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| 1 | Looking for ex redpiller who is willing to share his experiences for an articleYes, you are right. I misread "tape" with "rape", I re-read the entire conversation and that's the one mistake I made. I apologize for that, I suffer from a degenerative retinal disease and I'll eventually become blind, sometimes I assume I can see things that I'm not capable of seeing as my eyesigjht is constantly getting worse. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/23 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Looking for ex redpiller who is willing to share his experiences for an articleBacktrack in the conversation, keep an eye on the usernames (this is important) and see who brought up rape first. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/23 02:51 PM |
| 1 | How did patriarchy start ?I don't have a survey of experts in the field but every evo-psych I've read does believe that male and female humans have a strong biological predispositions towards certain roles and that patriachy is shaped by that. It is also true that there's not either a survey of anthroplogists on whether they believe patriarchy has or has not a biological basis so the lack of it can't be used as a meter for my claim. I can mention some articles: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24202828/ https://www.cambri… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/23 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Looking for ex redpiller who is willing to share his experiences for an articleWould you be interested in writing a manifesto on what you believe the history of our species is and its importance on future human social hierarchy's? I'll happily make sure it's seen by a lot of people. Obviously I'll be doing that because I find it very amusing. But if you're so confident in your (obviously emotionally driven, made up) versions of this, if you think you're right. It's a chance to get it seen. There's no need for that, most evo-psych already write what I think. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/23 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Looking for ex redpiller who is willing to share his experiences for an articlewhere you refuse to tell me why you don't believe measuring tape when used on bonobos This is literally what you wrote in your previous comment despite we having never touched the topic of rape before. Again, you do give the idea that you are not self-awre of your comments, maybe you are mistaking other conversations with this one. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/23 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Looking for ex redpiller who is willing to share his experiences for an articleI agree with that statement. I don't think it's as reassusring as you think though as most males are usually low value ina species. If you are a man who can get mates without the cost of violence, you have no evolutionary reason to rape. Meanwhile, if you are a low value man, the benefits can outweigh the costs evolutioanry speaking. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/23 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Looking for ex redpiller who is willing to share his experiences for an articleWe never discussed rape in bonobos, actually we never discussed rape. I've been in the manosphere for +10 years..Or, more easily, just read the mission posts of MRAs, they literally say that their only goal is to fight discrimination against men. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | How did patriarchy start ?Yes you did say they're not matriarchal. Quote my claim, I challenge you. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/23 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Looking for ex redpiller who is willing to share his experiences for an articleThis is going out of hand, biological anthropologists don't study the manosphere in their curriculum. And yes, MRAs - just like feminists - state that their mission is to seek equality, they just believe men are oppressed. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/23 02:08 PM |
| 0 | Looking for ex redpiller who is willing to share his experiences for an articleSaying that feminism is just seeking"equality" is reductive. MRAs also seek equality just like feminists, the only difference is in the premises (thus solutions). MRAs believe men are oppressed, feminist believe women are oppressed. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | How did patriarchy start ?I've never said bonobos are not matriarchal, you are again only thinking about your prejudices. I only said female bonobos use sex as a power tool to keep males satisfieid, which is true. Female humans don't do that, the few who do often feel great distress in having sex indiscriminately in exchange for something so we can't be said to have similar social strucutre to bonobos, we resemeble more the patriarchal primates where physical strenght is the main tool of power - not sexual power. Yes, bo… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/23 02:00 PM |
| 1 | How did patriarchy start ?What lies? You keep posting negations, not arguments, with a fair share of insults as condiment. I can see I'm talking with the quintessence of mental health and fortitude, I've not seen someone so angry on Reddit over nothing in a while. I've never said anything bad about you and I don't want to say anything bad about you even now, I genuinely wish you the best. You appear smart, you just don't seem to handle differnt views well. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/23 02:16 AM |
| 1 | How did patriarchy start ?Is patriarchy considered to be caused by biological causes by most evo-psychs? Yes, I didn't make up facts. Are bonobos less sexual dimorphic than humans? Yes, I didn't make up facts. You can criticize evo-psych methods and I think they would agree with you too, there's a high degree of uncertainty in their methods and conclusions. I wouldn't say that the fact that humans are naturally predisposed towards patriarchal societies is as true as evolution, I would be open to changing my opinion if ne… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/23 01:46 AM |
| 2 | How did patriarchy start ?Your own field? This debate is only a tangent in your field and your literal collegues say there's no consensus. It's not a tangent in evolutionary psychology and most of them believe we are naturally inclined towards patriarchy, would you disagree that such a consensus exist in evo-psych? Answer this. If you are gonna use an appeal to authority, I'm going to use a better one too. Beside, why are you insulting me so much? Have I ever insulted you? I'm very calm. What do you mean I made up stuff … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/23 01:26 AM |
