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Good shit man, props to you for being straightforward with her. I just straight up ghosted women lol. It's crazy how psychology works.
/r/seduction15/02/20 04:08 PM
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This part is so important. I used to be the same way with being nice afterward too, but as soon as I started moving on fast and discontinuing further interaction with women that rejected me, they tended to try interacting with me still. It's amazing actually.
/r/seduction15/02/20 04:02 PM
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Good job for straight up being openminded about it!! I've been hurt by girls many times like this. I realized it's probably something they're not even aware of.
/r/seduction13/02/20 08:17 PM
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This really works. Before I tried filling emptiness with dating and failed. I then started working on myself with dating as a side dish and now feel the greatest peace i've ever felt.
/r/seduction29/01/20 05:26 PM
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This. So true. In addition to saying "Fuck it." Ask yourself "what if I die tomorrow?"
/r/seduction01/12/19 03:23 PM
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Lol this happened to me yesterday. I usually cold approach but I wasn't attracted to her so I didn't do anything.
/r/seduction28/11/19 04:43 PM
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I agree with this. People have to understand there's only so much you can do and it all comes down to being a numbers game. The best thing you can do for yourself is have that abundance mentality. Girls will take notice when you're working on yourself and you'll waste less time chasing out of desperation.
/r/seduction13/11/19 07:29 PM
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Your mindset is golden.
/r/seduction13/11/19 07:09 PM
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Lmaoo this is true on so many levels.
/r/seduction13/11/19 07:08 PM
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This is exactly what happened to me. Same before/after and everything. I endorse this.
/r/seduction31/10/19 07:49 PM
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Solid advice right here
/r/seduction25/10/19 03:45 PM
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Lmao I do understand. I just didnt give background context so this post looks cringeworthy. I saw that "lmk if you breakup" line in another seduction reddit as a joke (r/UPLT) and I thought i'm going to try this on a girl who's too far away for me to do anything. I don't think the dude calling me out read the rest of the comments where I gave background context.
/r/seduction27/09/19 12:43 PM
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Bro, chill bro, she didnt mention she had a bf until now. And shes not the only girl i'm invested in, I have others that are single. This chick is bottom tier now that she mentioned a bf. And the emoji thing works for me fam. I ain't puttin up any front to act hard cause I pull women left and right like this, just being myself instead of acting "normal" works out more for me. Damn.
/r/seduction26/09/19 07:00 PM
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Damn thats brilliant. You might have just given me the missing piece of the puzzle! I've been doing what you said except without the clever 30s followup suggestion. I've really got to work on framing; I'm using your advice. Much obliged man!
/r/seduction26/09/19 06:42 PM
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Right?! No regrets.
/r/seduction26/09/19 03:52 PM
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Appreciate it man. This was all just a shits and giggles thing though. This was a curiousity venture and I did this cause shes too far away for me to do anything serious.
/r/seduction26/09/19 03:46 PM
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Very true. To be honest I said that last line because I don't really have anything to lose. Shes too far away for me to do anything serious and I was just curious what would happen if I said that lol. If it was someone local that I cared for more, I probably wouldn't have used that last line.
/r/seduction26/09/19 03:34 PM
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Yo thats smooth. I really should have done that. I think I just didnt because the chick is so damn far away and its more of a "try to get laid while im visiting my friend in that area" kind of thing. So if I wanted to make any moves theres that whole distance limitation that prevents me from spontaneity. Any pointers for something like this?
/r/seduction26/09/19 03:28 PM
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Oh I probably should've given background context. I got her contacts through a cold approach irl. We message back and forth and both called each other attractive. She never mentioned any boyfriend stuff until now and I basically said that as a shit test to see if I should focus on other plates im spinning.
/r/seduction26/09/19 02:55 PM
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I love this. "If someone's better than you at something, chances are they failed more than you."
/r/seduction22/09/19 02:14 AM
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So true. People think relationships to the answer to their problems but the first step is actually coming to terms with yourself.
/r/seduction22/09/19 02:13 AM
1

Good point!!! I follow that rule myself!
/r/seduction02/09/19 05:12 AM
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You know what, you're right. I should just include her! I'm completely polite whenever I do it but my sis just discredits every approach I do as bad without even paying attention. I haven't explained to her why I do this instead of go on Tinder (cause Tinder does suck ass; so much so that I deleted it), so maybe I'll do explain that next time she complains. Really appreciate it bro!!!
/r/seduction02/09/19 05:04 AM
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True true. Lmfaooo. Its just that my sis gets annoyed by me cold approaching girls while im out and always sends me stuff like this. Kinda seeing if there's someone out there who can give a counter argument.
