Simp4Aurelius Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	“Hey trouble” is the best Tinder opener; Change My Mind	Conversation	Simp4Aurelius	/r/seduction	24/04/22 08:47 AM

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1	Do very attractive women get approached more or less? “Competition is there for nearly all girls.” I’d disagree with that. The majority of women, even in their 20’s, aren’t really interested in fostering or marketing for competition. I’d bet even half of women in their 20’s aren’t attractive enough to get competition if they tried, unless they lost a ton of weight and made some changes over a year or so. Men are blind to women we don’t find attractive just like women are blind to men they don’t find attractive. I think yall are only focusing on the…	/r/seduction	17/03/26 03:59 PM
8	Role playing in the bedroom kinda screws up your perception of women Just a little side point, the imprinting idea doesn’t get to the root of it. In the last 500,000+ years of humanity, tribes warred and took women as plunder. Often killing the old father and children and forcing the women into a new social environment with a new man and children. Men of higher status could also do this to steal the women of men with less standing in the tribe. The women who couldn’t deal with these situations just didn’t survive or reproduce. It’s not as if the experience imprin…	/r/seduction	11/12/25 04:43 PM
14	from 1 to 10, how bad is it to cry in front of a woman? It’s a dumb and flagellant rule then.	/r/seduction	04/09/25 02:21 AM
25	from 1 to 10, how bad is it to cry in front of a woman? There can’t be a rule to this. Why are you crying? How early are you crying around her? Are you crying around her often? Are you sobbing or maintaining composure while shedding a few tears? Do any of yall think that a woman who sees their now-husband shed a couple tears of joy and disbelief on their wedding day would be turned off by that? Or if you cried in the car after maintaining your composure after your father’s funeral? Or if a husband was/is an infantryman with night terrors and lost bro…	/r/seduction	04/09/25 12:31 AM
1	Have any of yall ever posted a photo of yourself with a dog that's not yours for your dating profile? Bro. This is probably one of the “whitest” white lies ever admitted. People “lie” and tell half truths to preserve their privacy, not get into long stories, or avoid touchy subjects all the time. That’s not a bad precedent, it’s being socially aware. Every corporation, politician, and military since far before Caesar has had a team of people figuring out how they can use words and images to manipulate people. It’s just funny how we all pay taxes and purchase goods from companies, yet some of us …	/r/seduction	21/07/25 06:25 AM
11	How do I avoid coming off as a creep/weirdo? What should I be saying when I approach? 69 inches, bud? Just lead with unsolicited dick pics…. Please skip my wife though.	/r/seduction	19/07/25 02:37 PM
3	Some people are dying of thirst while others are drowning. The prettiest girls are used to being stared at all the time and flocked over by insecure guys. It’s irritating to them. You just have to be the cause of your world, not the one effected by your world. Then get a girl to enter that world and make it fun and non-judgmental. That takes confidence and social skills. You don’t have to be a dick unless the girls have some deep trauma (which you don’t want to touch with a 10 foot pole anyway ime). Asshole jocks in highschool dont get the most play in …	/r/seduction	04/07/25 03:57 PM
3	6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10s Friendly correction because I thought I was having a stroke. 😂 You misused sparingly. “Way too sparingly” means not nearly often enough. But honestly it depends if you’re using a standard bell curve model or doing it by percentile. Saying someone is 9/10 either means she’s more attractive than 90% of women (percentile/linear) or more attractive than like 99.6% (bell-curve/exponential). Either way can be correct depending on the framing. Technically, biological variation is typically bell-curve/e…	/r/seduction	27/06/25 11:05 PM
6	Decent attractive guy, haven't dated in a while, life's a mess & angry at the world With those situations, you really only have two options: 1. Shift gears and work like a dog to find your footing and better your life. 2. Learn to accept the situation and get comfortable with the situation and lean into being present. I’d recommend taking road 1 to its end before going down road 2. Without a place and a good stream of income, or a career growing to a good stream of income, any time you spend out socializing or getting with girls is practically theft/negligence to your future se…	/r/seduction	27/06/25 09:29 PM
3	I want to be a fuckboy and a gentleman at the same time, how do I do that? Being a fuckboy and gentleman are pretty much the same UNTIL the girl clearly isn’t getting what she wants out of a casual relationship. Having “moral game” vs being a cad/fuckboy really comes down to making sure she feels like your shared experiences are a net positive. Don’t use her or let her feel used. Getting a girl interested in sex with you involves a lot of being a gentleman. “Gentleman” actions establish a man-to-woman relationship. Holding a door open, pulling a seat out, walking/drivi…	/r/seduction	22/06/25 09:46 PM
