| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 771 | How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!) | Field Report | SirWeasels | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 01:55 AM |
| 706 | Getting over my fear of women #1 | SirWeasels | /r/seduction | 07/11/22 01:18 PM | |
| 3 | Why do I feel annoyed when a girl is more "experienced" than I am, and how can I change that? | Inner Game | SirWeasels | /r/seduction | 03/08/20 12:02 PM |
| 2 | "We'll go out but only to hang out" | Conversation | SirWeasels | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Is there a correct way to offer a girl a massage? | Escalation & Calibration | SirWeasels | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Should I just take chasing women off my mind for a while? | Inner Game | SirWeasels | /r/seduction | 15/11/20 09:34 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | How to react when another guy is stealing your girlShe wouldn’t allow it to happen if she wanted you enough | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Craving a blue collar manThe name of this sub is misleading maybe, but it’s actually intended for discussions relating to helping men be better with women and so. | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself.Can you please explain frame? I never understood that concept tbh. | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Over 40 years - what are your experiences with sex in hostels?Yes. To say it even better, I would avoid all forms of intoxication (alcohol, drugs) with the goal of trying to be more fun or interesting or whatever. Obviously, if you like your alcohol, then have your drink for sure | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Over 40 years - what are your experiences with sex in hostels?Yeah, that's right. I'll find good thoughts and ideas here and there, but not everything I find applicable to me or my personality. | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 04:38 AM |
| 3 | Over 40 years - what are your experiences with sex in hostels?Kind of maybe. I'll get lucky every now and then, but I'm by no means an expert gamer. Still, I find the advice on this sub valuable. | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 04:31 AM |
| 7 | Over 40 years - what are your experiences with sex in hostels?On second thought, maybe better to say 7/10 on a good day even. I would say no. In the past I had this idea that I need to get drunk and act dumb like you see in the movies, as if this is how things needed to be party wise or whatever. Even though I never came naturally, but just used to force my self to be a dumbass because "that's what you do at party's". That never got me anything. My advice would be: the girl you're going to get lucky with will like you without you trying to be "interesting"… | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 04:24 AM |
| 13 | Over 40 years - what are your experiences with sex in hostels?I’m 8/10 on a good day. And believe me im 3/10 conversationally. | /r/seduction | 04/08/24 10:09 PM |
| 23 | Over 40 years - what are your experiences with sex in hostels?Not 40+, but I'll just share my resume: Had sex in a 12 person shared room in the middle of the night without getting caught Had sex in a hostel lobby's bathroom 2x Had sex in a shared room in a country where such things are illegal an punishable by law (no one was in the room though except me and the girl) Had sex on a hostel's roof It's doable, and fun. And if you are in a fun and liberal city don't expect issues, because this stuff happens a lot anyways. Lmk if you have questions. | /r/seduction | 04/08/24 08:11 PM |
| 43 | My bestfriend is mad at me for having a threesome. How do I fix it?I really don't think your post is relevant to this sub. | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Should I (22M) lose my virginity to a MILF (51F)?Bro go for it | /r/seduction | 04/05/24 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Crave sex so bad but my anxiety is terribleI recommend you start by reading “Change Your Diet Change your Mind” by Georgia Ede. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 10:23 PM |
| 0 | Crave sex so bad but my anxiety is terribleThis may not be the answer you thought you'd hear, but try keto. There are many anecdotes of people who've had such issues relieved from diet alone. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Did tinder get harder than a couple of years ago?OP I agree with you. to answer your question Yes, it has become harder. | /r/seduction | 15/11/23 04:29 PM |
| – | I just got asked if I'm a model in the parking lot by a woman. I still have a hard time with dating like all of you.Why do you say a good looking alpha scares off most women? | /r/seduction | 22/11/20 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Should I just take chasing women off my mind for a while?Your words make a whole lot of sense, but I feel that unless I've reached a certain mindset, then trying to improve my women skills with the current mindset I have about myself and the world will only result in me going absolutely nowhere. As an engineer (I hope you are too to get this problem), I like to think of it as similar to the local minimum problem in path planning, which is basically that due to following the objective of reaching a goal blindly, you end up stuck at a certain point, and… | /r/seduction | 15/11/20 10:32 PM |
| – | Should I just take chasing women off my mind for a while?Not 100% really. I do agree with you that they do in a sense go hand in hand, but I think in my case I need a couple of months where I just take it off my mind, otherwise, I feel the inner shit won't heal at all. | /r/seduction | 15/11/20 10:03 PM |
