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She meant to say poo
/r/seduction01/10/22 01:26 PM
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I don’t know if I’d attribute that to genetics
/r/seduction29/09/22 07:57 PM
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I assume you’re referring to social anxiety?
/r/seduction29/09/22 03:36 PM
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The thing is those 20+ guys who are virgins aren’t usually virgins because they have bad genetics. Some of them spend all their days playing video games. Others just haven’t found themselves in a situation to socialise with women. Others have horrific social anxiety and can’t talk to women. Others are fat and because they’re overweight they’re unattractive. Others are very smelly and unhygienic It’s not always about genetics.
/r/seduction29/09/22 03:05 PM
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This is maybe the saddest post I’ve read in recent memory. Something tells me you spend a little too much time on the internet and not enough talking to real women..
/r/seduction16/09/22 09:14 PM
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Did you value or take into account how good your husband was with kids before having two young boys with him? Did he display any fatherly characteristics that made you decide he’d be a good father?
/r/seduction10/09/22 07:41 PM
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As for right now, if you’re the last one to have messaged then definitely don’t double text. Wait until she replies. In future, try to frame things as you are the prize. She has to live up to your standards not the other way around. She has to be good enough for you.
/r/seduction10/09/22 05:35 AM
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Why can she call you whatever she wants? Just because she’s pretty? Most girls will see this as you having no standards for yourself. You should be in charge, the leader, she steps into your world not you step into hers.
/r/seduction10/09/22 05:24 AM
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What are you even saying
/r/seduction08/09/22 04:02 AM
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Game is a lot different to incest. Man you can’t be so stupid to actually think they are comparable. Can’t believe mods have allowed this thread for so long.
/r/seduction08/09/22 04:01 AM
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Dude get the hell out of here you are a fucking weirdo.
/r/seduction08/09/22 03:59 AM
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Tbh you fucked up. You should be fucking her on the first or MAXIMUM second date. Did you pussy out or something? What happened? Why didn’t you have sex with her? You do know if a girl spends so many hours with you out of her day on so many days, she wants more than a kiss.
/r/seduction07/09/22 01:10 PM
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Are men really this insecure in today’s age? Jesus 😂
/r/seduction05/09/22 07:39 PM
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Sounds like your problem is the complete opposite of being too beautiful. Not trying to be mean just tryna be honest, if they’re ghosting you after seeing your face, it’s more than likely because you’re.. well, you know.
/r/seduction29/08/22 04:13 PM
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Deffo get what you’re saying and this is the case for most guys correct. But there are a lot of women are are attracted to people who treat them badly, who are distant, abusive etc. So while yes, most nice guys are actually fake nice, there is still a preference for assholes nonetheless.
/r/seduction11/08/22 10:41 PM
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Because women hate being bored, and nice is boring
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:32 AM
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You’re the dumb fuck, dumb fuck. I’m not saying I support it. But you can disagree with some things a person says, and also agree with other things. Just because one agrees with some things doesn’t mean they agree with all things.
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:36 PM
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Different life views and opinion. Doesn’t make yours right or his right. It’s just different approaches to life.
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:29 AM
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I mean he’s an alpha. As cringe as that word is, he is that. He’s a breath of fresh air and a good example for men to follow in a world being destroyed by simps and feminism.
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:54 PM
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A lot of women are repulsed by virgins. The more sexual partners a man has or had = the more women want him. No idea why you would tell a woman you’re a virgin, what did you hope to achieve? You should have lied. In future, you lie.
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:59 AM
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Your best friend is 100% correct. You don’t ask a girl to have sex, it just happens. You make a move you kiss. If you tried to kiss her and she said no THEN that means she doesn’t want to have sex. The world shames women for having casual sex, she doesn’t want to be asked to do it, she just wants it to happen.
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:14 AM
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You are such trash 😂
/r/seduction01/08/22 10:46 AM
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I told her I was crazy about her Bruh lol
/r/seduction29/07/22 02:21 PM
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Doubt he’s interested. You were probably too easy and doesn’t want you beyond that one night stand. Most guys don’t chase for anything more with girls who are easy to lay.
/r/seduction29/07/22 02:11 PM
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Wow that’s lower than I expected. But is that sexual odds on no condom? Or is that with a condom
/r/seduction25/07/22 10:50 PM
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For her to start making out with you. Or for her to start going downstairs. Or for her to take your clothes off first.
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:06 PM
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You know if she has attraction for you if she initiates sex. A woman will not initiate sex with someone she doesn’t find attractive. So if you’re the only one starting the sex, you’ve got a problem. But if she’s starting sex just as much, you’re fine.
/r/seduction22/07/22 02:10 PM
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Wear a hat..?
/r/seduction21/07/22 12:20 PM
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Withdraw yourself. Push pull. Say chat later and don’t give any reason for why you’re busy to keep mystery. Withdrawing attention when a woman wants more of it makes her want you more.
/r/seduction21/07/22 01:29 AM
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Why didn’t you just ask why?
/r/seduction16/07/22 09:18 AM
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Very small few. Many wouldn’t dare, scared of scaring them off.
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:10 PM
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Definitely. Men shit test each other especially new comers ALL the time.
/r/seduction15/07/22 11:38 AM
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Treat her badly sometimes. Then make up for it by treating her good. Then back to treating her bad. It makes you unpredictable and instilled a constant need of reassurance from her. A woman’s relationship with a man should be a rollercoaster.
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:19 PM
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Both.
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:09 PM
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It’s important, but not as important as face, body, wealth or status. Everything about you is important. Being 6 foot, means you’ll never have height as your issue for not getting girls. Also, be weary of dating profiles, most women are not that shallow in real life.
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:02 AM
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Congratulations on having the realisation that women’s words and actions don’t align. 😂 Seriously, never listen to what a woman says. Watch her actions.
/r/seduction04/07/22 06:58 PM
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doesn’t contact first has guy friends doesn’t pay for anything (or offer) begs you to cum inside her Yeah… you’re a sugar daddy, kind of, but you’re also a target to baby trap, which is infinitely times worse than being a sugar daddy. Never cum inside her AND use condoms every time. Wrap your condom in tissue when you’re finished and flush it down the toilet. (You’d be surprised what women will do with used condoms to impregnate themselves) Honestly the sensible move is to cut all contact, but I…
/r/seduction04/07/22 01:15 PM
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I’m sorry, you do know that ethnicity and height have no correlation with dick size right?
/r/seduction03/07/22 10:45 PM
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Do you think height is correlated with dick size or something? What makes you think the guy had a 7 inch dick? Did you see it?
/r/seduction03/07/22 10:20 PM
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Ever consider that maybe you shouldn’t listen to a woman’s words and maybe listen to a woman’s actions instead?
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:44 PM
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Apples and oranges
/r/seduction03/07/22 02:26 AM
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Great point actually yea
/r/seduction29/06/22 08:28 PM
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This is one of the most obvious shit tests. You should reply like “Yes, same for me, college years were wild” this can reverse it on her. Otherwise you could completely and utterly ignore it which would work too. Now, hearing that would turn off any guy from thinking the girl is marriage material. So you’re not alone there, no guy wants to marry a girl who says things like that. But you can still fuck her. But that’s a whole separate conversation from the shit test
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:32 PM
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This is utterly ridiculous. This won’t happen 😂😂
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:01 PM
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It most definitely does. Race is extremely important. If they are white men, then I can tell you it’s because they assume you don’t find them attractive, so they don’t try. This is a massive problem with interracial dating between white men and black women. White men rarely see black women with white men, so they assume black women don’t like white men, so they don’t approach. Black women rarely get approached by white men, so they think white men don’t like black women. It’s a dilema. And I kno…
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:50 AM
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Tbf I may have been rude in my last post. My bad. Oh no doubt it’s important. I know many girls who won’t date a guy if he’s shorter than her. But considering most of the male population is taller than most of the female population, women really looking for face and if they can, status. Then as they get older they look for wealth more. This is what I’ve seen. Of course personality keeps the woman. What race are the men you’re talking about who won’t approach you? Most men don’t have the confiden…
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:44 AM
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I never said 5’6 was tall. Sure height is important. But as a level of importance, it is much lower than looks, wealth status and personality. Why did you ignore 60% of my message? Do you not want to know why you are struggling to find a man? And judging by some of your other messages, seems like you have some deep issues that need solving before you even think about being attractive to a man. Look, imma give it straight to you, the reason men don’t like you is probably because you got an ass pe…
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:36 AM
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“It’s projecting” what does that even mean? And half of all men on earth are shorter than average. And also what you said is not true, I’m a tall man and I much prefer smaller women. That’s just a personal preference of mine. You seem to have maxed out how attractive you can be, I don’t think there’s much you can do there. For your love life issues I think maybe you just need to strike up conversation with more men? Or do you struggle to keep men interested? I guess the best advice is to be the …
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:04 AM
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Many men like small women.
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:26 AM
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I mean, if your friends are cowards, isn’t that their problem? Why do you care. Just call them pussies and ignore them bro. Also if there is a lot of girls, you can still go on your own. It’s even more impressive, but make sure to go and talk to them as a group and include everyone.
/r/seduction24/06/22 06:56 PM
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No..
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:04 PM
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You’re overthinking a lot. Maybe she liked your friend more. Is that such a bad thing. The whole “height” thing on tiktok is very exaggerated and doesn’t hold as much weight in real life. I’m not saying your height can’t work to your advantage, but height certainly is nowhere near as important as looks, personality, phenotype or approachability
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:26 PM
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Whoever said that has never been with a woman. Of course they care about their partners emotional needs. (As long as it does not become excessive) Why does a woman give a man a message? Caress his head? Cook him food? Of course women care about men wtf.
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:42 PM
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Meh, there’s truth to it. Go fuck yourself :)
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:49 AM
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No not necessarily beautiful. Sometimes it’s even the beautiful ones who have the better personalities, and the ugly ones who are bitter and want more than they can ask for.
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:48 AM
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James Tusk.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:29 PM
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YouTube has a wealth of information on game. I’d just watch videos on daygame. Reddit is fine don’t get me wrong but there’s a lot of ppl talking as if they know things when they don’t. Go to YouTube and watch videos on game it’s your best option imo
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:13 PM
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This may be racist, but never underestimate the sense of entitlement of a white woman.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:06 PM
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Well no, you can’t say “anything” in terms of being rude or political or disagreeable. That’s not what people mean when they say “anything”
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:02 PM
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That is literally seduction.
/r/seduction21/06/22 12:49 PM
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It’s possible and totally suitable to have a relationship with someone you’re not compatible with, but it will never be the same love as a couple who are totally compatible and like the same things.
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:33 AM
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Agreed.
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:31 AM
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I recommend becoming a more attractive potential partner by being the best shape you can be in and groom yourself well. Other than that, it’s all about being social and being flirtatious or asking women out. You won’t get with any women unless you make moves.
/r/seduction21/06/22 01:25 AM
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Do you want to show off status to get women or do you want to show off status so other people admire you? Before I can answer I need to know which one it is because both answers vary.
/r/seduction21/06/22 01:23 AM
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Seduction is all about saying what she wants to hear, not saying what you want to say.
/r/seduction20/06/22 11:46 PM
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Of course there is time left to do all you want. But you have to quit porn. You have to quit video games. You have to get a job. Join a local gym and get in shape. Do it for your mind.
/r/seduction20/06/22 03:41 PM
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Yes your two best pictures are 5+ years old. You shouldn’t include them, it gives us a false impression and gives you a false sense of your own attractiveness as it’s inflated. The other photos are with your hair covering half your face and makeup + washed out. If you want a true accurate rating you should make a video of front and side profiles where we can see your face fully. You are not ugly. But you’re also not above average.
/r/seduction19/06/22 11:29 PM
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You can’t include pictures from your 20s when you’re 34 and ask if you’re good looking. The difference between 20s and 34 is massive.
/r/seduction19/06/22 10:33 PM
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You absolutely should build conversation beforehand. That’s weird just going up to a girl and asking her for her number without making conversation beforehand. Real life is not like the movies (usually) Women have way more things to be scared of than men. You may be a serial killer. A scammer. A rapist. You could be anything. You need to build trust first.
