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I’m 22 and felt the same way at 19 and still do. Although I will say I find certain men in their 30s attractive as well, but wouldn’t date
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:08 PM
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A. I am very young, work in sales and take care of my appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:34 PM
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That’s basic. Try r/femalehairloss
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:48 AM
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I have female pattern hair loss, as do many women. This isn’t just men feeling pain here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:05 PM
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I’m willing to bet that’s anecdotal/specific to your life experience. Most women desire LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:55 PM
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Facts. That “new relationship energy” stuff is like a drug to some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:45 PM
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Thanks! This basically sums up my thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:12 PM
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Ok sure, “AFBB” but this honestly can go both ways and does in historical tropes, i.e. 1950s housewife sitting at home with little Dick and Sally while her husband is hitting the bars all night. “Saturday night was for wives, but Friday night was for the girlfriends.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:50 PM
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That’s a lot of mental gymnastics. Women don’t owe men sex, and creating over-analytical constructs in your mind that generalize an entire group of people is probably detrimental to your social and relationship abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:41 PM
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I’ve had plenty of guys waste my time, going through the motions of a relationship/wanting something more, while in reality sex was the endgame.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:07 PM
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This is what I’m saying!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:18 PM
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It is entirely accurate in my experience, not just with sex but it applies with other things too. For example: people who talk about how intelligent they are usually are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:17 PM
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You definitely did make your case, but I do think it’s worth working through some of those bad things you went through so you can resolve some negative feelings. Never was one to joke about something out of peoples control, but Honestly seeing your comments here made me realize the impact it can have on people. I can empathize a lot, your experiences are valid and like the above commenter said this sub is probably a bad place to find advice, but can be a great way to send a message to different …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:05 PM
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In my experience ANYONE who boasted about how much they could make me cum… worst sex I’ve ever had
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:55 AM
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Many men who believe they are “small” are actually not, and perfectly acceptable to most women (excluding women who have weird standards, trust me you don’t need them) Even if you have an objectively small penis, like others have said women typically do not orgasm from penetration, your mouth and hand skills far outweigh something that’s out of your control, like dick size and a lot of women don’t care about that to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:12 PM
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A lot of men here are going to say no out of pure spite, but in reality we know it’s the opposite lmao. IME the men who defended this shit the most were also the most insecure and jealous if I had other body preferences or liked a guy who was a different race/economic background or something along those lines
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:22 PM
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The act of masturbating is not equivalent to using content to masturbate with
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:18 PM
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Might want to Re read the post lol and no those are not equivalents
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:09 PM
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Understand, No worries! I agree with part of that sentiment, but ultimately I think sex addiction can be the root of a lot of these problems too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:02 PM
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Nothing screams insecurity here, just simply flipping the script as the post asked
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:09 PM
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I don’t believe it’s an echo chamber mostly due to normalization of porn, these communities are in the minority and often face ridicule and are met with consistent rebuttal. I truly believe sex/porn addictions are much more common than people believe, especially in a day in age where people have easy access to content of millions of different bodies and sexual acts, as well as lewd/suggestive content of familiar people and locals on social media, it’s fair to assume a lot of men blur those lines
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:11 PM
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Lmao full stop on that one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:03 PM
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Like I said fair enough. You certainly seem to be an outlier because there are entire subs and websites dedicated to women with boyfriends and husbands that do these things. Again in my personal life experience many men I’ve seen did these things as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:59 PM
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Fair enough but I’m referring to your reply saying the only part that would bother you is her including people she knows. It is a relevant double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:56 PM
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So You’ve never looked through old crushes socials? Or used a picture of someone half naked to progress into watching porn? buy OF from girls you used to know? Message/tip cam girls or streamers who are familiar or local? I ask because I know from experience (and others as well) that a LOT of men do these things in addition to watching porn
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:51 PM
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This is really sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:48 PM
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These things can bleed into another. Just some perspective on what a lot of men do in addition to these behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:40 PM
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Raising some equivalents here: Would you be ok with your gf scrolling through social media talking with/looking at hot ripped guys from her college, successful businessmen, celebrities?Would you be ok with her buying huge dildos and toys to simulate sex with “bigger equipment” and know what a big dick is like? Would you care if she masturbated thinking of men she knows or your friends, using their pictures? Or masturbated thinking about her hot ex FWBs? Would you be ok with her saving countless …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:21 AM
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I’m a woman. Don’t really know where you got stats about women being less loyal than men. I don’t believe most women are hypergamous either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:48 PM
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Same here. Too jealous and monogamy minded to deal with it. I genuinely am curious about how others manage it, If they feel jealousy or insecurity at all, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:00 PM
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Playing story mode on another man’s saved game lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:31 PM
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Go find yourself a sugar momma. None of these “studies” are stopping you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:07 PM
