Silential Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
88	How do you talk to ‘basic’ girls?	Conversation	Silential	/r/seduction	18/07/22 03:00 PM
28	How can I get better at building tension through text? Finish this convo example	Conversation	Silential	/r/seduction	19/08/22 10:37 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned: This post is ridiculous. It’s literally nothing to do with any of that. Whatever you’re doing you clearly aren’t breaking physical barriers, and if you don’t break physical barriers then why is anyone going to want to have sex with you, or even more, why you’d want to have sex with them? If you’re the hand shake when first meeting a girl type, or if you think “I shouldn’t lean in for a kiss yet because she might not want to”, then you’ve fucked it. Honestly I got friendzoned for a final time aft…	/r/seduction	07/09/23 11:54 AM
2	I got laid! Did you text her the same night when she said you should have gone with her?	/r/seduction	02/07/23 10:51 PM
14	Unpopular hot take: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but we're under pressure to make moves or else we'll be friendzoned. But why? Surely there’s just an increased level of trust?	/r/seduction	23/10/22 03:10 AM
1	I’m confident in myself and feel like a total package man — but my marketing sucks. Ricky Gervais has some shows on netflix that are perfect for it. I watched those.	/r/seduction	07/10/22 09:33 AM
3	I’m confident in myself and feel like a total package man — but my marketing sucks. Put yourself in uncomfortable situations (outside your comfort zone). Watch comedians (good ones, like Rickie Gervais, because even if you don’t like them personally, it’s very helpful to understand exactly how they are storytelling. Also the way they can jump from subject to subject is perfect. Girls love storytellers and people who can effortlessly continue a conversation. Which on conversations, I highly recommended watching Graham Nortons talk show. His ability to include everyone in an auth…	/r/seduction	07/10/22 08:04 AM
15	Meeting a girl from Tinder tomorrow. Never have really done this thing before any advice? (m23) Omg. I wish I’d seen this before my last/ first ever date. Like it went well, but it didn’t close out like that.	/r/seduction	29/09/22 07:19 PM
1	FWB with an older woman? Why did she cut you off?	/r/seduction	30/08/22 03:27 PM
2	How can I get better at building tension through text? Finish this convo example Thnkfully I moved past this dilema using some of the tips from the other posters in the following reply, so I managed to pull it back. It’s a weird situation. Took her home once already so the clear attraction is already there, but now we have to text for a few months, but I just need to maintain interest till then but it just seems like a while. x	/r/seduction	21/08/22 01:27 PM
6	How can I get better at building tension through text? Finish this convo example Such a good call. Really helpful post man thanks. I messed up on this occasion but hopefully I have a better idea going in next time on how to play it. I’m very rusty at this. The second problem I have is I can’t see her again for a few months. I’m worried if I escalate too much now then I can’t contain it for too long.	/r/seduction	19/08/22 11:27 PM
3	How can I get better at building tension through text? Finish this convo example Yeah I fucked up hard. I need to stop beating around the bush so much. Hopefully I get another pass so correct things.	/r/seduction	19/08/22 11:12 PM
1	Fucked up my first ONS badly. What do I do if I see her again? Yeah. Brutal but true. Thankyou. At least things will be cheaper for me from now on!	/r/seduction	14/08/22 02:59 PM
1	Fucked up my first ONS badly. What do I do if I see her again? Oh mate don’t. At the very least she ended up replying and still had fun. She was super mature about it and has like 20 years on me. So she was super chill. But, I’m very annoyed I didn’t down more water throughout the night. Lesson learned.	/r/seduction	14/08/22 02:38 PM
1	Fucked up my first ONS badly. What do I do if I see her again? Thanks for explaining that for me. I’ll make sure to always bear that in mind going forward.	/r/seduction	14/08/22 12:32 PM
1	Fucked up my first ONS badly. What do I do if I see her again? I’m not really sure. Basically we met through one of those meetup app events, so you eventually end up seeing the same group of people I guess. Don’t want her to spread word about me? I can’t really answer that. Maybe it’s just because she is my first ONS. More water next time. That’s for sure. What does ‘sacrificing my own value mean’? I can follow that advice though, thanks.	/r/seduction	14/08/22 12:23 PM
4	Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women? You have shot down every single bit of advice. What did you make this thread for? Stay creepy and hopeless if that’s what you want. But don’t waste peoples time with false help questions.	/r/seduction	03/08/22 09:25 PM
1	How do you talk to ‘basic’ girls? Because they’re hot and you want to break that barrier with them I suppose. Also a cold approach means there is nothing to initially go off, and how to have conversation when there just isn’t much to talk about without it falling down flat.	/r/seduction	19/07/22 01:23 PM
1	How do you talk to ‘basic’ girls? Chatty and flirty in a simple way is the exact part I struggle with haha. I just don’t know how anymore. It wasn’t really a thing with my current, well, ex partner at the beginning.	/r/seduction	19/07/22 11:36 AM
3	How do you talk to ‘basic’ girls? Cheers I will think of it like this. Not easy but it can definitely be worked on!	/r/seduction	18/07/22 09:34 PM
2	How do you talk to ‘basic’ girls? I like this, thanks!	/r/seduction	18/07/22 09:34 PM
13	How do you talk to ‘basic’ girls? This helped you know. Thankyou.	/r/seduction	18/07/22 04:00 PM
7	How do you talk to ‘basic’ girls? Who said anything about either of those things?	/r/seduction	18/07/22 03:59 PM
2	How do you talk to ‘basic’ girls? Reading into things slightly too much there but okay?	/r/seduction	18/07/22 03:59 PM
1	When a lady is bending over in front of you, is she giving a sign or am I overthinking? Quality shitpost. Got me good!	/r/seduction	07/05/22 01:24 PM