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| 2 | 25 year old virgin in NYC, I need helpI agree, as long as you have other lines of effort. | /r/seduction | 01/06/26 04:31 PM |
| 1 | 25 year old virgin in NYC, I need helpIt’s not signaling... I never said that was the focus. And I’m not telling him to make things up. If it came across that way that wasn’t my intention. I’m simply saying post pics of his life. Groups of friends, girls and boys… whatever puts his best foot forward. Instead of a selfie of him topless in his bathroom. Generally I agree with your comments. But, you have to start somewhere and anything is better than what he is doing now. Baby steps | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 07:32 AM |
| 4 | 25 year old virgin in NYC, I need helpYou should have started out with this comment. I can get behind 90% of it. Keep trying isn’t really what I was saying… | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 03:27 AM |
| 7 | 25 year old virgin in NYC, I need helpSo basically what you’re saying is he should give up because the odd are against him? Thats great advice! So stupid! Was that soft enough for you? | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 03:18 AM |
| 15 | 25 year old virgin in NYC, I need helpGoing to the gym and self-improvement isn’t about the girls or being able to pick up girls. It’s about him and his confidence. False hope is simply your opinion. But it’s good you know how to use google. Now go back to college and learn something. | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 02:52 AM |
| 7 | 25 year old virgin in NYC, I need helpGuys are at a huge disadvantage for online dating… | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 02:44 AM |
| 3 | 25 year old virgin in NYC, I need helpSame as above, what’s your recommendation then? | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 02:35 AM |
| 5 | 25 year old virgin in NYC, I need helpWhat is your recommendation then? | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 02:34 AM |
| 16 | 25 year old virgin in NYC, I need helpThe idea is to show that you’re a normal non creepy guy that has friends. Mix group of guys and girls. Better? | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 01:06 AM |
| 1 | FWB says we short term, but she acts like it's long term.A lot of good comments here. So I’ll take a different approach. Have you thought about adding another girl? Just bringing up a third might reinforce your position that your relationship is a FWB. If she says yes then seeing you with that other girl will show her you most definitely are playing the field. | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 12:12 AM |
| 53 | 25 year old virgin in NYC, I need helpWork on yourself. Go to the gym and work on your body. Eat healthy food and if you didn’t get your degree get your degree and or work on your career. That is your focus! Be the best version of yourself. Get your self confidence back! On the woman front, talk to every girl that you can. Not to pick them up, not to fuck them. But to interact with them and to get over the fear of approaching them. Don’t focus on getting laid, focus on your self improvement while learning how to talk to them. Once y… | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 11:57 PM |
| 1 | I like exhibition….And we all love you for it! 💕 | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 04:01 PM |
| 5 | Pulling women is not that complicated?Well, You should have a certain level of confidence for these kinds of things. But, talk (build rapport means find out what you have in common and focus the conversation with those topics. Your conversation should flow, transitions should be seamless. Set pickup lines won’t work here. You have to be confident with who you are and have experience getting to know people and keeping the dialogue going ) to her and as seen in the other comments bring the right energy, smile, jokes, get her to laugh,… | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Como invito a salir a una chica con la que paso algo casual?You can’t force it… let things settle and when the opportunity presents itself do not hesitate. Patience is a virtue! | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 12:21 AM |
| 15 | Pulling women is not that complicated?I mean that’s basically it… another way to break it down: 1. Build rapport & establish attraction 2. Create danger & excitement 3. Encourage emotional energy 4. Get your kiss | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 10:34 PM |
| 2 | How do you approach and talk about with girls specifically at malls ?I think malls are a good place to practice and build skills. Think of it as a safe space to learn. Sure, you can get a number and start something. But, If you are in your 30s I would want you to take what you learned by your experience with cold picks ups at the mall and move somewhere with more refined women. 20 something’s are fun, but you eventually need to graduate to older women. If only to better hone your skills, ideally to find a girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 10:20 PM |
| 4 | Found a girl that is relationship matterialNo man, you’re not an asshole. For a relationship to work you need to pass a certain threshold in each of the following categories: 1. Intellectual compatibility & connection 2. Emotional compatibility & connection 3. Physical compatibility and attraction You can’t be deficient in any one of the categories and have a relationship without resentment. Which will eventually lead to an unhealthy and unsuccessful relationship. Since you are so early in the relationship and you have already found that… | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Good pick up lines/OpenersI had a hot mail lady deliver mail to my house. One day I yelled at her from across the lawn, “hey, nice socks wanna fuck? She laughed and said no… but she gave me a smile everyday I saw her after that! 🫠 | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Como invito a salir a una chica con la que paso algo casual?Go for it man! Reach out to her and take her to dinner. She gave you the answers to the test. The worst that can happen is that she says she not interested. But at least then you know where you stand. | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 08:03 PM |
| 3 | I have a date with an older woman, any tips?You’re both on bumble and tinder so you are both looking for basically the same thing. Be yourself have fun, get to know her be interested in her and flirt with her like any other girl you would take out. Be a leader take her by the hand go for it! | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 07:45 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop being scared of flirtingAnd the practice can start as easy as going to a mall and talking to female clerks. With the goal of finding something out about them. Like where did they get that tattoo. A phased approach. Step 1 get comfortable with walking up to a woman and talking about general things. Step two talking to a female shopper about something they are buying. Again general things. Step 3 flirting… or whatever. The goal is to get over the fear of talking and being rejected. | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 07:09 PM |
| 1 | At a club/bar, does this mean anything?Yes! She is there to have fun, you are there to have fun. Have fun and stop overthinking it… | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 05:43 PM |
| 5 | How do I stop being scared of flirtingCold pick ups are the hardest. I’m sure there are some real players in here but my take is this. Practice and learn! If it makes you feel more comfortable then drive to a town or area where you don’t know anyone and no one you know could see you fail. Because you are going to fail a lot. Take note of what worked and take note of when the conversation went sideways. And change your approach until you are confident in yourself. Once you learn how not to care about their reaction the fear will go a… | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 05:29 PM |
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