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| 1 | A Different Perspective on Why to Get a Women’s Number ASAP when on dating appsThis is the way. Who cares about phone numbers. A phone number can be just as flaky as anything else, but something with stories keeps giving them an easy way to get hooked, ask questions, and start new conversation threads without you even trying directly. Don’t be extra, do too much on your stories, post thirst traps. Just show that your normal | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 08:30 AM |
| 5 | No reply after strong interest the night before?Definitely just wait since you’re going to see her since you already tried to text. Just be cool, chill, engaged but nonchalant, slightly flirty. Basically when you’re talking to her just think (I know you want to feel my dick inside you), and I mean actually think that, you want to feel like you are having sex right then and there. So when talking make extremely strong eye contact, keep a smirk on, and don’t shy away from slightly edgy statements. Interrupt her mid sentence and say something li… | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 03:57 PM |
| 31 | No reply after strong interest the night before?Women act off of their emotions in the moment, and they were already at their peak The goal is always to have sex asap. She was open to sleep with you in THAT moment and even provided the correct logistics to make it happen, you failed to capitalize. Could you get another chance, maybe. But now it’s a lot of work to get back to where you were already at, which was at her house after an extremely fun and exciting night | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 02:36 PM |
| 14 | I got approached by a girl just 20 minutes agoHer getting mad was actually the good thing, you’re supposed to give her shit, being a nice guy wouldn’t have worked. You fumbled on the followup, since you thought the RIGHT thing to do was guess currently, which is wrong She approached you ✅ You teased her ✅ She showed emotions and you changed your frame to be pleasing ❌ Your supposed to just have fun with the interaction, make her qualify | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 08:55 AM |
| 3 | Someone with good texting game. How do you do that ?Isn’t it funny that EVERYONE is a guru about how to text, yet NO ONE actually shows a screenshot of their texting | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Classic, met a woman while wingmanning "it's complicated" after kissing. Need text deciphering or follow-up.You dropped the ball when you turned down the invite to her crib She was in a “gray area” mentally in her relationship and was feeling high off the FUN of the night. This worked in your favor. You needed to seal the deal by sleeping with her. She was willing to make a “mistake”, but only in that moment. Now if she decided to go out with you then it’s intentional and makes her feel guilt, hence why she said bye She likes you, you were the cool fun guy etc, but she was looking for FUN only in that… | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 06:25 AM |
| 31 | Went for it because of this subGJ! DO NOT expect anything of it. Just imagine you’re trying to get to 100 rejections / ghosts as quick as possible. That’s your goal and this one is just a stepping stone. So, continue onward. Don’t lose momentum, don’t NOT talk to another girl tomorrow because you got this one’s number. Text her, but just expect she’ll flake or that it’ll just go nowhere. DONT GET ONE-ITIS | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?You already said it, invite her right over to have a drink, nothing to lose. Do not go out. You don’t “teach her a lesson” by ghosting her. You teach her a lesson by standing your ground and having sex with her with no effort Do not act butt hurt or tell her anything like “she owes you”. Be super cool and chill, “hey I’m kinda in the mood for chill vibes, dinner and a bottle at my place, would love it if you come over” | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 11:20 PM |
| 1 | You need to answer this question in your opener!Close The only thing you need to answer is why you are approaching a woman. If you come off vague then you’re essentially trying to rope them into a sale for a product they don’t even know your trying to sell The best opener is direct. “Hey, I thought YOU were cute and wanted to say hi” Word it in anyway that’s natural to you and the situation but that’s what you need to say. “Hey, I was over there and I seen you over here, I had to come over and find out what’s up because your hair is driving m… | /r/seduction | 05/10/25 01:17 AM |
| 5 | Why do so many men fail at first-date sex if a lot of women are open to it?Honestly that’s everyone, not just women. Let’s not make it sound all mystical | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 11:07 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to prompts on hingeI’ve gotten some dates on hinge and even a long term relationship, so I guess that’s “success”. Here’s what worked for me Dont talk about their body, talk about something in the photo You want to give anything that’s EASY for them to respond to. You don’t want them to think hard, but it can’t be a boring question either. So a question that requires a very simple answer, but you can spin into a convo. And toss an emoji to highlight the fun of the question Cooking photos: Wait, do you cook all the… | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 08:56 AM |