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Although I do agree with the notion that a lot of women want a sole provider while they SAHM or whatever, I can’t help but think there’s plenty more on the flip side who provide for themselves with their own career, and just want the physical/emotional aspect of the relationship with a man. It can’t be that rare!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:15 PM
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I make 3x the salary my BF does and he lives a great life because of me. You need to pop that RP bubble and see people for what they are: individual people with individual lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:47 AM
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Can confirm the hottest sex I have with my boyfriend is after we’ve been fighting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:54 PM
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Like an above commenter said working out in certain clothing causes chafing and over heating. It’s like if a guy were to go shirtless or wear a small muscle tank so he can feel the pump and not be restricted by extra fabric. That may be true but don’t be surprised if most women shoot any advances down at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:33 AM
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Wearing certain workout clothes does not mean you want to be hit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:27 AM
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“If the only attractive age for women is 18-30 in mens perspective” is what I am referencing. I understand arguments about fertility but I see this parroted here a lot and I’m sure most men can think of many sexually attractive women 30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:14 PM
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Confused, When did the “wall theory” devolve into the notion that women are no longer attractive after 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:55 PM
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I have a hard time with this one. When I catch my boyfriend looking at Instagram/Tik tok girls and porn it makes me want to end the relationship. It’s extremely agonizing and angering, I wish I had the answer to this question. Don’t know how I’ll ever move past it
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/22 11:28 AM
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This is a great way to put my thinking as well, the sex I’ve had with my man is 1000x better than any casual hookup I had before. I’ve had to really emphasize that point because it can be like a night and day experience for a lot of other women too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:02 PM
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I have to agree with you. I have a low N count primarily because I am young and don’t have many opportunities to go out often due to the nature of my job and workload. I would say hypothetically there are a lot of men out there, even in my city, who I would feel a “connection” with and want to have sex with quickly. However, since I am in a committed relationship I don’t desire it or seek it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:50 PM
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I slept with my boyfriend on our first date. We’re going on three years, looking forward to many more hopefully. I have a low N count. I honestly was all over my boyfriend because I knew our connection right away. The above logic applies anecdotally I imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:38 PM
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You should do that girl a favor and probably stick to your Miss India’s and whoever else you got on your list of women to run through lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:50 AM
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5’9 128 pounds. I’m naturally leaner and I’m fairly active, I’m going on 22. My mom is a body builder and is yolked at the age of 48 so she inspires me to get more serious about fitness, just need to get my ass up to do it , honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:59 AM
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So sorry this happens to you too. I completely relate to what you said, it’s horrific how some men take pleasure in scaring women this way. I work in the field most days (streets) so this happens more often than I care to say
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:10 PM
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Seconding this. It’s usually very forced and borderline scary to be approached like this, especially at work where you need to be professional
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:27 PM
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I find men with high body counts extremely unattractive, even more so if he prides himself on his “skill”, because 9 times out of 10 those men have no clue how to pleasure a woman and are being lied to about orgasms etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:59 AM
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Are you a man? I’m a woman and I find men with high body counts extremely unattractive. I’ve found that men with lots of “experience” have an over inflated sense of self and don’t actually know how to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:57 AM
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Physically it can be instant for me, I find guys who are similar height/taller than me and are lean/fit/husky very attractive. A huge part of my attraction is how they dress. I live in southern USA which influences this so I like boots, jeans, nice shirt etc. As opposed to flip flops and shorts for example. A hot guy can quickly turn unattractive if he is arrogant or rude. My attraction to many men has been instantly evaporated by a range of things like making shitty comments about exes/family m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:17 PM
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I agree, I have red hair and I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been fetishized for it, or told that it is many mens favorite… I think majority of men are pretty general in what they’ll sleep with though as others have said here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:16 AM
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A lot of these men approach dating like it’s a scientific hypothesis that needs to be proven, imo this over-analytical way of thinking (I commonly see it here) is causing them to get in their own way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:18 PM
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I am assuming he means that it is incredibly easy for most women to get dates or men’s attention. So it’s kind of ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:20 PM
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Just out of curiosity, how did the threesome affect your relationship if at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:33 PM
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This made me laugh honestly I’d do the same. Just nope out without anyone knowing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:56 PM
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This is where the line gets blurry for a lot of men. Obviously no woman will love you or put up with your shit like your mother would. It’s honestly funny to compare those two as if it’s surprising
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:14 PM
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I’ve never cheated. It’s very discouraging to see some of these stats though lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:26 AM
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Never said shorter guys are perpetually single, I just find it hard to believe anyone is specifically not attracted to tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:11 PM
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That’s a very specific example. Not sure if it’s relevant to Jada Smith or my post history. I guess it’s some hard truth since both are surrounding things people cannot control. Again I don’t think short guys are unattractive or feminine so maybe that’s where our opinions differ on those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:38 PM
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Never said I thought like this., Just said many women think this way. But I see that short man complex shining through regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:22 PM
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This is a hard pill for a lot of men here to swallow apparently but yes many women think this way privately.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:31 PM
