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SELF IMPROVEMENTSilverKnightLife/r/RedPillWomen31/05/20 12:27 AM
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DATING ADVICESilverKnightLife/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 05:44 PM
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ADVICESilverKnightLife/r/RedPillWomen18/11/23 05:22 PM
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DATING ADVICESilverKnightLife/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 07:43 PM
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DATING ADVICESilverKnightLife/r/RedPillWomen20/12/20 07:58 PM
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ADVICESilverKnightLife/r/RedPillWomen21/09/20 12:41 PM
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DISCUSSIONSilverKnightLife/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 05:38 PM
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DATING ADVICESilverKnightLife/r/RedPillWomen07/07/22 11:24 PM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTSilverKnightLife/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 05:01 PM
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DATING ADVICESilverKnightLife/r/RedPillWomen10/11/20 10:09 PM
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ADVICESilverKnightLife/r/RedPillWomen15/02/21 07:11 PM
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ADVICESilverKnightLife/r/RedPillWomen11/03/23 12:46 PM
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ADVICESilverKnightLife/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 07:06 PM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTSilverKnightLife/r/RedPillWomen27/07/20 07:16 PM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTSilverKnightLife/r/RedPillWomen27/07/20 06:30 PM
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I'm actually a pharmacy student. Just like in med school, you can match into a residency program. I'm north african, so I'm acutely aware of the difference in dating compared to the u.s or any other western country, but still a lot of my friends and people I know don't struggle nearly as much when it comes to dating or even platonic relationships with guys. Thanks for the advice. I really appreciate it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 10:50 PM
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Yes, I do leave my house. I'm graduating from university next year. Hopefully I'll get matched into a good residency program after that. I have a few friends. I'm not fat, not sure if I'm super attractive (maybe average). Sometimes I feel confident talking to people, but many times people (guys in particular) make me feel like I'm bothering them.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 10:23 PM
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I agree. A lot of the times I feel like it's hard to relate to people's experiences, which makes it harder for me to add to certain conversations. I try to ask questions sometimes, but inevitably feel like I'm interviewing them or faking my interest.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 09:13 PM
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That doesn't seem to be the case for some reason. (I think you have to be very attractive to get away with a bad personality)
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 08:50 PM
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You're right. It's hard to improve when you don't get any feedback in social situations. I can't even trust my close friends to tell me what I'm doing wrong or if I give off an odd vibe.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 08:49 PM
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If I looked like Jenna Ortega that would explain a lot why I don't get approached (she's really cute, but looks a bit child-like to me and not sexually hot). I hope that doesn't sound very shallow, but thanks all the same. I have to clear a few things up about my post history. I'm not talking about the same guy in all of my posts. Those are 3 consecutive crushes, all of whom treated me very poorly when they found out I liked them. All of the guys I pursued were on my level (similar major, financ…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 07:48 PM
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I hope I'll come to that realization someday.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 07:38 PM
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I'm 21 and most of them I met in university. I spend 6-7 hours of my day in campus, so it's hard not to find them.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 07:33 PM
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I'm at a healthy weight and I wear mostly feminine clothes. Just a sweater and jeans sometimes, but still presentable and clean. I wear makeup that enhances my features, but is natural looking. I have a few bad hair days, but who doesn't ig?
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 07:25 PM
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I didn't go out with them. Sorry for not clarifying, but I've been rejected by every guy I was interested in and a lot of them were total jerks who couldn't miss a chance to bring me down. Most of them were from school or people that I met because we had mutual friends, which means I find myself around these people more often than I'd like.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 07:19 PM
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I don't want to seem prideful or bitter, but I would never give away my power like that and ask people who've disrespected me on multiple occasions what they find "wrong" with me.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 07:07 PM
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My skin does have some texture (pores and a few blemishes just like any normal human), but my front camera has a blurring skin filter. I would've preferred to edit my hairline because it's one of my worst insecurities, but that would be very disingenuous of me.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 07:00 PM
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That could be a good reason. I'm not always aware of my facial expressions and body language. I'm also not the best at hiding how I feel on the inside and when I fail to express that verbally.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 06:45 PM
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This is what I look like Me I'm at a healthy weight. I stopped going to the gym a couple of months ago, but I'm still physically active and do my workouts at home. I don't neglect my own hygiene and I love smelling nice. I don't turn heads by any means, but I look presentable somewhat average.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 06:38 PM
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I don't believe I have limitless "sexual market value" or else I wouldn't be complaining about men not wanting anything to do with me. A lot of men would try to get with women they find attractive. A lot of my prettier friends had at least one boyfriend /"situationship" at some point. I'm just not desirable enough and I'm looking for ways to change that.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/23 05:30 PM
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I've made the first move on most guys I've liked and it either went horribly wrong or at best they had a gf. Definitely not a 9/10 success rate.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/23 11:42 PM
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Yeah, good guess.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/23 08:00 PM
