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You have put it very nicely. I agree with your example cause I come from a highly monogamous asian society. And yeh we can expect the norm to shift, though then I kinda feel bad for women who experience slut shaming now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:46 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:43 PM
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I hope I am overestimating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:43 PM
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Yup exactly what I was talking about. Every women is a 10 , then why the hell are you rating. They don't understand It's cause you have made a subjective scale that ranks person. And most probably reason for it The hardcore struggle of actual feminism have made new gen of women think that they are entitled to everything, world revolves around them. Nowadays every bitch is just plucking the fruits from trees sown by actual working women .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:29 PM
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I think social media just made men more aware of those dynamics or of how much attention women can get. Now earlier you have to act on it at the very moment With social media you can stack it up for weeks and finally reply. The power is in your hands even more. And I am not saying it's a bad thing. It's just that as man we might be the first generation experiencing what previous generation women's experienced ( insecurity or however you'd label it) and add that men still want women so it's doubl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:25 PM
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So you know how on internet there's a word Hoeflation which means hoe inflation, idea is that men today has to work more for women with less perceived value ( i mentioned perceived cause , men still like women but we don't like the slutty things that has been normalised, women call it sexual liberation, I am no judge of right or wrong I am just telling you) Now after inflation, recession comes So WhoRecession is the idea that since majority men don't like girls with hoe past and women don't like…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:17 PM
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we live in a very sick culture in which most people have poor parenting and care during their childhoods I wouldn't call it sick But yeh what we were taught isn't the casethe changes are very fast and keeping up with them it just hectic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:13 PM
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I am on team you xD
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:36 PM
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I couldn't find it , Maybe you could provide me with that data
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:28 PM
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Yeah and when you do hard things and they turn out to be unworthy. One can feel pissed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:26 PM
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No social media does not attract "better opportunities." Tell that to 21 yo of model who flies to cities on other expenses like it's a subway train. I have been manager for an of model, I know how this shit works. People have been cheating before social media. It's not new. The scale of cheating is crazy high though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:24 PM
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Why are you pretending this is an easy question to answer? I don't think any answer is easy on this sub . They're not faking it, though. They just take a while to fully detach and don't breakup until they're at least most of the way there. In order to start detachment process you need to arrive at a decision of detaching. Please break up on that moment Add in a strong pre-existing emotional attachment and significant life entanglements and here you are debating whether you're going to put yourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:23 PM
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Women don't need social media to tell them they're hot. But it provides them means to attract more , move on faster and better opportunities. You are hot you get attention from 100 guys in the place you are , you are hot on social media and you get attention from 1000 guys plus the attention from 100 guys in the area. Relationships are the same as they always were. Instead of atrack tapes we have SoundCloud. Nah peoplehhave a tendencyto cheat more or atleast have means to do it or get caught Hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:17 PM
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They don’t want to go through the whole courting process again, it’s so much harder for men. Be a lesbian/man for few days you'll know how it is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:10 PM
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Enlighten me with yours
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:09 PM
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I'll be honest and bit off topic. In real world , I'd see this more intensely. I see 20-80 ratio of hookups (thanks to someone who said pareto principle) I can't digest the fact that's it's so imbalance. Maybe I am forcing that lens to see the world . As soon as find a way to clear thoughts, I'd might be at peace
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:08 PM
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I can play that card of "Maybe women don't know how to communicate"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:04 PM
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If words don't hurt , the world would be at peace majority
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:03 PM
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Thanks . Tbh if I were a woman I'd be defending that hooks ups are fine so yeh I kinda get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:02 PM
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I knew I was hot before social media. I received attention before social media. I knew that I didn't have to settle for what was immediately around me before social media. You might have recieved that attention but not at this scale If you are actually as hot as you say then you'd have a queue of requests and attachment at your hand , you don't need to dress up and get out . All you have to do is Open the pending requests and reply to them, post a pic from time you were looking good. And get imm…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:59 PM
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I appreciate your optimism. Maybe I am too pessimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:50 PM
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Leave the relationship physically when you leave it mentally. Men don't get another relationship as easy and fast as women gets them . ( If you disagree with this then pardon me for next lines) We have to restart the whole cycle of approaching, getting rejected, approaching etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:49 PM
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Haha that'd be good but i thought recession comes after inflation so it'd be better
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:45 PM
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I said this in reference to Men don't pay attention to women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:44 PM
