SirAlphaFuxalot Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Ended LTR; Now seem to be in phase of trying to reconnect with old flames		SirAlphaFuxalot	/r/askTRP	25/10/15 11:12 PM

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1	Good texts about hypergamy? Red Queen gives a very readable representation of hypergamy (it doesn't call it that iirc) and I recommend it. It doesn't focus entirely on hypergamy but instead gives a good explanation as to why these behaviors exist in the animal kingdom, supported by the actual studies that have been done.	/r/askTRP	08/12/15 11:04 PM
1	how to confirm a date with out coming off as needy ? My ego wanted to defend myself, but you're right. The response was shit. Deleted the conversation and hard nexted her. I would also note that my text acknowledging I was at the place without having had her confirm the date was low value. The correct way to handle would have been to employ the 20 minute rule then radio silence until I heard from her.	/r/askTRP	08/12/15 02:28 AM
-3	Is 18 to young for being on The Red Pill? Only if you're a big fucking pussy who never wants to be a man, but in that case any age is probably too young.	/r/askTRP	06/12/15 04:08 AM
-4	how to confirm a date with out coming off as needy ? Honestly? Don't confirm, wait for her to do so. If she wants to meet, she will confirm. If she doesn't confirm, then you flake. Or I guess do what I did on Thursday and text her "wearing such-and-such if I dont see you" at date time. In my case, the girl flaked but I was watching the game anyways so it didnt matter. Now, after just a quick "we'll try again sometime" text later the next day she's a soft-next until I feel like giving her the second chance in a few weeks, if ever.	/r/askTRP	06/12/15 04:04 AM
3	If you go out with the purpose of getting women and you aren't successful, try this. A) They're not in the moment. They're in their own head thinking about what to do, what to say, how to approach etc. A common "overthinker". This is huge for guy's just starting out. Sorry bro, you are not /u/omlala Machiavelli'ing the night with your machinations and ulterior motive thinking -- that's advanced shit. Instead, turn off that analytical portion of the brain. Use the three second rule i.e. you see a girl and approach within three seconds. Any longer than that and you are in your hea…	/r/TheRedPill	06/12/15 03:34 AM
3	You mother fuckers are some serious confidence boosters. Just remember, it's a long fucking road and it's not easy. But keep at it, try not to backslide into beta bitchdom, make gains in the gym, and most of all start building some abundance. And make sure you read all of the fucking sidebar. The shit is pure gold and answers 99% of questions.	/r/TheRedPill	06/12/15 03:00 AM
1	Modern version of "where are you going" - "gonna return some video tapes"? I actually used this a few weeks back. She took it half-literally but I don't think she has seen the movie. I ended up nexting her for a different set of movies she hadn't seen -- Star Wars. Sorry hippy 23yo that shit don't fly.	/r/askTRP	03/12/15 03:18 AM
2	RP jobs Coming from the STEM point of view, there is nothing inherently RP about CS or any other STEM field. Many RPers are going to be STEM because we're the fucks who didn't figure out how the world worked through experience and intuition, we had to apply that stupid logical part of our brain and read goddamn internet posts to figure shit out. And I haven't seen many people argue for getting one of these corporate jobs. Most of the time people 'round these parts are advocating working for yourself. On…	/r/askTRP	02/12/15 03:19 AM
1	Is it ok to like older girls? Why the fuck are you asking if it's okay to do something? Like who you want. My personal age range is from 21 to 40 and I really like fucking the women in the 30-40 range. I am not looking for anything more with them. Many of these women are going through their horniest years and need to get dicked down. Just don't get trapped with some post-wall CC rider. Your listed age range is the toughest age range in my opinion. Those are the girls that are very actively seeking their BetaBux. They do the …	/r/askTRP	01/12/15 09:55 PM
1	Little piece of advice if a girl isn't interested tl;dr Be the best version of yourself. Understand women.	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/15 09:27 PM
