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GeneralSilverSaan/r/MensRights19/04/24 05:47 PM
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Did I ever say it appeared out of nowhere? Nothing does appear out of nowhere. It's still not entitled to use the organs of the mother without consent. I would say that is exactly like a child, damn. Even a born baby, is not entitled to a organ transplant from one of their parents. Imagine the baby is born and needs a piece of liver, the mother has all the right to reject such given that it is a piece of her body, even if the child will die without it. I'm asking what kind of special rights do a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:51 AM
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Makes me sad is no framework for what is right or not. A fetus is not a baby, it's more akin to a parasite, one is not killing it. However if removing it makes it perish then it's because, like a parasite, it can't live with it's host. Would you say that a parent is obligated to do a organ transplant to their children? I imagine not, and if not then what special rights do a fetus have to use a parent's organ that a grown adult or child doesn't have?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:35 AM
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yes, but you're not asking sex of everyone (At least I hope not) Maybe some women did deny you that. Not fucking society, and not all the women in existance in your society. Being denied by the world, society or government implies entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:11 PM
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I Would like to have a better job, I'm working for it, but at the end I can never have it, should I whine about it? Or "Shove it and go without it" ? You need another people to satisfy your wanting, but that's requires the decision of another person and... well, that has little chance of happening. Sure, try and good luck because it's needed, but learn to be satisfied with less even if not happy. I don't believe sex is a need, love sure, but I get different kinds of love from friends enough to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:25 PM
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sex isn't a right for you to be denied off. I have a donut and I eat it on my own, I'm not denying it to you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:11 PM
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you want to start a family adopt on your own You want companionship then get friends. You don't need to do a "together" for those.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:09 PM
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Women did invent the first english like programming language. And various other contributes to CompSci and math in the modern age
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:59 AM
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I wonder from where people take those arguments when I always see women saying that it's more on a case by case basis I wouldn't date a woman that doesn't work, this doesn't mean that doesn't earn more than minimum wage money, but again that is my preference, and only my preference. Many Women say that they wouldn't date broke, that's their prerrogative So is any other preference So does money matter in dating? Yes, if it matters for your partner/s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 04:34 PM
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This question should probably be "Are more women that proclaim themselves straight hiding that they're bi?" Because "On the other hand regular straight man is definitely 100% heterosexual:" I assure you some aren't thaaat straight
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:11 PM
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https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics/ 1 in 5 is quite a lot for SA
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 11:31 AM
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I'm into feminine men and masculine muscly women, but to be fair I'm down to anyone no matter the presentation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:34 AM
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Lavender Marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:32 AM
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Try focusing on anything else than finding a partner, there's nothing wrong with being "kissless, hugless" whatever. Happiness is not found in relationships only
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:22 AM
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I won't make any other assumptions, only that women tend to deal with loneliness better, and not have loneliness as direct cause of not being in a relationship If you ask men, especially here, they would probably say being in a relationship would fix their loneliness, while for women they would say other things, like having to work, less contact with friends, rarely would a man enter the conversation I Will also say there is no loneliness epidemic, be it for men or women, there is just a lot mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:29 PM
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I think women deal better with singledom than men. And also they aren't as lonely because they have "almost-relationships" with their female peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:04 PM
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I was not counting casual hookups as boyfriend/girlfriend thing. Yes women can easily get hookups and don't need many men for that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 10:23 PM
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there's more women that don't want boyfriends, than men that don't want girlfriends, you can say whatever the reason is for that, I don't care. Many women can get easy sex without a boyfriend, have work, and receive enough to pay rent every month, why would they want to join with another?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 03:06 PM
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almost no women are on dating apps compared to men, ofc there will be a slanted curve
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 10:48 AM
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yes? But you don't have to be dating for that lol Speaking as a bi person that dated men... men are easy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:00 PM
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how do you expect women to answer for men? As for me I'm not happier single, but I'm not unhappy single. If I was single in the future I would not 'look' for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:57 PM
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They are not, but I will do it. Yes, a good relationship is not something inherently good. IF even as good as it is it's inferior to being alone. I Had a girlfriend that helped me a lot, however cost me a lot of time to do the relationship basics, it was a good relationship, but not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:49 PM
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I like having painted nails and I like matcha, I won't read a book at starbucks because starbucks is overpriced but I will read a book while drinking. People in general shouldn't do things for the other gender because masks do fall eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:04 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:03 PM
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She isn't but I do, not all violent man are abusive, most aren't. My ex-boyfriend is the kind that said 'I'll fuck them up' and punch someone different every week. Still a good person for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:44 PM
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More like why they would not prefer to stay single. What I do know is that there are more never-married men than women, by a solid margin. And there are more divorced women, relationships for me it seems that are quite simple, the ones that have them do not really want them. There are more never-married men, and they apparently get sadder than the never married women. Not knowing how good they have it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:50 PM
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If I may be more succint it would be Yes, work is hard Relationships are also hard, sex after all is also a chore for many women, which means with a relationship not only you do chores for 2 people (Even if you share 50% of chores that would be 2+ plates to clean when you clean dishes), even if you do not tidy your living room now you have to clean the bathroom for 2, etc, as you also gain an extra chore you would not do it if you were single So all in all, pretty equal on that. What are the ben…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:02 PM
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And women are still choosing to work, the ones that are, and want to be are the ones asking men why would they do it. Most women are also in relationships, but those women are out of the dating game, the ones men have the opportunity do not want to get with a man, they are fine with working. My own mom works everyday and refuses even a cent from her husband apart from rent (Which is his apartment after all) So again I ask you, why would they, the women not in relationships the women that do want…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:50 AM
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Women have more control over the money of their husbands than men over the share of company's profit spent on workers' wages. Husband's money is still a worker's wage. What she asking is why not cut the middle man?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:03 AM
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Do you view yourselves and other men as "serving corporate overlords" and "being at the mercy of your employers?" No, I like to work and actually I'm working on moving from one 'overlord' to another Do you bitterly seethe about the unfairness of this position? Hell, do you even work for a corporation to begin with? Sometimes, No, startup Or does your job, and/or providing for your family "give you a sense of purpose?" Eh, not purpose, it's survival and greed, it satiates my tiny sin everytime I …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:00 PM
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I don't know anything of any of my great grandparents. Even the one that was alive when I was 16. Lived too far away to have any relationship with them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:53 PM
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? Wait. Do you think I'm a woman? We have tags dude
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:22 PM
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I'm saying what I see. Not what women admit or not. Yes, exactly like that dumb debate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:05 PM
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You live in some kind of fantasy world / Or in a very weird place in America. Because as far as I see most women just don't care about men. They just avoid men, that's it. Sure there are some assholes. But imagine a woman saying "Men raping and abusing women, assassinating them, sexually exploiting them and cheating."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:31 PM
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women not choosing to be with men is exploitation?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:16 AM
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some people killed their children after they were born because they didn't want to have children. It's not something brand new to not want to have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:10 AM
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Desiring is different from doing something about it yes, doesn't change what I said. More men than women desire children, it's for legacy or some weird bullshit like that In fact not even incels Passport bros go out of country to marry Religious men do crazy shit. Pro Natalists are mostly men, some even very rich ones
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:24 AM
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But still more than women. There's questionnaires. And most of them go the same way, 60% of men say they would have children. Less than that of women say they would like children Which makes sense. Pregnancy is hell