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As much as I agree with you I would like to mention that fb Launched to connect the social circles And with time the content got soo large and small format. Digital porn existed way before Facebook. The point is that Facebook days didn't bitter the relationships like social media is doing today.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:41 PM
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Yeh faking an emotional attachment to a person you no longer feel for and are planning to dump isn't an evil thing to do. If men think like that you'd all be screaming manipulation and what not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:38 PM
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Very few men have benefited from hook culture and I am assuming majority of men don't want women with hoe past. So if most women are being hoe and most men don't want hoes. We are bringing the stalemate situation. That's what I am saying it's gonna be wild. We'll see far less number if families.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:34 PM
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Cause beauty is the best seducer, it's in abundant and you still want it. The marketing for pussy is just damm good
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:30 PM
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Let me make that comment on your daughter/sister /wife/ mother while scratching my balls and i bet you'll run to kill me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:27 PM
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1- I am a man 2- I genuinely believe that leaving the house we men have only risk of death at any time but women gave that and being sexually harrassed. 3- men haven't benefited from hookup culture cause of hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:24 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:19 PM
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Accountability is kryptonite for some women..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:16 PM
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Honestly that's just pure evil thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:15 PM
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What is guy equivalent of doing sexy stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:58 PM
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And partners should help them analysing the decision
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:48 PM
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You aren't still asking for consent All you are doing is initialising and hoping , he'll play along Or maybe I am missing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:47 PM
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Now i got it , consent is binary , either 0 or 1 , nothing in between Is this what you are trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:45 PM
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I would like you to compare this situation somewhat to seducing, getting partner in mood if you could.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:43 PM
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I AM TRYING TO HAVE A CONVERSION AROUND THIS, I HAVE NOTHING IN FAVOUR OF THIS I have heard/seen these kinda things happen Majority of the time couples are happy cause the girl don't get hoe shamed. Sometimes boys get called put rapist ( very rare) And then their life is ruined ( they deserve it though) My amazement is that people's opinion here isn't matching the actions in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:41 PM
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But they aren't synonyms, very different meanings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:32 PM
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Now this is a good advice. Just fucking back off and don't think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:30 PM
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I was reffered to that muddying part
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:29 PM
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Sure as long as you aren't giving the decision a fluid space.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:28 PM
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In real life, if someone says no, you take them at their word and back the fuck off. Real
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:22 PM
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Nope , All one is saying is that maybe she has the authority to question what she has been told to follow blindly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:21 PM
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And persuasion, convincing, showing new perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:19 PM
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Your way of explaining is extraordinary, You put your points extremely well , especially the first paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:17 PM
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Yes I have realised my mistake of choosing the wrong word.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:15 PM
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Can you explain it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:12 PM
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You are looking in terms of red light green light, I am talking in terms of negotiation. Let's say right in the middle of sex for 5 seconds I don't give consent but before and after those 5 seconds there's consent, do you still think its rapey?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:11 PM
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That's the whole point she ISN'T saying no , her restrictions are other social structures
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:07 PM
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So nothing rapey about liberating someone from mysogynistic rituals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:06 PM
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You very conveniently ignored the part where women also want to do it and if the story was other way around I can bet you'd say that religion was being mysogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:04 PM
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One guy mentioned the term persuasion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:02 PM
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Thanks persuading was the word
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:00 PM
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I don't think we are limited to us laws on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:59 PM
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Picture this :- You follow xyz religion cause your parents follow it and from childhood they taught you that religion only which says don't have sex without marriage. Now you are almost adult and wants to have sex with some guy. Your restriction is what you have been taught, now the guy says there's nothing wrong with following your desires, Still sounds rape lite???? Ps: you guys jump to a negative conclusion very fast
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:58 PM
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Picture this :- You follow xyz religion cause your parents follow it and from childhood they taught you that religion only which says don't have sex without marriage. Now you are almost adult and wants to have sex with some guy. Your restriction is what you have been taught, now the guy says there's nothing wrong with following your desires, Still sounds rapey????
