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Sir-Pumpalot/r/askTRP17/10/19 08:43 PM
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thank you, i think i will take one blue and one red tie and let the photographer decide which one looks better
/r/askTRP17/10/19 10:11 PM
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Thank you for the answer, im from europe, its more or less an obligation to put a picture on the cv
/r/askTRP17/10/19 10:11 PM
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depends on where you living etc, if she is russian/eastern european she kinda expects you to pay, those girls are more traditional in general.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:06 AM
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you didnt do shit, "dated" for 3 months, i visit our local sushi bar more frequently, do I date the owner now? you werent exciting enough, she tried to branch swing and wanted to fully enjoy her holidyas, holidyas are over and your beta ass will prob. take her back, thats why she was contacting you.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 02:52 PM
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wow, so many mistakes 1) next time tell her, we wont discuss that over text, and put your phone away 2) when meeting her at a home (why are u even living together?) tell her, lets talk (only if you really want), if she says no, accept it and go away, if she runs after you and yadayada, tell her you are too tired for games, you will talk tomorrow. she will get the message, dont play stupid people games
/r/askTRP06/08/18 02:49 PM
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Like I said I disagree with the no texting rule, I do agree on your part with being busy, that is why I text. At the moment I barely have time to actually meet one of them, Im moving to a different country next month and just have better stuff to do. Personally I didnt have any bad experiences when I write with them, sure some flake, some even ghost, but those who were interested, became even more interested. Maybe I have "good" texting skills, maybe its just my aloofness and my sarcastic writin…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 12:24 PM
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well, here at trp its always "texting is for logistics only" but personally I think this is one of a few things that arent true and should not be followed always, there are indeed some women who will lose interest in you if they dont hear anything from you, those little creatures have a small attention margin. i wouldnt write with her 24/7, but if you are cocky and funny, you can already create rapport before you meet her and you will start with some plus points, never had a women flake because …
/r/askTRP02/08/18 07:57 AM
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yea you did handle it poorly, what are you? her slave? it should have gone like this: and I asked if she wanted something, she said no and thats it. she asked if I got fries, I said no and continued to eat. You dont need to "buy" her something AFTER you asked her, she said no and thats it, if she wants an apple pie now, after you sat down, she can get it herself.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 07:56 AM
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she is going to branchswing as soon as that guy is permanently there, referring to him as boyfriend and all that stuff, women would never do that with a guy they cant stand or are not able to actually see as boyfriend material, he would be a "creep" she can imagine being his girl and i would bet she is planning to make that imagination come true
/r/askTRP26/06/18 08:47 AM
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doesnt matter, it counts, what are you a girl? "holiday chad doesnt count" "party chad doesnt count" sex is sex, do you think sex with a girl you met on tinder is any different? if any its worse, because those lazy slobs will try the starfish shit instead of the riding beast a hooker can perform i think you got more problems than girls, get your personality and your belief system in order before you think about anything else
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:11 AM
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1) how old are you both? it sounds like you are very young 2) dont assume she is a virgin just because you are, girls can snap a finger and get sex, just to try it out, being traditional doesnt mean anything 3) your topic title doesnt fit your question as a general game plan, you need to escalate, dont wait for her to do it, you are the man she is the woman, she will follow if she thinks you are worthy
/r/askTRP25/06/18 07:49 AM
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ok so you are a virgin but at the same time you spend all your money on hookers (prostitutes?) what are you doing with them, talking about your feelings and their ambitions?
/r/askTRP25/06/18 07:39 AM
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funny situation, first off you shouldnt care what she spends her money on, she surely is not ltr material 1) next time tell her to spend it on a boob job, so you can have some fun before the shit hits the fan 2) stop giving a fuck what she says 3) dont ltr crazy lazy slobs
/r/askTRP25/06/18 07:32 AM
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well trpp is amoral, so there is no right or wrong, do what you want BUT personally I would never date/fukc a girl who was once involved with a person I used to call "bro", doesnt matter if still contact or not
/r/askTRP25/06/18 06:36 AM
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dump her emotionally, stop investing in her (in case you do) and just try to see her as a women you have sex with not your ltr. personally I would still meet with her, have sex and go my way, it was just your turn and it doesnt need to end here, what needs to end is your investment in her
/r/askTRP25/06/18 06:34 AM
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gonverment protection when doin badboy stuff
/r/askTRP25/06/18 06:31 AM
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"yea got a new peach tasting 6in1 showershampoo, its awesome" besides that, it doesnt even sound like a shittest, more like fun you overcomplicate it, just tell her to find out herself next time you meet and you are good
/r/askTRP25/06/18 06:29 AM
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next time if something like that occurs, make sure to ask her about her contact infos, dont be "afraid" or too much in a rush, make yourself a checklist if neccessary -> hit on the hot girl [x] check -> build attraction [x] check -> escalate / kino [] well surely depends -> ask for logistics / contacts infos etc [X] check, see if you hit on the hot girl and you are able to build attraction but aint asking for her logistics (instadate) or her contacts - its worth nothing at the end of the day, yo…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:15 PM
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I dont get it? if she is your ltr, yes ofc tell her about the surgery - not about your emotions, if she is a plate then don't give out personal information, she is not a friend. if it is about your "emotions" keep them for you, you will not gain anything by telling her you are scared or whatever your plan is, you will just lower your status in her mind
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:10 PM
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its both dude, its fucking weird since you did not ask her for her contacts and its pretty stalkish to go home and look for a random girl you just met, it screams that you have no other options/girls. Be real here, you are wasting your time looking for a girl you just met and talked maybe 10 minutes maybe 2 hours, it doesnt matter how long because you would never do that if you have options or other girls in your pipeline.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:07 PM
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are you autistic? serious question, because what do you think he will gain? best case -> nothing worst case -> hell of a shitshow at the next family meeting, since "she" is his sister
/r/askTRP14/06/18 06:28 AM
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it doesnt make sense, if you know she wants you, why would you wait until she comes? it sounds more like you are fearing her rejection, not the other way around
