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| 1 | "Hot guys be assholes to women!" Well that ain't youThis is usually said in response to bring told that personality is all that matters or that someone unsuccessful in dating must have a bad personality (words can't describe how stupid it is to tell someone you don't know that they have a bad personality BTW). Literally nobody thinks that being actively hostile to women is a non factor, they know that the guys who can do it get away with it because they're hot they just bring it up to show that those guys really do exist and we don't live in a ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 09:12 AM |
| – | Why do men think there are so many good menI disagree, there's been more people who have shown me kindness and have gone out of their way to help me when they gain nothing than there were people who've switched up on me when they do have something to gain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 01:12 PM |
| 11 | Women don’t give good advice on dating and it’s obvious why.If that's you're experience then go off, but there hasn't been a single man that's asked me for dating advice in person and has reacted negatively from the advice I've given, even when it was harsh. Some of them have absolutely nodded their heads and not followed the advice but none of them have even raised their voice at me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:50 AM |
| 3 | Women don’t give good advice on dating and it’s obvious why.It depends on the woman who gives the advice, I've seen countless posts from men who grew up asking women around them for advice just to get the classic bleupilled be kind, personality is all that matters etc and end up being nice guys. Thankfully my own mom and sister were real upfront about the importance of looks and the female friends I have really aren't politically correct enough to be vague and layer their advice with niceties and platitudes but most men aren't so lucky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:44 AM |
| 7 | Women don’t give good advice on dating and it’s obvious why.Begging you to put autocorrect on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:33 AM |
| 14 | Women don’t give good advice on dating and it’s obvious why.When it comes from someone on the Internet it's less than meaningless because all the reasons are based on assumptions you've made from a few sentences they posted. Irl when it's between two people who actually know each other men are a lot more appreciative, given they actually asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:30 AM |
| 2 | When guys who say “I want to be TRULY desired” or “I want to be wanted for who I am, not what I can provide” they mean they want to worshipped.Anyone repeatedly going onto niche places online to constantly argue about gender dynamics and relationships is going to be a nutcase - but even then I don't think that the men here who complain about not being desired sexually and only for what they provide want to be desired solely in a lustful way. I've always gotten the impression that they felt like they were being settled for in the physical attraction aspect, and wanted to be seen as ideal both personality wise and physical wise. What do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 05:26 PM |
| 5 | When guys who say “I want to be TRULY desired” or “I want to be wanted for who I am, not what I can provide” they mean they want to worshipped.There is more to a relationship than fucking, but to most heterosexual people fucking is still a key part to the relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 04:56 PM |
| 13 | The bluepill is by far the nastiest dating ideologyOften times the lack of success is treated as proof of bitterness, I've seen countless posts on reddit and instagram where someone says they're frustrated with being single but don't appear bitter at all and bluepillers just immediately assume they must have a terrible personality or be a bad person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Its not women’s problem that men have low standards out of desperation.First line is that you're tired of guys complaining yet you come here week after week saying the same shit please just get a job lilith | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 02:15 PM |
| 14 | Why do you make general assumptions about womenYou're saying tough like you're capable of stopping anyone from talking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Friendzone complaints mainly come from guys who dont value friendships.If I truly had feelings for someone beyond just thinking they're attractive then there's no amount of effort I could put in to make those thoughts and feelings go away, I would need to stop seeing them entirely to move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 06:14 PM |
| 17 | Friendzone complaints mainly come from guys who dont value friendships.Just because you feel that way doesn't mean that when people feel another way they must have some form of nefarious thought process behind it. I've been friends with women all of my life and I've never developed feelings for any of them, but if I did I wouldn't be able to keep being around them. And it's not because I suddenly stop valuing women outside of their bodies but because being around someone you like that way while they would never be able to feel the same would be torture for me I wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 11:29 AM |
| 3 | Most women make it incredibly difficult for men to meet and connect with them these daysHe comes across as resentful, yes. But to me it's very clear that he's just describing the way he thinks the world works instead of saying that things should be different and especially that women are wrong for acting in this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 05:16 PM |
| 0 | Most women make it incredibly difficult for men to meet and connect with them these daysDo you think that the OP is saying that women should be receptive to advances from men they're not attracted to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 05:08 PM |
| 5 | “genuinely kind guy” is a rebrand of the “nice guy”I mean sure you don't need to call yourself one, but if you do call yourself one it doesn't automatically mean that you're not genuinely nice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Single men are bitter. I wonder why?I'm 22, so the same age group as a lot of men who struggle with dating are in (also in Europe), and most of the people I meet are in my university. I feel like there definitely is atleast some truth to the statistic that alot of young men are sexless, but there's a lot of nuance towards it. Eg a surprising amount of young guys I meet genuinely have 0 interest in dating right now and would reject girls even if they did fall into their laps. But there still is definitely a subset of men who want t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Single men are bitter. I wonder why?To be honest I've only ever met the people who've felt entitled online, in real life its 99% socially awkward men or men who are fine physically/mentally/socially but just don't know how dating works so don't try. I've never met a man in real life who feels entitled to women and struggles, if anything those men are typically the most successful because they're so ready to lie and manipulate women or 'play the game' as people would say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 07:07 PM |
| 5 | Single men are bitter. I wonder why?You don't think it's anything like bad social skills, approach anxiety, just generally not knowing much about how dating works and how you're supposed to do things? Because in my experience being a young guy in uni the two factors which impact success with dating even more than personality/being openly misogynistic is how good your social skills are and how often you try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Single men are bitter. I wonder why?Do you think having old fashioned expectations is the main reason why men struggle with dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderAs a guy who's also in college alot of the men I meet get way less attention than you would think. Even the ones that you think get a decent amount at first glance once you get to know them actually dont | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 02:03 PM |