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I come from a north african/ muslim background (not religious myself, but I find myself having to conform to societal norms) When it comes to dating, sex before marriage isn't allowed and people aren't very open when it comes to dating.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/23 07:07 PM
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I just read your post, it was super helpful. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/23 08:21 PM
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That's the issue. I almost always go for guys in my university. I hate constantly running into them after they reject me.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 11:09 PM
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I always try to approach guys that are on my level or slightly better in terms of achievements or looks. Most of them are in my friends circle or people that I get to see often. Maybe it's my attitude, but idk what I'm doing specifically that's off putting to men.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 11:01 PM
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I didn't think about those. I've always shied away from wearing hair accessories. Thanks for the advice.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 10:52 PM
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My natural hair is wavy, a bit frizzy. I only have an old curling iron. Not only does it take ages for my hair strands to hold the curl, but also the barrel is a bit small so it takes me forever to curl my hair. I end up spending more than an hour styling my hair and eventually I just got sick of it. Yeah, I guess I have to buy a new curling iron.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 06:10 PM
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Good luck when you end up with someone incompatible and and stay stuck in a bad marriage since the same families that favor arranged marriages are also against divorce.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/22 05:10 PM
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According to your logic, 90% of athletes/ body builders are also fake because almost all of them take performance enhancing supplements that are industrially synthesized. That also means that anyone who uses meds to treat an illness is lying about their health because STATUS. If you have acne prone skin and use certain products to help with your skin condition that should be the equivalent of renting a sports car because as soon as you stop the treatment, breakouts will reappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:32 PM
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Sounds more like validation.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/21 07:00 PM
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Dude should probably live in Saudi Arabia and covert to Islam already.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 06:44 PM
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I used to do journaling for a while, I think I should try to re-build that habit. I've read about MDMA therapy, I wish I could go on a few sessions, but it's not practiced in my country. The administration of substances like ecstasy is illegal. I'll try reading those books. I'm sorry if that sounds disappointing, but I'm doing things in the best of my ability. If I could read only one book out of the many works of Nathaniel Brandon, I would've already gone back to my hobbies and normal life. I w…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/21 06:11 PM
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I really appreciate your advice. I didn't want to self-diagnose, it just felt like I related to lot of BPD symptoms. I will definitely check out the Sedona method. Thank you so much.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/21 09:17 AM
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Thank you so much. I'm aware to many people it seems like nothing, but I'm going through a rough time and I thought maybe giving it some times would help me move on and stop overthinking, yet here I am writing a post about how I'll never find love again. There's more to the story than just the end of a potential relationship, but I think I'm just picturing the worst-case scenario that could happen. I really want to go back to my hobbies. I just haven't found the motivation to do fun stuff again.…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/21 09:05 AM
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I know it seems like in all my posts I can't help but talk about my sexually oppressive culture, maybe this is more a call for help than trying to gain sympathy from people. Unfortunately, I can't just go out and sleep around because my country is about 98% Muslim. If I get caught, my family will make my life a living hell. I'm afraid that I'll be forced to wear a Hijab and one day finding myself either getting married to someone I never fell in love with or be single for the rest of my life. I …
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/21 08:20 AM
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I don't have an issue with the fact that women retain more fat than men, as women have increased oestrogen levels, which makes fat burning more difficult. What I had an issue with was how you were trying to make it relate to evolution. I read a few articles, and I think you have a point. I'm still frustrated with the fact that many if not most of the Red/Blue pill community relies on EP to make a point. Evolutionary psychology isn't real science.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 06:31 PM
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I love reading non-scientific hypotheses based on Evolutionary Psychology. This is why I have such an issue with the Red/Blue pill community. It seems that a lot of people don't rely on data, but would rather use dumb analogies to support their absurd stance on gender or cherry pick statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 05:52 PM
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You should try the Kibbe test and figure out what kind of clothes suit you best.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/21 03:29 PM
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Yeah, I sometimes feel like I come across as masculine with the way I show interest to a man, I get rejected 9 times out of 10 if I shoot my shot with someone so I'd rather flirt and signal to a man that I'm interested, as opposed to going up to someone and giving them my number or asking their name. I definitely need to learn how to compliment a man. I find it hard to compliment people in general although I internally appreciate a lot of personality traits that my friends have and I notice when…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/20 08:36 AM
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I think you and I are experiencing the same thing, except my family are practicing Muslims. Although I understand their intentions, but I want to have some sort of autonomy. I'm tired of letting them decide what's best for me as an adult. I want live a life of my own, I want to date and choose my partner. I think I need to find a job in another state. While being comfortable in my home town is nice, I think it's best I move out. Thanks for the response.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/20 07:14 AM