/r/seduction02/09/19 04:56 AM
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Fair point, but i've seen posts in the past that have nothing to do with headphones and still demonizes cold approaches. How do you feel about those?
/r/seduction02/09/19 04:54 AM
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That does help though because I sit open like that all the time naturally. All my guy friends: "what you posing for?" Any females walking by: *stares and checks me out.
/r/seduction01/09/19 07:30 PM
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Yesss
/r/seduction08/08/19 11:12 PM
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This is true on so many levels. I've been told that I'm really good looking before but didn't get women until now because of my mindset. Namaste.
/r/seduction26/07/19 08:11 PM
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Gotchu.
/r/seduction07/07/19 05:14 PM
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Yeah! Exactly. And thanks! Guys should just keep in mind to make use of the resources available to themselves and be pragmatic about it.
/r/seduction07/07/19 05:10 PM
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Not much followers but I have good looks and fitness; I bboy (break dance).
/r/seduction07/07/19 05:02 PM
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Yup, that's probably why. Like I said, insta is just what works for me. Circumstances are different for everyone. There's other reasons I do it too but I'll say it in a separate post.
/r/seduction07/07/19 05:00 PM
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So far i've gotten like 5 from Insta and 2 from numbers (I'm fresh in the game cause I've recently left a 3 year relationship)
/r/seduction07/07/19 04:40 PM
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Ohh don't get me wrong, I ask for numbers too and have had my fair share of rejections, but I do this insta thing for a few reasons. I'm aware that girls give it out like candy, but given my circumstances getting Instas works in my favor too. I'll probably make a post about my methods because I know I sound like a fool at the moment.
/r/seduction07/07/19 04:06 PM
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Thank you!!! I've been doing this the whole time but never knew cold approach was the actual term for it!
/r/seduction07/07/19 06:44 AM
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What does "cold approach" mean? And yeah this comment above me is true. Even if you don't live in a city area, you can use your day game just about anywhere in public. I literally meet more attractive girls and get their social media at the mall, walmart, or any place. As for Tinder? Nah. Hell, I get the most Instagrams while working my waiter job. Just keep trying and you'll seriously have more confidence. There's surprisingly less rejections than acceptance when asking women in person for me.
/r/seduction27/06/19 07:36 PM
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I love this. The last rule about "attracting what you secretly are" is golden. That statement about girls lying to you is good food for thought as well, cause why would you want to be in a relationship with someone like that? You most likely dodged a bullet.
/r/seduction23/06/19 11:15 PM
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Yup this happened to me like twice on Tinder and Instagram and all of my friends
/r/seduction20/06/19 06:48 PM
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This is a nice rule of thumb.
/r/seduction11/06/19 01:30 PM
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What I think Dallas Stars was trying to tell you was that it doesn't matter if "you personally believe you're worthy" if you don't feel worthy to women's standards. In actuality, still feeling in fear of women's standards means that you truly don't believe in yourself. A majority of all this is a mental thing.
/r/seduction04/06/19 05:36 PM
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This is a good truth and clarity right here.
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:59 PM
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Its true. If you ever work at a restaurant or just sit a crowded public area, you'd question how some men get certain women... but at the same time you question why some guys settle for less attractive women. Everyone is human and really don't know what they want. No such thing as a league despite what society says.
/r/seduction02/06/19 03:47 PM
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My problem is similar but the opposite side of the coin. I kick the ball all the time but never chase, not because I see women as gods; I see them as human beings who aren't worth the time unless they are really that good. Don't get me wrong, I'm aware being too picky is bad but I'm just looking out for myself first because I've been through and seen too much shit. Relationships are complimentary so this is just a side hobby for me - not an act of desperation that my life depends on.
/r/seduction02/06/19 03:43 PM
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Totally agree with this!!! I don't care when talking to girls Im not attracted to and end up attracting them. BUT when I talk to girls I'm attracted to I think too much and they don't get attracted.
/r/seduction19/05/19 03:49 PM
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Completely agree with that.
/r/seduction26/04/19 05:19 PM
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I completely agree with this, except a girl was still skeptical of me when I walked up to her and asked for her snapchat. Lol. She thought I was doing it on a dare but I geniunely wasn't. She questioned me a lot, I gave geniune answers, she gave me her snapchat... but didn't add me back. Lmfaooo. Sometimes their BS detectors malfunction; we musn't forget we're all still human beings that make mistakes in the end.
/r/seduction24/04/19 05:00 PM
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Something that personally helped me with this was asking myself "what if I die tomorrow?" Then I started approaching pretty women left and right with no fear.
/r/seduction24/04/19 04:55 PM
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