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I’m 5’10 and my partner is 5’7. I couldn’t care less. I have plenty of female friends dating men that are the same height or shorter. I leave the house and see plenty of short men in relationships. My dad is shorter than my mother. Then I see men online whine constantly that women hate short men, that women don’t even like short men and if they do date them they must have ulterior motives. No one hates short men like a short man. Also, even if some women do have that preference, what’s the probl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:39 AM
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really? there is constant criticism of choice feminists in feminist circles. If you literally search “choice feminism” you’ll get plenty of posts from feminist subs criticising it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:53 PM
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Well I’m very selective with my male friends anyway. So it would be very surprising and disappointing as the male friends I do have are very feminist, kind and respectful. It would for sure make me trust men even less.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:34 PM
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Sorry can you clarify? Do you mean If my (male) friends held those opinions about me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:04 PM
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i’d rather know so I could ditch them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:00 PM
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I feel the same. There’s a massive difference between men who like women platonically as people and enjoy spending time with them vs men who only view women through dating/sexual lens.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:53 PM
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Yeah you got stats for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:10 PM
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So if a self identified vegan eats meat, veganism now includes eating meat?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:01 PM
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One feminist holding a view doesn’t make that view part of feminism any more than one self-described socialist supporting tax cuts makes tax cuts a socialist policy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:57 PM
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Bell Hooks literally challenges this view in The will to change. She talks about how the expectation that men must provide and perform value through income is a patriarchal harm. She argues men’s worth gets tied to what they produce rather than who they are, and criticizes that as a core problem, not something feminism ignores.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:41 PM
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Just because you see women online say these things doesn’t mean these women are feminist. It is traditionalism. Neither of those are popular views in feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:35 PM
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pointing out someone doesn’t practice what they preach isn’t a fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:17 PM
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doesn’t sound very feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:08 PM
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So a man knows the woman does not wanna have sex and does not consent to it. He then proceeds to use repeated pressure and manipulation using 9 of the 36 strategies to get her to say yes to sex (average number used 8.94). That’s still concerning whether or not you think the tittle is misleading. The cumulative pattern does matter. Instead of accepting her no they try again and again to obtain a yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:14 AM
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I think we know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:42 AM
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Well said. The fetishisation of teen girls is fucking gross. The fact that “teen” has historically been one of the most popular and frequently searched terms on major adult websites is vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:38 PM
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i’ll bite. if she’s your fiancée at 19 years old? When did you start dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:35 PM
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Oh please. How are you going to bring this topic and entirely ignore the fact that most people having problems with age gap relationships is when one person is significantly younger than the other. For example, a 40 year old dating an 18 year old who is still in/fresh out of high school, never had a job, financially dependent on parents, never had a serious relationship or sexual experience vs a 40 year old with an established career, previous relationship experiences, knows their own boundaries…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:35 PM
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Women do not commit the same crimes as men. Sure It’s reasonable to argue that sentencing disparities mean conviction and prison statistics don’t perfectly reflect offending. But that doesn’t justify claiming women commit the same crimes at the same rates. Even accounting for underreporting, legal definitions, and sentencing differences, men still commit the vast majority of serious violent and sexual offences. The sentencing gap and the offending gap are separate issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:34 PM
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Women not getting wet by random men while doing whatever in public now means women don’t think about men or aren’t interested in talking to them? What? Women see men as people first, if she thinks a guy is attractive she will want to get to know him or just acknowledge he’s attractive and go by her day. Not immediately thinking about jumping on his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:13 AM
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Nothing turns me off more than a man who’s silent during sex. I find it really weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:30 AM
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Never. I can acknowledge they’re attractive but I never once got turned on or imagined having sex with them. A guy could be a 10/10 and that still wouldn’t get me going.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:06 AM
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keep writing fanfiction mate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:41 PM
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literally, this is ridiculous. if a woman truly enjoys a sex act, she will continue doing it. The fact these men come up with all these scenarios and won’t even think of the possibility that she tried it once or twice and did not like it, maybe it was painful, maybe she felt pressured into it, maybe she thought she liked it a the time but now find its degrading etc. Literally any fucking reason is valid to not want to do something you don’t feel comfortable with. but nooo she must endure being u…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:40 PM
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What a gross take with no nuance whatsoever. You want your partner to reluctantly endure an act that is uncomfortable and unpleasant for her just to prevent abandonment. If you and “many men” feel this way you should all stay single as you clearly don’t know what a healthy relationship is. People have boundaries that should be respected. If she’s scared you leave unless she lets you fuck her in the ass that’s not enthusiastic consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:55 PM
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Me neither. I would feel gross if my partner was really uncomfortable with a specific act like pegging (despite doing it before) but he “gives in” for me. How could I enjoy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:49 PM
