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| 3 | Ego and Lies, Self Actualization, Belief Systems, and Free-WillI like it. Except I disagree with you assessment of free will. I dont think it exists, because it's existence requires magic, and I dont believe in magic. But, it feels like we have free will, and once you wake up, and realize you are living in a matrix with rules that work like a video game, your capacity to "make decisions" that positively impact your score goes up in a way that feels consistent with your sentiment regarding free will. Though technically, the whole universe is part of the same… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/02/19 05:06 AM |
| 11 | Loyalty to HypergamyI have to constantly ask myself "what would a silverback gorilla do?". The extreme example helps me cut through the confusion caused by my very beta upbringing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/01/19 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Good sex requires EmotionI am a recovering nice guy with an autistic streak, but have had good success in the bedroom due to persistent focused sexual intensity, is my best guess. Since becoming TRP aware, my marriage has gone from near collapse to great, although sex has always been a bright spot in the relationship, but is even better now that I understand TRP somewhat. Some things that work for me: get her some kegal balls and start talking to her about how tight her pussy is getting, encourage her to use them a lot … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/12/18 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Crying is weak. Don't.To answer my own question about maintaining attraction while wounded, I am talking dirty more aggressively, and using the injury as an excuse to change things up. I have found that doing what I want is generally what she wants me to do. But Instead of having my way with her however I want, because I physically can't. Lately I fuck her gently, and come quickly to avoid further injury, then help her finish in some creative low effort way, like asking her to strap her vibrator to a pillow so she ca… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/18 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Crying is weak. Don't.Are you saying that I need to have and follow a clear path forward, or that a clear path forward is what I should be communicating to my wife, in lew of complaints and crys of pain? Either way, I agree. My clear path forward on the pain front is lots of physical therapy, in spite of the pain. And if I must vocalize my pain in front of my wife, ill try for manly grunting noises, and down play the pain as much as possible. Trying to limit my opiod intake means the pain itself is unavoidable, at le… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/18 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Crying is weak. Don't.I recently separated my shoulder rather badly. After the turmoil and pain of ER was done, and I was laying next to my wife in our bed, the magnitude of my potntial loss hit me and I let out some whimpering. I imediently regretted it and pulled myself together. She responded supportivly in that moment. Since then, I have noticed a lack of interest in my pain. I think it just makes her uncomforatable. Some evenenings my arm feels like it is ripping itself apart. But the more I complain or cry out … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/10/18 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 19, 2018Sincere thanks for the detailed response. I was afraid might say something like that. I tried to back off last night, less about her and more me, and found myself being ordered to service her in various ways. It occurred to me that I have turned myself into something of a sex slave for my wife. I arrived here by following the golden rule, and giving her what I want from her (an eager, proactive, more than willing kinky sex partner). My wife has not been to church regularly since she was very you… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/06/18 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 19, 2018I have a similar relationship with my wife. She resists pushing boundaries sexually. But pushing boundaries is necessary to maintain excitement in a long term relationship. So, I would credit her renewed kink enduced excitement for your success. I am new to TRP, and a beta by nature. But I have managed to maintain good and frequent (4 to 6 times a week) married sex for 13 years. What seems to work for me is incrementally finding what she likes through experimentation, using the best of whatever … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/18 02:45 PM |
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