/r/seduction19/06/22 04:19 PM
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Security + status.
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:53 PM
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Stop waisting your time.
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:42 AM
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Time. You can help yourself by not hanging on. It’s over. Don’t think “oh if I acted this way instead” or “how can I get her back” or “I’ll never find someone like her” There are billions of women on the planet. You will get over her. There will be a time where you don’t care about her anymore. It just takes time. You can speed that time up by telling yourself to move on and that it’s finished. But really the only answer to a breakup is time.
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:40 AM
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I think you should make the first move! Maybe he is shy or nervous. You sound young so maybe he just hasn’t the experience yet!
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:37 AM
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What do you mean he should be putting in more work to get to know you? Maybe you should put in the work to get to know him. Sounds like it’s you who wants him not him who wants you. Why should he be making the moves? Removing him from your story to get him to ask you about your life is ridiculous and won’t work. If he actually cared he would ask. If you want to spark something it looks like you’ll have to make the first move. Did you ever consider the fact maybe he just doesn’t like you? Main ch…
/r/seduction16/06/22 01:35 AM
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A super power? A talent? What? This is way more common than you think, sorry to hurt your feelings 😂
/r/seduction15/06/22 11:44 PM
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Not at all. Some of the most alpha alphas I’ve ever seen absolutely adore and are obsessed with women who are good looking. But they can compartmentalise that and tune their actions to get the girl.
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:37 PM
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You can still put them on a pedestal in your head. Just make sure your actions don’t reflect that.
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:47 PM
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Be open to the possibility that she wasn’t turned off, but was insecure and disappointed with herself because she might think why you don’t think she’s attractive. Many women think this when a guy doesn’t get hard. Women have performance anxiety too. Id message her and make it clear the reason you didn’t get hard is because you drank too much. “Sorry for getting whiskey dick the other night, that was totally my fault and I was silly for drinking so much beforehand. I want to see you again, and t…
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:08 AM
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Did she leave because you couldn’t get it up? Was she courteous? Was she nice about it? If so try again. But if she just left you cos you couldn’t get hard in an abrupt way, I’d say she’s not worth it.
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:46 AM
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If hunting is masculine, then cooking is feminine. If fighting is masculine, then caring is feminine. If being angry is masculine, then being pleasant is feminine. If tyranny is masculine, then obedience is feminine. Just being pleasant to be around is more than enough femininity
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:40 AM
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Obviously they value money more. But there’s a lot more good looking guys in the world than millionaire men, so some might think looks. A millionaire beats a good looking guy every day of the week. Doesn’t mean women are gold diggers. Being powerful (having money) is an extremely attractive trait.
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:20 AM
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Very situational. There are many cases where a prostitute is better than a drunk girl.
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:14 AM
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There’s no shame in losing it to a hooker. Many do it. But you might realise it is a social construct and doesn’t actually matter and will not make any difference in your life. Hire a hooker because you want to have sex, not because you want to lose your virginity. Being a virgin doesn’t matter that much.
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:13 AM
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This is such a stupid fucking post. And posting it to a subreddit where most women have blue hair and no love life with various dissatisfactions in life means nothing. Your examples are stupid. Not only is it not true, but you’re not looking at the full picture. Women footballers are much, much worse than men. Men have an interest in seeing the very best in the world compete, women aren’t that. Second, Katie Taylor and Amanda Serrano just had a boxing match in America and thousands of men came t…
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:33 PM
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You never know. Maybe she wanted to trap you with a baby. You really never know. Massive respect to you for not having sex without a condom. The amount of people I’ve seen fuck up their whole lives by getting a chick pregnant is too damn high, and they all thought oh I’ll just pull out… Big L though, you should always have condoms in your wallet or something. 😂
/r/seduction10/06/22 06:50 PM
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What?
/r/seduction10/06/22 04:32 PM
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Deffo agree, there’s a fine line between fat and thicc!
/r/seduction10/06/22 04:32 PM
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Only to fuck other fat and ugly guys
/r/seduction10/06/22 02:59 PM
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Fuck boy female version? You mean a slut? 😂 I mean, it would be very easy for you as long as you’re not fat/overweight or ugly. Just be flirtatious.
/r/seduction10/06/22 02:50 PM
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Consent for a kiss? What? 😂
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:06 PM
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Society shames women for having casual sex. It’s possible she is shy and doesn’t want to be so obvious with it, and rather all the action to happen out of public view at the apartment.
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:37 PM
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Through social interaction.
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:03 PM
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Ok I don’t really know that culture and can’t answer.
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:08 PM
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Going out of your house leads to sex? So you walk out of your house go to the shop and then the next minute you’re shagging some woman in the toilet? 😂😂 I get what you mean. But no, sex doesn’t just happen like that. In most cases sex for men who are shy and not good looking is extremely difficult. I’ve seen it happen so many times. Couple that with a limited amount of times a guy interact with women, then it’s completely possible to go a decade without sex. What if the guy works online and has …
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:06 PM
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Might be good if you told us where you are?
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:02 PM
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Well, depends on the scenario. If it’s a 30 year old with a mental condition and weird social behaviours, then yes sure he may be a “weirdo” But there are also completely normal 30 year olds who haven’t had sex simply because they’ve never been in that social situation.
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:40 PM
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Not at all. It’s more common than you think. I wouldn’t say your friend is being an asshole or anything, I think he’s just not knowledgable.
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:21 AM
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You’re in a position of power and she serves you. This is basically hardwired into female DNA to be attracted to.
/r/seduction06/06/22 01:32 PM
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If you don’t want to do it you don’t have to do it. End of story.
/r/seduction06/06/22 01:27 PM
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And I’m telling you she did not pick him over you because of the height difference. There is a lot more to the human attraction than height. Maybe he has more status than you. Maybe he is richer than you. Maybe he is funnier. Maybe he is more her type. Maybe he is kinder. Maybe he is badder. Maybe he is more exciting. Maybe he is more daring. Maybe his personality was more compatible. Maybe his hair color was more her type. Maybe she preferred his eye color. There are so many aspects dude. I’m t…
/r/seduction06/06/22 04:00 AM
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It is true.
/r/seduction06/06/22 03:28 AM
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This is just fucking weird bro.
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:27 PM
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Asking to go somewhere more private is not terrible. But you could say, come for a drink back at my place. Or let’s get out of here. Try not to insinuate you’re going to fuck her.
/r/seduction02/06/22 02:30 PM
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What is wrong with you
/r/seduction02/06/22 12:50 PM
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Think it’s legal in Nevada actually and there are lots of brothels there. But even still, prostitution is everywhere you go. It’s much more common than you think. A quick google search shows there are 1 million prostitutes in usa. You’d have to do a bit of research and go on websites that are legit.
/r/seduction30/05/22 02:45 PM
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Depends what country, but generally escort websites.
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:45 PM
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Honestly if she’s shy she’s probably a nice girl and you should leave her to the guys who are actually in a good mental state for a relationship. Don’t forget her into a FWB if she wants a relationship just because you’re “not in a good place” whatever that means.
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:48 AM
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I mean if you’re that desperate, hire a prostitute, and if you’re white you can just go to most third world countries and get laid easily. Tinder is your best bet anywhere you go.
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:37 AM
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Maybe he is panicking saw your name and wants to know if she’s trying to cheat? Why not help a fellow brother out? Just go follow him, and send him a message saying hey your girlfriend was trying to go out with me. I said no, not while she has a boyfriend. Just giving you a heads up bro to bro. If he has any sense he will appreciate that. I don’t think he’s trying to escalate anything with you, he might just want to know the truth of his girlfriend. Give him the heads up.
/r/seduction28/05/22 10:43 AM
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I don’t see what the issue is though? Why wouldn’t youth be better? Stronger. Fitter. Healthier. It doesn’t mean a person is worth more or less, it’s just that youth is to be cherished. We will all be old and dust one day. Don’t be sad if you’re old. Be happy you got the opportunity to be young and now you can reflect on it as you’re old, and see others enjoy the same youth you enjoyed. It’s the cycle of life, see the beauty in it.
/r/seduction28/05/22 12:36 AM
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Usually they like the maturity. They tend to have more money
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:25 PM
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Money and status can do things that looks could never do.
/r/seduction25/05/22 08:09 PM
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What the hell? Men absolutely adore women. You’re crazy. There are anomalies on both sides, but men love women, and women love men. Not sure where you’re getting this warped view on men and women, but both genders most certainly do appreciate and love each other.
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:00 AM
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Feminism is not what it was intended to be, it’s been hijacked by people who have nothing else to do with their lives but to find problems in the world. Don’t let the current distinction of feminism which is paraded by mainly crazy people distract you from real feminism, a fight for equal opportunity, which I wholly 100% support. Hearing what people have to say about current worlds feminism is a waste of your precious time. Go do something else with it.
/r/seduction23/05/22 12:57 AM
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Yup lol
/r/seduction22/05/22 07:05 PM
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Why do they need to recognise it? That’s your issue not theirs.
/r/seduction22/05/22 04:17 PM
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What?
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:04 AM
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Of course he does. Anyone who thinks being 6’4 is enough to get a very hot girlfriend with no personality has never been 6’4 to ever know that. I know many tall dudes who are lonely and can’t get a girl to like them. It’s actually not fair on tall dudes to just narrow them down to their height and assume romantic success because of it, because it makes those who aren’t successful really doubt themselves and feel bad. You could look like Tom cruise or Brad Pitt and still it wouldn’t be enough to …
/r/seduction18/05/22 09:06 PM
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Thank you. How much? Good morning. Good day. I don’t understand <language>. Hello. Sorry. And then the numbers for prices.
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:53 PM
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As I said it is a linguistic application. I am not saying it is scientific. It’s like you just completely ignored what I said or didn’t understand it. I’m saying that the term alpha is used to describe a man of confidence, independence and attractive qualities. Which most certainly is the case. When most say alpha, they don’t literally mean the scientific definition regarding wolves, but the characteristics of a man that is synonymous with those qualities I listed. If you don’t understand that y…
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:34 PM
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They are linguistic applications to certain types of males. Of course that is fucking true you dumbass.
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:56 PM
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Although the word alpha male can be cringe to say, it doesn’t mean the ideology is not true.
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:30 PM
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Umm… I never said I wouldn’t have sex with a woman with a high body count.
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:15 PM
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Okay? And what’s the issue?
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:58 AM
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Are you a woman? If you’re a woman you’ll have to see it from a different perspective. It’s actually, from what I’ve seen, the opposite. Men who have low body counts are less appealing to women, as many women then think why hasn’t this guy had many women? Do women not like him? Why am I the only woman who likes him? He must not be good. A man, generally, would love to be a girls first time. But very few women want to be a guys first time. That’s just what I’ve seen.
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:49 AM
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Just because I have standards that you don’t meet? I’m allowed to have standards. So are you. I’m not going to tell you what you should want in a guy. In my eyes, a woman who has been dicked down by many guys doesn’t value herself or consider her body sacred, or something that should be shared with a select few. If many men can get her, I don’t want her. She may be slutty. She may be broken. She may still love past partners. I am allowed to want what I want. You have to learn how to live with ot…
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:44 AM
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Yes. Obviously. A woman with multiple sexual partners is not someone I or many men want. Not that I think there’s an issue with it from the woman’s side, shag all you want, but from the mans sides, I won’t be able to respect you or think highly of you.
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:17 AM
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If it’s a high number you should definitely keep it to yourself.
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:10 PM
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Do you see these guys online or in real life? A tiny tiny portion of the population look like Brad Pitt, and i highly doubt you’d ever find yourself in a situation in real life where you think everyone looks like that.
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:06 AM
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Damn that is a hurtful hit to the ego. Don’t worry about it, you’re good fam. Just look at a video YouTube videos of bar game or something.
/r/seduction15/05/22 05:10 PM
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Baseball game is actually one of the best date ideas
/r/seduction15/05/22 04:59 PM
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This is not love. This is infatuation. Also, if it is love, it should not be the dominant emotion.
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:48 PM
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If you’re shedding tears for a girl you’re not in a relationship with, because you’re not in a relationship with her, you have some extreme insecurity and vulnerability issues you need to deal with before you even think about having a stable successful relationship with a woman.