4	I want to be a fuckboy and a gentleman at the same time, how do I do that? That’s because the guys who go to dating coaches are OVERLY nice. PUA students typically put women more on a pedestal than the guys who are actually having success. “niceness” and “douchey-ness” are relative. Some guys would actually do better with women if they were less egotistical and more nice, but egotistical guys don’t go to other guys to learn how to have casual relationships with women. It’s for men like me, who were raised solely by Christian women. Every teacher and authority figure ou…	/r/seduction	22/06/25 08:59 PM
2	Men of Reddit who have successfully gotten plenty of lays through cold approaching? What have you learned and what is your most effective methods for doing so? Cold approach means opening conversation with strangers. As opposed to “warm approach” which means you have a prior social connection. The terms come from sales lingo. Nobody said anything about “daygame” which would exclude the club. So reread the comment chain before being passive aggressive. And that’s laughable that you think the girls in the club are unique. The girls in the park are the girls in the club and bars. You mustn’t have had much experience getting to know girls all that much. So…	/r/seduction	03/06/25 02:05 AM
3	Men of Reddit who have successfully gotten plenty of lays through cold approaching? What have you learned and what is your most effective methods for doing so? Uhh what? Don’t be saying people are BSing about quickly escalating on cold approaches, then say you’re not talking about night game, big dog. You’re not going to get quick escalation from 99% of girls anywhere but a busy bar, party, concert/festival, or a club, should be obvious with OP and OC’s comment. And I’m not seeing any comment above excluding clubs from the scenario. Are you thinking “cold approach” is only talking about day game?	/r/seduction	03/06/25 01:40 AM
12	Men of Reddit who have successfully gotten plenty of lays through cold approaching? What have you learned and what is your most effective methods for doing so? Lmao. Lots of people who’ve never actually gone out enough to know this is 100% possible on this sub too apparently. I’ve made out with a girl on the dance floor of a club before even really talking to her. Actually didn’t take her home that night because she would’ve had to ditch her friend after ignoring her to dance and make out with a random guy in the club for an hour. Lol But this is 110% possible in a club, especially ones that are crowded enough or vacation/university spots.	/r/seduction	02/06/25 10:22 PM
1	Single men, what drastically improved your sex life? Depends on what you mean by “close” really. Essentially closing is just a sales term that means you, as the salesman, know that the other person has accepted the deal you’re putting forward. Typically, in game/PUA lingo, closing means scoring; Getting the girl into bed, but I’d suggest broadening that definition to the sales term: “knowing that she accepts your deal as valuable and wants to be a consensual participant.” For most guys, that means sex, but maybe you want a long term relationship. …	/r/seduction	23/05/25 05:50 PM
12	Should I stop going to a restaurant because of an awkward interaction with a worker? As a male restaurant server, my advice would be to: 1) Only consider ANYTHING if your server is clearly not busy. If you’re eating at 3pm on a Tuesday, you can probably move to 2, but your server is clearly busy, like on a Friday evening, seriously, don’t bother, or come back another time if a waitress catches your eye. 2) Provided your server isn’t super busy, try to make small talk with some positive emotional energy. Of course, we’re there to be hospitable and return your conversation, but th…	/r/seduction	10/04/25 06:15 PM
2	What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom? You missed the whole point dude.	/r/seduction	05/11/24 10:25 PM
1	Her Attraction vs Her Expectations during dating & relationships And most of those initiations of divorce are because the husband was cheating now that he’s in his early to mid 30’s and doesn’t know how to handle the temptation from his peak dating pool. Probably because he married when he was a broke 23 year old and had 5% of the access to sexual relationships he has when he cheats in his 30’s. In most of those cases, HE can’t handle his commitments and emotions. Some amount of women are how you describe ALL women. But so are a lot of men. It’s almost like… …	/r/seduction	18/10/24 09:50 PM
4	Old school tip: The Brad Pitt Rule These rules always sound great in understanding boundaries to what expect when dating as a guy without much experience. But people are far too complicated to take this rule seriously. Just take the situation individually and assess whether the girl is flaking disrespectfully, or has other priorities to attend to. Life is complicated and I have cancelled dates short notice plenty of times while still being 100% interested in the girl. If she’s apologetic and enthusiastic for the reschedule, don’t…	/r/seduction	19/04/23 06:49 PM
10	Guaranteed signs of interest No. No you won’t. The vast majority of women will be flattered from the validation and interest. Occasionally it’ll just be awkward (which is honestly 1/2 of the time their fault, not all women are socially great either or you guys just don’t click at all) but that’s with any social situation. Not once have I seen or heard of somebody getting in trouble for harassment or been smeared by feminists for just talking to another woman to gauge interest and propose exchanging contact info. It’s extrem…	/r/seduction	12/10/22 09:07 PM
