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| 0 | Let's talk about self-esteem and datingIt was sarcasm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 06:33 AM |
| 2 | The standard rejections of "no spark, not enough chemistry and not feeling it" is just a nicety of 'I didn't find you sexually attractive.'Exactly if you’re only interaction with women is seeing them on Instagram this concept might be hard to grasp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Most problems in this subreddit are caused by people not knowing how men/women really areBecause incels believe all those other words are myths and that looks are the only factor. Everyone is on the same page of autism being a detriment in dating. Also autistic people definitely make a disproportionate amount in incels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Online dating is not an accurate marker for your dating successYou think less than 30 percent of people try dating through friends? The majority of people end up in relationships and get married so tell me how the other 70 percent do it. You can’t be this bad at math | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 09:43 AM |
| 12 | Most problems in this subreddit are caused by people not knowing how men/women really areOne word, autism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Her "She's not interested" cock blocking friend is often times just projectingI agree however sometimes they can be overly defensive by default when the girl is actually interested. I’ve seen it in real life but yeah it’s probably overblown in redpill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 09:39 AM |
| 2 | What do you women think of a man who at the moment doesn't earn a lot of money but has a promising future?Hmm dating ( a social thing) becoming harder due to less socialising? Nah too absurd /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 04:46 AM |
| 7 | Do you know any guys who are REALLY unsuccessful with women? What's their story?With all due respect you definitely count as an outlier and would have a much different experience to life than a more or less average guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 10:29 PM |
| 1 | What do you women think of a man who at the moment doesn't earn a lot of money but has a promising future?I was mainly talking about western culture. If someone has a dealbreaker and you don’t meet it then you can’t compensate I wasn’t talking about women as a whole. Plenty of western women don’t care about height. Plus increased loneliness anxiety and depression is because of social media and less socialising, saying it’s due to increased standards by women is a stretch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 10:17 PM |
| 1 | I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking uglyThat’s not what we’re talking about here. We are not exclusively talking about diagnosis we are also considering people with the traits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:56 AM |
| 1 | I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking uglyAn ugly person can compensate with humour and charisma (comedians). Having poor social skills and playing a social game (dating) makes it way harder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:50 AM |
| 2 | I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking uglyYeah autistic people are probs more empathetic to other autistic people and are less likely to judge on it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:49 AM |
| 1 | I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking uglyAgreed, I was in that position and fixed it with cold approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:47 AM |
| 6 | I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking uglyAutistic people generally get the short end of the stick from being different but also they have much less confidence from being bullied their whole lives which could have compensated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:47 AM |
| 1 | I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking uglyThere’s a difference between being autistic and being on the spectrum | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:44 AM |
| 1 | I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking uglyMate if they went to the dating market they’d kill it. But this is a stupid comparison, rowan Atkinson plays idiots in his movies, he’s less comedian and more clown | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:44 AM |
| 2 | I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking uglyPlenty of socially intelligent psychopaths date and have social lives (thoguh they may become abusive). Elliot was one of the ones who couldn’t hide it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:41 AM |
| 3 | I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking uglyHe’d do better but the quality of women would be significantly lower and a relationship would still be really difficult | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:40 AM |
| 6 | I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking uglyMany insane people still date decently because they have the charm and social intelligence to mask it. Elliot did not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:39 AM |
| 2 | I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking uglyThis is the only blackpill ish claim I can get behind. Autism is different in each person tho so it’s difficult to make a straight claim and some people you won’t even be able to tell unless they volunteer the information. I still wouldn’t say it’s a death sentence tho, autistic men and women tend to date each other and some of them can develop social skills with with pick up artistry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:37 AM |
| 1 | What do you women think of a man who at the moment doesn't earn a lot of money but has a promising future?I am decently social but I wouldn’t say I have killer charisma, I think anyone can be with practise. I’m not super short tho I’m about 5’6 5’7 ish but I’m from Australia where people seen quite tall on average . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 02:17 AM |
