SilvertonMtnFan Archive

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6	Some observations on 50/50 after 1 year. A little over one year separated, 8 months officially divorced. My time with my 2 kids (8m and 6f) has never been better. Having to pay child support is by far the most bitter pill to swallow. I can appreciate there are deadbeats of different varieties who need to be compelled to pay and contribute to an ex that would struggle on their own. But that is absolutely not our situation. I have my kids 50%+ of the time, I do all the custodial parent duties, am super involved, contribute more than my s…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/09/22 04:16 AM
1	Resources for co-parenting with a BPD ex I am also dealing with an EW that has uncontrollable BPD, alcoholism and SSRI abuse. 2 small children and I wasn't able to get full custody so I still have to deal with her far too often. People with BPD love drama and attention, so one of the best punishments is to starve them of those things. I hang up at the first screaming phone call and she only gets one more chance that day to shape the fuck up before I stop answering. She struggles to have the patience for the children so I often get extr…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/09/22 01:46 AM
9	As a man you will live and die alone Men are not meant to be loved, we are meant to be used. Sad, but true words. The game is rigged to abuse us.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/09/22 01:09 AM