who was fucking everyone in the school and getting gangbanged I bet her fiance feels like he just climbed through a dumpster behind a hospital I've been married for a while, and I asked my wife outright if she had ever been in a threesome (fortunately she hadn't), and I know about her sexual history. No big red flags, but she has been with more guys than I would li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/20 02:57 PM
2	Women and the consequences of shallow, controlling relationships No, I am actually saying the opposite. I love women who challenge me, bust my balls from time to time, have their own intellectual and artistic interests, and who don't give a fuck about pop culture or sitcoms. A woman with her own opinions, but who will consider mine. But when you say dating is a "delicate dance in which two people gradually reveal more of themselves", I will counter that most women don't want that. They want a narrative with a Ken doll plopped into it, or a fantasy that is so …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/20 10:56 PM
2	Women and the consequences of shallow, controlling relationships No, that isn't what I am saying per se. I am saying that women don't want authenticity--they want a narrative. Tom's dreams of architecture, and his honest affection for Summer don't get him anywhere. She doesn't give a shit about any of that. Women are transactional and pragmatic, and they want the shallow, loose narrative of romance without accountability or commitment. They want a provider they can control in the wrapper of a cheap Harlequin romance	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/20 10:51 PM
1	Women and the consequences of shallow, controlling relationships OK, let's take a step back and stop looking at Tom and start looking at Summer. By focusing entirely on he issues Tom has, and the skeleton plot, you are missing the underlying subtext of the film, and the way it can be read against itself. Of course Tom is idealistic and sentimental. But Summer is jaded,shallow, and manipulative (she leads Tom on, even though she has a boyfriend). Her making declarations about the ephemeral nature of of love, or the futility of romance serve as a cover for her …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/20 10:47 PM
2	Women and the consequences of shallow, controlling relationships have you really encountered men who want women to be their emotional dumpsters or psychologists? Men that want to go cry to women? That would be an awfully small percentage of males, and such guys are quickly dumped I'm sure. And of course there are shallow men--why? Because women want shallow guys. They want the "bad boy" philandering dbag who has boyish charm and is completely unreliable. Just make sure this dude never talks about anything serious and express any affection. And women love the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/20 09:54 PM
1	Women and the consequences of shallow, controlling relationships like I said, there are exceptions. But typically, women will brand a guy "emotionally fragile" and then they will complain later that he doesn't open up to them...	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/20 09:23 PM
1	Women and the consequences of shallow, controlling relationships I should say there are exceptions to the rule. I've been married a while, and my wife never penalized me for being sentimental at times (but not often) and opening up to her, and she likes deep conversation. But as a general rule ...	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/20 09:22 PM
2	Women and the consequences of shallow, controlling relationships unfortunately, much of that is true. But women keep saying they want these deep connections, even though they really don't and without deep connection and authenticity, there is no honesty or fidelity (at least for me). I don't feel a need to be some stranger's champion	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/20 08:27 PM
1	Women and the consequences of shallow, controlling relationships but that isn't really the message of the film as I see it. It isn't a boy-meets-girl story. There is more going on under the surface, and even messages that the writer didn't know he was sending (read against itself) Of course not every relationship works, and people can be incompatible, etc. This is about a guy's approach to relationships, which we can see was flawed to some degree, but was authentic. He opened up to this girl, and he had quite a bit to offer. She used that against him later. S…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/20 08:21 PM
1	Women and the consequences of shallow, controlling relationships update: I feel I should clarify a few things here Vulnerability is only one piece of this, and when I mean vulnerable, I don't mean weak. I mean men who aren't afraid to express deep emotion or concern, and how things impact them. Not guys complaining about depression or being whiny. Lord Byron was moody, somewhat emotional (cried at Shelly's funeral), and "deep" (a poet), and no one would say he was not the pinnacle of "Alpha male" as it should be described: brave (died fighting in Greece), con…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/20 08:13 PM
-1	Women and the consequences of shallow, controlling relationships that is part of it. He doesn't listen to everything she tells him, but it is implied that he is naive when it comes to women. You can read the movie against itself. In the end, the girl says she found true love, but Tom is still alone. Anyone who falls in love has a certain idealized image of their girlfriend / boyfriend. The implication is that sentimental guys get stomped on, and jaded, cynical people get married	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/20 05:25 PM
5	Women and the consequences of shallow, controlling relationships I said the ending was Hollywood, and there are better resources. But the film is a good example of what I am talking about	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/20 04:24 PM
10	In your experience, what type of women have the most casual sex? And why do you think they do it? I am in my late 40s, and when I was in my 20s, casual sex was pretty rare. I say it here and there, but among my female friends, it really wasn't a thing. Sure, they had boyfriends, but they weren't doing one-night stands, FWBs (that wasn't a thing back then--chicks that were doing that were considered sluts) I am wondering how much it has changed these days	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/20 01:01 AM
1	Do red pill men/women come to the end of their lives and wish the connected a little more? Good question Connecting is a difficult thing, especially at a deep level, and most people are simply capable of it. I always said that the one unforgivable sin a girl could commit was being boring. If you bore me, I'm gone	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/20 11:47 PM