| 1 | What do you women think of a man who at the moment doesn't earn a lot of money but has a promising future?I never said that incel. This obviously depends on how short the guy is but most short dudes I know (including me) have no trouble dating and hooking up in clubs. And no I am not loaded with money. Most women prefer at least their height but even then I’ve seen plenty make exceptions, women who say 6ft plus are a minority | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 10:28 PM |
| 4 | What do you women think of a man who at the moment doesn't earn a lot of money but has a promising future?It literally is for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 02:50 PM |
| 2 | What do you women think of a man who at the moment doesn't earn a lot of money but has a promising future?It’s not an either or thing. A girl who doesn’t like short guys isn’t gonna overlook height cause of money. This idea of compensation you weirdos have is strange | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Women Admitting That Their Promiscuous Pasts Prevent Them From Enjoying Sex With Their HusbandsYou don’t date promiscuous women because of questionable science, I don’t date them because they’re disgusting We are not the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isI’m in my 20s and so are they | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isI see it now by leaving my house. I don’t know why this is so hard to believe. Short ugly fatish (not totally fat) dudes with good looking gfs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 11:49 PM |
| 0 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isI’m saying ylu incels never actually tried it and sit whining instead of taking action | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 11:48 PM |
| 0 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isNo I mean below average looking dudes who are short and fat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isNo, I am a short dude and have a girlfriend plus know dozens of short guys with gfs plus regularly see short ugly dudes with gfs. And in case you’re wondering none of the girls are fat / ugly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isWell looks like we both have opposing anecdotes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 01:26 PM |
| 0 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isYou do understand that a study finding a general trend in a sample doesn’t mean the opposite can’t exist in real life right? Me seeing a lot of mismatched couples doesn’t invalidate the study and the opposite is also true. Also the study says nothing about the attractiveness of the couples | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:46 PM |
| 3 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isYes I agree online dating has made the market worse but it’s far from impossible for the majority of men to date and get women like a lot of people here would imply. I also used to cold approach and it’s a very effective tactic despite what a lot of people say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:42 PM |
| 3 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isI wouldn’t say the competition is any harder, people are generally just less socialised these days. And dating generally does get easier for men with age as women prefer to date older and men younger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:22 PM |
| 0 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isI mean yeah obviously. That goes for the majority of men unless you’re very very good looking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isThey literally explain in the article that it’s due to women dating older men. Incels claiming that there’s an epidemic of chads having 3 girlfriends is delusional at best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isTypical, expected as much. Cites no study yet claims he has evidence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 11:29 AM |
| 0 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isJust in case you have some glorious study with damming evidence cite it and I’ll tell you why you’re an idiot. You won’t because you know I’m right and you just want an excuse for not getting any women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 11:22 AM |
| 0 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isCite the study then. Incels simply can’t accept they’re the problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 11:17 AM |
| 2 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isI know the study you’re talking about and it’s misrepresented. Female sexlessness has also greatly increased to a similar degree it’s just not reported on or talked about in media. In fact there was a post on this sub a while back citing a study with a large sample fully debunking it and incels were just whining “the data is bad” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 11:11 AM |
| 4 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isWell I’ve seen plenty so it’s just your anecdotes over mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 11:09 AM |
| 6 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isI can tell with my eyes by looking at them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 11:08 AM |
| -1 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isIt’s a tale as old as time. Incels can’t accept that their poor social skills and lack of understanding of human relationships is the cause of their poor dating success so they scapegoat everything else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 10:53 AM |
| -4 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isI am short and made out with plenty of girls in clubs and have had casual sex. You clearly don’t go out at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 10:38 AM |