| 2 | How did patriarchy start ?Evolutionary psychology is the only field that tries to determine what is caused by biological predisposition vs socialization in the context of human history, biological anthropologists don't do that and when they do that's far from their primary scope. Most evolutionary psychologists believe we are naturally predisposed towards patrirachl societies. Even if we want to ask antrhopologies, your opinion is highly conroversial: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskAnthropology/comments/px4ome/what_are_the_… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/23 01:17 AM |
| 2 | How did patriarchy start ?Which experts? Most experts believe patriarchy is our natual tendency (which is different from saying it is good or bad), actually people who say the opposite (ie. the authors of "Sex at Dawn" who believe humans are more like bonobos than chimps) are considered very controversia. figures. Have you looked at bonobos? There's little to no sexual dimorphism. humans are not the most sexual dimoprhic primates but they are enough that most men can easily overpower most women. Men clearly have the powe… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/23 12:57 AM |
| 2 | How did patriarchy start ?You must compare humans to animals similar to them, that is mammals, and almost all mammal species - particularly primates - have a patriarchal structure. Bonobos, among primates, are the least patriarchal but female skeep peace by having sex with everyonne with little selectivity. Do women do this? No, even here women say don't feel sexual desire to most men. Just look at us physically. Bonobos show very little sexual dimorphism, humans are not the most sexual dimoprhic primates but they are en… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/23 12:45 AM |
| 1 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.Catcalling? Do you not see how you feel like the ultimate victim, whilst trying to trivialise people on the other sides problems, without even knowing what they go thorough. Can you honestly not see all this. You literally said you prefer having my struggles than yours, I asked the same things back by mentioning specific examples. Again, we are not different. I appreciate you being empathetic but you must combine them with self-awareneess becauuse you are showing my same energy without realising… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/23 03:08 PM |
| 1 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.I've never been on a date in my life as no woman has ever shwon the slighted interest in me unless I use picture of handsome men online, is this what you prefer to initial shallow attention (which is not necessarily shallow, it may often be but initial attraction is also necessary to build anything deeper, if you don't pass that test it's over)? I've been beaten up plenty of times by taller and more masculine males while pretty girls where laughing, I even got my bones broken, do you prefer that… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/23 02:38 PM |
| 1 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.You are mistaking me for someone else, I'm not OP, I don't want to be a woman. I'm ok with being a man. I just have an opinion like you, you believe men are priviliged, I believe the opposite in the West, I don't see how this make me more guilty of self-victimhood than you. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/23 02:27 PM |
| 1 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.You've not corrected a thing. You've actually just given one sided views of things to make yourself feel hurt like "men have more violent crimes against them" and then refusing to comment on the fact that that's becuase men are the ones being violent with you. . And woman. I literally offered two paragraph of comment on that. Whoever fault is, it still makes men less priviliged in this aspect of life. It's not like Iit makes me feel better if a man, rather than a woman, robs or murders me. I'm n… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/23 02:20 PM |
| 1 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.I'm not playing the victim, I'm replying to your cry for the wooes of attractive women compared to other "luckier demographics". I'm correcting you with data, that's it. I'm not trying tosay that I am a victim, I only replied to you in this thread, I didn't post an answer where I cried about my woes to support OP. I think OP should learn to deal with beaing a man, regardless of whether men have it harder or not. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/23 01:54 PM |
| 1 | What was the moment you realized the red pill was brainwashing you and/or damaging you?If women are powerless if not virgin, why surveys show that American women my age (18-29) have a higher body count than us men in the same group and are less likely to be single than us? Also, I don't know where you live, but homophobia is way more spread than any ohter form of sexual shaming.. It's very common to see straight couples kisisng each ohter in the street or women having close physical conctact with other womne, but gay couples are impossible to see and for good reason as they risk g… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/23 01:37 PM |
| 1 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.By men. Most violent crimes are commited by men, against men. Pfft it doesn't matter if a girls ugly or hot. Who are woman dramatically most likely to be killed by? Who commits nearly all violent crimes against woman too? The thread is about whom has it harder, you talked about how women's life is so much more dangernous than men's life that we men can't comprehend it - not whose fault is - and data clearly shows it is men who are significantly more likely to face crime, not only that but men ar… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/23 01:26 PM |
| 1 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.Most violent crimes are committed against men and I'd argue ugly women face more crime that hot women, so don't bring the "safety" argument it as data clearly shows men have it worse in that. I've been beated up so many times, you don't see me here playing the victim, and so are most guys. On the other hand, you have all the benefits. infinite dates, sex (you said women likes sex as much as men, no?), higher salaries (studies prove that), free stuff, more job opportunities. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/23 07:05 AM |
| 1 | What was the moment you realized the red pill was brainwashing you and/or damaging you?You wrote that you hate sexual attention, it's for comments like yours that many men believe that stuff. I've never heard a gay men complaining that people send him dick pictures, which are even more popular than face pictures on gay apps but men, unlike women, love receiving them, not only that but an average or ugly man can easily match with most people, including hot men easily. Also I've never heard a gay man complaining that a male friend wanted to date or sex (FWBs are so common), yet I se… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/23 06:40 AM |