1	Is self-improvement the solution to getting alpha widowed? Well the Alpha-Widow thing is the exception to the rule and not the rule itself. This idea that most average women are ending up with dudes that look like Jude Law, went to Oxford, drive fancy cars, and have 9 inch dicks is just stupid. But yes, one way to improve your dating life is through self-improvement and getting with someone in a higher league than yourself. The Alpha-Widow thing is more about women thinking they are entitled to men way out of their league than anything else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/20 11:19 PM
0	Most women don't want men who challenge them Sappho wrote the Pyramid texts from the 25th century bc? Or the Epic of Gilgamesh? I think you are the one who needs to read a book Bronte sisters were terrific fiction writers, but midling poets at-best. Dickinson is overrated and rarely considered by European scholars.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/20 09:20 PM
1	Most women don't want men who challenge them I did. She said that she thought he was a bit flighty or unserious, which is fine. But the dude she selected is even more shallow than guy A, and certainly not serious at all. the difference is that guy B is "reliable" and easily controlled. Both guys are equals in the looks department.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/20 07:44 PM
0	Most women don't want men who challenge them there are a hundred male poets better than Plath, and she is held up as the best among women. That is just a fact. Dylan Thomas, T.S. Eliot, Edgar Lee Masters, and many others are much, much better. Sappho was not the first poet	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/20 07:40 PM
-1	Most women don't want men who challenge them women have been writing poetry since the 16th century and fiction since the 18th. They have been involved in music composition, etc. for an equal amount of time	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/20 07:35 PM
-3	Most women don't want men who challenge them some women delight learning from their men. My wife does. Most women do not. Most women want vapid Ken dolls with high-school education levels. Those guys are predictable, easy to control, and fun in the bedroom. And I suspect a lot of guys like vapid women too. It goes both ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/20 05:03 AM
-3	Most women don't want men who challenge them Dude, there are no great female poets. There are some good ones for sure. Not great. There are no female Shakespeares, Miltons, Dylan Thomases, or Goethes. Sylvia Plath isn't even in that zip-code. And there are no great female classical composers, although there are some good musicians. No female Mozart, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/20 05:00 AM
0	Most women don't want men who challenge them not what happened. Lawyer was shot down--they never got together	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/20 04:57 AM
1	Most women don't want men who challenge them of course	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/20 04:41 AM
2	Why I liked bad boys I don't think Dylan was a "bad boy" at all. He was a lot like I was: mature, introspective, and a bit jaded. But he had a good moral compass and was a good guy at the day. There is a difference between the brooding rebel and the bad-boy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/20 02:10 AM
1	Those of you who hate the opposite gender with passion, why? I'm not sure any man or woman hates the opposite gender. It is against nature We become frustrated, black-pilled, jaded, etc. --but at the end of the day, we want the opposite sex to love and adore us. We want the attention, and the affirmation. I can't stay angry at women I have affection for. What do we get angry about? Shallowness, duplicity, hostility, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/20 01:59 AM
139	GF won't let let me do anal because of her ex Hard next. Chick was 14 and getting railed in the butt regularly? You need to find some self-respect and find a quality girl	/r/askTRP	23/03/20 03:22 AM
1	What Do Women Want From Their Experiences With Men? I'm a guy, and hookups were never satisfying to me either	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/20 01:36 AM
1	Should I just hire a prostitute to lose my virginity? I didn't lose my virginity until just after my 20th birthday. Then had pretty steady girlfriends after that.	/r/askTRP	05/03/20 03:04 PM
4	How to go from 'cute' to 'sexy'? Cute should never try to be sexy, and sexy should never try to be cute. If you are a cute girl, embrace this and exaggerate it. Think of Emilia Clarke: she isn't "sexy", she is feminine and cute, and it is exaggerated. It makes her beautiful and irresistible. Other beautiful "cute" girls with girlish features and hyper-femininity are Jenna Coleman and Hazel English (singer). If you lean towards sexy (curvier figure, taller, etc.) then go for it.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/02/20 03:16 PM
1	Does therapy work? If anyone been to therapist, did it really help you? No one is objective, and no one operates outside of ideology and social norms	/r/askTRP	27/02/20 02:49 PM
0	Does therapy work? If anyone been to therapist, did it really help you? I did therapy once and it helped to some extent. But I really wouldn't be able to do it for an extended period of time, or get really deep. My ideology, politics, and especially my past, would become a huge issue. Some neoliberal, or leftist, academic isn't going to like me. They would probably throw me out of their office. So for certain people, such as myself, therapy isn't an option. I get much better results through writing fiction and poetry (getting it all out), talking to like-minded frie…	/r/askTRP	27/02/20 01:44 AM
2	(Follow up question in regard to earlier post on women with high N count) Should men wait as long as possible to enter a LTR/get married then? If a 35 year old dude who was decent looking and was loaded, with a nice care, etc. hit on you tomorrow, you would be in his bed that night what women say and what they do are two different things	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 07:46 PM
1	Lost work - sexual harassment I have never cared about my "company". I am not one of those guys. I am a highly-skilled and sought after professional who lets my work do the talking. I might show up to an event once in a blue-moon, but I generally avoid them (for obvious reasons)	/r/askTRP	26/02/20 07:44 PM
0	(Follow up question in regard to earlier post on women with high N count) Should men wait as long as possible to enter a LTR/get married then? I don't mean older men as in a 35 year old dude dating a 22 year old. I mean a 4-6 year difference (enough to get a guy established and ready to support a family) I am dubious of any study that says most guys want to sleep around in their 20s, and sow their wild oats. Men do NOT have the access to sex and ability to select that women do, even men that are decent looking. Now this might be changing due to Internet dating, but from what I have seen, a vast majority of men have no luck in that aren…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 07:42 PM