| 0 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isIt’s a lack of social skills and people generally socialising less | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isNo I have seen actual ugly dudes with girlfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isDo you guys understand how human interaction works? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 10:35 AM |
| 3 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isYou’re automatically making a negative assumption. I also know a lot of young couples with ugly guys and beautiful women. You can’t just discredit it with “they might be unhappy” for all you know chad and Stacy could be unhappy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 10:35 AM |
| 2 | James Potter is a perfect example of women preferring "bad boys"Bro using a fictional example with wizards isn’t the slam dunk you think it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:31 AM |
| 9 | James Potter is a perfect example of women preferring "bad boys"Yeah lmao snape essentially hard R’d lily and these incels are wondering why she didn’t like him. Very telling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:30 AM |
| 0 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythAn mba from an “Ivy League” school and yet you don’t understand sampling biases. Shocking. Social sciences aren’t as easy to conclude with as other studies. If I go to a red state and sample 100 people and say most people support trump I’d still be wrong lmao. Getting an accurate sample for hundreds of millions of people into 100 is pretty much impossible and you’d be a complete idiot to think you can make a generalisation like that. You just want to cherry pick stats to support your blackpilled… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 12:14 AM |
| -1 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythHave you ever heard of a sampling bias? If I pick 100 people from a trump rally and conclude 100 percent of Americans support trump am I statistically in the right? You guys will literally cherry pick and support any shitty study that supports your world views | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 12:10 AM |
| 8 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythI studied statistics as part of my university course. If you think 100 is enough for hundreds of millions of women in the us alone you shouldn’t be around anything academic ever. Just because t series converges to normal distribution doesn’t change the fact that sampling biases and standard error doesn’t exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:54 PM |
| 4 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythThere were only 100 women in this study. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:51 AM |
| 3 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythI care about it for my partners but not for random hookups. Also I don’t think you understand what it is. Wanting my wife to earn more doesn’t mean I’m automatically fighting the wage gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Former PUA's, what made you stop?Nah I’m still gonna approach soz | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Former PUA's, what made you stop?It doesn’t matter because it’s a very small minority who does it. Similar to those women to take videos of dudes in the gym to frame them as creeps. Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t go to the gym | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Former PUA's, what made you stop?I’m not denying that and I did date many of them. It served me well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:05 AM |
| 5 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythI can care for my partner without caring for a societal level orgasm gap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:04 AM |
| 16 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythSo what’s your evidence to disprove op? Have none? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:03 AM |
| 8 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythWould you be comfortable taking new drugs that were tested in personal anecdote? What if my anecdote says all women these days are virgins | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Former PUA's, what made you stop?If an approach is random getting your phone out to record them without being obvious is very difficult. I wouldn’t consider this an issue to worry about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Former PUA's, what made you stop?My point was I did plenty of daygame pickup and all the women have been nice to me. Cold approach has served me well and I’d have no reason to stop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:43 AM |
| 9 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythI’m sorry but I do not think the orgasm gap is a real issue or one that is even deserving of discussion and as a result do not care one bit about it. If you’re having troubles with orgasms speak to your partner instead of trying to make it some social issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:37 AM |
| 2 | The principles of the manosphere are based on a just-world fallacyNobody is calling virgin men incels. It’s just another buzzword thrown at men who hold right wing is views and has little to do with the actual amount of sex a person has | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Money 100% does help with dating and does compensate for shortcoming no matter what this sub saysSo you got a cuck with no other options? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Former PUA's, what made you stop?Nah nobody cares about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Former PUA's, what made you stop?It’s effective if you can do it well. I know guys who did it for months with nothing but once they figured it out they switched to becoming real players | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Former PUA's, what made you stop?I am sorry but we simply don’t give a shit. We approach because it serves us well. Apart from the occasional snarky woman in the club every women has been nice and friendly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Former PUA's, what made you stop?Who cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:13 AM |