| 1 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.Asexuality is not just about sex, many allosexuals are scared of sex. Do you experience physical attraction towards people? I'm asking this because asexuals don't feel it. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/23 02:11 PM |
| 0 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.So women are indeed not attracted to as manye people as men, just like RP says, it's not like you are hiding it due to slut shaing and safety otherwise you'd be thriled when a man you feel safe with offers you sex since you can't take advantage of sex with strangers and dating apps due to "safety". This is particularly true if you want to keep the friendship with that male friend after rejection like in this case which means he didn't make you feel unsafe after rejection. Also, beside sex, how d… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/23 10:55 PM |
| 1 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.The user was talking about men she wanted to keep the friendship with but instead distanced themselves from her, not male friends you want out of your life because of their misbheavior. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/23 03:10 PM |
| 1 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.I see, this was not clear from your first comment, I'm glad you clarified. If I may ask, are you also asexual? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/23 02:43 PM |
| 0 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.You still didn't explain why you claim those wanted only to use you sexually and didn't have genuine romantic feelings for you that made them feel hurt and thus ghost, not differntly from what my attractive male friend experiences with his "plates". What did they say? Did most of them make crude and violent advances as you seem to imply? Were all of them aggressive in hitting on you? You also talked about people you actually wanted to keep the friendship with after rejection and that's what stru… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/23 02:29 PM |
| 1 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.I appreciate your understanding, there's no need tno be sorry. I usually approach women through dating apprs or ask our female acquinatnces/friends on dates. I'm 25 y/o. No, I've never cold approached or wetnt to bars in my life, I know women find it uncomfortable to be appraoched by strangers. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/23 02:22 PM |
| 3 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.How can he go for it? I think everyone can agree that trans people have it way worse than cis people. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/23 11:38 AM |
| 2 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.I've been going to the gym for some years, I have a fit body. I always use sunscreen when I go out, face creams for my skin type, retinol and Vitamin C serums at night, face washes for my skin type, weekly schemical scrubs, creams for the eye area, you name it.,.The only thing I don't use is make up, if it wasn't for that I probably would spend more time on my face than most women. I also have egular visits to my barbter, sometimes I even go to the beauty salon. I have clothes that fit (not bran… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/23 11:25 AM |
| 3 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.At least you are being honest.I just wish I was gay or a woman to not deal with being rejected by everyone, women find me safe but are disgusted by me (the only exception is dating apps, but only when i use fake pictures of hot men to study women) while gay men are capapble of wanting me. There are entire subs where women cry over their partner watching porn and I can't understand why one would feel pain over that, one must be so sheltered to feel pain due to that. No woman has ever shown the sl… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/23 11:13 AM |
| -2 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.I said women should be flattered if the theory that women are attracted to as many people as gay and straight men was true, if this theory is not true women shouldn't feel flattered. The premise behind this statemetn is that we are not flattered (or that flattered) when someone we don't like likes us, while we feel flattered when someone we like likes us back. Aren't you flattered when someone you like and desire likes you back? Why do you assume those male friends just wanted sex only? Do you h… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/23 11:05 AM |
| 1 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.t's not because of some superficial selectiveness though. It also makes sense biologically. This is NOT commonly said by women, this subreddit and most women on progressive subs strongly deny that and will call you sexist if you said that women are biologically wired to find way less people attractive. You are confirming the RP not evnn on a female sub but on the exredpill subreddit. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/23 10:54 AM |
| 3 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.I didn't say finding all men attractive, I said most. Most men feel some attraction to most same-aged women, it's the same for gay men with other men. So it is a lie that women find as many people attractive as straight and gay men do, one of the main arguments against RP. People against the RP, pariticularly women, keep denying it claiming that other reasons like safety are the only ones that make them more selective, this costant lying or costant ignorance is hard to understand. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/23 10:37 AM |
| 3 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.She used the word "girflriend-zone", those guys wanted a relationship. Women literally say they hate to be approached by strangers and dating apps, why then they don't like to have a male friend who wants a relationshp? Most men would feel in heaven if a female friend (gay friend if they are gay) had a crush on them. The only way I'd see this being annoying is if women found only a minority of male friend attractive. We men find most women attractive, if we also like her personality as a friend … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/23 10:03 AM |
| -1 | I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier.So women have SO MANY safe men (you clearly feel safe with them if you still wanted to be friends with them after you rejected them) who want to be their boyfriend (you used the word girlfriend-zone? All my life I didn't have even one woman into me and most men I know aer in the same situation, there's a record level of single men who feel undesired and that's the main source of future RP but and you complain about that? Do you know hwo painful it is to be rejected? Why don't women keep having F… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/23 09:58 AM |
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