2	Men dont really believe "Sex comes before commitment" or "Sex comes before love" do they? I've only been in love 4 times in my life. Two of the women I slept with (my current wife and one other). The love had nothing to do with the sex. Sure, sex is great and important, but that isn't the reason I love a girl. In the case of the other two girls, one was more than a friend but less than a lover, and one was simply a friend who I felt great affection for. So no, sex does not come before love and commitment. That is nonsense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 05:12 PM
2	Seeking for advice here. Any would help Snoop doggy dog's gotta get himself a jobby job	/r/askTRP	26/02/20 05:07 PM
1	(Follow up question in regard to earlier post on women with high N count) Should men wait as long as possible to enter a LTR/get married then? that is all true for the most part however ... the reasons men don't commit and get married right after college, or in their early 20s is because they do not feel they can support a wife and family (especially in this day-and-age where no one can afford health insurance, entry-level jobs are crap, etc.). It isn't because they don't WANT to get married. Young women could certainly find a husband quite quickly when they are in their early 20s, yet choose not to do so. They could marry an older guy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 05:05 PM
1	(Follow up question in regard to earlier post on women with high N count) Should men wait as long as possible to enter a LTR/get married then? women start wanting commitment when they approach age 30. Before that, they don't want anything to do with commitment. They want casual sex, nebulous relationships, and one foot out the exit at all times. This is largely cultural in the west. Girls are told to sow their oats, have wild fun, etc. throughout their 20s, and then "settle down" with a provider in their early 30s. No guy in his right mind should commit to a women on any level when she is between the age of 18-27. They should be seeing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 04:39 PM
1	CMV: Male sexuality is more dualistic than female sexuality. you are creating a false dichotomy. The choice isn't between inexperienced, boring virgins and lousy marriages vs. wild swingers in open relationships like I said in my post, it is fine to experiment a bit, have previous sex partners, etc. --within reason. There are degrees to this. And men should not be promiscuous either, so I am not creating some double-standard here. But I love how people throw out the "you are just insecure"! slogan when someone is simply pointing out that they are a slut. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/20 04:22 PM
1	CMV: Male sexuality is more dualistic than female sexuality. studies have shown that the more sex partners a woman has, the less happy she is in marriage, and the higher chance of divorce. The more partners, the less the ability to pair-bond. Promiscuity typically shows lack of impulse control, and being a poor judge of character and quality. Likewise, if a woman has had crazy sexual experiences before me (MFM threesomes, a bunch of ONS, dudes pissing on her, whatever), I would a) have a lot of trouble respecting her b) be worried that our regular, marrie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/20 03:52 PM
3	Q4Men: For those who were friendzoned, orbited, or had oneitis for a woman in the past... I was only friend-zoned once. A chick who was divorced, but pretty cute. After FZ me, she tried to date a couple HQ dudes who dumped her after a few dates. Meanwhile, I found my future wife, a HQ girl from a good family. suddenly, this chick who FZ'd me panicked and tried to turn things around, Too late. She ended up getting into 2 more bad marriages, got divorced, and lived in a trailer park. Oh well, sucks to be her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/20 05:49 AM
1	CMV: Male sexuality is more dualistic than female sexuality. lol, I am not telling anyone who to date or how to act. I am simply making recommendations and observations so you are welcome to live it up in your little Jeffrey Epstein world	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 07:53 PM
1	CMV: Male sexuality is more dualistic than female sexuality. here comes the third-wave feminism	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 06:45 PM
1	CMV: Male sexuality is more dualistic than female sexuality. not self-respecting man who wants marriage or a LTR should date them	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 06:35 PM
1	CMV: Male sexuality is more dualistic than female sexuality. depends. A chick getting railed in all her holes porno-style by some scuzzy punkers on a basement matress? I'd call that dark for sure even a FFM would be problematic for me. Shows lack of impulse control and a wild side that might be a little too wild. Either way, not marriage or LTR material.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 04:53 PM
8	Sketchy LTR behavior out of nowhere? she needs permission from you to go to a birthday party? stop mate-guarding and being controlling. If you are doing things right, there is no need to be paranoid and possessive--that stuff shows weakness. Take some initiative, stop texting, and meet up with her for some nice one-on-one time, Texting is bullshit	/r/askTRP	24/02/20 03:56 PM
10	Very low n-count and dead bedrooms I dated and had sex with a virgin chick in college. She was excellent in bed right away. Not full-on pornstar (who is?), but very assertive and passionate, and willing to try new things N count has nothing to do with bedroom performance or libido. I've been with sluts who were lousy in bed as well	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 03:36 PM
5	Dealing with the thought of not being a good enough for for bf Men are complicated when it comes to preferences (something many women don't understand) The woman who "has it all" (looks, intelligence, career, money, etc.) doesn't need anyone, and she will be the object of obsession by many men. Such women are intimidating, and not all that pleasant to date. I only dated one really beautiful girl in my life, and it was a circus. I remember coming into a bar where some friends of mine were hanging out, and the female bartender says loudly "wow, you are such…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/02/20 03:18 PM
10	I have a problem with my girlfriends promiscuous past. Need advice. Sure, promiscuous party girls can be fun to hang out with, and a lot of them are good in bed. That doesn't make them LTR or marriage material. Like others here say, this is a 0 investment girl. She is a distraction at best. Marry this chick and you will get cheated on and divorce raped within 1-2 years. She can't pair bond with a sexual history like that, has impulse control problems, and is immature. And how many abortions has she had? Can she even have children? And you need to look at your ow…	/r/askTRP	24/02/20 03:06 PM
1	CMV: Male sexuality is more dualistic than female sexuality. it is a much bigger thing these days. Back when I was in my teens and early 20s, it was unheard of. By my late 20s I started seeing it. You would be very surprised by how many women have done it (typically FFM). There are also the girls who ended up sucking multiple guy's dicks while drunk at frat parties, banged two dudes in one day, hours apart, or got felt up and fingered by several guys while dancing in a dark room in some dude's basement. women's sexual history is a lot darker and more dist…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 02:43 PM