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:15 AM
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Actual "Love" meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:59 AM
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And that's why most of them are choosing to be single and having sex with the men they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:57 AM
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Some women like sex, they aren't looking for a relationship so they don't get "hurt", but also why the hell do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:55 AM
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And you think that force only went one way? As my argument says, no. the force went both ways, both women and men didn't want that, and were forced to do it. I never singled out a gender, just said "it's not like men themselves liked that" Now the force doesn't exist, so one can choose to be single and content, maybe not happy, but happiness is not a necessity women remaining single their while lives was always a thing and it's the reason men were pressured into marrying them so that they wouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:51 AM
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Why not? What's the problem with that? Men for eternity have had no issue providing for women so what is women's problem now that the situation is reversed? How can you vilify the manosphere when you are just proving one of it's core tenets? To be fair, it's not like men themselves liked that, marriage was very much a forceful thing, even if just for social pressure. My uncle chose to be single until his 50's and people just thought he was a womanizer or gay, and that was only 1.5 generations ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:12 AM
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Women also can get sex from any other men, if they have their own money why would they not have high standards for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:57 AM
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Brazil, pretty traditional Great Grandmother and Grandfather married for necessity, didn't divorce but he used to say "I only promised until death made us part, after that we won't be together in heaven" Grandmother, married someone she didn't like, grandfather died Paternal Grandmother, divorced with 50/60 year. Mother, christian, traditional, father divorced her. If you ask me to ask my grandmothers I assure you, no one of them were in happy marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:44 AM
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Deadbedrooms has a lot of posts about women complaining about the men that settled from them and yes, they don't like fucking their wives
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:06 AM
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It is a wild take. Some aren't interested in marriage, also many couples separate for lack of sexual compatibility, for example I used to have a low libido, my rate would be sex once a month, my ex girlfriend didn't like that. It's a good thing we didn't get married, but imagine if marrying, that would be a lot of money for an annulment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:53 AM
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that's the median, not an average I find most people a 3 or 4, that's for all people, women, men, etc. I'm not particurlaly high libido and I don't really care for physical so I judge other traits, like fashion, skincare, hygiene, etc. For me the average men and women is less attractive than 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:50 AM
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sex once a week is a normal female libido. At this point you are complaining that women are not men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:11 AM
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a hookup is, by what most define, a meet and fuck, a one night stand, or whatever other sentence you have
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:08 AM
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Freedom will always be more important than permanence. Rather die free(er) and young than old and in chains
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:53 AM
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those women still aren't attracted to men, they are forced to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:48 AM
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Ok, if that's so then a woman can stop doing the rest right? No need to give attention to the kid except food. Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:52 PM
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One can't choose their own partner, it doesn't work like that. It's fine or not fine has no place in dating, you do what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:50 PM
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pleasure for pleasure. Access to each other's bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:43 PM
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the enjoyment of each of the transactioners do not influence on it being a transaction, if I trade a game I don't like for my friend giving me a game he doesn't like but we both like what we'll get it's still a transaction
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:38 PM
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Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:34 PM
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We also have old words for a lot of inexistant and just mental constructs concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:13 PM
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I've had women put out without a second thought. Yes, they wanted to fuck with you, they still got what they want. Still a intentional trade I've helped women without any expectations. For this I don't know, in my opinion you're still earning something, even if it's just because you feel good helping people
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:11 PM
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So do most women, But what the commenter says it's on the context of dating, you're basically arguing two different points > Women don’t need men. (TO DATE) They can create a life without them. (WITHOUT DATING THEM) Not on societal level
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:52 PM
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That's another problem of most red pill men, who says that they are interested in having children? There's loads of children in the system Men simply seem to desire having children more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:02 PM
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According to some, even their capacity at lust is not directed at men mostly <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:58 PM
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Then how would you explain most men still desiring a relationship and women desiring a relationship less and less nowadays? In my view it's mostly about desire, most women have no sexual reaction to men, and they also need society but they don't need to DATE someone as of now, neither do men by the way, the difference is men feel that desire. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:38 PM
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Exactly because men are more horny so they are easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:29 PM
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In HS everyone would be in trouble by saying sexual organs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:46 AM
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I Agree a 100% with your cousin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:18 AM
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Windmill's bait used to be believable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:52 PM
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Would never happen, women aren't just as attracted (Sexually and Physically) to men, with some exceptions. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:21 AM
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pfft, that's a fantasy of the highest degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:35 AM
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you're seeking a dream that just does not exist Either the woman will have a sexuality, which will mean that she will be attracted to more men than you (The same way you're attracted to other women) Or they won't, which means they also won't be attracted to you Both of these can be caste, chastity is a choice, attraction isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:23 PM
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"are simultaneously not that attracted to other men" You know how fucking hard that is? You do have a sexuality right? you are attracted to a lot of other women than your girlfriend, normally. Are you expecting all women to be demisexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:41 AM
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I can't know if they're stronger. But I surely know they're not strong. Nerds that don't go to the gym after all, both the guy and the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:40 AM
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She didn't say that, however I, and female friends, did have relationships with men we didn't find attractive physically. There were other factors in play, Like he played favourite games, or it was just easy d- at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:00 AM
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I didn't find guys or girls attractive until I was 19 (6 years ago) and got my late term puberty. And even then I don't really find people attractive until I talk to them Right now I'm dating 3 people and they're very different. My tastes change from year to year, because, well, mood swings, and that also does wonders to what people I find physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:04 AM
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A month ago I liked pineapple juice, now I can't deal with it, yes, tastes change, even in physical and sexual attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:19 AM
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> traditional masculine expectations for men Feminine expectations for women are less ingrained. Simple answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:32 AM
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yes, but you can't expect women (Or even men) to have your libido, that's why I say that will never exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:16 AM
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Where is the endless, passionate sex men really want Pfft, that will never exist. No matter which person you like, Libido diminishes, mine was very dead for a while (From 20 to 23) and I'm a dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:02 AM
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Which also costs money, do you even get how life goes for us poor people? xD
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:44 AM
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50k a year is 4k a month, take taxes and you can't even pay rent in the places where jobs are
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:47 PM
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No, continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:43 PM
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Straight men also do get annoyed when a guy asks them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:02 AM
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What are you doing putting yourself in that places?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:51 PM
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THEN WHAT DOES IT AFFECT YOU? If they whine to other women, it's just between them. You don't have a spot there to be annoyed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:17 PM
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I think that's the point though. Even if there was no physical evidence (I don't get hard during anal for example) I still orgasm. It's a mental process
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:04 AM
