Simplysalted Archive

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20	Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children? You should read Lost Boys: Why Our Sons Turn Violent and How we Can Save Them, it analyzes school shooters and finds lots of common qualities. The highest being- single moms, no father figure standin, and isolation from peers in elementary school. Unfortunately we as a society are responsible for the school shooting epidemic, and until we start Advocating away from the whole "girl boss single mom, just divorce him if he snores too much" attitude it's just gonna become worse and worse. Its estima…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 05:58 PM
2	CMV: Women should not have to make outfit choices based on the creepiness of males You are railing against men like we all have some collective thought process, im not arguing to justify male behavior, but I'm explaining the reality of it. You can live in LA LA land and wear a bikini in India if you'd like, but when something happens to you it really is on you for making a stupid choice. As far as the bear thing: there's a really ironic video making the rounds of late. A woman is walking on a trail and comes across a mama bear and two cubs, she stays calm and walks her way bac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 11:55 AM
3	CMV: Women should not have to make outfit choices based on the creepiness of males Yes? You should treat all men that are strangers as a possible threat? That's literally what every man is doing as they walk around, every guy you see has the possibility to be a threat. Would it be nice if we could all walk around without ever having to consider our own safety? Yes! But that's not reality, and worrying about the possibility of a man attacking you is not in any way a uniquely female thing. Men are the vast majority victims of violent crime, hell in every conversation men have be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 08:38 PM
0	Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assault Don't go to barbaric countries and expect anything less, have some common sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 12:54 PM
-1	Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assault Sure they do, everyone has responsibility for the choices they make. Being a victim of a violent crime does not absolve you of all responsibility, like the motorcycle rider that went to fucking India and got raped. That's horrible, obviously she's a victim, but no one put a gun to her head and told her to go to a country that treats women as chattel. Still responsibility there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 10:17 AM
-2	Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assault Sure they do, everyone has responsibility for the choices they make. Being a victim of a violent crime does not absolve you of all responsibility, like the motorcycle rider that went to fucking India and got raped. That's horrible, obviously she's a victim, but no one put a gun to her head and told her to go to a country that treats women as chattel. Still responsibility there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 10:16 AM
5	Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assault It's not uncommon to see a post on the female subs that says, "We hooked up, but I regretted it afterwards, was I raped?" And when I see those I genuinely have to ask my self: if the encounter was consensual how the hell can it be rape? Had plenty of hookups where both parties were mildly intoxicated, in theory any of those women could've said they were raped even though the encounter was consensual and they would have overwhelming support and validation from the community. Hell there is legal p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 10:07 AM
1	Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partner No it's outlined pretty distinctly in the book I referenced, its an analysis on school shooters, I recommend you check it out. It's definitely causation, single parenting seems to affect boys worst of all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 05:35 AM
4	Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partner Fun facts- Children of single parents are more likely to be incarcerated, addicted to drugs, and get divorced. Additionally, the vast majority of school shooters in the US are boys that come from a single parent household. Source- The Lost Boys	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 02:21 PM
7	How are bigger women improving their dating game if even? Man being a girl seems cool	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 04:20 PM
3	To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense? Pearl is not attractive at all lol but I do get the sense that she is disingenuous at times in how much she actually believes. I think she's intelligent and is good at debating random low IQ women on the street about things they've never really verbalized, and she takes a Ben Shapiro stance in citing random statistics that may or may not be real. Like she literally said, "I look forward to the day when I can just let my husband handle all of my finances" her tone and body language don't match wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 06:22 PM
1	Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies? You should read Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski, its female centric but is one of the only evidence based sexual psychology book that exist. Women and men experience attraction differently, GENERALLY, she uses a car analogy which I find describes it nicely. I read it as a dude and liked it	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 09:25 PM
3	Starting to see a resurgence of “incel” posts/comments and I’d like to address them once and for all THIS holy shit this book changed my perspective on everything. People are not put on earth to validate you, people and women especially respect people that march to the beat of their own drum and don't sweat the small stuff.	/r/seduction	31/07/22 02:43 PM
