Singstephsing Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	[FR] 'Hi'. It's the only opener you'll ever need. When people are that cold, they just want to be left alone to party without other people involved and they don't have the ability to do it at home. This is a rare thing, honestly. CBs think they are 'looking out' and 'protecting' their friend from some kind of hurt. Ultimately, they are worried that you're going to harm said friend and don't want you to succeed in sexing them up because of this perceived problem. It could be ethical or just simple matter of fact that they have someone already an…	/r/seduction	24/06/12 09:40 AM
6	[FR] Buddy and I had two friends, couldn't solve the logistics Sadly, venue change seems to have been the key trigger in that instance. I've got no experience, but that's the fastest way to separate two chicks. However, as a traveling female, the concept of leaving one's travel buddy tends to be terrifying in an unfamiliar location. Just food for thought and a consideration that it would have taken much more for the girls to be 100% okay with separating, depending on their personalities.	/r/seduction	24/06/12 09:34 AM
2	(FR) Seddit post I read on the day of my date changed my mindset. Went from K-close to F-close by growing a pair. Nicely done. Upvote for growing a pair.	/r/seduction	24/06/12 09:30 AM
1	Probably the wrong subreddit, but i'm a guy who feels like no matter how hard I try I cannot be sexy, help? Practicing your game can get you into a situation to build confidence that you don't feel like you have now, but it won't give you a reason to believe in yourself. The first step you have here is ultimately to believe that you're worth it. YOU need to see a reason to view yourself in a positive manner, at least once a day, and for whatever reason you choose. Maybe today you like the way your hair falls, maybe tomorrow you are going to appreciate your intelligence and quick wit, maybe the followi…	/r/seduction	24/06/12 09:28 AM
1	[FR] Went clubbing for the first time. Yeah, but if someone is giving into their AA, then of course it won't work for them. That's the opposite of confidence. If dancing is a problem, then that person just needs to not be in a club. Focus on a bar instead, a place without dancing expectations, and it will be easier....	/r/seduction	24/06/12 09:20 AM
1	[FR] Went clubbing for the first time. All of this is definetly things that I can only entirely guarentee to be 100% true. My friends and I went out last night to a bar/club in Shanghai and the guys we took with us were some of the biggest nerds I know. No game, no garment class, and zero fucks are given for that 'standard' of either of them. However, the two guys successfully kept two Chinese girls (English as second language) and four Western females entertained, smiling, and having a damn good time for 4+ hours because they were n…	/r/seduction	24/06/12 09:19 AM
1	Mystery coming back. "Ultimate pickup artist convention". Others speaking there including Tyler and Jeffy from RSD I loved watching it. It shows such an in depth look at what people really feel in regards to this 'game' of PUAs. From the non-involved spectrum it changes everything you think about when someone hits on you randomly. And yes, everyone should see an episode at least once.	/r/seduction	24/06/12 06:06 AM
1	The Ultimate Game: The Inner Game The first step is to define what you already know of you. Think about the hard and fast rules that make you want to start an argument or a fight over something. If your friends get pushed around for their race, are you going to be pissed off? If someone hits a family member with a car, are you going to hunt them down and do the same, or do you let it roll off you and let karma take care of it? Where do you stand on politics? On the normally heated arguments of religion, politics, and even sex or…	/r/seduction	15/06/12 11:48 AM
1	Grew some balls today Congrats on starting the process of change~!	/r/seduction	15/06/12 11:12 AM
6	I can never go for the first kiss on a date Just pull the trigger. If she doesn't want it, you'd know well before you have your hand on her thigh. There's a general understanding among females. If you look up into a guy's face while very close together, that's generally the 'kiss me' sign. If she's playing with your hair, flirting back, making her face available to yours, staying in your proximity, touching you back, laughing/giggling, and all around putting herself out there just as much as you are, then the only thing you're not doing i…	/r/seduction	15/06/12 11:10 AM
1	Seddit, how do I build a social network? I'd love to have one. Start a Reddit for your area and get to know people with like hobbies? Chat up your classmates. Ship your parents off for a weekend to the large city in the next area so that they can't drive home and just throw a party (expensive, but possibly worth it?). Get your friends to bring their other friends to activity nights. Look in the paper for things like bowling nights, poetry reading evenings, or anything that looks like fun to you. Keep being active and out going. All you can do is get involve…	/r/seduction	15/06/12 11:01 AM
1	Mystery coming back. "Ultimate pickup artist convention". Others speaking there including Tyler and Jeffy from RSD The Ultimate Pick Up Artist on MTV? 2009? It was a contest style reality tv show. I used to watch it when I was home in the afternoon on off days. It was jam packed with 10 or 15 guys or so who wanted Mystery to make them the next big Pick Up Artist and it was actually pretty cool. That was the first time I realized seduction could actually be an art and that picking up girls in clubs was a massive part of guy culture that could honest crush them emotionally when you turn them down. Before then …	/r/seduction	15/06/12 10:32 AM
2	'You look like you could kill someone' THIS. Much more than any kind of backwards assumption of how this female works based on her seemingly bad attitude towards guys at bars, THIS reply hits the nail on the head the most. You noticed what she was saying with her dressing, her stance, her very being, and in picking that up and appreciating it without negative judgements like the others in this thread are spitting, you're basically opening the door for her to walk through and let you get to know her. This is what girls are lacking in …	/r/seduction	15/06/12 08:44 AM
1	Mystery coming back. "Ultimate pickup artist convention". Others speaking there including Tyler and Jeffy from RSD For anyone who's not seen this guy in action, track down the old tv show and get hooked in. As a girl watching it, it actually gave out some very good advice if you really want a girls attention, and a lot of logic and reason goes into the lessons he gives the guys.	/r/seduction	15/06/12 08:31 AM
1	How to get good with women fast I don't know your situation, but you're the only one holding you back, specifically because you're not letting yourself make mistakes. This is the most natural way to learn, but to do that, you have to brush yourself off, forgive yourself when you mess up, and move on. If you're going to hold your imperfections above your own head because you 'didn't do it right the first time' then you need to take a chill pill and figure out why you're being so demanding of yourself. No one is born great at an…	/r/seduction	15/06/12 08:27 AM