1	How to meet girls on a cruise? That’s just because they both ripped off the masterpiece that is “Minions: The Rise of Gru”	/r/seduction	29/07/22 05:53 AM
1	The myth that guys have all the time in the world "to have" children. I agree, but your reasoning is pretty absurd. The idea that men (but especially women) have all the time in the world to have children is actually quite problematic just economically and demographically. You as an individual can raise a child quite well if you have them in your 40's to 50's, BUT the more that idea becomes common place, the more stress is put on demographic factors that are already very stressed. That's not even mentioning how terrible that is to do to your kids, especially if yo…	/r/seduction	25/06/22 10:58 PM
2	Is it stupid to not know how attractive i am ? (guy) Tbf, truerateme has their ratings based on a bell curve to represent a normal distribution. Anything above a 7 is incredibly rare and anything above an 8 is a genetic anomaly by that model. The difference between a 5 and a 6 in terms of how much better looking you are compared to the mean is a lot more impactful than a 6 to a 7 and so on. And that’s based purely on facial aesthetic. It doesn’t take into account the rest of your body or personality. I think I have a pretty average to slightly abo…	/r/seduction	26/05/22 05:55 PM
3	“Hey trouble” is the best Tinder opener; Change My Mind I’d have to disagree with that last part. I think generally speaking in game, asking questions should be used as little as possible in conversation. They’re obviously necessary, but i think they’re pretty crappy as tinder openers. I have more success on both online and IRL game by cold reading. Don’t ask a girl a question about x. Look at her and assume y from x and playfully state your assumption. Ex: profile shows that a girl goes to Fake Example University, Don’t ask her, “how’s your semester…	/r/seduction	28/04/22 05:42 PM
1	“Hey trouble” is the best Tinder opener; Change My Mind Well first off 😂 I meant bold in the context of a canned two word opener. Compared to “hey beautiful” or any “hey insert any overused physical compliment”, yeah I’d say it’s more bold and eye catching. And I agree with the rest of your comment. If something sincerely catches my eye on their profile, I’ll do something personal, but typically I’ll go with “hey trouble”	/r/seduction	28/04/22 05:34 PM
1	“Hey trouble” is the best Tinder opener; Change My Mind Hmm, what age range are you typically matching with and what’s your area like? I’m 20 (but look quite a bit older) and the girls I match with are in the 18-23 range. Live a few miles out from a 150,000 p. City with a large university. Could just be a niche in my local market. And maybe I do have an edgy fuckboy look 😂	/r/seduction	24/04/22 07:44 PM
2	“Hey trouble” is the best Tinder opener; Change My Mind I’ve found it to be useful with a broader audience of women, but you’re right. It’s definitely more effective with girls who are in their party or hoe phase. But I’ve never had a problem with that for hookups. I’m on tinder for a hookup or casual relationship, not a life partner.	/r/seduction	24/04/22 07:40 PM
2	“Hey trouble” is the best Tinder opener; Change My Mind Can attest to complimenting on a girl’s “vibe” 😂 something along the lines of that opener is definitely in 2nd place for me. If a girl has something notable about her in the bio or pictures, I’ll occasionally go with this.	/r/seduction	24/04/22 07:38 PM
5	“Hey trouble” is the best Tinder opener; Change My Mind Never had a problem with it but not a bad idea. Didn’t even know they had that. Thanks for the heads up	/r/seduction	24/04/22 09:17 AM
6	“Hey trouble” is the best Tinder opener; Change My Mind Alright man. Keep doing what you do.	/r/seduction	24/04/22 09:10 AM
15	“Hey trouble” is the best Tinder opener; Change My Mind Keep it simple stupid. I’ve tried that idea. It’s a waste of time and a waste of your odds to just not reply if there’s nothing in her bio worth bringing up without obviously reaching for something to talk about.	/r/seduction	24/04/22 09:08 AM
7	“Hey trouble” is the best Tinder opener; Change My Mind The fact that youre using tinder already makes that fact irrelevant.	/r/seduction	24/04/22 09:04 AM
1	How to approach this cute girl in gym? Of course my guy 👌	/r/seduction	13/04/22 08:03 PM
5	[deleted by user] That self pity and bitterness is going to kill your dating game before any of your objective shortcomings will. Come on dude. Nobody in this forum had it easy in the start. If everyone naturally grew up as that 10/10 perfect guy with killer genetics and bravado, nobody would be coming here to learn how to improve. And life isn’t fair and doesn’t owe you shit. You take the cards you were given and play them the best you can. Small dick? Be glad you aren’t a woman in Africa who had her clitoris cu…	/r/seduction	02/01/22 08:34 AM
5	[deleted by user] Then honestly you shouldn't be dating in the current market. The chance that you find a girl willing to settle for an LTR and screw you over because you didnt have the options to properly vet her are atrocious. Give it a year. Straight up. Take the one night stands that you can get, but put self development first. Honestly, if you wanted to max it out, put the majority of your resources into bettering yourself until you're thirty and start wheeling 24-26 year olds. Assess your options and then e…	/r/seduction	02/01/22 12:16 AM