2	CMV: Male sexuality is more dualistic than female sexuality. well let's look at the marriage statistics: In the US, the average woman marries after age 27. In the UK and numerous other European countries, she marries after age 31. Now the average number of sex partners for those women might be 7-8, but a lot of people, myself included, suspect the number is much higher. A buddy of mine did an extensive study in graduate school that concluded that attractive woman and ugly women have much more sex than average women, so I'm not sure I trust the idea that a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 06:51 PM
3	My female doctor, who is married, seems to be attracted to me for some reason? Sounds like it might be time for a prostate exam	/r/askTRP	23/02/20 03:08 PM
1	Am I coming too straight forward? Being too forward and intimate displays desperation. Sometimes it can work, depending on the girl, but a lot of times they will get uncomfortable My policy was always to act very casual, and give the impression that I was pretty indifferent. While dudes salivated over hot girls and threw themselves at them, or did some PuA nonsense, I took a stealth approach. It was rare that a girl even knew I was interested in her, but I gave just enough hints that she could join me on my adventure. Then whe…	/r/askTRP	23/02/20 03:07 PM
1	CMV: Male sexuality is more dualistic than female sexuality. "Most women would prefer to find a man early and have no interest in sowing their wild oats" 90% of the women I have known, including my wife, had every intention on sowing their wild oats when they were young--and they did. None of them had any intention on finding a husband until their late 20s or early 30s. now these women weren't out having lots of casual sex, ONS, etc. They just had a lot of boyfriends and relationships. But here is the problem. Even IF we convince women that they should ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 02:52 PM
3	Why is it that blonde women are so desired by men but blond men are not nearly as desired by women as darker guys are? blonde is feminine. All there is too it	/r/askTRP	23/02/20 12:35 AM
1	High value women are women who enjoy and are very good at sex. no lol. She was too wild and unpredictable. A lot of fun, but marriage would have been a disaster I married a cute little British girl	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/20 11:46 PM
2	High value women are women who enjoy and are very good at sex. I once dated a very hot girl. She was a solid 9 --just beautiful. But she was TERRIBLE in bed. Not quite a starfish, but pretty damn close. Too self-absorbed and depressed to get off. And then I dated a redhead who was a 6. Decent body, very average face. But she was a DEMON in bed: initiated, was kinky, aggressive, passionate. Guess who I think back on when I think about sex. It isn't that first girl	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/20 01:24 AM
1	Why do woman still sleep with beta’s? all men have alpha and beta qualities, and sometimes you need to be beta in order to operate in a given situation. For instance: projects at work in which you are not the leader. You are going to have to follow, be supportive, etc. You can't simply take charge. Being good at talking to women has nothing to do with being a high-quality man other men look up to. PuA stuff can be practiced by a sleazy loser who works at Popeye's, yet lies to girls, and makes himself into something he isn't. So we s…	/r/askTRP	21/02/20 05:55 PM
1	When do you think a girls N-count is TOO high? Well 38 is way too high at 24. I wouldn't go near a chick with a N count that high unless STD testing happened in advance But the N count is only part of the picture. If a chick has had a lot of boyfriends over the years, and those relationships lasted a while (at least a few months), and has racked up a N count of 10-15, it really isn't a big deal. But if a chick has had a bunch of one-night-stands, has been in threesomes, has been banged by strangers at Burning Man, etc., and has a N count of …	/r/askTRP	21/02/20 05:42 PM
8	Why do woman still sleep with beta’s? There is no such thing as a pure beta, alpha, or omega man A man could be alpha within a given environment, such as at work, and be completely beta in another environment, such as a social situation. Picture Bill Gate: dude is a ruthless tycoon in the business world, but would be an overlooked, awkward wallflower at a social engagement, or in the dating world. Or the dudes who are ripped from lifting 7 days a week and focus on their appearance above all else, and are aggressive in their personal…	/r/askTRP	21/02/20 05:38 PM
1	When you're dating a guy, how important is it that the guy is "worth showing off" to your friends/social media. I strongly believe this plays a big factor in women choosing the guy they date. Here is a side question for the women of this group: I have a female friend who is one of my best friends. She tells me pretty much everything, and there are almost no secrets between us. Been friends for like 5 years (I'm happily married). About 4 months ago, she started seriously dating this guy, but she didn't tell anyone. She met him online. A month or so in, she mentioned that she was seeing someone to one of her female friends, but made the friend promise not to tell anyone else. Some time…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/20 03:59 PM
1	Grad school: Supervisor is a beta communist true story. I went into the IT field and make like 3 times the money I would make in academia	/r/askTRP	21/02/20 03:16 PM
8	Grad school: Supervisor is a beta communist I got 90% through my PhD before leaving academia. Couldn't take it anymore. I was surrounded by garbage people, losers who couldn't make it in the real world, and intellectual lightweights trying to pretend they had anything figured out. Like a bunch of beta Bernie bros all in one building. Just keep your head down. Don't say shit to anyone, and do NOT socialize with any of these people.	/r/askTRP	20/02/20 07:58 PM
1	What characteristics make a high value woman? A high-value woman has Culture (an appreciation for art and literature--she is well-read, and well-traveled) Honesty (she doesn't have to lie or play games, because she has nothing to hide) Beauty (she doesn't have to be a knockout, or some intimidating model-type, but she has to have looks and femininity) From a good family (parents aren't trailer-trash) Traditional values and good ideology That's it. I don't care about her career or money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 04:15 PM
2	Super secret tip to discovering he has feelings for you my wife gave me a nickname pretty early on	/r/RedPillWomen	20/02/20 03:48 PM
2	Super secret tip to discovering he has feelings for you that's strange that you would get 2 dates in and suddenly the dude vanishes. Typically, if a guy doesn't like what he sees, or it is obvious that the girl isn't his type, he will end it after one date. I would shoot him a text and just ask him what happened so you know. I had a girl do something similar to me many years ago. Dates went well, etc. --but then I got ghosted. Turns out, he ex-boyfriend was still in the picture, and I was a side project. So it might be that	/r/RedPillWomen	20/02/20 03:47 PM