| 1 | How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!)Look I'm no expert, but let me tell you what I know. A girl coming to your place is a 99% indicator she's down to you know what. As a first-timer, I'd say take things slowly, don't do that pick up advice shit of being dominant and so on. How to take things slowly? The easiest thing is to start by watching a movie together. However, don't be an idiot and just watch the movie, gradually close in. Start by having your shoulder touch hers, then if she's okay with that by not moving away or so, put y… | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 05:48 PM |
| 1 | How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!)Good luck to you dude, all of us have obstacles in our way but that doesn't mean we can't get there ;) | /r/seduction | 27/04/20 02:31 PM |
| 1 | How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!)Glad you liked it bro, hope it helps ;) | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 09:57 PM |
| 1 | How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!)That's a future project ;) | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 11:55 AM |
| – | How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!)Let me tell you this. The book talked about 3 important types of "honesty". They are: Honest living: Creating an attractive and enriching lifestyle Honest action: Overcoming your fears around socializing and sexuality Honest communication: Master the communication of your emotions For me, I had a big issue with (2) and a small issue with (3) (which goes away as soon as I stop being nervous anyway) and my post is talking about how I just started to fix (2). If I were to give my unprofessional opi… | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 11:54 AM |
| – | How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!)Nope. The thing is I'm a foreigner in a country whose people are known to be cold and rude at times, and so I was surprised that I never got that answer. I'd say maybe 1/100 it could happen but that says all about the girl and nothing about you bro. | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 11:43 AM |
| – | How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!)Once you start talking and forget about how nervous you are then talking to a girl is no different than talking to a guy friend. The story is 100% real. My point is this: if you're too nervous to even go talk to women then start with something really simple as asking for the time, then evolve as soon as you gain confidence. | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 11:38 AM |
| – | How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!)The best part is, that usually, they won't question the stupidity let alone investigate your reasons. | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 11:32 AM |
| 11 | How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!)No. A lot of guys if they start to take things slower step by step will actually be very amazed by the results. My point is if you want to run a marathon start by running 1km a day :) | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 11:31 AM |
| – | How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!)I never said I had bad conversational skills. In fact, anyone who's able to have good talks with male friends is more than able to do the same with women. I too was like you brother, thinking I need to go say some wild thing or so, but that's not the case. Once again, I'll say I'm still learning. But I just want to make the point of starting slow and not thinking you need to say something wildly "interesting" to connect with women. | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 11:28 AM |
| – | How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!)Step. By. Step. | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 11:24 AM |
| – | How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!)Nah, dude, I'm just trying to save the guy some money and btw I ended my trial afterwards | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 11:23 AM |
| 2 | How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!)Yes exactly. | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 11:20 AM |
| 2 | How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!)What you say doesn't really matter at the end. You don't need to say something "interesting" or some funny pickup line. In fact, the act of trying to seem interesting makes you the opposite. | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 11:19 AM |
| 1 | How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!)Yes exactly. | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 11:17 AM |
| – | How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!)I'll be honest I may have gotten somewhat lucky, but the idea is still the same of exposing yourself step by step to the "world of women" is a lot better than thinking you need to say or do something "interesting" or "bold" like the YouTube pickup artists. | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 11:16 AM |
| – | How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!)I won't get into details for the sake of privacy. We just talked about ourselves, life, and random shit. At some point, it's no different than talking to a male friend. We were sitting close to each other and I really wanted to put my hands around her. I was so afraid, but then I thought why would she come on this long walk with me on the same day we knew each other and not be interested? I just took my chances, and it worked. Trust me when I tell you this: the key to a good conversation is not … | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 02:42 AM |
| – | How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!)You don't even have to buy it. I signed up for a free audible trial and listened to it as an audiobook. Just take notes about the things that you think can help you. | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 02:10 AM |
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