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| 531 | As a man are low body counts attractive to you?I personally don’t care how high the count is. What I do care though, is how that count got that high. If it were done while she were in her “hoe phase” when single, so be it. But if it were sinisterly racked up, big no for me. I know gorgeous women who have body counts > 20. Great, but some of them cheated with multiple men in their relationships. So for me it’s not about the number, but their moral standards. I have trust issues because of these women lmao | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 08:37 AM |
| 2 | It's been an entire day and he didn't respond. Is this a no? Also he didn't delete me so that's a good sign.Errr, if you tell someone you’ve a crush on them and they disappear, it usually means they don’t know how/what to respond. Two ways this could pan out: Guy is happy to hear it, but is pausing to try and come up with a response to take things further. Guy is not happy, and has decided to forget what he just read. If this is the case then you should do the same thing and just move on elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 22/09/20 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Do guys like when the woman initiates fwb/casual sex?Depends on what the guy is looking for. When men are seeking NSA relationships, yes that is appreciated greatly. But if he’s seeking something serious, looking for a potential lifelong partner and a suitable mother to his future children, then no. Honestly, casual sex and FWB will probably sit well with men < 30, especially those who are live somewhat risqué lifestyles. The more high-octane a guy is, the more he’ll probably like it if you initiate. But fortunately for you I’d say 2/3 of men will… | /r/seduction | 22/09/20 12:18 AM |
| 2 | I've seen a lot of posts explaining everything about how to improve yourself in general which also makes you appealing to girls, and I agree with them. What about how to be appealing to guys?It’s simple, no need for long texts and obvious reasonings. Focus on yourself, build yourself up, do what makes you feel confident. We all what we can’t have or is hard to get. Put yourself up there and men will try their damned hardest. Attraction is simpler than most think; if you have good value, people will want you. What good value is is entirely up to your definition. Be the kind of woman you’d want your future son to marry, be an inspiration to other women around you. Just live your life … | /r/seduction | 21/09/20 12:44 AM |
| 2 | I want to stop browsing dating advice subreddits and actually go out and have a dating life before I waste my youthI see. I rescind my statement(s). One should always pursue a healthy body for nobody but oneself. One is not working for attraction. Attraction is but a side-effect of excellent self-preservation skills. | /r/seduction | 11/09/20 04:11 AM |
| 4 | I want to stop browsing dating advice subreddits and actually go out and have a dating life before I waste my youthNot true. Unless you’re the hunchback of Notre Dame, everybody looks good when they’re fit. It’s genetically programmed in us to find the healthiest mate. A good physique is a sign of healthiness. The chiseled jawlines, toned muscles and lean figure will drive most, if not all women to at least notice you. Just because you aren’t born with natural good looks should not deter you from pursuing a healthy body. The confidence you gain from working out and routine both have passive effects on you. Y… | /r/seduction | 11/09/20 02:37 AM |
| 14 | I want to stop browsing dating advice subreddits and actually go out and have a dating life before I waste my youthMy man. I understand where you’re coming from. But don’t worry about being a virgin or not having had your first kiss or whatever. It’s overrated. Your first kiss or your first time having sex is going to pale in comparison with future events. I’m in a place right now where I don’t even want to kiss or touch a woman. If you’re keen on meeting potential girls, you can always: Go to church. Lots of sweet girls for a start. Start working out (if you don’t already), you’ll get more attention as you … | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 09:03 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about jewelryRemember, the kind of energy you put forth will only attract the same energy. So think about that for a second. | /r/seduction | 02/09/20 07:23 PM |
| 2 | I got asked out by 2 very attractive guys before but...Yes there is a way. Very attractive men are very specific with what they like. This is because they get so much attention and get what they want so easily that they rarely have to try, and when they do it’s because they really want you. What they want you for is a different question altogether, but rest assured the only way to really know what they’re after is to spend time with them and watch them closely. Always assume attraction. | /r/seduction | 30/08/20 10:14 PM |
| 3 | How do I get a hookup (M 15)What are you smoking? Hookup literally means you have sex with somebody with no strings attached. The meaning doesn't change with age. | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 09:15 AM |
| 3 | Not that interested in girls at this point in life. Is that normal?We all go through that from time to time regardless of age. Women come and go. If you're not ready to date, don't force it. Just focus on your kid, live life revolving around you and him. Eventually the heart will heal enough to let others in. :) If you are really keen, try becoming a sugar daddy. You don't have to pour in thousands on a girl, just enough to elevate her living situation. Girls around the 25 years mark make the best sugar babies. | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 05:47 PM |
| 3 | I need advice regarding a girl I haven’t seen in over a decadeMy advice? Treat her like you would've known her for 10 years. I think while she knows who you are, you know she's less likely to disappear. So that's good. I think you should not meet for a date as first in-person contact. I would suggest something really casual, really light. Get coffee, it's cheap, it's no pressure and if you don't feel it you can always cut it short. If you do, then just go with the flow. You like her? Enjoy yourself, be yourself. If you believe she is worth it, allow yourse… | /r/seduction | 23/07/20 08:34 AM |
| 1 | I'm scared of females, helpYes of course you have to be honest! But there’s a time and place to drop something emotional. The first pitch (where you suggest to her that you are interested) is the first milestone. But to get there, the two of you must establish a level of comfort. Eg. You are more likely to accept an invite from someone you’ve known for years than someone you just met a week ago. Why? Because you already know that your friend isn’t weird or creepy, and that you know nothing bad is likely to ensue. The same… | /r/seduction | 01/07/20 09:52 PM |
| 2 | I'm scared of females, helpI'm decent at communicating with women, most of my friends are female, with a good chunk of them being pretty. Why? Because I just like being around them. I need no sexual or romantic attention from them. I've found that if I approach a woman with the intent of getting to know them, things are more likely to flow nicely. But if I do approach them with the intention of getting something, it never works. I too get nervous. The truth is, landing a girl shouldn't be planned. You shouldn't walk towar… | /r/seduction | 01/07/20 08:04 AM |
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