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Women want to be equal, why is it like walking on eggshells?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:35 AM
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Sir, have you never had an orgasm without ejaculation? I mean, I did have different kinds of sex than the average straight dude, but I still know it's possible, yes, the orgasm is a thing of the brain I've ejaculated without orgasming, and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:13 AM
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It's not just rich people, and it is the real market, of course it's also trading cards, but saying that shows that you both Don't understand markets Don't understand TCGs In TCGs some cards are more valuable than others, I myself have a card that is valued 300$ to 350$ (Mox Diamond) Is that because it's made of better paper? No, it's because players value it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:57 PM
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America already is doing that, farms are closing or/and needing donations from the government to survive the tarriff war.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:33 AM
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This image does not really show what you want, especially because as everyone knows that company lost a lot of value after this change. It mostly shows that even without lay-offs women do value politics a lot and will not work for someone like Elon
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:28 AM
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And that's fine, it's fine for women to decide that their standards are more important than a relationship and it's also fine for men. The problem is the complaining that has nothing to do with getting dates but with getting a relationship, sorry but never in history all men got into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:21 AM
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you have to decide if we're in a good or bad economy then, because I mostly see women trying to work themselves up and stop marrying (Not dating, most women I know have boyfriends or girlfriends) until they have a job and are stable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:03 AM
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The problem is you are conflating just doing what you think are accomplishments which makes you happy dating or not, to dating, which has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:00 AM
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Pfft. No. I just got through them. 3/10. Wouldn't recommend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:51 PM
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Most intimacy and romance doesn't add to people's lives, relationship normally end with trauma and being objectively worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:37 PM
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In what way? In 2/4 of my relationships being desired only made it worse. The other was asexual and it was very fine and the last one is the only that feeling desired does not felt like a burden and it felt nice. Basically. No it doesn't. Or at least isn't a certainty that it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:50 PM
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Life is miserable any way Sex doesn't make that better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 05:35 AM
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It doesn't matter what men value. It's what they value. And they value sex. Women can be just horny, get that into your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:52 AM
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Not really. I once like spent only 40€ (For travel) and did get with a friend (woman in this case) just for the curiosity. Banged and never again especially because I was moving countries. I don't drink alcohol, smoke or anything that would make me inebriated
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:48 AM
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I sure did friendzone more than fuck-zoned but that's because I only like to fuck with my best friends or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:22 AM
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Or you just have a strange and wrong vision of women, most of my women friends would sleep with men they found attractive just because they were horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:38 AM
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I'm bi. I was saying my score for women xD Tho you may have understood that and just saying the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:04 AM
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0.0086% (for women)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:34 AM
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His first sentence said he's a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:17 AM
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Ok, TMI but... let's just say the back door is a lot more capable than you think of, vaginal canal is about what, 15 cm? (I would have to look it up, and I'm lazy) And I took toys about ~30 cm (Thats 11 inches)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:48 AM
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I know, answering the dude here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:17 AM
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It can be a dealbreaker, you don't decide what is a dealbreaker for another person
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:21 PM
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You have some good points ngl. But still I think the settler suffers more. He is with someone he doesn't like after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 08:55 PM
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You don't have to do it. There's prostitutes, there is escorts. Whatever. Relationships don't happen to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 12:39 PM
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We really can't know for sure if the other part is settling or not. Settling is not really a bad thing for the partner being settled for, only for the settler so he, in this situation, can be responsible for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 08:37 AM
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It would have to be priority based, does she want a kid more that she wants a partner? If no then yes, she should keep searching for what she really wants If yes, then no, get a man, make a contract for her to get pregnant that protects both parts from government interference (Such as child payments) and allows co-parenting and then get a kid with someone that also wants a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:17 AM
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If you would be doing that thn you could forget about sex, it's such a minor part of life, go on dates but accept that relationships sometimes just don't happen, through no fault of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:04 AM
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Love is tertiary, below a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:28 PM
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I lived alone all my life and barely get out of house except to the gym, I don't look for dates, partners in the past asked me out never lasted too much time, and still I can't relate with the men that do desire sex so much that they get depressed for not having a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:25 PM
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That is the end goal of going on dates, isn't it? For some, yes, some are just there for the date itself or for sex and have no prospects or desire of finding a relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:09 PM
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I'm not talking about we try to fix it, I mean here today and gone tomorrow, no explanation no communication, just gone. That's okay, this is already rejection, without words for sure but still a rejection basically the same than talking and saying 'This is over, bye'
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:03 PM
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No matter how long it takes, sir, if one doesn't want a relationship they are on the right to walk away, and that's good for both partners It seems you're advocating that men with lower EI will stay no matter what, but that's not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:39 PM
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I Don't understand your critique then. If the dude got with a woman early and then ghosted then there was no harm done, it happened, that happens a lot, many men also are ghosted by women after first fuck. I don' see how that is similar to higher EI If those men don't want to stay in that relationship then they are right to walk away, which is good for dating and for women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:48 PM
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> If you are in a relationship with someone like this, there is a finite number of times you can screw up and anything that shows up as a red flag to them - they move on. But that's a positive no? Staying in a relationship one doesn't want to is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:40 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:46 PM
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> women are more open about kinks they are into not what men are into... Yes... that's kinda how a kink works, you have kinks only for yourself, it's a literal matter of sexual taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:09 PM
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Find one example of one man ever, doing this. https://np.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/10tym1u/my_boyfriend_asked_for_a_paternity_test_as_soon/ https://np.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/qw7zo8/updategot_a_paternity_test_and_now_my_wife_might/ https://np.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/sv8n2j/i_37m_got_a_paternity_test_done_and_now_my_wife/ https://np.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/11vf8md/i_will_probably_leave_my_husband_over_him/ Give you three.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:55 PM
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There's no solution though. Or you work on yourself and may not even get a relationship or you don't and may not get a relationship It's. In the end. Very down to luck
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:41 PM
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I never used the word misogynistic, and I didn't say a relationship would happen, it probably never will, that's life, being good doesn't guarantee you good things. What they need to understand is this, search for relationships if you want but don't get hung up on the fact that you won't get them, focus on other things, if you don't get a relationship so be it, there's happiness elsewhere, it's not uncommon, most of men in history did not reproduce, many never dated or had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:12 PM
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Noticed wrong, I myself advocated for this and then ended my relationship. Haven't missed dating for years now. But I would say even in a relationship that relationship wasn't centered for me, never a priority, my priority is myself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:07 PM
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All decentering would do for these men would be to increase their entitlement and resentment of women once they feel they have “focused on themselves” Then that wouldn't be decentering, would be easier if I said They should forget women? Focus on themselves, bike, game, do things you really like. they have a fantasy that a relationship will make their life better. Exactly, because their lifes are centered on having a relationship, it's a fantasy, a UNTRUE fantasy. There's nothing a relationship,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:03 PM
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Centering means to make it a focus. You know, very well, that's not the definition people are working when they say 'Decenter Men/Women' That's the thing Women don't need to have a purpose in their lifes, there's no purpose for a gender in the life of other (Except for reprodution, ofc), one can achieve happiness, and fulfillment on their own. But as they feel they, again, Need women in their lifes the lack of them, and failure in dating puts them down