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I don’t get it, You said it’s an ex that dated a guy after you and gives him head? How do you know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:47 PM
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In a relationship you should be respecting her boundaries. Whining about not getting something she no longer feels comfortable with is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:45 PM
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How many times are we going to debate the same topic before you people understand that people and their preferences change for multiple reasons and women don’t owe you sexual acts they have done before. Someone might have enjoyed a sexual act at 20 but no longer enjoys it at 26. They may have discovered they were doing things out of pressure, people-pleasing, insecurity, or fear of losing a partner rather than genuine desire. They may associate certain acts with a relationship they’d rather not …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:40 PM
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Not to mention all the reports coming out about men drugging their wives and raping them, as well as managing to find other men willing to rape them too and posting videos of it online. As well as the fact majority of people watching and producing CSAM are men, men who often are educated, married and employed. Men who have kids. It’s getting hard to distinguish who is a good man and who isn’t. In my country rape’s not even taken seriously anymore, rapists are getting away with suspended sentence…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:25 PM
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Funny how there was another post claiming the complete opposite, saying if the woman is waiting too long to have sex with you she’s just not that into you. In my opinion if you’re looking for a serious relationship don’t have sex because you think it’ll make someone commit and don’t delay sex because you think it’ll make someone commit. Choose the timing that matches your own comfort level and values. Waiting can help identify partners who genuinely respect your pace but it isn’t a guaranteed st…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:55 PM
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This is spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:18 PM
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Did you watch the movie with your eyes closed? Shit were you even in the proximity while the movie was playing? I highly doubt so
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:17 PM
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I think it’s empathy that these men lack. The ability to understand and emotionally connect with another person’s experience, especially women’s. I’ve seen men talk about how they’d “love” to be objectified by women, under a post of a woman complaining about being dehumanised and reduced to nothing but a sexual object. Even the way they talk about “duty sex”, I’ve seen enough comments along the lines of “what’s so bad about just laying there and letting him do it, it’s not like you have to do an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:05 PM
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u need professional help im so serious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:22 PM
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If prescribing to traditional gender roles and division of chores are a dealbreaker for me, why would I wait until I’m emotionally invested to find out? Never said it has to be first or second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:26 PM
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well i’m not getting into a relationship with a man unless I know his stance on gender roles and expectations in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:02 PM
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Then don’t speak for the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:47 PM
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Couldn’t be me. You can find out these things in so many indirect ways and fairly early on in the relationship. I wanted a man who doesn’t prescribe to traditional gender roles, can cook, is clean and willing to clean, is a feminist ally, pro choice etc and found the exact man I wanted. He does most of the cooking too. Been 5 years and I’m very much obsessed with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:43 PM
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You would only ask a man if he cooks or cleans right before moving in together? Now that’s insane
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:37 PM
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stop projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:45 AM
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that’s not even supported by evidence you’re just spewing misogynistic bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:50 PM
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keep projecting babe, not every man is a manipulative liar like u lot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:54 AM
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it obviously depends on what it is. but i wouldn’t date a conservative/moderate or someone who’s against abortion etc. me and my partner have the same political opinions, same values, same thoughts on kids etc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:00 PM
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I completely agree and if people want their relationship to be traditional because that’s what works for them, sure. but if they then go around saying shit like “women should be submissive and cook, clean, take care of kids while the man provides, is the leader etc” then that’s a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:28 AM
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I would absolutely dump someone for having different values and different political views
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:21 AM
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it’s whether your paths actually cross and whether the interest is mutual, what are you doing to meet people? most people meet their partners through repeated social contact, through friends, work, uni, social clubs, dating apps etc. the idea that women should be approaching you randomly is not really how most relationships form.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:11 AM
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life is unfair. the number of women in the world is irrelevant. most of those women are in different countries, different age groups, already in relationships, not compatible, or simply not interested. dating isn’t a random lottery where everyone has equal access to all 4 billion women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:55 AM
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once again, source?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:32 PM
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ur entire post is based on a poster made by one uni from 2007 that rightly so received backlash. where is your source that this is a mainstream feminist opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:44 PM
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source?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:14 PM
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ah yes a short lived and highly criticised poster from 2007 means this a mainstream feminist opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:08 PM
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I mean, I’ve dated bi men and currently in a long term relationship with one and I think OP is pretty spot on based on what I’ve heard from straight women around me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:51 PM
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As a bi woman dating a bi man I completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:49 PM