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You’re definitely in the minority there. Almost can’t believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:26 PM
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Yeah that’s a good point, at the end of the day jokes are jokes and it wasn’t an awful one at that. But very public! Which can make a huge difference
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 06:11 PM
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Yeah from what I understand they both had bouts of cheating from the past/discussed an open marriage so I’m not sure why Jada takes the rap for it. Maybe due to their recent interview about her “entanglements”. It was probably an over reaction that made him look bad in the end, but as a woman who suffers from hair loss that type of public humiliation can be devastating. So maybe I’m biased 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:44 PM
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I’m going to have to disagree I am attracted to men who are fit/bulky. 21f
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:37 AM
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No argument necessary, All human beings suffer from insecurities related to their body and things they cannot control. Doesn’t get much deeper than that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:25 AM
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Women have to deal with insecurities related to body parts just as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:00 AM
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Maybe isn’t hard to believe but it’s not commonplace by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:14 PM
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A large portion of women don’t exceed 10 partners in a lifetime. The men I slept with before my current relationship were not at all “chads” and I 100% upgraded in every way when I got with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:11 AM
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I draw the line completely at social media models, pictures/videos of women he knows personally, and platforms with ability to message and pay the woman he’s watching. I’m already very uncomfortable with porn usage and its effects on people and their relationships. It would kill any sort of feelings for the man I am seeing personally
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:37 AM
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Question for you, Are you physically fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:05 AM
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Height and build are the dominating factors for my attraction. Bonus points if he’s muscular and fit, but I have found myself being attracted to other types of “husky”/overweight men with certain personality types. I’m attracted to masculine features in general, ranging from the conventional Brad Pitt types to even men who look like James Gandolfini.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:37 AM
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“Anime style cringe” is the most accurate way to describe this mindset, lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:09 AM
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I am 21F attractive, I work in insurance/sales so I get approached nearly daily during work since I open up conversations with many people naturally. I feel as if many men take my smiling professional courtesy as an invitation to make a move, so I suppose that’s part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:39 PM
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I’m in a LTR, from your experience what type of social validations do these relationships receive?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:47 AM
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Don’t care about money, make plenty to get by on my own. I care about height and attractive face the most. Big dicks are over rated, average dicks are best and I don’t care about muscles although they are nice to look at!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:47 PM
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Same! I’m 5’9 so I typically don’t find myself being attracted to men shorter than me. I have seen a few men who are 5’5-5’8 range who I thought were pretty attractive, but they are typically outliers and it isn’t intense attraction. I feel genuinely attracted to tall men especially because I am a tall woman, and it makes me feel masculine and insecure otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:57 AM
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Yesss Peter Steele
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:37 PM
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Henry cavil, Jason momoa
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:36 PM
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Exactly how I feel too. I have to tell My boyfriend that I don’t mind being the breadwinner, he still works very hard and aspires to improve his situation, which he is effective at. But I find him incredibly attractive because of the traits you listed. I would take someone I’m severely attracted to vs someone who just pays for my groceries, any day!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:05 PM
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Word for word my situation and preferences too. I live in texas and my boyfriend is a 6’4 construction worker. Life is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:10 PM
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I completely understand your sentiment. I feel like a lot of women in my life similar to our age lean a different way than I do as well. It makes it difficult to form friendships, but I will say that’s a vocal group of people. Always free to PM me!
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 04:53 AM
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This!! You articulated the BS that I’ve seen on here very well. It’s painfully obvious what they’re doing. I’m a woman in my early 20s and it just all strikes me as very deluded and out of touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:54 PM
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I would argue the types of women doing this are not ones most would consider “high value” anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:10 PM
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What color?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:09 PM
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What’s with this rhetoric I see men having here in PPD about somehow inherently gaining value as they age? At the most basic level, people who are not sexually attracted to men should not be declaring what is attractive about men. I don’t know about every other woman on earth, but I do NOT want a man who has years of life experience on me, a much higher n count, and some delusional sense of grandiosity because he’s more “seasoned”. To add to this, men do not always get finer as they age, it’s ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:06 PM
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The rational part of my brain completely understands this, and this is definitely the most mature outlook about it. Still though, the emotional part of my heart still nags at me for some unknown reason. I don’t know why, I guess it feels insincere then? If I’m not the most attractive girl to him, or other women are more his type, it deeply bothers me. I’m thinking there are probably millions of other men who would jump at the chance to be with me, why stay with someone who secretly desires other…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/22 03:22 PM
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This!! Most women can go out and find sex the same day without major difficulty. It’s not the same for majority of men. It’s only natural to want to be selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:54 PM
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I’m a woman, I don’t get why this concept is so hard to understand? Why would anyone want to be with someone who indicates a serial lack of commitment or views sex as meaningless/transactional. It’s not attractive to have a high n count to me personally
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:53 PM
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Since when? I was always talking about masturbating. Read my original comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:48 AM
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Yeah I see this take place actively, especially in PPD. Certain rhetorics that get parroted often enough end up getting some sort of biblical status, like it’s a guideline to work by.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:36 PM