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:41 AM
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you sound like a little kid "flattering change of subject" what are you expecting? " sometimes our thoughts arent as accurate as our feelings " who are you? shakespeare? why dont you tell her how much you miss her and that you bought a teaddybear with her name, so you have something to cuddle at night or maybe you can man up and stop wasting your time, askin her directly "what do you do next weekend? I would make some time for you, kinda busy right now so just leave a text" or anything else, pro…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:39 AM
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it depends on the women I guess, one of my ex ltrs tried to contact me 1 or 2 times a month by e-mail for almost 6 years, another one tried it daily for a month and then only at bdays / xmas, others never reach out
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:28 AM
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why are you dating a girl that is getting drunk and "enjoying" parties without you in the first place? many endorsed contrubitor will probably say "its just your turn" "she can cheat anytime" "dont mateguard" etc but personally I wouldnt waste my time with low quality girls that visit parties or hangs out with sluts and getting smashed, rumor or not doesnt matter
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:26 AM
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whats the question? you do nothing and keep working "hey redpillreader, dont be a sissy" - "ok" "hey redpillreader, whats wrong? why so moody" - "ok" "hey ..., are you in a bad mood?" " - "k" stop giving them anything and it will become boring
/r/askTRP01/06/18 11:52 AM
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no you didnt, she sounds like a real catch and might be even worth to marry long term, I mean she promised to change right? well probably not her behaviour but for sure her methods and passwords so that little beta cuck named Amendog wont catch her again 1- a lot of male friends? she really needs the attention of the opposite gender huh? 2 - lieing? wow why would she do that? i mean its probably not a lie that she did not cheat right? everytime a girl says she has a boyfriend, she totally means …
/r/askTRP01/06/18 11:47 AM
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you sound extrem butthurt, she did nothing wrong and imo you are the bitch in the story 1) you dont sound like a person whos time is to be respected, why should she? you obv dont respect your own time else you wouldnt sit next to her like a little dog waiting for her to hang up 2) wow you called her out - what a bad boy we have over here - you think she gives a flyin fuck about your opinion? doubtfully, why would she? you are waiting like a good boy while she is on the phone 3)girls only do what…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 10:19 AM
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depends on what you mean with complementation - like you need one to have a complete life? -> no surely not, its more like a nice watch, it should belong to your style, but if you dont wear one your life is still complete - like a women can add additional value? -> yes for sure, there are a lot of fun and value adding women outside, e.g. you go to the gym and your meal is already done when you come out of the shower, without spending 1 more hour of your life cooking it, because your gf did it fo…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:26 AM
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there is a difference in using emotional spikes and asking interview questions, "what are you looking for", you think she will say she is looking for a quick and easy lay? prolly not, thats not a question that can lead to an emotional spike
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:20 AM
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what are you, a clown? an entertainer?
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:18 AM
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wow, you sound very desperate in your texts, it should be like this: Me - "hit me up when free" Her - "No" Me - "k" and radio silence, but you playin a girls game Me - "Why" << who cares? she wont tell you the real reason anyways Her - "Just text" Me - "what do you do today after dinner?" << wow, so you actually listen? who is she, your mom? Her - "Sleep. Why haven't you been talking with me? What's wrong" Me - "So much shit! When do you have free time" < mimimi cry somewhere else Her - "I don't…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:10 AM
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the logic is quite simple, imagine you are finally 18 and want to buy a car (man), somehow you got 20 million € from your parents (girl with good genes). as a multi millionaire (good looking girl at the sexual market) you have free choice, which car would you choose if you have unlimited cash? the alpharrari or the fiat beta? why would someone with unlimited options choose the mass produced car (beta bob) that anyone can have when he is able to buy that fancy sport car (chad) other people would …
/r/askTRP24/05/18 07:51 AM
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she did not lose her attraction+respect YET, once she realizes she can do whatever she wishes cause her little dog (you) will wait for her, its a sure bet that she will lose it. you dont need to proof me something but keep sayin "I am not affraid to lose her" will not change a lie into a fact, because you are hamstering pretty strong, how do you know she is still loyal? because she sent you a pic? does she also send you a 24/7 video of what she is doin? if she likes to be controlled, why did she…
/r/askTRP09/03/18 11:12 AM
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what im sayin is, she cant have sexual experience if you took her virginity, only if she cheated on you multiple times also, you keep hamstering " even though I am 20 and I had like 20 girlfriends before" you didnt, you had exactly 1 girlfriend, all the other girls were just friends without a dick, nothing more -> no sex = no ltr you get turned on if you think about her because sexual desire does not equal feelings, if you buy a prostitute you get turned on as well yet you would not love her
/r/askTRP09/03/18 11:07 AM
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I promise you, if you dont end the relationship now, she will soon end it, everytime you broke up and then get together with her, she kinda lost attraction+respect for you, there is no way your ldr will survive this year.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 08:13 AM
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yo wth is going on? a complete shit show, also you hamstering pretty hard 1) "I took her virginity" but then "she had sexual experience", where from? 2) she is palying with you and she is highly emotional unstable, she does not know what she wants and you are her little playball, actually I would bet my left leg, that she would cheat on you sooner than later 3) it does not matter why she changes so quickly, better focus on those things that you can control --> you by reading your text you sound …
/r/askTRP09/03/18 08:07 AM
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seems the best option imo, she wants a date? she have to earn it
/r/askTRP14/02/18 01:44 PM
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too many potential cucks here lately 1) you do worry, else you wouldnt write like 20 lines about him 2) no worries, she told you there will never happen something between them, since when is it important what a girl says? 3) do what you wan to do, personally I would inform her that I dont like girls hanging out too much with other men in a group setting BUT my girlfriend hanging out with another man in a 1 on 1 setting? its a date, my girl doesnt date anyone besides me I wont forbid nor prevent …
/r/askTRP13/02/18 03:04 PM
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na man, I'm not against LTRs but we tend to forget everything we know when a women with a nice face talks to us, thats why it is so important to stay rational and calm and dont over evaluate their value, you basically know nothing about her, give her time to proof herself to you, before you decide you like her or not
/r/askTRP13/02/18 02:08 PM