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My country is very repressive of sex, a lot of people meet their partners through social media, but they generally don't look for hookups. Most people are married in their 20's. It's crazy how it's the extreme opposite of how dating is in the U.S., but it makes it harder to date around and vet a man that matches your standards and is compatible. It's also a struggle when you have a high sexual drive, you either have to settle down too early and sacrifice your work life and hobbies or wait for ye…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/20 08:54 PM
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I agree with you, I think dating has changed. A lot of people rely on online dating apps to meet others. However, what I don't like about dating apps is how a lot of men are only looking for hookups, not just men but I'm obviously looking for a man. Thanks for the advice.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/20 08:13 PM
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I have seen several profiles of entitled single mothers who kept making bad decisions throughout their 20's, just to realize after hitting their 30's that being a single parent requires so much hassle and they would rather settle down with someone. I'm not active on tinder, but I've heard a lot of men on youtube and Reddit complaining about this issue. It is unfortunate for both men and women. On one hand, women are pushed into having as much fun as they can, and just like men we also value attr…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/20 07:56 PM
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I like how practical your strategy is, I might give it a try. Hopefully, I'll get a positive response. Thank you for the advice.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/20 10:43 AM
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I almost always get a positive response when I allow a man to provide help. Funnily enough, I asked a guy to help me with some paperwork. We got to know each other a little bit. Unfortunately, I wasn't quick enough to ask for his name or give him my number. I think being a damsel can be attractive to men, they also appreciate genuine gratitude. I'm glad I dropped the "I'm an independent woman, I got this" mentality, which made men want to help me and be chivalrous, and that allowed me to rest in…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/20 10:37 AM
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I'm not dating online at the moment, I don't have a tinder account. I guess you could say I'm old fashioned. Many low value people tend to use others who show interest and are invested in them, unfortunately. I believe it's harder particularly for men, but many of us women get duped by low quality men and narcissists. I think vetting is important and I also feel like for women when the dynamic shifts and they become pursuers, they build a lot of resentment for the guy. Thanks for the response.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/20 10:27 AM
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I believe I somewhat understand how hard it is for men in the dating market (I'm a female, at the end of the day I could never understand what it's like to be a man), but I became reluctant about making the first move with a guy since my last love-interest who found entertainment in me chasing after him and never gave me the relief of saying no, instead he let me bend over backwards for him until I realized my worth and no longer pursued him. I felt so undesirable and swore that I would never go…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/20 11:52 PM
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The thought of looking into the eyes of someone that I'm interested in, and holding prolonged eye contact sounds intimidating. I think I should practice doing this more often with strangers. Thanks for the reply.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/20 11:33 PM
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I find that interesting because I always felt like I was on "pursuit" mode whenever I asked a guy for his number or I put myself in a position where I'm the one in control, it either ends up with the guy losing interest or him feeling intimidated and not wanting to chase. I hope that makes sense, thanks for the reply.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/20 11:27 PM
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Yeah, I just felt like there was no point in pursuing him when I realized he's just not that into me. I was head over heels for him at the time, I started to even stalk him, I'm embarrassed to even admit it, which made him distance himself from me even more. It must've been hard for you to pursue someone for over 10 years, I'm glad that I'm not the only who's been in that situation.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/20 10:20 AM
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I wish I could reach out to him again, but I made it clear for him that I no longer wanted to interact with him and that I moved on. We haven't talked in 7 months. I am focusing more on self improvement, I definitely need a hobby instead of obsessing over men who are just not that into me.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 08:41 AM
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Oneitis? I just looked this up and it was 100% what I felt when I had a crush on this guy. I'm not that into him anymore, he's not all that I'm looking for in a man now that my standards has changed and I became more redpilled. I just constantly think about the possibility of him having feelings for me.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 08:35 AM
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Yes, I already did the internal work and jotted down all of the reasons why he's no different than any other guy, and why I should stop pursuing him. I thought I completely moved on, I also started talking to someone else a couple of months ago, it didn't work out unfortunately, but I was relieved because I was no longer thinking about this crush. Now that I've seen him again, I feel like all of my efforts to forget about this person were undone. When we crossed eachother and made eye contact, h…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 08:25 AM
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I actually have never been in a serious relationship, throughout my dating life, I was always stuck on the talking stage with half-interested men who never wanted to commit. I guess that's because I'm clingy or there must be something wrong with me. Whenever I get attached to someone, which doesn't take a lot of time, it jeopardizes my friendships. I just want to learn how to stay detached and stop expecting every man to just sweep me off my feet and make me the happiest person ever.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/20 02:23 PM
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Yes, probably. During my childhood I felt emotionally neglected, my parents were pretty strict and I believe I was conditioned to be masculine by my mother who was the breadwinner, now that I've become more feminine and acquired more attention for men I feel like I have that opportunity to find someone else who would take care of me and cater to my needs.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/20 02:12 PM
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You're right. I think I should be looking for an internship early on, that would be a great excuse to move away from my parents temporarily. However, I've been thinking about moving to another country to pursue a career and settle there, would you think it's better for me to graduate first or is it a waste of time?
