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Yep....when I was finishing my degree as a non traditional student in my mid 20s I was flirting with a 21 year old in a couple of my classes. When she found out I had a girlfriend she came at me even harder. She loved it.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 08:42 PM
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Its amazing how as men we always wanna see things via our ego and what makes us feel better ourselves no matter how asinine. 90% of the story above is fake or embellished. The abundance mentality you should have right now, according to red pill guidance, should be giving you so much satisfaction you wouldn't have typed this.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 06:38 PM
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A man's drive is passion. The reason a young man may fear women, or lack of desire for women, is due to lack of passion in his life. Nope, those reasons a man may fear them or appear to not have a passion for them may be many but most often comes from inexperience or ego. You're equating a type of behavior to one thing. There's all kinds of stuff that play into it. No need to 'over spiritualize' things.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 06:30 PM
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Yeah same deal I’m thinking. It’s that zest for the physicality and that side of life that fades.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 09:05 PM
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It’s called being 54 years old. She doesn’t have the energy or the libido. Menopause and all....the fact that you’re getting anything at all is good. If you want daily sex you’ll have to go younger. Just the way it is.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 12:06 AM
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That it was like having sex with the couch after a while.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 01:28 PM
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So what you are trying to say is that 'real men'...'alpha's' are autistic. (Or at least thats what you want to have us quietly conclude) Yep.....man this site is getting bad.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 05:06 PM
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The start of your post and the end are totally contradictory. You are Godly.....yet you 'chase' and 'smash'. NO doubt, I get the temptation and struggle but I'm starting to wonder if TRP isn't largely manufactured. Things on here seem uncanny at times.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 04:33 PM
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Yes this is true. She needs you to be a certain thing for her. When you won’t or can’t be that....her reasons for needing you go away.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 01:32 PM
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But, it doesn't matter anyway. Working stiffs have sex with women. Unemployed men have sex with women. Rich guys, popular guys, powerful guys... If you hate your job or life, change it up and do something different.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 06:06 PM
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Where do you find the time to fuck all those wives?
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 06:01 PM
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What has always worked for me is walking up and communicating desire. I'm usually balls deep in them a couple hours later. Awful lot of 'try hards' here.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 04:10 PM
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No she didn’t say that for either of the reasons you are thinking. She likely said it to be amused or see what would happen since she works with you both. You’re overthinking it.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 06:25 PM
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You’re making the mistake of projecting masculine thoughts and feelings onto women. You don’t respect monogamous men because it reminds you of something that constricts your desires. Thus you are projecting.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 06:09 PM
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For a guy to have a high salary....be seemingly relaxed about her finding herself and to have snagged her in the first place means he’s probably tired of her and is out having fun himself. He doesn’t care if she sleeps around because he already does. Remember what Billy Bob said about Angelina....
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 01:50 PM
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For all he knows her ‘Beta husband ‘ could be banging interns or have his own plates. We tend to think she is telling the full truth by painting a picture of a supplicating Beta. Truth is hubby may well know everything and doesn’t care because he gets fabulous pussy himself on the side.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 02:59 AM
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Ding ding....you got it. The problems men experience from over masturbation are actually caused by negative reinforcement and poor mindset. Positive reinforcement helps eliminate performance anxiety and a lot of the ED.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 02:20 PM
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Depends on the stripper.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 07:22 PM
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No it doesn’t because there is no way to measure it anyway. And again....I’m walking proof that it actually helped me.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 07:21 PM
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I’ve done the deep conversation thing and had some great sex. The red pill truth is she just wasn’t into you enough. She was willing to come over and give it a shot but in the end no matter what you did she wasn’t going to have sex with you.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 02:35 PM
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Yep and sad part is a lot of TRP becomes null for guys once they learn this because you do t really need a dose of reality when you learn how to experience life IN reality.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 02:25 AM
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It probably is......funny stuff though.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 08:46 PM
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When you realize that most of this is just immature sexuality wherein a young person hasn’t learned how to be comfortable with incorporating all aspects of their sexual persona into themselves yet....it makes much more sense. It’s all personal growth. There are women who are fine with rough and committed.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 08:36 PM
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It’s actually one of the biggest issues the nice guy faces. Often this is the key problem with guys. Body....lift. Income.....better job. Etc. Doesn’t mean your gonna get laid. The two key areas that get a man laid are embracing ones visceral sexuality and fun. And often those two are intertwined when it comes to what put people in the mood. The rest is generally irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 06:54 PM
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I don’t disagree and that is certainly a better idea. I’m just working with what happened. Sometimes some extra booze and the club can add that more ‘wild’ vibe to the night. Irrelevant now.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 07:41 PM
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The thing that killed him was his behavior at the club. He had all the time in the world to take the good vibes to the next level and should have had their bodies pressed together to the music before square jaw guy ever came along. Nice guys don’t know how to relax and have fun and this is what gets them every time.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 02:34 PM
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Rough sex is by its nature a product of passion.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 07:29 PM
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There's no calibration. You'll 'know' instinctively when she wants it and when she doesn't. Sure sometimes there's ambiguity but most of the time when a woman wants a man she lets him know whether she realizes it or not.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 11:25 PM
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If you know how to really read women and have some life experience you won’t have to deal with this stuff. Men and women who want to enjoy one another do so without ever contemplating unwanted advances. This stuff is all a result of men who can’t read a woman or who need to work on themselves so that women will desire them more often.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 04:27 PM
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I made this same comment in another thread a while back. So very true. The authentic self is not the filtered public self. Makes things a lot easier when you get this.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 09:03 PM
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Actually the biggest problem here is that most guys Just simply don’t ACT. They never have and largely still don’t via their ‘hamster’. Walk over and talk to her.....interact with her more......just get off your butt and DO. Quit overthinking and philosophizing about stuff you can’t do anything about. We all know damn well that the number one issue most of the red pill faces isn’t hideous ugliness or lack of muscles or anything like that....it all comes down to the fact that you are afraid to be…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 01:42 PM
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Yes TRP has positives to it in terms of self improvement but some of the theories on women’s subconscious are totally wrong. Furthermore I notice some Marxist undertones that reflect aspects of the very ideologies this site claims to oppose.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 11:15 PM
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Best response I’ve seen on this site in a loooong time.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 06:22 PM
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I actually don’t disagree I’m just saying there is no mechanism within a woman that keeps her from him as a result.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 02:53 PM
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Yep attraction has to occur first. Men have similar reactions to hot women.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 01:37 PM
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Drogo represents an archetype within the female subconscious. He is manufactured to represent the things women crave individually at their purest sense in terms of sexual characteristics or metaphorically.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 01:36 PM
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No doubt the insecurity is often a reason. It all depends on the situation .
