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250	The "patriarchy" didn't teach men to hide their feelings. Life did.	Debate	SilverSpaceRobot10	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 07:22 PM

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1	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 A few months ago I went to a female psychotherapist, mainly to talk about the fact that I was a virgin incel (I'm not a virgin anymore, I went to a brothel since then. I'm still an incel). She was very understanding about it. One interesting thing was: the generational gap seemed to be a bigger barrier to understanding than the sex gap. She's in her 30s, I'm 24. I often described to her my failed approaches and cases where women got annoyed at me or (seemingly) scared. She didn't get it. By her …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 08:41 PM
6	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Or... you can grow old gracefully	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 08:30 PM
6	The "patriarchy" didn't teach men to hide their feelings. Life did. Crying solves nothing I mean... it doesn't... I've noticed that solving problems or getting over them feels better that moping. So I choose to solve my problems or get over them quick if I can't. To me that feels like the reasonable utilitarian decision, not a norm that I adopted from society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 08:09 PM
8	The "patriarchy" didn't teach men to hide their feelings. Life did. Isn't the whole patriarchy story that I hide my emotions because I want to larp as batman? Patriarchy the way you describe it seems to be some kind of eldritch entity that permeates all of existence and likes to make everything shitty and which men can somewhat control with their monobrain. If a tornado wrecks my house and I try to be stoic about rebuilding it is that patriarchy too? Or is it me dealing with life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 07:51 PM
7	The "patriarchy" didn't teach men to hide their feelings. Life did. I tend to agree. Personally, I haven't cried since primary school and I have been pretty inexpressive since then. I'm used to it. I don't think I'll do a 180 now. But even for men who do want to show emotions that's something that needs to be earned, not demanded. You can be comfortable showing emotions to some people but not others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 07:46 PM
10	Feminists complaining about issues like women being objectified, or approached by men is always the most frustrating thing ever, due to their cognitive dissonance in their expectations for men in society. Relatable. I always alternate between "put yourself out there loser" and "stop creeping women out and go home"	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/26 05:41 AM
1	Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates It But society cannot function without things getting fixed, driven, cooked, etc. This is work, yet we do not recognize nor compensate it as a society. It's not about doing something in a loving relationship, I'd do all these things too, but if society wishes to operate, it needs to compensate it appropriately or you get what you have today. The implication here is that society should consider the default human state to be comatose and doing absolutely nothing, and considering anything beyond that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 11:55 AM
4	The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the Selectors Your boss.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 10:37 AM
12	The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the Selectors Well, it was most likely you. That's all OP is saying. You and your boss 'chose each other' too but it was probably you doing the seeking and him doing the rating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 10:30 AM
1	Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates It There are many things wrong with the image you are painting. If men can do all that 'social reproduction' themselves then clearly it's not the leverage you think it is. Also, what about all the chores that men typically do for a house? All the home repairs, all the driving (at least in my family, my mother couldn't drive), the night outs, and basically everything having to do with intimacy (since you seem to classify it as work when women do it). Can't these be considered social reproduction? Pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 10:25 AM
17	The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the Selectors Who got rejected the most before that point though?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 08:56 AM
2	Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates It One asymmetry between genders that no one talks about when it comes to ambition and incentives: The money incentive exists equally for both genders but in men it's much stronger because it's closely tied to their desirability. For women this is not the case since us men will partner with a homeless girl if we find her sufficiently attractive. When you are a guy though, money is about as important as looks. This is why there's still more men in entrepreneurship and high positions. Because the ris…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 08:54 AM
1	Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates It However, built into a man's ability to do work is a whole is something called social reproduction, which is all of the labor which allows work to happen (think your typical cooking, cleaning, emotional support, respect, maybe sex, grocery shopping, child-rearing) or put another way, all the things women traditionally did prior to a certain wave of feminism. All the things that have to get done in order for a man to go to work and be able to stay at work and endure work and then come home and sur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 08:46 AM
–	Romance is dying because men and women know too much about each other. There's really no "men's view of women" or "women's view of men". What you see on social media is the opinions of a select few people. The ones who are in happy relationships don't feel the need to make sweeping statements about about how much they love/hate the other sex. They are too busy loving their partner in particular. But you know who does want to make such statements? Incels, femcels and the recently divorced/broken-up/cheated on. I.e. the people who are undergoing emotional turmoil and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 06:01 AM
–	Romance is dying because men and women know too much about each other. You cannot individualize romance like that. Romance is inherently social. The general attitudes of an era can and will influence your romantic experiences. You can't be a romantic in a world of cynics. You can't be a passionate lover in a hookup culture. Sure, there are a select few who are classic romantics but that doesn't change the fact that your sanity will be best served if you follow suit and become a cynic yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 05:48 AM