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7	Topic for exploration: What are the benefits and drawbacks of having/using Social Media (Facebook, Instagram, etc.) while living the Seduction Lifestyle?		SirSexcellent	/r/seduction	21/10/19 10:56 PM

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1	Thoughts on Meditation Interesting. Interesting. Interesting.	/r/seduction	23/10/19 09:56 AM
27	Boys vs Men. A boy wonders what she thinks of him. A man wonders what he thinks of her. When I was younger, I thought I had high standards for women. I thought I was selective. I would impress the girls by having the best body without hardly having to talk to them, or so went my thinking. This was all complete horseshit--insecurities were ravaging my mind. I would obsess over the girls who would make eyes at my hard-won, handsome body. I'd have some variation of the thought, "Does she like me?" a thousand ti…	/r/seduction	22/10/19 04:31 PM
2	Creating An Aura Of Attraction Treat failure and success as your friends. One you love to hang out with (success) and the other is that friend that nitpicks every little thing you do until you either accept it or start making changes (failure). I like this. My problem is, when dealing with failures/limitations, I try to trick myself into believing I'm accepting of myself when in reality I'm most likely aggravated by myself and require some change-making. For example, I gained 80lbs in the last four years. This has bugged me t…	/r/seduction	22/10/19 03:51 PM
1	Topic for exploration: What are the benefits and drawbacks of having/using Social Media (Facebook, Instagram, etc.) while living the Seduction Lifestyle? Thanks for this. Since I've been such a Luddite for the 2010's, it's been hard for me to see the upside of social media, most likely due to my own insecurities (not having a super exciting life), anticipating drama from women ("you were tagged in a picture with her?"), and so on. I know that social media isn't essential to game (of course), but I do think I have been limiting myself by not participating in it. I know it's not essential--I had a wildly successful hot streak where I had eleven gir…	/r/seduction	22/10/19 03:29 PM
1	Thoughts on Meditation Interesting. Though I haven’t done more than half-hearted attempts at meditating, I do practice mindfulness 24/7. Rudimentarily, how I understand meditation is that it requires you to, for a set period of time, continuously focus and then refocus your thoughts on something, like your breathing. Essentially, how I understand my mindfulness practice is that I consistently note the contents of and/or ponder the genesis of certain thoughts, both troubling and comforting. I infrequently watch the You…	/r/seduction	22/10/19 01:14 AM
2	Feel like giving up; nothing ever works out for me. My advice...take the time and go deeper. Right now it sounds like you are caught on the harsh superficial level of viewing life. For viewing yourself and women. Been there done that. Got caught myself in body dysmorphia for years. Can put you in a vicious circle and ultimately take you farther from where you want to be. Things can get worse. From a personal example in my own life, I was obsessed with getting a bigger penis because I was accustomed to watching porn where, of course, everyone has …	/r/seduction	22/10/19 12:49 AM
1	What would be equivalent of “playing sports” once you are done with school? Most generally, business and money would be my answer to your question. But...I’d say it depends on the individual and will vary. People value different things. One persons trash is another’s treasure. For you, I’m guessing sports was a big part of life and now you are seeking a new field to compete in, a new identity to forge, a new way of gaining respect from others and yourself. I’d also add that it doesn’t have to be conventional success ($) that you use as the measure of yourself. Though it…	/r/seduction	21/10/19 11:53 PM
1	what is your biggest barrier preventing you connecting with women? Logistics and lacking Confidence because of my situation. I live at home with my parents (age 30).	/r/seduction	21/10/19 11:28 PM