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My boyfriend and I naturally have this dynamic in our apartment together. He’ll go into the bedroom to play video games and go on his phone, and I’ll stay in the living room to do the same, or cook/clean. We can go 2-3 hours only saying a handful of words, or none at all. Gives us both a chance to recharge and focus on our own activities while knowing the other is right around the corner. It’s really peaceful.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/22 10:30 PM
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No one deserves to feel this way. I don’t like to tell people to leave on The internet because I know how multilayered and complicated relationships are, but cheating is one of those things that can completely dissolve any love or trust in the blink of an eye. Not only this, but his actions and desire of wanting to be around that environment and those girls speaks volumes about how he will continue to behave in the future. There are men out there who will treat you much better than this.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/22 08:55 PM
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I agree that human beings are naturally inquisitive and curious. It’s more about the level of depth some people here take it to, when a lot of the time these interpersonal issues/feelings that are discussed should just be chalked up to subjective opinions and experiences. No need to draw up some scientific equation on how to become a “HVM” and win Stacys heart or some ridiculous shit that I see every day on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:56 PM
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Seriously. Everyone takes such a cerebral, scientific approach to subjects such as feelings or love. It’s like watching robots try to interact.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:31 PM
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Sure, I can appreciate that fact. I find others attractive too, and wouldn’t leave my bf for some random guy who’s hot, and I know the same goes for him. I definitely can agree there’s insecurity lingering there, but I also genuinely believe porn is detrimental for both genders. For example, it can make men think that they’re too small, even with an above average sized penis. I just can’t see any benefit that comes from nonstop supplies of hardcore visuals and dopamine dumps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:16 PM
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that’s an Excellent point, I appreciate your view a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:07 PM
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That’s a hot take. I will link some research here to confirm that men physically masturbate and seek out pornography more than women, but it’s just the way it is. There’s no way for anyone to know how much a man vs a woman fantasizes in their head without the action of masturbating. That’s completely subjective. What isn’t subjective is the fact that men wank more than women Which someone can further argue men ultimately “fantasize” more since they pair it with the physical action. Overall every…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:03 PM
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That’s interesting, what’s your perspective on online dating? I know it’s a very different experience with men vs women. Porn seems to be at the root of a lot of sexual intimacy and self esteem issues in my experience. Was there ever a time you can recall feeling down about your assets because you compared yourself and your body to the hyper-attractive men/women in porn? Also, the type of sex they have in porn and the endless supply of visuals can lead youth into normalizing unsafe behaviors and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:55 PM
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Yeah I know it’s 100% a two way street, feeling those emotions, and I will say porn in general is pretty destructive for both genders’ self esteem, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:03 PM
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Who argued men don’t face a pressure as well? You seem to be missing the point of my comment, I’m not sure. I’m talking about this specific post referring to women’s beauty standards being easy to achieve, which aren’t. Neither are men’s. However, I was simply saying many women will relate to me in the fact that our male counterparts tend to use more porn and wanking material than we do, which is pretty commonly known. I’m not speaking in absolutes here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:38 PM
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IIRC it is commonly established through studies that men masturbate more than women by a relatively large margin. I’m not referring to just fantasizing or thinking about attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:56 PM
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I don’t see wanking to porn and pictures of women on Instagram the same as watching a movie with a hot guy in it, and thinking he’s hot. One is actively feeding into it, the other is just acknowledging someone is attractive. Sure women fantasize, but like I said in my previous reply I don’t believe it’s as widespread for women to masturbate in general, and use books/movies/etc as material on the scale that men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:40 PM
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I don’t. I don’t know about other women. I think that trope is over used. Personally I don’t have any friends that read/masturbate to romance books or view movies in the same way as porn? I don’t see those as good comparisons Overall, the majority of men watch porn and use social media platforms as a form of porn. I don’t think this is as widespread with women, although there is a percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:32 PM
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Thank you, I appreciate your understanding. As for the Brazilian hottie part, that’s just one example of many lol. It’s more about me not being everything that he wants, which is a bit unreasonable I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:30 PM
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There is an inherent pressure. Many women here will share my experience in the fact that our boyfriends/husbands will look at porn and IG models and other forms of media that encourage that level of attractiveness. It can be confusing and jarring to be told you’re what he wants, then to see what he’s looking/masturbating at in private is the opposite. I keep fit, clean, take care of myself and I’m attractive but at the end of the day I’ll never be a Brazilian hottie with a big ass
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:54 PM
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I definitely see this and I agree with this being a weird double standard of some kind. On the flip side, what would be an example for a woman’s display of unusual arrogance? A domineering personality in the workplace?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:25 PM
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I’d like to hear examples of this, I’m genuinely interested!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:53 PM
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I can definitely applaud your confidence and solidity in yourselves but I couldn’t imagine myself being in a relationship with someone who wasn’t attracted to me for my looks in addition to personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:55 PM
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I’m sorry but imagine your husband seeing this comment. I would be devastated lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:46 PM
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Maybe if everyone here stops trying to approach something as subjective as attraction in a scientific, head-on way, it would be easy to realize this. I cannot begin to count how many people I know who are in relationships with their looksmatch, or who are attracted to people of the same “league” as them. The 80/20 rule is for men who want to stay stuck in their pity of not being born as some god-like 6’5 giga chad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:43 PM
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Tall, with a decently fit body. I like men that have a bit of a semi muscular “husky” look to them. I love veins in arms and hardened large hands. I like when men have a blue collar profession/active work life in general. Very attractive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:51 PM
0