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I’ve not seen any feminists say that. I’ve seen feminists say that if you are black out drunk you cannot consent, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:13 PM
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People will have different definitions on what a “good” man is for them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:55 PM
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Gender essentialism final boss. There’s so much wrong with this I don’t even know where to begin
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:22 AM
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You can tell from crime stats whether it was “the best man” or “the worst man”? what kinda nonsense is this? Have you been outside? Plenty of average and below average men are coupled up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:22 PM
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Not at all. If anything it’s a plus. My partner is into DnD, games, star wars, chess, computers, history etc. He will yap at me about random things and I’ve even adopted some of his interests/hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:21 PM
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Not all anti-porn arguments are the same. You’re lumping all antiporn people together which is inaccurate when people have different reasons for being against it. And sure, there are antiporn people with anti-male double standards, doesn’t mean it’s everyone. Criticize the double standards where they exist, but assuming all anti-porn arguments are secretly about controlling men is no more convincing than assuming all porn users hate women. I am personally against mainstream porn and do not watch…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:11 PM
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Being anti-porn industry isn’t being anti sex. There are usually reasons like exploitation, coercion, unrealistic expectations about sex and bodies and prevalence of violent or degrading content. most porn eroticises violence against women, incest, “barely” legal teens, rape etc. It’s not unreasonable that some people are against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:47 AM
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i think this is the case honestly. no one hates average looking, short men more than incels. they will literally argue day and night that if a short man is in a relationship it must be for reasons such as money or comphet from the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:37 AM
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the women literally talk in the comments how they’ve sent pictures and have been ghosted after
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:33 AM
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Being able to get sex doesn’t fix loneliness. You live in a distorted reality if you think that’s the case. Loneliness is about lacking meaningful connections, belonging, and emotional intimacy, not just access to sexual partners. Also, having options you don’t want isn’t the same as having the relationships you actually need. These “discussions” are ridiculous. All this whining and arguing that women should have more empathy for lonely, sexless men and lower their standards but then you all tur…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:29 AM
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what the hell are even you talking about this gotta be ragebait
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:43 AM
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I can’t speak for other people but as a bisexual woman I want someone who is socially skilled, assertive, charismatic, kind, funny regardless of gender. I’m in a relationship with a man who is also shorter than me and I know plenty of women dating short men, men with less social skills, less confidence etc. In heterosexual dating, a lot of “confidence, assertiveness, ambition” gets filtered through traditional gender expectations: men are expected to lead, initiate, provide direction and be domi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:15 PM
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I had to read it twice to make sure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:36 PM
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from women? women literally fought for decades. they organised, protested, lobbied, wrote, went on hunger strikes, and got arrested. also with men at war, women were the ones that kept economies running (factories, services, administration). after that, denying political rights became increasingly inconsistent with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:34 PM
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These are clearly different people saying these things I don’t get what’s so hard to understand about that. I don’t date men who watch porn and I don’t watch it myself, neither does my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:54 AM
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Because I don’t wanna pity fuck anyone. Men wanting to kill themselves because they’re not getting pussy is not my problem. Go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:54 PM
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Yes. I see no issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:21 PM
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Big fat NO
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:08 PM
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choose a better job then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:29 PM
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same, the most successful marriages I’ve seen are the ones where women lead/make decisions and the husbands listen. and if you ask those men what the secret is they literally say “she’s the boss”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:28 PM
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why would you be anti-choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:14 AM
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I completely agree, both me and my boyfriend are bi and have plenty of friends who are both men and women. This whole “why would you need to be friends with opposite gender” is so strange and heteronormative and reeks of insecurity. People are people. I can also tell a difference when interacting with a man who doesn’t see women outside of sex/dating context vs a man who genuinely enjoys women’s presence in a platonic manner. The former always makes interactions awkward and uncomfortable for no …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:50 PM
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that I must do the cooking/be good at cooking because I’m a woman that i’m too assertive or confrontational as a woman and yet a male coworker acting the same way is seen as “leadership material”. being told to smile all the fucking time by men expected to wear make up to events, otherwise i “haven’t put any effort in” expected to look attractive but not too attractive otherwise i’m attention seeking or a slut being expected to be naturally nurturing just because im a woman not allowed to be ang…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 05:07 PM
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so ultimately if a woman wants to get married she has to either let her husband rape her or face legal consequences, how lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:49 PM
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honestly a lot of them clearly lack empathy and only view women through the lens of sex. then they wonder why women don’t wanna date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:48 AM
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imagine a law saying, “If you are employed, you must have sex with your boss, but you can quit at any time.” Most people would still view that as coercive because the choice isn’t between sex and no sex, it’s between sex and losing your job. The legal system is attaching a penalty to refusing sex. The same logic applies here. If marriage legally required sex, then refusing sex could potentially carry legal consequences. That means consent is no longer freely revocable while the marriage exists. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:37 AM
