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And who is typically making more of these comments? I would guess men to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:48 AM
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Are you saying that if a women denies sex that's a problem? Or are you upset that they call you a "sex pest"
/r/MensRights14/09/22 11:21 PM
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Thats simply not true.
/r/MensRights11/09/22 04:53 AM
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Okay so male feminists are sexist too? I think you have everything back to front and really do not want to look at another perspective which is a shame. Not once have I said that there shouldn't be policies to support men, but the fact that there are policies to support women doesn't mean they aren't needed? You are so consumed by who has what rather than the issues that are effecting people around us. What policies do you think men need that they don't have today?
/r/MensRights22/08/22 07:09 AM
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No one said men don't matter ! Common seriously you are so offended because women don't want to be murdered and want equal pay? Yes there are laws for that, and why are you upset by that? It makes no logical sense unless you want to see women or other men harmed. You say you are for men but you don't seem to be supportive of protecting either men or women. Right so if they have all this power why isn't DV resolved, SA resolved, pay gap resolved? Why would they go out of their way to hurt men wit…
/r/MensRights22/08/22 03:51 AM
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What was "extremely sexist" about what I said. You said without men womens issues wouldnt be resolved, and I simply said without men the issues aren't there, eg DV, sexual assaults, pay gap etc. You have to notice that a lot of the issues women face are driven by men (hence the patriarchy). Not sure where you are getting your stat's from but you are wrong. Give me a proper reference of stat's, not just one off scenarios. Never said that women cannot perpetrate DV against men.... I disagree the p…
/r/MensRights22/08/22 03:47 AM
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They may focus more on women issues as this is where a lot of the oppress is faced in society. Men of course can face hardships that are not gender related, but on a gender perspective women are marginalised simply for being female. Why don't you want issues that impact women resolved? Are these feminsit women leaders in the government?
/r/MensRights22/08/22 03:26 AM
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How is feminism breaking the family unit?
/r/MensRights22/08/22 03:23 AM
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Okay you should calm down, there is no need to get upset. DV shelters exist for women unfortunately because majority of it is done by men towards female victims, that's a fact. I never said there shouldn't be shelters for male DV victims?? Not sure what you are on about there. Pay gap does exist. It's sad that you think men are better than women. Why can't we have equality? Sexual violence is largely perpetrated by men toward women, children and other men. So there may be laws that need to targe…
/r/MensRights22/08/22 03:17 AM
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Without men these issues wouldn't have existed in the first place. Which ones are you referring to as "fixed" or "do not exist"
/r/MensRights22/08/22 02:31 AM
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So feminism apparently is strong enough to cause MAJOR damage to men's lives but have no ability to improve the lives of women, men and society as a whole? On one hand you claim feminists are scary and powerful, but now you don't think feminism is not powerful enough to actually contribute to any positive causes. Thag doesnt make sense. How many men are out in the world fighting for DV protection, pay gap, womens rights, reduce sexual violence? I don't see that many men compared to women tbh, so…
/r/MensRights22/08/22 02:17 AM
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Who exactly is helping these issues be resolved? If governments weren't pushed to make these choices nothing would change. Who do you think are the people asking for change? I don't see many men who are not feminists being the ones to drive this change... You think all those issue are resolved? You must live in a dream world.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 01:44 AM
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Okay so wouldn't you think there should be actions to help protect women and men from violence perpetrated largely by men? I would say it's important to protect DV survivors , help women get higher education so they can earn an income themselves and be financially independent, provide financial support to single mothers, tackle homelessness, helping reduce male violence to everyone (both men, women and children), provide accessible healthcare to everyone.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 01:37 AM
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Okay I won't look then if it's not important. I'm not an IT person. Never said you were a quote "angry guy". But clearly you are angry and now you are insulting me upon no reason or basis. So yeah, you are clearly upset...
/r/MensRights22/08/22 01:33 AM
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I have no issue to search it if that's what you want. However Im not going to open a random link. No need to be so angry.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 01:11 AM
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You showed a few examples which are very specific one off example which do not reflect all feminists and what they want to achieve. If you knew anything about feminism you would see all the good work they are putting in to make our world more equal. But you must not like women having rights ... I think women enjoy working, having reproductive rights, equal pay, not being raped or attacked. I don't see an issue with fighting for these things but you seem to.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 12:38 AM
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This is on topic and is related to why feminism exists. Which is to combat oppression of women and other groups. Violence against women and men is felt by society and has impacts on how we interact and behave. These people that suffer are not simply statistics.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 12:18 AM
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Okay for example do you think violence is perpetuated more by men or women? This is not vague and has an easy answer.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 12:06 AM
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Comparatively men are causing more harm in the world to all people than women are causing to men or other women.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 12:03 AM
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So you do not think men are causing harm to men and women?
