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That’s modern liberalism— unholy application of all that was holy — the Family unit.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 06:47 PM
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None of the above. It’s an “Evolutionary Scam” designed by nature. Nature is deeper than any Social reasons you quoted — it’s the root cause. Human babies need 18-20 years of care and upbringing. The mother is the primary provider of that care in our in our past. Without creating and fostering the Romantic Myth, how else is it possible to tweak Male psychology to serve this cause of rearing a baby in a family unit? Where the male is the provider and essentially gets no resources but provides eve…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 03:27 AM
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Which post from the Forbes guy ?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 09:03 PM
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It was up for about 6 hours and received 400 upvotes. Auto Mod?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 09:02 PM
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Red Pill mods just want to push one narrative " We are oppressed by Women" and their intellectual masturbation is driving them up and up the tree and further from the ground. Can you complain and create a post brother? I have mode wisdom to share, I am 53.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 06:33 PM
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Yes, women look at what you do, we are focussed on who they are/how they look.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 08:11 PM
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Absolutely, believe me you can lift and look like a model and still not score but if you sling this handmade wooden and artistic bow across your chest and some decorative yet killer arrows she will be wet and it will run down her legs.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 07:24 PM
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Thanks, it comes from a 53-year old man, I have had the time to verify in the real world many times what actually works and what is just abstract intellectual masturbation.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 06:56 PM
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It comes from a 53-year old man, I have had the time to verify in the real world many times what actually works and what is just abstract intellectual masturbation.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 06:56 PM
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Sculpture! At once highly skilled and needs strength and precise craftsman skills. There are many others - boat building, renovating, wood working, jewellry etc. Choose one which needs both strength and fine craftsmanship skills. Displays you are both strong and Creative AND sensitive (fine/sharp/precise/etc). Make this wooden Archery Bow, lots of YouTube videos on How To: https://www.huntingdoor.com/toparchery-takedown-recurve-bow-58-archery-hunting-wood-longbow-adult.html And then decorated ar…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 06:10 PM
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Correct. The wobbling top of before may fall down, but if he is a real man, it will now get up and be righted on a new center of gravity. Its torque is now so completely centered, it will be still but in full motion and it cannot be swayed. From this high torque spin, it will attract with the powerful gravity of a high mass object, like a radiant Sun.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 07:38 PM
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Why do you even need her then? All she is an emotional leach, what is she good for besides sex and cooking?
/r/TheRedPill18/10/18 07:23 PM
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Why do you think there is a “design for our happiness”? There was no active designer of the human race or condition. Evolution just settles on whatever works. We are a dogs breakfast of urges instincts behaviours that is all designed to procreate at THE EXPENSE Of our happiness. Happinesses is an utopia that’ll never be reached but useful as a carrot to keep going on the treadmill. It’s a fleeting mental state also designed by Evolution because the truth is impossible to bear. The Red Pill is to…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 12:07 PM
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Mostly correct. Except please everyone in this Sub: Substitute DOMINANCE HIERARCHY to COMPETENCE HIERARCHY. Dominance is primitive, pre-democracy, pre-soft power. COMPETENCE HIERARCHY is more accurate in how the world works today with Soft Power and Social values driving much of behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 03:08 PM
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What are some good books on Rites of Passage, when a Man becomes a Boy?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 03:01 PM
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The 48 Laws of Power should have been called the 48 Laws of Political Power. Greene ignored Soft Power, which is today more important that "political" power.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 03:33 PM
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You have been banned for supporting guns nothing else.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 05:51 PM
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Older man here. What I found is the reverse - withholding gifts actually works. Deep, very deep inside she measures your self worth by how much you gift her. The more you give she demotes you. The less you give, she promotes you. This causes an inverse feedback cycle with her conditioning - in her mind she measures you as her provider. This causes a unresolvable conflict in her. But the amygdala wins. She will stay even if you don't give anything.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 12:14 PM
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Women are inherently untrustworthy. Trust is a male value that comes from a conscience. In my life I never saw a woman deal with conscience towards her husband/man. Its hopeless, you will not find trust in a woman. She navigates the world through feelings, not conscience.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/18 12:38 PM
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"I can't really get on board with you on monogamy being best for everyone.....but I am in an LTR" LTR is not the goal during the process, but at the end of the process. "Before Chi became a Zen Master, rivers were rivers and mountains were mountains. Before Chi became a Zen Master, rivers were no longer rivers and mountains were no longer mountains. After Chi became a Zen Master, rivers were once again - rivers and mountains were once again - mountains."
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 03:06 AM
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This is the passion that drives a real Man. Passion cannot be compromised to a Cost Benefit Analysis. ALL IN or Nothing. Every atom of a Man's being is REQUIRED to be INVESTED. Ironically THIS MUCH INVESTMENT is exactly what leads to the most fulfilling, long term relationships that are good for children, for a man's soul and for society. The Nuclear Family!! TRP is now facing an existential debate from a finally correct analysis of how the mating rituals and women's evolutionary psychology evol…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 07:58 PM
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I always felt that the childfree are orphans in reverse.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 11:01 PM
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You're wrong. Its NOT about You or Her. Its about the Kids. When you can TRANSCEND YOURSELF, you've Graduated from the Red Pill. There are no colors there - no red, no blue, no purple. You see things as they truly are - without the filters of Ego/Self First ("Red" pill) or Self-Last/She First ("Blue Pill). You're not Color Blind any more. YOU CAN SEE!!
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 09:36 PM
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Vadim HonestSignalz
/r/seduction01/11/17 07:58 PM
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How old are you? I am in Toronto.
/r/seduction01/11/17 07:58 PM
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Read my comment - "In animals it drives size, musculature, aggression and drive. In humans it drives planning, adaptability, hard work, execution of the idea."
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 03:17 PM
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Not enough Testosterone (yes simplistic but accurate answer). Testosterone drives ambition. True ambition realizes that it cannot change the world so it must change oneself. Mankind's highest achievements are driven by Testosterone. Yes that's a simplistic answer but it is not inaccurate. In animals it drives size, musculature, aggression and drive. In humans it drives planning, adaptability, hard work, execution of the idea. Betas simply don't produce enough testosterone.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 05:54 PM
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What does this have to do with TRP? TRP is not about revenge.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 10:40 PM
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Every human being has the same personality at the core and it is OPPORTUNISM.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 05:25 PM
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I say - "Hi - you look like you just matched me on Tinder?"
/r/seduction24/08/17 09:56 PM
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Not everything about feminists are bad, there is a lot of wisdom in women too. Learn from Women, Don't Hate Them.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 02:54 PM
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The way for evil to spread is for good men to keep quiet.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 08:23 PM
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You should also mention this is an illegal firing and he can sue big time and win.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 03:46 PM
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This is an illegal firing and he should sue them. Win both ways.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 03:44 PM
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Damore can and should sue GOOGLE big time as it is possibly an illegal firing. First, federal labor law bars even non-union employers like Google from punishing an employee for communicating with fellow employees about improving working conditions. The purpose of the memo was to persuade Google to abandon certain diversity-related practices the engineer found objectionable and to convince co-workers to join his cause, or at least discuss the points he raised. In a reply to the initial outcry ove…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 03:23 PM
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Have you read "Power vs Force"? https://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/11784.David_R_Hawkins
/r/seduction01/08/17 04:11 PM
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“Love is misunderstood to be an emotion; actually, it is a state of awareness, a way of being in the world, a way of seeing oneself and others.” ― David R. Hawkins
/r/seduction01/08/17 04:11 PM
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Before Chi became a Zen Master, rivers were rivers and mountains were mountains When Chi was becoming a Zen Master, rivers were no longer rivers and mountains were no longer mountains After Chi became a Zen Master, rivers were, once again, rivers and mountains were, once again, mountains
/r/seduction01/08/17 02:33 PM
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Hanlon's Razor invalidates a lot of TRP theories and a lot of false assumptions we make about "evil"
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 03:03 PM
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No - this is pure misogyny. A better map of reality is Hanlon's Razor.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 03:02 PM
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Which is a good forum to find such enlightened, red pilled friends? I am late 40s and in Toronto, Canada.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 11:16 PM
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To be a man is a goal, not a reward. There will never be a reward like Mommy's love. The fantasy of that reward is why Adult life is Paradise Lost. There is only ONE SIGNIFICANT EVENT in Life - Growing Up. It is more like a Process rather than an Event. It is never completed, only buried deeper and deeper. Adult life is nothing but an Inception like trap to find Paradise Lost.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 03:57 PM
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I would kill for a woman like this. My ex was the exact opposite.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 02:27 AM
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Exactly. It is about WHO you are not, what WHAT you do.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 01:39 PM
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IF the girl is attracted to you - you can do anything. Most of the seduction posts don't take into account this most important IF.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 01:36 PM
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There is an evolutionary reason for this, which became the social narrative. And that is the genders (from an evolutionary viewpoint) ARE NOT EQUAL. The female is the more prized gender because she is the key to reproduction. Everything is centered and anchored on reproductive success. From ancient, basic biology stems the evolutionary psychology which guides the social narrative. There is nothing you can do about it except write eloquently every day on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 12:56 AM
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What is "morality"? Morality is the closest alignment to our True and Highest Nature, not to prescribed Ideals. Once again, it is behaviour aligned to our Highest Nature. The Ancient Hindus have a name for it: Sanatan Dharma. It means every creature is moral to its own True Nature. It is Moral and Sanatan Dharma for a Hyena to steal carrion, it is Moral and Sanatan Dharma for a competing hatchlings to eject their own sibling from a nest, it is Moral and Sanatan Dharma for a lion to kill off baby…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 04:06 PM
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Yes, but why do you assume that I don't? I am not This or That, I am THIS AND THAT. True attraction is triggered by someone who pushes ALL THE BUTTONS or AS MANY AS HE CAN. Mature males who are dads like us are considered Whole on a Higher level than the so-called Bad Boys ("Chad") who may trigger a woman with a raw sexuality. I am not interested in a sexual only relationship. Sex is better with Intimacy. Sex without love is pornography. Maturity is a syncretic aesthetic that is revealed when th…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 05:13 PM