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oh my god I just looked at it. I can’t believe these men are openly arguing for marital rape and see nothing wrong with it. so many wannabe rapists in that thread
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:30 AM
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I was just thinking that. Wonder what will happen if she had a child…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:30 AM
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cooking and cleaning submissive? what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:28 AM
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also “used” what a disgusting way to talk about someone, women aren’t objects
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:08 PM
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Well said. 18 year olds are often immature and lack experience. They don’t know what their own boundaries are yet or what a healthy relationship looks like. It’s literally a perfect choice for a predator who is twice their age to pursue them and groom them into doing what they want, in both sex and the relationship dynamic. I don’t know why people are acting as if turning 18 means you’re suddenly a responsible, fully mature adult and it’s extremely worrying that grown men continue to argue onlin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:02 AM
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yeah most men do not like women as people. they’re attracted to them and wanna fuck them but they don’t generally believe that women are as smart, funny, capable, cool and as talented as men are. they listen to, admire and respect other men, seek out male podcasters, musicians, politicians, friends, coworkers and continuously make fun of femininity and “girly” things, they do not enjoy women’s company unless in pursuit of sex and they don’t see them as equal. It’s such a clear difference when yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:26 PM
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Love can be conditional without being transactional. If you’re mainly thinking “what am I getting out of this” rather than actually caring about the person then yeah your relationship is transactional and shallow. Real relationships aren’t just exchanges. People stay with partners through illness, money problems, aging, stress, all sorts of stuff where they’re not getting a “better deal” elsewhere. You can recognise that more attractive, richer, funnier, whatever people exist and still not care.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:06 PM
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Exactly this. We explain to them under every single post like this that women’s desire and attraction do not work in the same way men’s do and they just refuse to listen. They keep coming up with their conclusions that fit their narrative. It’s getting so fucking boring and whiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:31 AM
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ah yes women should have less rights and opportunities for society to flourish
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:43 PM
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Nothing wrong with looking for advice and wanting to improve oneself but that’s not what a lot of men are doing. They are putting the blame entirely on women. It is terrifying to see men openly argue that men not getting sex is women’s fault and that sex is a need that society should provide, otherwise men will commit horrific crimes if they don’t get what they want. Literally yesterday a guy was arguing that women should be grateful to men for being peaceful while they’re not getting sex becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:41 PM
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yep, people can internalize societal pressures and begin viewing themselves primarily through the lens of how attractive they appear to others. Constantly monitoring one’s appearance or tying self-worth heavily to sexual attractiveness could be considered a form of self-objectification. Men do this too when they become overly focused on displaying their bodies, muscles, or sexual appeal as the main source of their value. At the same time, I don’t think posting a revealing photos = objectifying y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:26 PM
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grateful for what? not killing or raping us?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:19 PM
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Literally, never seen a teenage relationship last anyway, people change too much during that time, you barely know yourself or what you’d want from a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:42 AM
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young men don’t listen to women, they listen to other men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:40 AM
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yes they are, both are seen as failing gender expectations, the difference is that femininity is seen as inferior/lower status while masculinity isn’t. That’s why masculine women are more tolerated than feminine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:03 PM
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The issue is which direction is treated as degrading. Men are mocked for being associated with femininity because femininity is viewed as lower status in men. Women being mocked for masculinity usually isn’t because ‘men are inferior,’ it’s because she’s seen as failing femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:37 PM
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I never understood this perspective from straight women. I’ve dated two bi men and one is my current partner. The experience of dating a bi man was always 100% better than dating a straight man. At no point did I think they weren’t “real men” because of their attraction to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:35 PM
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The reason feminine men are mocked is often because femininity is culturally coded as lower status/weak/soft. The insult only works because being compared to women/femininity is considered degrading for men. Calling a man “girly,” “emotional,” “bitch,” “princess,” “pussy,” etc. relies on the assumption that femininity lowers his rank. That absolutely connects to misogyny, even if the target is male. Women do get more freedom in presentation today especially compared to decades ago but masculine …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:28 PM
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like i had to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:17 PM
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your post history
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:54 AM
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we deserve to have at least two versions of us I don’t think you do actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:17 AM
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As a gamer woman who enjoys games like COD, the amount of abuse i get in games from other men has really put me off. I’ve been called every insult under the sun, got rape threats, got called fat because I must be fat if I play games.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:03 AM
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They think bad men are hiding in dark alleys waiting for their next victim. Meanwhile it’s more often people you know, your partner, friend, family member etc. people who have friends, people who others might perceive as “good” and then you’re not believed because he doesn’t fit their idea of a bad man, because he’s a family man, he’s just a boy, he’s not like that, he didn’t mean it, he has a family, he has lots of friends blah blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:52 PM