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 01:13 PM
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It’s a huge gap for n this sub. Masculinity is necessary but it’s often not what even we men think it is in terms of how women perceive us. There is a lot of projecting a mans thoughts into a woman’s mind here often times and it is detrimental. The OP is correct in his general premise though.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 08:06 PM
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You are partially right. But you are falling into the trap toward the end of projecting manly thoughts and preferences onto women. Women don’t lose respect for you if you talk behind someone’s back. Men lose respect for each other when this happens. Think about a woman’s affair partner for a moment.....many of those guys shit talk husbands, hide behaviors etc. Women still fuck them. Same with guys who they are ‘friends’ with who they end up having sex with later on. Don’t make the fatal error of…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 07:41 PM
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Its just the simple truth that agreeing on everything is not necessary for attraction and thereby arousal. Common sense. The problem I see in your analysis is that BECAUSE there is disagreement that makes it easier to get laid. Not true. Its simply that agreeableness or not has nothing to do with it.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 02:15 AM
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This passage is part of the condemnation of pain in childbirth if you read all of 16. She desires her husband who gets her pregnant which then causes painin childbirth. This does not speak to a certain state of women in a 'secret' nature of any sort. Adultery is whole seperate thing.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 02:13 PM
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Or whoever she has in her restraints.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 01:52 PM
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If I didn't have the context of this site in mind while reading this and someone stuck these 'exchanges' in front of me I would think that Chode was either mentally retarded or that I was reading some accidental log of the wrong conversation nobody meant to print. Again....wtf did I just read?
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 05:36 PM
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And to tie this all together.....working out and improving yourself while accepting yourself along the way helps you to be more relaxed at drinking, dancing and having sex.??????(fill in the missing part here)
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 07:23 PM
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What exactly am I reading there?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 11:52 PM
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What if he goes home at night and jams his cock down her throat.....or fucks her in the ass. What if she squirts buckets for him? Is he still Beta? Does it change this situation? I agree kinda weird and pathetic with this whole thing but......man life ain't that black and white.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 05:59 PM
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While you can see that they are 'fit' in terms of agility and speed....they lack the one critical factor that separates men from women....upper body strength and size. Sheer brute force thru a combination of size and strength is key in situations like this. And they don't have it. Combine strength with proper police training and they should have easily been able to subdue him. This is why building muscle thru lifting is so critical and damn near a requirement if you want to dominate as a man. Th…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 07:21 PM
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Now be very careful here that you aren't misinterpreting. They could have quickly set up their next fuck date whilst talking outside. Remember she's a plate so she's free.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 10:22 PM
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Yep agree. I mentioned in a short post a few days ago about all the extra junk on this site. Not always bad stuff.....but useless in terms of sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 01:54 AM
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What surprises me the more I live and the older I get when thought of in relation to this sub....is how absofuckinglutely much research, discussion and information mining is involved in just simply going out and getting laid. Glad I only need TRP for certain key targeted aspects of life and aren't using them t to redefine myself as a person. Whewww
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 05:59 PM
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Oh there are women that do....but they're married to alphas.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 01:12 AM
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I would add that sex should never be spoken about in daily settings and should otherwise only be brought up in either a laid back casual atmosphere or as part of intimate conversation between you and a woman. It's very ccontextual and speaking of it out of context communicates weaknesses and unnecessary 'need' which will transmit low value.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 07:19 PM
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Yeah, posted yesterday this is clearly fake. Not that it doesn't and couldn't happen...but not in the oh-so amazing 'novel' way even if it does. Reddit poster only registered to post the story, no other history. And...it's a year old at least.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 06:37 PM
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I know there are and I know it goes on but the description is far too cliché and 'novel' as would be 'expected' to believe it. Plus, the poster only registered to post that account. No other history.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 06:33 PM
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Fake story but the responses are the most sickening part.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 10:46 PM
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These women all know exactly what they're doing. They want to be single for a reason. They want to be free and have lots of casual sex.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 06:22 PM
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Your mistake here all along...was that you didn't just fuck her and have fun while all this connection was happening. She doesn't want your heart felt love...she wants to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 01:59 PM
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Yep, that's the one. The one that the pussy side of your nature is afraid of.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 01:54 PM
