SirBenDover0 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	"Just approach women, bro" is outdated, sexist and pointless. I agree in the current climate I think it's risky and the consequences can be bad if the girl feels uncomfortable that is why I tend to stick to dating apps because at least people seem to be on the same page rather than not knowing if she is interested in dating or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/25 03:04 PM
1	Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with men "Everyone deserves to be with someone who respects them and who they're compatible with..." This is incorrect you actually are not entitled to anything and women let men know this and this goes both ways you are not entitled to a relationship or anything from another person besides a base level of respect. I also think women should improve themselves and not be doing it just for men, The same goes in reverse. Regarding men being told they are too picky, well who gives a damn about that opinion a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 07:52 AM
46	Attractive men don't have better skills when talking to women, they often never had to develop them In general that is true attractive people can get away with more than the average joe but I think you need a minimum of basic social skills for this to be the case and an average joe probably needs more charisma.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 11:13 AM
1	Rejection is far better than manipulation This is complicated as it depends on a persons preference around how much they value sex as men I don't think would care about being lied to for sex but obviously means more to women as it's much easier for them to get sex. I do think it's best for both sexes to be upfront about what they are looking for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 01:09 PM
1	Society and women definitely equate being unable to attract a woman with being a loser Society will judge but you have the choice to not care about that judgement otherwise you just become an NPC. You should try and do what makes you happy as long as it doesn't harm others who cares about what society thinks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 02:02 PM
1	Are men not also hypergamous? I think most people date within the socioeconomic background they were raised but I do think women are more hypergamous than men. A man on average doesn't care about a womens job unless it's an extreme but I'd argue women care much more about a mans income, job and status. Like for example I don't see many women dating a male janitor they will usually say that he is not ambitious enough but flip this I think most men won't mind if the female is a janitor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 04:33 AM
1	Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating. I think in the current environment it would make things easier as men receive a lot of shame if it goes wrong and you can be viewed as a creep. Women do not get shamed to the same level as men in the pursuit of the opposite sex if it goes wrong. Like I think most men won't cold approach women and it will become more common to meet through dating apps in the future is my prediction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/24 07:36 PM
1	Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him. That's an interesting perspective and hits at the fact that men should probably do those self improvement things for themselves instead of doing it just for women as for some women it won't ever be enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 08:01 PM
1	Older women over 30 and revenge fantasy I think it's women framing the facts that way as a coping mechanism to deal with the truth. I don't think they should be demeaned but you can't deny the facts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 08:00 PM