3	Is it ok to soft next LTR in this case? Dude, stop playing games and simply ask her what's up? Say "hey, you pissed about something. I do something wrong"? If she gives you some bullshit answer, or becomes evasive, soft-next her. Otherwise, you guys can work it out.	/r/askTRP	20/02/20 04:16 AM
1	Women who got past her 20's without settling down don't deserve the hate they get. A woman can go through her 20s without finding a husband, but without running up a huge N count, getting abortions and STDs, and engaging in reckless behavior My wife didn't find Mr. Right in her 20s. She dated a bunch of boring, corporate guys, and had bad luck. She met me when she was 32. Her N count is a bit high (12-15), but nothing crazy, and she didn't do threesomes, one-night-stands, etc. Just a bunch of boyfriends. So it depends	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/20 06:45 PM
2	Super secret tip to discovering he has feelings for you it isn't an either-or scenario. Actions are important too, but this might be one thing to look for	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/20 06:36 PM
1	How to deal with anger? Anger is my biggest issue. I am a pretty smart guy and I don't suffer fools gladly. I've had situations in the workplace where superiors and co-workers have openly disrespected me, and it is hard to keep from blowing up. My first inclination is like that of Trump--to push back hard when someone fu**s with me so it is a struggle (Stoicism helps)	/r/askTRP	19/02/20 03:26 PM
1	FDS and their Hatred for Republican Men nah, she is quite happy unlike you, her uterus isn't so scarred by abortions that she can't have kids	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/20 11:32 PM
1	FDS and their Hatred for Republican Men lol, yeah those are the guys wit the young boys? The leftists are putting drag queens in our schools and banging 12 year old rent boys in Hollywood. And don't even get me stared about Weinstein and Epstein. and I haven't been in mom's basement since the 1980s sweetie. Don't take out your soon-to-be single cat lady frustrations out on me	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/20 10:36 PM
1	FDS and their Hatred for Republican Men I beg to differ. Plenty of women like conservatives and right-wingers. Those guys have stable families with wives and children the liberal guys end up divorce raped or in childless marriages with polyamorous / hypergamous women. Women don't have respect for the closeted losers	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/20 08:20 PM
169	Veer Clear of Female Therapists Why would you be seeing a female therapist? Of course you are going to get pozzed feminism and other nonsense from her. Even finding a male therapist worth anything is very difficult	/r/askTRP	18/02/20 06:18 PM
2	FDS and their Hatred for Republican Men because most women can't think for themselves and get their opinions and ideology from sitcoms and the MSM.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/20 03:11 AM
2	FDS and their Hatred for Republican Men LOL. I have always been a right-winger, and I never had problem finding women, even those who were very liberal. And I never modified my opinions to placate them. when women get tired of candy-assed liberal beta-males, they look elsewhere	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/20 01:26 AM
7	Too late for me? Most guys care about who you are right now, vs. who you were 5 years ago. Obviously, guys (and to a lesser extent girls) prefer low N counts, but it isn't a deal-breaker (depending on the number). My N count is 8, and my wife's is like 15. Yeah, I wasn't particularly happy to hear that number, but we talked about it. She wasn't out getting into ONS situations, engaging in threesomes or dragged into sex clubs. She was 32 when we married, so she had been dating for a long time, and it was all pret…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/20 12:06 AM
1	Plate pulled out the "I want an LTR" card She isn't LTR material. I would outright tell her that	/r/askTRP	17/02/20 06:57 PM
0	LTR pressuring for marriage Have you explained to her WHY you don't want to get married?	/r/askTRP	17/02/20 06:55 PM
1	Where to start with Philosophical reading? Get the book "History of Philosophy" by Julian Marias	/r/askTRP	16/02/20 11:26 PM
1	Is there a point having moral code about sex and women in current social climate? I had very little casual sex before marriage. A couple short-term relationships, and a bj from a female friend (stupid:wrecked friendship), but that's it. Everything else was LTR (4 months+). I always adhered to my principles, and I've always disliked promiscuity from both females and males.	/r/askTRP	16/02/20 10:05 PM
9	What are some things women think men like but are very wrong about? Fake boobs Heavy make-up High-pitched, fake, voice	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/20 05:49 PM
53	Why is it so common for men to think that if a girl is nice to him, she must want him? what else does he have to go on exactly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/20 04:54 PM
10	Do you think that men are on average a lot funnier than women? When I was much younger, I was friends with a girl who hung out with Jenny McCarthy. Before Jenny got noticed, I hung out with both of them at parties, etc. This girl was just hilarious: the jokes, observations, and imitations were second-to-none. She could have done stand-up for sure. Jenny was also very funny and witty. But most women don't go into comedy. I don't think it is because they are not funny, they just don't gravitate towards it	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/20 05:13 PM
1	Why do you think feminists enjoy submissive fantasies? well feminism is all about power, so sex isn't about pleasure, it is about power now that holds true for women who are hardcore feminists, and those that go down this rabbit hole ultimately become lesbians, because their resentful and dysfunctional relationships with men don't allow them to be successful with the opposite sex. but some women, like my wife, have some feminism, and that could be just enough to cause problems and issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/20 04:35 PM
2	Why do you think feminists enjoy submissive fantasies? well let's take my wife as an example: She has classified herself as a feminist in the past,and went to a liberal college. Had the Naomi Wolf books on the shelf, etc. And she has liberal views of sexuality, and has a pretty high N count. But ... Her fantasies don't match up to a meaningful degree to her actual sex life. For instance, she has rape fantasies about being taken by dudes in a dark room at some swinger club, being fucked by two guys at once, having sex in public or in the forest, gett…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/20 04:18 PM
