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| 1 | It's cruel to deprive your spouse of sex and also expect monogamy from themOk but you’d enter the relationship saying one thing and then in the end be about another. Bait and switch. The annoying part is how you’re like “we can talk” but doesn’t sound like you’re open at all about introspecting yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:33 AM |
| 5 | It's cruel to deprive your spouse of sex and also expect monogamy from themWhy marry then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:30 AM |
| 2 | I'm lost. My wife doesn't love me anymore and wants separation and divorce. I am devastatedYou know this already but you need to focus on yourself. There’s a certain comfort in depression - I know it, but it’s no way to live. Promise me you’ll do something for yourself tomorrow brother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/25 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Wtf is this even?Do it man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/25 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Dating Mid 40sNothing wrong with you being here. There are good people on both sides. Hope you stay happy sister. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/25 03:32 AM |
| 2 | The money is forcing me into reconcilliationCame here to say this. Op is getting bad advice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/25 03:27 AM |
| 4 | How do you build up the courage to ask for a Divorce?You didn’t actually say what the issues were. I think those issues are the root of the issue and should be the focus. I would suggest for sake of the kids you don’t think about divorce yet. You simply tell her you need a sit down and ask her wtf are you guys doing. Then based on how that conversation goes go from there | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/25 03:13 AM |
| 0 | Peaceful divorce, but trying to find guidance on how to navigate this new lifeI think it’s good you left and should move on. Just know there are good women out there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/25 03:09 AM |
| 3 | Divorce after cheatingCheating is sort of a taboo but the lack of sex stuff is real. I would probably stand up and just say it how it is. She didn’t take care of you in bed, so you found it elsewhere and because of the taboos in the world you got caught. But you know you aren’t necessarily wrong and it is what it is. Be there for your son. He will understand the reality of life through you, something that will never be taught to him by any woman or society. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/25 03:07 AM |
| 2 | I'm lost. My wife doesn't love me anymore and wants separation and divorce. I am devastatedHow you doing? Feeling better now? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/25 03:02 AM |
| 2 | I think that marriage is risk.To fix it? I mean duh. Do your part. Who else is going to raise the next generation, the state? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 12:55 AM |
| 1 | I think that marriage is risk.I don’t get all you people. Don’t you feel a responsibility to create the next generation? Write a prenup if you have to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Women, why do you scream so much when something bad happens?Spectacular. Launched marketing for my second business which has been in the works for a while. Went for a jog. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Women, why do you scream so much when something bad happens?From your retarded outlook on life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 11:23 PM |
| -3 | Women, why do you scream so much when something bad happens?And so (as if we didn’t know this already) we have proof that women biologically are weaker and need protection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 03:03 AM |
| 0 | Have you ever seen a man who did most of the work in a relationship or marriage?It’s a she them her it he we theirs. I thought you voted for this so why the confusion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Social Media Teaches Women They are Better Than MenThe smart women, and there are many, don’t listen to this bs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Sexual liberation may lead to civilization collapse“Primitive communism” here we go with the linkage to a structure that is obviously bullshit and doesn’t work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 01:25 AM |
| 2 | To LTR a guy who just wants sex is like paying for an ugly sugar baby.Too much talking and too little doing on here. Everyone wants to give and get. Then they come onto places like reddit and brainwash themselves into thinking there’s no one out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 02:14 PM |
| -2 | Expecting the man to pay is abusing outdated gender normsAll this talk is such blah blah blah. Women and men aren’t equal. Men should pay for women. Women should behave and not take advantage of that. Men need to be smart enough to sniff out bs on the first date, so don’t be a pushover and just tell her she owes her part of the bill if you get the sense shes taking you for a ride. There’s a reason men should date women younger than them due in part to these expectations of needing to be able to read women who supposedly are more “mature” and use that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 07:47 PM |
| 5 | If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3Or we could all just acknowledge that Biden’s nod to Zelensky about NATO membership started all this. Since you’re too dumb to understand why, do this: Look at a map of Europe and, understanding the history of the Soviet Union vs the west, look where Moscow is in relation to Ukraine. Go to YouTube and look up videos of Putin talking about how this would cause war more than 5 years ago. Look up videos of dead people in Ukraine. Before your mushy brainwashed head starts foaming at the mouth tellin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 08:56 PM |
| 1 | The mass hysteria around Trump is ridiculousAll these people were saying they’d move if Trump became president. Shut up and move then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 02:00 AM |
| 1 | q4w: what advantages do you think men have over you in dating? Why?Since no one wants kids these days why don’t you just get the snip and then you can spread your legs all over in a big orgy like everyone else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 01:16 AM |
| 1 | The saying "women mature faster" is a lie.News to me. I describe what is best. You said what happens. That isn’t statement of what’s best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 11:10 PM |