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you are a funny guy, she leaves you for another man, you text her at the next the morning, you jut met her, a basic 0815 club "slut" but you already know she is a girl worth your time? and furthermore, you like her?? oh yea I forgot, you are the textbook chad --> " I have a good job (engineer), nice car, i look good (seriously), dress good, 6ft tall, she was kinda short lol. ive been doing boxing since i was 8yo. I lift and stuff, amazing body. Ive been with over 50 women so i know a thing or tw…
/r/askTRP13/02/18 10:59 AM
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You got bigger issues than the cold approach... Normally I don't care to give more advice as everything is written on the sidebar, but you sound like a good but shy and young guy. 1) "not wanting to worry about rejection" - there is no rejection, even if a girl says no, its not because of you personally, it was not the right time or place, nothing more. They dont know you, so they cant judge you on a personal level 2) "Probably a little more attractive than me." most women are more attractive th…
/r/askTRP13/02/18 10:05 AM
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because she did not respect her boundaries, she just flaked and gave him a not honest apology. She is as you said, not a plate but a LTR, so he have to show her what overstepping a boundary really means by soft nexting her, if she was a plate the "fuck tonight" would be legit, if he wants to avoid that behaviour in future he has to show her consequences
/r/askTRP13/02/18 09:32 AM
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idiot, why answering if you obv know shit?
/r/askTRP13/02/18 09:30 AM
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there are so many threads about this topics, just search for "green" flags in the search bar and you will have enough points
/r/askTRP13/02/18 09:29 AM
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Her: Hey how you been, are you mad at me? You: See? No need to answer that question, she knows you are mad if you go silence for a couple of days. Also she knows EXACTLY why you are mad.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 12:50 PM
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you handled it very poorly, you DEERed too much, tried to explain shit with logic and took her serous. After the first couples sentences you should tell her "we will celebrate when you are here" and the convo is done, dont answer nor read it, better do something else till she comes to your home and don't tell her happy birthday or anything just because she demands it, you owe her shit, tell her to shut up if she behaves like that but stop DEERing.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 12:29 PM
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Sure, one of the more worse troll attempts
/r/askTRP12/02/18 12:25 PM
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its your investment, the ratio should be 2 (you) 3(her), people tend to have problems with sunk cost fallacy, so if she invests more than you, she will have more difficulties to nuke the relationship than you, as you invested less
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 01:52 PM
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Had a good laugh, but its prob not worth more. You sound like a little boy living in a perfect disney movie. Or maybe you watched all three movies of fifty shades of grey with your girlfriend and thought you want to rewrite the story, could be both.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 01:46 PM
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yo dude, even the spice girls hat easier names to remember, pepper and salty spice, so dont use letters
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 10:21 AM
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who cares what some random bigot says to you "you work out enough?" "na bro, once you start yourself you will realise its never enough"
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:44 AM
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this one was good "I think this needs to be taken further, any woman wearing any clothes that make her look attractive in any way should be banned from public exposure, woman that are not in full burka's must be barred from beaches. Any companies affording young women opportunities to earn money by appearing in public, e.g. fashion modelling: these companies need to investigated and closed."
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 03:58 PM
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"I feel bad and guilty" for what? Do you own her anything? Why do you feel guilty for protecting your own interests? You own her nothing, neither does she own you anything. You do what you want to do: I would just delete her, dont explain yourself, you are accountable to none besides yourself, no need for DEERing, it does not even matter if she thinks that you are a shitty person, her complete opinion shouldnt interest you
/r/askTRP05/02/18 03:48 PM
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1) none 2) I dont, I inform her I dont date women who dates other men, she can do whatever she wants with that information, the moment she is going to take dinner or what ever, I fire her
/r/askTRP05/02/18 02:29 PM
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Well u sure she did not cheat on you? She could suggest the FFM to make up for something, maybe she thinks you are even now Could be that she wants the FFM to talk you into a MMF sooner or later, there are different possibilities, but she mentioning it is a red flag by itself, you should consider the FFM and treat her as a plate.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 12:57 PM
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How can you not? There are around 4 weekends a month, 2 times a month means every scnd week, which is a lot for a taken girl, personally I would dumb her, no time nor nerves to date a girl that acts like she is single
/r/askTRP05/02/18 12:53 PM
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Budapest, Bratislava, Prague, all three are good. Here in Eastern Europe are the top notch girls imo, yet you wont have an easy time as american, most of you guys are retarted. thinking you are tough and shit while not realising you cant compare the american surfer beachboy to the russian comrade. Lookwise every bigger city in eastern europe is pretty good, women are feminin but also not dumb, they will know your reason to be there and if they do not see a chance to catch you, you will have a to…
/r/askTRP05/02/18 10:19 AM
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be more funny
/r/askTRP05/02/18 10:11 AM
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You sound like a bitch... 1) she threats you like a dog, yet you keep licking her ass "oh pls give me attention, it wasnt disrespectful" while she tells you, she cant take you serious, means you are a clown to her 2) "oh im not a hoe, I wont even let my husband talk to me like this" - what is a girl then if she has pierced nipples? probably not a church attendant 3) she is 19, a "9/10", she will get way too much attention to even care about your feefees, you behaving like a bitch wont make her c…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 08:37 AM
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if you don't know her yet and never met personally, your tinder game and pictures have to be at least 8/10, and she has to be a maybe 6/10, else she would not agree to "netflix and chill" so easily, she is not dumb and knows exactly what that means, she is not a slut (at least in her mind, if she declines it first and it just happens), so you need to get her barrier down. You can do so by inviting her to something to get to "know" her better, once you see her private you can escalate and your ne…
/r/askTRP02/02/18 11:10 AM
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Dinner with another man is equal to a date, especially if it is 1 on 1. 1) how do you now its an old work colleague and not the new met chad from work/gym whereever? 2) do you have an open relationship or do you also have dates with "old" friends you might have hooked up with? 3) do you know the "old" colleague? well I'm mostly agree more with the TRP section than MRP, but I don't think MRP guys will just sit down and act like they dgaf while their spouse is having dates with "old" friends, most…