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None of this is news or all that shocking. I have experienced it as a man as well. There are girls who are great on paper and even look great as well....but when it comes down to it there is just something 'viscerally' and 'genetically' not there for me. Then there are those women that all I can think about is how dirty we can be. These women are just realizing or admitting that physical attraction is just as important as all the rest. And it really doesn't have anything to do with behavior on t…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 12:37 PM
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This right here. I say this all the time but it gets ignored. And it's proof that this training idea is for guys who get little to no sex. Even then the no fap will cause you to bust in a minute.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 07:50 PM
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I would only argue that the assertion that her narcissistic side feeds the fantasy is in fact wrong. It's simply none other than wanting rough, passionate sex with a sexually attractive male. Her narcissistic side has zero to do with it. It's not about her.....it's about him. The narcissistic side is the part of her that seeks out a beta and children with marriage to the Beta later on. The marriage to the alpha is about serving and resting in the comforts of the alpha.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 06:49 PM
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This is a great post and very relevant to improving your quality of life as well as your ability to give your women that comfort/protection that she needs plus maybe a bit of adrenaline. Thing is though, don't lose sight of the forest for the trees here. There are 'betas' that are great at some of these things. There are even blue pill beta men that are great at sky diving, riding motorcycles and doing extreme sports that can't handle or approach a woman in the right context. These skills and ho…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 07:12 PM
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Attraction is far more centered around genetics, with a fit well taken care of body enhancing and maximizing the value and potential of those genetics. Then combine the fact that different women will react differently on a visceral level because of this to any given man, its a complicated lottery. After that its just being social, making connections and going for it. Plain and simple. There is far too much overanalyzing and false data correlations on TRP. It wastes a lot of peoples time.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 10:12 PM
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The linked post is fake. Too outlandish and if it is real which it could b I guess.... it's an outlier. No less a red pill teaching moment but not common.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 07:58 PM
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Ah! Love it. Atta boy.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/16 10:12 PM
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You're whole evening is a series of too many deliberate comments and half moves that are a result of your conscious 'red pill' checklist. Listen, I used to be at that point a handful of years ago but soon realized that a lot of the red pill purism is often best taken with a grain of realistic finesse. Example; when you said your wife has a position she likes particularly...you have to learn how to have dominant passionate sex with her in that position now and then. Not accepting starfish sex was…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/16 09:55 PM
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They go hand in hand. You could fake it somewhat but that would eventually have its limits.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 12:03 AM
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He has attraction issues toward her. Even for men who want to give it to a woman like a dominant caveman, it's very difficult when he doesn't feel the fire for her or despises the situation he finds himself in with her anymore. No man is obligated to be dominant and overpowering in bed. Only when he wants to. Even in my most beta days I always wanted to be a 'hot lover'. Cmon lets get real here. Every guy fucks a woman exactly how he wants to give it to her based on how she stokes desire in him.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 05:47 PM
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It's an interesting theory but what you are doing here is trying to link 'masculine' behavior to hormones. Generally, behavior is more of a character (psychological) issue than anything. Hormones only play a role to a very limited extent. It's true that weighing less and being healthier makes you feel better which helps increase positive attitude which is linked to confidence. But generally over all masculine behavior is more complicated and often a deliberate choice.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 10:37 PM
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She knows she was in the wrong and that she should have been different.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 02:47 AM
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One other thing I noticed in your replies. It's good to improve yourself and admit fault but you aren't 100% at fault here. No matter the character of a man a woman is always obligated to be submissive to him in spite of his failings. Something I know this site doesn't support but it's the way things should be.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 01:12 AM
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This is half directed at you OP and heaven knows certain elements of this story are common to all men in marriage.....but I have to ask..... Where do you guys find some of these women???????? I guess where I come from it's a Midwest farm culture. My friends married sensible women and had solid enough frame that no one I knew in my friend circle ever had shit like this happen. Ever. You cannot have a fulfilling red pill marriage to a psychotic skank. Wayyyy too many guys on this site are falling …
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 11:10 PM
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Remember ...ALL....humans are attracted to confidence. Men are also attracted to sexually confident women. Don't lose sight of the forest for the trees with what we are talking about here in terms of true gender dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 10:58 PM
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Get perverted and kinky with each other. This is what is meant to replace the NRE you originally felt and are in withdraw from. Wild kinky sex will bond you both in a new deep way. This is where real non emotion based love comes into play. To do this you will need to cultivate a non responsive deliberate sexual mindset.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/16 08:49 PM
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This is without a doubt the core red pill reality people need to know about marriage. Especially any marriage where women have a past high partner count.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 02:05 AM
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Those threads are hilarious. Guarantee you he had sex with her or at least some form of physical contact took place. Even the most adverse man would have a tough time not taking advantage of that. Maybe I'm wrong but I bet the odds I'm not. Amazing....
