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| 1 | Why the obsession with doing everything quickly?“Tell her you like in the first 2 minutes, ask her out in the first hour, and become official within the first day or something?” Leading with clarity protects your future self. What your friends mean is that when you meet a woman you have to establish where you want to be & what role you want to play in her life. Communicate what your goals are early on to woman to determine if her own goals align with yours, it’s an effective way to respect both your time and hers. Being direct about your inte… | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 11:32 PM |
| 2 | I Approached a Girl… She Offered Me a JobIf you don’t ask the answer will always be no. | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 10:17 AM |
| 2 | Finally approachedAs it stands you have nothing to lose she already not giving you what you want right now. If you’re honest about your intentions and she rejects you, you’ll be exactly where you are now which is nowhere, getting nothing from her. Let her know that the door is open whenever she’s ready. She knows you like her and you can't spend your time waiting and hoping and pretending so you won’t lose her. If you are worried about losing a woman you’ve already lost her. A woman will still in your life only i… | /r/seduction | 31/12/25 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Finally approachedOk I wouldn’t recommend being dishonest about your intentions but if you think that’s the best way to get the results you want then go for it | /r/seduction | 31/12/25 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Finally approached“I’m interested in people with more than two brain cells” She is saying that she wants to see if the chemistry is there, and flirting is a low-pressure way to explore that possibility. She wants to see if there’s more than just sex. It’s confusing & annoying when a woman expresses contradictory desires, like her approaching you giving you her number in a bar and then saying she hopes that you asking her out isn’t romantic. But it means that she is interested in building a connection and wants to… | /r/seduction | 31/12/25 03:27 AM |
| 4 | Finally approachedI understand how you may be sick of this tactic however it’s common for people to have a second partner in mind incase the first one fails. Men & women Also you need to understand that she met you AFTER she was in a relationship so it’s not that she doesn’t want you or isn’t interested she just met you after her current boyfriend & she isn’t sure if she wants to leave a sure thing (her current BF) for something that’s uncertain (you) We can’t choose when people come in our lives we can only plan… | /r/seduction | 30/12/25 10:57 PM |
| 6 | Finally approachedNp glad I can help. Remember don't just wait on her continue to actively put yourself out there & meet new women not necessarily at the gym but just in general. Nothing may come of this so just continue to do your work out as if nothing changed & continue looking for new options. | /r/seduction | 30/12/25 09:02 PM |
| 4 | Finally approachedIt is very possible that she does have a bf it’s also very possible that she doesn’t have one & she was just rejecting you nicely. It’s also possible that she does have a boyfriend, but is interested in you & want to get to know you in case she breaks up with him. Women speak in layers so what she said might have a deeper meaning beyond the surface-level refusal, or it can be an indirect communication. She could be implying that she prefers OP, but because of standards for acceptable behavior, s… | /r/seduction | 30/12/25 08:10 PM |
| 1 | How do you start a conversation with a stranger on Instagram and get a reply?Np you can also check their profile to see if you have any common interests and lead with that. | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Your opinion pleaseIt doesn’t matter how much people you sleep with. There are going to be some people who live rent free in your head. The more of a connection you have with someone the more it’s etched into your brain making it harder to forget. Also if you have any unresolved feelings, lingering anger, resentment, hurt, or confusion from this person (which you must likely do because you were the one that got dumped) it’ll be harder to move on from a person. You can never TRULY stop thinking about someone you ha… | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 10:40 PM |
| 1 | How do you start a conversation with a stranger on Instagram and get a reply?There is no guaranteed method or magic phrase or words said in a particular order that will guarantee success. Just be honest about your intentions and establish what you want and what you can provide in return. | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Does getting older make game harder? Will it be harder to get dates?“What about habbits, connection and personality? Money won't help, unless she's on interest.“ You need money to facilitate these shared experiences it is deeply intertwined with all those things, especially in the early stages of relationships & men typically have to pay early in heterosexual dating, especially the first few dates, as a gesture of interest. I say men because It’s typically men who initiates the date & whoever initiates the date covers the expense and that’s typically men. Money … | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Does getting older make game harder? Will it be harder to get dates?Yes money can create sexual attraction because of the resources and security it provides, which are considered valuable traits in a potential partner. Also you are always being used in a relationship. Relationships are transactional so aslong as you’re getting what you want and ur happy with your relationship who cares? Generally speaking, getting into a relationship with someone is basically putting yourself in a position where you're going to be used. If you’re a Man in the relationship; Your … | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 03:48 AM |
| -1 | Does getting older make game harder? Will it be harder to get dates?There is no such thing as an unattractive man with money Money is the ultimate cosmetic. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Make sure you have enough of it. Stay in shape well groomed, have a decent personality you’ll be fine. But DEFINITELY have money it can overshadow physical flaws, making them seem less significant or even non-existent. | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 03:24 AM |
| 16 | Started talking to a professional athlete. How do I keep him around?The only way you can keep someone in your life is if THEY WANT to stay in your life. If they don’t they won’t. I’ll just say continue being the woman that got his attention and keep building on that. | /r/seduction | 15/12/25 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Am I just fooling and lying to myself with not well planned cold approaches?Guy here Here’s my thing I never approach a woman without an invitation first. Women like to be approached by men but they only like to be approached by men that THEY find attractive. So she has to have some type of tell that she actually wants me to come over to approach her. They don’t want just anyone walking up to them. It doesn’t matter how we see them it only matters how they see us. You have to be a man of value in a woman’s eyes. Also 4 approaches in two weeks in nothing. Not insulting y… | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 09:26 PM |
| 2 | How rejection changed my situation with womenYou don’t need to meet all of them the point is that you will never run out of women to meet, so when you do inevitably get rejected just move on to the next one because there will always be a next one. You get rejected ghosted etc simply move on to the next one. Yes there are some women you don’t need twice in life same as men, but there’s always another woman who can take the place of the one you lost, will lose or haven’t lost yet. | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 11:30 PM |
| 5 | How rejection changed my situation with womenNo I don’t care, woman turn 21 every day we will literally never run out of options. When I was younger and I’d approach a woman I just imagine that she’s already rejected me before I even talk to her. I don’t do that anymore now I just accept the fact that she will either like me or not even if I do get rejected what’s a couple of awkward seconds in the span of your entire life. If you never ask the answer will always be no. And if she says no just keep looking until you find your yes. There’s … | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 04:57 PM |
| 1 | The quickest way to success with women is...What do you get out of dating women you’re not attracted to? I’d rather stay alone if that’s the case | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 11:15 PM |
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