11	I think we should take a break. Is almost always code for "I've found a guy I want to fuck, want your approval and in case he doesn't commit to me you'll be my backup plan." Or just as often it's a guy she's already fucked and wants to see if she can do a full branch swing. Hard next is the answer if you want peace of mind. Otherwise, she drops a couple levels and never rises to potential LTR again.	/r/askTRP	26/11/15 04:13 AM
1	How to be cocky and arrogant? Trying to go straight from passive and submissive to cocky and confident/arrogant is a sure recipe for disaster. I say that because you will have no frame references to be cocky and arrogant, you won't know how to act, and you will come off as an insecure asshole. I see these guys at the club a lot. Not a good look. Now that doesn't mean that you can't start to stamp out the passivity and submissiveness, it just means that trying to jump to a completely different demeanor can potentially lead to…	/r/askTRP	23/11/15 03:23 AM
3	Need advice on hard nexting a plate-gone-wrong It's because, by fading her, you are proving that you are worthy. Not too sure why you feel the need to hard next this girl. Keep fading, keep up just the barest hint of ambiguity. Under no circumstances become "exclusive". Then congrats, you now have a plate and some abundance. Text her only on nights you need some pussy, then kick her out after. Go get more that are better quality. On your way to a harem.	/r/askTRP	12/11/15 10:49 PM
3	Date question. Cancel or see it through? If she contacts you first, go ahead with the date. No reason to cancel at that point. By making her contact you first, you've already stepped up your game. No need for a bullshit last minute power play of 30 minutes, which doesn't really make sense if it's at your place. After that though, be more stringent on your time demands and more willing to walk away from a date with her (or anyone for that matter). If she does not contact you, then flake and soft next. Don't contact her for a while, coup…	/r/askTRP	12/11/15 10:18 PM
7	What do you say when performing a direct approach? I know what you want. You want some canned lines that are easy to spout without going through any of the necessary ground work to understand how to actually be a social guy. If you just want canned lines, Google pickup lines. There are millions. And if you're not a social guy, none will work for you. Go watch the RSD videos and realize that canned lines are bullshit. Actually, it's not that they're bullshit it's just that instead of actually knowing why you're saying something you're just going …	/r/askTRP	12/11/15 10:07 PM
6	Date question. Cancel or see it through? needed "me" time, possible bs If your gut is telling you it's possible bullshit, then it probably is bullshit. Her actions are telling you that her time is more valuable than yours. You rescheduled twice to meet her time demands. Not exactly a power move on your part. My advice is to wait. If she wants to meet and everything is cool, she'll text you. If she doesn't text you, then you flake and continue with no contact. If, after you flake, she texts you and asks about the flake, brush it off wit…	/r/askTRP	12/11/15 09:41 PM
8	I need some assholes to set me straight I've gotta make her my GF or ill loose my plate. No you don't. If you're going to lose her, it's not because you didn't make her your girlfriend. "They're just friends. Do you trust me? I put off their advances" No you don't trust her. No need to tell her that. No need to be overt at all. Just know that she is fucking others, whether you want her to or not. Should I ask to "use her phone", or just be straight up "let me see your phone?" I don't really give a fuck You obviously give a fuck. Other…	/r/askTRP	12/11/15 09:21 PM
3	How do guys that get good looking college girls while being in their 30s actually do it? Answer like you would any other shit test. Some examples of things I've actually used that worked well (for reference, I'm 28): "I'm 43." Then I try to convince her I'm actually 43 (or some other age that I'm clearly not). If/when she doesn't buy it, go even more ridiculous "Actually you're right. I'm not 43. I'm 63." Repeat. "I'm 7 but I suffer from Benjamin Button disease" (This one actually didn't work all that well, but I thought it was clever and I didn't get bad responses, just neutral one…	/r/askTRP	12/11/15 06:43 AM
5	How do guys that get good looking college girls while being in their 30s actually do it? Go to the college bars. Don't be an old weirdo. Be chill with them, and don't give them straight answers to bullshit questions like "how old are you". Lift. Hold frame. A lot of the guys I've gone out with are over thirty, and they do pretty well in the college bar scene. The girls (at least most of them) don't really give a shit how old you are when you're there so long as you're not sitting in the corner eye-fucking every hot piece of ass like a weirdo. I saw a guy who must have been closer to…	/r/askTRP	12/11/15 05:02 AM