1	The best thing to say to a woman when you approach I’ve met some pretty masculine gay guys and saying that a clear joke is a lie seems pretty disingenuous. You could be right, but I’m definitely going to try it out. If I could pull girls while I was dressed as Jesus at a Halloween party, I’m sure I can pull that off.	/r/seduction	07/12/21 06:37 PM
1	The best thing to say to a woman when you approach Well clarify soon after the fact that you’re joking around lmao. Getting on her radar in a fun and flirtatious way at the expense of her thinking you’re gay for a half a minute is an easy trade off. It’s not self deprecating but shows you don’t take yourself super seriously and if you deliver it in a confident and fun way, I could 100% see this being gold. It shows you’re just having fun and at the end of the day, that’s damn near a prerequisite to all this. It doesn’t matter how good a line is …	/r/seduction	07/12/21 05:27 PM
11	High School Dating Honestly, as a guy in college, don’t even worry about it in the absolute slightest. When your parents say “High school relationships can bring more bad than good” they’re right… and I’m only 20. But since you asked, here’s a little advice. Be friends with girls and be slightly flirty. Don’t show intentions, but make sure the girl knows you have a dick. Make the convo man to woman. School is one giant social circle and the traditional strategies for pickup or seduction don’t work because they rel…	/r/seduction	07/12/21 11:11 AM
1	The best thing to say to a woman when you approach Honestly, I think a starting line of “I’m gay… but youve got me starting to question my sexuality” if delivered correctly could be a killer opener lmao. It’s funny as hell, shows intent, and I doubt most girls have ever heard it before.	/r/seduction	07/12/21 08:14 AM
5	What to do once I’m at a girl from tinders dorm I think you’re looking at it slightly wrong. Yeah, you’re definitely right in the whole separation between “hookup potential” and “relationship potential” differentiation women have, BUT I 100% believe if you fit into that “relationship potential” category without meeting that “hookup potential” category, you’re shooting yourself in the foot with any relationship. That “I need your dick inside of me” feeling girls get NEEDS to be created and maintained before any relationship begins because if n…	/r/seduction	07/12/21 07:46 AM
12	What to do once I’m at a girl from tinders dorm Yeah I never bought into that. After the first make out with a girl I’ll straight up explain like “Hey I want you to be comfortable but I know asking you for consent every time makes girls dryer than the Sahara, so if you feel uncomfortable just say stop and I’ll stop.” Most girls will laugh and agree. As long as you make it funny with the delivery a little line like that will make her more attracted and more comfortable and will make everything after that a lot easier.	/r/seduction	07/12/21 05:33 AM
3	How to approach this cute girl in gym? This is long winded but I stand by it as it’s the only good way to actually be successful without poisoning the well at a gym, work, etc. If you have to ask this question, there’s already a low chance of you getting her number or hooking up. Working game in a gym is essentially working social circle game. Instead of signaling status with confidence, dress, or anything else, you actually have to build status. Cold approach and “hitting on girls” is a completely different game to social circle. Hi…	/r/seduction	30/11/21 09:05 PM
2	[deleted by user] Here’s my take as a guy who went from 330lbs to 250lbs and 24% bf at 6’2”. Played football, got big for varsity lineman captain position. Got out of football but still ate like I was playing football and got fat as shit. In college currently, have broad shoulders and have lifted weights for roughly 4-5 years so I have a slightly leaner power lifter body. After losing 80lbs, I definitely get more second glances, convos where the girl is immediately invested and flirty, and overall initial attract…	/r/seduction	25/09/21 10:16 AM
1	Where’s the best place to meet high value women? Did I say all of the laws, actions, and morals of the Christian Bible were 100% morally applicable or justifiable in today’s society? Did I say that people who have done awful things in the name of Christianity are not awful? I would be saying what you are saying just a couple of years ago so I understand the points you are trying to make, but none of that is actually relevant to my point. Start looking at the Bible for what it is and ask yourself why these things were written and passed down. R…	/r/seduction	17/09/21 04:35 AM
24	Where’s the best place to meet high value women? As someone with female teachers in my family, I've gotta say its mostly just the environment theyre in. They're probably either married or getting trashed on the weekends lmao. It's weird being behind the "teacher-student relationship" veil.	/r/seduction	10/09/21 06:02 AM
26	Where’s the best place to meet high value women? As someone who is not religious, I've gotta say you're looking at an equally irrational view of the world as the lies and dogma you allude to. There's value in the Christian Bible whether its truly "divine" or not. Not really the place for such a discussion, but the open-mindedness that led me to atheism is the same open-mindedness that led me to value the stories for what they were and recognize why it's so compelling. There's a reason church going girls are, generally speaking, more high value…	/r/seduction	10/09/21 05:58 AM