| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 15 | ''Just work on yourself'' | Lifestyle | Simply_Bry | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Flirting in a professional working environment? | Lifestyle | Simply_Bry | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 06:24 PM |
| 0 | I don't know how to act in groups | Simply_Bry | /r/seduction | 07/05/19 11:59 AM |
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| 12 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your placeWhen you're tall and good looking this will work. Not when you're short (165cm) and skinny. Then you need to have exceptional game and spike her emotions constantly (using push/pull method). | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 02:05 PM |
| 7 | Is it possible to cold approach and have sex same day?Yes it's possible. Have seen it happen multiple times with my pickup buddies. We left without them because they stayed at the girls place. I have not (yet) been among them. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Vadim from Honest Signalz and Austen SummersAustin Summers is still giving bootcamps. I follow him on Instagram | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 12:03 PM |
| 8 | Cold Approach worksThen what would you do? Wait outside for hours until she's done working? Waiting until faith will bring you two together again? The best time to approach a girl is the moment you see her, because you won't get another chance ever again. | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 05:53 PM |
| 1 | [27M] as a black male how do I approach other races of womenForget about race entirely. It's not an issue until you make it one. If you need more convincing, watch Tay Social videos on Youtube. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 04:30 PM |
| 52 | I am a girl and I am confused about this subredditSorry but listening to women's dating advices kept me in the friendzone for years. | /r/seduction | 19/09/20 07:55 PM |
| -2 | She is not replying to your texts? MOVE ON instantly.What if the reason a girl rejected you is because you made a mistake? What if you double texted her too much and that turned her off? Why would you block her? You are not giving her a second chance she is giving you a second chance because you showed you're not butthurt by her reaction. | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 11:57 AM |
| 6 | She is not replying to your texts? MOVE ON instantly.After I had a first date with this girl, she began responding very slowly and sometimes not at all. I decided not to block her, but instead forget about her and never saying anything again. But after a month of silence she started texting me again and we went on a second date. In your case the girl wasn't able to text you because you blocked her. Wouldn't you atleast have a date with her if she showed interest again? | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 10:50 AM |
| 343 | She is not replying to your texts? MOVE ON instantly.Blocking isn't necesarry I think. It can make you look a bit butthurt. | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 10:31 AM |
| 3 | Girl messages enthusiastically on Instagram but doesn't follow me back?Girls need atleast a followers/following ratio of 3 | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Dating isn't fair for menIs dating fair for ugly women? | /r/seduction | 25/08/20 08:06 PM |
| 1 | ''Just work on yourself''Thank you | /r/seduction | 16/08/20 07:11 AM |
| 2 | ''Just work on yourself''I do forearm exercises every day with dumbbells and also calf exercises, but they are barely growing. Especially my wrist is really thin and not growing at all. My chest, biceps/triceps and back do grow and I get compliments on the beach regularly. But I remain a skinny person. Also my fashion seems to be on point because I get complimenta. I try to copy attractive guys I see on the streets and models. What activities are you suggesting? | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 11:16 PM |
| 30 | Girl said I’m an annoying idiotNothing wrong with starting a conversation, but you should learn to recognize non verbal indications that she is not interested. Don't take it personally. Just say have a nice day and leave. | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 08:21 AM |
| 1 | An expat in Netherlands, in need of some direction or practical tips. [long read]I don't know what your expectations are, but to me it looks like you're barely taking action. What methods are you trying? Dating apps? How many girls do you approach everyday? Do you go out? Also you have nothing to fear from corona at 26 years old. You probably already had it without noticing. | /r/seduction | 01/08/20 07:22 PM |
| 44 | 💯💣It rhymes so it must be true | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Please don’t approach girls who are alone, especially without people around.Gillette was discouraging men to talk to attractive women because of the #metoo movement, but that's why it got so much backlash. Men talking to women has been in our nature for thousands of years. It really tells how out of touch we are with reality. | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Please don’t approach girls who are alone, especially without people around.You would let an attractive girl walk away just because society tells you "it's not okay" to talk to a girl who is walking alone? Sad to see there are people with this self-limiting mentality. | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Please don’t approach girls who are alone, especially without people around.It gets me laid so why would I stop? | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 09:56 AM |
