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One of these women told me she wanted kids fast. When I told her no and that wouldn't be a thing, I asked bluntly why she picked me. To sum it up, I clean up after me and am not a complete bum. The other said they were past going out to bars and clubs and wanted some stability, which made me feel like the secondary safe option when people want some calm. I still sum it up as lowering standards, and I'm not interested in being the name at the bottom of the list.
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:45 PM
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I used to be depressed about it. To boot, I'm 35, was on dating apps, followed advice to work on being more attractive, end result is that I never held hand and was never desired at 35. Over the years, I took several steps to handle the sadness: I fill my daily life with sports and hobbies. For the body, for the mind, to express some art or just delve in interesting subjects. Fitness, mixed martial arts, writing, reading, hiking, gardening, cooking, everything goes. Body hurts? Read a book, brai…
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:41 PM
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Just so we're clear, part of the work was to learn how to be happy with what I had, be happy and not to be bitter. I do agree with what the others redditors said, that you sound very bitter and that you should work on that, if only for your own hapiness.
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:34 AM
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Still leaves a lot, if not most countries, open. I presume you're natively english speaker, so to engage with folks it might be easier to go for countries where folks often learn English too: Netherlands, or scandinavian countries Norway/Sweden/Danemark, it makes engaging with folks easier. I don't remember the local dishes so far up North. I know Amsterdam is a melting pot where you'll find anything to eat and a vast array of different people to party with, there's always stuff happening over t…
/r/seduction21/08/22 07:23 PM
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...Anywhere? You'd have to explain what exactly you're looking for, just meet people? Food? Sight? A specific culture that interests you more than another? I know we're on a seduction sub, but then again, if meeting people is your only metric, most places where there are lots of young people (aka cities with a lot of student population) will do.
/r/seduction21/08/22 07:12 PM
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Had I the intellectual skills, I'd love to drop what I'm doing to work in the relative seclusion of ships for a good pay.
/r/seduction28/07/22 08:25 PM
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You can have many great hobbies you love and enjoy doing, a work you enjoy too and travel left and right to unknown places, but if you can't communicate that, you come across as dull. I'd say a blooming social life makes for a more interesting life, although when interesting begins or stops depends on each and everyone of us I guess.
/r/seduction23/07/22 12:04 PM
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<Sighs deeply> plus a lot of wasted potentials as a result As in?
/r/seduction23/07/22 11:59 AM
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Horrendous social skills, I'm bad at having a conversation one-on-one and don't have much to talk about. You can have an interesting life, but if you can't communicate it people won't care. I slowly got better at it, but not enough.
/r/seduction23/07/22 11:53 AM
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Some people do, we hear the most about them. Most people don't.
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:09 AM
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I love it. Pointing out you don't need a study for everything as a way to absolve yourself from actually backing up the claims you make with tangible facts. Had we spoken about gravity, I could understand it. But these are claims that encompass society as a whole, including the future of humanity, and these require a little more than anecdotes, your eyes, or a youtube video. But it is easier to berate someone else's sense of critic than actually back up your words, isn't it? Lots of talk, little…
/r/seduction01/07/22 01:58 PM
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I'm a dude, I just don't like ditching my critical sense just because someone decides to flaunt big words without backing them up.
/r/seduction01/07/22 01:38 PM
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If it's that obvious, then there's studies on it to explore the ramifications of it and quantify it. Claiming your own worldview to be the truth doesn't make it so, that's wishful thinking.
/r/seduction01/07/22 01:04 PM
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I'd love to see sources for the unsatisfied onlyfans chick, AOC rape fantasies, society being overrun by beta males, how alpha are the saviors and are needed by women, about the generation of sexually unsatisfies women, about masculine men who will save humanity.
/r/seduction01/07/22 11:07 AM
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Neurotic is tied to bipolarity, depression, the type of things that doesn't cry out emotional stability.
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:58 AM
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Ultimately... everyone decides for himself. Hedonists (recent definition) can see life as something of little meaning, we're born and die, so might as well do what pleases the senses the most, and sex is good at that among other things like food and wine and looking at the world from the top of a mountain somewhere in a remote region, it's vast and wide. Others see meaning in God, or in ourselves and the simple action of helping our neighbors. Could be argued that in a senseless world, extending…
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:43 PM
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You sir, are a positive person, and there aren't many of these. Thanks for existing.
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:55 PM
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If women were a hivemind, maybe.
/r/seduction04/09/21 03:20 PM
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You took the time to analyse, reply at length and stay polite in an entire conversation, without resorting to attacks or insults. I don't know if it will go through to him, but I think it's remarkable that you made the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:05 AM
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That you're pulling from...