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:57 PM
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Implication isn't owed so the first guy in this clip is a**hole. Also he's assuming she will not say no. ( Which is wrong on so many levels) What I wanted to discuss is the fact where you rationalise someones thought process and have consent
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:53 PM
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Thanks, Could you help me rephrase the post ? I want to convey that one party WANTS to do certain activity and other party is convincing them that what the first party desires isn't wrong .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:48 PM
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It could be possible that my choice of words seems negative. I would like to clarify that the girl "wants" to do it but other restrictions are making her doubtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:47 PM
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Coercion is the act or process of persuading someone forcefully to do something that they do not want to do. So No. I am referring to something on the boundaries of convincing someone that what they are doing isn't wrong and they shouldn't restrict their desires. The convincing person may benifit but the convinced is also benefited
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:41 PM
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Just went through your profile and I think you have perfectly hedged your advantages. For every field . Must be great for you. Except for onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:15 AM
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Cause either I am gonna help you cause you hot or I am gonna help you cause I sympathise with your below avg looks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:13 AM
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It backfires sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:35 AM
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As a man I can safely say , looks won't matter that much for these scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:35 AM
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Doesn't mean you take unfair advantage, you simply agree on a great deal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:16 PM
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that i "promised" Just advice , take it or leave it . Once in a while show them their real fukin face , even if that makes you the rude guy in picture
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:14 PM
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Okay, I got that you need to keep up with tightly stretched hair , pencil skirt or pant suit. However my question was whether you have ever taken UNFAIR advantage of your femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:13 PM
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All i got it you dress up for the men otherwise you'll be punished?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:53 PM
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Now you are just pulling my leg
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:34 PM
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Do you feel it's worth it , after pros and cons
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:29 PM
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Respect Utmost respect for you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:26 PM
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What was the best and worst thing about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:10 PM
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Understood
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:09 PM
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Still couldn't get it , can anyone explain it clearly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:06 PM
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Flirting for drinks counts , but that's a premium men are mostly okay to pay. Coworkers have hit on me before, I just hope it doesn't stop your promotion ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:05 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:03 PM
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That's not taking advantage that's literally a service you provided , fair deal. I think you misinterpreted my question. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:03 PM
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I am really curious how your boyfriend thinks of you being a stripper. Does he act like barney from himym lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:01 PM
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Bad deal, even a prostitute take straight up cash for unwanted dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:00 PM
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I don't know if you seriously meant it that's why for safer side i put /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:38 PM
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What was the best and worst thing about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:37 PM
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So what was the best and worst outcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:37 PM
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What does it mean? Can you share any incident?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:36 PM
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Only the morbidly obese ones have it tough. Nowadays even they get the "girls" support . She said it like fat women are completely unfuckable/undateable and no man could ever respond positively Can't really blame her ,the male equivalent of this is , if I ain't tall like a tree , I am worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:29 PM
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Can't say for alternative universe though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:27 PM
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Then you didn't dated them , you pimped yourself out/s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:26 PM
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I would assume those who genuinely have flirted to get where they are, are happy with their lot, but I don't know how common that really is. No they aren't, either they change their whole personality on a certain level or are replaced. I read in a book that a king's mistress when got old was being thrown out, she instead replaced herself with a more beautiful lady and hence controlled the king through this means of finding better and better women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:23 PM
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These are 40 min video each , i might not watch it though I'll see the movie melena mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:20 PM
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That's what sexual tease is intended for , did it somehow help you in other parts of life ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:16 PM
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That kind of doesn't count cause when you are committed and dating you aren't taking advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:15 PM
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Before saying all the time keep it in mind that I said consciously, most women could do it unintentionally or subconsciously
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:14 PM
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So have you ever done it?? What was the best and worst outcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:12 PM
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Be a boss lady kind????
