SirFluff Archive

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6	i need some advice. After months of lurking this sub I finally got a date. What now? Congrats on getting out your funk. Don’t do a movie. Movies are bad because you can’t get to talk to one another nor will you be able to make the eye contact. Is it your first date? If so, keep it simple: coffee or drinks. It’s low key, you don’t have to spend much money, you can get to talk and know one another, find a reason to make eye contact and touch and it provides ample exit by either party if they don’t want to continue. I would say keep an additional place or two in your back pocket in…	/r/seduction	09/03/19 04:54 PM
22	[FR] How I turned it around after "we're better as friends" appeared. I don't like many FR's, but I particularly liked this one. Well spoken, well thought out, and you showed what you did wrong, and how you fixed it. You should feel good about yourself, you did good, son.	/r/seduction	17/05/14 09:05 PM
3	The biggest obstacle to my Inner Game I didn't realize. The girl knows your intention when you approach her. When you walk up and talk to her, she knows you really don't give two flying shits about whatever you're breaking the ice with. If that's not the case, then you'll make your intention clearer as the interaction goes further.	/r/seduction	13/10/13 01:31 PM
2	The biggest obstacle to my Inner Game I didn't realize. /r/theredpill is what he's referencing. idunno what the redpill is about.	/r/seduction	13/10/13 01:29 PM
6	Read this! It will change your life and bring your pick-up to the next level! I've done it for a few months now. It took awhile to get into the swing of things (as with anything), but I can honestly say that it helped me a bunch. As with everyone, I had a bunch of thoughts running through my head or scenarios playing out here and there. Meditating helped clear it all out, and it's great that you can do it anywhere/everywhere. I won't say it's the end all/be all of all products, but it'll certainly help you here or there. Even just regulating your breathing'll take your mi…	/r/seduction	21/08/12 12:59 AM
2	The path to getting better with women is the modern, western equivalent to a rite of passage. I think that's common in everything. Things that require change are hard, they require discipline. And let's face is, most people lack discipline (hell, I haven't been to the gym in months lol). Just gotta find your niche and settle down.	/r/seduction	22/05/12 12:37 PM
26	My girlfriend's thoughts on game Congratulations on the girl. I think there's a common misconception about game. People seem to think "game" is something you turn off/turn on accordingly to the situation. Like you see a girl, and you're like "kay dudes I'm gonna game this bitch so hard she'll never know what's coming". It don't work that way lol. This whole thing is a different perspective on life. Yeah the routines you may use is some sort of cookie cutter build, but it's just a guideline. The openers are there when you can't …	/r/seduction	22/05/12 12:32 PM
3	Red, red everywhere. I don't think you blew yourself out with the redhead yet. No one's to say you can't ring her back and escalate. She's shy, and just as so you need to escalate as well as comfort, they want the security of trusting you; they want and long to give themselves to you. Don't cock block yourself man. The good thing is you realized what happened and can make it better the next time. You recognized what you did (or did not do) and can combat it again. Recognize your success- you saw her, approached, got…	/r/seduction	10/05/12 05:48 PM
1	Need a Sedditors Expertise. I agree with most points of what buttresidue (lol) said. They usually did get your message, they just chose not to answer. The first time, fine you could let that slide but you knew damn well she got the second message. Though from what I'm seeing, I don't see things looking too well for you right now. If she wanted to see you, she'd see you. You offered her all these plans to see her, and she couldn't meet any of them nor did she even attempt to give you a counter offer. As for your dinner plan…	/r/seduction	26/03/12 04:28 AM
14	Date planned with an "out-of-your-league" type met on a dating site. Need advice. This entire situation is created in your head. She isn't intimidating, hell you haven't even met the woman yet, how can she be initmidating? You're believing she's intimidating because she's "well educated, tall, thin, and gorgeous to boot". I like to think there are (essentially) two people in this world - interesting and non interesting. If she wasn't interesting, you wouldn't be in the situation you're in as you probably would've cared less what she thought and probably would've stopped talki…	/r/seduction	11/02/12 11:44 PM
1	Wingman needed-NYC Same, from brooklyn - love the LES. I'm interested	/r/seduction	13/11/11 06:21 PM