/r/askMRP02/02/18 10:29 AM
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I stopped fucking random dudes off tinder a long time ago why didn't you A&A like "yea me too, now I try out girls" or "no worries, this time you can be the passive part" or "cool, seems like you earned to be the one whos gonna be fucked this time" there are probably a lot better lines but you should always remember the following: if she says something like "i wont fuck you" or anything else regarding sex, its a shittest. She thought about fucking you already, else she would not mention it, besi…
/r/askTRP02/02/18 10:21 AM
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No they don't, talk when you do have something to say, else let them talk. Don't know what the other commenters about, but in my world 1) extroverted is not usually accompanied by confidence, most women talk a lot but are not confident, people who are nervous do talk a lot and fast --> its not a sign for confidence 2) people are not interesting, most people are boring as fuck and talk just to drown down the silence 3) Law 4 4) if you want to be social, read something from robert cialdini, let ot…
/r/askTRP01/02/18 03:00 PM
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so, what are you going to do against your height? exactly, nothing. you do have 2 options 1) fix what is in your power and become the best version possible 2) nothing there is nothing else you can do, luckily enough there are more than enough small and cute looking women smaller than you, so you are not in need of the big ones
/r/askTRP01/02/18 02:53 PM
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I wouldn't, I would keep her as an orbiter and social proof if she is hot. I do agree with the ignore her part. I wouldn't give a shit about her after her sentence, yet she can be used in case some random women checks his picture
/r/askTRP01/02/18 02:46 PM
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just by reading your question, I'm sure you will have huge problems in future, you act like a girl. you are 25, not a child anymore. there is a huge sidebar, there is a filter system that enables top-post searching and a lot of other stuff that has been asked 100 times already, so stop being the lazy cunt and get to work
/r/askTRP01/02/18 02:43 PM
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dont take your sweet time to text back, just be busy in general and answer when you are free, if you are busy you wont have the time to answer directly, faking being busy will usually end bad if the person can not proceed the act troughout the date - that being said, I did not like your "friends with benefits" she does know what you are looking for, so no need to take that question even serious. next time tell her you are looking for someone that takes care of your bonsai tree while you are clim…
/r/askTRP01/02/18 02:32 PM
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yea, experience is a huge factor, as it normally develops in certain unconscious character traits as e.g. foresight. you can also become wise yet being a fail, I do know some people that I would call wise if they give advices, yet they do not listen to their own advices and are not able to realize why they fail
/r/askTRP01/02/18 02:03 PM
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it would make you smarter not wise, besides that I do agree that it is always good to ask questions if you dont understand something BUT that doesnt mean you reached a level of being "wise" just because you know some stuff does it make you a good boxer when you ask your coach how to proceed a good jab? no it doesnt, it makes you a better boxer than before, yet you are not a good boxer in general
/r/askTRP01/02/18 01:53 PM
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you cant, trp is not a tool to increase the attraction of that one girl. read the sidebar, improve yourself and you will gain overall more attention and attraction from girls, become hotter = more attraction; become smarter and use your knowledge = more attraction and so on
/r/askTRP01/02/18 01:27 PM
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doesn't matter if you are white, black or yellow. If you are a 8/10, dating can be good anywhere... a black 8/10 is still a 8/10; a white 8/10 is also a 8/10, skin color doesnt matter, only your own preference
/r/askTRP01/02/18 01:25 PM
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no worries, if you need to ask, you are most certainly not wise
/r/askTRP01/02/18 01:22 PM
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well, dont really know you, but you might be the one who is getting played / the clown used to amuse them. you might think you are alpha as fuck and the biggest peacock in the jungle, yet most guys lie to themselves. in case you are the guy they laugh at behind your back, you shouldnt care in case you are the selfclaimed alpha of the class, that has enough game and fame, she might be "proud" and wants to show everyone how hot she is, why else would the alpha of the hood spend his time on her
/r/askTRP01/02/18 01:19 PM
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She doesn't feel bad, if she would, she wouldnt sleep with you. next time she says somethinig like that, tell her she will feel even worse after all the kinky stuff she will experiment soon and smirk, who cares how they feel
/r/askTRP01/02/18 10:56 AM
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wont work, how is she supposed to know what is going on? do you punish your dog one day after he take a shit on your couch? he won't understand it, hell even I wouldn't understand whats up when a girl suddenly stops chasing me, but you know what? I wouldnt care, she is a women, she got natural abundance mentality, she will care even less. Besides that, you want to punish her snarky arguments about your apartement? stop inviting her, meet her at her cardbox
/r/askTRP01/02/18 10:54 AM
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so what is she supposed to tell her family? besides that, the more important question is, why dou meet the family of a "fuck-friend"? why would you introduce a "fuck-friend" to your friends? sounds like a ltr for me, but ye just use another name for her, you are like a girl, a lot of words but your action shows otherwise
/r/askTRP01/02/18 10:49 AM
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Your hamster is strong; "I told her it puts me in situation I don't want to be in and it looks very disrespectful. I have a certain reputation to uphold and I don't want to look like a chump." looking like a chump wouldnt be too bad in your situation, you looked like a cuck, which you probably are. If she is pulling this shit when you are around, you can be sure she will be more open minded when you aren't. Also alcohol doesnt change the person, she is not "shy" when she is sober and super open …
/r/askTRP01/02/18 10:44 AM
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Easy, tell her she looks good in those male pants she is wearing or you like her style, it reminds you of your little brother
/r/askTRP01/02/18 10:34 AM
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You sound like a pussy. "I am tired of her shit, she's s disrespectful, full of shit, and not submissive at all, we barely have sex"; two sentence later " I really like her, and I know she likes me too. Do you have any advice for me?" - first advice would be, grow some balls. Then work on your self and dont consider that girl, AFTER you worked on yourself for a good amount of time and you are actually able to pull other women, you can rethink your relationship for her, because I think its not li…
/r/askTRP20/12/17 07:26 AM
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If your guy would be more alpha at home and less at work, you wouldn't be here and write emotional bullshit and tryin to convince some fools to pussy up. You were in the kitchen making food, cleaning the house or having fun with your "man".
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 02:00 PM
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Yes he is, why do you wonder? Almost every "celebrity" in the manosphere is gay. That is why we are so good with women, because we like it from behind, they like it from behind, we are compatible. Besides that, trp is a gay sub, led by gay human, to help gay clueless guys. You should know it when you red the sidebar. You are welcome.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 03:00 PM
1