1	Should men have a male VERSION of the classic hourglass physique? Yall gotta quit pushing this myth that girls care about your upper body size, for most women "in shape" is just a box to check on the standards list. Ive met very few that actually care about your physique, gotten 5x the amount of compliments on my arms from guys because they tend to know how much work goes into it. But they will notice if you are in any way smaller/same size as them, thats more important to them they don't want to feel large compared to you. Just be buff and look semi proportio…	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/22 11:37 AM
1	How Long is Too Long to Wait For Sex? "Calling someone daddy is not a paedo thing" lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 11:28 PM
3	How Long is Too Long to Wait For Sex? So you acted this way one time and it worked once, im curious if/when it won't work for you in the future if it doesn't work out with your guy. Will this strategy work at 25? 30? 35? I'm doubtful to be honest, I think this kind of hypergamy is only really possible at your age. Considering all of the things he provides for you, I'd say the assumption that there is a significant age gap isn't too big of a leap. And with someone at his economic status he could likely trade you in for a newer model …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 09:03 PM
2	How Long is Too Long to Wait For Sex? Kudos to you, but thats not really the kind of organic attraction I'm looking for. I dont want to be "chosen" as the smart choice after carefully tasting other dishes, I want to be desired for me. If by date 3 you are still dating around then you're just not that interested, that's fine and dandy, but I know when to cut my losses and move on. To me true attraction just doesn't work like that, there are dates I've been on where it has been straight electric between her and I. All of the casual fl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 08:56 PM
1	How Long is Too Long to Wait For Sex? Does being comfortable for you involve being in a relationship? While I can see that side of things I personally will not be monogamous with someone I haven't slept with, I want to know the chemistry is there before I commit to anyone. Imo Nothing is worse than waiting 3 months dating and getting attached to someone then to find out you actually aren't sexually compatible due to a variety of reasons. Feels like wasted time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 08:38 PM
1	How Long is Too Long to Wait For Sex? I'm curious has this worked for you? Do you find yourself in good relationships often? If we went more than a month like this I'd honestly assume you aren't into me and suggest we be friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 08:31 PM
2	How Long is Too Long to Wait For Sex? It really depends, I'd say it's very case by case basis. If I perceive it as some arbitrary power play then my patience will be limited, if it's an actual desire for comfort and trust then cool I'm game. But it also depends on if there is any intimacy at all, a month of nothing but pecks on the lips is frankly a waste of my time, if there is no sexual tension after the first few dates then there likely never will be. I generally go for or ask for a kiss after the first or second date, depending …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 08:28 PM
1	Struggling to lose weight. How old are you? Hormone imbalance could be a factor, but its more likely you're just underestimating how much you are eating or expecting results too quickly. How long have you been fasting?	/r/RedPillWomen	17/07/22 02:19 PM
1	Obesity has decimated the dating market in America. Dieting without exercise really only yields short term results, people drop weight for a year or so then go back to their standard unhealthy lifestyle. Exercise is 100% the key, you can diet all you want but sticking with a strict exercise regimen is where you see the biggest difference, particularly later in life. The physically fit stay healthy far longer than those that simply fad diet their whole lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 06:47 PM
2	While I admire the hard work and effort to improve your health and well being, personally, physical characteristics I find attractive in men are usually things you're born with In the same way that most women can't tell when a guy is athletic unless he's 6ft 200+, but other guys notice them biceps. I reckon women notice each others makeup far more often than men do. And eyebrows? As long as you don't have a unibrow then the majority of men couldn't care less what your eyebrows look like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 12:22 PM
8	While I admire the hard work and effort to improve your health and well being, personally, physical characteristics I find attractive in men are usually things you're born with I have never, not once, found a woman more attractive for wearing makeup. I think that's a great analog, makeup can highlight your positive features but if you're plainly unattractive and wear a face full of paint its not going to help you. The "we improve the only thing we can control" angle has been covered sufficiently so ill drop another angle. Society and people in general have no respect for weak men. Ive been training for the past 3 years, at my height and weight I am easily one of the mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 11:03 AM
1	[deleted by user] Man have you ever like spoken to an 18-19 year old? It is really like talking to a child 9 times out of 10	/r/seduction	07/08/21 12:10 AM
0	What should I say? Is this a meme? I'm all for securing a date and not talking to much but you lost me at "daily beta orbiters", you sound like a copypasta	/r/seduction	06/08/21 08:15 PM
6	Surprising facts regarding family court Thats how CMV usually works	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 12:13 PM