| 1 | What are your best examples of peacocking?Most people are pretty low-key, so real-world examples can be hard to find. At bars, for instance, most guys just wear whatever they think looks “nice” for an urban dude, that might be a fresh pair of Js and a new cap. But then there’s intentional peacocking like this one guy I saw at a local bar wearing a full-on chinchilla coat. Completely overdressed for the scene. He stood out, sure, people were talking about him (hell, I’m still bringing him up months later), but did he actually get any pla… | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 05:49 AM |
| 12 | How did you actually improve your text game on apps?People try to think there’s a magic text formula, there’s not. If her number 1 pick has her on the back burner then she’ll think “gee, the 6 pack doctor with abs hasn’t responded this week, and this guy asked me, and he doesn’t seem crazy, and he will pay for food” The bottom line is a basic text will get a response if she feels you have enough perceived value and your the best current option Other than not asking how’s your day, wyd, just try to text her like she’s going to be your girlfriend b… | /r/seduction | 21/07/25 01:01 PM |
| 1 | I started reviewing my dates and it has changed everythingOP says “I’m not trying to promote anything”, right after saying “Now I want to build a tool” The purpose of this post was to gather people who are looking for a product to solve their “problem” How dumb can people be to overlook this subtle ad is beyond me. But then again it’s basically a subreddit for people that overlook obvious cues anyways 😆 | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 04:16 AM |
| 10 | Instagram gameStory reaction will be the only way. Don’t bother with comments. It’s like flirting with a woman while both of you are standing in the middle of a stadium. React to her story asking a non committal question like for example If they have a story post of her taking a cute bathroom selfie at a bar with another girl “So that’s what women do when they said they’ll brb to use the bathroom 😜” They’ll respond something simple like “yeah 🙈” then it’s game on from there “And here I was thinking you were m… | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 07:28 AM |
| 1 | [FR] High interest to nada! I feel so high from it but it ended very quick!You can ping her in 2 days with a non-commital message Basically it’s just being jokey and sarcastic, will revive her if she had any interest in you, if no response then it’s likely dead (although she may respond upto a week later). The longer it takes for her to respond, the likely something else is up, she recently broke up with ex, maybe cheating, some other work stuff etc | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 11:05 AM |
| 4 | I'm really attracted to this man but I don't know how to start our conversationHaving been approached a few times in public as a man, just say Hi and that you thought he was cute / handsome and wanted to talk. You can then follow up with being genuine like others have said about being nervous, or even saying your not sure what to say. It’ll work. Here’s the problem, it will 1000% catch him off guard no matter what. So maybe ask him about why he’s at the location or something, it just has to be something to get the convo going. Don’t ask about what does he do for work etc, … | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 10:16 AM |
| 3 | Why do people use dating apps and not instagram?This needs to be discussed more. Here’s my tips ONLY follow attractive females that are PRIVATE If they accept and follow you back, it’s a start, if they just accept - unfollow Also your profile should be private so they have to request you (this also makes them think, why is he following me? I don’t know him but his profile pic looks cute) When you accept their follow request, make sure you have a active story that is atleast showing you in motion. They will watch your story after you accept th… | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 10:47 AM |
| 2 | Books/ podcasts dedicated to texting? Women being so flakeyTexting is a dead end. Here’s the problem If you meet in person first, then go to text and they flake - they weren’t really that into you in person so why would they want to hang out as they already know your vibe If you meet them online avoid ANY form of wyd, how’s your day and direct comments on their looks texts ( you can get away with small things like, you look like trouble in that dress, but it cannot be a blatant compliment) Other than that I’ve learned that the more interesting try to ge… | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 08:30 AM |
| 9 | Cute girl at cookie store, advice neededYou already talked to her, so now it’s not a cold approach. Don’t tell her you want to “finish” the conversation (that’s lame). Just continue talking her because you already have rapport. Maybe give it a few days though or else it’ll definitely seem weird and try hard since you said you don’t eat cookies yet quickly revisiting a cookie store. Maybe start the conversation with “hey, so these cookies smelled amazing last time and I wanted to get something for my niece, which ones are your favorite… | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 11:01 AM |
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