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avoid taking dark alleys, empty buses, going to strange places or dating men with reputation of being violent or having criminal history I was 9 when my uncle touched me inappropriately at home. 14 when a boy in school grabbed my crotch twice. 19 When a man I went on a 3rd date with choked me so hard I almost passed out. 21 when another guy (on a 2 date after talking for 3 weeks) forced me head down aggressively into his crotch because of “blue balls”. 24 When a man body slammed me in public out…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:58 AM
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Too many men think they’re the good ones because they haven’t violently raped anyone but at the same time they will pressure partners sexually, ignore consent cues, consume degrading content without reflecting on it, trivialize harassment and stay silent when their friends are being misogynistic. I’ve seen enough men on this sub alone argue that sex is owed to them because men are lonely and claiming women are inherently submissive/inferior and any sex with a man is him dominating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:45 AM
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It’s literally in the post, learn to read before commenting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:29 AM
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men are not my superiors what the fuck is wrong with you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:04 PM
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i’m also wondering, how does listening to a sex trafficker like andrew tate help men or boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:21 PM
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so women should submit to men because men are better than them? is that what you’re saying? nothing bigger and more fragile than the male ego
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:45 PM
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he watches too much porn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:37 PM
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literally, what an ick
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:36 PM
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and yet again you are projecting your feelings onto everyone else, so it doesn’t matter what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:05 PM
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You’re just projecting your personal feelings onto everyone else, that’s not reality. I can easily say the penis doesn't penetrate the vagina but is engulfed by the vagina. To be consumed and disappear is a submissive act, thus men are biologically meant to be subordinate. Penis and testicales are pretty fragile and sensitive orggans. The vagina is a strong muscle that can birth a child. See how dumb this all is. Both dominance and submission are attitudes not specific acts. If two partners are …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:15 PM
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Any man talking about women “submitting” to him is an immediate loser in my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:04 PM
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You’ve confused “receptive” with “submissive.” That’s a gender stereotype, not a law of nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:03 PM
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are you saying for men being fucked = being respected?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:49 PM
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Women’s rights weren’t simply allowed or given by men. Women fought for these rights for decades through activism and pressure while often facing imprisonment. It was a reluctant surrender not a generous allowance from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:33 AM
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No? it proves guy A created more pressure, insecurity, or fear of abandonment. People don’t always do more sexual acts because they desire someone more sometimes they do more because they feel less safe saying no. She could have worked on her fear of abandonment/insecurities/internalised misogyny and no longer feel the need to do those things. You’re treating willingness under pressure as evidence of desire. That’s a pretty grim understanding of consent and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:15 AM
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I think men enjoy sex that makes them feel powerful and masculine. It’s validating for them when “she takes it well”, gags on it or is willing to do more “taboo” acts just for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:46 PM
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your flair sure fits
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:35 PM
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im curious, what about it makes a man homosexual? Plenty of straight men get pleasure from it. You have a g spot in there after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:30 PM
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I mean, speaking from personal experience, plenty of misogynistic men hide behind kink to violate and degrade women (who are often vulnerable).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:43 PM
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why would u want to have sex with someone when you know damn well they don’t like what you’re doing to them? what the fuck..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:39 PM
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so it’s fine if you generalise all men but not when women do it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:37 PM
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She did those things because she felt pressured, wanted validation, feared disappointing the other person, or thought that was what she was “supposed” to do as an “adventurous girlfriend” to keep a man interested. A lot of women participate in sexual acts they don’t actually enjoy because they’ve been socialised to see sex as performance, obligation, or a way to avoid seeming boring/vanilla
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:32 PM
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lol literally, it’s always anal, jackhammering or rough face fucking where you’re basically choking, crying and gagging the entire time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:28 PM
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True. I was first introduced to very hardcore porn at 9 years old and it did fuck me up in many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:28 AM
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Exactly, as adults we are responsible for what we continue to believe, excuse, and reinforce
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:33 PM
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This sounds like something men need to figure out and work on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:27 PM
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Don’t care about the average man. I personally would not date a man who watches porn. My partner doesn’t watch it, I don’t watch it. I don’t like how a lot of porn eroticises violence towards women in sex. How it sexualises school girls and incest. The woman is almost always slapped, choked, called a bitch, face f*cked till she gags and cries. You can hardly distinguish between the sounds of pain and pleasure not to mention the sex trafficking and coercion that takes place which makes it hard to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:48 PM
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neither me nor my partner watch porn. men who don’t watch it exist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:22 PM
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that’s so true, bjs are always an expectation as if they’re a baseline requirement but eating a girl out is seen as optional/additional
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:51 PM