5	What can men do to ensure they have a great LTR/Marriage with a woman? All views welcome. I have been happily married for almost 20 years, so I feel confident to speak on this. I've also had some good LTRs. For a guy, when selecting a woman, make sure she is cultured, has a decent education, excellent character, is honest, and comes from a good family. The minute a chick starts lying about stuff, even if it is minor, next her. If she has a history of cheating, a high N count (20+), and a sketchy reputation. Next her. For a woman, find a guy who other guys admire and look up to, not a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/20 04:03 PM
2	Not all women are bad and the same... I married a girl almost 20 years ago who was 32. She had a body count of around 15 (relatively high), and even had some books on feminism on her shelf. Immediate disqualification? well it isn't that simple. She was very sweet and easy-going, and when I met her for our first date, she came out in a pretty green dress and looked like a wheatfield girl. She was highly educated (top school), had a career, and was honest to a fault--absolutely NO bullshit or lying from this girl. Within 8 months we w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 04:13 PM
1	There is a disconnect between what women are attracted to and what men think they should be attracted to. yes, but 90% of that is genetic. You can fix a few things with braces or even cosmetic surgery, but your face comes from your parents.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 03:25 PM
2	Erectile Dysfunction - Women blaming porn for that Dudes with very low body fat and chiseled bodies are almost always on steroids of some kind. I see them at the gym all the time, and some even have the back acne. My brother was a professional boxer and worked out like a maniac. Lifts weights all the time: he doesn't have the freakishly chiseled and sculpted body these steroid guys have. He has bulk, lots of muscle, but looks different. So I know what an elite athlete who isn't on gear looks like. The other issue with these sculpted dudes is a l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 03:23 PM
4	Boyfriend doesn't tell me how he feels After 7 months, he should be giving you compliments quite often. You should have no doubt that he is proud of you, and has great affection for you, and that he might love you. If there is ANY doubt to any of that, it will be time to start considering where the relationship is going, and whether or not you are making this guy into something he isn't. He could still have feelings for his ex, or not be fully vested in this relationship. Sex is easy--even passionate sex that looks like love. One of …	/r/RedPillWomen	13/02/20 03:00 PM
1	There is a disconnect between what women are attracted to and what men think they should be attracted to. yes, they like chiseled features, but they might also like a Middle-Eastern looking guy vs. a Nordic, or a skinny Spaniard instead of a burly Englishman. so there is variation for sure, but there are some constants	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 02:53 PM
5	Boyfriend doesn't tell me how he feels Yes, actions count more than words, but words also count when they are sincere. And it isn't simply about saying "I love you". It is about connecting on an emotional level, sharing experiences and feelings, etc. Now don't misunderstand this: it shouldn't be a bunch of empty platitudes, pointless discussions, etc. Men should be concise and meaningful in their speech, and women will respond to this. Don't be a question mark. Don't be the closed-off, mysterious, dude, because that guy is almost alw…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/02/20 09:31 PM
1	The Myth of the Carousal I just came back from a RP Women post where some chick was saying that her 30 year old boyfriend of 3 months wanted a serious relationship, and to introduce some commitment into the scenario. She told him "no" and that she didn't get serious with any guy until after 6-7 months of "seeing him" (and others at the same time). She is 28, and openly admitting to riding the CC. She doesn't have a lot of time left, but I'm sure she will try to find some sucker after her 30th birthday. Meanwhile, the gr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 07:55 PM
11	I [28F] am in the dating phase with this guy [30M], but he is pressuring me to move into a relationship… This guy is 30 years old. He isn't a college kid who wants to play games and sleep around. He is ready to settle down and is being very selective right now--as he should be. While I agree that you should take your time and properly vet any potential partners, I don't get this whole waiting 6-7 months thing? I met my future wife and was engaged to her within 8 months. We have been happily married for almost 20 years. Your response to him demonstrated a serious lack of maturity, and I think that i…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/02/20 07:48 PM
4	Lying boyfriend ? Potheads are liars. Might be an unpopular opinion, but every single one I have known has played fast and loose with the truth. Make a little list of the times he has been full of sh** and you will be shocked how quick that number increases. And they are almost always late for dates / events, or don't show at all. If he is still sneaking around and smoking dope, you need to tell him to grow up. And you shouldn't be paying for 60% of the dates. Sounds like you need to trade-up	/r/RedPillWomen	12/02/20 07:20 PM
44	Boyfriend doesn't tell me how he feels When I was in my 20s, I fell in love with a college classmate in my final year. After dating for a few months, I would write her a little bit of poetry, and one day I told her I loved her. She didn't say "I love you back", but instead looked worried. She wasn't sure, and was scared I was moving too fast. Maybe I was, but I felt embarrassed and humiliated. We did continue seeing each other, and love did eventually flourish, but I never again wrote her another poem, and I was careful about how muc…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/02/20 07:08 PM
1	The Myth of the Carousal you are assuming that all men are like these RP guys who rant about not getting into relationships with women. That isn't how guys are normally. Literally every guy I have known, even the dudes who slept around a bit, wanted to find a great girl to exclusively date for a long period of time, and almost all of them wanted to get married. In some cases, these guys had short-term flings because the women were riding the CC. These guys thought they had found a quality girl, only to get ghosted after…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 06:10 PM
1	There is a disconnect between what women are attracted to and what men think they should be attracted to. Think about it this way: most men and women do not have some archetype of beauty, or specific "type". When asked what kind of girls I like, I can easily point to a number of different things The impossibly delicate and feminine girl, who is very petite, such as an Audrey Hepburn or Rooney Mara The much thicker, taller, and athletic girl, who doesn't have anywhere near the beautiful face that girls in #1 have, but who has curves, confidence, and aggressiveness. Think of a Katie Sackoff or a Gina …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 04:51 PM