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:53 PM
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“Only to the ones I like the look of”
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:48 PM
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Did you seriously just ask if you should end the relationship and friendship? Are you brain dead? Of course you should. How the hell is that even a question? Have some respect for yourself will you?
/r/seduction14/05/22 12:49 PM
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Maybe those men aren’t the boring losers you think they are and it’s you who’s slacking? Don’t hate on other men dude. That’s terrible.
/r/seduction13/05/22 07:41 PM
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Agreed
/r/seduction13/05/22 03:05 PM
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You’re not dumb at all. Just to explain, girls love mystery. They love to be the one who has to qualify to your standards. By you just giving her a free compliment, she feels like your standards are very low, and she will get no joy with you because she done nothing to get the compliment. Girls outside of relationships generally do not like compliments. It puts her as the prize. You should be the prize, she has to earn her place with you. That’s the attitude you must have.
/r/seduction13/05/22 04:23 AM
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Little tip, don’t go around telling girls they’re pretty. You’ve a lot to learn youngin.
/r/seduction13/05/22 03:21 AM
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100% agree. Mfers be calling girls cool to pressure them into talking to them to live up to this “coolness”
/r/seduction12/05/22 02:39 PM
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You’re literally biologically hardwired to fuck pretty girls. You can’t just suppress your human nature.
/r/seduction12/05/22 11:46 AM
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Weird as fuck
/r/seduction12/05/22 11:43 AM
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What a guy follows on Instagram and what a guy wants in a life long supportive partner have little to no correlation. I wouldn’t say it’s all in your head, but you’re jumping to conclusions and worrying when there isn’t a need. Just see where your journey takes you, don’t worry about such arbitrary things.
/r/seduction12/05/22 02:56 AM
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Therapy is your answer man. You can make a thousand posts and read a thousand more comments, but you won’t see real change until you start experimenting with therapy.
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:32 AM
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Yes, intimacy is one of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, to live a fulfilled life sex helps a lot.
/r/seduction09/05/22 10:08 PM
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Oh I agree. But he just wants to have sex easily no strings attached. A brothel is more than suitable if he can’t get laid quickly otherwise.
/r/seduction08/05/22 02:44 PM
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What? 😂
/r/seduction08/05/22 12:48 PM
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A brothel?
/r/seduction08/05/22 05:25 AM
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Doesn’t have to be on a date. It can be when you first meet them. Talk. And then do it. Also, it is more than fine for you to say “Hey, I like you and want you to take me on a date” Men are a bit more stupid than women and “game” is not required. A man either finds you attractive, or he doesn’t. A women can be way more intrigued by game or seduction than a man because women are more perceptive to body language and value things more such as confidence and how you carry yourself, and tend to enjoy…
/r/seduction08/05/22 12:16 AM
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Thats totally fair. Well said. Unfortunately, guys in general don’t have balls. Sometimes you could drop a thousand hints to a guy and he still don’t get it. Why? I’m not sure. It’s just the age we live in, guys are very afraid of attractive women nowadays. I can only say from my point of view. If a girl rubs my arm, it pretty much gives me the hint to hit her up. No girl is rubbing the arm of a guy she doesn’t like. So you could try that. Rub a guys arm during a laugh or something. Willing to b…
/r/seduction07/05/22 11:52 PM
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Yes. I’m not a female but have many female friends. A female can attract many men by realising the following: Men do not want women who are “independent” and “career driven” They want a woman who is submissive, agreeable, pleases her man and would be a good mother to their kids. One of the worst lies modern feminism can tell you is that a woman should not do housework or care for her family. Raising a good, strong family is infinite times more impressive than doing good at a firm that doesn’t gi…
/r/seduction07/05/22 11:12 PM
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You need to match her and she needs to match you. Kissing is like a tango. If she goes fast, you go fast. You have to adapt.
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:40 PM
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This is bullshit
/r/seduction07/05/22 01:19 PM
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depends how invested she is. If she is invested heavily then you will get away with this yes, and it’ll even make her more invested. But if you’re still new to her, it may backfire.
/r/seduction06/05/22 08:27 PM
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She was just surprised, which can be a good thing.
/r/seduction06/05/22 08:25 PM
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Making six figures is a social status.
/r/seduction06/05/22 08:21 PM
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Not overreacting at all. That’s a crushing thing to hear. But it’s something you’ll have to learn to live with, that’s life.
/r/seduction05/05/22 12:57 PM
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How do you plan on taking her out then? Girls put you in the friendzone when you don’t make your intentions clear from the very beginning.
/r/seduction05/05/22 12:56 PM
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Wait a day. Message her the following night. Then say “Hey it was great talking to you yesterday” You can then maybe say you want to see her again, and invite her to something.
/r/seduction05/05/22 12:00 PM
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Do you want to fuck her? If so. Say “I’m cooking dinner tonight at mine. You’re welcome to join me” Women very rarely get caught cheating. Note I didn’t say go out to a bar cos that’s a compromising location.
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:29 PM
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Obviously. Plenty of times. If a woman is attracted to you and wants to fuck you, it can happen on the first night.
/r/seduction04/05/22 09:23 PM
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Ok incel lol
/r/seduction04/05/22 07:24 PM
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You are probably a fat virgin incel who lives in his moms basement stop you are not fooling anyone 😂😂 Can guarantee I’ve slept with much hotter women than you, had much more successful relationships than you, and am a generally more successful person in life. I’m curious to know what you’d say so? Cos this girl is clearly just trying to get a reaction from him, and see if he will hold his frame. If you cannot see that, you must be the most deluded short sighted dude I’ve ever come across. You sh…
/r/seduction04/05/22 04:39 PM
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Oh hey. I found an incel 😂😂
/r/seduction04/05/22 04:08 PM
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I mean. You’re biologically designed to spread your seed. That is pretty much your only purpose in life. You can’t stop biologically designed desire. Just go to the gym and get in incredible shape and you’ll have girlfriend and be happy.
/r/seduction04/05/22 03:59 PM
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She’s just trying to get a rise out of you. Just say no why would I be mad? And just brush it off. Say it sounds a bit silly.
/r/seduction04/05/22 03:46 PM
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So just say “let’s save it for the bedroom” Sometimes she can just be having fun. Not everything is a shit test.
/r/seduction04/05/22 03:44 PM
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Bro. None of these are shit tests. Get your act together. Seriously. You are ruining your chances with this girl. These are NOT shit tests in the slightest.
/r/seduction04/05/22 03:13 PM
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Ok for example. Calling her friend hot. She gets mad. You laugh. Going missing for 2 days without explanation. Flirting with other girls. Not showing up on time to meeting points. Then telling her to meet you somewhere else. They’re just examples. I’m sure you will encounter drama in your relationship at some point in your own way, as long as you have a spine (there is rarely drama when the guy is too agreeable and therefor boring) so all you have to do is be non reactive and find humour in her …
/r/seduction04/05/22 12:37 PM
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While I 100% agree women are receptive to direct communication, not all women are receptive to needy statements like “I like you” Now I know she’s asking the question. But still, if you can avoid saying you like a girl, you avoid coming off as a little needy. Also, women love a bit of mystery. Always let a woman use one of her most powerful tools, imagination
/r/seduction04/05/22 03:00 AM
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“No I hate you. I am filing for a restraining order right now with the police! 😝” Simple. Funny. Then after she reacts, say you’d like to see her again (this is how you tell her you like her without telling her you like her)
/r/seduction04/05/22 02:58 AM
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Tbh. Good reply. You showed studies. And I respect this. Just a question, if I now say “women and men are emotional creatures” - would you agree with me that they still thrive on chaos, and love drama? Because man, after 8+ deep emotional relationships with women, and many, many short term relationships, I’ve come to observe that they enjoy being in dramatic situations. And because of this, I’ve been able to manipulate and navigate their choppy waters. And women have responded very well to me wh…
/r/seduction03/05/22 09:45 PM
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Well said.
/r/seduction03/05/22 07:25 PM
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To put it simply, make her angry. Women will say they hate drama, but secretly love it. Women tend to always want drama. They just love it. Girls love excitement. They don’t want to be bored. You should have positive moments more than negative moments. But the negative moments must be explosive for her and make her very dramatic (warning: don’t get dramatic back, you should always be calm while she is being dramatic. Never engage in an argument.)
/r/seduction03/05/22 07:23 PM
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Sorry but that’s not what I meant. Women are emotional as in they tend to change their feelings a lot and thrive on chaos. Men think more logically about things. I’m not sure your example is good at all. A disastrous decision doesn’t mean it’s emotional. Hitlers attempt at world domination wasn’t emotional, it was a plan of ruling the world. Now I do get what you’re saying. There are many emotional men out there. I know that. But that’s coming from a place of insecurity and desperation. A woman’…
/r/seduction03/05/22 07:19 PM
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Gonna give you some legit advice here to separate yourself from others. MAKE HER FEEL EMOTION. Men are logical women are emotional. If you continuously make your woman feel things emotionally, she will be attached to you. Unfortunately the best way to keep a girl attached is not only good emotion, but negative emotion too. Making your girl have chaotic emotion can make her very attached to you.
/r/seduction03/05/22 04:40 PM
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I mean. If you could get it closer it would be great.
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:46 PM
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You’re a fucking weirdo 😂 stop messaging me please
/r/seduction01/05/22 02:36 PM
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You must be very angry to reply 3 times to me 😂😂 And of course you’re a lesbian. Probably couldn’t find a man that was willing to put up with you and had to convert to liking women 😂😂😂 Besides what you look like (you look really old anyway) it will never hold any importance as your bitch ass stuck up personality just ruins any chance you could ever have with anyone. That’s why you’re a loner who can’t find love when Ive been in multiple loving meaningful relationships in my life and been with my…
/r/seduction01/05/22 02:01 PM
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Dude. And you probably felt sorry for yourself and went and cried? She could’ve been just shit testing you and if you replied with confidence and brushed over it she wouldn’t have cared. Stop blaming your height. I see guys 5’7 5’8 with bombshells all the time. You are looking for something to blame. Even if a woman says it’s height, it could be a shit test or it might not even be true. Don’t listen to a girls words look at her actions. Stop blaming it. You will not have any success if you keep …
/r/seduction01/05/22 04:54 AM
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Respect 🙏
/r/seduction30/04/22 08:03 PM
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Maybe it came off wrong, sorry if it did. I just mean women don’t mind when a man just fucks away passionately without doing things like oral or fingering. Yes, many women come back to me for more, I would not talk like this unless I knew it to be true through experience. A better word for it? Sure. Dominant, rough sex where the woman is submissive. That’s what I’m on about. I don’t mean you don’t literally care about the woman.
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:58 PM
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What? A fleshlight? I’m sorry are you a virgin or something?
/r/seduction30/04/22 05:22 PM
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How the fuck does that mean I’m a misogynist 😂😂😂 shut the fuck up dumbass. I’m allowed to have standards, and so are you. And judging by your profile. You exactly fit the stereotype. tattoo’d, old and lonely. Can’t find a man that likes her. It’s almost like what I said has some truth to it and you’re just triggered.
/r/seduction30/04/22 01:26 PM
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Why do you want to fix it? I see no issue. You will eventually find a girl who you like and want to pleasure. Until then, I see absolutely no issue in you just caring about yourself. Side note, sometimes (most times) girls actually like when you don’t care about them during sex, believe it or not girls get performance anxiety too, and if you’re going above and beyond to pleasure her, she will feel anxiety to perform. Where if you just fuck her selfishly, she can just sit back and enjoy the show …
/r/seduction30/04/22 12:47 PM
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If he cannot get hard due to erectile dysfunction then he can use viagra. That is what viagra is for.
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:46 PM
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Say “I feel no emotion” This will drive a girl crazy on a long pursuit and journey to get you to feel emotion for her.
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:36 PM
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Just use viagra. You should really look into not watching porn. You may have porn-induced erectile dysfunction. But yeah. Viagra is your best friend here.
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:34 PM
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Did you gather rapport first? Display confident body language? Smile? Talk confidently? If so, take it on the chin and go again. It happens. If not, learn.