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From what I’ve seen the men who complain the most on this subreddit are the same ones who believe all women are shallow gold diggers, women have no dating issues, orgasm gap is justified, women should lower their standards and that sex is a basic need (that women should provide). The resentment for women is so clear in their takes i’m sure women irl can pick up on it too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 06:44 PM
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I don’t have a type in terms of physical characteristics. I’ve dated/had crushes on white guys, asian guys, black guys, short guys, tall guys, guys with and without glasses, skinny guys and dad bods. For me it’s more about who they are as a person, do our values align, do we have a similar sense of humour, similar lifestyle, outlook on sex/intimacy etc. I do tend to prefer who aren’t traditionally masculine though. I think for some people if they dated/liked someone and had deep feelings for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:03 PM
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entitlement can absolutely exist toward one individual woman too. If someone reacts to rejection with “you owe me sex/intimacy because I’m nice/lonely/a man,” that is still entitlement. rape culture is about social norms around entitlement, coercion, pressure, dehumanization, hostility toward rejection, minimizing consent violations, etc. a man doesnt need to literally rape someone to reinforce those norms not sure why you’re bringing religion into this, most discussions of rape culture are not …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:06 PM
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I would also argue that when men throw their tantrums about not getting laid even with hating women itself not rape culture when men turn not getting sex into anger at women as a group, that’s entitlement not just frustration. it feeds into the same norms around pressure and access that rape culture describes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:48 AM
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wanting sex obviously isn’t rape culture. but rape culture isn’t only direct attempts at sex without consent either, it also includes norms that normalise pressure, entitlement to sex and women’s bodies, or excuses around consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:39 AM
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occasional survival isn’t the standard. shelter is considered a basic need because it protects against environmental risk reliably across conditions (not just snow) and not just on a lucky night. by your logic you could say food isn’t necessary because people can fast for a while. you can disagree all you want, shelter is still universally recognised as a basic human need. loneliness is about lack of connection, sex is not required to solve it. you can have sex and still be lonely, or have no se…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:33 AM
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thats just wrong in real world terms. you can survive temporarily without shelter, but not reliably or safely. shelter is what prevents exposure, illness, and environmental death. thats why it’s treated as a basic survival requirement and why society still treats homelessness as something to prevent. no one says you have to invite strangers to your house. loneliness can harm health but the issue there is social connection, not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:36 PM
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sure. even if you want to argue semantics, shelter is still a survival necessity in a way sex isn’t. people don’t die from lack of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:36 PM
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Sex is not a biological need in the same way food, water, sleep, or shelter are. You can go your entire life without sex and survive perfectly well. if something truly is a need, we don’t treat refusal as morally neutral in the same way we do with sex because you can’t ethically refuse someone food or shelter in crisis conditions, but you absolutely can refuse sex at any time for any reason
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:20 PM
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all this tells me you can’t excite a woman nor make her feel at ease. are you not embarrassed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:38 PM
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That’s not what I said at all you’re just making shit up to fit your narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:25 PM
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“I resent women and think their pleasure is optional.” no wonder you’re single
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:16 AM
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Because women don’t view men as bodies first in the same way many men view women. A socially awkward woman can still be sexually appealing to a lot of men because for many men physical attraction is enough to clear the bar for casual sex. For women the experience of attraction is usually more holistic. Things like social competence, charisma, confidence, emotional intelligence, humor, reading the room, flirting and making her feel comfortable/safe/excited are often part of what creates attractio…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:09 AM
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There’s a whole sub for it and all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:47 PM
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Man I hope you heal so we don’t have to read this nonsense every other day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:45 PM
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I hope you heal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:34 PM
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Aren’t you the same guy who said men only care about sex and they’re not capable of romantic love
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:53 PM
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so where is your “proof” that women don’t face issues in dating and relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:31 PM
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Oh yeah if they just imagine that instead of women they’re being gazed at by other males who are bigger, stronger and more dangerous than them and unattractive at the same time. And that those males will sometimes attempt to harass or assault or rape them because these bigger guys are groomed from infancy to view them as a play-toy existing for their own amusement instead of a conscious human being with thoughts and agency, im sure then they’d understand what it feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:07 PM
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dude your entire post history is making generalisations about women and pretending they’re facts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:57 PM
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lol you repeatedly ask people for proof then say the most ludicrous statements as facts, where is your proof? “women don’t have problems in dating or relationships” is just ignorant. why do you even bother debating on here every day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:42 PM
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Literally this. Had a guy choke me so hard on a date without consent or any prior communication, genuinely thought it was over for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:37 PM
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This is incomprehensible for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:33 PM
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Women are not making forums and subs that discuss how to drug and rape their husbands while they sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:25 AM
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I can’t open that link it’s giving me a bunch of virus pop ups….