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 01:13 AM
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I firmly believe it's the primary issue that is often identified as alpha widow hood. In reality it's a corruption of conscience.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 02:40 PM
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The problem is that she fundamentally misunderstands that men are inherently wired to want to have 'adventure' with their wife in the way that they otherwise can't when unmarried. That being a need for "erotic love". That which provides comfort, security and sexuality in a mixture that fulfills all of a mans core needs (and ultimately thereby a woman's). This notion being put forth in the article above is always disproven when both men and women find themselves miserable and unhappy when it beco…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 12:27 AM
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You actually sound pretty well in control and dominant now. Sometimes people on TRP make things sound more difficult than they really are. Direct and straightforward is always a good bet. Loved the screwing like a wife vs a lover comparison. That sounds very masculine and 'boss' if you know what I mean.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 06:50 PM
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I'm not talking about MILFs I'm talking about actual incest type stuff.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 03:56 PM
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It's the more extreme stimulation being needed as men sink deeper into porn addictions. None of that is inherently natural in most men at least in large part. It's the extreme taboo that they require to get off as they sink deeper into the addiction.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 09:13 PM
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Yes, now you're talking. Lust motivates us to push forward, bond, connect, etc.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 08:02 PM
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Yes, the very issue of trying to get sex with a woman is the ultimate libido killer for them. Not giving a shit and just playing video games and jerking off is actually better than being horny and desperate all the time. It's starts from a base level of disregard for your own sexual needs in light of pursuit of other things....hobbies, friends, career etc.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 06:39 PM
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Drugs and alcohol. Ever notice how 90 percent of the lifestyle that so many here idolize is actually nothing more than an alteration of the mind via booze and often some drugs? So when these orgies and one night stands and partying and such all happen....it's usually via medication of ones mind to one extent or another. When I lived it for a brief time in my 20s....that was the common denominator among everybody. And it seems to be the common factor contributing to a lot of "alpha" behavior in m…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 10:31 PM
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Yeah....you just happen to be the other man who gives her wild bondage sex. You were able to cross that intimacy threshold in a matter of weeks that.......and let me guess...../her husband NEVER has!!!!! It seems all too predictable.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 10:59 PM
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This one of the best 'inadvertent' traits I developed with my wife. Never knew I was even doing it at first.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 02:55 AM
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I'm a dick and therefore I can fuck assholes.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 05:27 PM
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Yep, so much on here may or may not be fake anymore. There are things I hear in stories that cause my instincts to shake its head.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 11:46 AM
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This isn't even a question OR an issue. All they did was make their 'interest' apparent to one another, according to him. That could have meant anything to her. You don't go to a party and not make every effort to stay as short a time as possible if there was true legitimate interest there. He should have made an appearance with her and then got out of their and took her with him back to his place or hers. She just wanted to use him for a 'wingman'. He's a tampon, nothing more. There is no 'inte…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 11:34 AM
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Sometimes, its even more subtle than that. I was casually seeing a girl once back in college who was 'attractive' and had an otherwise decent body, nice face and was fun to hang out with. But for some reason...the 'chemistry' just wasn't there and I just couldn't really get fired up like I needed to. She didn't have good sensuality and poise in the bedroom and was also hard to associate wild sweaty fucking in my mind with. I wouldn't get the hot feeling in my loins when I thought of her.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 08:40 AM
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This is a refreshing post and something that's needed here. We need to remind ourselves as men what it is we truly want. Whenever I hear of men who mysteriously lose their libido at a younger age with a given woman....or a man who doesn't seem to be rough enough with passion in the bedroom I think many times it's actually a lack of attraction to her. Put the same guy mentioned above in bed with a slim young fine hottie and those desire and erection problems will go away. It s just that the world…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 12:31 AM
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Sound perspective right here. This appears to be the root cause of the discord. Granted the invite to the ex and the disrespect is unacceptable but that just means decisions about the relationship need to be made.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 01:17 AM
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That's a given already. On many levels...more than you know. But our senses are given to us for a reason and instincts still work. Else none of us would be here (TRP)
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 09:35 PM
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Yeah..its just, the RP is good and all for some truth about reality and even some sexual strategy, but its stuff like this that ultimately perpetuates this fantasy world in here. The type of world that's not good for actually living in reality.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 09:57 AM
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There is something about this post that seems too...'expected'. I'm not going to say its not true. But.....