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:57 PM
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Why wont you answer my question, I've asked multiple times...
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:56 PM
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I think your viewpoint is quite one dimensional. Do you believe that in society men are causing more harm to women and men or that women are causing more harm?
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:51 PM
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You don't have any proof that it doesn't exist based on what you have shared so far. Have you ever thought that maybe some laws are designed to help women from being oppressed and hence maybe that's why the exist?
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:42 PM
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Those examples are very particular situations and do not point to the systemic issues men and women face due to the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:36 PM
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So you really think that being an average man in the world is harder than being an average woman? On what basis is that true?
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:31 PM
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I think I would define it as a structural notion that sees the organisation of the social world arranged for the benefit of, and controlled by, men. This structure can cause the oppression of women and also harm to men. I think men should have more parenting rights and that most feminists would agree that parental leave is important for both parties.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:25 PM
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I could not quite understand what you wrote, whether you think there is more male violence towards men and women, than from women? Why don't you believe in the patriarchy? You said you have done lots of research on feminism so I'm interested how it does not exist.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:15 PM
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So you think the problem is so pervasive that I shouldn't call myself a feminist? Tbh I don't think these people make up the majority of feminists and I don't know each of them well enough to fully understand the depths of the work they do and whether they are truly anti-men. Assuming what you say is true, I'm not really convinced that there are more women out there causing harm to men than there are men causing significant harm to other men and women everyday. Do you believe on the patriarchy?
/r/MensRights21/08/22 10:58 PM
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I don't open random links sorry.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 10:44 PM
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You actually sound like a feminist tbh. You appear to care both for men and women's rights. Just because there are people out there that behave a certain way doesn't mean everyone is like that. I dont have time to research each story you share so im assuming they are true, but you are actually explaining my point quite well.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 10:43 PM
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No one is too ugly for a relationship. It's all about perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:35 PM
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Yes I understand. The fact she is trying to control you and manipulate you is not a feminist thing, that is her being abusive from what I can understand, and you do not deserve that. One piece of advice I would say is to keep your mind open and question things people tell you. Sounds like you have done that with you mum and thats a really good thing. Remember everyone is different and have different experiences that shape who they are, but we all have a free mind and can challenge our own views …
/r/MensRights21/08/22 01:34 PM
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She sounds really awful and controlling and I feel for you. Note that just because your mother is that way doesn't mean you should hate feminists , we are not like that. She sounds emotionally controlling and manipulative. One concern she may have is wanting to ensure you have a good footing financially if something doesn't work out with your partner, not saying this will happen btw but might be something she worries about still. Also I think a partner is definitely important but you have to mak…
/r/MensRights21/08/22 12:06 PM
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No I don't, happily married parents. It's going round in circles still. I try and give me honest answer but you are being quite difficult and really rude.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:58 AM
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Could apply the same argument to yourself. It's going round in circles still. I try and give me honest answer but you are being quite difficult and not very accepting or polite.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:57 AM
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No I did not. Did you have a mother who made you hate women? I have been very balanced in all my responses but it's clear that you don't really like women, and men you don't seem to have much respect for either.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:53 AM
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How?! I Said I wouldn't prefer either or, but if it came down to it yeah a woman would be the safer option
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:51 AM
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Its true, much less likely to be attacked by another woman than I am a man. While the woman might not be as strong they are far less likely to cause me more harm
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:50 AM
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Okay maybe I would prefer a woman , because then I would be less likely to be attacked .
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:46 AM
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It'd illogical that you would care! You would want any person to save you! Goodness this really makes no sense
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:40 AM
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If it's going to a hospital I don't care ! There are plenty of female and males doctors, the main thing is ai get medical care I need. Probably would trust a female more with medical care , but I would accept either to help me!
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:37 AM
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I disagree
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:35 AM
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If I am in severe pain of course I will call 911, why wouldn't I? Yeah of course I wouldn't go to my friends house. I don't see your point. Again men are not useless
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:28 AM
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Already answered , they are not the same
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:26 AM
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You fail to see another view point. I have respected yours, why won't you respect mine? I care a lot for men but you seem to think all they can do is be strong. I think they are much more than that and it's sad you put them in a box like that.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:10 AM
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What are you on about! Women and men are not the same biologically! Why do you think they should be the same?
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:08 AM
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What do you define as nurturing? Google definition is literally "care for and protect (someone or something) while they are growing"
/r/MensRights21/08/22 10:59 AM
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Who is beating me up? Most likely a man right? Thats no an oxymoron. Women can save women. It doenst work like that
/r/MensRights21/08/22 10:56 AM
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I think both genders have the ability to nurture. Isn't I better if both parents care and love their children? I would say having two parents to help teach and raise a child is better than one, the child will have better perspectives on the world and feel more supported. It seems that you think that gender roles are set in stone? There is no flexibility for men to be nurturers or for women to be providers, am I right? (I appreciate that, I am happy to keep debating too)
/r/MensRights21/08/22 10:47 AM
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I think that you do not know the definition of a feminist. And that's why at the very start I asked you that. You are only talking about physical strength here, none of the issues I mentioned. Why would I believe difference in strength is a problem?
