You can still file a report, doesn't matter if she is around or not. (This is more about being a dick and not some kind of justice. I would have probably walked away as well, but depending how annoyed I was I might go down the path of fuckery.)
Nope, but if you tried intimidation and harassing weaker (weaker could be a state of mind) people then yeah your a bitch. Edit - and violence is used all the time with dealing with people... why else do you think we have war? Now if you hit someone you might be arrested.
Can we give props to the cop. That was actually really respectable how he detained her. I mean he could have really messed her up but more or less just stopped any real escalation.
Hmm, I'm about double that number as far as age. Anyway, life is hard but whenever I hear about it usually what follows is, "Fucking white males are doing this to us." I haven't done shit or wasn't even alive when the shit was happening.