Is that someone a girl? Judo is the "easier" sport as you dont really do full contact = not getting hurt. Judo is certainly better than doing nothing, but MMA is so much more variable that there is no way Judo is being called the "better" sport by anyone who tried both. Judo has some good "grappling" mechanics, yet you can learn them or similar techniques at BJJ, but you dont learn boxing/kickboxing at judo.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 04:17 PM
3

"hard to tell, most of my friends are thai"
/r/askTRP06/12/17 10:20 AM
1

"only 4? man I thought you were more popular" then drop her, if she writes/snaps or whatever its called these days, tell her you don't have time right now and you will get in touch (which you will never do) if she is coming again, you can try to game her, untill then she is the one who holds the power
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:49 PM
2

You are lyin to yourself "Could you elaborate? Because im 100% she never met him. She lives with me and hes always in a diff country " "I am 100% sure she never met him because he lives in a different country. " - keep telling it yourself, maybe it becomes true. Why are you so sure that they did not met? Oh ye, because he is in another country but if he is "sort of famous" and you saw him in the television, he prob has enough money to afford a fly ticket, besides of that, I dont think he is the …
/r/askTRP04/12/17 09:14 AM
1

I did answer to your latest post, but you or a mod deleted it, I guess
/r/askTRP08/11/17 11:01 PM
0

na man you didnt get my point, I was talking about your stamina sentence in regards to sex, if he is an active kickboxer, he will have more than enough stamina as he will more likely have more stamina than any bodybuilder also yes if you hit me in the face, I might go k.o., you will definately be stronger than me (lift wise), but if you are lacking technique you will lose as a hit on my arms wont knock me out. what I'm sayin is, go lift, its better than nothing, but calling a kickboxer who is pa…
/r/askTRP08/11/17 10:59 PM
3

whatever you do, dont bring a tindergirl to such a date, thats way over the top and they will just meet you to leech your fun and might never see you again, so even a coworker who wont pay is better
/r/askTRP08/11/17 10:48 PM
1

you lying to yourself and us, she is not a plate, why would you care elsewhere? yesterday I had some friends at my place, we all ordered the same food, I couldnt care less about which steak on which dish I would receive, you know why? because in the end, it was just a plate with some food on it.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 10:40 PM
0

normally I do agree with the most things you say, but did you even read his post? I did, and I do both and I tell you and I would bet that any kickboxer will beat a pure lifters ass in a nutshell, you sayin a kickboxer is not fit? dont have stamina? did you ever try to make 5 rounds a 3 minutes ? if not you shouldnt talk about stamina, cause I tell you heavy lifting 2 hours will kill you equally as standing 5 minutes in a ring, also you wanna say a kickboxer dont have muscle power? please, take …
/r/askTRP08/11/17 10:25 PM
2

well you got the wrong audience here, they will tell you to lift, no matter what, the truth is: small guy st pierre: http://liverampup.com/uploads/images/Georges%20St-Pierre.jpg will kick most likely everyones ass in here, while lifting might be more attractive, mma (kickboxing/muay thai) will for sure have a greater impact on your life. You don't need to be buff, you can easily attract girls if you look like the casual kickboxer: http://i65.tinypic.com/29zwwe8.png and furthermore you will know …
/r/askTRP08/11/17 10:19 PM
2