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:03 AM
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What male spaces are women invading?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:57 AM
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omg go to therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:23 PM
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Yeah you sound pretty exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:48 PM
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i’m not the one who needs to face reality, you literally recommended a sub notorious for bizarre rating standards. People who are clearly attractive routinely get called average and the culture there treats beauty like forensic geometry, not to mention is also racist. Most people do not care about specific facial measurements and what’s attractive is also subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:36 PM
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Touch grass omg this conversation can’t be real
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:08 PM
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Because historically, medicine treated men as the “default” body. A lot of research, drug trials, and symptom were based mainly on male patients for decades which affected how conditions are recognised. For example, heart attack symptoms in women can present differently from the stereotypical “crushing chest pain” model that’s been taught for years. Women statistically are also more likely to have their symptoms labelled as anxiety, stress, hormones or “psychosomatic.” Also, conditions that main…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:10 PM
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can we stop with the ai slop on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:48 AM
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OP doesn’t believe women are attracted to men, he thinks they date men purely for socioeconomic benefits but are secretly lesbian. He literally had a fit in another sub because he witnessed a man approaching a woman in public and viewed that as embarrassing for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:41 AM
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Well, two guys that seemed nice at first proceeded to assault me and do things without asking. One choked me so hard without consent or any prior communication and I almost passed out, genuinely thought he wanted to kill me. Casual hook ups are just not worth the risk of STI, rape and pregnancy for maybe 3 minutes of a good time (if you’re lucky). Also, men who watch too much porn are terrible at sex, and there’s too many of them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:28 AM
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that’s not true at all. there’s more to attraction than just looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:30 AM
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Mid 20s bi woman here. I’d be open to it for sure. No more painful, debilitating periods, not having to go through pregnancy, sacrificing my body and mental health. No more cat calling and being sexualised for anything I wear because of my body type. More safety in public spaces. Sounds like a good deal to me and my partner is bi as well so a win win
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:19 AM
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Your first post is full of bad grammar, lowercase and flows completely different. The “that’s not x that’s y” is a classic giveaway too especially with how your argument is structured. Also you can absolutely get chat gpt to say all this, If you frame a question to support a specific conclusion it will often generate an answer confirming that belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:40 AM
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Did you really need chat gpt to write this. Painfully obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:26 AM
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If women don’t play video games how are they invading “men’s gaming spaces”? You sound like an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:48 PM
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Your level of delusion amazes me. You should see a therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:11 PM
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Newsflash, women also enjoy gaming. This is just sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:15 PM
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The amount of posts I’ve seen claiming that a woman who doesn’t sleep with a guy on their first date is not into him is insane to me. In the same breath they’ll call a woman a slut if she sleeps with more than 3 guys. Majority of women are not comfortable with sleeping with strangers regardless how interested or attracted to them they are. If anything, the more interested I am the more I wanna take things slowly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:32 PM
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Ew that could be your daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:16 PM
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I never understood this “big, fancy date on first meet up” thing. I don’t find it impressive and If I guy suggested that I would have declined. Something about it just makes me uncomfortable, like there is an expectation that I would sleep with him. I prefer more relaxed settings, like grabbing a pint, a coffee, going for a walk etc. and if that first meet up goes well and we continue to date, we cab go somewhere nice and split it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:31 AM
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I think that’s probably true fort most heterosexual marriages that are “traditional” where the man assumes the provider and leader role and the woman is expected to/does all the cooking, cleaning and childcare. I see those type of marriages as prisons personally but hey each to their own. The happiest marriages I have seen are the ones without traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:54 AM
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I don’t see anything wrong with feeling sexy and wanting to appear sexy to others. Everyone likes validation. That doesn’t necessarily mean you’re reducing yourself to an object. However, I do think women can internalise the observer’s perspective and view their bodies as objects to be looked at and evaluated based on appearance. I think it’s largely caused by internalised societal standards but I do view objectification as external in a sense that it’s hard for someone to view themselves as an …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:11 PM
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Finally someone said it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:35 PM
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I don’t know, I wouldn’t want my boyfriend to see me as an object
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:32 PM