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:00 PM
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If prioritizing getting a relationship makes it harder to get one then there are most likely things about yourself that are unattractive that you’re not self aware of Again, missing the point, the point is that men do not Need a relationship to be happy, they don't need to have such objective, but they feel they do Because they feel they need female attention Because they feel they need romance Those things are all wants, the urge of sex can be satisfied through prostitution or paid hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:56 PM
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It's not a philosophical term, sweetheart. And it's not on that definition that one argues to 'decenter' women/men. Men are centering women when they feel they 'NEED' women to be fulfilled, It's central to their happiness, just look around at this subreddit, there are men arguing that they would trade all their friends to get into a good romantic relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:54 PM
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Centering means in a way depending of that. (Being a center, like the Sun for example, Earth and other plans depends on it) Many men orbit women, want a relationship, it's a priority they feel unfulfilled without The argument to decenter women is to not put that (Relationships with women) at the center of your objectives, it should go to background if possible and find other ways of fulfillment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:49 PM
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Bro doesn't know what a 'center' is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:44 PM
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Absolutely not a man thing, it's a you thing, I find art beautiful, even more than most women, I just don't wanna fuck a painting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:07 PM
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Don't date people you don't agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 05:57 PM
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I'm always 100% but tbf it's like women and men I already know so they do know to not expect anything more from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:18 AM
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Agreed with OP on all of above, I do lose my libido after a time so I know living with me if one requires more than once or thrice a month sex would be hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:49 PM
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So women can live alone if they so desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:33 AM
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> It's buying a woman's consent So what? So are dates and other ways of courting > And even leaving that aside, it's not real desire or want, it's fake We were talking about men's SEXUAL desire. That one is satisfied by the use of prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:07 PM
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It's trade for goods and services under a capitalistic society. The same way every service is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:09 PM
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why is it wrong to judge someone based on the choices they have made that MAY have a profound impact on them (or may be evidence of some issues they already have) and that may impact your relationship. You're conflating two different things, one is if it's your relationship, in this case, just reject the person, go away, don't date women you don't like, it's simple. The other is shaming and judging, they're not hurting anyone (Maybe themselves, but that's their right), and as such it's their fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:04 PM
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Because they aren't as focused on sex as men. They're focused on resources. To be honest if I could I would do the same. Only having sex sometimes and being somewhat pampered (Even if I had to work) seems like the Life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:10 PM
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If it was like that then they wouldn't be the parent that leaves the most. No fight in court for being the parent. If it was like that more mothers would be the ones that leave
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:47 PM
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Eh, no, you need to be very elastic for that. I tried /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:22 PM
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pfft, learn to cook. Or do you mean a restaurant?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:17 PM
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If you make life a hell for women then you're no better than the Muslim societies you so fear and nothing of value will be lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:10 AM
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Being a mom fucks women up, next
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:46 AM
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But why would women lower their standards? In order for them would be something like dating high value men > being alone / hookups only > dating men they don't like You aren't competing against the high value men, they aren't many, you are competing against her peace of being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:29 AM
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Can't relate. But it's a little gross that you are saying so in public. But I believe you believe in that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:40 PM
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Okay, I ain't, and nobody I know would be against men going their own way and not be easy pickings, do it, if it recompensates you then good on you. Needing sex is stupid, the men that say they need sex the most are the ones that have it less.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:57 PM
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Women are capable of doing it because men are easy as fuck to take some advantage of. Why they do it, maybe because friends influence. I can accept that, but that's not why they are Capable of doing so. Sex is easy, living alone is easy, women can easily have both. Men can only easily have the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:10 PM
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Nop. Believe me some people just don't want children and they shouldn't have had them. And I wouldn't say they're mentally ill. They just regret having had children. It's not for them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:08 PM
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Speak that to my parents and they will say the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:54 PM
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pfft, children can be a miracle for some, for others they're just annoyances.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:14 PM
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So TRP teaches you mostly a lie, at least in most places women do continue to work till 60 years, marriage or not. The rest of what you said: "Never re-marries. Bangs conga-line of young dudes. Prolly in former marital bed.", good for them, getting use of their freedom
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:11 PM
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Money and status are easy to touch, to use and has actually a use in society " loyal, emotionally available and reliable." Is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:49 PM
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which is untrue, the same as it's counterpart.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:19 PM
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What are you expecting? at least 20% of women the same age are not looking for a relationship. About 40% of women will be single and childfree/childless by 40 years according to some. 60% of men is pretty good, that means that the ''problem'' so to say is lack of women that want to have a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:14 PM
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I Think Culture comes more how you interact with the world around than genetics, if a old tribe needed to fight to get water then that would be reflected nowadays in some ways Europeans and their 'discoveries' for example enriched their cuisine, making this be a big part of culture in some places around europe The mix of religions in Brazil is one of the reasons for the extreme Carnivals of it, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:44 AM
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Pfft. If you wanna to be reductionist then all humanity ideas come from beliefs. From where beliefs come? From observing the world around them. Even religious beliefs fall under this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:12 AM
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I Think with dudes with tits he was talking about trans men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:25 AM
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If you put that much of your self worth in a relationship I really do not need you to agree or change your view, but then you shouldn't complain about the other gender. Or say that this is the MOST important thing when you don't even have a comparison if, as you said, they are going their whole lives never experiencing it If you want to hang your whole worth on a relationship, do it, but then you have a very shaky foundation for fulfillment, being fullfiled will never, no matter who you are come…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:56 PM
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Sexually? Well, then I feel for you, all things I said can't be changed or don't have to change. Even with my lack of libido tho I was more romantically incompatible than sexually in past relationships. I like having 'Me' time, and both men and women are so damn clingy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:46 PM
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No, sexual compatibility is about knowing If they/you has kinks that the other part can't or won't satisfy (If those kinks are deal breakers then it is said you are sexually incompatible) If frequency may be too high/ too low for one part to accept. If size of other part may not be enough to one, (That especially for women or men that date men) Those are things you may communicate, and you should, but the end reveal tends to be that you're incompatible with the other
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:38 PM
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Read upon DeadBedrooms, a lot of guys can't give women enough sex (Me, for example I am Low Libido, one time per month is more than enough, I can give more but it will be non-enthusiastic duty sex.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:02 PM
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I was not born this way, one can learn to live without relationships. So no, not irrelevant, just trying to get at least some to see that a relationship is not the end all of all things. I Had relationships, I can say, you lose more than you win
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:58 PM
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Yes, I don't really understand, there are a looot more interesting things than a relationship. A Relationship tends to be time consuming, boring or too overwhelming, I'm fine with friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:51 PM
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I Think that should be a given, people have secrets, no need to discuss. After all discussing this kinda breaks the point of having secrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:10 PM
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Nurture, beliefs, values, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:26 AM