/r/seduction29/04/22 02:34 AM
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Eye contact. Touch shoulder during a laugh.
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:33 AM
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I understand what you mean. But my advice isn’t horrible.
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:32 AM
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Because vaginas are interior organs and dicks are exterior. Anything that is interior is not going to look nice. Of course vaginas don’t look nice, they show the insides of your body, but they’re not for looking they’re for using. If a dick showed the interior of a man it would also be disgusting. It just so happens it’s an exterior It is not that difficult to understand. We are grossed out by the insides of people. But don’t leave that let you believe that men don’t find women’s body parts attr…
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:23 AM
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Absolutely. Girls are biologically hardwired to be dominated and obedient. Commanding or suggesting a woman is much more effective than asking. Asking means you are looking for her to satisfy you. Commanding or suggesting means you are confident and self assured.
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:15 AM
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Do NOT ask her out on the first text. That’s weird. Just say Hey how’s it going and gather rapport first.
/r/seduction28/04/22 11:13 PM
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Never be vulnerable with a girl.
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:00 PM
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You misunderstood my comment. Whether you will beat him or not is irrelevant. It’s the fact that you will want to beat up another man for a girl. Your entire mindset is wrong. You have no respect for your fellow men. You have weak character. You should never be violent with a fellow man for a girl. That is simpish behaviour and no self respecting man who has strong values would ever do that. I’ve been a boxing coach for 10 years, I teach young men how to fight, they have good character and good …
/r/seduction27/04/22 10:46 PM
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For her? Get off this subreddit you simp ass whimp lmfaoooo.
/r/seduction27/04/22 07:37 PM
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What on earth are you on about?
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:50 PM
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You could’ve switched it around. “If you thought I was gonna have sex with you on the first date you’re also wrong! I’m also not like that. I have high standards”
/r/seduction26/04/22 03:41 PM
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Just go direct. Indirect shows you’ve no balls. Never approach a 2nd time. Creepy vibes.
/r/seduction25/04/22 01:28 AM
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Anyone who calls a guy a manlet is insecure af and has terrible character. It doesn’t surprise me you’re not having success, judging by how you talk about other men, their looks etc, it shows me you’re probably an incel. Looks matter way more to men than they do to women. You’re instantly assuming they are providers and don’t just have strong, confident charismatic personalities. A little tip, don’t talk so badly about other men, you just come off as an incel.
/r/seduction24/04/22 03:43 PM
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The only man who complains about leading the way is a man who is not fit to lead the way. Men who are confident, assertive and dominant absolutely love leading the way.
/r/seduction24/04/22 01:28 AM
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This is weak af dude. Firstly, never give a woman a choice. Just lead the way, she will follow. Women don’t wanna decide things, they want the man to take charge. Your question showed insecurity and a lack of will to lead the way. Just learn, move on, and don’t repeat the mistake.
/r/seduction24/04/22 01:26 AM
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There’s no point in me scolding you, you obviously know now the nice guy thing isn’t the way to go. In future, I’d still wait until she is back and ask her before booking things. You need to have a stronger frame. A woman does not do this to a man she respects. You must be more assertive, dominant, confident and less weak.
/r/seduction23/04/22 07:55 PM
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Not terrible. I’d make sure you’re breathing. Holding your breath will make you cum faster. Also don’t squeeze your ass.
/r/seduction23/04/22 09:04 AM
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How long did you last?
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:04 AM
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I mean. You replied 5 messages to 2. You complimented her (shows neediness). You said you’re welcome to her saying thanks to you complimenting her (shows you didn’t really mean it, you said it just to please her). I hope you didn’t say if you go gym more than 3 times a week you’ll be burned out. That’s just calling yourself weak. Yes. Of course. Needy af. No wonder she don’t wanna respond
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:04 AM
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Why would you even want to talk to a woman like that? Just say something like “oh that’s good. I have a feeling you’d be a pretty bad mother anyway” and then move on.
/r/seduction20/04/22 10:16 AM
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Honestly you’ve just lost all self respect. You are head over heels for a girl and you think it’s great. You’re giving off major simp vibes. You’ll be getting your heart broke. Good luck.
/r/seduction19/04/22 10:39 PM
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You have not fallen in love with her. You’ve become infatuated. I’ve no other advice but to try and kiss her. Don’t bother trying confess your love or anything. Just try and kiss her and if it leads to sex it leads to sex. If it fails, you know you’ve fucked up, and move on.
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:25 PM
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Not necessarily. Putting women on a pedestal comes from how you interact with them. It’s no secret that it’s easier to have sex when you’re fit, and if you want to have sex, getting fit to increase your chances is to your benefit. I don’t see how it puts women on a pedestal. You can simultaneously want to fuck women, while also not thinking too highly of them at the same time. It’s a biological desire.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:29 AM
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“Oh that sounds awesome! Where do you play?” “Congrats man, what’s the next target?” There are numerous ways you could’ve actually helped. What you said, insulting him, helped the silence, but it did not help him. And no you wouldn’t prefer a roast. Because you’d be embarrassed. Yes obviously you were kidding. It’s just you said you tried helping him, which you didn’t. I do get your perspective though, but I think you need to see it from his point of view.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:11 AM
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How did you insulting him help him? Sounds like you’re the guy with no balls and are just hating on the dudes that actually shot their shot.
/r/seduction18/04/22 02:01 AM
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Count your blessings that you didn’t have that baby with her. Just go fkn live your life man. There’s many beautiful women out there who will treat you right. But a little tip: the fact she did all this to you over 10 years tells me you are a weak man. And women absolutely despise and punish weak men. So if you don’t toughen up and adopt a strong masculine dominant frame, you’ll continue to get used like a doormat by women. Get to the gym. Get in shape. Get your financials right. And have fun.
/r/seduction17/04/22 10:22 PM
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That will take some time to recover from. But you’re the one who broke up with her? You must have had a reason. And what exactly is it youre insecure about? Is your dick small? Do you have a hairy chest? Do you cum fast?
/r/seduction17/04/22 09:58 PM
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A quiet confidence guy still talks in parts and what he says holds weight and impact. A quiet shy guy only talks when spoken to (vs confident guys interjection)
/r/seduction17/04/22 07:53 PM
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Ahh depends. I assumed you meant quiet shy. Quiet confidence is different.
/r/seduction17/04/22 02:03 PM
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No woman likes quiet that’s for sure so don’t be that. And yes. If your authentic self isn’t appealing to women, then obviously you should act a bit more appealing. But romantic is never the answer.
/r/seduction17/04/22 03:49 AM
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Wtf you mean?? A bar is in a club.
/r/seduction17/04/22 03:48 AM
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You’re watching too many rom coms probably. The whole romantic shit isn’t actually that successful, being your pure authentic self is what women prefer 100%
/r/seduction17/04/22 02:32 AM
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You have never been in a pub or a nightclub? There is absolutely bar game in Europe. I have been to over 12 countries in Europe and I live here, actually, but whatever you say. Maybe you just don’t get outside much.
/r/seduction17/04/22 02:30 AM
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Wtf you mean no bar game?
/r/seduction17/04/22 01:35 AM
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Cold approaching on the street is way different to approaching at a bar.
/r/seduction16/04/22 11:14 PM
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Start with “I know I’m not supposed to do this, but I saw you from afar and thought you looked interesting and I wanted to come and say hi. What’s your name?” Then continue with a conversation. Simple as that.
/r/seduction16/04/22 07:57 PM
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So it’s not because it felt mechanical.. it’s because you weren’t attracted to her. Go to a brothel instead.
/r/seduction16/04/22 07:24 PM
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Just seen your comment saying you’ll just use porn instead. Holy shit dude. First of all. Using a prostitute or escort is 100x better than using porn. Because it’s actually a real life human person, sex is participatory, it shouldn’t be spectated. And what do you mean you weren’t able to have sex with her? Sounds like you couldn’t get hard and you’re blaming on it feeling mechanical. When the truth is it might have been PIED - porn induced erectile dysfunction, if you have overused porn then you…
/r/seduction16/04/22 07:21 PM
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This is actually not as untrue as you might think. Very few men approach model-like girls because they absolutely don’t fancy their chances and fear rejection. I’m not saying that’s the case with her. But it definitely is a thing.
/r/seduction15/04/22 04:53 PM
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Just don’t be needy and insecure… it’s really as simple as that. Women despise men who are weak, vulnerable and needy. The second you become that, you’re gone. Practice being distant even when you get attached. Learn to control yourself. You already know your problem and the solution to it.
/r/seduction15/04/22 03:47 PM
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Definitely not. This lets the woman in the decision making role. A man must take this role, always.
/r/seduction15/04/22 03:28 PM
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Bruh. Don’t say that shit. That’s desperate and gullible as hell.
/r/seduction15/04/22 04:09 AM
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“What’s wrong with that? Who doesn’t love to drink alcohol on a night out?” Make it funny through misinterpretation. When she clarifies, make fun of her for missing the joke.
/r/seduction15/04/22 03:10 AM
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only lasted like 10 minutes High standards much lol? 10 minutes is actually on the longer end of the spectrum for intercourse
/r/seduction14/04/22 08:39 PM
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Try non latex like SKYN. It might be better for you.
/r/seduction14/04/22 02:46 AM
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What condom did you use?
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:11 PM
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https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B08VN7PFQF/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&qid=&sr=
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:29 PM
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If you think being fat is in any way attractive you are deluded.
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:08 AM
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Just do what you said in your post. Go to a mall an hour away and start practicing approaching women. You know what you have to do, you just said it.
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:49 AM
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Okay… well this is not true, it is a complete delusion by you. Fat absolutely does make you unattractive. It shows you don’t care about your own health. Along with that: High blood pressure Diabetes Stroke Gallbladder disease Coronary heart disease Sleep apnea and breathing problems Osteoarthritis And many more are health risks that come with being fat. I’m sorry. Im not sure where your delusion is coming from. But being fat is NOT attractive. Do not normalise such dangerous health situations. P…
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:11 AM
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Hmm. encouraging op to consider this other persons perspective Yes but that’s not what you said. You told him to apologise for a situation totally assumed by you. Other than that - you have changed my mind. A coherent reply from you. I agree with you. Thanks for taking the time to write such a reply, i was not expecting it.
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:06 AM
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Are you telling me a fat girl is more attractive than a fit girl? No.. I don’t think you’re offended because you’re fat. I don’t know you. If I was a fat guy and someone said that I would totally understand it, we should all absolutely strive to be the best versions of ourselves and if I was fat I would have to come to terms with basic human desire. It’s not like if I was fat I’d all of a sudden deny human nature. And being fat in this century is just the same as being fat in the previous centur…
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:01 AM
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Sorry? Where did I shame someone for being fat?
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:50 AM
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Go to the gym and read the wall speaks.
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:45 AM
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Wouldn’t be a bad idea at all. Of course a man should strive to be the very best version of himself. Hit the gym. Get fit. And get with attractive girls. It’s not like you’d choose a fat girl over a fit girl if you were given the choice… so why not give yourself the best chance and work your way up to the hot ones? Learn game. Get in shape. Be charismatic. Self improve.
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:43 AM
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Well.. No ones gonna be able to tell you without knowing more detail of your life and how you act in person. But the facts are that you are struggling to attract or keep a high value man. There is something about you that high value men consider you non relationship material for. I’ve seen this happen many times over in life and based on my observations, it can be 1 of 2 things: You have a high body count (few self respecting men have relationships with sluts) Or you are sassy and difficult to b…
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:31 AM
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No harm in aiming a little higher and raising ur standards though.
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:24 AM
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Why the hell don’t you believe him? You’re what’s wrong with the world. If a girl was in this position you’d be straight to her defence. Sexist as fuck you are.
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:22 AM
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Lol 😂 to be young again Being joked on for sleeping with a fat chick is pretty customary from your friends. Don’t sweat it it’s totally normal. Don’t take it too seriously. Joke back.
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:20 AM
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So now you’ve learned that women don’t actually like compliments. Congrats. Just another 200 more things to learn.
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:50 AM
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Desperation.
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:04 PM
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You’re weird as fuck
/r/seduction09/04/22 10:18 PM
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No one literally asks for it. It’s assumed.