that is the right approach, better than making a list to proof yourself how bad she was. Ofc you can do it, at the end we all are man and die alone, why would I or any endorsed user be better than you? If we can do it, everyone can do it. You just need to understand that everything requires hard work as we dun have the pussypass
/r/askTRP08/11/17 10:11 PM
1

well I do only count the outcome, I was not annoyed anymore, which is the result I was looking for. If she was scared or attracted to me did/does not matter to me to be honest. edit: ok well my mistake as you guys have a different perspective since you guys are married, its most likely another situation as a casual ltr, as I never plan to marry, I will never have a negative rebound once I decide to go seperate ways
/r/askMRP08/11/17 10:06 PM
1

yes, we do and we do also identify those traits in nice guys, as they do the same. they might think they are happy, but how is a man supposed to feel happy if he is fighting against his inner predator? so its not only women, its also most of the men in our society that follow those traits
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 07:08 PM
1

I like the other house better, because: It has a higher resale value. It is move in ready I looked into the schools, and they are better than the ones we go to now. The utility prices are better The windows are better, and the HVAC is new We can get Google Fiber I am making shit up now.< I agree I mean seriously, on what planet do you think this is acceptable behavior? This is a decision that impacts your ENTIRE family unit. I guarantee my balls are bigger than yours, and I would never do this W…
/r/askMRP08/11/17 07:03 PM
-2

STFU is a thing that is often praised here yet I disagree, I won't put up with the shit, why should I STFU when someone is simply wrong, illogical or any other stuff. Somewhere I read about alpha 1.0, alpha 2.0 well I certainly belong to the alpha 1.0 natural douchebags that rather end a ltr than put up with shit everyone on their own, but there are still women that have respect and I would rather have self dignity and be solo than to laugh about the dumbness and to make her giggle when she is t…
/r/askMRP08/11/17 06:47 PM
13

I disagree, spend money on high quality goods (consumerism) to avoid payin 2 times (minimalistic) I rather drive my audi then buying 2 fords in the same time, I rather use 3 tailored high qualiy suits, than buying multiple suits at stores in less time. I rather invest money into 1 audemars piguet watch OR vacheron constantine, which is also a good investment as they wont drop in price I like to be minimalistic, but that does not require to be cheap. Do you know what high quality man look at ? yo…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 06:34 PM
1

Well you know what they say? "blood is thicker than water" so family is always good, but did you know that the actual quote is "the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb" which means, that even when family bounds should be strong, it doesnt mean they are much worth, if loyality isnt a two way street. I think you did the right decision, care for those who care for you, if someone shits on you and is too selfish, break the bound and found loyal people, unfortunately in our ti…
/r/askTRP08/11/17 06:26 PM
2

hard question, you wont find a answer here, most of the users here arent 30+ and need to sow one wilds oats before they will understand that woman can indeed be decent persons, as long as you understand that AWALT is actually true and hypergamy is not a mythos, you might take a look at mrp (married red pill) tho many users there have red pill awareness and acting like redpill, but are still scared to take the bull by the horns
/r/askTRP08/11/17 06:21 PM
2

love drama and love to feel desired, yes thats true, actually its the best way to become her gay beta best friend for ever if you want to nail her, you better make sure to become thors hammer
/r/askTRP08/11/17 06:16 PM
1

1) always make the full year if you dont have it... else it will look like you have been fired 2) never be unemployed, just look for a new one in your free time and save your holidays for potential job interviews. 3) lift? well yes
/r/askTRP08/11/17 06:14 PM
0

And that is why you will fail, you still invest time, listen I did not say it to be a dick or sth, but because I know that most people have serious trouble to actually act instead of talking, you sound kinda young and mhh nice? humble? well not cocky/dickish. I'm not sayin you fail to put you down, but because its less likely and I knew you are still investing time on her instead of you. You made a list of pro and cons, good but there is no way the pros will outweight the cons, I know that becau…
/r/askTRP08/11/17 06:10 PM
3

And that is why you will fail, you still invest time, listen I did not say it to be a dick or sth, but because I know that most people have serious trouble to actually act instead of talking, you sound kinda young and mhh nice? humble? well not cocky/dickish. I'm not sayin you fail to put you down, but because its less likely and I knew you are still investing time on her instead of you. You made a list of pro and cons, good but there is no way the pros will outweight the cons, I know that becau…
/r/askTRP08/11/17 06:09 PM
-5

You will fail and get back with her, I say it won't take more than 2 weeks.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 01:42 PM
1

good news, neither about you. besides that solid post even tho it should be normal thinking, the more time I spend here, the more I get the feeling that most guys here or in general in my age (25-35), never have been raised well, maybe it is because Im not american and its just the american way of life, but here are so many things that should be "normal" yet get the most upvotes. Im not judging anyone, what i'm sayin is, that it is an evidence for incapacity, so many jung fellas never have been …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 01:38 PM
6

dude, just greet them like you want, there is no alphaway for everything... dont take this alpha/beta shit too serious or do you want to know how alphas take a shit? simple, with their asshole.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 01:27 PM
7

Ofc, let them go take food and then drop her. She knows that it is not correct to go to a date with another man if she is not a plate. If she really is so naive (she is not), you better drop her because those girls use every chance they can get to play the dumb one "oops I thought he just wanted to watch a movie at his home, it was not planned to cheat on you". Women are not that naive, they know exactly what they doin, mostly they just dont care because their bfs are weak and they dont need to …
/r/askTRP08/11/17 01:24 PM
3

good list, even tho I think that most of this shit should be normal? Like clean/dust free shelves etc, are there really guys that living like dirty pigs? Why would a woman, those who smell well and have nice nails, come back to someone who looks like he doesnt care for aesthetic? (shitty beard, bad shoes, dirty rooms etc.) For instance I have a pretty easy but chill and stylish living room.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 12:29 PM
1