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:11 PM
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Let me rephrase this. How do I get attractive simps? Be more attractive than him or be attractive to him , not that difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:11 PM
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I second this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:09 PM
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Men get annoyed around women they dont find attractive It's either I am not man enough or you have a very wrong idea about this. Maybe not simping is what you are categorising as being annoyed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:09 PM
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Lord do i need to educate you about bbw fetish of some people and most "whales " can pass as thick and curvy if dress accordingly with make up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:06 PM
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I think you read it wrong , kindly re read it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:04 PM
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You don't have to be , you have to act interested
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:06 PM
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The imposter syndrome guilt is pretty solid I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:51 AM
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I appreciate you helping them May god protect people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:50 AM
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No 😅 I just don't think this is how life works for most women. Feels strange and weirdly good to know. I have seen this scenario but with a disadvantage for women too. Basically the ones that flirted their way up are on pedestal that's it. They aren't given actual work to put on a resume so they can't switch or upgrade their career . They have a slightly better pay and less work but not a sound career. Kinda sad for them but they are doing it on their own will. This also reminded me of the very …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:47 AM
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Thanks for the reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:36 AM
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Whatever happens between husband and wife is a personal domain , i am more curious about the public lifestyle standards
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:33 AM
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Maybe I have given a very hard analogy. Let me give a real life example. A guy lets say mark in the office is a coding genius and he likes this girl lets say lisa. He once asked her out and she said no. Since then they are just "friends". Now lisa is asked to code a difficult program. Now she fixes her hair and all . She goes to Mark's desk to get his help on the code . This time lisa is very sweet and says help me with the code in the cafeteria where we can be alone and work quietly. Now there …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:32 AM
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50/50 basically they can choose more but the consequences of choosing wrong is more for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:23 AM
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Tbh there isn't a friendship if you want to date them, you are just holding onto a moving rope that's burning your hand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:22 AM
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Basically the act of " i am weak please be a HERO and help me and you might get rewarded with physical love and affection " Win win game for both Man gets ego boost and you get work done.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:13 AM
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Basically if you are vulnerable cause you don't like hitting guys and feel sad , women are there for you. If you are vulnerable cause you don't like getting hit by guys and feel sad, women aren't there for you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:11 AM
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Cause marriage means nothing if you are always handed an option of breaking it just cause of feelings. If you really wanna get married for highs of life and never for lows , you aren't married, you are just labelling your relationship from girlfriend boyfriend to husband wife
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:09 AM
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6 and 2 but 6 very very much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:55 AM
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Just wait till the post nut clarity Hits
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:54 AM
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Lol , I have heard a rich guy's wife fucking old janitor just cause she was bored. Loyalty and hypergamy are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:53 AM
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Misleading title , a so called slutty woman is beautiful , pretty , sexy, not attractive . Said that, The answer is insecurity and jealousy ( can be good or bad , depending how you perceive them)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:49 AM
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Depends on what you call cheating, fucking other people -hardly, flirting with other people - frequently God forbid you say something, otherwise you're controlling partner
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:48 AM
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Exactly every woman is like " terrible experience", just suck it up like man do when they commit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:44 AM
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So what i understood was , I have to wait and work till 40 or 50 years of age to have 23 yo girl ? Sounds okayish if I am for sex and sex alone. Now what about what i want now in my youth. What about if I want to have a family and grow old with my partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:43 AM
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