SimoneDoesnotCare Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1004	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing.	LEVEL UP	SimoneDoesnotCare	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/09/20 11:39 PM
9	What do you tell yourself when you're trying not to fall for a LVM?	SEEKING ADVICE	SimoneDoesnotCare	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/20 03:43 PM
0	What do I do when I find a HVM I really like but the relationship is doomed from the beginning?		SimoneDoesnotCare	/r/askFDS	22/09/20 05:40 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	This image is so funny to me so I had to edit it 😂 (Sorry for the shabby writing) he's really the symbol of everything bad about the french culture. tye right to disrespect women, the virility, the "white heritage"...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/06/21 11:58 AM
3	This image is so funny to me so I had to edit it 😂 (Sorry for the shabby writing) such an inspiration ahah!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/06/21 11:56 AM
14	This image is so funny to me so I had to edit it 😂 (Sorry for the shabby writing) oh yes there is no denying that. now he's just a racist, homophobic and misogynistic pos. :D	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/06/21 11:12 AM
36	This image is so funny to me so I had to edit it 😂 (Sorry for the shabby writing) Alain Delon* ahaha Alain Deloin exists but as a parody by some french comics :D also, Alain Delon is no HVM... long story short, he's very into traditional and conservative ideas. He's an old man so I guess he's the reflection of what the general beliefs were when he was younger. But, as a french woman, he totally disgusts me. cool meme though!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/06/21 10:52 AM
1	If a man says they are ______. They aren't. i'm "a nice guy 😇" 🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 04:29 PM
11	I'm hurt, but I 100% made the right decision wow yes how courageous 💪👑	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/20 07:16 AM
36	This honestly is super toxic and I cannot believe all the comments are like, “this is true love ❤️❤️❤️” nah sis. no sis.. just no.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/11/20 07:09 AM
3	No more free labour for men Same. I had enough when he decided to spend his birthday with another woman he had no intentions to see again. Stay strong 💪 Last time we let these fucker hurt us.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/20 08:08 AM
5	No more free labour for men crazy! do you get the "you're so pretty, so cool, really love our talks and moments" but don't get any answer to why you were all of a sudden put in the friendzone? mine took a looot of energy by sending messages and stuff each day. totally canceled the rest of my dating life	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 09:29 PM
56	No more free labour for men oh god same here. "because i really like to be friends with you" is his only explanation about forcing his way back into my life. i don't want your friendzone. we won't be friends. i don't need you as a friend. and it was TWO WEEKS after I had enough and cut contacts. told him i didn't want to engage anymore when he was pushy. "but i really like being your friend"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 02:46 PM
2	They really tell on themselves! We've to be vigilant and not make excuses for their words. You're 100% right.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/11/20 06:13 AM
16	They really tell on themselves! We've to be vigilant and not make excuses for their words. Certainly. Well, no. You are a piece of shit and a smart one. The worst.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 02:49 PM
39	They really tell on themselves! We've to be vigilant and not make excuses for their words. Lesson fucking learned, trust me. How can you be aware of your problem hurting people around you and just telling yourself "well i warned them. their problem now"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 02:44 PM
60	They really tell on themselves! We've to be vigilant and not make excuses for their words. Yeah. It was all BS. The guy said he didn't want a proper relationship (too bad cause the 2 dates we've been on were green flags only), his "manners" bullshit and then kept me around while draining my energy. Didn't block immediately unfortunately and when I complained about this dynamic it was "but i told you i didn't want a relationship". Eyes opened when I learned he had a gf while still maintaining the said dynamic. Blocked and deleted, at last. It stings but at the end of the day, I'm glad.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 02:41 PM
156	They really tell on themselves! We've to be vigilant and not make excuses for their words. Fucking true. Been two weeks I blocked and deleted a guy who started our "situationship" by telling me "his manners often give the wrong impressions and hurt people".	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 02:31 PM
9	The film "Midsommar"....if you enjoy watching LVMs get roasted, and a pickeme becoming a queen as a result, then watch this movie! Surprisingly enough, i watched it with the last LVM i had in my life. we had very different opinions on it 👀	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/20 10:31 PM
71	Please stop posting screenshot of you going back and forth with a LVM on OLD, text message, or on social media maybe we could use a r/FDSmemes? I really get the point of this post but it's a bit entertaining and giving me good vibes to see those.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/20 05:34 PM
19	Friendly reminder That's more in a sense of "what you're offering, he's not interested". but not said in a way woman has to change anything... except the man.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/10/20 06:49 AM
626	Shut down an LVM at work who tried to treat me like his personal secretary This was really pleasing to read. Thanks for sharing, workplace is an undermentioned topic imo here, and really, you did really good. Have a good one sister and keep doing your job so well!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 07:56 AM
