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OYS 5 Mid 40s, Married 23 years. 6’ 0” 195lbs. Gym/Lifts: 0 missed workouts. SQ 165, DL 225, BP 145, Row 105, OHP 85; GSLP. I am doing a basic GSLP program with the five standard compound lifts. Modification: I do not double the weight increase when my AMRAP sets are over 10 reps. Some of my joints have previously been fucked up from non-weightlifting injuries. The knee and shoulder are sore, but it is not what I would consider to be pain. The plan is to continue focusing on the basic compound l…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/22 10:36 PM
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Haven't seen the show. I just read a summary of the episode and saw this: "our fellas play for the fun of the game while trying not to focus on losing." Yes, that is the idea exactly. I will not post specifics about it on reddit, but going out strong with good memories has been a big priority.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/22 12:11 PM
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With your wife's condition, you might find she's able to give more than her previous best stuff considering she's playing her last game - and if it were my girl I know she'd want to pitch a perfect game. I will be surprised if she does not give her best stuff now that this is entering the final innings or the final quarter. One of the things I have valued about her is that she has always risen to meet challenges and made the most of bad situations. Where I am using my mismatched game analogy is …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/22 04:12 AM
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you need this place more than most of the sad sacks of shit that wash up. Yep.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/22 12:39 AM
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OYS 4 Mid 40s, Married 23 years. 6’ 0” 194lbs. Gym/Lifts: 0 missed workouts. SQ 160, DL 210, BP 135, Row 100, OHP 75; GSLP. Marriage/Relationship The process of ramping down everything that my wife was doing around the house is essentially done. I still allow her to do the occasional minor thing, but her physical condition pressed the timeline. As far as I can tell, she is adjusting to the idea that if she is going to serve me, it is going to be mostly through things she can do while sitting or …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 02:03 PM
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So I don't know whether you supplement your D/s stuff with SM. If so, there's an obvious road to go here, just using her body and degrading her verbally and physically about her state and how she can't serve you properly. She'll love it and find release through it, even or especially if she can't feel a thing. The mental stuff is 90% of the pleasure anyway. Yes I do supplement it with a little SM and also B. This is exactly the sort of thing I meant when I said I am working on ideas. Your sugges…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/22 07:59 PM
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Does she know this? Have you told her directly? Yes. Very directly. Repeated often since the diagnosis. when a relationship is based on serving, what happens to that relationship when one is no longer able to serve? If/when she gets to that point, she is unlikely to overtly tell you because women communicate covertly for the most part. You may see it in her attitude, possible withdrawal, depression, etc. but she will be unable/unwilling to verbalize it. That's the elephant. She pushed back on my…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/22 12:05 AM
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OYS 3 Mid 40s, Married 23 years. 6’ 0” 194lbs. Gym/Lifts: 0 missed workouts. SQ 155, DL 195, BP 125, Row 85, OHP 65; GSLP. Marriage/Relationship As I watch my wife deteriorate physically, I have been taking a step back to consider how I want to lead her as she finishes out her life. For my own reasons, I decided after her diagnosis that I will see this through until the end. Sorting through the current state of the situation got my focus last week. When the relationship with my wife started, I h…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 12:40 PM
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​ 15min on Google would show the revolutionary and game changing advances that have been made rehabbing joints for old, weak fucks in the last few years and generally keeping them longer in the game than Darwin intended. This is the first thing you have said that makes me think there might be something worth spending any of my time looking into. Thanks for that, RPeed.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/22 01:34 AM
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Spiritual: Is your spirituality part of your sexual strategy? If not, why is it in your OYS? If it is part of your sexual strategy... I'm assuming you are immersed in the evangelical Christian culture based on how you worded things. It's worth considering all the covert and often not-so-covert contracts that can come with modern evangelical Christianity. Ironically, considering the main tenant of Christianity, the institutional church almost always pre-conditions you to living a life of contract…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 02:04 AM
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The body was absolutely not meant to squat. It's funny, just the other day I was noting the perfect squat form that my young grandkids seemed to be doing naturally. They can hold a deep squat for impressive lengths of time, and lift impressive weights (compared to their body weight) from a deep squat.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 04:57 PM
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Peed, Maybe I am wrong, but you come across to me like someone who is hawking their religion. Until you can speak with credibility about how you improved your own old and fucked up joints, I'm going to have a hard time taking your advice on this seriously.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 04:40 PM
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Agreed with everything you said here, Useful. Switching to free weights with the occasional specific cable exercise thrown in was the best thing ever I did. Slow, progressive increases in weight led to big improvements in joint strength, joint mobility, and muscle strength.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 03:53 PM
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I am coming back from a 6 month total layoff from anything fitness related, and the weights look small to me. Reading comprehension, dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 02:23 PM