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 04:39 PM
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You could be my long-lost sister lol. I don't live in the us, unfortunately. Things are quite different here.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/20 11:20 PM
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Actually, my parents want me to stay with them until I find a husband, then I'll move in with him. I want to get my own place, I want to leave the country, preferably, or at least get a place a few states away from my hometown so I can be more independent, I don't even have the luxury of privacy living in here. I'm hiding some serious stuff from my parents and I'm not willing to come out of the closet.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/20 06:24 PM
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I am more than grateful to my parents for supporting me and making life a little easier for me, I'm in no way saying that I hate them, we actually have a solid relationship though, I'm not very transparent when it comes to my values and ambitions with them. I just want to learn skills like how to manage money, insurance, how to get my own place, taxes...etc. Plus, I am planning on moving to another country so I need to be prepared and learn how to be more self reliant. I think I should follow yo…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/20 06:16 PM
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I don't believe EP is valid because it based on assumptions, the hypotheses of EP aren't testable, therefore it's inaccurate. I believe EP is sexist because it enforces the idea that men are superior to women. Times have changed, men are no longer hunter gatherers and women aren't dependent on them like before. You can't possibly justify the wage gap by saying that men are more dominant for example.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/20 04:27 PM
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I don't believe you should rely on evolutionary psychology to understand relationship dynamics and gender roles because it's too simplistic and falsifiable. Not all men are dominant by nature, some women were conditioned to be masculine. I think a lot of people undermine the importance of culture. It's undeniable that men and women are different but, I personally don't believe it's due to Evolution and what I don't like about EP is that it's not backed up by statistics and is inconsistent with t…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/20 02:40 PM
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There is channel on YouTube named Chloe_ she gives amazing advice on becoming feminine and high value, although her advice is geared towards women of color I still believe some of what she says is valuable to women of any race.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/20 04:10 PM
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That was spot on! Thanks for sharing practical advice. I don't want to improvise without doing my homework and actually learning what it takes to be sexy and feminine in a subtle way that would bring me the right attention.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/20 11:36 AM
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I believe I misunderstood what you were trying to say, sorry about that. Any advice on how to acknowledge your own self worth? I feel like I was hiding my confidence for so long that I don't feel like I could bring anything to the table.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/20 05:09 PM
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That's interesting, aren't those called kegel exercises? I might give them a try. Good point, I think acceptance is really important especially for someone like me who isn't experienced with sex and I don't have to dress in something revealing to be sexy, it should come from within. Thank you for the advice.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/20 11:41 AM
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You're absolutely right, before quarantine I wasn't going out much, I don't usually leave the house unless I have to run errands or go to school. Maybe if I join a club or get involved in extracurricular activities, I'll meet more people and learn how to be more social and confident. I appreciate your advice.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/20 11:07 AM
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Thank you so much! I appreciate your advice. I think I am too worried about how I'm perceived by others, I feel like people can sense that I'm insecure by my attitude. I'm just tired of trying to embody this extremely confident, outspoken, perfect alpha female that is the admired by everyone. How long can I fake confidence before I screw myself over and push a potential high quality man away? I'm also tired of being too quiet and freeze when I have to talk to someone. I hate that I always avoid …
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/20 10:45 AM
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I definitely see where you're coming from. Honestly, I would never trade my modesty and self dignity with male attention, I also have no issue with anyone's choice when it comes to how they dress. I'm not frustrated that I'm not being courted by a guy because I'm still pretty young but, it would be nice to have some attention from men that is appropriate. Maybe if I stop over thinking and fussing about my current situation the right quality guy will come eventually. Thanks for the reply.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/20 10:30 AM
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I think my main issue is being social, I should be more open to people about my interests and learn how to relate to them. I way too immersed in my own bubble, I never let others have the chance to realize we have shared interests and build solid relationships with them. I always felt like I had to be passive and stick to small talk so I wouldn't come off as stupid and be faced with disagreement. Ik it's an irrational way of thinking but adding my struggle with social anxiety, I can't help not c…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/20 10:08 AM
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I do aspire to be as confident and well spoken as many female actresses/ celebrities but, I find it hard to come off as genuine when I try to emulate another person. I also have to be consistent with my "new" character so people wouldn't see my true colors when I'm not having a great day or just get tired of acting like someone else. Thanks for the reply.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/20 08:02 AM
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I absolutely love dresses and shirts that show my collarbones, I think they're my best physical asset. I wonder how I never got any compliment on them, not that it matters to me or anything. Thanks for the reply.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/20 07:55 AM
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I might check that out, Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/20 07:47 AM
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