4	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. it iiiiiis, been vegan for 5 years. 😊	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 05:55 PM
3	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. "wife tryouts" powerful phrasing!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 01:45 PM
4	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. yup 🥰 It was! I commented the recipe from the website Bosh!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 11:02 AM
5	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. well I actually love to share my cooking but I don't often cook for only myself. that should change. but what changed this particular time is that I recognize the quality of the offer I made him. don't care if he had other plans. he should have at least try to reschedule if he respected that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 10:12 AM
4	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. Thanks... :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 09:44 AM
5	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. I think so too. I relapsed on this one. It's difficult to learn how to prioritize my well being when I haven't done that ever my brain seems to want to send me these weird messages making me insecure and not trusting myself. but I remember : his (lack of) actions made me feel awful. that's it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 09:34 AM
4	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. I would really need that too!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 09:00 AM
3	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. thank you! have a great day too 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 08:23 AM
8	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. it's really good. you just have to find some vegan cream cheese but honestly every brand will do. also this can easily by substituted with basic soy cream!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 08:22 AM
10	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. word. 👑	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 07:21 AM
15	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. I'm sorry this happened to you. I'm never allowing myself again to be put in such a submissive and dependant position ever again either.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 07:18 AM
4	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. thank you so much 💪	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 07:15 AM
3	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. it's only my old one plus 5 cellphone with the portrait mode!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 07:14 AM
10	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. Go on!! it's freaking good. and hearty at the beginning of autumn enjoy!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 07:13 AM
4	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. his fucking loooooss but I think men feel entitled to that. that's why I'm not doing it again anytime soon.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 07:13 AM
8	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. Went back to my old ways on this one, was looking for quick emotional gratification. I had a rough week because of him (emotionally dependant) and I organised this test to see his answer because I knew he was making me feel awful and I had to have a clear action to rule him out for good. It was not even a good test because it would have been bad even if he came. But well, he failed it so now I'm getting stronger and smarter without any guy coming to slow down this process.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 07:12 AM
6	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. I delicately called this meal "his fucking loss". :D	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 07:07 AM
52	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. Oh girl. The ex boyfriend I had before didn't understand why I needed to hear that every cooked meal I made him was good. At least "good". Sometimes I never got a "thank you". How entitled you can be be asked to thank someone for her time, skills, and efforts specially made for you. Come on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 07:06 AM
19	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. It is. And I also have some pesto left to treat me all week long, just as little reminders of "do not unblock him because he should have come running to that"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 07:04 AM
3	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. Thaaaaaaanks! I love them too!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 07:02 AM
17	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. I mean, I never left... had a breakup some times ago and began applying every advice from the handbook. But then meeting this new guy throw me back to my old patterns, only difference was that I hated myself more consciously for it. So it has been tough on me to see my emotionally dependant self and I'm taking control. No expectation from any guy now and all the pesto to myself. 💪	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 07:02 AM
76	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. oh, you know, "he had other plans". well screw you! spent too much of my energy waiting on him to plan something as we have been seeing each other. refusing this? it was the wake up call to go back to FDS because that's the way I'll find happiness. enjoy the recipe 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 12:14 AM
87	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. yes! it's this pesto recipe : https://www.bosh.tv/recipes/creamy-pesto-pasta with basilic fresh pastas!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/09/20 11:53 PM
44	BIRTHDAY MEGATHREAD! HAPPY 100K BIRTHDAY FDS!🎂 IN CELEBRATION PLEASE POST ONE WAY THAT FDS CHANGED YOU AND YOUR LIFE. KEEP LEVELLING UP QUEENS🥂🥂🥂🥂🍾🍾🍾🍾 That's a small one but I value myself much more. I still have some relapses, but I react really quickly now to men's bullshit. Treat me like the queen I am. I deserve respect, and my time has value.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 09:11 PM