/r/seduction01/07/21 12:06 PM
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Most women will eventually sleep with some asshole in their life and most women will sleep with many assholes. Source?
/r/seduction01/07/21 12:02 PM
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to whom?
/r/seduction01/07/21 11:16 AM
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Dumbing it down to "she will have sex with the one who asks" and not say a thing about subjective likes and dislikes goes into that territory.
/r/seduction01/07/21 11:14 AM
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It's not bad advice, but it kinda forgets that people have different affinities and likes? You click with some folks and not with others. Juts because you ask someone out does not mean you'll be the one to fuck her. Same for you or anyone else. Does that mean you should not ask women out? Of course not, that's how you find out if you click or not, if you're the one to make her feel good or not. But there's no need to oversimplify it.
/r/seduction01/07/21 11:11 AM
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You're a bit off mark, I'm going to reframe it: What made the previous person more attractive? Becoming ripped or losing his fat? He could have become popular by just losing his fat and having a "normal" body. Or it might have been thanks to becoming ripped. Or both. This wasn't so much a question about how to achieve a ripped status, but to differenciate what, in his body evolution, made him more attractive to women.
/r/seduction12/06/21 01:17 PM
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Now that's what I'm coming to Reddit for.
/r/seduction12/06/21 01:15 PM
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Is it because you lost your fat or got ripped? Egg or chicken? Cheese or dessert?
/r/seduction12/06/21 05:28 AM
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For Christ's sake, you're a human being born with the ability to have some finesse and subtlety in your reasoning. No, not everyone gets a better day by being approached, simply because some days you don't want to be, be it man or woman. Yes, it helps in seducing to have a positive mindset and think it can make someone's day better, and even if it doesn't, you can be respectful enough that it doesn't outright make it worse. But you don't have to bullshit yourself with caricatures to have that po…
/r/seduction05/06/21 03:29 PM
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I suppose that's the kind of stuff you can believe in when you're fully self-centered.
/r/seduction04/06/21 07:46 PM
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Really? 100% of the girls you approach anywhere will have a better day if you're good at approaching?
/r/seduction02/06/21 05:23 AM
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There's a difference between what feels like self-delusion and what is delusion, come on, people are able to have some finesse and learn the difference.
/r/seduction02/06/21 05:22 AM
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I'd prefer self-confidence without the self delusion part. You can cut out the negative chatter without deluding yourself.
/r/seduction01/06/21 08:03 PM
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If you ask women where they would like to be approached, the answer in aggregate ends up being nowhere. I know, but it doesn't have much to do with the point I was discussing. You don't have to go as far as cult leader levels, but you need to recognize that men have too much negative self chatter already YES! Thank you, that's the point I was trying to make. Have a positive mindset, just don't go full delusional. A bit of confidence, and a feeling that you can make someone's day a bit better is …
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:55 PM
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Considering your unedited answer contained only the first sentence, that's ironic. Jabs aside, your edit kinda nails it. Does it happen all of time and is it the same for everyone? No, not everyone reacts the same ​ By definition, being a high value person, you should automatically be leaving people better than when before. You just pointed out it isn't automatic, because everyone reacts differently. Which was the entire reason why I interjected in the first place. I fully agree with everything …
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:50 PM
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For the sake of certainty, I reread the conversation we just had. I understood your points, and honestly, I don't think you understood yours. It took you two messages to contradict yourself. Have a good evening.
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:23 PM
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My point is, you DON'T KNOW. So therefore you cannot speak on behalf of them Exactly! So don't write this for Christ's sake, because you don't know. You would make someone's day better if you did a good respectful approach. 100%. You can have a positive mindset without pretending to make everyone's life better. ​ So therefore you cannot speak on behalf of them and its in your bestinterest to adopt a mindset that will further you to your goals. My point exactly.
/r/seduction01/06/21 06:54 PM
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You can be as respectful and good at approaching as you want, but a woman (or man for that matter) minding her own business in a place that isn't exactly approach friendly can still be bothered about it. That's not about you being good or bad, that's about her not wanting to be bothered in whatever she's doing. that's something out of the ordinary for 95% of people. For most people, almost anything that breaks the monotony of their routine life is welcomed. Give me real numbers or studies on tha…
/r/seduction01/06/21 05:57 PM
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Which is very different from convincing yourself that you will make everyone else's day better by you saying hi alone.