Well, I do it too, sometimes. My ex ltr used to "hate" it, everytime she jumped into my car I played that one song and sang to it, she was so annoyed that she tried to switch the song, so my reaction was to change it back, start it from the beginning and sang untill the song is over. She acted like she hates it, because she had heard it 100 times already and I did always make a "fool" out of myself, but while she tried to be annoyed and roll with her eyes or to make a face like an sad puppy, she…
/r/askTRP08/11/17 07:54 AM
5

You know the problem is not that you are too good, its that people nowadays dont appreciate a kind person and often misinterprete it as weakness. Well reading your situation, it actually is weakness, and that is indeed a problem. You can be nice, soft or whatever as long as a person appreciates it, you dont need to be an asshole, but pussing out and agreeing with shitty behaviour is not being nice, its being weak. So what can you do? Well, establish boundaries, that means you dont say "please st…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 02:22 PM
2

dude what? "very good personality?" how do you know, does she tell you that she is special? She is prob. riding the shit out of her male friend circle and tells you the stories you want to hear so you become another orbiter, and she seems to be successful, btw. I'm Chad Thundercock-Gates but psst, believe me, for just 20 $ I can sell you a 20 billion worth hedgefund, are you interested? Ofc its true, because I told you and you know, just like her I would never lie to you, my little special snowf…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 10:21 AM
2

Dude, no contact = no contact, what are you asking us for? Delete her on social media, you did not end the relationship in peace, you are not friends, you were her beta cuck she openly cheated on, you are such a beta, even your ex got bigger nuts "I left you because I did things that were not supposed to happen in our relationship" actually I think you arent a beta but an omega chump, prob she cheated with a beta on you. I bet she was not even hot, so where is your self respect?
/r/askTRP07/11/17 10:13 AM
2

actually the bitch is not crazy, she ist just a better player you did so many mistakes, I would have bet on it to become a shitshow. 1) bought a house together, married etc. (bought a house after marriage) I know it won't help you to show you your mistaked and you did not ask for it, but what you described is AWALT behaviour, why would she keep her shit together if you gave her everything for free without her working for it? Well what you can do now is, consult a lawyer, try to get a private det…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 09:56 AM
1

I disagree, first of all, you shouldnt really care what she thinks RIGHT NOW, if she attacks man, just ignore it if she asks you for your opinion, state your opinion if you want to, else tell her you are not there to gossip like a chick if the guy indeed sounds awesome, agree and amplify, make a joke about how he sounds actually more interesting than she does and you might drop her next time and hang out with him, personally I think women dont really care about your opinion anyways, they just wa…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 03:12 PM
1

Your story is pretty "meh", its good to see that you understand how women think, yet there are so many sentences where I think "wat? is he serious?" 1) "Now I am not suggesting you shouldn't study, but having a cool group of friends you can do fun activities with" - I do agree, dont be boring but do you really think parties are fun or interesting? I guess I'm hugely on my own here, but I never understood the party scene, I've been to parties, but I do have better shit to do than talking to drunk…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 02:53 PM
2

Sounds fun, first you pump and dump her, then a 90 kg prisoner will pump and dump you, day for day as long as you will share the prison cell with him
/r/askTRP06/11/17 10:28 AM
1

seems ike you married a hoe, sorry to say that buddy 1) you met her when you were 21, so I assume she was younger or 21 as well - in the comments you said "And yes i put it on a pedastel because i was a virgin at the time and never had any experience until then, shes had MORE THAN A FEW boyfriends" and "Nope she wont ever do me at all in the car even tho she admitted to doing all kinds of shit with her exes in cars so yeah im butthurt about that" - holy shit, a 21 year old with that sexual past?…
/r/askMRP02/11/17 03:22 PM
1

dont ask if you arent prepared for the answers, you are dating this chick one month and yet you had already 3 topics in askTRP, please, the conversation is over, at least for me before you consider getting in a ltr, you should better grow some balls or else you will always be the more feminin lesbian in your equation
/r/askTRP02/11/17 12:11 PM
1

why would you ask them in the first place if you think like that? are you some kind of autist or 16? don't know who you gonna try to troll, but should be with more passion next time
/r/askTRP02/11/17 12:06 PM
1

you said "My time is precious i'm not going to waste it seeing girls I don't like." - well our time is precious and we won't waste it on someone who does not want to hear what we have to say you see her for 1 month, she is a foreigner, while you are a us citizen? man, just marry that unicorn, give her the green card she wants and needs, then enjoy how she will suddenly change and you cant do shit
/r/askTRP02/11/17 11:41 AM
11

she does not respect you, thats why she did not give a shit does not matter if she is a women or not, if someone really wants to talk/meet you she will get the time and wont forget it. if her boss calls her to do anything and to bring him sth in 10 minutes, you can be sure she will do it she does not respect you nor your time, actually I think a soft next wont even work, as she will not even recognize it personally, I would prob drop her, 3 months is nothing and life is too precious to waste it …
/r/askTRP02/11/17 09:21 AM
2

