SilverCurve Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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26	You eating at a diner, and you see a girl sitting next to you, eating alone. It's Friday night. She doesn't have a bf. Do you go talk to her? Or hope she gives you signs of interest first? Cultural difference is another good day excuse. The girl would more likely to forgive any awkwardness because “maybe that’s how they get to know each other in his country”.	/r/seduction	15/03/19 06:58 PM
5	I am out solo.... girls keep asking where all my friends are... I make friends here.	/r/seduction	01/04/18 08:42 AM
20	Models: Attract Women Through Honesty - Mark Manson Be the best version of yourself. Put effort into improving your life, and be proud about it. You may not see results immediately, but you know you're on the right direction, and it feels good. Others can sense your optimism.	/r/seduction	13/01/17 11:22 PM
1	How to know when I'm actually being vulnerable or just emotionally vomiting? You share what you feel like, but at the same time watch how she respond. If she looks interested and gives IOI, then continue. If she looks disinterested, stop it and switch topic. Being vulnerable is no different than physical escalation, really. After all, physical escalation is a form of vulnerability.	/r/seduction	08/01/17 12:59 AM
1	Seducing a girl you see often Sounds like you ruined it. I'd move on, be ready to accept that she's not interested. If you still see her frequently, you guys should have a talk. Tell her you're genuinely attracted and you're fine if she refuse. Sometimes she'll give you another chance. If not, that's fine.	/r/seduction	30/12/16 07:03 AM
19	Never kissed a girl, i don't want it to suck... any advice? Kissing is more about emotion, not technique. My advice is making sure both of you are comfortable.	/r/seduction	22/07/16 05:24 PM
1	How to game a mixer Playfully (and truthfully) tell her that you are interested in having deeper conversation with her, and it cannot be done here. Depending on the situation you may leave the place together or get her # and meet some time later. If she seems not interested even after you ask, that's fine.	/r/seduction	24/06/16 12:26 AM
3	The paradox- Seddit has killed my drive to date women I think what you are going through is perfectly normal. When a person do anything, he goes through 4 stages: - Stage 1: Knows nothing - Stage 2: Learn. Mimic. Follow. - Stage 3: Commit. Compete. Make the best out of his skills. - Stage 4: Slow down. Look for legacy. For reference, read these 2 articles: http://markmanson.net/four-stages-of-life http://greedygoblin.blogspot.com/p/from-m-to-rational-play-to-win.html At a personal level, your seduction skill might be at stage 4. You have discovered…	/r/seduction	21/07/15 10:48 PM
1	I'm reading Models by Mark Manson. What do I tell girls I'm reading when they ask? You are an honest man, you can tell people almost everything. However, you don't have to do that all the time. You can be a bit playfully mysterious. In my experience, I told my girls that I "read books about getting good with girls". They became even more curious in me.	/r/seduction	21/05/15 03:59 PM
1	Is it bad to always be a "clown" or a "joker" with the girl you like? Your feeling and the girl's feeling should determine how much you joke. If you feel you guys are having fun, don't hesitate to make some more jokes. If the girl's body language says otherwise (she's looking other way, awkward silence, etc.), then slow down.	/r/seduction	18/03/15 05:52 PM
7	met a group of girls, got the number of a girl not as attractive, how can i be friends and hang out with the group again? You gather your friends, plan to do something fun together. Then, you invite her, clearly stating that it's a group event. If she accepts, she becomes your friend. She may even bring her friends to the event. If you want to have female friends (to have access to their hot friends), do something that female friends enjoy.	/r/seduction	04/03/15 10:03 PM
3	What's your easiest route to casual sex? Would be great if you share some of your OKCupid experience?	/r/seduction	18/08/14 10:33 PM
1	Why the hell do people think I'm gay? Sounds like what happened to me in high school. I was not the aggressive type of guys, and didn't hit on girls. Some ( not that many) people thought I was gay. When they suspect in a serious way, they won't tell you. Anyway, that was just a weird period of life, dealing with other 17 years-old people who are just as clueless as you about the world. Just be more outcome independent, talk with people and hit on girls.	/r/seduction	14/08/14 09:18 PM
2	Why shit tests are more than just being "great responses" and seeming alpha. My experience is the same with you. I'm just not the witty type. So after a while I learned to be fine with who I am. I became super straight forward. If a girl said something funny-flirty and I couldn't immediately think of anything witty to response, I just say what I think:"You're funny, I like that. How about we hang out on Saturday?"	/r/seduction	12/05/14 10:37 PM
2	How does your game/results differ between different geographic regions, if at all? I'm from an Asian country where people are more traditional. Girls save virginity for their husbands, most people don't go to bars or club, casual relationship is very rare, etc. It means more day game, no kiss-close if you just met. Before I take a girl to bed, I have to explain to her what a casual relationship is, in hope that she's cool with it. Nonetheless, I managed to apply seduction well and get girls all the time. The psychology is the same. Improve yourself, have high value, use some r…	/r/seduction	26/02/14 12:48 AM
15	Improving my "don't give a fuck" mentality but coming off as an asshole to my girl-friends You are in a period that I call "beginner phase". You tell yourself to "not give a fuck" but you still care how a girl respond. You show off your "new attitude" by stop being nice and tell people that you have changed, expecting that after a while you will get back some IOIs. That's not truly "don't give a fuck". Truth is, you don't have to stop being nice. You don't have to tease or "game" all the time. Don't expect outcomes, just do things you feel like to do. Tease a girl when it's fun to tea…	/r/seduction	25/02/14 07:28 PM
3	What makes a girl different? This is a good example. What guys love in girls are not different from what girls love in guys: having high value, being confident, having her own agenda, following what she wants etc.	/r/seduction	20/02/14 11:40 PM
2	Anybody who has had problems letting women down easy? It gives me more anxiety than anything. Just dumped a girl last month. I told her straight up, and that was not easy, but after some days both me and her felt better. So by now I know that it was the right thing to do.	/r/seduction	20/01/14 11:37 PM
3	Man of seddit that pretty much accomplished what you wanted with your self-improvement. What is you re life now ? I've been in the journey for 12 months. A year ago, I considered myself Forever Alone. Now, I'm surrounded with girls. I still have many things to improve, but I know I'm on the right path. And it's not only about girls. I can express myself confidently. I believe in my strength and I work to get good things from it. I respect everyone and I'm willing to share good ideas with them, while having strong boundaries and don't waste my time on useless daily drama. I remember a year ago, girls and me …	/r/seduction	24/09/13 12:28 AM
14	If she brings up sexual discussion and you have no sexual experience at all? Good guy parent, hire a 16 yr girl to babysit their 14 yr son, so he may have sexual experience.	/r/seduction	11/09/13 05:10 PM
2	Models by Mark Manson is blowing my fucking mind I like the idea of polarization the most. Accept the fact that 1/ you cannot attract all the girls, 2/without showing interest they will slowly friendzone you; and then you can talk and show interest to any girl you like without worrying about anything.	/r/seduction	30/07/13 05:24 PM