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Very very few are anti-kids, in fact the opposite.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 03:56 PM
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I am late 40s with a 11 year old boy. I have found most women are very attracted to me when they hear what a responsible and loving father I am. I have wooed more women by showing them pictures of me and son fishing, outdoors, in museums, etc. Women love this about a man, that he is a good father. I suspect my ex stayed with me for the later part purely because I am such a devoted dad.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 03:55 PM
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An important ommission - Confidence is a by-product of your supreme, zen like mastery of your skill. Confidence in today's world which is democratic and egalitarian and based on the rule of law is only tangentially and primally influcend by the Alpha Male - Tribal hierarchy. In today's rational world, the respect that confidence inspires comes out of Mastery. Mastery of a skill, of a domain, of a constituency, of a corporation, of a discipline. Think Bob Dylan, James Cameron, the Dalai Lama, Nar…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 03:20 PM
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As with muscles, it is the strong guys that know they are capable who are quiet and patient. It is the noisy guys that lack the skills. It is the large dogs that are calm while the small dogs try to compensate for their small size with their non-stop obnoxious barking. It is the patient ones that control the world; the impatient ones are controlled by it! Patience is the most refined manifestation of confidence. Ah - the incorrigible charm of knowing you have it, and not needing to show it!
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 02:47 PM
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And obligatory for those trying to get there quick: Cockiness / Arrogance is an impersonation and pretense of Confidence. Confidence is a deeper, core quality. It takes a lifetime to understand your real strengths and live from your core. Cockiness is a shortcut to wearing that, but hard to fake calm, zen like Mastery. As with muscles, it is the strong guys that know they are capable who are quiet and patient. It is the noisy guys that lack the skills. It is the large dogs that are calm while th…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 02:46 PM
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Groupon
/r/seduction31/03/17 05:24 PM
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I love dancing and I second. Only one point of departure. This will be unpopular but I don't like Latin music like Salsa, Bachata or Kizomba. Monotonal, diatonic music which is played one key (or chord), no more than 2 keys, and the only thing that changes is the hook. (the clave is the foundation of the latin beat). I do like Flamenco though... TRY BOLLYWOOD DANCING instead. It is more energetic than Zoomba and one of the best cardio exercises out there. The music is Amazing, full of variation …
/r/seduction31/03/17 05:17 PM
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Men sell... Men invent, create, produce, farm, manufacture, design, market, sell. FTFY
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 07:44 PM
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Don't swallow the advice here. It is not a law. People change. I am an older man - 46. The advice here is from young men with a target oriented mindset that is Binary. Life is far more complex and nuanced. Do what your instinct tells you to, not someone disguising advice as Law because of dumb swagger.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 11:23 PM
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I am already all of these things. I wasn't writing from my own perspective - a 46 year old successful businessman almost blase with the Pussy Parade, and a family on the side - but the average male here.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 06:09 PM
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Its not a good idea to disable a Sexual Balance that has been perfected by Nature over eons. What are the implications? Think deeply and you will see that females are not evil, but a design of nature to (passively) select and promote the best genes. Your happiness and validation aren't the goals of nature and society, only your own.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 05:43 PM
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Leftards are rebranding public debate as "harrassment" and "fascism". Wait - what is the definition of fascism again?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 03:07 PM
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If you don't think of this a Man thing rather a Beta thing, isn't it the Law of Nature? to perish the weak?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 04:22 PM
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Men are Individuals. Women are a Network.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 04:21 PM
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Men are Individuals. Women are a Network.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 04:20 PM
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"I grabbed America by the pussy and she said "Yes!" - Donald Trump
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 12:48 AM
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What this sub completely fails to understand and appreciate that Women also follow the Laws of Nature. There laws are not "logical" as the Minds of Minds think they should be, a lower level of simplistic cause and effect. Women and Men represent Yin and Yang, and both are incomplete without each other. 1) Getting Kills Wanting. The more easily you get something the less you want it. The most precious things like good food, a vacation, would rank very high if you were not able to get them so easi…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 02:15 PM
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Ask a woman - reliability and lucrative skills ARE VERY ATTRACTIVE. Loser.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 03:56 PM
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Mistake # 1 - Not Negging in a way that resonates Negging is the MOST DIFFICULT and most subtle art. The power of negging comes from the same power as bad news has - a neutral alerting of something that is going wrong. It should never be tried unless you have established credibility first. I won't try it until 1 hour in. And then I have even given her quizzes, riddles, on the spot common sense questions...that prove she isn't that smart or needs to "read more". I dont deflate her, I humble her. …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 03:41 PM
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Periods, motherfucker - do you use them?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 06:00 PM
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http://ebooks.library.cornell.edu/cgi/t/text/text-idx?c=cdl;cc=cdl;view=toc;subview=short;idno=cdl235
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 12:26 PM
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Cheesy. Boring. Uninspiring.
/r/seduction07/05/16 12:34 PM
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As long as women have a bevy of men following her, she will always look at a man as an Entertainment Package rather than a potential Soulmate.
/r/seduction05/05/16 07:54 PM
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Its because you likely have a 2D map of a 3D personality.
/r/seduction05/05/16 07:52 PM
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Don't waste your money: http://postmasculine.com/limitations-of-a-bootcamp
/r/seduction14/04/16 04:28 PM
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The worst part is -- these boot camps don't work in the long run
/r/seduction14/04/16 12:14 PM
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The Best there is: http://blogs.iac.gatech.edu/1101hearhear/files/2014/08/Linklater-Freeing-the-Natural-Voice.pdf
/r/seduction17/03/16 01:18 AM
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Attraction WORKS COMPLETELY DIFFERENTLY in women than it does in men. Understanding this - really understanding this - will take you YEARS. Secondly how women act on attraction is also COMPLETELY DIFFERENT. Women are (socialised to be) passive. They won't act on it, they will rationalise it very differently. Attraction is sparked by action. It is actualized mostly by a man. Waiting for a women to chat you up because you're attractive - hahah that is just so funny and so n00b. Men are from Mars. …
/r/seduction11/02/16 01:09 PM
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This is Natural Getting KILLS Wanting http://doubleyourdating.com/why-giving-attention-backfires/ Its the same in reverse for men as well. The male female dynamic is about conquest and challenge not affection and security.
/r/seduction22/01/16 06:00 PM
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Its not "sex" you want so much as the "idea of sex" that is a irresistible cocktail of deepest pleasure that your brain concocts. No words but only the experience can lead you to see how your fantasies rather than real life has you in its power.
/r/seduction19/01/16 03:41 PM
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As a 45 year old, I cannot endorse this enough, but for the average 21-24 year old male here driven to delusion by hormones, this will be a tough sell. There is a Japanese word, kenjataimu, for the post-orgasmic period when a man’s thoughts are no longer impaired by his sexual drive and he can think clearly like a “sage” of clear mind. The key (for the average male in his twenties) is the impairment of his judgment by his sexual drive. So unless he has had a lot of women, this will get 5 votes a…
/r/seduction18/01/16 06:37 PM
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A very good book on how to stop trying AND making it happen is called "Zen in the Art of Archery" (1953, the original "Zen" title book). What stands in your way is that you have a much too willful will. You think that what you do not do yourself does not happen. "Artless Art": The right art - is purposeless, aimless! The more obstinately you try to learn how to shoot the arrow for the sake of hitting the goal, the less you will succeed in the one and the further the other will recede. What count…
/r/seduction11/01/16 03:05 PM
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Since June 2014 - 14 different girls, about twice/thrice a month. Its in the quality. I prefer to deepen and enrich a relationship - the sex is way better. New girls make it more exciting but not as sweet or pleasurable.
/r/seduction08/01/16 06:43 PM
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Cosmetic Surgery. See some Before and After photos.
/r/seduction06/01/16 07:08 PM
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These are Principles not Rules!
/r/seduction05/01/16 06:24 PM
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Stand out with your text messages. I have noticed they fall into a pattern and I have stock responses. Q) What is your name? A) _____. Remember my name, you could be screaming it later.... Q) Where are you from? A) I am from Heaven....! Q) What do you do? A) {many funny answers to this one...check archives} Q) How is your day going? A) I am good but it may be great if it had you in it....lol I also save a bunch of funny e-cards on my Phone Picture Album.... and also funny pics like this free kis…
/r/seduction05/01/16 06:23 PM
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This is so easy. As easy as drinking water.... 1) Create a situation to go his home - any excuse will do 2) Cosy up to him 3) Bring up the subject of massage. How you haven't had one in ages and would love one right now... Its all in your head....
/r/seduction05/01/16 06:10 PM
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I'm not sure but I may be confused
/r/seduction26/12/15 02:14 PM
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It doesn't matter if you are successful in real, absolute terms. What matter is that does your behavior reflect that? There are many millionaires who can't get a date. But the reverse is more true. If you're not very successful but behave like you are (in a genuine way), your chances are infinitely better. Women judge completely by your behavior. Not absolute reality. The Absolute Reality doesn't much matter. That is what this sub exists - because attraction can be "hacked". Yes this is the Trut…
/r/seduction18/12/15 05:25 PM
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I can introduce you there is an Toronto RSD Facebook group with tons of wingmen. PM me with the event?
/r/seduction18/12/15 05:15 PM
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Balance Inner Game with Outer Game and you're a Lady Killer. Unfortunately the comment I hear from Women is the same I hear from Men: He is this and that thing but he is not sum of the minimum of all things that I think I deserve.
/r/seduction18/12/15 05:14 PM
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Women are the selectors, in every species at least mammalian. 100% of women are chasing or want to be desired by the top 5% of men. Women will gladly share the Leader of Men than be in an equal relationship with a Beta. The illusion of 'equality' is created by society/media/movies and is a complete lie. That is why the RSD Decoded videos talk the truth. Your unhappiness stems out of a mismatch between expectation and reality. Expect women to be the selectors out there to weed out the Betas. You …
/r/seduction18/12/15 05:11 PM
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No women are the selectors, in every species at least mammalian. 100% of women are chasing or want to be desired by the top 5% of men. Women will gladly share the Leader of Men than be in an equal relationship with a Beta. The illusion of 'equality' is created by society/media/movies and is a complete lie. That is why the RSD Decoded videos talk the truth. Your unhappiness stems out of a mismatch between expectation and reality. Expect women to be the selectors out there to weed out the Betas. Y…
/r/seduction18/12/15 05:09 PM
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r/theredpill
/r/seduction18/12/15 04:56 PM
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Use this line "Should I delete your number?" This has two effects: 1) Lets them know you're not to be played around with and 2) You can still keep the option open. Best line I have discovered to reel them in and force them to re-prioritize.
/r/seduction17/12/15 07:00 PM
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Excellent holistic 360 answer. Very difficult question, well summed up. You may want to also mention the visual aspect - style, fashion, looks. They also matter today as the media is priming the mind non-stop for implicit visually judgments.
/r/seduction17/12/15 06:57 PM
1

