"...I never found the one that I like...I've dated but the guys that I like don't like me" Someone is a Chad chaser and keeps getting pounded and dumped. Its definitely not her standards....
As a 43 year old, I can tell you that finding good women out there are like finding a literal needle in a haystack, but they do exist believe it or not. I know this sounds crazy from a twice divorced guy. I'm not considering cohabitation or long term relationships, but there are some cool women to kick it with.
This sounds harsh, but move on. If she was attracted to you, she wouldn't behave in this manner. Realize that there are over 3 billion women in the world and you are focusing on 1. Find someone that reciprocates the effort that you give them. You deserve happiness and she's leading you on.
The word "date" is often a sugar coated version of "screwed" to appear virtuous. 500 men in 4 years and you're still single. It's the 500 men and not you. /sarcasm off
Rescue me=financially rescue me and support the child's father's household while he still blows her back out. If you're a big enough donor and simp, I'll give you attention while continuing to bang my child's father.
She's openly telling men that she doesn't have time to text back because "I'M A MOM" but you must be hot, worship her, pay her bills, and come in as the 5th priority at best (if there is a pet, you'llbe 6th), all while "proving your loyalty to her after having her vaj absolutely obliterated. All while not offering what the AT LEAST other 4 guys got. Line up boys!
"I have 3 kids at 29, but "you are not allowed to put me down in any way". This translates to "I want a malleable man who will never challenge my irresponsible ways and never confronts me with the truth of my poor decision making. "
It's not a hate for women. It's not a hate for marriage. It's a realization that the odds are greatly stacked against us and the game has become somewhat unfair. Because of this, we just decide to not play that game. A few bad apples can spoil a bunch but the taste of one rotten apple can make apples off-putting forever.