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 11:20 PM
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Yes, and its one of the major modern problems. Not liking a specific sexual activity vs being raped carries historically different connotations and the difference was well known. They are trying to blur those lines today.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 07:36 AM
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Yes...this right here. In its purest form. The biggest issue of which is this separation of sexuality and lifetime commitment.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 06:05 PM
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If you have an advanced awareness of women you realize that you should already know ahead of time that she gives you subconscious cues as to whether or not she will sleep with you...period. If you can't read that or it doesn't feel like she will...this issue is the least of your problems. Paying is irrelevant and often is a sign of strength. If you are paying for a woman who isn't showing you respect you missed a lot of clues earlier in the date and when you first met her.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 05:29 PM
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This is simply an example of people rationalizing (hamstering) their own weak character. Legitimized cheating. TRP advocates for open casual sex arrangements, not open relationships.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 05:22 PM
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So, kink and God aren't compatible? Wow...would love to see where in the Bible it says they aren't. And we are talking about the practices here...not the contexts. Granted you probably don't believe anyway, I realize that, so this discussion is futile. Cruz is a politician. Nuff said on that. If you're looking to politicians for authenticity...well I assume you were born yesterday then? Yeah, aggressive chasers are problematic. Usually major emotional problems.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:50 PM
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Sounds like it started out consensual, as she said...and the roughness didn't appeal to her. Happens. A woman has to be in a right frame of mind to 'accept' roughness from a given man. He didn't put her in that frame of mind. Doesn't void the truths or importance behind TRP. Simply means in this case...if true, we have a case of a woman assuming she would enjoy something she didn't. And often times 'roughness' must be achieved thru given means. He probably just went for it and she required more …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:42 PM
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Interestingly...the Bible talks a lot about Sex when it comes to marriage...with little other requirement. There is the way men and women are to treat each other as well in order to live healthy lives. But nowhere is the modern notion of 'romance' encouraged let alone dictated. Rough, animalistic, sensual, kinky sex would be God's preferred sexual menu between a husband and wife as it expresses the true nature of our spirits. I'll tell you right now...there are a lot of evangelical and fundament…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:10 PM
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Oh...absolutely. I'm simply speaking in context of a specific situation. This is where strength of mind and conviction is essential for men. Not 'worshipping' vagina. One key subtlety that men miss about this is that there can be a difference between a man who gets a lot of women and a man who chases a lot of women because he worshipping the golden calf of 'vagina'. The man who is chasing out of that idolization of a woman...the thing feminists want men to do....may also be landing a lot of wome…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:39 PM
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I think the core of what the TRP addresses is/should be the fundamental issue men have with simply being comfortable expressing their core sexuality. Just express sex. Period. Wanna know what? Recently, I have started manifesting this to my wife. Things some guys would never dare say. I have actually started telling my wife if I'd 'fuck' another woman or not. All in good fun innocent conversation...and guess what...it just makes her giggle. And interestingly, we aren't having sex any less.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:15 PM
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Often times TRP has its own hamster issues and this appears to be one of them. An insightful post OP, as it illustrates the actual differences between men and women. Your only issue here is your seemingly shocked demeanor. Women don't value sex the same way men do. It means far less and thus is treated with far greater disdain. From her perspective, fucking many men at once...for her....is getting 'used'. Remember, women have sex for the fun of it (or what they term 'for the fun of it') only whe…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:01 PM
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Stepping out and actually living forces you to learn and overcome things. I own a home and it's forced me to have to learn how to fix things. I have two sons, they force me and compel me to excel at what I do to make more money, gain knowledge and live by character and principal. And....I have a wife who I constantly have to learn how to lead, woo and handle. All this while maintaining relationships with family, friends and being a public official in the community. And I consider myself far less…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 11:56 PM
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Good to see a fellow Iowan on here.👍
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 11:49 PM
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This is something I have put to use much more vigorously the last couple years. I'm not to the point where I don't masturbate at all. But I can go 7 days easily now and even got myself up to 21 days in a row last year. It definitely helps your mood, temperament and trains your mind to delay that gratification. It also can cause you to pull the trigger sooner if you go a long period of time without sex but the frequency with the wife should be eventually increasing which can greatly help that.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/15 06:38 PM
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Real simple; With that better body and more positive mindset...hit the clubs/bars, socialize, etc. Simply insert guy A into environment B with hot girls X,Y and Z. When was my most fruitful time with women? College and while I took a break from college living in a college town...while working as a radio personality at an 18-34 demo formatted radio station. You pretty much have to avoid women purposefully at that point if you DONT want to at least have moderate success. And I'm one of those (cute…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 09:57 PM
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Sounds to me like your holding 'God' to blame for your woman's behaviors and blaming yourself as an aside. Also, scripture doesn't teach you to become a beta because if your living a true masculine Godly life, you'll need to treat your wife with more 'Love' than not due to your leadership position within the home that God ordains you as the man hold. It was you man....you made her an idol before God. You lost your frame b/c of that and things fell apart. Good for you for your improvement. Keep i…
/r/ThankTRP14/08/15 02:41 PM
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FMF is fine with me as is anything where I am the only man...for obvious reasons. Now, I am not saying a MFM wouldn't be out of the question...but not in an LTR/Marriage.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 04:17 PM
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Yep at the core of it all is this.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 10:06 PM
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For me the whole partner count issue always gets misaddressed. It seems for some guys its about pure number. Well, I don't care of a woman was with 100 guys...if those experiences could be eclipsed or outdone by me. What bothers me is the intensity and raw sexual creativity and uninhibited nature that those experiences embodied against ours (mine and hers). The risk for me is that her experiences might be hard to beat at least anytime soon and without stepping into a realm I don't want to go ex;…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 08:09 PM