http://www.scientificamerican.com/article/toxic-perfumes-and-colognes/
/r/seduction07/12/15 09:54 PM
24

There is No predetermined reality but the reality YOU - the "Man Who Knows What He Wants" - Create
/r/seduction01/12/15 05:57 PM
1

Toastmasters doesn't cut it. This is a personal coach
/r/seduction19/11/15 12:29 PM
1

https://www.google.ca/?gfe_rd=cr&ei=CAPSVZ-tD4TF8ger0ayADg&gws_rd=ssl#q=linklater+freeing+the+natural+voice
/r/seduction18/11/15 09:28 PM
1

I am paying a Vocal Coach who teaches the Linklater method. Worth it.
/r/seduction18/11/15 06:07 PM
2

I like what you said. Your language is super expressive and innovative. But just like "their energy is contained within themselves which makes them less expressive with their emotions", so it is with their IoIs. Difficult to read. But once engaged, very rewarding.
/r/seduction10/11/15 03:16 PM
1

Pure Sense. Almost genius in its distilled wisdom.
/r/seduction06/11/15 09:13 PM
2

Through web sites or how do you get into it?
/r/seduction03/11/15 06:53 PM
1

Read The Red Queen Briffault's Law
/r/seduction14/10/15 04:48 PM
8

And You Are Enough
/r/seduction14/10/15 04:18 PM
1

Hi, older guy here.
/r/seduction01/10/15 05:22 PM
1

I've tried this - "I was just walking by minding my business. Why did you just break my concentration?"
/r/seduction30/09/15 08:03 PM
0

Thanks. Seduction was invented on Reddit, too.
/r/seduction29/09/15 11:05 PM
1

I discovered the Best Date idea by accident. Take her to a Haunted House or Haunted castle or any of the scare-themed fear factories. She will scream and scream and hang on to you - tight. You are the man protecting her and this will create an emotional spike. Quick results.
/r/seduction28/09/15 08:26 PM
7

Thanks! What is your most successful street opener?
/r/seduction28/09/15 08:23 PM
3

How does wordsmithing help an Indian guy who is not a Blue-eyed Australian whitey?
/r/seduction16/09/15 07:01 PM
1

YES, anything that implies other people are appreciate / noticing / jealous / approving. An idea however brilliant has no value by itself. An pedestrian idea, approved by her friend however casually is worth 90%. Girls are not individuals who can think for themselves and decide, they're a hive mind who sense the feeling of what others think or do to decide. Amazingly, since they cannot decide anything, a man who forms the opinion is the most treasured, since he can sway opinion. That is called '…
/r/seduction15/09/15 07:27 PM
1

Don't use your voice at all. Use facial and hand gestures + body language to communicate exclusively. See Gambler's video on this - YT.
/r/seduction15/09/15 06:43 PM
3

Girls are socialized. To get them to agree, preface everything with: "Just imagine how we will look ...." "Everyone will be so jealous of us .." "All my friends will be talking about it...." "haha I can't stop laughing at my friend's face when he saw...." The "..." can be anything - like a visit to the trash heap, abattoir, Mosque, whatever. As long as you imply other people approve of or are jealous of "..." it doesn't matter.
/r/seduction15/09/15 06:33 PM
2

Treat all girls like a girlfriend you've not seen in a while.
/r/seduction15/09/15 01:32 PM
1

Check out the Linklater method
/r/seduction11/09/15 03:49 PM
1

Mark Walberg is a peacock?
/r/seduction11/09/15 02:14 PM
1

No nightclubs are shit. Once again, a mature friend once told me - if you want to get girlfriends, the last place you should go to is King West. I've had much better luck day gaming in the Distillery, AGO, Art Walks, Whole Foods, Starbucks. Whole Foods in the tops. Takes the crown! That's what I meant - go against the grain, stop listening to BS advice and see/think/experiment for yourself.
/r/seduction11/09/15 02:05 PM
1

No, need a wingman and friendship. Not everyone is a slimy pimp.
/r/seduction11/09/15 02:00 PM
1

Fact based - there is an RSD group here with over 300 members. They have a regular meetup. There are a ton of guys forming wingman friendships. Experience based - Toronto is really hard, many things don't work because of this city's culture. There are some spots that are softer than others.
/r/seduction10/09/15 06:12 PM
3

I am 44, in Toronto and practising for the last 4 years. If you're in Toronto and in the 35-50 age bracket, contact me - I am always on the lookout for older wings as I cannot relate to the many younger wingmen. I promise you eyeopening secrets I've learned about pickup for older men and this city.
/r/seduction10/09/15 04:45 PM
1

"I am from Heaven"
/r/seduction04/09/15 06:53 PM
3

dye your hair get blue contact lenses develop an American accent (vocal coaching) get regular facial skin care
/r/seduction18/08/15 11:16 AM
3

Brilliant!
/r/seduction07/08/15 11:17 AM
0

DON'T DO THIS. I FOLLOWED THIS ADVICE AND LOST A LOT OF DECENT WOMEN. Be Confident, Not BOLD. Don't escalate fast, it makes women retreat into a shell or push you away until you have sufficient comfort.
/r/seduction05/08/15 07:14 PM
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I think you did not even read the article. His genuiness shws through and he's not just differentiating himself by the anti stance. His arguments ring a deeper tone than just an anti stance, he is not defining himself with something he is not, but by finding what had in the first place, then we lost it.
/r/seduction01/08/15 04:30 PM
1

What is RP?
/r/seduction26/07/15 08:33 PM
6

"Do you know HOW MANY calories are in that cucumber? Jeez!"
/r/seduction22/07/15 05:52 PM
1

rooshvforum
/r/seduction21/07/15 03:18 AM
5

In your core is a Supernova of energy. Discover what your core is. Connect to your core. Live from that core, not the outer shells. Your problem then will be ADHD. lol Find the good books explaining this....
/r/seduction14/07/15 03:06 PM
1