| 1 | The saying "women mature faster" is a lie.Random comment spoken with authority that has nothing to do with what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Married men or men in longterm relationships: does your wife/gf financially contribute to your household? If so, please elaborate.Prepare to have your rational, well thought out, truthful comment be downvoted by the herd of mouth breathing emotionally charged Redditors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointlessHow did menopause go for you? Are you battling wrinkles and cellulite as you age? Are you regretting never having kids now that your hair is grey and no one glances at you? Must be why you’re so angry Don’t worry, it’ll be over soon. Lean into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointlessWow, way to go demonstrating how dumb you are. The comment I made regarding women being beautiful really should read, can be beautiful. And that’s a compliment reserved for deserving women which you most certainly aren’t. Women are emotional. Men are logical. Cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointlessAgreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointlessWhat is 666 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 12:23 AM |
| 0 | Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointlessMy comment isn’t a diss on women, women are the most beautifully graceful beings ever (I’m not talking materially, although sure, that too). Men have logic and reason but are immature, hence the general stupidity you no doubt are in touch with on a daily basis. When a man finally matures however, he’s king. Worry I have is how society seems to be teaching women to be men and men to be boys. wtf is up with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Being a woman in your late thirties or forties is not the handicap it used to be. I’ve noticed they’re dating more and more young attractive menI can agree with that and I’d say further boils down to a social media problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 12:17 AM |
| 1 | The saying "women mature faster" is a lie.You’re redefining the meaning of what the original author said in the word mature to what you are trying to rationalize it to mean with your overanalysis on the topic. Women pair best with older men. Even those unhappy feminist types that want to be independent and hang a boy toy on their finger. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointlessI’m married and I guess older than you so let me give you my own experience in case it helps. Many years I dealt with the struggle. In the end however, bs aside, this is what mattered. Sex is overrated. Working on yourself as a man and discipline is underrated. Anyone that tells you otherwise is a self inflated immature cuck. Follow this formula and the right woman and women will come. Don’t stress. Just be yourself and look at everything from the long game perspective. Looking back it’s really … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 07:15 PM |
| -1 | Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointlessThe right woman comes when she comes. They have the same shit going on where they “can’t find a good man” but they are out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointlessYeah exactly. It’s an art, I’m not particularly good at it to be honest, but I know it’s there and at this point at my life I care less. Notice how I got downvoted for my post? Those women downvoting are exactly the same ones that like it when you have an opinion. If you call them out on it straight, they’ll deny it but the basic fact you showed a backbone even if they don’t like what you actually said causes them to give notice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 05:33 PM |
| -1 | Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointlessThey’re also too emotional and not grounded in logic which is what men need to have a discussion based on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Older men dating younger women: A youngish woman's perspectiveYou can still do that now. What’s the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Older men dating younger women: A youngish woman's perspectiveWell, don’t shoot the messenger, millennia of the human race disagrees. I mean if you want to be a manly woman and bed a man boy by all means go for it but that’s what it is. It certainly isn’t the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Older men dating younger women: A youngish woman's perspectiveLast time I checked women mature much faster than men and for that reason naturally pair well with older men. Is this just dawning on you right now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendSorry ladies but this comment right here shows why the vast majority of you, here on Reddit anyway, and especially this sub, are not fit to lead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Modern men appear interested in having kids or having a large family more so than modern womenYup though I don’t think they’ve ruined anything to be honest. More like wallowing in their stupid towers of misery. Anyone with any built up worth knows there are tons of quality people out there, most don’t have time to be griping here on Reddit. Sort of the false impression social sites give of what the majority think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Being a woman in your late thirties or forties is not the handicap it used to be. I’ve noticed they’re dating more and more young attractive menWell. Poor 1st world people then with so few problems on their hands that this is what their minds are filled with… Iron Age > Information Age > Loser Age Pretty pathetic you’re fine with that status quo tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Modern men appear interested in having kids or having a large family more so than modern womenI don’t think life is that dark. But don’t write me as a fool that has seen nothing. I’ve dealt with my own share of bs. Deserving people deserve smiles. People who don’t sometimes really need a smile to heal. Or they don’t but who cares. It’s not anyone’s job to fix the world. But it’s nice if one tries here and there. I don’t think the ship has sailed. I think the ship is sailing and will continue to sail. The question is which ship to sail on. Maybe the same thing you’re saying in the end. Yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Modern men appear interested in having kids or having a large family more so than modern womenI hear you. I wish we could all just chill and smile more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 03:47 PM |