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I don't know if its quite that simple. If a woman's husband has sex with another woman but there is no love involved, they simply deal with it and get over it much easier. They don't particularly like it though. Whereas, if a woman developed an attachment or fondness for another man but wasn't sexual with him, a man can deal with it easier but doesn't particularly like it. It's just how both genders are wired to interpret and experience things.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 06:29 PM
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Yep, and it's what is truly 'red pill' at the end of the day. Women and men are different, created as different genders and have differing roles and as such have different sensitivities. But women also sexually crave what we men crave at the crux of it. And I think that scares us/him more than anything. I'll add though...men can be totally taken with a woman's 'golden vagina'. Claiming its the best he's had too. Her manner, her demeanor in bed. That all comes into play. We have a wide variety of…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 01:18 PM
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I think this is actually really the vast majority of reasons for female infidelity. It's actually rarely about the 'better man' because that's such a vague...often non-sexual characteristic anyway. Rather...its about pure sex. Now pure sex CAN lead to more...such as 'love'. But there is often a mindset here at TRP that we must embody all these amazing characteristics. When in reality most women want what men want...variety/satisfy curiosity. When it comes to cheating that is. Horny simply lubes …
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 06:44 PM
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This right here ties all of the female oriented themes regarded being 'wanted' and 'desired' together. That's what it really all is. When women say they want our desire for them...they literally want to see our naked masculine sexual energy for THEM displayed without any hesitance. To them, that's us manifesting our love and desire.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 08:58 PM
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Honestly, if the above reasoning was the case, porn and every amateur porn video out there would trigger this very process in men. No need to cover the 'truth' in generic game writings on a blog. Real life sex often is much less novel than most of the porn out there which 'betas' have unlimited access to. If anything the conquests would help serve as more of an incentive to adopt more alpha behavioral characteristics. I hope this isn't Red Pill hamstering to get around the real possibility that …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 02:06 PM
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It's not about number per say...it's about what that number indicates in terms of sexual intensity. I better get outstanding quality sex. Our intimate life had better be erotic and adventurous beyond words the higher the count without any 'introducing' from me.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 05:16 PM
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Exactly, you don't have to have it to get laid and have good, fun wild and crazy sex. The point of the post wasn't about wealth=sex and that's what I was trying to get across. Wealth can be a beta measuring stick as much as an alpha one. Wealth is 'preferred' but definitely not required.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 06:22 PM
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In a relationship? Hell no. For a one night stand or FWB? You bet. Remember...sex/passion IS respect. Women honor and respect men by engaging with them on a primal level. Women don't necessarily respect a wealthy man just b/c he is. Gotta have some other things thrown in there.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 06:09 PM
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Thing is, earning potential doesn't have a thing to do with how much your woman respects you and how well she treats you. Women marry men all the time who make a lot of money and 'own' things but still cheat on them.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 03:22 PM
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I have seen positive changes...between my wife and I in terms of how we interact and how she treats me with more respect. It's still a work in progress right now. Only problem is that in spite of behavioral changes from me and as a result from her as well as increased physical fitness, the sex has not largely improved much. Classic example right there of a 'shit-test' and obviously while you failed, it happened to cause her to even point it out. In a circumstance like that, I would have actually…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 03:57 PM
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Yep...This. Furthermore...I take an additional approach that isn't often widely accepted on TRP. Desire is and often must be a deliberate state of mind. Yeah, I know, violates the pure responsive desire school of thought. Now, I'm not saying improving yourself is invalid, quite the opposite. Stoking desire in your partner on your end is also necessary to help facilitate an easier mindset within her. What I am saying is that women CAN deliberately turn it on and off. I've seen it personally. The …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 01:57 PM
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And beyond all this, even had you stood up for your wants, with even more vigor than you did, she still wouldn't have been interested or met you where you wanted to be because a stable LTR for her CAN'T give her brain the stimulation it needs. It was those exciting 'illicit' encounters she needed to actually get off. She can't be married. She can't. She needs flings, wild rendezvous, etc.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 04:21 PM
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It's all a combination of over masturbation and anxiety. Just looking at actual porn without touching yourself or anything...doesn't cause ED or PE. Its what's happening in your head. Even masturbation without porn, done to excess can cause this. There is something about knowing you haven't ejaculated in a while and your walking around with a hair trigger and full tank. It means you know your going to get hard no matter what and that in turn breeds more confidence. I go back and forth as well. A…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 01:43 PM
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Not to piss on the thread...but I sometimes wonder if this stuffs even real. It just seems all to 'perfectly' tragic and controversial. Purposefully published to get views and attention. Something in me doesn't buy this. That's not to say things like this can't happen.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 06:36 PM
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I agree with this right here. Furthermore, we should be focusing on what makes us 'happy and content'. I'm not spouting progressive feminine dogma here either. Exertion and self improvement is definitely worth it...IF it makes you happier. You shouldn't ever work your ass off so you can be miserable living someone elses version of happiness. Groupthink is very hard to shed.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 07:00 PM
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When people don't respect something anymore, they treat it horribly. Lack of respect for marriage often comes with people who neglect it. Interestingly, a lot of the serious Christian couples I know who strongly value marriage stay fit and keep it interesting with dates, fun, etc. It's always the 'wild' ones who get married and then slack off and wonder why they aren't happy anymore. When you spend your single years trying to bang anything that moves because you think marriage is the end...what …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 06:44 PM
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Apt point, but I often wonder if this isn't just you/us 'projecting'.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 03:18 PM