Yes, use every channel. Online game takes years of trial and practice to master. Not good ROI.
/r/seduction14/07/15 03:04 PM
1

You can get the confidence to cold approach women in ONE NIGHT.
/r/seduction14/07/15 03:02 PM
1

But let's say I'm hanging around a girl at the club, and I think she's so attractive that I can't get away from her. I want to stay around and talk to her the whole time. If that's how I honestly feel, isn't that being needy? Isn't that wrong? Where do you draw the line? This dilemma is wonderfully explained in Models by Mark Manson.
/r/seduction08/07/15 01:13 AM
-4

The successful men know something that took me 2 decades to learn. Conditionally reject women continuously. Conditional rejection means you say 'NO' first with a conditional acceptance. Examples: Unless you can cook, sorry, you can't be my girlfriend Nice canines. Do you bite? If not, I have something for you... You have a sexy look...but what else do you have to offer?
/r/seduction07/07/15 07:35 PM
2

Giraffes are tall
/r/seduction28/06/15 02:58 AM
13

Written by a guy pretending to be a woman
/r/seduction22/06/15 12:11 PM
1

Www.pualingo.com
/r/seduction22/06/15 12:06 PM
2

Saved this, will use. Thanks I am an older guy. My usual response was - "Can a really rich man count his money?"
/r/seduction15/06/15 09:55 PM
-1

They can, but the concept of "expertise" is not what you think as it applies to other fields. It depends on too many variables and impossible for someone to master. Compare it to the Arts, no one know what will work.
/r/seduction09/06/15 05:11 PM
2

THERE ARE NO EXPERTS IN GAME, ONLY PRETENDERS If you're famous and rich and have good game, you may have a decent success rate. The most dangerous concept in game is that you can become an expert. NO. You can only improve your odds a little bit.
/r/seduction09/06/15 03:28 PM
0

Pic with your dog. Opener -- woof, woof!
/r/seduction03/06/15 11:09 PM
157

In Asian and Indic cultures, the old are revered as sages and repositories of wisdom. When I first immigrated here, I was astonished to find "old people" is a derogatory term, all ages were equal and the old commanded no real respect. I have always found talking to older people BEAUTIFUL, they're at peace with themselves, having resolved the conflicting fractured mind and evolved into more integrated, coherent beings. Not everyone is wise, but those that are are simply wonderful (and lonely). Ta…
/r/seduction28/05/15 03:44 PM
-3

I'm a film maker, I want to make a short film series on erotic encounters without gratification.
/r/seduction24/04/15 08:22 PM
1

Use such friends to social proof and attract their hot friends!
/r/seduction21/04/15 08:25 PM
-1

No. That's just male psychology transplanted to women's behaviour. Women get far more sustenance from emotional support rather than sex. Why do you think women are always seeking emotional support and men are seeking sex? Theyre just looking for what has more value to them.
/r/seduction21/04/15 08:25 PM
1

Yes she brought her Middle Eastern friend and I'm going to do her. I got her to get her friend hot for me without even meeting her. There is a whole undeveloped area of using women friends as seduction proxies that is relatively unexplored here....
/r/seduction21/04/15 02:01 AM
2

I have a married woman who is doing this to me. I am mid-forties, and I know this - so I get her to come and cook for me. She is a very good cook and I prefer her cooking over sex. Sex isn't the only thing you should always ever be wanting from a woman. Don't stub out this relationship, be creative about it!
/r/seduction20/04/15 08:00 PM
3

As a reasonably successful "seducer" - I would strongly preach against empty pick-up. The goal is depth, not notch-count. And the best kind of depth comes from lasting, conscious relationships. Is that called "True Love"? It seems to me that pickup is like "ontogeny follows phylogeny" metaphor - our social evolutionary past playing out among in a small cross-section of men. It seems to me our social evolution played out this dynamic of polyamory in the past, and somehow the benefit, child-rearin…
/r/seduction15/04/15 01:30 AM
-9

Full of arrogance FTFY
/r/seduction24/03/15 05:15 AM
-3

Full of arrogance FTFY
/r/seduction24/03/15 05:14 AM
0

Yes, looks are everything. Where everyone makes a mistake is to think that "looks" are a given, a constant. "Looks" are something you create with skin, hair, fashion and garnish with style. The raw material is your energy and positivity, which are the true "givens" and "constants"
/r/seduction26/02/15 03:48 PM
3

As an adult you have your sense of propriety. We're not recommending you become a child. It is not possible. But simple differentiate between the 4 Models of the Self: Ego, Self-Confidence, Self-Esteem and Self-worth. They are all different. You should kill the ego, so the others can flourish. But yes, the Ego also does many wonderful things like achieve your ambitions and win competitively. Sometimes the Ego is your way forward in the competitive world, but it is a dark poison in relationships.…
/r/seduction24/02/15 08:12 PM
59

Why do adults, with all their wealth, their time, their knowledge of beauty and aging can never look as beautiful as children? It is because with age develops the ego and they're clouded by it, a force of darkness and negativity. See a child before the age of 7, when the ego hasn't formed yet, see how lovable and full of wonder it is. Your beauty has its source in your wonder and passion, not hair and skin and fashion which are secondary. All your need for self-validation comes because you live …
/r/seduction23/02/15 05:47 PM
13

Ice Fishing
/r/seduction12/02/15 10:02 PM
1

Yes, temporarily when I am continoulsy fucking hot chicks
/r/seduction16/12/14 07:25 PM
1

how do you get invited to these parties? I am in Toronto
/r/seduction19/11/14 09:46 PM
1

"Well...how did I look? (pause) I don't want to forget the look in your eyes, (pause) maybe I will never see it again (pause) " Switch to a romantic gear. Melts like a hot knife every time.
/r/seduction16/11/14 08:08 PM
1

deliberately walking somewhere How do you walk when you're not trying to get somewhere?
/r/seduction16/11/14 07:56 PM
59

What is your hidden gift no one knows about? What is the happiest fact you know? Most embarrassing situation you've been in? What is the saddest lyric you've ever heard? What is a MUST SEE movie that is highly overlooked? What was your biggest "holy shit why haven't I done this sooner" moment? What is your favorite unsolved mystery? What is the best / worst permanent life decision that you've ever made? What is the greatest unsolved mystery of your life? What is your passion in life? What stupid…
/r/seduction16/11/14 07:53 PM
3

Innovative experiment, what are the conclusions?
/r/seduction15/11/14 01:54 PM
1

YES "Smart" reaches the Intellect. A man is fascinated by his mind, his insight, his curiosity, his creativity the way a woman is fascinated by her beauty, her hair, her body and her sensuality. But it remains there - something to be admired. It will never open any real doors for you or drive decisions in this world. Maybe in Academia and in your career, but dont work the Smartness thing here. Create a feeling Feelings are visceral they drive action.
/r/seduction10/11/14 09:30 PM
-2

Start a Social Group or Club or Society. Make Sex cool. You can change mindsets from above as well as sideways. Read up on how Cults infiltrate and brainwash completely normal people in a free society to part with everything and even with their lives. Human minds can be reprogrammed.
/r/seduction07/11/14 04:17 PM
1

http://www.reddit.com/r/TorontoSeddit/comments/2leeoi/rsd_nation_facebook_group_the_best_place_to_find/
/r/seduction05/11/14 08:18 PM
1

Gratitude Nothing will make you happier and give off good vibes than gratitude expressed daily - to yourself, to others, to your God, to your parents, to your mentors.... Check out "The Secret" by Rhonda Byrne
/r/seduction05/11/14 08:07 PM
1

I am open to women in all ages from 22 to 44 but I find the early to mid thirties ones which are the juiciest - sexually experienced, maturity and stability and yet their beauty and firmness still ..ahem...ripe. Yes I am choosy. I can and do filter. I dress very well. Dress is easy to fix, and has the best ROI of all techniques. I have a bald spot on the back of my hair, non-existent gray hair. Getting some dimple surgery and maybe neck lifts. Working on my voice....game is a journey. I am in To…
/r/seduction05/11/14 08:05 PM
2

Yes you're right from a 20 year old newbie (no disrespect). I was there once. I am mid-40s, I have acquired the confidence necessary to carry this off every time (no boast) Say it with confidence, a smirk and a naughty glint in your eyes leaving no room for doubt that it is meant to be a SEXY COMPLIMENT.
/r/seduction05/11/14 03:39 PM
1

"I use women only for sex. I like women's bodies but not their brains. In my opinion, a woman should be seen and not heard" - famous Indian movie director Ram Gopal Verma
/r/seduction03/11/14 03:43 PM
4

The best cure for this is actually - believe it or not - empathy. Start to see yourself from the eyes of the beholder - and you will lose all ego and become a performer. Self-consciousness goes away, you start to enjoy your own performance in a calm relaxed way rather than weirding out. Remember its not about you - its other's ideal of a hero, if only for a night. Give it your best. Kill the Ego, and bring a Shine to your Confidence.
/r/seduction31/10/14 01:59 PM
5