I personally would say we’re about equal. He’s 6’4 and 215 pounds, handsome to boot. He would have no problem finding other women if he wished to. However, I think he would say I surpass him physically because he is a gentleman, and I appreciate that other people find him attractive. It gives us both a boost! I will say that I work a very busy corporate sales job and I speak to dozens of people a day. I’m 21, in good shape. I get approached very consistently. Overall, Neither of us would have is…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:11 AM
4

I wholeheartedly agree with this. This sub sometimes regurgitates redpill rhetoric that women are all inherent hypergamists with the endgame being marrying an old rich guy. It’s just not realistic. Most people are normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:57 PM
5

This is true, at least for me. My boyfriend makes significantly less than I do and I am severely attracted to him. He is a tall and conventionally attractive man so that certainly helps, but added with a wicked sense of humor and an easy going personality, I’m head over heels. I wont deny looks are a major factor in falling in love, but money is definitely not the list topper.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:55 PM
4

Never. I just say my boyfriend is actually my husband so it hits even harder!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:42 PM
1

Same boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:19 AM
2

Why would you not? Why put yourself into a relationship/marriage where a woman is in severe debt or is incompetent at handling her money? Seems like you are shooting yourself in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:33 PM
4

Let him breathe 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:11 AM
5

Yeah I agree everyone speaks in absolutes here. It’s just full of hot takes from both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:18 PM
7

This 100%!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:20 PM
4

I definitely like men similar to #1, in fact my boyfriend has many of those traits, however he has traits like #2 as well. I was mostly referring to the part of #1 where it says he is not sweet and knows he has other girls on lock. Personally, I don’t think it’s attractive when a man feels the need to display his wealth of options and in my experience a man who counts his options tends to have a very egotistical attitude and views women as conquests or stepping stones. Women’s wants are not blac…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:08 PM
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I don’t think we’re rare. I do admire traditionally masculine traits, like being extroverted and assertive, however I would not be compatible with man #1 because he isn’t affectionate or “sweet” and these types tend to be cheaters or relish in the fact that they have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:28 PM
7

Trust me I’m all for no social media I don’t use it personally, but I can see why it would bother someone who does use it. I think it’s more about the possibility of him being messaged by other women online without them realizing he’s taken, or that he doesn’t “care” about her enough to proudly display their relationship for the world to see, like she does. Immature or otherwise
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 07:39 PM
1

Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:12 AM
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