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| 107 | Never give them all the answers! He could have consulted my profile for this. Back in my pick-me days I would have given him a list lol. | REMINDER 👑 | Simsira10 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:43 PM |
| 71 | But clearly you do discriminate? Whatever race will do as long as it's not black women 🙄 | THINGS SCROTES SAY | Simsira10 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Very true, men love the chase and the challenge. And of course there's a bunch of butt-hurt boys in the comments. | SCROTES MAD | Simsira10 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 08:20 PM |
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| 11 | Prior to this, he simply said “would you be interested in a sunset/dinner date?” I replied “for sure!” After that, I asked him where he lived. That’s where THIS convo stems from. He went from “lol” to getting mad at me for asking for clarification regarding the date.He doesn't seem mad to me. I can misread the tone of texts sometimes, but this seems fine? If your gut is telling you to steer clear then trust it 100%. But please correct me, I'm so far from the dating scene right now. Maybe this is a yellow flag situation? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:00 PM |
| 57 | Asking for men to pull their weight is MaNiPuLaTiOnI hate that I'm seeing so many of these stories lately, especially during the holidays. I pray that she leaves him! The lack of empathy these men have is astounding and kind of scary, absolutely no conscience whatsoever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 05:41 AM |
| 9 | Rewatching Girlfriends on Netflix and... yikesYes! I was getting second hand embarrassment from her when I watched that art gallery scene. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 11:33 PM |
| 13 | How the patriarchal mindset means that chasing men is still a complete waste of time.I'm 26F and in the exact same boat as you! I get how depressing it can be for sure. I try not to put too much of the blame on myself and just realize that modern/online dating has ruined the HV dynamic, everything is so casual now. There's no certainty, no direction, and you have to be guarded like Fort Knox. Nowadays I hear that most women who remain single for most of their life have a hard time finding a man that can step up to their level in terms of emotional availability, education, ambiti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 04:39 AM |
| 9 | You don't need to beat yourself up if some man didn't want youThis makes me feel so much better! I've had me pick me days and associated so much of my worth towards men. But I have to admit, to this day I've never been with a man, and I have my moments here and there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 12:00 AM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020I turned 26 recently, and had a really great birthday weekend, my friends showed up for me. I even had this random man cause a whole scene (nothing crazy, it was really sweet) while I was at the park and he asked for my number, which has never happened to me before and I felt really flattered. The thing is for me is that I'm still a virgin at 26 and I really want to experience sex soon. I know it isn't very high value to intervene in casual sex, but I've never had a boyfriend and the pandemic is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 10:00 PM |
| 15 | Your age is your age....it’s not a sliding scaleThis man has an AARP membership on standby, pretty sure he will accurately identify himself for that and those senior benefits once they start rolling in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 01:59 AM |
| 4 | Her asking her ex for flowers VS when they broke up and he saw her receive flowers from one someone else 😂😂😂This guy doesn't even have enough emotional intelligence to communicate his feelings. Aggression is all he knows, no thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:59 PM |
| 13 | 🤢🤢🤮🤮Hentai is porn lol. I know it stinks in there 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 10:31 PM |
| 36 | Whenever I think of 'HVM' this couple comes to my mind. Cameron was hands down the best man from the entire show ("Love is blind - Netflix").My favorite couple! I re-watch the show sometimes just as a reminder to me that this is the kind of relationship that I want someday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 09:46 PM |
| 27 | Men call you an asshole when you dont lower your stardards. NOT KIDDINGDying at the part about the bacon shirt 💀. But honestly, I had a date at a very nice restaurant where I got all dressed up and assumed he would do the same. The guy came dressed like he was about to pick up groceries from his mother's minivan. So low effort that he doesn't even care who notices. It took all of my strength to sit through that date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 01:11 AM |
| 7 | Never give them all the answers! He could have consulted my profile for this. Back in my pick-me days I would have given him a list lol.Wish I wrote that lol, love that one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:49 PM |
| 3 | I hope we all throw away our toxic exes/present partners and look forward to a brighter future where we are successful and have a hvm on the sideI hope so, I'm so lonely 😭. Tired of dealing with online dating and men who don't put in any effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 11:12 PM |
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