Not only that, sex is much better on Day 2,3, etc. But this is now how expensive PuA bootcamps get sold ;-) Only "Magic Bullets" sell to "target-oriented" males.
/r/seduction29/10/14 04:12 PM
0

So it depends on the build up. This strategy does not stand with a quick chat. You need time to build up to this. I prefer depth over breadth in building connections. If I succeed in that, it rarely fails! With "What is your number?" - you know how many flakes people keep complaining about!
/r/seduction21/10/14 06:41 PM
0

This is the opposite of Sneaky. You interpret it as sneaky because likely you havent set the confident frame. Imagine a girl you're not sure about. Now there - do you get it?
/r/seduction21/10/14 06:08 PM
1

I use "I really have to go- but one last thing...." very early on. This sets the frame. This raises your value immediately. They pay closer attention to you before you really leave. Either continue after that...or DONT ASK FOR HER NUMBER Before you split - "I felt something there / that was something....pity I will never see you again" This is a bit of a gamble. If you've built enough attraction, she will offer you her number. If she doesn't and you ask for it, she may give it but will flake usu…
/r/seduction21/10/14 02:30 PM
3

"Joke Fuck" - nominated
/r/seduction17/10/14 04:15 PM
1

Show (demonstrate) your values and qualities - Dont tell
/r/seduction16/10/14 04:09 PM
1

Nick Hoss reading list
/r/seduction14/10/14 08:23 PM
1

The average person is more conscious of not upsetting you rather than giving you true feedback that may hurt - because the average person doesn't understand how to look at yourself as a constantly evolving product that needs an upgrade. The average person is....and always will be.....average.
/r/seduction09/10/14 06:14 PM
1

Lesson Six: Learn to Compliment women in unusual and original but in a low key style (true compliments are often offhand as if it escaped you, rather than the totally fake way most people do it - energetic and rambunctious)
/r/seduction09/10/14 05:27 PM
2

Bull crap!
/r/seduction09/10/14 05:26 PM
2

Push them to the point of judging them. Use harsh but not insulting words. The only way to get at what is really wrong with you - especially women. Tried this tactic online. Learnt the best lessons of what was not working in my profile. When you start to JUDGE them, they will JUDGE you right back. Feedback you will never get in a million years, especially since I am in Canada ;-)
/r/seduction09/10/14 05:25 PM
2

r/ParallelUniverse
/r/seduction08/10/14 08:14 PM
1

Because of Safety
/r/seduction08/10/14 08:13 PM
1

Chats up or Picks up?
/r/seduction08/10/14 08:11 PM
2

simple doesn’t mean easy Exactly. So advanced, it is simple. Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.
/r/seduction08/10/14 07:34 PM
-4

I use a spicier version of this: "I noticed you haven't noticed me. Yet." OR "I noticed you noticed me." then follow up with (they always laugh at this...) I looked back to see if you looked back, As I was looking back to see if you were looking back To see if I was looking back to see If you were looking at me!
/r/seduction08/10/14 03:57 PM
-1

Are males really "cheating" by the same definition that applies to Women? Morality is defined by Biology For more clarification and to be really convinced, please read Sperm Wars (Infidelity, Sexual Conflict) The Selfish Gene The Red Queen The Mating Mind
/r/seduction06/10/14 04:49 PM
-3

Why is it that most women I date tell me "I love generous men - it increases my attraction"? Women have been programmed by evolution to exchange sex for resources - money, gifts, shelter, protection. It TURNS them on. Women always seriously consider if they can get something in exchange for sex in contrast to the pure pleasure and validation like it is for men. Your argument runs counter to what women in the field tell me. I suspect this is a nicer gentler Red Pill philosophy that is not so cut …
/r/seduction30/09/14 09:18 PM
1

Hey Austeyn, nice try at self-promotion!
/r/seduction30/09/14 07:22 PM
1

A French saying goes like this - "a woman who is laughing is half way to your bed". Vadim - you are extremely funny, but funny makes you a comedian. Your jokes are intellectual, laced with social context and a naughty wink-wink at the audience. But your targets - the women mostly don't get their sophisticated humor. The woman should be laughing with you. The smart audience is laughing, the women are mildly confused at best. (I used to be the funny monkey in the field. I now say the least I can. …
/r/seduction30/09/14 07:05 PM
1

Ha ha you think its only seddit? Pickup has thousands of wares, thousands of merchants. Its mainstream now. And naturals are way more plentiful and skilled than what these PuA merchants would have us believe. Their game is top notch.
/r/seduction30/09/14 06:42 PM
2

Over confidence is just compensating for little confidence - which makes it false confidence. There is only kind of confidence - the true kind. Its expressions are different.
/r/seduction30/09/14 06:38 PM
1

From experience - touching her leg with yours is the most erotic kino move. It is more allowed in social situations as eyes are not usually on legs.
/r/seduction30/09/14 06:34 PM
0

Not just that - pickup seems oblivious to the fact that it is a morphing and evolving social dynamic. When everyone out there is reading this advice and doing kino escalation ... I have had a mature woman tell me "most guys are grabby, its far more attractive if you let me come on to you. I went on 3 dates with a gentleman and on the third date I was grinding him". Calibrate the woman. If she is an experienced dater, build tension with a sexual vibe, dont necessarily kino escalate. The seduction…
/r/seduction30/09/14 06:33 PM
1

Dont ASK women out - Lead them to it so she herself is half suggesting it. Unless you are this point, or sense you are - don't bet on it happening. Dont ASK for a girls number - Lead them to offer it to you without you asking for it directly. Any number of strategies for both of these above. A date is a by-product of attraction. It is not its goal. The centre of pickup is attraction. Yes sometimes you can work on it the other way. But its risky.
/r/seduction30/09/14 06:30 PM
7

Always my place. It is better in MY BED. Comfort, control, condoms.
/r/seduction30/09/14 03:56 PM
1

Agreed. Outer Game slowly becomes Inner Game as it is reinforced from experience rather than merely learned in theory.
/r/seduction29/09/14 08:20 PM
4

Exactly!!
/r/seduction29/09/14 08:18 PM
3

I did, she freaked and now avoids me. Don't do this.
/r/seduction29/09/14 07:14 PM
2

He is extremely funny, but funny makes you a comedian. They're laughing at your jokes. His jokes are intellectual, laced with social context and the women mostly don't get their sophisticated humor. The smart audience is laughing, the women are mildly confused at best. You're entertaining them, are you necessarily seducing them? I used to be very funny in the field. I now say the least I can, I use my eyes, my vibe, my body language, my aura. My results are dramatically different.
/r/seduction29/09/14 07:11 PM
2

When everyone out there is reading this advice and doing this... I have had a mature woman tell me "most guys are grabby, its far more attractive if you let me come on to you. I went on 3 dates with a gentleman and on the third date I was grinding him". Calibrate the woman. If she is an experienced dater, build tension with a sexual vibe, dont necessarily kino escalate. The seduction dynamic is changing in the big cities as millions get familiar with this repeating advice. I learned this the har…
/r/seduction29/09/14 07:07 PM
7

So the lack of change is more wearisome than a crisis! True but so counter intuitive in a world which seeks security.
/r/seduction29/09/14 06:19 PM
17

I would take it further - be the canvas on which people can project their fantasies of what you are. There is nothing more interesting than that. But how?
/r/seduction29/09/14 06:18 PM
6

any idiot can survive a crisis. It is the day to day things that wear you down Isn't that interesting! What is it about the daily grind - is it the lack of challenge that is the most wearisome thing we have to bear?
/r/seduction29/09/14 05:43 PM
-11

Subtle and tasteful are just the icing. A caveman expresses his desire by dragging his woman by her hair. A modern rapist can also turn on his victims. I am sure you don't model yourself after either.
/r/seduction29/09/14 04:16 PM
97

The difference between creepy and the "man who knows what he wants" is simply this: the creepy guy HIDES his desire in the shadows in the unconscious fear that he will be rejected if he expresses them. The "man who knows what he wants" is confident enough to express his deepest desires directly, subtly yet tastefully in the secure belief that he will be desired just as much as he desires.
/r/seduction29/09/14 02:23 PM
2

Cold Shower Read up on its benefits.
/r/seduction26/09/14 09:14 PM
-7

Here is a better line for you -- "There is no one out there who is as good at being me as I" then go on to talk about the best version of you.
/r/seduction26/09/14 09:13 PM
1

I’m still amazed every time I spot a woman on there talking about how much they like being tied up and pissed on AFF when they have a POF profile that talks all about how they’re “not interested in hook ups” or “that kind of girl”. Ha ha ha......
/r/seduction26/09/14 06:40 PM
1

I am on OKC and POF but considering match.com After a time, all the profiles look and read the same things.... Please detail and elaborate on your experience with match.com It is effective, what kind of vibe (profile, messages) work best on match.com I will buy the subscription based on your advice so looking forward to it
/r/seduction26/09/14 06:38 PM
0