2	Lets be friends first You are putting in more effort than her and probably look needy as fuck. This also means she is not a "Fuck yes" about you. It shouldn't feel like pulling teeth, she should want to spend time with you. I personally wouldn't text her and would wait for HER to re-engage. If/when she does, you will be in a better position to escalate. If she doesn't re-engage...then you have your answer. So basically, soft next. If/when she re-engages, escalate. If she stops you, you are friend-zoned. Hard next at …	/r/askTRP	12/11/15 04:48 AM
1	What is chad thundercocks dick size? (the average ALPHA) No. Some do. Most don't give a shit. You care about dick size more than they ever could. Give them good sex, that's all that matters. And yeah, their shit doesn't get worn out by big dicks or a lot of dicks, and even having kids does very little. One of the tightest, nicest pussies I've ever had was a post-wall, big time CC rider with three kids. One of the worst was a girl who probably had very little sex in her life and no kids. Like dicks, all vag is different.	/r/askTRP	06/11/15 08:49 AM
2	How do I communicate to a friend (beta) that he isn't where he should be with his plate? That's a tough one, but you're going to have to see him play it out until it inevitably fails. He'll only understand your advice after everything is said and done, because right now he's blinded by what he wants to be true.	/r/askTRP	04/11/15 11:15 AM
3	"I don't even need my degree... I can just have sex and guys will take care of me" Truth. "If you rearrange the letters in Vin Diesel it reveals his credo: "I End Lives."	/r/TheRedPill	03/11/15 03:14 PM
2	I'm dealing with mental issues and my RP LDR boyfriend isn't being supportive at all. Sounds like he's going to drop you like a bad habit. I would. Been in this position, where the girl had beaucoup health/mental problems, and it gets annoying. Hell, I was still BP at the time, and she was doing the things you're saying which is a huge red flag and I dropped the relationship flat. Why would he stick around when a girl without your problems is just around the corner? Basically, he doesn't owe you anything . Yeah, that's hard to hear, but that's life. Fix your shit, or quickly find…	/r/askTRP	03/11/15 02:28 PM
1	I feel like im only learning how to avoid/ignore women, rather than approach Just like you need to lift consistently to get results good results, you need to be approaching to get good results. You don't just pretend to be high SMV by showing disinterest. Instead, work to be a better person. Actually be busy instead of pretending to be busy/aloof. That way you no longer have to work at pretending, and you can be more open about being a sexual man. Then, when there's a girl you want to ask out - - you do it. You show interest, get her number, then go out.	/r/askTRP	03/11/15 03:59 AM
1	How to Escalate Sexually in a Party House Setting - Halloween Party FR One of my "rules" is that numbers don't mean shit but... Leaving without a number is definitely a mistake. At that point, you hand her your phone and tell her to put her number in it. It's easy, very effective, and will work if she's into you at all. You can do it with everyone watching, or during anytime of isolation. This was a Halloween party, were people in costume? I find Halloween to be the night when I can escalate to ridiculous levels that wouldn't fly on a normal night. You also could l…	/r/askTRP	02/11/15 09:50 AM
1	How do I deal with a friend who always try to "out alpha" when in a group setting? My oldest friend from childhood was like this, and my brother is also very similar (except he'll try to out alpha you one on one as well). You could cut him out of your life. That's a pretty simple solution. If you don't, then maybe my experiences with these types will help. First, recognize for what it is - - insecurity. /u/worldnewsrager has it exactly right in this thread. They're trying to act alpha, whereas actual alpha types don't need to do anything of the sort. They just are alpha. Now, …	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/15 01:14 PM