| – | Is it better to define average-looking by measuring how many people think you look cute vs. "scientifc set of physical traits"?The problem comes in the extremes. Their scale falls apart when you try and compare an 8 to 9 to 10. It’s all the same on their scale | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:12 AM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP and the manosphere over-analyzes dating to the point that it’s detrimentalNo, RP will look at some ok Cupid studies. 80 percent of men aren’t attractive etc etc and make the conclusion a man of 5’6 height cannon possibly get a woman unless she’s with him for money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:06 AM |
| 8 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythNobody gives a shit about the “orgasm gap”. Talk about making up issues to be a victim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:05 AM |
| 1 | The principles of the manosphere are based on a just-world fallacyNo they’re called volcels smh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:01 AM |
| 6 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.No dude most guys care about bodycount let’s not pretend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 09:42 AM |
| 12 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.That’s not being a pick me that’s being a normal ass woman wtf is wrong with you. You’ve clearly spend too much time on these subs and let us warp your brain. Pick mes are girls who throw other girls under the bus “pretend to agree with redpill” just for male attention. Basically female niceguys. Also your precious strategy was fucking stupid no wonder it didn’t work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Let's talk about self-esteem and datingAhhh yes, incel is when someone believes physical attractiveness influences dating. I called you out because you ignored ops post just to bring up looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 08:19 AM |
| 3 | Let's talk about self-esteem and datingIt does but it’s not everything like you guys imply. Op was talking about self esteem and dating and you just deflected and brought up looos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 08:15 AM |
| 1 | If I need to be perfectly happy alone for a partner to find a partner to like me, why would I want a partner in the first place?You just rejected my argument for no reason other than you don’t want to believe it. It’s scientifically proven that low self esteem leads to abusive relationships and is seen heavily in narcissistic relationships. High esteem people who can set good boundaries don’t stay with abusive people. They pray on desperate people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Let's talk about self-esteem and datingA lot of people (possibly just on reddit) are against the whole “fix yourself first” mentality because they take it as people telling they’re not worthy enough to date. A lot of people define themselves by their mental illnesses these days and consider it a part of who they are and being told you should date until you’re healthy is considered a personal attack for these people. Every time an opinion like this is brought up on unpopular opinion it gets a lot of hate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:22 AM |
| 1 | If I need to be perfectly happy alone for a partner to find a partner to like me, why would I want a partner in the first place?Being happy alone indicates you’ve solved the insecurity of being codependent and putting your self worth on being with a partner. If you look at most of these incels they’re miserable because they base a man’s worth on having women to sleep with and by that standard they’re unsuccessful and undesirable as people. This desperation leads to toxicity which will sabotage any relationship they go into and leads to narcissistic behaviour | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Let's talk about self-esteem and datingSelf esteem is also very difficult to explain to a person who doesn’t have it. To them material possessions and status are all what worth is and it’s very difficult to see outside that lens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about self-esteem and datingSadly this discussion has become taboo in modern dating because this discussion pushes the idea that people with poor mental health should date (which is true) which is considered ableist and prejudice driven. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about self-esteem and datingYou assume all relationships are the same and worth being in. What you didn’t consider is that a lot are toxic abusive and it’s better to be single than in those. It’s been scientifically proven that lower self esteem individuals attract toxic partners who share trauma with them which leads to controlling abusive relationships. Good self esteem partners find each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about self-esteem and datingYeah, but none of the incels in these comments seem to get that for some reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Let's talk about self-esteem and datingYou didn’t read a word of what OP said. It’s how you value yourself. You don’t need to put your self worth in your looks. You can place it in other achievements | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about self-esteem and datingYou incels really ignore every meaningful discussion to shelter your world view hey? You are the low self esteem the post talks about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:06 AM |
| 1 | If I need to be perfectly happy alone for a partner to find a partner to like me, why would I want a partner in the first place?You’re taking the phrase at face value without considering the nuance. Same with “money doesn’t buy happiness”. What it’s means is if you’re an insecure person you’ll likely attract abusers and self sabotage your relationship and put yourself in positions you don’t want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:03 AM |
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