/r/seduction09/04/22 03:49 PM
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Is this a joke? 😂
/r/seduction09/04/22 05:49 AM
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BRO USA 😂😂 get outta here tonnes of escorts and prostitutes there. If you’re that particular just go to Nevada.
/r/seduction09/04/22 05:28 AM
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What country are you from? And bro, it’s illegal in most countries. But that doesn’t mean you cant do it. Most often it isn’t enforced.
/r/seduction09/04/22 02:45 AM
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So just hire an escort or prostitute?
/r/seduction08/04/22 06:48 PM
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You’ve never talked about girls with your friends?
/r/seduction08/04/22 01:40 PM
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I didn’t know I just assumed as those kind of women are the exact type you should avoid.
/r/seduction08/04/22 04:31 AM
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I would leave. There is many beautiful, non tattood, non nose pierced, good loving fathered women out there. I want one of those. Not the woman you described in your post. And know… you’re not going to have it different. You’ll meet the same fate. Never date broken women.
/r/seduction08/04/22 02:53 AM
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Yes. Obviously. The same with a group of guys.
/r/seduction08/04/22 02:51 AM
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Sorry. If you’re 5’7-5’8 you have no excuse. I see many guys this height who have absolute babes as girlfriends. If you’re low body fat, lean, good shape, abs, good face, charismatic, confident, then being 5’7 will not be a handicap worthy of a Reddit post.
/r/seduction07/04/22 02:56 AM
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Oh I definitely get that. but the difference here is she STAYED OVER. If she didn’t stay over I would’ve had no issue.
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:42 PM
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Bruh you dumb as fuck. He does not owe her a place to stay. When did I say she was obliged to have sex? If a girl asks to stay over and she doesn’t have sex that’s a massive red flag and anyone who tolerated that is a doormat. Of course she doesn’t owe him anything. But HE also doesn’t owe her a place to stay. Stop this double standard and see your contradiction. Saying he should be nice to her and give her a place to stay is weak as fuck and no self respecting man would do that.
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:30 PM
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What?
/r/seduction05/04/22 01:39 PM
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You do know going around calling people incels doesn’t make them incels right? Yes feel free to do nice things. But I do not care, if I’m on a date with a woman and she ASKS to stay over, she’s getting fucked. If she says no she is not staying over. I don’t have time in my life to be giving handouts. Yes you’re right nobody owes anybody anything. I don’t owe a girl a free place to stay. Do you see your contradiction?
/r/seduction05/04/22 01:38 PM
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Weird as fuck. Why the hell didn’t you tell her to leave when she wouldn’t have sex with you? You just gave her a free place to stay for the night and got nothing out of it. Don’t be the sucker man. Don’t tolerate that shit. Also, might be worth assuming she might have wanted to rob you. It happens.
/r/seduction05/04/22 03:00 AM
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Anyone smart picks money
/r/seduction04/04/22 11:21 PM
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I’d like to see you say that in real life big fat virgin I’d say.
/r/seduction04/04/22 07:28 PM
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You are the biggest bullshitter ever and I guarantee I’ve bedded ten fold the number of women you have. You’re on Reddit saying you couldn’t even ask a girl for her number. And then asking if you should ask for it through an app. You ain’t no stud 😂😂😂
/r/seduction04/04/22 03:18 AM
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If you’re looking for a girl to tend to your emotional needs, don’t bother getting a girl. She doesn’t wanna hear your emotional turmoil bro. Your insecurities should never be shared with a girl. By the sounds of this message you have some confidence issues and are looking for some sort of mother in a girlfriend to help you emotionally - this is gonna be a massive failure.
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:38 AM
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Insult Canelo Álvarez and see what he does to you. Insult a nice guy and see what he does to you. They are 2 very different things my friend. Don’t mistake kindness for niceness. Canelo will have you with a broken nose and a nice guy will try to figure out why you insulted him. Girls. Want. Alphas. You cannot dispute this.
/r/seduction30/03/22 04:10 AM
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Dude obviously that’s the case. Gennady Golovkin is the one of the nicest guys ever. But women don’t fucking think like that dude, stop thinking women are logical creatures. They’re not. Emotion is a feminine trait and with females, emotions is what they rely on.
/r/seduction29/03/22 10:54 PM
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Loyalty and being a caring person were never more attractive than confidence and charisma. You have been deluded by watching too much tv programs or romcoms. This has always been the case. Women are not attracted to nice, why would they? In a fight it’s not the nice guy that’s gonna win, it’s the ruthless son of a bitch who doesn’t care about anyone. That’s the guy girls want to be with. You’re taking what men like in girls and thinking that girls like the same in guys. Not how it works buddy. G…
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:19 PM
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Go bang her friends. Just make sure you wear protection.
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:46 AM
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You’re confusing insecurity for excitement. She doesn’t need to feel insecure. She just needs to feel excitement. Nothing will turn a woman off like being boring. Keep her on her toes by being unpredictable.
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:36 AM
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“A man being rich is like a girl being pretty” Women aren’t attracted to men the same way men are to women. Men care much more about looks, whereas women care much more about dominance, confidence and charisma.
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:34 AM
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Do you want to fuck up your life by getting a chick pregnant? Cos this attitude is how it happens. Also. Have you tried non latex condoms? Have you tried skyn condoms?
/r/seduction29/03/22 12:40 AM
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You need to read the wall speaks.
/r/seduction27/03/22 09:58 PM
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Who cares? What’s so wrong with being an asshole? I’ve probably done 100x more charitable humanitarian work than you. Does that make you a bigger asshole than me? Moral of the story. Sometimes we gotta be assholes in certain aspects in our lives to get things.
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:18 AM
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I know. But I get laid, and women are crazy for me. Women love drama 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction24/03/22 11:02 PM
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Manipulation is effective.
/r/seduction24/03/22 08:42 PM
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Be bold. Be flirtatious. Make sexual remarks.
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:50 PM
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Dude my sex life is something you could only dream of don’t you worry about that 😉
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:14 AM
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I wouldn’t go as far as saying psychopath, as some are just weird. But if they are charismatic, confident, exciting, then certainly yes they are more attractive than kind caring people.
/r/seduction22/03/22 08:40 AM
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It is literally a submissive act, you don’t know shit about sex if you think it isn’t.
/r/seduction22/03/22 08:30 AM
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No girl will respect a man for going down on them. Enjoy it? Yes. Respect it? No.
/r/seduction22/03/22 08:30 AM
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True. But most guys do not lick pussy like this.
/r/seduction22/03/22 08:28 AM
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You’re about the dumbest fool ever. You do realise you’re her slave right? Eating a girl out makes her lose total respect for you because it’s a submissive act. And you’re doing it while she does nothing for you. Idk man you must have some confidence issues. You should not being going down on a girl if you want her to respect you.
/r/seduction22/03/22 01:36 AM
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Texting don’t mean shit. She might be bored. Meet up ASAP.
/r/seduction21/03/22 10:45 PM
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Just don’t tell a woman your age. Say it’s a secret. Say you lost your birth certificate and don’t know what age you are. Make it fun. You can just keep it a fun mystery. You literally don’t have to tell them. When you give a woman a mystery, she fills in the gaps with what she desires the most. This way, she’ll think you are whatever age she hopes you to be.
/r/seduction21/03/22 05:03 AM
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Everyone is confident drunk or high. Confidence during sobriety is real confidence.
/r/seduction20/03/22 10:39 PM
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Watch James tusk on YouTube.
/r/seduction20/03/22 10:19 PM
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No. Don’t jump her like that. You need to build rapport. Make small talk conversation for a couple days. Act with confident body language. Does she get a chance to lift at the gym? If so, maybe ask her to join you for a workout. But you gotta make sure she’s into you first before asking for her number. Cos if she rejects you and you’re not confident, you’re gonna struggle to continue going to the gym if she’s there.
/r/seduction20/03/22 10:17 PM
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Then I’d look at her rota, look at yours, find a time where you both are free, and then say to her “Thursday. 8 o clock. Drinks. I’ll collect you” Or something like that. Be decisive. Be confident. Don’t ask her tell her. If it fails, you were never gonna get her anyway.
/r/seduction20/03/22 03:57 PM
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Are you able to see her rota without asking her?
/r/seduction20/03/22 02:52 PM
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Personally I wouldn’t put the burden on her for organising the drinks. Women don’t want to make decisions. You’re the man, lead.
/r/seduction20/03/22 02:49 PM
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It’s in relation to people being scared of rejection. I’m saying in spite of rejection, she is still impressed and you have left a meaningful impact. Many men think rejection from a woman means she doesn’t think highly of him. This isn’t true. A woman can still think highly of a man but reject him for various circumstances.
/r/seduction20/03/22 03:12 AM
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It’s the mans job to be creative and to instigate good sex. If the man is vanilla the woman will be too. If the man is a beast in the sheets, she’ll feel it too.
/r/seduction19/03/22 05:37 PM
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Also goes to show that even if you get rejected, you’re gonna be a highlight in her life and she won’t forget you easily
/r/seduction19/03/22 03:08 AM
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Out of the two examples, the asshole will win every time. Telling girls how nice they are is a sure fire way to make sure you never get laid.
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:29 PM
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Why the hell didn’t you have sex with her? I feel bad for her, she invests 3 hours with a guy and she doesn’t get to have sex with him, he just leaves. Oof You don’t like her saying ran away, well it’s basically what you did
/r/seduction17/03/22 04:36 PM
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Do you think women are out there looking for dancers or something? Look, you shouldn’t be going up to girls calling them cute either. Don’t go around giving compliments to every person with a pair of tits. Women can sense your neediness from a mile away. Focus on conversation, don’t bother complimenting a woman’s looks, they don’t even like that shit. Watch videos on Todd v dating or James Tusk or something and get a feel for game.
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:30 PM
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Yup
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:25 PM
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A woman has 14-16 areas of the brain to evaluate behaviour. A man only has 4-6 areas. Women are extremely smart at detecting body language. I’m gonna take a guess that you are desperate to get laid, and despite good conversations, women can’t help but sense this neediness in you. Women want men who don’t want them. You’ll have to become more confident, selfless, charismatic and independent to attract women. Remember. You’re the prize.
/r/seduction17/03/22 02:31 AM
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Sounds good. But it normalises her breaking the rules. Don’t normalise that. Make her have to qualify for you. So I would say: “If you keep drinking for breakfast your weekend will be boring because I won’t be meeting you” This way she has to stop or she won’t get to enjoy you, and shows you have standards she has to meet.
/r/seduction16/03/22 08:36 PM
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Yes. This happens literally every day from older man to younger woman. You’re just flipping the roles. Nothing wrong here, an arrangement between two consenting adults is no one else’s business
/r/seduction16/03/22 01:50 AM
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Treat a girl like a celebrity she’ll treat you like a fan. She wants to date the guy who thinks she’s barely good enough for him.
/r/seduction16/03/22 12:29 AM
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Too many romance movies dudes. Chicks don’t dig that shit in real life, girls prefer a dude who just kisser her boldly and chokes her during rough sex, welcome to the real world. This slow passionate romantic shit isn’t what chicks dig. You’ve been watching too many fantasy movies.
/r/seduction16/03/22 12:26 AM
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Nope. Not in the real world.
/r/seduction14/03/22 12:14 AM
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Shy introvert? Difficult to get girls. Confident introvert? Easy to get girls.
/r/seduction13/03/22 11:15 PM
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There are various reasons to support women wanting older men.. this is literally perfectly fine and anyone who has a problem with ages like this have some sort of trauma or something. You are both consenting adults.
/r/seduction13/03/22 11:14 PM
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Being sensitive is a feminine quality. Shatter that feminine frame. But to answer your question, the validation comes from sleeping with her. She has to qualify, and you satisfy that by letting her sleep with you, therefor she feels validated. But if you just negged and you didn’t sleep with her to validate her, then you’re just an ass.
/r/seduction13/03/22 07:00 PM
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Yes. So many men worry about what women think so that women will like them, when in reality women like men who don’t care about what they think.
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:54 AM
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Lol 😂
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:35 AM
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Bad post. This advice is good for the most part.