| 9 | I Don’t Think Women Fully Comprehend The Shame of Being a Male Virgin As He Moves Through His 20sNot to nearly the same extent that men are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 04:24 AM |
| 4 | I am anti-feminism, anti-redpill, and anti-blackpill.I see alot of you labelling things as toxic without actually explaining why they are, just a very surface level recap of their main point and you saying it's toxic. The red pill for example isn't toxic for its core belief that you need things like looks, status and money in order to have women give you more attention, because that's true, but more so because it tells men to focus on obtaining the signs of success without actually becoming successful or developing the other traits that are desira… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/10/23 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approachMost of the guys with these issues are young and don't have enough experience interacting with people (not even women, just people in general) to know the nuances that go into social interaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 01:45 PM |
| 1 | When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way.I literally said in my original comment that if they do hang out with pedophiles, they don't know that they're pedophiles because pedos hide that they're pedos because most men find them disgusting and there's a very real chance that things could get violent. Honestly I have no idea what point you're trying to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way.Yes, the vast majority of pedophiles hide that they are pedophiles for the reason I said in the last comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 04:49 PM |
| 0 | When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way.Admit to what, being pedos? No shit they don't, because when someone is a known pedophile they get harassed and assaulted, mainly by men, because most men aren't pedophiles and don't like them lmao. If most men were pedos it definitely wouldn't be nearly as taboo as it is in society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 04:45 PM |
| -1 | When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way....because the average man doesn't hang around with pedos? And if they do they certainly don't know that they are ones because they would get the shit beaten out of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 04:34 PM |
| 6 | When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way.Yes, there are men who catcall children all around the world, these men are pedos. It does not in any way mean that most men are pedophiles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 03:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV : women do not prefer bad men. They prefer strong men. I’ll prove it with one example.Am I wrong though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 09:12 PM |
| 12 | CMV : women do not prefer bad men. They prefer strong men. I’ll prove it with one example.How did this sub go from ordinary mental gymnastics to fanfiction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 08:53 PM |
| 7 | How much do looks matter?I feel like looks are the difficulty setting of dating, you can find success as an unattractive man but you'll need to put in more effort that more attractive men and also just play things out better in general. At the same time you could be extremely physically attractive and keep fucking up because of social incompetence even if you have alot of opportunities, but the bar for what you need to do to get experiences when you're physically attractive is definitely lower than it would be if you're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 01:08 PM |
| 56 | Question for men who say women are overly shallow - If you genuinely believe that all (or essentially all) women only care about looks, why don't you focus on improving your looks?A significant portion of blackpillers do, take a look at any looksmaxxing forum and you'll see what lengths they go to in order to improve their appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Do you know any red pillers in real life? Are they sexually successful?Incels are blackpill, not redpill. To someone one the outside looking in they may seem similar, but they are opposites. Most incels loathe the redpill and pickup artists. Hell one of the first incel sites was literally called pick up artist hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you know any red pillers in real life? Are they sexually successful?Probably, I didn't know them before they had become blackpilled so it's entirely possible that their belief that looks are number 1 caused them to put effort into their appearance which then made them good looking. I feel like most people could become decently attractive if they put some effort in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 06:45 PM |
| 4 | Do you know any red pillers in real life? Are they sexually successful?I'm a man, and no these men were definitely good looking, none were at the level where they could model but two were the type of prettyboys that you would see on Pinterest or in tiktok thirst traps and the other one was tall with a fit body and good jawline. All of them got attention from women, but the women normally lost interest after a bit of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Do you know any red pillers in real life? Are they sexually successful?I was friends with a few blackpillers in college and funnily enough they looked really good, the exact opposite of what people expect blackpillers to look like. But all of them were socially retarded, could do fine when it's small talk but we're really bad at anything beyond that, especially with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Do you know any red pillers in real life? Are they sexually successful?Yes, the only redpiller I know in real life is my cousin and I would say hes sexually successful. He doesn't have a rotation of women or anything like that but I know he's had alot of casual sex with around a dozen or so women in the last year. He's even a tate fanboy, which I think is funny because most people seem to think tate fans are only virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 06:21 PM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP and the manosphere over-analyzes dating to the point that it’s detrimentalHe can, it would just he more difficult than it would be if he was taller | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Women don't hate nice guys because they storm off after being rejected, women hate them because they create a secret, transactional relationship without the woman's consent.?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 06:50 PM |
| – | CMV If you‘re a Man and the only thing that u value in a Women is sex you’re a weirdo.No matter what post you go into you're guaranteed to find atleast 1 take that's so utterly incomprehensible it'll leave you dazed, alot of people here are so terminally online and in their own head that they're basically socially crippled and have completely forgotten how normal people function. Half of the posts are gigantic generalisations about every group of people you can imagine and users display a level of mental gymnastics so impressive it surely burns calories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 12:22 AM |
| – | CMV If you‘re a Man and the only thing that u value in a Women is sex you’re a weirdo.Wheelchair is more accurate for this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 12:16 AM |
| – | “NICE GUYS FINISH LAST!”Guy was a wacko, nothing could've helped him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Misery loves companyThis is the most chronically online take I've ever heard nobody in real life gives a shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:46 AM |
| 6 | I think the red pill is morally wrong in almost every aspect.Out of all ways to interpret that sentence you chose the dumbest one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 08:05 PM |
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