25	Why do you think feminists enjoy submissive fantasies? There are a number of reasons for this. Rape fantasies involve sex without judgment. A woman cannot be held accountable for sex that was forced upon her, and she is free to "let it happen" without fear of consequence. Women have told me that these rape fantasies involve sex acts that they don't do in their private lives. If someone else is calling the shots, they can enjoy those things without feeling shame about it later. Feminists are at war with men, and they surround themselves with submissi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 04:28 PM
1	The Myth of the Carousal full disclosure: I am not a RP guy Some of what you say is correct: it goes both ways. Guys can't sleep around with sluts and then suddenly declare one day that they want a nice girl that is marriage material, and claim that they were for "family values" all along! But men's and women's experiences in the dating scene are much different. You can't claim that the 80/20 situation is normal or healthy: it is a consequence of culture, bad ideology, and lack of responsibility. Average women are NOT e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 04:16 PM
1	The Myth of the Carousal that's not what the rule says: it says that 80% of the women are either having sex, or trying to have sex, with 20% of the men. It is hypergamy basically. But it isn't even old-school hypergamy (trying to improve her condition through marrying up in social class, etc.), it is just banging Chads to get a boost in social status among her group, placate her ego, etc. Red Pill simply lets the other 80% of the guys know that women incur a dramatic loss of value in their mid to late 20s because of thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 03:31 PM
1	The Myth of the Carousal You are forgetting the 80/20 rule. If there are 100 women, 80 of them could have sex with all 20 of the top 20% of guys, meaning that the women now have huge N counts, while 80% of them men are still at 0 or have only had 1-2 partners. Now does this always happen with some perfect mathematical certainty, of course not, but still ... Young women don't have sex for the same reasons young men do. They seek out sex from Chads because of Mimetic desire To achieve status within their peer group Self-a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 02:38 PM
1	The Myth of the Carousal I didn't say most women were having ONS on a regular basis--that would be untrue but I do believe the women's N counts are much higher than men's, especially by the time they hit 30.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 03:55 AM
2	The Myth of the Carousal My wife's N count is 12-15. She had some sex in high school (one LTR then), and in college she dated some artsy guy for 1 1/2 years. When she got out of college she went into stage acting and slept with flighty actor-types and dudes that had doubtful prospects. So she wasn't going for "Chads"--there was a "type" of guy she was going for at that time. She wasn't planning on settling down since her life was a bit unpredictable. Later, she went to work for a big company, and her friends set her up …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 01:10 AM
1	The Myth of the Carousal it depends: a woman's SMV and prospects decline dramatically after her 30th birthday IF she lacks a college education, resources, social graces and mental stability. High-quality men are not going to marry and have children with women who are at the wall who have high N counts, GEDs, a history of bad relationships, and a bunch of debt. Those women end up with truck drivers, dudes who wait tables, etc. But they might marry and have kids with a high N count 30+ year old woman if she has a lot of o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 10:01 PM
1	The Myth of the Carousal I haven't seen any study that lists the average number of sex partners a woman (or man) has had by age 30. If you have one, please post the link	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 09:48 PM
2	The Myth of the Carousal A relatively high N count doesn't bother me, or even if I find out a chick did some wild things in bed. But FWB does bother me. That is just cheap, slutty behavior, and it reflects badly on a woman. No guy wants to date some other dude's cheap booty call.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 09:33 PM
4	The Myth of the Carousal I have yet to see any decent study on human sexuality in regards to promiscuity. According to some studies, 32% of women lie about their sexual history, even on anonymous surveys, so the numbers you are going to get back are going to be suspect right out of the gate. One online survey with 60k responses indicated 50% of women have over 10 sex partners, and 30%+ have over 20. No way of knowing how legitimate that is. From my personal experience, the average number is 8-10 for women between 18-30 …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 09:31 PM
1	The Myth of the Carousal depends what you mean by high N count. My wife's is around 15, which to me is pretty high, and I married her when she was 33. We've been happily married for almost 20 years and have pretty good sex--in fact, the sex is getting better. She is highly educated, cultured, from a wealthy family, and a doll. Yeah, she had quite a few partners and married late, but it did work out. But if you are talking about a much higher N count than 15, then yeah, I can see issues	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 08:35 PM
4	The Myth of the Carousal I have known a lot of women, both as friends and lovers, and I've thought about the sexually history of the ones I've known. Many have told me about boyfriends, relationships, etc., and I've included my wife in the list. Of the women that I can accurately describe their relationships, I've listed them below, along with their age in parenthesis: Emily (18): 4 STRs by 18, one LTR Heather (23): 2 LTRs Nicole: 3 STRs, 3-4 LTRs Stephanie (30): 3-4 STRs, 3 LTRs Christina (32): 6 STRs Teri (33): 8-10 S…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 03:35 PM
4	Why do RPW seek LTRs while RPM spin plates? The elephant in the room is the fact that RPM are trying to improve their feelings of self-worth by spinning plates and playing juvenile games within the mating market. I will post about this in the purple pill, but RPM is a classic example of "the reformer is always right about the things that are wrong, but seldom right about the things that are right". In other words, just because you see some bad behavior from women, it doesn't mean that you have a solution, or that every woman is going to b…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/02/20 03:02 PM
1	First Date Mixed Signals no, but a girl won't give you a second date if you are too cheap to pay the bill after inviting her out. Maybe you should look at the bill and say "oi vey"! and then pull out your calculator to make sure she pays exactly what she owes to the penny. Go see how that pans out for you	/r/askTRP	04/02/20 02:53 PM