Got laid last night. Pulled this 31 year old from online, met her at 10:45, had her in my bed at 12. She left around 1. I got laid 3 times in the last 2 weeks. All from online however.....Next one coming up Monday.
/r/seduction26/09/14 04:51 PM
2

“The only calibration that counts is how much heart people invest, how much they ignore their fears of being hurt or caught out or humiliated. And the only thing people regret is that they didn't live boldly enough, that they didn't invest enough heart, didn't love enough. Nothing else really counts at all.” ― Ted Hughes
/r/seduction26/09/14 01:11 PM
1

Honest is not a switch, it is a process.
/r/seduction26/09/14 01:10 PM
-4

This is very subtle but VERY IMPORTANT. The second one is needy and desperate, the first one is a subtle ultimatum and therefore shows abundance mentality. How they're worded makes all the difference. Do you know women see far more colours than men? Just like colours, many men don't see the many shades of emotion that glare out blatantly at women. No wonder they're confused by women. Look unlike the popular belief, not everyone can become a PuA. The defining filter is intelligence. It is the one…
/r/seduction25/09/14 08:20 PM
1

Brilliant. What are your best teases?
/r/seduction24/09/14 07:10 PM
3

DON'T ASK FOR HER NUMBER. MAKE HER GIVE YOU HER NUMBER. Any number of strategies to do this...
/r/seduction18/09/14 08:41 PM
0

What are the key points? Can someone make a summary?
/r/seduction18/09/14 08:40 PM
1

Go to meetups based on your interests - like reading clubs, film clubs, etc. Try picking up at libraries. Film festivals. Literary festivals. Selective online profiles You will meet your match there. (I have the same problem as you).
/r/seduction17/09/14 01:58 PM
22

E-Close?
/r/seduction17/09/14 01:55 PM
1

Once again a PuA from Toronto
/r/seduction16/09/14 05:01 PM
1

Women interpret everything through BEHAVIOUR. This is the KEY. And can be hacked. Change yourself to Behave like you're a millionaire. Very difficult to fake.
/r/seduction15/09/14 05:44 PM
1

What did you connect with besides sex?
/r/seduction15/09/14 05:41 PM
2

Sex is a by-product of attraction. First time attraction is easy, keeping it is hard. Riff on what you connected which is not sex. Stories...dreams....anything. Expand on it, build on it. Connect --> Chemistry --> Shared Magic ---> Attraction --> Sex
/r/seduction15/09/14 04:55 PM
1

Have you tried being a challenge? You can raise your game just by mastering challenge. But challenge must be convincing. Being convincingly challenging is a powerful and overlooked part of game.
/r/seduction12/09/14 07:35 PM
1

Best date idea by FAR IMHO are nature parks. Wild open nature + isolation awakens a sense of primitive adventure and freedom in men and women, tinged with the slight danger of discovery makes it more exciting.
/r/seduction14/08/14 10:31 PM
2

Ask them for favours. Get them to go far to meet you.
/r/seduction05/08/14 08:59 PM
1

Do you KNOW how many calories those cucumbers have? What would your husband say?!?
/r/seduction29/07/14 02:47 PM
9

Funny technique. Here are some better transitions: Oh you're so kind -- helping random strangers. I would like to thank you for being so awesome. Come let me buy you a coffee. Oh that wallet had like 300 dollars. I must at least say thank you by buying you a $2 coffee. Oh dang! Are you a pickpocket. Why did you just change your mind?
/r/seduction27/07/14 12:31 PM
1

Society has classed all of the behavior which you have stated as beta, unfortunately. No only fake alphas have. Challenge these so-called PuA goals and find out for yourself. Deida is not advocating monogamy or oneitis, merely you give with much more than your genitals else the experience is nowhere it can be. Stop being the 'macho jerk' -- in reality a scared bully, posturing like some King Kong in charge of the universe. You can't become an true alpha and we can all see through your posturing.…
/r/seduction24/07/14 06:09 PM
1

I find his things hard to practice without getting sucked into her world Exactly. The whole point of Deida is that sex is not the goal, but a by-product of love and attraction. Sex is infinitely better when you're 'sucked into her world' and have 'sucked her into your world'. Sex without love and attraction is a shadow of what it can be. Regardless of all PuA wisdom here....as he says 'all spine and no heart'. Challenge these PuA goals and find out for yourself.
/r/seduction24/07/14 06:04 PM
2

100% agree. But the inner game foundation is hard to discover by yourself. Also many outer game tricks are useful. Read but use your innovation to apply what works for you.
/r/seduction24/07/14 12:15 PM
-1

True, and they should read Deida as well!
/r/seduction22/07/14 07:01 PM
1

Right see my comment.
/r/seduction21/07/14 11:10 PM
4

Interest =/= investment Once again conceptual contradictions are needlessly introduced by overlapping language interpretations / the limitations of language. The counterfoil of effective interest is the subtle but ever present subtext that I could lose interest. Show interest but lace it with that hint of doubt...are you really as interesting as I think you are? Achieve the interest and keeps her qualifying / proving herself endlessly to you. Showing interest does not mean you're investing emoti…
/r/seduction21/07/14 11:07 PM
2

It demolishes all the first generation PuA "correlation is causation" BS. It is really second-generation game theory book. It makes some remarkable and original connections that comes critical thinking applied to in-field observations. It is real. You can apply this to yourself. You cannot really apply many "correlation is causation" stuff that other PuAs teach because they mistake personal causality to be general truths. But it is solidly inner game foundation.
/r/seduction17/07/14 03:21 AM
1

Casanova. Lord Byron. Wilt Chamberlain. Jack Nicholson. Giacomo Casanova was the seducer by whom all others are measured, the man who gave his name to the charming yet roguish breed.
/r/seduction14/07/14 05:42 PM
2

This excellent guide just got 5 upvotes? Sad day for seddit. This is a really thought-provoking guide if you've gone on this journey to polish your photos. Interesting because there is no real definitive feedback.
/r/seduction14/07/14 04:18 PM
1

Read 'Daring greatly ' by Brene Brown
/r/seduction13/07/14 04:30 PM
9

She isn’t going to do the work for you. Assume 100% of the burden of the interaction. From meeting her, to carrying the conversation, to making her feel comfortable, to making her friends like you, to physically escalating, to getting her to the sex location. It’s all your responsibility. Makes you wonder why is it worth it?
/r/seduction03/07/14 11:16 PM
0

Start with a question about something that is common. Yesterday I tried at the PRIDE Parade - "Hey is that sunscreen or glitter?" Worked a few times.
/r/seduction30/06/14 03:42 PM
1

Alpha Male fallacies Fake Alphas Gender Fallacies in Dating
/r/seduction30/06/14 02:19 PM
1

This is much more important than the 3-second rule. I use it all the time. We're so visually oriented, we think with our eyes. Yet a connection is much deeper than the eyes. For a meaningful, lasting connection, you have to feel her rather than just see her. "Your strength is your weakness" <-- the reverse is also true. So yes, Manson is for those who are in Game Level 2. It is more fulfilling. But you can only do this after you have the confidence to conquer AA.
/r/seduction25/06/14 02:20 PM
1

Creating a list for this weekend in Toronto...
/r/seduction25/06/14 02:18 PM
2

You've lost your soul. In other words "For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?" This is the price of perfecting Game.
/r/seduction23/06/14 06:54 PM
4

Before Chi became a Zen Master Rivers were rivers And mountains were mountains When Chi was learning to become a Zen Master Rivers were no longer rivers And mountains were no longer mountains. After Chi became a Zen Master Rivers were once again rivers And mountains were once again mountains Go Back to Oneitis. Our original condition. See the major PuAs like Style. After running through the game, they've settled down with The One. There is nothing better than true love with one person.
/r/seduction23/06/14 06:42 PM
2

I've tried subtly questioning their character: "Do you follow through with something you believe in?" "Are you just shy or are you just another flake?" "Are you an early quitter or do you rank persistence as the most important quality of success?" "Do you just sample things or do you relish them? The latter involved making a decision and takes commitment - but is far more rewarding" ...subtly implying that they may not have what it takes to go to the next level, the subtext being that the reward…
/r/seduction20/06/14 02:10 PM
2

Amazing compilation! Kudos to you!
/r/seduction20/06/14 02:03 PM
1

1) Try gaming outside the club - on the streets as they come in. Its a friendlier zone - bitch shields are not yet up. 2) The bitch shields are up because (as one girl put it) - "all the guys here, all they want is sex". So a line I found that works - "I am NOT looking for a quick lay" / "Not looking for sex".
/r/seduction19/06/14 08:58 PM
1

RSD Nation of Los Angeles. Join their Facebook group.
/r/seduction17/06/14 01:52 PM
1

Smile constantly.
/r/seduction16/06/14 01:37 PM
2

"Getting Kills Wanting" - DeAngleo's Second Law of Attraction
/r/seduction16/06/14 01:33 PM
1