/r/seduction13/03/22 12:00 AM
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Get a place where you can invite them over
/r/seduction12/03/22 11:58 PM
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There’s an old saying Don’t stick your dick in crazy
/r/seduction11/03/22 02:10 AM
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Of all the places to do game, concerts are the worst. Loud, obnoxious, people go there to have fun not make new connections. Maybe something along the lines of “do you dance as good as you look?” Or something like that if you wanna compliment and ask her to dance. You can also just say “come dance with me” - simple and is a call to action. Game is best for settings where it’s relaxed, chilled and easy to hear.
/r/seduction11/03/22 01:21 AM
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Yeah, cos a woman chooses a threadmill specifically beside someone to not talk to them Cmon bruh, this is a classic IOI
/r/seduction11/03/22 12:53 AM
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My secret garden
/r/seduction08/03/22 03:33 PM
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Read some erotica and copy it :) Pro tip: women care more about what you say, rather than how you look. Literature > media for women.
/r/seduction08/03/22 03:13 PM
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“You don’t need to apologise” wtf are you a doormat? Get a spine. Don’t leave girls walk over you like that dude.
/r/seduction08/03/22 10:54 AM
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Tbh, if it works for you I don’t see why you should stop. But I would personally say thing likes “you dirty slut” or “shut up and take it” “fuck” “who’s your daddy” “beg me for it” etc different strokes for different folks 😂 but I found women like more hostile talk than love compliments during sex.
/r/seduction08/03/22 12:53 AM
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Compliments = pussy becomes instant dry
/r/seduction08/03/22 12:44 AM
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Don’t worry. Time will heal this. And yes, it will, do not bullshit me saying it won’t. It will. Time heals all wounds. She’s putting you through all this pain and you’re still looking for ways to glorify her. Wake up buddy, she’s not as good as you’re making her out to be. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, hit the gym, get your shit together and move on. Nearly 4 billion women on the planet, she ain’t 1 in 4 billion bro. The worst mistake a guy can do is dwell in his own delusion. She’s a girl l…
/r/seduction07/03/22 11:28 PM
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Could be other things such as medication or diet. They can effect the brain too. Other than that, some people are just very particular 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction07/03/22 05:37 PM
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Could definitely be yes. If watching porn more than 5-7 times a week, it can definitely disrupt what you find attractive. Especially if you’re choosing your porn video selectively, it can make you very selective in real life too. Abstinence from porn for a couple of weeks, or sometimes even a couple days, will undo this bias though.
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:28 PM
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Too much porn?
/r/seduction07/03/22 12:12 PM
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You are now realising the pros of living in a large city, and the cons of living in a small town. Now the question is, will you continue to waste your youth in a shitty town that you don’t like and live your life with brutal regret, or will you get some balls and move to a major city?
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:36 PM
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Men think women love men the same way men love women. Men love way more unconditionally. Women’s love is based a lot on emotion & benefits.
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:42 PM
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You do know if you were 6 foot 6, you would still feel the same right?
/r/seduction06/03/22 10:34 AM
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Spoken like someone who’s never talked to a single girl in his life.
/r/seduction03/03/22 10:41 PM
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Very hard to do cos the jealousy the girl will feel is immense.
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:54 PM
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Very hard to do cos the jealousy the girl will feel is immense.
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:53 PM
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Best part of this was “whoa hugging me half naked already” Bold af. But that’s what you need to be. A shy guy would never say that. Women like bold guys.
/r/seduction03/03/22 08:49 PM
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Women, while they do mean well, are biologically hardwired to be repulsed by weak and vulnerable men. If you get an unprofessional therapist as a woman, she may give bad advice or not have your best interest at heart. A man is more likely to help you succeed and problem solve.
/r/seduction03/03/22 02:42 PM
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Make sure you get a male therapist.
/r/seduction03/03/22 02:30 AM
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The only explanation I can see is you’re too nice. Because you sound very intellectual, and if what you say is true, I find it hard to pin point a quality that would deter women faster than being nice.
/r/seduction03/03/22 01:28 AM
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What do you mean you want her to discover how sexy it can feel for her? Just because it is sexy for you doesn’t mean she feels the same way you know that right? Here’s the real answer. Women and men are different, men are more visual whereas females are more story based. It’s why women love reading erotica novels and men love watching porn. They are different. Women like stories, text, men like video and pictures. Same in the real world, women are turned on by an intense and passionate storyline…
/r/seduction02/03/22 12:45 PM
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It happens. Relax. And try again. You’ll get there.
/r/seduction02/03/22 12:41 PM
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You don’t fuck a friend to make her a slutty friend. You befriend a slut you’ve fucked to make her a slutty friend.
/r/seduction02/03/22 02:15 AM
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Maybe he is just curious about why you do what you do and he would like to do it too. Maybe he is jealous and wants to manipulate you. Maybe he wants you to give him some inspiration. You never really know why people say things! Perhaps the real reason is nothing malicious but he is just curious. Whatever the reason is, it don’t matter! You keep trucking, keep doing you.
/r/seduction02/03/22 02:13 AM
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Getting in shape to get girls is a perfectly fine reason to get in shape. The same way putting on makeup to become more attractive to guys is a perfectly fine reason to put on make up.
/r/seduction02/03/22 12:40 AM
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Your first comment was bang on but this one is just stupid, a guy does not “fuck with” a woman, a guy fucks a woman.
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:34 PM
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Welp that’s a fumble and a half 😂😂 You’ll be fine. You’ll learn. You should have texted her later “come around to my place to watch that movie”
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:47 PM
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Kim K is literally one of the biggest drama queens in the world. She is not a nice person at all. You have no idea what you’re saying
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:22 PM
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Yes of course.. no confidence from a guy is repulsive to women
/r/seduction27/02/22 04:59 PM
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Definitely do not say that. It’s a wonderful beautiful thing to say, but keep that shit to yourself. She should be saying that to you. Do something feminine like that and she’s gonna feel like a protector, and she’ll drop you like a bad habit and find a guy who makes her feel like the protected. Don’t listen to anyone who says yes to that, they’re either a girl or don’t have a clue what they’re talking about.
/r/seduction25/02/22 11:49 PM
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No. Blowjobs and things like face fucking are highly dominant, in Roman times it was typical for a face fuck to be referred to as a way to shut a woman up. It’s highly dominant. That’s fine, from my experience I’ve found woman respect you more through dominant sex not submissive sex. If you like to eat a woman out I am not going to stop you. And sure there may be other ways to be dominant while eating pussy. That was just what I done in the past!
/r/seduction24/02/22 01:44 AM
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What???
/r/seduction24/02/22 01:41 AM
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Most men are too.
/r/seduction24/02/22 01:41 AM
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Why didn’t you have sex?
/r/seduction24/02/22 12:53 AM
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Just start by asking for directions. Get comfortable with it first. Don’t even bother trying to chat her up. Just ask for directions and say thanks and go away.
/r/seduction24/02/22 12:41 AM
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Men generally have more other things to do in life yes like worry about getting a successful career to support a wife and kids. But still, the reason why many guys find it hard to date is because they don’t put in the same effort as girls. If a guy went to the gym like a fit girl, and groomed himself like a fit girl, and are healthy like a fit girl, and got a good paying job, I’m telling you that guy is better than most men and would be very sought after on the dating scene.
/r/seduction24/02/22 12:29 AM
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No I don’t think you understood me. Yes you may make her cum, but it’s not good for long term relationships because it’s an extremely feminine thing to do and makes it very hard for her to respect you. The only way I would advocate for it is to have her tied up and restricted while you do it so it’s in a dominant form.
/r/seduction24/02/22 12:23 AM
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Of the opposite sex. A lot of women work extremely hard to stay beautiful. They spend tonnes of money on makeup. Workout etc. Guys do not put half an effort into their lives as woman.
/r/seduction24/02/22 12:22 AM
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Long term manly manliness points matter my friend.
/r/seduction24/02/22 12:21 AM
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Because Reddit is full of feminist women who will downvote any comment to shit if it doesn’t fit in with having the women being looked at as a queen 😂😂😂 All I’m gonna say in my long time living, I’ve seen guys who ate pussy religiously get absolutely dumped and cheated on, and I’ve seen guys who didn’t care about that have long term relationships because she was happy serving him, not the other way around. Maybe it’s biology idk, but masculine and feminine frame matters long term. My view is how…
/r/seduction24/02/22 12:19 AM
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Yeah, don’t date single mothers..
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:16 PM
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A little sex tip, don’t eat women out.. it’s submissive. But yes vaginas are not going to taste like vanilla ice cream, the same way dicks aren’t going to taste like popsicles. The reason why more women suck dick than men eat out is because by nature doing so is submissive and is generally done by the submissive gender. Now… sometimes a woman can be so fucking hot you just wanna get all up in that pussy, but many men don’t cos yes, it often doesn’t taste nice and is submissive.
/r/seduction23/02/22 10:34 PM
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Gonna go out on a limb here and say men have a much better choice than women..
/r/seduction23/02/22 10:30 PM
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Lol np 😂
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:11 PM
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Tbf I respect your view. Personally I understand the need for shit tests. There are a lot of guys who act nice and shit but when tested crumble and show their true weak frame. Anyone can put on a facade. Shit tests allow women to separate the fake ones from the real ones.
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:14 PM
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Hold up nobody is saying don’t be kind. Don’t go calling me an incel. Absolutely always be kind. I am talking about guys who give compliments and shit to girls and expect them to sleep with them because of it. It’s scummy and has ulterior motive. Being kind is not the same and it’s not what I said, that comes from character.
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:11 PM
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Oh I totally agree with that. Always be kind. When I say nice I do mean people being nice trying to get something out of someone with an ulterior motive. Being kind comes from character. Generally in dating, guys being nice is being nice with expectation of getting a reward, which is scummy af.
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:10 PM
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A shit test is not playing games. It’s a test of frame to make sure you have a strong frame. Nothing fun about it imo, without shit tests women wouldn’t know how to weed out the nice guys and creeps.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:24 PM
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Yeah fair haha I get you
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:23 PM
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Tbf this sounds more like arrogance than a shit test. But if the first one was a shit test, you failed it royally You fail a shit test by being reactive. Don’t fall Into her frame. Passing it would be “oh yes I forgot you have a doctrine in disinfection from harvard”
/r/seduction23/02/22 12:02 PM
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That is absolutely the opposite of what is true. Women shit test ONLY men they are attracted to. If she isn’t shit testing you she doesn’t respect you. Holy shit please learn more about shit tests. A shit test is done when she thinks of you as a potential partner. She’s not going to shit test someone she doesn’t like.
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:58 AM
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I would’ve built up rapport first. You can’t just go straight to asking her out after her adding you. I’d have sent a voice message (one of the great things about Snapchat) saying “hey it was nice to meet you. How did you get on in your class, you were in quite the rush!” Voice notes are more personal than text and will make you stand out. Teasing her about being in a rush builds rapport. So yeah I think you just rushed asking her out. Keep trying tho, cold approaching is king once you’ve master…
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:52 AM
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Yup you’re 100% right. Let me tell you this my friend, being nice gets you nowhere. In dating or in life. Women want a masculine dominant man who isn’t nice and men respect other men who are masculine and dominant. Sure society breeds men nowadays to be soft, but there are plenty of masculine dominant men out there. Now that you know who to be, work on being it. EDIT: I’m not saying don’t be kind. They are two different things.
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:43 AM
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Every woman has insecurity issues
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:40 AM
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What I’d do is on the third or second time you catch her, smile. If she smiles back it’s like an invitation.
/r/seduction22/02/22 11:17 PM
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The gym is like a catch 22. Because there you’ll find the best girls, since they are fit, and they are at a place of self improvement which is a great indicator that they care about their lives. But then also many go to the gym to zone out and the last thing people want is someone interrupting their workouts. I think the way to do it is see if she has headphones in, if she does don’t disturb her. If she is taking long breaks between sets then you can assume she is in no rush and approach her.
/r/seduction22/02/22 08:37 PM
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She must’ve been pretty good looking so 😂
/r/seduction22/02/22 08:34 PM
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Not but it is indicative of your personality.