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Why - because there is something very satisfying about lifting heavy shit. Squats and deadlifts are the safest way for me to do it. I am coming back from a 6 month total layoff from anything fitness related, and the weights look small to me. The joints should come along for the ride as long as I keep with higher reps / lower weight until the joints catch up. I have done it before, so I expect it to work again.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 02:05 PM
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OYS 2 Mid 40s, Married 23 years. 6’ 0” 195lbs. Gym/Lifts: 0 missed workouts. SQ 135, DL 155, BP 115, Row 65, OHP 55; face pull, lateral raise, dead hang, resisted internal/external shoulder rotation. The knee with injury history was only slightly sore after week 1, so I added weight on Squat (+50) and Deadlift (+70). The sketchy shoulder is angry about restarting lifting, so Bench stays below a plate. And the elbow has no complaints yet, so Row and Press continue with cautious increments. Past e…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 12:56 PM
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Some elements of stoic philosophy have served me very well and I know the quote. Thanks for the reminder. I certainly was ready to seize some opportunities early on. I suspect I may have been more aptly described opportunistic than sharp.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/22 02:13 AM
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You are correct, using the "good genes" copout is one more excuse that allowed me to rationalize settling for mediocrity. I do not regret reprioritizing my life for a time to handle my wife's illness. However, I do very much regret laying off lifting for 6 months. I could have and should have made the time. I'm starting to believe it should be prioritized up there with food and water for men.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/22 02:00 AM
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You either never were sharp or have now become antiquated. You let the world pass you by. Insightful. I am not sure if the modest success I have had in life is because I was ever very sharp. It may just be that I caught a few lucky breaks that I capitalized on.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/22 12:20 PM
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On second thought, I updated this week's OYS 1 due to a pattern I recognized after posting the rambling original. I am using OYS to clarify my thoughts as much as anything. May as well go with the version that has slightly more clarity.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/22 07:21 PM
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I related to this post on askMRP and that the 1-2-3 Magic process could be applied (example): I remember 1-2-3 Magic from 20 years ago when it was popular with other parents in my area. Try not to get too pedantic with the steps. You seem to have gleaned some useful mindset information, but there is not any "magic" in the process. Once you have truly internalized good mindsets and your wife and kids understand how you respond to things, you may be able to get the job done with just a look/expres…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/22 03:53 PM
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OYS 1 (Edited from original post after I saw the pattern) Mid 40s, Married 23 years. 6’ 0” 195lbs. On OYS and Journaling: For OYS I copy/paste from a journal and then try to edit it down to just the relevant material. The journal can be chaotic and occasionally manic, so the process to distill it down here is helpful. This week I saw a pattern thanks to OYS. Relying on past success or current advantages instead of continuing to grind: My shit to own follows a consistent pattern: I have a big gap…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/22 12:56 PM
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Noted. I do have things to work on and a lot of it is very, very basic shit. On the other hand I have a wife who has enthusiastically been my personal submissive slut for years. Although this doesn't happen often, she gets off on watching me with other women that she has brought to bed. The bar is set very high. I have a hard time imagining that a vanilla monogamous relationship will work out for me in the future. For now though I am content to do the work to fill in some obvious gaps I have on …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/22 12:00 PM
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All guys exiting a marriage say they don't see a committed, monogamous relationship in their future. 95% find themselves in one within the first three months. That's an interesting fact to consider. Do you think that is because they are unwilling to do the work to build a different way of life for themselves so they settle for what is familiar? Or is it because the committed monogamous relationship proves to be the best option for most men? Just trying to understand why that is so.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/22 12:38 AM
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Thank you for the GSLP recommendation. I just looked it up and glanced at it. I agree with the author about not doing squats and deadlifts on the same day. Tried DL and lowbar squats on the same day for a while last year and the fatigue/recovery time it caused seemed counterproductive. Figuring out "what do I want" is something I have been working on. The relationship with my wife has been good, but it started when I was young. I'm skeptical about the idea of aiming for any kind of committed rel…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/22 05:52 PM
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Perhaps. Do you have inside knowledge about the afterlife? There are real men there to provide fucks for everyone?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/22 03:51 PM
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Thanks for the welcome, Horns. Moralizers are always around, and will not bother me. The wife is aware that things are not exclusive. When I say I have little practical experience outside the marriage, that is because I am not including the experiences with other women joining the two of us in bed.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/22 03:48 PM
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OYS 0 Mid 40s, Married 22 years. Stats: 6’ 0” 195lbs. Haven’t lifted heavy in 5-6 months. Marriage: With a few minor exceptions, I have always been treated respectfully and sex is as frequent as I can handle. There has been a D/s dynamic to the relationship for the past few years which opened a whole new world of creativity. Why I am here: There is nothing about my marriage that I wish to improve, but there are things about myself that need work. I became acutely aware of these things because my…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/22 03:59 AM
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