It is much better to ask this: How adventurous are you? blah..blah...blah.... On a scale of 10? Most will answer on the high side. That's your opening....look deeply into her eyes...then Kiss her....whack her with the Apocalypse proposal....use your imagination... Boyfriend or no boyfriend.
/r/seduction11/06/14 01:46 PM
2

You're 19? This seems written by some one with a great deal more life experience!
/r/seduction10/06/14 08:55 PM
1

Both chiropractic science and yoga are essentially about a healthy spine. Different roads to the same goal. Interesting, isnt it?
/r/seduction09/06/14 09:10 PM
1

High Energy - YES! High Energy = /= Never stop talking There are better ways to radiate High Energy. Watch a dog. It is bustling with energy. When you burn energy maniacally, you don't need to talk. And it is more convincing.
/r/seduction09/06/14 08:52 PM
1

Strippers give you numbers to set up escort calls - not because they're attracted to you. The game is hard. Strip clubs are a shortcut to nothing really.
/r/seduction09/06/14 07:16 PM
1

It is always like this....chase something of value and it runs away. You have to attract it. Read up The Law of Attraction. It has inspired countless books.
/r/seduction09/06/14 07:12 PM
1

Once again a PuA commandment has confused cause and effect/by-product for a beginner. Not caring is an effect of having higher goals over pettiness. It is not the end in itself. Sex is the byproduct of attraction. It cannot succeed by being an end in itself. Money is by product of creating value that people want. It usually cannot succeed by being an end in itself. Fame is the by product of doing something very well. It cannot succeed by being an end in itself.
/r/seduction09/06/14 04:39 PM
3

The Alexander Technique applies to good body posture. Yoga establishes the core of actually building spinal strength to be able to maintain those postures for the major part of the day naturally. Both should be used and applied - they're good complements to each other!
/r/seduction09/06/14 04:36 PM
6

Check out Married Man Sex Life. How to apply the same PuA principles applied to long term marriage, served daily.
/r/seduction09/06/14 03:12 PM
1

No
/r/seduction06/06/14 04:01 PM
1

Yes I have heard many of his interviews. He does not subscribe to standard "PuA Game". Approaches are not today's "PuA Game" they're the core foundation of any game since all time. But his game is very different, it is old style and not manipulative. Not based on the Mystery Method which seems to have influenced modern game.
/r/seduction06/06/14 03:28 PM
1

Look up Zan Perrion. He's a natural without so called "PuA Game". There are other kinds of game than preached here....
/r/seduction06/06/14 02:42 PM
1

The key is your pictures in your profile....
/r/seduction03/06/14 08:41 PM
1

Most successful opener:a simple "Why?" 80% response. You can then spin it any way you want - witty, curious, challenging,...
/r/seduction03/06/14 08:39 PM
2

No sarcasm, I was inspired by the coolness, started another thread on cool date ideas inspired by this. Yesterday - look it up.
/r/seduction03/06/14 01:23 PM
2

Long, unknown forest trail and getting lost. I've done it. Get lost in the unknown woods with coyotes (and bears) nearby. Stay lost for over 2 hours.... Opens up all kinds of primitive emotional needs and then you can find her the way out, be the savior. This is a strong commitment building tactic. But you need to plan this well.
/r/seduction02/06/14 02:52 PM
2

You can get behind her just like pool but pool is cheesy. Women love being touch-approached gently from the back. Archery is a GREAT IDEA. Love it!
/r/seduction02/06/14 02:50 PM
4

I am this, but I've been told I have this "Established" vibe and air around me. I guess it is true. You command respect. You have less AA but also less manic energy (if you've already reproduced). You have better tools - material and psychological. You have more resources. You have more perspective. You're fearless and you've seen the ends so you know the whole circle. The odds are stacked in your favour.
/r/seduction02/06/14 02:18 PM
2

It is FALSE. Just like Victory, Defeat is false. Both false, both liars, both ultimately meaningless. I have plumbed the depths of despair and it is as hollow as winning. Their only use is to serve as goals to aspire to and the pits to avoid. The real meaning is in the process, the journey. Don't be defined by either.
/r/seduction02/06/14 02:11 PM
8

a moroccan shisha bar and a walk around the harbour Great date ideas. Let's make a list of such innovative, different date ideas.
/r/seduction02/06/14 01:48 PM
1

You think PuAs have it right? No one knows anything. All viewpoints have their own validity.
/r/seduction31/05/14 03:05 PM
-1

It is a PuA book. Real life does not really play out as a PuA would believe it - it is more unpredictable, nuanced, multi-dimensional and - richer. That's why ART exists - it takes a hard thing and makes it simple - through showing which can never be done through telling.
/r/seduction29/05/14 03:35 PM
1

I am in Mississauga, but I am in my 40s. I am experience though.
/r/seduction26/05/14 02:26 PM
5

This is great. I like your considered, nuanced, strategic WITH Tactical approach instead of the blunderbuss approaches like blanket Cocky Funny. Finish the job, refine it and I would be interested in building upon this.
/r/seduction21/05/14 09:21 PM
1

http://www.charismaoncommand.com/never-run-things-say/
/r/seduction15/05/14 07:12 PM
1

How to Make Anyone Fall in Love With You: 85 Proven Techniques for Success by Lowndes, Leil
/r/seduction28/04/14 08:31 PM
3

There are lots of guys who are more than this. You're not listing that he is a STAR?
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:02 PM
1

Live from your core.
/r/seduction18/04/14 02:43 PM
5

No.
/r/seduction10/04/14 05:49 PM
4

It not your game as much as who you are. Battles are won in preparation much more than in the field.
/r/seduction09/04/14 02:59 PM
4

Your success is directly proportional to your desire. Game is much deeper than you can think and your desire is not generated by your mind.
/r/seduction09/04/14 02:58 PM
1

Arrogance/Niceness comes from Ego and not Self-Confidence. Kill Your Ego http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=kill+your+ego Raise your Confidence. Research on the different models of our self in our self-evaluation (these are deeply buried in the psyche): 1) Ego 2) Self-Confidence 3) Self-esteem / Self-worth 4) Pride http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-enhancement
/r/seduction08/04/14 07:20 PM
1

All sports people do this, so yes - strong correlation.
/r/seduction27/03/14 09:02 PM
1

The Art of Approaching by Joseph Matthews - is very good
/r/seduction27/03/14 09:02 PM
0

"Since when have you had that problem?" "Don't you want to upgrade to a....man friend?"
/r/seduction24/03/14 08:17 PM
2

You write very well.
/r/seduction09/03/14 03:37 PM
0

Text me your number
/r/seduction08/03/14 05:28 PM
3

Neediness is simply repressed want that you think you don't deserve, and hence it is essentially dishonest.
/r/seduction08/03/14 01:33 AM
2

Her boyfriend is pretending to be her DAD.
/r/seduction18/12/13 11:47 PM
1

Married Man Sex Life
/r/seduction04/12/13 02:46 PM
21

You have to be always drunk. Its the only way. Drunk on art, women or wine, whatever intoxicates you the most. But be drunk. If you wake again and come to your senses - drunkenness diminishing, the wind, the wave, the star, the bird, the clock, everything that is flying, everything that is groaning, everything that is rolling, everything that is singing, everything that is speaking. . .ask them what time it is. The wind, wave, star, bird, clock will answer you: "It is time to be drunk!” A slave …
/r/seduction25/11/13 03:24 PM
1

I dont want to date a model.
/r/seduction20/09/13 06:19 PM
1

nice!
/r/seduction05/09/13 02:01 AM
0

This is not the original source of this material. Check the book quoted towards the end of the post - "Quiet". Links do not veracity make.
/r/seduction02/08/13 05:08 PM
94

The myths and misunderstandings that were born when we as a culture embraced the Extrovert Ideal and turned introversion into a malady to be avoided. Myth #1 – Introverts don’t like to talk. This is not true. Introverts just don’t talk unless they have something to say. They hate small talk. Get an introvert talking about something they are interested in, and they won’t shut up for days. Myth #2 – Introverts are shy. Shyness has nothing to do with being an Introvert. Introverts are not necessari…
/r/seduction01/08/13 04:58 PM
0

Seduction is the OPPOSITE of love. A precondition of love means making yourself vulnerable, opening up the most tender part of yourself. Seduction is about projection, control and attraction. Seduction is a completely different philosophy than cannot be reconciled with Romantic Love.
/r/seduction31/07/13 05:30 AM
3

Agreed. Wise. Don't try the Apocalypse until you're a master at this.
/r/seduction24/07/13 05:29 PM
3

I am a PuA (level unknown) and a diver and I would not recommend this. Except for divemasters, casual divers aren't that comfortable in the water to go with this. This is also a sleazy, backhanded move.
/r/seduction24/07/13 05:26 PM
29