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Culture. May be a bit (very) anedoctal, but I've traveled some and people are veery different even in countries that all speak the same language (Brazil, Portugal, Cabo Verde, Angola) That number isn't to take as a scientific one, just to present that even in dating, people from one country preffered very different things than to the other, I'm borderline asexual, I do like sex but do not feel attraction so I just watched a lot of different pairings. And, for example, my father in Brazil spent s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:00 PM
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> You don't believe that men and women can have biological (on average) predisposition to being attracted to different traits. Generally? Sure, but only if you account for region, because globally? Humans are ~80% Nurture. And no generality can be made except, both, men and women want to get richer, for men this has to be an effort almost always, women have the opportunity to 'marry up' and get rich that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:44 PM
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Doesn't matter, when child takes priority, which it has to and it will. There won't be enough time and affection to do both, take care of yourself and partner
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:40 PM
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They feel threatened by relationships where they are not able to have a place where they can seal off their feelings from the rest of the world: including their partner. That's not problematic, I agree if that is a manipulation tactic, okay. That would be bad. But I as an example do need my time and my own feelings that no one should know, including a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:22 AM
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Raising other dudes' children is a no-go. Then surrougacy, raise a child on your own. Unless it also erases human affection This you can train yourself to do, or just get affection with your own friends instead of the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:17 AM
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Commenter didn't say that, just that as we need (necessities) to focus on kids there isn't enough affection to go around to SO sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:59 PM
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Okay, but how does this answer the comment you did answer to?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:27 PM
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I don't understand what you mean with this, may you expand on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:01 PM
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Yes, and I'm not aromantic, I'm just fine living by myself, if it ever happens then it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:29 PM
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What you claimed was Y'all will be ridiculed for having these subscriptions. "What? Couldn't handle a bio girlfriend? Lmao" This shaming will deter adoption and sales Humanity struggles to accept an emotional connection is possible with non-biological entities. That's a philosophical bridge we are just not ready to cross. It'll require new generations Men claim to be more sexual than women, which means these AIs won't be sufficiently satisfying to meaningfully reduce loneliness And what I'm answ…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:02 AM
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Okay. Let me try to make you get it Yes. Men are already shamed so many of them just don't care about it. They are shamed for not having a relationship so what would be the matter if they had an AI girlfriend. Also since when shame stopped anyone? Men have OF, Fansly etc subscriptions, they are shamed for it. Nobody cares Emotional connection was your point. The thing you don't understand, so I have to draw with crayons for you is that when people lack the real thing a substitution, fake as it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:12 AM
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Yes, that's true, but we get busy, and ofc it's not good to say it but we forget people, I have no object permanency, sadly this also affects people, if not for routines and systems I would probably go no contact accidentaly with too many people I do consider important. Also like others said there is this fear that the conversation will keep ongoing and it turns into 'I could answer this text, but then would this turn into hours long conversation?'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:52 PM
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Okey, I'll rephrase it, if they want a child THAT much, in a society that is monogamous but still keeps women's (And people's) freedoms at large so they can work by themselves and not have to marry, then many won't marry, instead getting a child by other means and being a single mother by choice. If they don't want a child this much then they won't marry Women that do marry nowadays want to get MARRIED, it's part of the objectives, not a safety guard for other objectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:50 PM
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Man, sometimes I don't answer my own mother for a week, she knows I'll only take time to respond on the weekends (Or like now, when I have a day off) we work, and also have other things to do like buying groceries, exercising, gaming and sleeping
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:20 PM
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You did get the point, don't try to deflect The shaming already happens, so it's no matter There's a lack of emotional connection already between people, men and women, of this generation Irrelevant, relationships don't give anyone the right to sex, and sex toys already are a thing. Also it's not about having the perfect cure to loneliness for them, it's about having just enough for them to not feel despair because they can't get a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:14 PM
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Correct, and irrelevant, I do also shame age gaps, but there are a lot more. Even dating an 'ugly', or overweight girl can be reason for shaming. Having a relationship does not guarantee the men (Neither the woman, but irrelevant for now) sex so actually the third part of your argument is absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:26 AM
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Y'all will be ridiculed for having these subscriptions. "What? Couldn't handle a bio girlfriend? Lmao" This shaming will deter adoption and sales Men are already shamed for not having relationships and even FOR having them. Men claim to be more sexual than women, which means these AIs won't be sufficiently satisfying to meaningfully reduce loneliness Sex toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:36 AM
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For a long time we didn't know about that correlation, only with science explaining that the fumes did degenerate the cells we did, so yes Too complex and we had to analyze other factors, today it is on the consensus of the masses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:31 AM
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I was answering in one without state or cultural forcing of women to monogamy. Because if your argument is that then you have to concede what the person you did answer to is right. There's was no kind of opportunity for LVM if not for institutions making that be women's only true option Also no. Hookups violate monogamy if you have a relationship, otherwise it's just sex, not a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:17 AM
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they stay single and just fuck in hookups If they want a child they only need to get pregnant, they don't need other parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:17 PM
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For me No relationship is forever, so it's normal, just normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:09 PM
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Sex != Relationships, yeah, fucking bad boys is good, but dating them is bleh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:56 PM
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That I don't know neither I will ask. I don't know care for the relationships of my friends in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:00 AM
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Most women aren't looking up to get rich or be lawyers or some shit, just to live comfortably and not depend on others. As said, without money you're dead. You can live without a relationship, not without money
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:17 AM
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As most of my friends are about 160, 165cm I know some.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:10 AM
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Exactly, demographics crisis do not move neither men, nor women, people will do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:05 AM
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But I know a lot of women working dead end careers making under 20 dollars an hour into their mid-20s. At a certain point it doesn’t make economic sense and the pressure on the system will eventually cause it to burst. People need to live, if that is making only 20 dollars an hour is still necessary to do it if you want to pay the bills What is your alternative for women that don't want to be married? For the ones that do not want children. For the ones that don't want to depend on a men For the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:03 AM
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There are no good men when it comes to attraction. People do lose attraction for a plethora of reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:58 AM
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It's not so much of a political retribution as it is that they got from this election on the US (Which I really think it's a localized problem) that most men voted for Trump, so they decided to exclude all men, you don't get with someone from opossite political affiliation. Especially sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:49 AM
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Yes I do agree with you, however. The same way I believe men should decenter women, I believe women should decenter men, humans should live on their own unless they decide to join for some reason (Children, finances, house buying, benefits, etc) So I'm fine with women being anti men I'm also fine with men being anti women. As long this anti is not a physical or rights attack on the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:07 PM
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4B meaning no dating, sex, children or marriage with men. You really think this is a healthy mindset? Can't see why it wouldn't be, dating, sex, children and marriage are all options and doesn't make one more healthy or happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:49 PM
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I think we're getting somewhat confused, I do agree with you, and I think Venus_On_Fire90 also does, we're just saying that what OP describes will solve nothing because the men that will leave the dating pool are irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:38 PM
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1 men can have sex with a hundred women, so at least a hundred men would have to leave the dating market to have some kind of impact, women will always easily use men as dildos and as long they're having easy sex they won't care about the number of men leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:15 PM
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This effect is very, very minimal. You can't train a person to be what they are not, imagine if you will someone saying they will make an asexual have sex. A lesbian date a guy, a gay man date a woman. It's the same thing, you can't make someone that takes no pleasure in being a provider to be a provider, that way, as in all cases I said above, leads to resentment only.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:11 PM
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Very wrong take, if he did say what he wanted, a casual relationship, is up to the interested in more part to break it off, especially since in your hypothetical she did consent and did not talk about what she wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:04 PM