/r/seduction01/06/21 04:27 PM
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So you have to basically convince yourself that every girl will react this way? I'm not saying you shouldn't be positive or bring out your confident grin, but it doesn't have to go as far as lying to yourself.
/r/seduction01/06/21 04:22 PM
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Random Number God. Luck.
/r/seduction16/03/21 07:55 AM
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I wouldn't be on this sub if I knew.
/r/seduction20/02/21 06:16 PM
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Don't change yourself only if at the core your personality has some attractive traits. If not, you better start changing yourself.
/r/seduction20/02/21 05:42 PM
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I see most people being in relationships and talking, while the silent minority is a lot more active on the internet. There's a problem, but i wouldn't go as far as "nobody's talking to anybody".
/r/seduction09/02/21 04:44 PM
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Let me spell it out clearly for you. pretending that everyone has the potential for everything is just wrong. But, just because it won't automatically pay out in the end does not mean it isn't worth trying. Did I say you shouldn't give it a try? I haven't. Did I say you should rely on luck instead of putting the odds in your favor by adding some efforts to it? Neither. I will gladly encourage people to do that, but I won't offer them false platitudes. ​ its stupid, you should be telling people n…
/r/seduction12/01/21 06:43 PM
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Do you always deal in caricatures? if you're lucky, maybe you will get your goals and dreams, but its not bloody likely Where did I say that? even if you're working your way up in life its probably not worth it to be honest, don't even try. Where did I say that?
/r/seduction12/01/21 05:12 PM
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At the core Putting a new paint job on an old car won't change it's old and broken motor. Just because some of your outer layers change with age and experience doesn't mean the deeper ones do. Your point is wishful thinking. There is a chance for it, but some people put in all the hard work they can and still won't. That's because people do not have that infinite potential you're hoping for. Some have more, some have less.
/r/seduction12/01/21 04:39 PM
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Realism isn't pessimism. The infinite potential in everyone is fantasy. I'm not saying personalities don't change, but if you've got an unattractive one, unless some brutal event happens, it won't get the massive change needed.
/r/seduction12/01/21 04:16 PM
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No. People change, but not by a lot. I agree with the physical part, that one I believe to be the easiest of the two to change. Personality? Details, some nooks here and there, but if you're an asshole at the core, you won't change that. And an adonis that is a cynical and bitter prick is still unattractive. You can change anything if you want it enough and work hard. Not everyone has the potential to change anything, that's wishful thinking.
/r/seduction12/01/21 03:55 PM
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Some people are closer to what is "desired" both physically and mentally. Taste changes from one person to the other, sure, but some folks are more sought after than others. And then there's the opposite end of the spectrum. People that are not attractive or desirable (I'm not only speaking about physique and ugliness, personality plays a part in that too), and you can't always change it.
/r/seduction12/01/21 06:25 AM
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We'll agree to disagree on that.
/r/seduction12/01/21 06:18 AM
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How much he stands in his own way is up to him, but not everyone has strengths to play to.
/r/seduction12/01/21 06:14 AM
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Thank God I never had a partner. I can only compare myself to nothing and realize nothing is better than me.
/r/seduction12/01/21 06:08 AM
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In case you didn't notice, I agree. I pointed out earlier that being attractive or unattractive comes from looks and personality.
/r/seduction08/01/21 07:10 AM
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In case you didn't realize, my post was pointing out how attractiveness and unattractiveness can stem from both physique and/or personality.
/r/seduction07/01/21 07:32 PM
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And I met guys shorter than you that slept with more women than I can count. As I pointed out before, attractiveness is not only in looks. Being short is a hindrance, not the end of everything.
/r/seduction07/01/21 07:07 PM
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I doubt there's such a clear cut "worse case" and frankly, it doesn't matter. Besides, what makes you ugly or good looking goes way beyond just looks.
/r/seduction07/01/21 07:06 PM
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Unattractive men finish last. Doesn't matter if it stems from physique or shitty behavior.
/r/seduction07/01/21 05:06 PM
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If that was the case, there wouldn't be nearly 50% of married people in the us.
/r/seduction02/01/21 02:09 PM
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Is there a point of game that is more true than another point of game? you can't negotiate attraction. Indeed, you can't. But you can get more attractive by learning some behaviors or unlearn others.
/r/seduction26/12/20 07:17 PM
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If there are signs "just like that" you're likely already attractive to start with. The point of game is precisely to compensate for the lack of it and create the spark from there.
/r/seduction26/12/20 06:58 PM
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It uses hypothetical tones because we don't know yet exactly how much it helps or harms. That's why it points out that in some cases it did help while in others it did the opposite and there's more studies needed to make certain of the result. Keto is known to reduce bad cholesterol actually. Earth is known to be flat actually. Show some fucking proof from a scientific study that writes it in stone.
