🤔hmm. As a man, I would just pour the aftershave on my palms and then rub it on my face. Sometimes if I'm feeling extra chimpy I'll just pour it directly on my face and then rub it in with my hands. How would a woman do it? Dab it on her wrists and then...wrist it onto her neck or something?
Worked with small children this age and boy can I fucking tell you a kid with a good parental figure, be it biological or otherwise, makes a total 180 in the right direction. A good role model isn't enough to make a child fully whole emotionally. Too many "strong" fathers or mothers ignore the critical importance of physical affection and reinforcement.