/r/MensRights21/08/22 10:42 AM
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I said typically as a group men are biologically going to be stronger. Is that always the case , or course not, but generally yes. Now, you asked me about a fire fighter savign me, these people are highly trained and physically strong (both men and women) hence why would I be worried who saves me? If you prefer a man ok that's your preference, but unfortunately you cannot chose that. I think you are getting lost on physical strength of men vs women and don't want to look at anything deeper.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 10:39 AM
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I never said we didn't need men, of course we need them? When did I say that? Men can have many jobs.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 10:35 AM
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Answered in separate comment
/r/MensRights21/08/22 10:33 AM
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I wouldn't mind tbh! As long as they save me. You know fire fighters need to complete extensive testing and training right? It's not your average woman or man who will be saving you.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 10:32 AM
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I already told you what I define as feminism. But you never told me? Just because women and men typically are not the same physical strength doesn't mean I'm not a feminist.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 10:30 AM
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Men have plenty of jobs they can choose from and so do women. Look at the fields that are predominantly nurturing that are dominated by women, eg nursing and aged care. They have to do pretty dangerous and gross things in this job. Just because certain genders typically gravitate to certain workforces doesn't mean one gender is more noble or better than the other.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 10:27 AM
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I don't believe women and men are typically equal in physical strength. Biologically they are different...I never said they weren't?
/r/MensRights21/08/22 10:23 AM
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I agree yes typically women are the nurturers but that doesn't mean fathers cannot be nurturers too.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 10:15 AM
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I would prefer not to. I don't think men would enjoy those jobs either! I don't think I'm a man?
/r/MensRights21/08/22 10:14 AM
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Okay so any of those views could be said for either gender right? Ie if either parent is neglectful of their children that is wrong right?
/r/MensRights21/08/22 10:07 AM
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Political, economic, personal, and social equality. Hmm how can equality be toxic?
/r/MensRights21/08/22 10:00 AM
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In my view it's about believing in gender equity
/r/MensRights21/08/22 09:44 AM
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I'm just interested if we have the same definition of a feminist or not. IMO some people are said to be feminists when they really are not (ie have estreme view). But if you don't want to discuss all good.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 09:31 AM
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I'm interested to hear alternative opinions and viewpoints. I also like to engage on debate and even challenge viewpoints. If that's not appropriate then I won't engage
/r/MensRights21/08/22 09:26 AM
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What is your definition of a feminist ? I'm a feminist and I have heaps of friends and people who like and respect me (from all genders), so not sure who these horrible people are that you are describing?
/r/MensRights21/08/22 09:23 AM
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Sure, just give up it okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:38 PM
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Cmon just typing to debate a topic! Don't be upset
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:34 PM
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Stumped ya there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:34 PM
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Stumped ya there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:33 PM
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The data is talking about the fact that women do not swipe right as much as men, right? It actually doesn't look at all as to why that is. For example, as a generalisation perhaps more men on the app are interested in casual relationships while more women are interest in committed relationships. This could mean there is a discrepancy no?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:30 PM
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Please explain why you think it is inherently wring men are rejected. Woman can freely make that choice and so can men...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:26 PM
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I'm trying to help you get to the route of the problem and understand your argument. I don't think there is necessarily anything wrong with women rejecting men. But I'm trying to understand why you think that's a problem. Have you thought about why women could be rejecting men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:20 PM
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But what was the subreddit topic? This is a key point of information you are leaving out.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 04:59 PM
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You use very strange terminology to describe people. Most people would find this very confusing. Perhaps you just have poor communication skills with your sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:19 PM
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Why does her not accepting disrespect make her a shitty person?
/r/MensRights19/08/22 04:16 PM
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Yes equality between the sexes might make men feel uncomfortable.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 03:54 PM
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So actually your sister's intention was to protect you and you shit on her for that and almost cut contact? 😳 You seem really upset over something very inconsequential.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:52 PM
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Men are perfectly entitled to their own opinions but women are equally entitled not to like them. Eg if your bf like AT and the woman finds that disrespectful and break up with him, she can do so. In your example perhaps there was something in what the bf posted that the gf found disrespectful?