/r/seduction22/02/22 07:57 PM
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The post said I had 30 seconds
/r/seduction22/02/22 07:57 PM
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Considering how you talk about other men, women don’t want to be with you because your personality is just shit isn’t it?
/r/seduction22/02/22 02:57 PM
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Not a false narrative. Don’t give a woman compliments and she’ll do everything to get one off you.
/r/seduction22/02/22 01:30 PM
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It’s not that they like dark triad people, it’s the fact that dark triad people have qualities that women also find attractive, like confidence and low agreeableness.
/r/seduction22/02/22 12:44 PM
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Yep. One of the three main manipulations of seduction, Tease Disqualify Challenge. Generally you disqualify her for her to start qualifying to you (as you did by saying she looked unfriendly) Examples of disqualifying are: Oh no you’re not one of those girls who’s going to stalk me on Facebook now are you? So do you do anything other than sit at home and watch Netflix all day? Oh god are you one of those girls that requires constant attention and reassurance all day? 1# and 3# are particularly g…
/r/seduction22/02/22 12:41 PM
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They get compliments every day from needy men. You wanna separate yourself from the pack you give no compliments. The reasons guys give compliments is because if a girl gave them one they would be so impressed and happy since they never get one. It’s not the same for girls. They get them every day.
/r/seduction22/02/22 12:35 PM
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I definitely wouldn’t throw in a needy compliment amongst all that. Sounds like you’re just saying it so she will say yes. Just say “hey, how’s it going. What’s your name? My name is x. I’m in a rush but I thought you looked interesting. Give me your number quick and join me for drinks one day” Should only take 30 seconds.
/r/seduction22/02/22 12:33 PM
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Yep this is true. Girls don’t wanna make the decisions.
/r/seduction22/02/22 12:30 PM
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Dm if you wanna know
/r/seduction22/02/22 01:43 AM
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Yes in seduction and frame this is called misdirection. It stimulates a more emotional response which women love since they thrive on emotion.
/r/seduction22/02/22 01:11 AM
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Ah idk man you’re saying grown women would date a child. Seems like you’re an incel child or something.
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:02 PM
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“Join me for drinks. Saturday at 8pm.” If she comes up with an excuse move on to one of the 3 billion other girls on the planet.
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:29 PM
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Honestly if that happened I’d just have to take the L. It’s rare for a girl to share feelings like that. And I couldn’t be friends with a girl who I wanted to fuck but couldn’t. So I’d just have to stop being friends with her, start the grieving process and in a couple months have moved on.
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:28 PM
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Who says that? I could never be friends with someone who rejected me. I’m either friends with a girl or she’s in my bed. No inbetween.
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:37 PM
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Man you’re giving incel vibes rn. I don’t even wanna address what you said cos I think you’re just angry at the world or something.
/r/seduction21/02/22 11:55 AM
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Because the kid was cute? You’re kidding yourself if you think those grown adult women would be willing to have a relationship with that kid. And I don’t know what the fuck you sent me on with that tiktok. Are you 12 years old? Pretty sure grown women don’t use tiktok. You are very naive if you think women don’t prefer older men on a large scale.
/r/seduction21/02/22 01:37 AM
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Just googled it looks like it’s peak for women at 23 and peak for men at 36. So I’m not too far off. Not sure why that triggered you.
/r/seduction21/02/22 01:21 AM
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Just learn that women want masculinity. Anything you do must be masculine not feminine. Masculine and feminine frame has been the dynamic of attraction for as long as evolution has been governing it. Masculine: Decisiveness. Taking charge. Making the decisions. Confidence. Tease. Disqualifying. Challenging. Being bold. Getting her to do things for you. Having multiple women on your radar. Strong posture chin raised. Feminine: Validating others. Texting too much. Neediness. Doing things for her. …
/r/seduction21/02/22 01:17 AM
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Sorry to add on to my other message… you texted her at 11 am after a night out???? Not only that, it was a double text. She was probably hung over, wanted some peace and she had some desperate dude eager for a reply back. Take it on the chin and learn from this.
/r/seduction21/02/22 12:42 AM
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Damn bro, we all have different approaches, but your first message to her had 2 validations. Not only 1, but 2! You got so excited over her compliment you went ahead and called her cute and said she had good energy. Why? Don’t compliment girls like that bro. I swear if you said “Girls tend to say that, yes.” You’d have her hooked. You’d be teasing her, and also showing you have other girls in your messages. Also that’s assuming she even called you cute. How do you know she didn’t just call sayin…
/r/seduction21/02/22 12:39 AM
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Pretty sure a woman’s prime starts at 18 and a mans prime starts at 30 when it comes to sexual market value. So you are definitely not too old.. You are looking for an excuse to not work out and self improve. You want us to say yeah it’s too late so you won’t have to put in the work to become better. Get in the gym and get to work. Eat right. Get in shape. And fuck bitches and dudes. Just do it dude. Get better.
/r/seduction21/02/22 12:23 AM
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Yes obviously this is true. If you think this isn’t true you are very naive. Any man who earns 300k+ a year, is in shape and is confident can get pretty much any girl he wants except for the odd exception. And for the most part they will hunt him down, he won’t have to go looking for it. Even if doesn’t earn 300k a year, being career driven is extremely attractive to women because it signals potential resources down the line if he succeeds. Concealed ovulation may be to blame for this scenario t…
/r/seduction20/02/22 09:04 PM
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You’re needy as fuck and nothing repulses women more than a needy man. “I confided in her told her my deepest secrets” Go get a therapist for that. Why on earth would you appear so vulnerable to a woman like this? She wants to be a woman, not a therapist. You’re supposed to be listening to her secrets and letting her reside in her feminine frame. By opening up you adopted a feminine frame and she had to pick up the masculine, which would make any woman hate a man. You opened up to her hoping tha…
/r/seduction19/02/22 10:46 PM
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Say “let’s get out of here” grab her hand and make her follow you. ^ this is your best shot. Also. It can also be a shit test. If she then says she can’t leave her friends, say “what, your friends can’t handle themselves?” If she denies again say “have a little fun.” If she denies again just take the L.
/r/seduction19/02/22 08:49 PM
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Ever hear of tinder? Hinge?
/r/seduction18/02/22 11:17 PM
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Did she reply to the selfie? If not then that’s not a great sign. I probably wouldn’t text her. You made a mistake by not fucking her before 5-8 days were up.
/r/seduction18/02/22 10:08 PM
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Yes it happens but it’s also infatuation and will be short lived as soon as you realise she’s just a girl like the 3 billion other ones in the world.
/r/seduction18/02/22 07:41 PM
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So you’re fucking a slut but now you’re upset cos she’s being a slut with others too? Bro 😂😂😂 she was never yours. Texting saying you had that dream is needy and cringe as fuck, and it’s gonna make her want to ride that Miami dick even more. And you’re also having unprotected sex?! Why on earth are you doing that? Man… you’re doing so many things wrong. You need to get yourself in check and realise that she isn’t yours. She never was. Focus on yourself…
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:46 PM
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Honestly, as I said, I cannot say for sure until I see a full clear body pic.
/r/seduction18/02/22 02:58 AM
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Well said
/r/seduction18/02/22 02:23 AM
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Gonna reply with you honestly here since no one is giving you real proper advice. I understand you are not asking about your body. But do you know that your body fat percentage has a significant impact on your face? I’d need a proper full body photo, but judging by your arms in the third pic, you are not thin. Yes - I am saying you are likely overweight. You do not have a low body fat percentage. Your face phenotype is highly attractive, but your face isn’t. What does this mean? Because of your …
/r/seduction18/02/22 02:05 AM
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Stay away from single moms….
/r/seduction18/02/22 01:58 AM
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Honestly if most guys didn’t have the confidence of a meerkat I’d say you just give an IOI. But since most mfers ain’t even gonna act on anything out of fear, you’re really just best asking them out 😂😂😂
/r/seduction18/02/22 01:57 AM
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1) don’t ask women for advice on how to get women 2) what stereotypes are you on about?
/r/seduction18/02/22 01:53 AM
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Yes. Just get this course for $140. https://attractwomen.gumroad.com/l/seducewomen No I am not affiliated with it and it is not an affiliate link. But if you honestly do wanna learn game, I always just recommend people buy this course. It will pay back the price in multitudes.
/r/seduction17/02/22 10:16 AM
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Personally I don’t think you need to act dark triad. But women are emotional creatures and they do NOT want stability. They want drama. They thrive on drama dude. You need to give her negative emotion as well as positive emotion. A woman will not stay with a man if it is all plain sailing and no drama/negative emotion. Most women that is, of course there is some unicorns out there. But yeah, you went wrong by not having drama. You should keep her on her toes and keep things exciting and unpredic…
/r/seduction16/02/22 09:28 PM
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Well what are some examples of treating women well?
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:19 PM
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Get to the gym and get in shape. Get working and earn money. Learn game. There you go. Simple as that.
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:17 PM
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Not sure if girls do shit tests consciously or subconsciously, but by god are they super common and most guys fail them. Pass shit tests and you’re golden.
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:15 PM
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This is kind of an obvious thing no? Why would you start being a nice guy?
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:45 PM
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That’s the point. Women don’t know what they want 😂😂 In my experience, I’ve seen women’s actions and their words rarely align. Do not bullshit me. Years in this game I know.
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:44 PM
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Are you a millionaire? Then anywhere you want! Haha Personally the only place I wouldn’t approach a woman is in the gym. I just feel like that’s a place of solitude and no one wants to be disturbed during their workout.
/r/seduction15/02/22 06:11 PM
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After saying hey?
/r/seduction15/02/22 05:08 PM
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Get over her. It will take time. But don’t cling on to her. She’s done. Finished. There’s 3+ billion women on the earth, she wasn’t that special. Don’t get soapy. Don’t feel sorry for yourself. Get to the gym. Heal. Recover. And go again.
/r/seduction15/02/22 10:47 AM
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Can you elaborate? What exactly is the shit test?
/r/seduction15/02/22 10:46 AM
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A bad guy and a nice guy have an interaction. Who’s going to appear more alpha? The bad guy. Women want alphas. Bad guys have alpha qualities. Nice guys have beta qualities. Yes. It’s that simple. Good post.
/r/seduction15/02/22 09:49 AM
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Trust me.
/r/seduction15/02/22 08:36 AM
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Learn game then. DM me I’ll give you a link.
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:13 PM
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Can you drive? Do you have a six pack? Do you have work and have money? Do you have your own apartment? Until the answer is yes to all of those questions, you cannot ask for a pretty girl.
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:03 PM
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Direct approach. Hi there, I saw you in the corner of my eye and thought you looked interesting and said I’d come over and say hi. What’s your name? insert assumption/cold read Make fun conversation. Teasing. Appear interesting. Calm. Relaxed. Confident. Slow talking. “Anyway I must go, give me your number and I will text you” (notice how I didn’t ask, but demanded) Text her the next day saying hey it’s me, what did you get up to after we met/how did your thing go which you found out about durin…
/r/seduction14/02/22 10:13 AM
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Because it’s a dominant move. Women don’t want to be asked things, they want to be told what to do. If you haven’t realised that girls don’t want guys that are “nice” then you’re really missing the point
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:29 AM
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The real answer is experience. Get rejected 4 times and those 4 times will hurt. Get rejected 40 times and all of a sudden 1 more rejection doesn’t seem so bad. After 40 rejections you’d have gotten laid more than once anyway. Becoming indifferent to rejection either comes from an absolute confident and self assured mindset, or experience of being rejected and realising it’s part of life and it’s all a numbers game.
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:27 AM
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LOL you are very naive if you believe equality in relationships.
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:07 AM
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Teasing. Disqualifying. And challenging. Setting the tone that she has to get with you and has to work to be with you. When she said she wasn’t looking for a relationship. You should have said “so let’s have some fun instead. Saturday night 8 clock, wear something sexy” If she was ever going to sleep with you, this message would have sealed the deal. If she says no to it, there was no other way other to get her to sleep with you imo. If you want to fuck her you have to talk to her like you’re he…
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:07 AM
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The things you describe, making out, cuddling, are hardwired into your biological desires and needs. You are a human, you have thousands of years of evolution driving your brain, and considering reproduction for the survival of your species is pretty much the only purpose of your existence, you will never get rid of these needs. If your dates are going bad, then you need to get better at dating, not stop dating. DM me if you honestly do want to learn.