| 2 | 100 approaches and still nothingTry to go for instant dates | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Why do people stay this subreddit if they hate seduction advice so much? Your "just be your best self" advice is just pure crap.Just be yourself 4Head | /r/seduction | 20/05/20 02:28 PM |
| 3 | [21M] My frustration about my complete and utter sexual inexperience has reached a height the past few weeks and it's tearing me apartI was depressed and miserable for quite a few years before losing my virginity at 26. Then I realised that sex actually IS overrated. Fun, but nothing too special. Now my priorities are self development and life style. I've never been less interested in sex after having sex. I have so much potential and wasted so much time and energy in bitching about being a virgin. But I'm not gonna pretend sex isn't an important part of being human. You want to get laid, you have to work for it. Take action i… | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 04:40 PM |
| 1 | They're just people.I used to think girls were goddesses who need to be put on a pedastal all the time | /r/seduction | 05/02/20 08:23 PM |
| 1 | What are good conversation starters or things to talk about in a loud nightclub?Touch the back of her arm and say what you noticed about her (clothes, hair, her dancing). Introduce yourself while shaking her hand. But keep holding her hand, then turn her around so she knows you want to dance. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 02:12 PM |
| 2 | So looks don’t matter, but why doesn’t it?Good looks can definitely help to get you girls easier. I think Tinder proves that. But you don't NEED good looks to get girls in a real social environment. What matters most is having the confidence to approach girls consistently, not caring about rejections, making her laugh and not being afraid to show your sexual intentions. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 05:57 PM |
| 6 | Picking Up A Hot Girl In Warsaw Poland | Daygame InfieldAll of this is irrelevant since he got a date | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | I wish looks did not matter.Yeah whining and crying for the rest of your life seems like the best option. | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Flirting with a girl at her work: how can I tell if she’s just being nice because it’s her job or if she’s flirting back?Yeah I think it's best to get her number or Instagram and try to set a date via text instead of flirting at work. Girls might find that uncomfortable because of her colleagues who might judge her. | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 03:46 PM |
| -1 | Did RSD quit or is PUA just dying?Feminism, #metoo and other SJW bullcrap may have something to do with it too. In a study it was shown that especially young men have way less sex than a few years back. Men are scared to approach women and to express their sexuality because it is seen as bad these days. Game can also easily be replaced by dating apps for the lazy people. And people in general are very lazy. | /r/seduction | 18/06/19 03:18 PM |
| 1 | I don't know how to act in groupsI don't think that works. Guys who never talk are not considered attractive. I also don't like girls who are too shy. What if the hottest girls talks more then the other ugly girls? | /r/seduction | 08/05/19 11:58 AM |
| 1 | I don't know how to act in groupsThanks bro! Will keep it in mind for next time | /r/seduction | 07/05/19 01:31 PM |
| 1 | I don't know how to act in groups27 | /r/seduction | 07/05/19 12:29 PM |
| 2 | The Inevitable Death of Day Game (& what this means for you)As long as there are streets with girls walking, I will approach them. Daygame isn't going anywhere. | /r/seduction | 29/04/19 03:19 PM |
| 7 | Girl keeps flaking after agreeing to go outStop texting a date other girls who don't waste your time | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 02:50 PM |
| 4 | I see plenty of guys here who whine and whine yet actively reject any new advice or criticism and it makes me sick 😷I used to be like this too. I loved to complain about my problems, but only when people don't provide me a solution, because I am way smarter than everyone else and tried everything :) | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 06:29 PM |
| 4 | What to say to lead up to a kiss?I think talking is not necessary. Try to hug her for whatever bullshit reason. Then look her in the eyes, really close, while holding her. If she looks you in the eyes long enough with a soft smile, you're probably good to go. | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 07:40 PM |
| 13 | After years of trying I finally approached a girl...annnddd...nothing bad happened!Wait you didnt die or anything? | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 11:03 PM |