/r/seduction25/12/20 07:30 AM
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How about not going on a sub dedicated to keto fanatics to find info? https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/326320#summary https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/low-carb-diets-and-cholesterol keto needs to be more researched to be certain, but the possibility of it to increase cholesterol problems still exists.
/r/seduction24/12/20 07:43 AM
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I suppose it wouldn't surprise a redpiller.
/r/seduction24/12/20 07:23 AM
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If you missed the boat in the 20's and people in their 30's consider it a red flag, apart from hiding that part you will have trouble changing that undesirable thing. It is pretty deplorable to get a one night stand by pretending to be interested in a long term relationship. Sure, but I'm speaking about what works here, not what is morally righteous. If you want one night stands, saying it outright will likely gun down your chances. If you want something serious then yes, being honest about it i…
/r/seduction23/12/20 05:39 PM
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If you're honest that you only want hookups on dating apps, you will barely get matches. If you're honest that you have had no relationship at over 30, you'll be let down because most people don't want to be a training wheel. It's not about always lying or always saying the truth. Know when you can speak the truth and when not.
/r/seduction23/12/20 07:39 AM
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Because it can happen for a variety of reasons and it isn't always deep seated psychological issues. That's an assumption, not the honest truth.
/r/seduction21/12/20 08:48 AM
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Hunters, challenge, prize, reward... You'd think good advice would start with avoiding gross caricatures. The last bit is true at least.
/r/seduction16/12/20 07:22 AM
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Most people do that, that's why it's common. Common isn't bad, aiming to be a Porsche is a good way to end up bitter if you're not amazing from the start.
/r/seduction15/12/20 12:47 PM
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Most of us are common men, not all can be a porsche. You do with the hand you've been dealt.
/r/seduction15/12/20 06:13 AM
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Dude, seriously. I'm all for giving advice but you're conflating a lot of things here. You seem to like it when things are kept simple so I will do this here: The fact that you're more experienced doesn't mean the advice you give is automatically good. That's what it's about. Oversimplifying like you did in your first reply is just that, an oversimplification. Reducing it to physical touch is too simplified to be right. Ergo, an oversimplification. There are more dynamics in play that just touch…
/r/seduction10/12/20 08:44 PM
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You just don't have the social skills necessary and you haven't worked on those skills yet. Otherwise, you'd have already succeeded....plenty of times. Social skills encompass a lot of things that make it a tad more complicated than "just touch people" to go from friend to lover. Just because you explained it badly doesn't make everyone else a negative Nancy. Chill dude. My social skills aren't on point, I'm aware of that. I have worked on it and still am, but that wasn't what your point was ori…
/r/seduction10/12/20 07:28 AM
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If people aren't into you, they aren't, touching them doesn't change that miraculously. I would know, I got that advice and got a lot more physical with people. Me touching, hugging and be physically close to my friends doesn't make them fall in love. It's important, but don't oversimplify things. There's quite a bit more dynamics into play to make the difference between a friend and a lover.
/r/seduction09/12/20 06:39 PM
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I make friends easy, both men and women. I'm compatible as a friend, not as a partner.
/r/seduction09/12/20 07:45 AM
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Asshole women try to use the "I'm a woman" card all the time, though. That's what a pussy pass is. Respectable women don't use their sex as a mean of getting things (services, free stuff etc) Oh, you were speaking for OP, my bad.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/11/20 02:58 PM
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Asshole women try to use the "I'm a woman" card all the time Where on this vid? I see an asshole being stupid and violent. If they use it "all the time", then surely you don't need one of the few videos where it isn't clear at all?
/r/PussyPassDenied18/11/20 02:41 PM
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That's just someone being an asshole.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/11/20 02:25 PM
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Was this sub ever about actual women expecting privilege and having it denied, or was it any video where a women gets hurt/falls to the ground from the start?
/r/PussyPassDenied18/11/20 01:34 PM
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It helps, but it doesn't make it an automatic byproduct.
/r/seduction15/11/20 02:33 PM
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Can you please stop making assumptions and generalizations? Or point out where I said that I looked at self-improvement as a way to get women?
