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Silent-War-5903/r/askMRP12/06/23 10:23 PM
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just for an update: we got a lengthy conversation regarding handling finances and she agreed to follow full transparency on her side, and I am not hiding anything on my side already, so let's what's gonna happen next. she claimed that she is not earning enough to cover 50%, and i said that's fine, but i want to see the proves, and just put all you earn on the table, I will add my part and we take it from there. btw, she also tried to close this conversation with just another covert contract, whi…
/r/askMRP16/06/23 09:45 PM
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good point, and it's actually what i've done already, her friends talking crap advisory and negative input are not welcome anymore at out home, around me and especially around our kids as this is harmful for them and giving bad examples. And she know I can and will be very strict and direct with communication if needed. but of course, i cannot and i don't want to control her contacts on this. > She needs to be called out on how would she feel if the shoe was on the other foot. and how do you sug…
/r/askMRP14/06/23 09:38 PM
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Read both that and the TRP trinity article linked in that same post. She is making all those decisions for status and escape because you are NOT providing enough of them. Just providing security does not satisfy a woman enough. When she is making those decisions as an escape, accountability is the last thing on her mind. She just wants to be unleashed. The day you start providing escape (we can discuss what that means and how to do that). She is not behaving manly to compete with you. That is no…
/r/askMRP14/06/23 09:06 PM
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okay, I just stated the fact - 'we are not financially connected by law meaning'. so that's not like she can walk with millions tomorrow. practically, yes, I agree, I am walking ATM aka blue pilled beta bucks, . right, i spent more money on her, than she earned her whole life and she's not 18y old HB9 I can fly to hotels around the globe. I just don't grasp why shit talking behind my back and hide finances? all the rest is in place (kids care, nice house, submissive sex, great cooking, etc..) an…
/r/askMRP13/06/23 09:28 PM
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already started, 'what you do is what you get'
/r/askMRP13/06/23 09:15 PM
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i value this one too, but honestly i don't think it will work, not now at least. it's almost like covert contract, things are good if we don't talk about problems or difficult things, easy life. on the other hand it not true life, and it's blocking any progress or move. nice.
/r/askMRP13/06/23 09:09 PM
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i really like your comment, really do. this may be the first one actually 'explaining' why this is happening. so, - she want's to lead, have power, make decisions, feel free and independent? in short she wants to be a man and actually is competing with me. and at the same time she is not willing to take responsibilities and face outcome of her leading and decision. just one example (and it's about $, yes): she triggered some actions with government here (in fact really about an unimportant detai…
/r/askMRP13/06/23 09:00 PM
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The fuck are you doing with finances? You support her but she keeps her finances private? How do you agree to that shit? well, I don't agree. Or rather I stopped tolerating this and don't accept it anymore. Before, couple of years ago, she earned little comparing to me, and I was ok with it, I was and still am big $$$, I even helped here to develop here company and we agreed on this. But now, she earns more (still not close to me), and she kind of started hiding this.
/r/askMRP13/06/23 03:02 PM
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I wouldn’t say hiding large sums of money and talking behind your back falls under AWALT. what is it then? note: we have 2 kids, I pay most of the big things that require $ and commitment, she's putting mostly in small and in kids, but still not all, whenever we talk about money, she says "i am spending money on this and this", but it's not like both put our salaries on table and budget it.
/r/askMRP13/06/23 02:58 PM
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Do you two frequently have an hour discussion over what to eat for dinner, just to both end up frustrated, and eat snacks out of the pantry? Start small if you have to, but literally just start making decisions without her input or approval. Text her in the morning, “hey I’m picking up dinner tonight. I found a recipe/new restaurant I wanted to try,” thank you for comment and time. Maybe you're right and i still don't get it, but I am not really looking for vote option here at internet, but rath…
/r/askMRP13/06/23 02:50 PM
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So gentlemen, thanks for your comments, I appreciate them, in your view, what's next?, what are the options here, and what do i do with it? I know 'it's your life, do as you want and face outcome' but I am looking for some practical next steps - So far, on the table, I have: - cut the nice part, and cut $$$, don't pay for her, no gifts, vacation on my $$, no more mr nice, no more Mr. ATM? - do nothing, accept, AWALT, she is just living her life in 'faked and in-honest reality', i am not playing …
/r/askMRP13/06/23 07:22 AM
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so, overall, I am quite confused about her behavior to be honest, looks like I am not accepting this, Attractive - i would say yes, and she said it many times too (and other woman too, publicly) - 'he's handsome', I am 48y, and I know my age, but people say I look 10y younger, i do gym/lift 2-3/week and honestly looking better than many boys there. and she likes that it, also in bed, she's submissive/sometimes porn-like even value: I do $$$ part, and also kids together, it's not equal 50% in eac…
/r/askMRP13/06/23 07:13 AM
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Sounds like you weren't actually applying anything at all... Get to work. True, these events just showed to me I failed with applying TRP concepts, as I also mentioned - that's why I mostly disappointed - with me and not recognizing and reacting to her faking half of their live and living double standards reality ...
/r/askMRP13/06/23 06:59 AM
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OK, I admit, mother of my children does not respect me, but yes, I've been to sidebar, and I still doing reading etc ..., as I said, i've been applying TRP/MRP since about 3-4y, and I like it a lot, I feel I live by my standards and in honesty with myself now/finally.
/r/askMRP13/06/23 05:53 AM
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You lack respect from your woman, yet you say nothing about the basics required to being a respectable man - more or less with ego, even. could you please elaborate on this one a bit?
/r/askMRP13/06/23 05:19 AM
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we're not married, just to be clear so financially she can take nothing.
/r/askMRP13/06/23 05:15 AM
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She's spending so much money behind your back? money yes - it's part of hiding too, but i don't care about money, what bothers me is rather that dishonesty, lack of loyalty, gossiping and talking behind my back and hiding things, dual standards
/r/askMRP13/06/23 05:10 AM
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Anyhow, what's stopping you from just confronting it head on and telling her you don't like that behavior, you feel disrespected and you lose trust when she takes your relationship problems to other people. too open communication if you ask me. btw, i've already addressed similar cases in the past where i clearly commented - that i don't tolerate such a behavior when she told me similar story about here friend. in short verbal and direct 'it's not sth i accept' so she knows;
/r/askMRP13/06/23 05:07 AM
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yes, thanks, wouldn't we end in a kind of 'silent-war' in the relationship? now, when i read your comment again, i am thinking maybe all this behavior is a response to my TRP/MRP approach - i've applying it last 3-4 years, i've already stopped being 'nice'
/r/askMRP13/06/23 05:00 AM
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Don’t not drop her because you have kids, keep her around as your sparring partner. If you can command respect from her, who has seen your complete lack of leadship, you’ll be able to command respect in most relationships moving forward. I like this comment, thanks, for the other responsibilities - i do it too, 2 of 5 days is on me to get kids to and from school, paperwork for school regs is on me too, weekend trips, etc... but it's true she still does plenty of this 'mother's tasks' and honestl…
/r/askMRP13/06/23 04:56 AM
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That’s contempt bro. It’s one thing for a woman to give you shit to your face, it’s an entirely different beast when they complain about you to a friend or family thanks, man, yes, this is my view as well, and that's why it is so disturbing, yes, for so many years together, we got fights and 'serious conversations', and yes, things were said, but there was usually heavy emotions attached. but now hearing this, talking about me and our relationship to her female friends (and her mother) in very d…
/r/askMRP12/06/23 11:15 PM
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