1st mistake -> deer, if she disagrees with you, tell her she is also retarded, she will prolly tell you to not talk to her like that in a bitchy tone, put her in her place, smirk and leave 2nd mistake -> take SJW serious, dont do that and yes I can understand you, you expect loyalty from your LTR, which is imo correct, they should stay loyal, I do a lot of women who defend their s.o. when they love them, that is not unnatural, besides that if she is willing to argue with you because of such an u…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 07:35 AM
1

it depends on what you want, personally I don't care much about women in general, they just happen I focus more on myself that includes career blogs and personal development and less on sexual strategies First I would start with the sidebar in case you did not read it yet
/r/askTRP31/10/17 07:05 AM
1

who cares? you talk like that kind of guy that gets angry because the ape in the zoo will get 1 banana a day for free while you have to pay. yes it is and will always be easier for women to date, women date up, men date down, who cares?
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:40 PM
1

just drop her, a girl traveling alone ? red card, didnt you read rollo or other blogs? besides that, what kind of LTR does not even inform her bf BEFORE she books sth? as you can see, she booked it so you can not argue with her, she planned it way before she informed you, and she is traveling alone? maybe, maybe not, maybe she is traveling with a friend and she didnt want you to know? and if she travels alone, she is couchsurfing? most of the hosts are male, so you she sleeping at another males …
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:33 PM
1

If she is lieing? who knows, if she lost it 6 years ago, and have been in two long relationships, it might be possible, if she were single - then unlikely. Does it matter? Its not like your toybox will become less tight the more partner she had, it would only matter if you wanna marry her, which is absurd given your age, you have enough time to ruin your life later
/r/askTRP26/10/17 02:22 PM
2

well maybe she is more redpill than you, if you did something she did not appreciate, she will do better things with her time than wasting it on you, its the same advise you can read here; called "soft next" if we would change your positions.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 02:14 PM
1

seem like missed opportunities. They are your family - yes, BUT they are girls, doesnt matter if family or not. Girls will do girl shit, expect it and rock it. Dont get me wrong, Im not sayin you should escalate, kino or sth like that, but you could have used them to practice your AM - AA Skills, it should be way easier because they are family and you dont intend to rail them, you arent nervous when talking to them so you could easily played them by being cocky
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 01:29 PM
4

Didnt read your text, just the headline: next. ask yourself, are you a little whiny bitch that doesnt respect his own time? because she certainly doesnt respect your time. Personally I wouldnt trade a "date", that might lead to nothing, for my integrity and self respect by meeting a woman that doesnt respect my time, I don't care if she gives shit about me or not, why should she? they have plenty of opportunities and they dont know me- yet, BUT I wouldnt waste my time with a subhuman that doesnt…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 01:21 PM
1

stop taking it serious and being butthurt, i was also called a good boy by a ltr, I went to her and asked if the good boy gets a kiss, when she was coming closer with her face to kiss me i licked her face, even tho she was pissed at first she start laughing very fast and begged to stop, after that she started cooking. not everything should be taken seriously if she starts teasing, that was not really disrespect, she didnt call you bad names or became loud or anything
/r/askTRP26/10/17 08:18 AM
1

It doesn't matter what she expects, expectation should not be confused with deserve, do you think she deserves a meal? then cook something and offer her to eat it at your place, if it does not work because of your parents, make fingerfood or invite her to a burger at the bowling centre. do not start with covert contracts a lá "she did that, so she expects that" or you will end up like "i did that, so she owes me sex" neither of you owes the other person anything.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 11:57 AM
1

yes, please quote more stuff you read here. Imo you are still wrong. I do agree that he should make it sexual early on, but not by phone and certainly not as lame as you recommended. "do you like me? you were really friendly to me today." "i like your ass" "ok? weirdo", if you want to make it sexual touch her a bit in PERSON not by phone
/r/askTRP24/10/17 06:22 AM
2

that is retarded... apparently they dont know each other yet, at least not very much when they just exchanged numbers, you look like a creep if it goes wrong. op, if I were you, I would just ignore it, no need to small talk via mobile phone, tell her to come over if she wants to talk or else be/pretend to be busy. if she asks you in person, you can still tell her amusingly that you like her ass while smirking and looking at it, at least you dont write it via phone where no emotions are involved.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:52 AM
1

not even worth trying to help you, you decided to cuck yourself, so be it. there are a lot of useful recommendations, yet you disagree with everything and start arguing and defending yourself, for what reason? no one here cares about your life, so take the advises or not. have fun with the divorce, you might realize what happened to you once she is done with her plan
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:51 AM
2

dude what? didn't you read what he wrote? 1. they started "pretty serious" yet she fucked other dudes 2. she says she loves him, yet she fucks other dudes 3. if he fucks another woman, she is pissed, yet she fucks other dudes that girl is not even near to be ltr material, even if he "really" likes her, he shouldnt date her.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:51 AM
2

What? A plate can not cheat on you, you might grow some balls and kill your ego, if you don't like the fact that a girl which is not exclusive to you, got her sidedish as well, you should rethink the plating thing
/r/askTRP21/09/17 06:18 AM
1

German girls are unique nowadays, yet you should avoid them. Why don't you aim for eastern european girls? czech is not too far away and those girls are there are mostly more beatiful (lookwise) and femine than the german pondon, you can also look further away like ukrain or hungary, I'm from germany as well, yet I wouldn't date a complete german, non mixed girl.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 02:24 PM
1

good post, i thought about an answer on how to help him out with women, but i do agree with your statement, its not about the women per sé, its more about the false hope that a women will benefit him and makes his life more interesting, instead he should focus on how to make his life interesting on his own, then he can add the cherry on the cake. MMA is a greater benefical than lifting imo, you might not look so big and shreddered, but its more fullfilling, so OP should give it a try. I remember…
/r/askTRP11/09/17 01:51 PM
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