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He can hurt her feelings, but he is not at fault, feelings are hurt, that's life. Life is suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:02 PM
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Because some people agreed with it? Because you said 'Make your own games' sso they did it? (And some of those games were sequels to games you did like the prequels) Because the Sims introduced a lot of character customization which allowed to do 'woke' characters? Because the rising of option inevitably leads to the possibility of being 'woke' in game?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:17 AM
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NO ONE Is entitled to a relationship, no one ever was, I don't know why so many guys don't get this, the same way men aren't entitled to one Neither are women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:06 AM
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What has mass hysteria, which is a stress response, and propaganda has to do with anything? Look, I'm not advocating that women are perfect, I'm saying that they vote according to their beliefs, it doesn't matter to me if when those beliefs are challenged or fought against they enter in a collective hysteria (Or movements like 4B), because what does matter to me is just that everyone can act on their beliefs as long as those don't hurt others. (And no, women refusing to lay with men does not hur…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:36 PM
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Every belief is shaped by propaganda, religion is propaganda, so is rights, so is birthright, so is natalism and anti natalism
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:55 PM
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Because demographics in the US is 0.95 men per women While in my country is 1.03 men per women I didn't see votes, but ofc women are the ones that vote more in the US, they're more politically affected. Also american men have a easy solution to that problem, vote more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:52 PM
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I See, US, really the problems of the United States aren't something I care, or something I wonder about and it doesn't enter my argument
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:28 PM
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> unless people stop needing to drive for school, work, food, and events. That is the plan, but this is not the place to talk about this. Watch some channels about it NotJustBikes on youtube for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:26 PM
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Women are the majority of voters where? Also susceptible of propaganda means nothing if they are still voting for what they believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:57 PM
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> Also people are not attacking Women any time they sexualize men and accuse them of being evil misandrists True, then do it more. It's your prerrogative. Of course feminist complaints are complaints like any other, I can accept that there is a governamental push, but in this case you have to complain about the government, not us, we're just advocating against what we don't like. Because we, on the internet, are not receiving money about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:07 AM
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Can you give me some source for this? I've never heard any government giving money to videogame companies (Or their critics) except as bail-outs. In fact most of the complaining is internet based, we aren't receiving money complaining about it, we just don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:18 PM
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You do have some horrible takes. It's manipulative. You can't change the essence of people Just find someone else compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:39 AM
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Funny you should say that. I'm an anti car and urban mobility advocate. Of course you have the right to advocate and demand for cars, but that doesn't stop my right to demand for less of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:21 AM
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If a Video Game depicts Sexualized Women then it is their right to depict those women in that manner. Feminists do not have the right to demand the Games change to stop "muh sexualization" or "muh misogyny" But people have the right to judge you for this negatively and if you don't like it too bad. OP, you get it that it is the same thing right? Games have the right to sexualize women, women have the right to complain, if companies change their games because of it then complain with the companie…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:19 AM
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PFFT F- this is funny
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:06 PM
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thus would be in a relationship with someone they found attractive and they would be happier as a result. A Relationship doesn't make anyone that isn't happy, happy. So I also disagree with this. If anything the complaining changes targets, it would be complaining about their husband or for not getting someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:43 PM
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People won't be changing their attraction triggers, not inorganically and not because society will fall or men are getting lonelier, the same way a gay man can't choose to be straight, women can't choose to get attracted to more men, and men can't choose to get attracted to more women. If it happens it will happen organically, because of trends, and THAT will exclude many men that are not excluded now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:36 PM
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Attraction is not static. It can and does change. Women's attraction has shifted with the advent of social media and dating apps True, but irrelevant, one does not need to change their attraction if they don't want to it needs to be brought back in line. For whom? Who does this benefit? It's part of freedom to be attracted to what you are attracted. It does not need to be brought back in line, most women aren't complaining about their attractions, men are. PS: Ask any average woman if they would…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:25 PM
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Children are irritating, smelling, idiotic and also many women and men just don't like them. (I have a aunt, 60 years, single, no children and she hates them)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:26 AM
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No. You don't want to get with someone you don't have physical attraction to. And if women have attraction to only 1% of men then so be it. Better to stay alone than to lower/drop physical standards
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:24 AM
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Still, all relationships are risky, I did reject friends and would never get with one of my best friends. At most casual sex with them, nothing more. Friendships are worth a lot more to me than relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:11 PM
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In my view doesn't matter if it is organic, it's more risky to lose a friendship than to lose nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:58 PM
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Sure, but if you're making "big breasts" (or height etc) your hill to die on for a relationship, you could be missing out on someone whom you're otherwise attracted to and could be a great and fulfilling partner. Doesn't matter, many of us would only date someone we find attractive, and make some traits 'a hill to die on'.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:17 PM
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Disagree on this, you are essentially changing the terms of a contract, if anything it's better to be careful when you are friends before than when it's a stranger, a stranger you can drop without any loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:08 PM
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You won't do anything, because people aren't complaining about 'Men are X' It's men I find attractive are X, however no one will go for what they find unnatractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:59 PM
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Relationships are never forever. I do love all my exes, I would not get back with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:40 AM
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Good, each one fighting for their rights is something as it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:16 PM
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Yes, many feminists do not like men, but in what way does this affect men? You will not date someone that hates you, will you? But no, it is not hate to decenter men, it wouldn't even be hate even if someone decides to never more date (romantically speaking of course. Sex is free play) men, and that's what most do, there is a vocal minority that talks shit about men, but again, who cares for them? Men will not date people that hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:57 AM
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The problems they do point are the patriarchy. Like I said, for example women have more work when they take care of children compared to men Women are less likely to be promoted. Women are less likely to be considered for some jobs based on the possibility of them getting pregnant What feminism does is pointing this out and give the easy solution, do not date, sex is easy, focus on your career, don't get pregnant if you're not ready for those possibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:50 AM
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And still have problems that they can point out. People make movements trying to turn their life into better If men don't do the same don't blame feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:46 AM
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No it isn't. If you use it like this, then yes. At a government level and law it is gone. However like people said, feminists use it to describe systems where men have more power (families for example) and opportunities (Men are more likely to be promoted when they have children. Women are less likely to be promoted when they have children) Feminism points this and gives the solution to not have children or marry if you want to focus on your career.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:40 AM
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That doesn't translate because most relationships have risks and can be harmful More like in each of your choices there is a 50% chance of the wallets being venomous, choosing None is still a valid option
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:09 PM
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Being alone tends to be better than to not find success in dating as 'settling' tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:07 PM
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>The notion that there are other modes of happiness besides a relationship? Sure. But do they even compare? Yes, they do, in fact they're better. People are a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:24 AM
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What is a legacy that you can't build with work, or writing a book, or something. Even children are easy to get nowadays, if you don't like adoption, which is fair, get a surrougate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:24 PM
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That is poetically true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:02 PM
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However it is, you're assuming a lot to begin with: 'Women dress provocatively to attract attention.' Some people just like clothes, date people who dress the way you like, don't try to change people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:35 PM