3	Smoking with girls yeah, because girls who think drugs are cool are the ones you need to get with. Maybe you should get some standards?	/r/askTRP	04/02/20 02:40 PM
-1	Smoking with girls Mike Tyson got divorced raped by one chick and sent to jail by another. Sure, he is the best heavyweight ever, but that doesn't make him some role-model of a successful man. Dude is bankrupt to boot. Weed is degenerate and tropical. High quality European men don't smoke that excrement	/r/askTRP	04/02/20 01:49 AM
-9	Smoking with girls Alphas don't smoke weed. That shit is for losers and NEETs. And women who smoke it should be avoided (generally, depending on how much they smoke) Seriously dude, try to do better than this	/r/askTRP	04/02/20 12:02 AM
1	Girl may have seen some ‘incriminating evidence’ in my room, advice? pretty scary stuff in the drawer bro and what's with the piercings? This isn't the 1990s. yeah, she probably got freaked out	/r/askTRP	04/02/20 12:00 AM
3	First Date Mixed Signals You fucked up the minute you asked her to split the bill. You asked her out, and pulling that Shylock shit at the end of the meal, even after she expressed some admiration and interest in you, was foolish. Ignore all the other advice on this thread, because she saw you as a cheapskate who wasn't into her, or at the very least, simply wanted cheap sex from her, and she shut your ass down as a result. So saving $10 cost you sex. Next time stop being oblivious and follow a simple social convention.…	/r/askTRP	03/02/20 11:45 PM
1	Something I don't understand about women giving advice about disclosing real n-count number The attitude from FDS is a vivid illustration of the fact that women don't want to be held accountable, or take ownership, of anything. Men are taught to own up to their mistakes, vow to do better, and set an example. Women are taught to become defensive, avoid taking responsibility, lie to get out of the consequences, and to proclaim victim-hood in order to win sympathy and dodge judgment. Promiscuous and self-destructive behavior is always someone else's fault (not enough good guys out there, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/20 02:24 AM
3	Something I don't understand about women giving advice about disclosing real n-count number Here is the issue ... Women are simply not honest. They are evasive, dishonest with themselves and others, create fictions and fantasies ... now this can sometimes be mysterious and fun, but as a guy gets older, he loses patience with this nonsense. The N count ties into this: if a woman has a high N count, and if she is a free spirit, she should admit this to her man. No secrets, no excuses. But if she says "none of your business", or lies about the number, we start getting into problems. I did…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/20 02:41 AM
0	Are you observing more or less successful realtionships in your day to day life? I don't see it getting better in the short-term. Feminism, technology, cultural influences, etc. --all this is going to keep having an impact. I know a few girls in their 30s. Unmarried, no real relationships, and they are miserable. But they have no one but themselves to blame: they passed on good men, ran up the N counts, digested feminist nonsense, and focused on money and shopping vs. finding a good man, getting married, and having a family. Any married woman in this country knows she can wr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 12:59 AM
1	Are you observing more or less successful realtionships in your day to day life? It is about 50 /50. Some of the LTRs and marriages seem to be working, but others are loveless or broken. Lots of infidelity, with 90% of it coming from the women, even those in happy marriages. Many of the single guys I know are not even interested in marriage at this point, and some aren't even looking for LTRs. They think western women are of low quality, unreliable, promiscuous, and dishonest. Guys are just not playing this game anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 12:37 AM
2	[Q4ALL] Let's talk about something that TRP and FDS never talk about. Shall we? What do you think about LOVE? Do you believe in it? Are you looking for it? Why is it that FDS never mention it? I had plenty of girlfriends before getting married. Only fell in love with three of them. The last one I married. Love can be agony and very inconvenient. One girl didn't love me in return (never got beyond friends) and another might have, but she cheated on me. Both experiences were painful and left me jaded. Some guys never fall in love and are able to compartmentalize their love lives. I was never one of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 12:26 AM
1	Seems like there is always an ulterior motive agenda with women. no it isn't. You are reading your own hostile feminist nonsense into it	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 12:13 AM
1	Seems like there is always an ulterior motive agenda with women. maybe a bit jealous, but he has made it clear the relationship is platonic. I've had really good guy friends start blowing me off and I get upset about that. Doesn't mean I want bromance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/20 04:12 PM
1	Seems like there is always an ulterior motive agenda with women. so married men are not allowed to have female friends?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/20 03:56 PM
-1	are red pilled men becoming more common or less? I didn't become full-on red-pilled until about 48 hours ago. I had experienced lots of bad female behavior, sketchy stuff, etc. but then this happened: my best friend (aside from my wife) engaged in nasty, manipulative, and outrageous behavior, and screwed over not only me, but a few other people. Western women do one thing better than anyone: disappoint. They do it in a shocking and unexpected way. So men better get red pilled and start getting real, because it isn't getting better	/r/askTRP	26/01/20 06:18 AM
5	If a woman shares her sexual history with a partner and it causes the partner to leave, then it's not a partner you want women don't want to be held accountable for anything, and it is virtually impossible for them to apologize: so everything becomes an episode in some abstract "past". and then we try to pretend this past has no effect on the present or future	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/20 06:03 AM
1	For those who are opposed to marriage, would you marry if your wife makes 3X more than you? career women make bad wives	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/20 04:58 PM
1	How Feminism Ruined Marriages I've been married 20 years, and feminism is screwing things up for me. It might not happen right away, and you might not even see it, but it will ultimately become an issue. After supporting my wife and kids for 20 years (she doesn't work), paying all the bills, mortgage, etc., my wife comes into a large inheritance (multiple millions). First thing she tells me is that she is going to leave all her money to our kids if she dies (even though I have her as primary beneficiary on all my accounts). …	/r/MGTOW	18/01/20 02:14 PM
3	How to get over bad days? the day I feel I have lived up to my standards will never arrive	/r/askTRP	18/01/20 02:04 PM