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Is her boyfriend RP? Is he alpha? Who knows, but it doesn't matter in the slightest. He's gone, she wants some dick, so she goes back to the alpha she couldn't keep around< I think the core of it all boils down to this. In that, it doesn't matter. I don't even know if hypergamy is real in the sense that its an actual thing other than one guy is different than the next and whatever a woman wants or feels in the moment is what she looks for in said guy. Human nature.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 09:25 PM
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I've never walked a great Dune in the Sahara, climbed a glacial ice wall, been in a bar fight in Dublin or done a line of cocaine off a Tokyo model, chased by a bear or been genuinely fearful for my life.< What do any of these things have to do with giving someone a license to raise a family or dispense knowledge? True wisdom is gained thru day to day life experience. Its the knowledge and instinct that's molded as the years go by. Many men who have lived and done some wild things and emulated '…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:49 PM
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Yep, This. Its men who are actually trying to 'impress' women to get laid who are identifying as male feminists. I moonlight for an event facility that recently hosted Michelle Williams of the Daily Show. It's in a university town of course. It was appalling sitting there listening to some of these guys during the Q & A session confess themselves to be a male feminist and gush in front of everyone and her, as they get a 'platonically' friendly endorsement from her and those around them...probabl…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 06:50 PM
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I saw this earlier on a generic news website and just started chuckling when I read the first few lines. An uncontrollable giggle. Shaking my head. Its actually really sad and pathetic human behavior.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 03:59 PM
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A great read other than the small issue of "That Guy" the grammar could easily be changed to "That Girl". Was this how she 'talked' as a manner of speech? Or did you mistype this?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 02:39 PM
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That's when you ask..."Where's the police report?". Most women who are dead serious she was raped and is speaking any morsel of truth will have contacted the authorities and the matter would be under investigation or fully investigated with a conclusion. That's not to say the guy was or wasn't guilty, but it provides for more legitimacy. (I say 'most' because I realize there may be some instances where they don't.)
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 09:03 PM
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Sounds like there is a lot more going on underneath the surface. He was stupid for ever 'swooping in' to begin with. You don't touch a girl like that and expect not to have issues. His respect being damaged aside.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 08:10 PM
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Interestingly, I am on a little bit of metformin for adult on-set. (Under control and no side effects) But combined with the metformin that level of exertion was brutal. I know space my workouts more gradual and even thru the week and take a break here and there. Push-ups one day, solid cardio the next. And I work out in the early morning or mid day.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 07:04 PM
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Interesting...I seem to remember this same story posted before. Did you post this or relate this story here in the last 8 months?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 07:00 PM
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I experienced in the last year when I was lifting and running for an hour a day 4-5 days a week. I would CRASH by 9pm and then awake suddenly ready to go at 2-3AM, followed by a need to slumber off by 6AM again.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 06:17 PM
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And this illustrates that women are capable of withholding good sex from you and being totally satisfied...and you'd never know the difference. For men, good sex is mandatory, for women its recreational. Great sex is how men, in general, experience love and validation from their woman.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 07:29 PM
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This is one of those moments in life that you are realizing what you truly WANT out of life. I have come to realize that I don't 'need' to be married. I realized this after marriage and after I slipped back into beta mode from once being fairly Alpha. I just don't. I don't need it and often haven't 'wanted' it anymore at all. Marriage is a wonderful thing. It's intent is from God and created to bring about the most ultimate union. But men don't require a woman in their life. They simply should o…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 07:16 PM
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This actually used to be pounded into kids heads in the old days by every Father and Mother out there. My how times have changed.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 09:55 PM
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The whole key is not getting caught up in the program and the process. Take these concepts, internalize them and use them on your own as you will without following a set of guidelines.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 09:47 PM
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Not too long back my wife was acting up something fierce in the car as we got to the mall. I finally pulled in a parking spot and said "Are you going to keep acting like a 15 year old or act like a grown woman?" It was amazing...she immediately calmed down and said 'No I wont act like a teenager, sorry.' and things cooled right off.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 09:22 PM
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And the issue with the business itself is a side matter. The worst part is that you are letting it struggle (in her eyes). It affects her in so far as it affects you (And thereby potential income) What's the plan? Push forward and grow? Or sell? As long as you address it and work to resolve it, she'll feel much better. When you come to her with an issue, its all in how you express it.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 09:15 PM
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A lot of the RP philosophy is good and I agree with it. Some of it not so good. And those things I disagree with. I'm going to take an entirely different stance here. You stated your needs. That's very good. Stating your needs ought not be anything more than your need for sex, period. Where you fell afoul here is that you allowed your need for sex to morph into an 'emotional issue' for you which led you to threatening her with finding another woman. Woah.......... That's a major beta move. What …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 07:31 PM
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That wasn't the point, the point is she showed her true inner attitude when she said "spitters are quitters". My point was that should illustrate the contrast to any guys who are new or not convinced.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 07:13 PM
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The only part she is really correct on here is that women want to feel a mans desire. That's true, they very much do, more than anything. The rest of it she kind of makes excuses for bad female behavior..blah blah...and then she jabbers on.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 02:00 PM
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The thing that should stand out here for all men is that while first refusing and stating she doesn't like oral....she then finally comes back with "Spitters are quiters" Any girl who doesn't 'do' oral or claims to 'hate' oral never uses the line spitters are quitters.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 01:46 PM