1	Surprising facts regarding family court Family court is too different state by state to allow anyone to paint it in broad strokes. State courts set precedence of family court, and I guarantee if you broke it down state by state it would be entirely dependent on region of the US. Your data doesn't take that into account, and a small subject pool does not count for the 1000's of individual family courts there are. All with their own judges, with their own corrupt biases and opinions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 12:12 PM
-1	She said lets be friends, I said bye This right here, good on you sticking to the boundaries you established.	/r/seduction	18/05/21 11:58 AM
1	She said lets be friends, I said bye Please don't say "Alphas" that shit is cringey as fuck it is 2021	/r/seduction	18/05/21 11:54 AM
3	I keep accidentally friendzoning girls and I don't know how to stop? Yeah haha this place can be kind of a toxic echo chamber pretty often, but there are nuggets of truth in like 1/3rd of the advice. I appreciate the People's Platinum!	/r/seduction	08/05/21 03:33 PM
3	I keep accidentally friendzoning girls and I don't know how to stop? Honestly its up to you and what you are willing to put up with. In the early stages im trying to spot red flags and weed out lack of interest.	/r/seduction	08/05/21 03:31 PM
10	I keep accidentally friendzoning girls and I don't know how to stop? Direct is best for you, if direct questions turn em off you then they likely weren't worthwhile anyway. I personally don't like people that can't communicate what they want, but some people may be more tolerant of that. I'm definitely in the camp of talk as little as possible until your first date, engage, make an impression, set up a meeting, confirm the night before.	/r/seduction	08/05/21 12:58 PM
45	I keep accidentally friendzoning girls and I don't know how to stop? It really is a crapshoot on what a specific girl prefers, I've had girls that exclusively like to talk on the phone, girl that like to text, girls that don't like either. While there's some solid advice on here, when it comes to communication I think its important to MATCH their energy and not exceed it. I dont think there's some invisible line between texting and texting "too much."	/r/seduction	08/05/21 11:47 AM
2	Only use texting to set up a date. Oops my bad, didn't catch that! I'd have to agree with most of your points there then, in my area everything is still closed for the pandemic so it never occurred to me that people weren't using online dating.	/r/seduction	04/03/21 01:50 PM
8	Only use texting to set up a date. This is an awful way to help people struggling at online dating. The advice should be "get better at texting girls and being funny", because that's what they like. Say what you will, but many women are texting someone the majority of the day. Texting is like small talk, ask them questions about themselves and remember the answers. At the right time in the future, show that you listened by bringing the subject up again and ask a deeper question about it in person. Thats talking to women 101. The …	/r/seduction	04/03/21 01:43 PM
22	Woman who poured boiling water on her sleeping boyfriend and recorded it on Snapchat finally arrested and charged hang her sorry did anyone else hear that? It sounds like public execution would solve many problems	/r/PussyPassDenied	03/02/21 02:24 PM
9	Woman who poured boiling water on her sleeping boyfriend and recorded it on Snapchat finally arrested and charged Not with that attitude, but if the people started holding the corrupt courts accountable a Lá French Revolution wed have less problems overall. There's always going to be an unbalance of power, I'd rather it be on the people side. Let the Casey Anthony's of the world fear every moment they still live free.	/r/PussyPassDenied	03/02/21 02:20 PM
1	What causes you to lose interest in a girl? Guys have a big sense for when they are or are not making someone uncomfortable, while their confidence might propel them in a cold approach. If that girl appears obviously uncomfortable then the next reasonable course of action is to disengage and stop bothering her.	/r/seduction	22/01/21 02:55 PM
2	Open Up Your Awareness--Women Are Hitting On You Every Day And You're Oblivious To It Jesus your comments are horribly cringey, I would love to see another about how successful your love life is. (This bit right here really takes the cake for insecurity, you have to be a troll right? Did I "get it" :p) ps: I shudder to think what your comments are like on your other account, probably more ignorant opinions about how its okay for you to bother strangers going about their day. You clearly have no regard for the discomfort of other people, and thats something I just can't convince i…	/r/seduction	13/10/20 12:07 AM
3	Open Up Your Awareness--Women Are Hitting On You Every Day And You're Oblivious To It Read: Normal people are friendly in most situations, I smile when someone makes eye contact because just blankly staring at them looks really weird. No, no one is hitting on you at the grocery store, in actuality the odds are no one is hitting on you and thats okay. Your worth is not decided by whether strangers find you attractive. Like you said people are at the grocery store to do one thing: shop. Nothing else. Dont approach people at your grocery store, honestly in a pandemic you shouldn't b…	/r/seduction	12/10/20 03:37 PM
5	Open Up Your Awareness--Women Are Hitting On You Every Day And You're Oblivious To It The truth is you're just telling men what they want to hear. No, most guys are not magically being hit on and don't know it. Most women do not express outward attraction until they are certain its being reciprocated. What you described in your post above is being friendly, smiling at someone in the grocery store is being friendly. Not an invitation to be hit on.	/r/seduction	12/10/20 12:12 PM