| 1 | How often should you have sex according to your age (chart)If there's one way to make depressed virgins even more insecure, then it has to be by telling them how many times they SHOULD have sex. | /r/seduction | 13/01/19 11:42 PM |
| 7 | I can be the funniest guy a lot of people know. But I can also try too hard at times.How do I stop myself from trying too hard, but how do I also avoid being a boring stick in the mud?I'm kinda in the same boat as you. Having a good sense of humor can be very beneficial, but there needs to be a limit. I remember a few years back reading an article about how being funny too much can work backwards because people indirectly get the impression you value the amusement of other people more than your own amusement. They will then lose respect for you. I also asked myself the question: of all the people I like now and liked in the past, how many were hilariously funny? I can't remem… | /r/seduction | 08/01/19 12:42 PM |
| 8 | Lol I gave this chick my number and she put it on her IG story for everyone to see. And yes I had to block my own number to post here. I usually get the girls number but she was cashier and there was a huge line behind her. Only reason I know this is because someone who works with her texted me.Then you give her your phone and she enters the number? I do that all the time. | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 03:59 PM |
| 18 | Lol I gave this chick my number and she put it on her IG story for everyone to see. And yes I had to block my own number to post here. I usually get the girls number but she was cashier and there was a huge line behind her. Only reason I know this is because someone who works with her texted me.You can flirt with girls who are on their work. This is just a bitch and she would probably do the same if it was in a casual setting. Another thing, I think it's better to always ask for her number. Girls are less likely to send a message first. It's just not in their nature. | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 03:53 PM |
| 229 | Holy fucking christ i'm lonelyNo, that escort is not gonna numb your pain. At least not permanently. Not with the victim mentality you're having right now. If you want to compare yourself with others, compare yourself with people who have it way worse than you and I can already say I was one of those people who had it worse than you. Yeah, I was exactly like you. Blaming other factors instead of yourself for the position you're in is easy and comforting because it takes responsibility away. But unfortunately that is not how … | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Alcohol; The Real Truth About Getting An Unfair Advantage In The ClubI don't drink because of medical reasons and if a girl doesn't like that she can fuck off. Besides that, I like going out and dancing so much that I give others the impression that I did have a few drinks. When I admit I'm completely sober they are always somewhat surprised. For me it's better this way. Alcohol is disgusting and expensive and you make yourself believe you need alcohol to have fun and approach girls, which is extremely self limiting. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Why do some PUAs and some of this subreddit preach "alpha male" mentality and think women like objects? These two mentalities are the main obstacles when approaching womenDepends what your definition of 'alpha' is. I think that word has different meanings these days and it's difficult to say which one is correct. Personally I think an 'alpha male' is a man who knows what he wants and doesn't let anyone stop him from reaching his goals. And no he doesn't do that by showing his muscles and being a douchebag. I think these men are considered more attractive. It's basically the exact opposite of a Nice Guy (which you can read about in the book by Robert Glover) whoes… | /r/seduction | 23/11/18 12:09 PM |
| 3 | Don’t know what to do for for first date tomorrowShe is with you, so you don't have to do any special (expensive) activities. You are awesome, you are funny, you are smart. Drink a coffee, walk and talk, flirt. Poke her arm and belly and then go for the kiss in a romantic spot. | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 12:30 AM |
| 23 | I hart minecrafrYeah Minecraft can be a real (cock)blocker | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 11:56 AM |
| 19 | Why you should ALWAYS try to number-closeI don't agree with the social media > number closes. In my experience, when she suggests to add me on Facebook or Instagram and I afterward suggest to share numbers instead, she doesn't want to do it. That indicates she still doesn't trust me. Also some girls just want more followers and friends solely for ego-filling reasons and validation. However, when you have a really strong profile filled with model-like pictures with a lot of likes and social proof (both with girls and guys) it may certai… | /r/seduction | 27/10/18 05:25 PM |
| 3 | rsd is shadyYeah because one guy represents every single person in RSD | /r/seduction | 02/10/18 09:50 AM |
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