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Man, I will be honest many talking points of the red pill I can even agree but like... Who cares Women only go for the top 1%? Who cares, it's their right to choose who to date That's why I laugh at the red pill, not really a censoring.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:32 PM
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That's fair enough, but you do have a say about staying or not. If cheated one person has the right to leave If left on a dead bed and they don't want that they also have the right to leave Damn, they have a right to leave for any reason, I left relationships just because I was tired of having to see the same person every week Cheating is still a cowardly way out. It's not about sleeping with other person, it's about the secrecy, honesty is one of the few things every human is entitled to. (As l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:21 PM
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No one is entitled to another one's body, you are though entitled to what you do with your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:13 PM
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Yeah. Because people have the right to judge. But neither is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:10 PM
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Enter the BDSM scene and you see them, actually one woman told me 'Only gay dudes like big dicks'. Of course that was her opinion, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:04 AM
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Love was always overrated and hypergamy always existed, women only married because it was the best deal for them, now it's not anymore and who can blame them? If they want sex they can get it easily, if they want support they also have friends, if they want money they can work, and if they want peace they would never get with someone else, any other people taking 70% of your time is too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:00 AM
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Idk if it is my country (Brazil) but it was always a exchange of gifts, in fact according to my friend for him (Not for the general populace) he feels Valentine's is to romantic things (Without sex) while Lover's day (12 June) can have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:11 PM
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Yes, that being said is not like I want toxic relationships but that stable and static relationships don't work for me. But some healthy relationships are suffocatingly boring, I Don't have in me the patience to be with one person for a entire month, I need some time alone, per month to just go crazy, alone, without really remembering I have a responsability to a parter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:40 AM
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Not if you have many fwb and do not let yourself grow attached. But like I said, this is anedoctal, my aunt decided to never date or get married and is ~60 (Tapped the wrong key) now, still like this and fine, I can't talk about majority women because I follow a more unnatached way of dating, like 'Do what you want and I'll do mine' so of course the women I sometimes date are like I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:58 PM
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Everyone complains, but more woman are abandoning the dating market and having FWB situations instead of relationships by choice after being unable to secure 'high value males'. The thing about settling seems very untrue, anedctotally speaking ofc. While that happens men's complaints about the dating scene are more and more, I know it is harder for a straight man to get sex, but even among the ones that can get it, paying, or in FWB situations, complain a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:49 PM
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Globalization 'amplifies' (More like reveals) female hypergamy just as much, most women aren't at a status higher than the average man, many, if not most are lower, also more and more women are single with a good part being fine with it, that or complaints of women about dating are less and less while men's complaints are more and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:47 PM
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This, thank you. I don't understand why so many people codemn women wanting the perfect guy or nothing, all of them, and me ofc, have some things we wouldn't want to open hands off. For me it is a simple as having a low libido, and being fine with leaving me alone for some times, like a week or so per month. Difficult requirements in a relationship, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:41 PM
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In my country you don't need to register to vote, no matter if you're a dude or a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:34 PM
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Okay, I don't even know where to begin with that. Feminism insists that men and women should be treated the same not merely equally. Not really, more right to say is that they should have the possibility of being treated the same, based of course on their accomplishments, it's more a: 'Women should have the right to work the same jobs as a man, and to have control of their financial means' 'If they want to be single they should be able to' young men started to wonder why if women insist on the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 06:18 PM
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Marriages always were illogical, why should the government have any protections for a relationship? This isn't new.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:40 PM
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> What if these guys want love That would be another thing, not in any way related to hookups > Or at the very least sex with someone who also wants it Money is still a way, it changes the why they want it, but not that they want it, no, sex work isn't wrong, you're on your rights to think of it as gross to yourself tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:11 PM
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Then my problem, if I accept your theory, is that I dated receptive girls but I'm not forward as I just don't like sex. Will visit this later.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:00 PM
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https://www.morganstanley.com/ideas/womens-impact-on-the-economy "It’s estimated that 45% of women ages 25–44 will be single by 2030"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:47 AM
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A Life of celibacy is normal, in fact for many it is wanted, not only as a way to ascension or being ascetic but some people dislike sex and that isn't a need for them. That doesn't make them not have the entire human experience, sex is a bonus, not necessary for it, so not a need
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:34 AM
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Agreed, though, how the genders talk do not reveal that, my friend group is mostly girls/women, rarely if ever they talk about pretty/attractive guys, it's always more life things like bills, how driving sucks, how job sucks, etc. Even the married one shies aways if sex enters the talk. As for guys I and my friend are an oddity, I talk about girls and guys I date or 'stay with' as like I'm talking about getting Ice cream, rare thing, but good enough to commentate like "Oh yeah, they're nice", no…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:54 AM
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Imagine so that you're not dating but still Original Commenter commentary applies, she finds you attractive, but still takes months to be in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:34 AM
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what two types? It's just one type, people that don't feel much lust. You could say that they should find each other sure, but the question is how, is not like you always ask 'So, how's your libido' during first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:24 AM
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Some people just dislike sex at all, dude, it's not really a secret, as a dude I've never felt lust for any of my partners, be them female (1) or male(2)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:06 PM
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That's fair, and it's a good objective to have, even if only for the validation you get when appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:47 PM
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I said many, not most, you will never have a strategy that will affect most people. No matter what dating strategy you will take it will affect at most less than half of the gender you desire. If you wanna have sex the fastest way is money and prostitutes though (Or money and bars, money and nightclubs, money and... well, money is the fastest way)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:36 PM
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Sure, just remember that this is me, many people will only be sexually attracted if romantically attracted first And many will lose sexual attraction if they get romantically attracted, humans are not the same way for us to understand in a social way. Even the woman who will sleep with someone who has money and good looks do not account for more than 40% in a country And in my case is different, you can be anything, I would sleep with a fascist if they just asked, I'm just not into romance with …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:30 PM
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People aren't monoliths and you and anyone else will be incompatible with 90% + of the people you date. I for one have such 'standards' that in my case it would be 99% incompatible people. And I dated men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:23 PM
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You're not making sense Yes, all humans are flawed, I have a list of characteristics that I would never date in people and some of them are borderline shallow, that's fine. But the point of this one was saying that if you put out your money then the people that you will atract is because you do have money. Not a "Both genders are...", this has little to do with gender to be honest. Like OC said it's how "HE feels about her being attracted to him because he’s handsome." that's important. If you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:05 PM
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Dude, if a woman were in you by your appearance you would probably feel desired If she was into you for your money you could feel it or feel used The problem is that guys here complain about gold seekers when they are putting up bait for gold seekers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:50 PM
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How is it a double standard? You have your opinion of women, women can have opinion of men, most women don't date women for them to judge other women dating strategies, and some women do like men lists of specifications. What one can say it's their opinion, and only that, is not like dating strategies are a monolith, they will fail for some and work on some You can't expect that doing or changing a single thing will attract more women, it will just change the kind of women you do attract
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:46 PM
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That applies to women if the men that are looking into it find that it applies That's my answer, the woman does decide what she finds to be "asshole" in the men she is screening Men do decide what they find to be "asshole" in the women he is screening It's opinion based, not fact based
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:34 PM
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Omg... Am I a woman? I did not contact any of my friends for months. No, you simply did not test your theory enough, you do not need to be always talking to have a friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:56 PM
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It's mentally exhaustive, not really about being hard or something, children in general are mentally exhaustive, smelly, tiring, noisy, and demand constant attention and sometimes people need alone time, while in work alone time is easy to get, smoke breaks, lunch hour, or just working on your own part of a project and be unaivable to anyone that is not your superior Also leading, specially leading a child is more exhausting than obeying Edit PS: If I had a child, which I don't plan to, I would …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:53 PM