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What he was proposing here is the idea of a form of eugenics. Whereby men with certain traits and abilities would reproduce with certain chosen females to carry on a line of 'extraordinary men/people'. This idea has been bandied about often within the lest several hundred years.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 01:32 PM
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The difference is 'fake' confidence as opposed to genuine confidence. Women can smell fake confidence across the room.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 09:15 PM
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This is so fundamentally profound and simple its amazing how most men miss it. If you are honest and let them know your intentions up front, it avoids a lot of trouble. And its very direct and masculine.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 07:49 PM
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Yep, it's the reality that true strength is inherit in self acceptance and assurance. I noticed something once that I wrote off while my wife and I were having sex. I really reached down inside and let out some manifestations right before and during orgasm that felt very vulnerable/new....almost feminine to me. It caused her to moan and act in an amazing way. I could tell it was primal and genuine and that she really really liked it and it caused her to react in a very hot way. Just an example o…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 01:57 AM
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This right here...is when I started to truly internalize this stuff. When I really started working on myself a couple years ago, the red pill, NMMNG, Athol Kay, etc. It all was like this bitter double edged sword because it actually made me 'more' self conscious and less secure. I realized I must be doing it all wrong. And I was. I don't see this truth even discussed much on TRP itself because its the scariest thing about truly accepting yourself and developing genuine self esteem. A lot of guys…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 09:51 PM
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A lot of this goes without saying but what I struggle with, especially now as a married man and father, is how to get 'into' a given hobby with my limited time and money. Furthermore, I struggle with whether I should already be into something before I make it a hobby, or just choose something and start trying it. The first part is the limiting issue (structural), the second is the..... making it worth it..... issue. If its something I am going to lose interest in anyway and give it up it isn't w…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:16 PM
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You then reply "Who cares? Let's have some fun....no one needs to know" you simply go for it anyway.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 09:56 PM
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I see a lot of the problem here being a lack of direction in terms of what you wanted from her. If you wanna have sex with her, just be authentic and tell her that's what you want. She already was 'into' you, all you had to do was continue the sexual interaction. All the 'hanging out' muddied things and caused her to lose confidence in you (decisiveness). She doubted your intentions, which always ruins it.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 06:38 PM
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The biggest TRP truth to come out of the slut's mouth was that she wouldn't say this to a guy she planned on dating. I think this is the most vital thing to take away from all this. It reminds us to always present ourselves in the most 'sexual' manner possible. That then frees her up to let her deep dark sexual side out as well. Relationship or not.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 04:29 PM
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Yep, agree. It's a matter of simply 'doing' and 'being' what you want.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 04:10 PM
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A great thing to mix into this process is learning new skills, trades, etc. Learning how to fix things, build things and/or operate things. Gives you a big leg up not only on a potential professional level but also in life in general.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 08:13 PM
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You know, when you realize that what this guy really did was simply get close to her and then initiate the idea of/pursue physical contact (sex), it's amazing how truly simple it is to do this.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 07:21 PM
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Doesn't mean you don't do something if you don't want to...the whole issue is 'why' you're doing it and for who.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 08:32 PM
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You have to let go. That's the key. The ultimate sexy masculine man is one who has let go....and accepted himself.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 08:16 PM
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In terms of LTR and marriage scenarios involving cheating or divorce...look up Hysterical Bonding. Amazing how the crazy white hot sex that occurs in a previously dead bedroom is the result of an man getting some on the side or a couple about to break up or recently broken up. Nothing like a traumatic event to break up that unhealthy beta based 'emotional fusion'.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 10:45 PM
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I am going to be doing this in the very near future. Wife has already given me the indication in conversation very recently that she 'wouldn't mind' doing this type of stuff in a roleplay scenario. Problem I run into is our time is so limited with kids and work for this type of stuff aside from rare relaxed weekends and holidays. We will be having some time later this week to ourselves with no kids. She might be on her period then but I am still going to warm her up, soldier thru and get rough.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 05:00 PM
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All this is an example of is a young, immature, immoral woman who is rationalizing the reasons for trying to hide her actions from her boyfriend and convince herself she shouldn't do the right thing. The fact that she is making it public is probably a lot further along than some women get. She is wrestling with something and its coming to the surface. Some women never bat an eye. literally.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 04:28 PM
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Often times the three are interchangeable. They mean basically the same thing. Only maybe with slightly different variations depending on context. Historically they may mean different things but its the context and relative 'slang' used by the individual. Generally cute and hot tend to be the modern ways of girls/women expressing attraction. Again often interchangeable. Handsome tends to be a more formal expression by older women. Overall...hard to tell. Probably not something to get to worked u…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 04:14 PM
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I have heard from a couple sources before and witnessed in various places how women will do wild, passionate things they otherwise wouldn't normally or traditionally do if they are aroused enough. Often times, the male they are hot for will ignite a desire in them that pulls them from their traditional zone. I have a theory that women will sort of 'bond' around or thru an attractive male (Threesome). That may be a total crap theory but nonetheless I think its plausible. What it really comes down…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 03:59 PM
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It all comes down to not being a 'follower' or conformist. If you have that edge that makes you unique..almost totally counter to the established boring norm and behave appropriately, then you have that edge. Notice how women actually have steamy fuckfests with all those otherwise 'loser' guys? Maybe the guy doesn't work full time or at all but he is decent looking and sits around and smokes pot...likes to party. In essence, he is flawed and likes to combine that with letting his primal human en…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 02:03 PM
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