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Wanting to look hot and sexy is not the same as objectifying oneself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:30 PM
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Plenty of men post thirst traps. Just because you don’t see it on your timeline doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. Someone posting a tiktok looking hot doesn’t mean they’re objectifying themselves. It’s not wrong to want to be sexually attractive, and appear as such, and it’s not wrong to find people sexually attractive. It is wrong when you dehumanize them, and reduce them down to their bodies, or their appearance. This is objectifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:23 PM
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Literally, women can’t even eat a stupid banana in peace
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:14 PM
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How are they objectifying themselves? By doing what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:59 PM
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Literally this is like a third post I’ve seen from him in the past week, horrible takes everywhere and he wonders why women don’t want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:05 PM
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translation = most men think with their dicks. We know this already
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:05 PM
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Classic. Men in your framing are individuals you can have deep, meaningful conversations with. Women are a monolith, “whiny,” interchangeable, mainly valued for looks. That’s not an observation or “reality” that’s you not seeing women as full people. And if women are supposedly all shallow and immature, why are men so set on dating them at all? If you don’t wanna have deep conversations with women, see them as whiny, and make fun of feminine things yet you pursue them for sex, who is the shallow…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:50 AM
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probably his bio
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:04 PM
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Gee I wonder why no one wants to date you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:56 PM
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I personally don’t know any feminists who actually think this way. It sounds like liberal/choice feminism to me which I feel like it’s just repackaged capitalism/patriarchy marketed as empowerment that prioritises the needs of white, privileged, middle class women without going deep into class oppression and capitalism. They usually get a lot of criticism in actual feminist spaces because they think any choice a woman makes is “feminist” which is load of BS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:57 AM
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Literally, women can’t even trust their husbands to not rape them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:09 AM
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Careful this doesn’t fit their worldview. They’ll say she must be lying to be attracted to you because there’s no way short men can get dates in their minds
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:18 PM
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Your takes are removed from reality. I didn’t say women owe men attraction. I said short men are worthy of love, meaning they can and do have genuine relationships where their partner is actually attracted to them, even if you don’t like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:03 PM
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So any time a woman dates a short man she’s secretly not attracted to him? That’s not an argument it just means you’ll ignore any evidence that proves you wrong. You keep perpetuating these claims and contributing to men’s low self esteem surrounding their height then blaming women for it. I’ve seen more men talk shit about short men than women. Short men are worthy of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:49 PM
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Go to therapy bro
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:51 PM
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That stat doesn’t prove what you think it does. It’s been explained a lot, age gaps and how people report relationships skew it. It doesn’t mean all women are sharing the same small group of men. You literally said “women only value men for their looks, money and status”. Height and looks can matter to some sure. Just like it matters to plenty of men. But plenty of average-height men, including men with thinning hair, are in relationships. So that can’t be the full explanation. My friend is shor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:07 PM
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If only the top few men get women, how do you explain the millions of completely average men in relationships? Men who are short, balding and not rich by your standards. You’re also treating women like they all want the same thing, which isn’t true. People are way more varied than that. Long-term attraction usually comes down to things like personality, emotional intelligence, humour, and how someone treats you not just “maxing out” looks or money. You claim you want a woman to love you but why …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 11:52 AM
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Calm down and stop projecting. Why would I date someone I’m not attracted to? I have higher libido than him so initiate most of the time and we have a great sex life. Stay mad I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 11:02 AM
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None, I dated two men that were the same height as me, one slightly shorter. What does intimacy have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:34 AM
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I know plenty of women who date men below 5’10 and some of them are balding. None of them rich. My own partner is 5’7 while I’m 5’10 and earning more. Never been an issue. Maybe go outside once in a while instead of spending time in red pill echo chambers. Plenty of women get rejected for being fat, too tall, ugly, “flat” by men who are average looking. There are shallow people of both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:19 AM
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Why do I know plenty of men below 5’10 in happy relationships then? Including my own partner? Have you been outside?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:58 AM
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where?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:35 PM
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When was the last draft?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:48 PM
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