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Exactly why I said don't get married. You can have everything else out of a marriage. No one is obligated to do it, men who want to get married also cry out when the woman (In their lives) doesn't want to, and the answer is still the same, no one is obligated to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:54 AM
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Lol, that sounds like me (Except for the smoking hot part), body fluids is kinda of a big thing and though I can handle them I guess I still do show off that I'm uncomfortable with them. On text is easy to interact, you can think your words, and no one would be none of the wise you took a while to think in what to answer, but irl I probably appear as the bottom equivalent of a pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:58 AM
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I Never really saw a "Women are wonderful" belief in my circles. My mom and dad both always told me that I should never get married, marriage takes off your chances in life and women and men in general are both oportunistic and only care about money / sex respectively I think it's good that this belief goes away, humans are flawed, we have to live as the flawed beings we are. Edit: Though I see wrong in trying to change that, no woman is obligated to stay with someone that they find unatractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:45 AM
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Since forever. I'm attracted to femine and women, in a way that is purely aesthetic, I did date women I was interested in that way but not sexually. I'm sexually into having fun with men, but not that interested romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:56 AM
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That's for men to decide no? Women can decide what they find assholey in the opposite/target gender and you do decide what you find assholey in your target gender
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:52 AM
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I did completely forgot that some do desire to have kids. My bad I do agree with you that a lot of women are like you say, I'm like that sometimes and I'm a guy. Is not that Rich people are more attractive but that they can show you material gifts which are attractive. But to be honest I've always saw marrying as a unnecessary thing so I guess my better advice would be do not marry and in no case have children. I just want to address that in courtship, dating and relationships that not marriage …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:15 AM
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Marrying is different only in taxes. You can have everything else in a bf/gf relationship including living together and having children, you won't enjoy legal protections and the tax cuts that's all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:55 AM
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That's okay, I like the usage of 'I' in this sentence, keep it up As for me they don't provide me anything I see as a path to sex, in fact they were one of the reasons I ended my relationship as she, my ex, was taking too much time out of my hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 07:17 PM
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Speak for yourself, not for men, not for me I play warhammer 40K, that's a hobby that actively turns women/partners away, but I still appreciate doing it. It easily costs me around 800 dollars a year, which is 1/12 of my yearly salary, and I still appreciate playing it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 07:11 PM
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If sex is the only thing you care, maybe try getting a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 07:04 PM
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I mean, I think that's pretty normal. Romantic Interest and Sexual Interest are separate things, I did date before people which I had zero sexual interest, and they were non-sexual relationships for the short time they did last.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:37 PM
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May you explain? For sexual people wouldn't having some be infinetely better than having none? Why would some letdowns be frustating if you're still 'winning' so to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:27 PM
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Don't marry poor women who can try to get this kind of settlement and don't marry someone who wants to be a housewife (Because that's what the courts will look at, you're paying for her time off- work market)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:00 PM
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But as I see it many people did not even have a romantic companionship and still desire it, basically missing what they never had. I Really don't get it, that's the point.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 02:00 PM
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You can get companionship in friends, still not directly corelated to a romantic relationship
/r/MensRights07/06/24 11:55 AM
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Because as they earn more they, like you said, don't need men. It is the same for men too, as you earn more you don't feel like you need a partner, you can get sex paying for it so why would you. In resume: Women work because they don't wanna get married, men work because they want to get married.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 01:55 PM
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I got banned just from offmychest by posting here I think. Reddit is wild.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 08:20 AM
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I do not see how it could be bad. It's a philosophy that more explains than says what you should do Marxs never explained socialism/communism, only how he saw capitalism. If anything Marxism makes me think of coops instead of corporations, and only that, sindicalism is where I fall on the socialist spectrum
/r/MensRights20/04/24 07:57 AM
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Sorry, what is blue collar? I agree with your antepenultimate paragraph, I don't like the existence of a draft, for me any country that can not get your own citizens, men or women to fight on their will is a country that does not deserve to exist. Male genital mutilation seems more of a religious thing where I live and I don't wanna thread on it, the other things I do agree. Most women I do know personally worked on factories because they are accessible jobs always recruiting. However I don't se…
/r/MensRights20/04/24 07:31 AM
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Not aromantic, but even then. If it's sex you do want sex is easy to get, like you said, I am asexual but even I was proposed/offered it. And if not there is paying for it But even then I would argue that is not a need
/r/MensRights20/04/24 07:14 AM
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Fair enough. Not exactly what I am confusing with, it's more about some, ofc not all, complaining that many women only date a small subset of men. That's problematic at a societal level, but at an individual level I can't see the problem. I don't think any generalisation is fine, I'm even against generalisations which are "truer" like "all men like sex" which in my case it's a no. Thanks for the answer
/r/MensRights20/04/24 06:59 AM
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I guess I don't understand the basic of wanting to be in a relationship. I understand a bit after reading the comments, but I can't relate. It's very strange to me how someone would want to be a provider but well, for each their own. Thanks for the answer
/r/MensRights20/04/24 06:51 AM
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It was in service for the family of a friend. Still I do define myself as a worker, not for free all the time of course not, but I do prefer to be working than to not working and I am willing to take some less paying jobs as long as it is something I like to do
/r/MensRights19/04/24 06:59 PM
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People will tell you "you're not a man" for any shit you do. But in that I agree with the feminists, fuck gender roles, do what you want, be a human first.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 06:40 PM
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I have no doubts that my experience molded me in some way, but I was never rich, I got some privileges of having my uncle and aunt church (Evangelical) to sleep in and such, having two big families. But most marxists I do know don't earn even close to what we consider a rich's salary (Well, the truly rich don't even are salaried, but you understood)
/r/MensRights19/04/24 06:22 PM
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I Don't disagree that they are wanted for most of the population, but I can't really see the need of it. You don't get mental health problems for a lack of it, you don't die for the lack of it. Edit: If anything not having one frees a lot of time.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 06:06 PM
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No, I am a software developer (edit: that is recent, 1 year ago only) and I was born from a low-middle class family in Brazil, but when I worked for free it was between my 17's and 18's. I worked picking apple trees and olives.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 06:03 PM
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I feel very fulfilled while working, sure I do have my hobbies and ways to destress, but If I could never work and still keep my life as is I wouldn't take it. I Think it's about the sense of doing something.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 05:49 PM
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And the reason for my comment was: The fact that I want to work is exactly because I see myself as a marxist, I would have no value of life if I wasn't a worker.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 05:23 PM
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Okay, fair enough, but I want to work exactly because I am a Marxist, my value of life is defined by being a worker Edit: Not by being a provider, that is secondary, I would never provide not even for my family, being a worker.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 05:15 PM
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I Don't know what was chosen, I only know that even during their marriage they had split assets, some things were in the name (And billed to) my mother, and others to my dad. Edit: Country was Brazil
/r/MensRights19/04/24 05:14 PM
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Okay, I am speaking specifically about Romantic relationships. Of course we as humans need socializing, that's not even in question. I Can't say how "being in relationship with man for women is" because I'm not a woman. It's not cope to feel good about exploiting others, it's how the world works, nowadays theres is one thing everyone needs, a job, that is the priority, getting romantic is overrated.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 05:06 PM
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I'm a dude... but okay?
/r/MensRights19/04/24 05:02 PM
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Many of those countries aren't as stupid as the U.S.A though, and they allow for marriage with separation of assets, my mom never owed anything to my father or vice versa (My mother was the main earner), their divorce was only signing a paper and paying to the government, that's it.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 02:12 PM
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Nobody needs anyone else (As a partner). You may disagree or agree with that, but nowadays it is the truth, the only reason to cojoin a relationship is emotional, not a need
/r/MensRights19/04/24 02:10 PM
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I Want to work, in fact I worked for free for a year, 8 hours a day 4 days a week. Do not generalize
/r/MensRights19/04/24 02:08 PM
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