| 6 | Modern men appear interested in having kids or having a large family more so than modern womenNot sure what we’re debating right now to be honest but 👍 I hear you. Thanks for being an awesome mom to 4 awesome children. World needs more of you. Also I am sorry you had that experience with your father. Mine was a workaholic who lived hell emigrating from the Soviet Union in his 40s and it took some time for me to realize he was trying the best he could with what he had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 11:34 PM |
| 4 | Modern men appear interested in having kids or having a large family more so than modern womenYour username suggests your Slavic. That true? Where from? My background is western slav. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 11:19 PM |
| 7 | Modern men appear interested in having kids or having a large family more so than modern womenYeah that’s clear, but considering you have met a ton of men like this and I have met a ton who are not, and I know many dads, probably it’s not as clear cut as one might think. Here’s what I can tell you from a guy’s perspective. I do meet a lot of women that automatically think (at least how I read it) that I am hitting on them just because I looked in their direction or said hi to them. I have a neighbor who just moved in. Single woman who is average looking, nothing wrong with her, about 5 y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 11:18 PM |
| 8 | Modern men appear interested in having kids or having a large family more so than modern womenI must hang in the wrong circles. I literally know no one that thinks like that. If I ever met someone like that I’d view them as a fucking man-child. Never grew up and a complete moron. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 10:48 PM |
| 13 | Modern men appear interested in having kids or having a large family more so than modern womenI’m a dad. Are you saying this because this is what you know or think? I couldn’t possibly imagine saying I’m proud of my son because of social status….. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 10:43 PM |
| 0 | Women consider a woman’s company to be more valuable than a man’sThis sub is retarded. Stop trying to rationalize everything with women. As a 40 year old who has seen it all, it’s patently impossible. Focus on maturity and being yourself. Men mature later. As far as the whole who pays ordeal, who cares. Be the man who will pay and be smart enough that the idiotic women who intentionally take advantage of that never get the opportunity to do so with you. Best way to do that? Stop chasing women your age. All these man boys and manly women are fucking pathetic. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Being a woman in your late thirties or forties is not the handicap it used to be. I’ve noticed they’re dating more and more young attractive menModern day men want to be boys, not men, which is exactly what females tend to complain about. Older women with younger men want to manage their own, and want a pliable boy toy, not a man. That’s what’s going on in this world. Both of these type of people are morons in my view, but whatever, go be “modern” and let’s all pretend that when the aliens invade all these man-women and boy-men are going to be the best we’ve got to protect us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 05:44 PM |
| -1 | Men are shamed for basically having sexual desiresWomen have had their emotionally charged retarded hey day. It’s the job of every single man here moaning about it to take back the reigns. We are more competitive, more driven, more focused. Let’s say it how it exactly is - they don’t stand a fucking chance. So it’s our fault if the world is like this and our world to take back. There are good women out there some doing wife jobs others doing real awesome leadership roles but these ones trying to “carve out” that cut that’s been “robbed” from th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Older men have no incentive to improve themselves for older women who are "tired of their bullshit"..Reading this Reddit, honestly I think you guys give too much of a shit on what women think of you. Fuck them. If they’re quality, they’ll have good dialogue and something more with you. If they’re idiots, you don’t want them in your life anyway. Do other shit than worry about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 02:00 AM |
| – | Men might as well cold approach women in person given how the dating app market skews so heavily against their favor.Fuck Reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 12:27 AM |
| 1 | "Women face more external pressure, men face more internal pressure"Why is this bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 04:28 PM |
| – | Are We Trading Monogamy for Misery? How Feminism’s Sexual Freedom Is Failing UsNo shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Is it the bare minimum nowadays that men go down on women?Yeah exactly and I mean 30 years before that was the 70s the age of the hippies. I swear Reddit cultivates emotional mental diarrhea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Is it the bare minimum nowadays that men go down on women?Which demographic would that be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest?Sounds like something a tik tok influencer would say. I mean no matter the age you want money I guess right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 06:07 PM |
| -6 | Relationships are not worth if sex rarely happenSome females are extremely talented at saying absolutely nothing in the most convincing way. These same females tend to be the most vocal about how they deserve to be in leadership positions because equal rights and blah blah blah. Don’t be one of those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 03:17 AM |
| 3 | In 20 years, will women blame men for allowing their sexual liberation?Dumb women will. Smart women don’t listen to this bs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 07:47 PM |
| -1 | Do you believe circumcision is harming males?You morons on Reddit seriously don’t have enough shit to do if this is front and center in what you care about. Fuck off is my response. Want to ban circumcision? Ban tattoos and tongue piercings as well then. lol. Source: white circumcised male with a young boy who is also white and circumcised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?I didn’t want a kid “right now” but I knew I would regret it if I was 60 and didn’t have a kid, so I strapped on my big boy pants and had a kid. You’re around man boys. Real men cherish children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 01:42 AM |
| – | Why are so many women insulted by the idea of guys making compromises to get sex?No one gives a fuck what you think either. In case that thought didn’t cross your mind either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 11:52 AM |
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