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:51 PM
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Everyone you have sex with is not comfortable with themselves to some degree. She just didn’t want to be thought of as a slut so she blamed drink, and you went ahead and gave her a therapy session. I can guarantee you she left your little therapy session absolutely thinking it was a dumb waste of time. You have to understand. She didn’t want a therapy session. She just wanted to have sex with you and not be thought of a slut.
/r/seduction12/02/22 06:38 PM
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You really don’t know the first thing about women if you don’t realise “I only do this when I’m drunk” = them just wanting something to blame their sluttyness on. We live in a world where women are slated for having causal sex. They will use a ploy like being drunk as an excuse to do what they innately desire.
/r/seduction12/02/22 06:37 PM
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You’re not pizza you can’t make everybody happy. Stop trying to be peoples problem solver and just fuck.
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:37 AM
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Very few FWB start from friends. It can go from FWB to friends, but rarely ever friends to FWB. When you’ve established a friendship with a girl you’ve set the tone for your entire connection with her, it’s very hard to ignite sexual passion from a platonic foundation.
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:18 AM
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Why would you say that? No human is perfect. You’re lying to her to score brownie points, she sees that a mile away and loses respect for you because you have to pretend to get her to like you. Don’t give a girl compliments like that dude.
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:14 AM
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Little heads up. Don’t get overly attached to a woman now and let her ruin whatever you’ve built up. Whatever relationship you get into make sure she needs you more than you need her.
/r/seduction11/02/22 03:46 PM
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It’s not that the topics you discuss are boring. It’s how you discuss them is boring. Find a way to talk about those topics in an entertaining and charismatic way.
/r/seduction10/02/22 10:50 AM
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Wtf is your “boy”
/r/seduction10/02/22 10:49 AM
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Yes. The dating scene is a competitive space. Love is only as real as the benefit you get from it.
/r/seduction10/02/22 10:45 AM
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Getting an athletic muscular body is almost a sure fire way to become more attractive to women. Of course it’s fine.
/r/seduction09/02/22 08:56 AM
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Personally I would consider that confidence no?
/r/seduction09/02/22 07:13 AM
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What the fuck are you on about?
/r/seduction09/02/22 07:12 AM
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It’s not that they like douchebags, it’s that douchebags tend to have qualities that women find highly attractive, like confidence, charisma and frame.
/r/seduction09/02/22 05:54 AM
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What’s the author
/r/seduction09/02/22 05:51 AM
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The fact that you earn 6 figures really tells me you should be getting laid easily. Being tall, athletic good looking are good but they don’t compare even the slightest to a guy earning 6 figs. It’s possible you just have no game. You can be the best looking guy in the world and if you have no game you ain’t getting laid. Just try learn some game.
/r/seduction09/02/22 05:50 AM
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I wouldn’t even care too much about an STD, many people have them it’s very common. But it’s pregnancy I’m worried about. You take off a condom and she gets pregnant, you are FUCKED my friend. You are tied down for 18 years, you basically throw your life away. And if you don’t raise the child then you’re just going to get caught with weekly payments of child support and you’ll always be the father who wasnt there for his kid. And also you’d be surprised at how many women actually go out of there…
/r/seduction09/02/22 05:44 AM
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Damn, ngl some women on here give terrible advice, but this was very good. I totally agree with pretty much everything you have said here, and from my experience you are correct. Connecting compliments to actions make you seem less needy and attach a cause to the compliment which isn’t “I’m only saying this so you have sex with me” Having calls is a 100% thing for me. I personally hate text and I feel like I establish a much better connection when talking by voice. What you’re talking about a lo…
/r/seduction09/02/22 05:38 AM
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A lot of what you said (6’5 muscular well educated open minded) is not as great as you might think. Just because you have these qualities it does not mean women will like you, you do know that right? There’s one quality that is the most important for a guy to have to get women, and you didn’t mention it. And that’s confidence. I’m going to go on a wild guess here and say the reason women don’t like you is because of your personality. The way you talk about yourself, and about other men who you d…
/r/seduction09/02/22 05:30 AM
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You either have multiple girlfriends or you find someone more compatible. Or if you really like the girl you just jerk off
/r/seduction09/02/22 05:20 AM
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Girls don’t want to get compliments, compliments show neediness. Many girls will literally get disgusted by you if you are needy in giving a compliment. Just don’t give compliments. Why would you give a compliment anyway? Oh I know. Because you want to get in her pants. She knows this. It’s so disingenuous and she can see right through it.
/r/seduction08/02/22 04:00 AM
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Sounds stupid
/r/seduction08/02/22 03:56 AM
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Women friendzone men who need them and fuck men who don’t need them. A lack of sexual escalation can also cause this. It’s hard to give you advice without knowing exactly what your conversations entail. But you need to make it clear from the VERY BEGINNING that you want her clothes on the floor. Now do you make it clear by saying those exact words? Of course not. You make it clear with: Strong frame. Strong eye contact. Touching her shoulder during laughs. Teasing. Getting her to the apartment t…
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:40 PM
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You do know more people have herpes than those who don’t, right?
/r/seduction07/02/22 03:10 AM
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So she is self isolating and can only reply once per day? She has no interest in you probably. Go get other women who will be more inclined.
/r/seduction07/02/22 03:08 AM
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Oof. Yeah idk. My pride wouldn’t let me.
/r/seduction07/02/22 03:06 AM
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Left you on read for how long?
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:47 PM
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A simple “hi there, I saw you from over there and I thought you looked interesting. What’s your name?” Then build on it with either what she’s doing, or where she’s doing.
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:46 PM
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Ok. Here’s 3 studies. https://helloclue.com/articles/sex/sex-sensation-menstrual-cycle
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:47 PM
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Checked your profile and you’re posting about being in toxic relationships. Keep your unsuccessful love life to yourself. Don’t hate on others because you’re miserable. Sounds like you’re not the best at giving advice, or at least taking your own honey 😘
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:46 PM
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I literally never said imbalance. You are putting words into my mouth. Of course I never expected you to play fair. You’re just here to complain. Typical incel.
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:12 PM
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It’s fucking science. How stupid can you be
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:11 PM
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May aswell be talking to a wall man, they are just talking to tear down. No interest in talking constructively at all. they just want to complain.
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:48 PM
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If you don’t know your hormones change based on your menstrual cycle then yes, you know nothing about your own body
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:47 PM
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Another triggered woman coming to fight a war. Hate all you want. This advice gets guys laid.
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:39 PM
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Not at all. I said their advice may change depending on their desires at that current state. And their advice may change in the following 2 weeks. Look, it’s fine, real hard cold facts go through the ear and out the other of women like you.
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:38 PM
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There is no need to be condescending. This is widely studied, reported and documented by medical professionals. A woman’s menstrual cycle has a profound impact on their sexual desires, libido and hormones. You can Google any of the many medical documentations of this. Although I will not hold my breath expecting an acknowledgement of it from you, admitting that maybe I am not wrong after all…
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:15 PM
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Sounds good! From my experience I have found they work on 19 out of 20 girls. It’s ok if you are the 1 :) Everybody is different and I would regret saying it to the 1 if I offended them obviously. You’re not someone I would date and I’m not someone you would date. I see no issue we all have different preferences :)
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:12 PM
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Holy shit you are a chaotic incel aren’t you. I ain’t replying anymore. You’re just in your own valley of hate, making stuff up. Bye.
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:05 PM
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You’re so crazy. Get help.
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:03 PM
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Yikes. Please stop following me around I replied to another person not you. It is a funny light hearted joke. I don’t know why you are so angry at the world, but please direct it at someone else. Your messages are just complaints and non constructive.
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:57 AM
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Doesn’t matter you’re still a woman. You are subject to the same hormonal inconsistency. And judging by your posts, maybe you need to take someone else’s advice other than your own. ☺️
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:56 AM
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Totally understand. But when coupled with an introduction, a friendly smile, and being genuine, I think you may be more open to it.
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:52 AM
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So you got hurt in the past and that’s why you’re mad at guys getting laid?
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:44 AM
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It’s not fucking negging 😂😂 negging is calling a chick fat to knock her confidence, or saying she has big ears hoping she will seek his validation. Look I do not want to argue, I am more than happy to have a constructive dialogue. I say men (experienced men) are better to ask yes because women tend to change their mind a lot (can be linked to their changing hormones, women go through different desires as they cycle through their follicular cycle and their luteal phase) That’s why a woman’s advic…
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:43 AM
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Get off this subreddit you do more harm than good. Literally nothing valuable to add. You have no clue what you’re talking about. Totally non sensical. I don’t even want to argue with you because you’re not going to hear it, through one ear out the other.
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:39 AM
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Oh my god you’re a woman! Makes sense now 😂😂 Ask a fisherman how to catch a fish not the fish. Women, from what I have seen, give literally the worst dating advice to guys.
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:36 AM
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Oh, she slept with me because she was uncomfortable too right? facepalm Clearly you ain’t stepped foot outside the house or are just mad you’ve never got laid or something. You do know this is a seduction subreddit right? Either way, wish you the best. I mean no ill-will, but you’re crazy if you think any of what I said is negging.
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:32 AM
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That’s a great one.
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:27 AM
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That’s hilarious. I have got many women burst out laughing with that one. Unless you actually think women believe they are literal fruits?
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:22 AM
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Cold reading in seduction are basically assumptions in a playful manner. Examples are: See a woman with a briefcase? “Hey so what’s up with the briefcase, are you a big shot lawyer who puts the bad guys in jail?” See a woman with lots of shopping bags “Someone’s been busy gift shopping today. Who are all the gifts for, family and friends?” See someone with a leather jacket “Are you in a biker gang? You’re just missing the tattoos and sunglasses and you’d fit right in” The idea is to make an assu…
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:20 AM
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They are absolutely nothing like negging. Please research what negging actually is. Negging is giving a backhanded compliment that can be taken as an insult, to dismantle a woman’s confidence. None of what I said does any of that.
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:16 AM
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No. It’s just seduction. Leave your moral compass outside of the bedroom.
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:07 AM
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Little life tip bro, compliments ain’t good. A girl never gets a compliment and thinks “oh I want to fuck him because he said that” Girl wants to fuck a man with a strong frame, who passes shit tests, and someone who can cold read well. Instead of saying shes pretty, say “you could go to the met gala with that red dress on” “Look at you strutting along with those long legs. You look like a woman on a mission” “What’s with the orange jacket? You look like an orange” If you want to compliment her …
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:02 AM
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I literally see 60+ year olds dancing at my local club on the dance floor with all the young ins. Don’t give a fuck man. Go enjoy yourself. When you’re 40 you’ll be wishing you were 32 to go to the clubs. And when you’re 50 you’ll be wishing you were 40. It’s all relative.
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:44 AM
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You have some major self esteem issues before you even think about getting a girl. Imagine a man, who has abs, resorting to a fat girl who he isn’t attracted to, so he might have a better chance.. God damn bro. You need to work on some things first.
/r/seduction06/02/22 04:41 AM
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Girls want guys who either have or had lots of girls. Just lie..
/r/seduction05/02/22 10:08 PM
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You closed without asking for her number? What was the point of the conversation then? “You have a workout to finish and I have somewhere to be. Give me your number because I’d like to talk to you again” I’m not a big fan of approaching again in the same day. You should just spark another conversation another day and then number close then. Address her by her name next time. She will like that and knows you took note of it during your prior conversation. “Hey Sarah! How’s it going” and new convo…
/r/seduction05/02/22 10:06 PM
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Did you fuck her after the first date? If you didn’t, then of course you ain’t on her mind bro.
/r/seduction04/02/22 10:11 AM
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You will never get any girl if you’re worrying about offending her. Don’t validate her. Why on earth would you think you are being picky or judgemental for liking women in their natural state with long hair? Don’t compliment how much you like it, but cold read it. “Wow look at your long hair you must be a stylist” or something.
/r/seduction03/02/22 03:54 AM
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