The top personal questions in AskReddit are even better: What is your hidden gift no one knows about? What is the happiest fact you know? Most embarrassing situation you've been in? What is the saddest lyric you've ever heard? What is a MUST SEE movie that is highly overlooked? What was your biggest "holy shit why haven't I done this sooner" moment? What is your favorite unsolved mystery? What is the best / worst permanent life decision that you've ever made? What is the greatest unsolved myster…
/r/seduction22/07/13 07:27 PM
2

This is the other end of pickup maturity. P-Close.
/r/seduction17/07/13 05:27 PM
1

So you think any woman is DTF the same night if you play your moves well?
/r/seduction27/06/13 07:18 PM
2

I had 3 such chances last night and blew them. One with a stunning, sexy jewellery designer.
/r/seduction27/06/13 04:51 PM
2

Focus on Taking Action, Not Learning Theory. There's very little to "learn" about approaching women. You've been walking your whole life. You've been talking your whole life. So there's nothing preventing you from walking up to a woman you don't know and talking to her... except yourself. The little theory that we do cover in the program revolves around recognizing your own anxieties and how you respond to them, and then changing those responses. Fear is conquered through action, therefore the e…
/r/seduction26/06/13 04:48 PM
2

What do you say to the women who're wearing fashionable stilettos - the majority of them? (the sandwich sequence)
/r/seduction19/06/13 04:40 AM
3

Manwhoring in the next level of PuA. One of the ballsiest lines to use with women: How much would you pay to take me home?
/r/seduction17/06/13 11:01 PM
-5

This is old.
/r/seduction15/06/13 07:57 PM
1

Thank you for pointing out the The Book of Pook. Pretty unknown (?) but gold!
/r/seduction15/06/13 06:04 PM
4

Yes, two events. Nothing different about them. Same game, same challenges. You just have easier approaches.
/r/seduction14/06/13 06:31 PM
2

Insightful Nick. You're a brain!
/r/seduction12/06/13 05:34 PM
2

The problem isn't the sexuality of the woman - it is getting her to the point where her sexuality is engaged. That is what seduction is about - arousal. Arousal is hard.
/r/seduction03/06/13 06:22 PM
3

A quote I came across recently - "Did you know the people that are the strongest are usually the most sensitive? ....Did you know the 3 hardest things to say are I love you, I'm sorry, and Help me." It takes incredible strength to show vulnerability. Vulnerability is misunderstood as letting defenses down, it is about being strong enough to be able to afford to be sensitive and affording emotions. Weak men can't easily afford the luxury of emotions and vulnerability as they're focusing every mus…
/r/seduction03/06/13 06:18 PM
2

Arrogance is the diffident man's pretense of Confidence.
/r/seduction09/04/13 06:41 PM
2

Obviously you've never seen a Bollywood romance. Quit talking outta your ass.
/r/seduction25/01/13 02:52 PM
1

You're suffering from headline syndrome. Your mother should've swallowed, you know?
/r/seduction25/01/13 02:51 PM
4

If you've ever seen a Bollywood film, you'll know this from childhood. This is how all Bollywood romances start - the girl starts off hating the hero - this is how we knew when we were children who will get her - long before we knew anything about 'seduction' - doh!
/r/seduction24/01/13 07:41 PM
5

Why do you look like a Serial Killer that Hollywood would fawn over?
/r/seduction03/01/13 03:31 PM
2

Get a telescope and go star gazing. Go SCUBA diving or snorkelling. Reach a sense of wonder in everyone.
/r/seduction05/12/12 06:57 PM
2

David DeAngelo is a theoretician. Don't apply his techniques - they don't work. Some of his theory is good.
/r/seduction04/12/12 07:14 PM
5

Models is the best, but it is for the Intelligent.
/r/seduction04/12/12 07:12 PM
2

Dating Skills Review <--- 360 PRODUCT LANDSCAPE with top products not just the best known.
/r/seduction04/12/12 07:10 PM
11

Upvoted for coining engaging new term - "Meat Game".
/r/seduction26/11/12 10:08 PM
4

Right. There are no rules only intentions. And behind the intentions, there is the person. Outer game is just a manifestation of inner game.
/r/seduction11/10/12 06:12 PM
0

Much of DeAngelo's advice is plain wrong. He is a theoretician, his knowledge comes from books rather than the field and observation. It is top-down.
/r/seduction11/10/12 06:11 PM
-11

A model of what? Looks? Certainly not a model of a good, secure, fulfilled human being.
/r/seduction10/10/12 01:27 AM
2

See Approach Anxiety and also read the article quoted. TIL psychology is a pseudo science!
/r/seduction09/10/12 08:50 PM
47

I admire you, this is the theme of all manhood. There is a Buddhist saying: “What you resist persists.” The will power solution. Hey man, man up, grab your balls and just do it. With enough social pressure and belittling, this can also work in the short-term. Note however, this is a brute force approach fighting against yourself with you own willpower. Willpower gets exhausted, or is not always as powerful as you want it to be - at night and with age. Believing that fear doesn’t exist is nice fr…
/r/seduction09/10/12 01:40 PM
1

I tried this - it works. For those of you dismissing it, this is what is known as the "Cognitive Model Interpretation Fallacy". What appears as cheese and cheeky to a man appears as teasing and flirty to a girl. Cognitive Model Interpretation Fallacy - the fallacy that others interpret things the same way you do.
/r/seduction23/09/12 06:34 PM
3

Yes.When you radiate love, you seduce everyone. Men, women alike. This is the ultimate seduction. Once you've integrated this into yourself, then you don't need any remedies against Approach Anxiety. People are simply attracted to you and come to you for deeper answers. The power of this is far beyond simply going to bed with someone. Also see material by David Dieda. This is where seduction of women broadens to attractive everyone.
/r/seduction18/09/12 02:11 PM
2

http://worthyplayboys.com/ See the notes section
/r/seduction18/09/12 01:41 PM
2

I had told him about myself a little. But mostly what he said is really 'endemic to men in general' and for me as well. I will post later some of his views...don't have it handy at work.
/r/seduction17/09/12 05:08 PM
1

Your post does not answer - Why do girls who want IT go to gay clubs?
/r/seduction17/09/12 03:20 PM
2

A book has been written on this: The Sexual Key - How To Use The Structure Of Female Emotion To Arouse A Woman with Words alone by JD Fuentes. Women perceive language differently from men, and this can be keyed along with some NLP techniques.
/r/seduction13/09/12 07:17 PM
-18

Filipinas hobbits? Them nannies they count for nothing.
/r/seduction13/09/12 05:01 PM
1

I am an amateur astronomer, a diver, drummer (still learning) and writer. Going to learn Kite Surfing.
/r/seduction13/09/12 04:57 PM
12

Do not agree with "7) MOVING YOUR HANDS AROUND WHILE YOU TALK" - this is a primitive human gesticulation linked to the visual cortex and is actually very expressive. To be a leader is also to be Human first. Also do not agree with GOING BACK TO A PRIOR THREAD THAT WAS INTERUPTED AT THE FIRST CHANCE/BREAK-IN-CONVO THAT YOU GET Without a theme, a conversation is rambling, not a discussion about something.
/r/seduction06/09/12 05:30 PM
2

Wow! True, moderate and insightful wisdom!
/r/seduction06/09/12 04:18 PM
-1

No, it doesn't mean chase to bed, but chase to mate (that is marry).
/r/seduction23/08/12 09:06 PM
2

I'll answer this in John Gray's words: Men get to a connection through sex first. Women feel the connection through conversation first. Notice the order. Everyone who is human wants a connection - except the scum. It is how they get to the connection. The order is reversed due to evolutionary reasons - and has NOTHING to do with men's character or ethics. If you see how this works, you will understand. Ultimately most men, even if they don't know it first, want a connection. Because a connection…
/r/seduction23/08/12 08:59 PM
2

You're just stopping yourself from being good looking. Everyone is beautiful - they just bury this in their attitude. We have determined how they feel far far before we've processed them visually. The emotional reaction happens much before the visual one. That is why how you look is determined by how you feel about how you look. There is only one standard of beauty - how you feel about yourself. There is no other.
/r/seduction23/08/12 08:52 PM
2

Can someone please explain - from an evolutionary perspective - why women don't chase? There is definite proof that women who approach / chase guys land men above their class / status. Likewise for men. This behavioral trait should definitely have been prioritised over hundreds of generations as a "get ahead" skill in the mating game. So what prevents women from approaching? Not interested in a sociological answer but evolutionary one. Sociology follows Evolutionary.
/r/seduction23/08/12 08:45 PM
1

It is a tragedy of my life that I have dreamt of women like you and tried every avenue to find someone like you. A man's greatest treasure is his intellect - just like a woman's greatest treasure is her beauty and attractiveness and he likes nothing better to be appreciated for that. What I find is that a women are rationalizing rather than rational creatures (men are too, but men make decisions based on logic and women more on emotion). It would never happen that she would talk with me (a publi…
/r/seduction23/08/12 04:18 PM
2

There was an xkcd comic which showed the exact opposite of how a guy falls in love and gives away his whole world in a moment? I can't find it, please help....
/r/seduction23/08/12 04:05 PM
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