/r/seduction15/11/20 02:06 PM
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That's one extreme exemple answering to another extreme exemple. You can make your point just by pointing out that you can easily find people that are quite "ugly" but are with a hot girlfriend or the other way around, without being a celebrity or rich or whatever. Giving the exemple of streamers or actors will just brings the point home that unless you have millions of viewers and are a celebrity, you're done. Of course that's wrong, but I don't blame people that get this message because that's…
/r/seduction15/11/20 02:03 PM
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Why did you call him a cunt? He might be sarcastic, but pointing out that actors and streamers with millions of viewers are a different category than your everyday Joe wasn't wrong. No need to be an asshole.
/r/seduction15/11/20 07:47 AM
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Are you trying to debate me or something? Because I agree with everything you said and it's not mutually exclusive with what I wrote.
/r/seduction15/11/20 07:44 AM
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I had enough talk with said women and the rest of my friends to know that it isn't the case, I didn't just stay in my seat and waited for it, when I felt there was an occasion, I opened contact. There wasn't an occasion. Self-improvement is good and it will heighten your chance to find someone, but that alone won't bring you women. That's a gross oversimplification.
/r/seduction15/11/20 07:42 AM
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I focused on self-improvement for years, I was never chased. I was confident but wasn't attractive. It makes you better, it doesn't magically get people to like/love you. Reducing seduction and attraction to one oversimplified rule is plain wrong. Heck, you even disprove the title in the body of the post.
/r/seduction14/11/20 05:58 PM
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I work out more than the average dude, but I can't bring myself to eat enough to gain weight. End result: I'm just lean.
/r/seduction26/10/20 07:51 AM
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A well known scientist I presume? Did he also advise to not place your worth in your ability to drink water? The difference is in putting all your worth in your interaction with others or just the part that is natural. It doesn't have to be the biggest part, it doesn't even have to be a big part at all, and people sure as fuck shouldn't make it too big. But humans can't just disconnect their entire sense of worth from their interaction with others. A lot of folk on this sub would do well to redu…
/r/seduction25/10/20 07:55 AM
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Since when did this sub go from a genuine seduction advice sub to people straight up ignoring both reality and nuance for the sake of karma?
/r/seduction25/10/20 07:47 AM
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Nice, but wishful thinking. Part of your worth will always come from your interactions with others, we're social animals. That's why virginity can understandably be a bad thing when you want to have romantic interactions. That being said, doesn't have to be all the sense of self-worth either, that's the trick.
/r/seduction24/10/20 03:06 PM
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Where did I imply that? I just asked if the book was about more because I don't know about it. Maybe I'll buy it, I'm skeptikal but I don't have much to read at the moment.
/r/seduction17/10/20 04:22 PM
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Okay, I'll give a quick rundown on the beginning of the book. Danny was depressed, had no girlfriend, his friends were slipping away, he was working a meaningless job, and all he did was come home and watch movies. He did have a friend that would occasionally to hang with him, but that's not the point. One day, a homeless man asked Danny for some money. He would usually tell homeless people no, but now was different; now he was forcing himself to say yes. He had no change to give the man, so Dan…
/r/seduction17/10/20 04:15 PM
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Dude, smiling, eye-contact and being polite is common courtesy. You don't need to be into someone for that.
/r/seduction12/10/20 05:31 AM
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Yeah, no. Just like many women don't get hit on, so are men. And yes, if you want to be hit on on the street by random strangers, your physique is about the only thing he/she can base him/herself on. Smile and eye-contact are basics in communication, that does not mean dating. Thinking common courtesy means interest is the exact reason why people don't want to smile or look at others because people like you think being friendly means something else. You're typing what many guys want to read, not…
/r/seduction12/10/20 05:28 AM
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He just wants his rant to be taken at face value and does personal attacks when it isn't.
/r/seduction24/09/20 05:09 AM
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That's not the worst, The worst is that the same study pointed out that roughly 80% of men only tended to text the 20% they themselves saw as the most attractive women. By that same logic, 20% of female get 80% of male attraction... Yet the 20/80 addict, on top of not understanding how the math or the Pareto principle work, seem to strangely forget about that part, almost as if the argument wasn't in good faith. The same study also points out that statistically, women are much more willing to me…
/r/seduction23/07/20 11:48 AM
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The good old generalisation by someone who thinks he knows better how one half of humanity works than said half.
/r/seduction05/07/20 12:17 PM
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They like people that are interesting, good or bad is irrelevant. EDIT: the number of people on this thread and sub that think they know better how women work than themselves and try to show it by making sweeping and unbased generalisations is worryingly high. We have a sub with the goal to help people dating and there's a number of people spreading pseudo-science that will just make it harder for them.
/r/seduction05/07/20 12:09 PM
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Ignorant question, what is RSD?
/r/seduction29/03/20 10:52 AM
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