1	This is an update from the post I made yesterday. Please help me out I read and reread your post. What the fuck are you actually trying to accomplish? Are you trying to sleep with your best friend? Are you trying to become something other than an emotional tampon? Are you willing to risk your friendship just to sleep with her, because if not then it will never work. Look beyond what she's saying, judge her actions and stop treating her as if she's different from every other girl. "I was really taken aback as I didn't know she was in a fucking relationship" - That…	/r/askTRP	31/10/15 08:18 PM
1	Just realized that I'm a low SMV male; need specific advice on how to overcome disrespect at the workplace without losing my job. Never been in a position like you're in, so some of this is keyboard jockeying. Just keep that in mind. Of all of these, the only one I find troubling is the team lead. Get this guy on your side. Sounds like you've rubbed him the wrong way somehow, probably nothing that you've actually done. Don't suck up to him. Just make sure that, professionally speaking, you're on your A game around him. Be early. Get work done. Know the answers to questions he might ask. Ignore his attempts to get a rise ou…	/r/askTRP	30/10/15 05:20 AM
2	Delusional & divorced single mom encourages riding th cock carousel Misleading title, I don't see anything encouraging CC riding. This woman is divorced, almost certainly post-wall. She's merely summing up here almost caricatured men that could be featured in any sitcom. I don't even see any advice given. Please at least give an accurate title to posts in the future. There is some information here, like how she was used by the "artsy bad boy" but "doesn't necessarily regret it," and with Nice Guys she'd "rather someone who found himself to be of value." And mayb…	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/15 07:34 PM
2	What's the point of having long-term relationships with women if they all supposedly would cheat on you? Lots of good points made already. I'd just like to add one thing. If she cheats? So what, get rid of her. I know that you're looking for an actual relationship, which is still possible with an RP mentality. Just keep it in the back of your head that whatever girl you choose has the potential to cheat. Remember that fact, and build your relationship around the fact that one day it may end. Most relationships do end. Whether it ends because she snores too loud, she hates how you look when you're t…	/r/askTRP	29/10/15 07:00 PM
2	About to call off the wedding in 2 weeks. Her: "Fine! Let me at least pause it" Me:" No, it's okay you watch your show" Question wasn't directed towards me, but this is the key moment in my mind. Instead of having her pause her damn show and fucking his fiance, he pouted. After that, what /u/MeatCurtainRod said is right on the money. None of what the OP did was RP in the least.	/r/askTRP	27/10/15 09:39 AM
2	Group Shit Test: "Which one of us is the prettiest?" Up till now I've used "Obviously, I'm the prettiest" with a smirk, but I feel like there should be better responses out there. What do you think? I was reading your post thinking "obviously you have to say 'I'm the prettiest'" and saw that you already got there. Alternatively, make it ridiculous. "Well out of all of you [point to nearby chair] that chair is the prettiest. Just look at the craftmanship and hard wood."	/r/askTRP	27/10/15 12:40 AM
1	Girl is in a relationship with a wealthy alpha that maintains impeccable frame and doesn’t put up with her shit tests. She feels neglected and hurt (hamstering ensues) Except he was married to the worst kind of woman. Edit: Shit, wrong novel. I'm thinking of Rearden. Yeah, Roark was definitely Sigma by this definition.	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/15 11:28 AM
7	TRP, Depression, Self Hatred, Virgin I disagree with this advice whole-heartedly. What happens to that self-esteem when you starting asking yourself why you have to pay for something that you can easily get for free? It plummets, you feel like shit. What happens to your confidence when you start thinking about how the only women who sleep with you are doing it solely for money. It plummets. I speak from experience. Escorts/prostitutes seem like the answer, and in the short run you WILL feel better. But in the long run, it is not wo…	/r/askTRP	26/10/15 01:04 AM
-2	How can you really tell if a girl is a slut? AWALT	/r/askTRP	25/10/15 11:47 PM
1	Beta hears his crush get fucked by two guys in another room while he plays video games, decides to keep in contact with her I feel like this should be a post on its own of BP example.	/r/TheRedPill	25/10/15 08:04 PM