/r/MensRights19/08/22 03:45 PM
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"Thot"? I thought you were the one that liked this girl? Maybe your sister didn't want you hanging out with her friend if that's how you address women 🤔 just my two cents.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:32 PM
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So what is the inherent issue that women reject men? If a woman doesn't want to date a guy why is that a problem. Similarly men don't have to date a woman they don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:30 PM
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Okay so the algorithm is the problem then? Maybe there are a lot more men on the app so it appears higher
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:26 PM
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So her refusing to be your wingman is bad advice? You would have cut contact with your own sister over some girl? Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:25 PM
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Okay its interesting data. Why is it an issue that men are "rejected"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:22 PM
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So she deliberately sabotaged you? Your own sister? Why would she do that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:07 PM
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I think porn and social media has affected how everyone perceives different bodies and what society says a woman or a man should look like. However , while social media does effect perceptions for sure, I think porn is inherently more dangerous, because it's not really just about how bodies look, but explicitly how women are treated during sex. Most are degrading and not a reflection what real sex should be in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:05 PM
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Sounds quite generalised, I assume this is all based on past relationships you have had?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:59 PM
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So you think women who have a platonic guy friend would give them bad dating advice deliberately?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:57 PM
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Why are women the problem in the dating space? Seems like a very one dimensional view...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:51 PM
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What makes you think that men are not good enough for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:50 PM
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Yes it smells of pure desperation. Intensity like that is not appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:48 PM
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I think bisexual women taking away women from the "marketplace" is the least of your concerns. What lead you to believe that this is an issue and somehow impacting men finding women partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:42 PM
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During divorce things are split 50/50 , so the woman will lose also, so marriage is not really any benefit. Anyway after the marriage is over likely women will continue to do most of the caregiving and labor to raise the child, so actually just as much burden if not more after a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:30 PM
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So what is the common sense benefit of a paternity test? DNA test is one thing, but we are talking about paternity tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:18 PM
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I don't think marriage is really a good indication for strong relationship. It's more about whether they respect you and you work well together as a team. I think it's best to not get married and then can avoid divorce costs. Again how do women ensure they have a faithful partner? As the women conceive the baby there must be some comparable way we can monitor men's commitment to being a parent and not cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:14 PM
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I think the language you use is not really right. To say someone is not good enough for a relationship is quite demeaning, rather his preference was for a sexual relationship purely. Based on what you have mentioned in the post it sounds like she assumed they were in a relationship and he assumed they weren't. This is simply bad communication. Okay maybe she was offended that it didn't turn into something more, but at the end of the day as long as the guy was sensitive to her and said he didn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:09 PM
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Okay so how do women test for a man thats going to leave her to be a single parent and not provide any support? And she has to raise them alone and spend thousands of dollars? I think single mums have it pretty rough, you never thought of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:01 PM
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Ok, so what do you propose to put in place so women know men are not cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:53 PM
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Okay, so how do you propose women ensure men are not cheating on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:51 PM
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Haha 😄 so you are up for STD tests every month then...good to know 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:39 PM
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Most certainly that is very rude! If people are telling others they don't like them for superficial reasons it's not right. Just saying you are not really interested/dont feel a connection is actually easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:17 AM
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Can you be a bit more specific? Like is this from your personal experience that you think this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:56 AM
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Yes of course people get cheated on. But I'm saying your friend isn't stupid for not getting a paternity test. But you seem to think otherwise. You should focus on being a supportive friend. I don't think there is an inherent issue getting a paternity test but maybe he was worried it would show a lack of trust to his partner and affect their relationship. Maybe that was a problem he wanted to avoid. Getting cheated on is horrible but you cannot blame him for not wanting to get one. The wife is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:41 AM
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No issue with going bald. I believe there is research that shows women are very attracted to bald men, look it up :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:06 AM
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Age gaps in relationships are not always an issue. But your post describes a very strange concept that men have a "sexual appetite" that everyone else must just accept... Okay, so women feeling uncomfortable is not your problem? Well, then old men not getting laid is not women's...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:02 AM
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If you trust your partner you trust your partner. Why would he have thought to get a DNA test ever? I mean unless there were some red flags you think he missed? The point being, if you are really that worried the kid isn't yours that you would ask to get a DNA test, then clearly you have some logical reason to suspect something and have seen red flags. Don't tell me men are asking for paternity tests in committed relationships without any actual reason to right? It's not his fault she cheated th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:54 AM
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Why wouldn't women give good advice? Or just people don't want to listen to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:45 AM
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Sabotage? If you want to date women why are you worried about sabotage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:42 AM
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"Ahh you're too much of an idiot for me" in all honesty I would say something rude back to him he cannot be nice , then insult you, then expect you to be happy about it... the fact that someone says you're "a little bit too fat for me" sounds like internalised fat phobia. Anyway people don't pick and choose their features and no features are good or bad. it's perplexing that he wouldn't simply say "I don't feel a connection" instead ... then no one is offended. you have dodged a huge bullet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:31 AM
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