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FeminismSir_vendetta/r/MensRights25/04/23 05:12 AM
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FeminismSir_vendetta/r/MensRights25/05/23 05:43 AM
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DiscriminationSir_vendetta/r/MensRights21/04/23 09:30 AM
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Social IssuesSir_vendetta/r/MensRights10/04/23 05:58 AM
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GeneralSir_vendetta/r/MensRights21/05/23 05:36 AM
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Activism/SupportSir_vendetta/r/MensRights11/12/24 01:17 PM
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GeneralSir_vendetta/r/MensRights16/05/23 05:27 AM
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ProgressSir_vendetta/r/MensRights09/05/23 05:25 AM
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GeneralSir_vendetta/r/MensRights29/04/23 12:56 PM
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GeneralSir_vendetta/r/MensRights07/05/23 11:32 AM
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GeneralSir_vendetta/r/MensRights03/05/23 01:48 PM
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GeneralSir_vendetta/r/MensRights13/05/23 07:45 AM
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GeneralSir_vendetta/r/MensRights02/05/23 06:00 AM
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GeneralSir_vendetta/r/MensRights14/05/23 07:19 AM
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GeneralSir_vendetta/r/MensRights06/05/23 08:01 PM
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HumourSir_vendetta/r/MensRights26/04/23 05:31 PM
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GeneralSir_vendetta/r/MensRights24/05/23 02:16 PM
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GeneralSir_vendetta/r/MensRights05/05/23 08:22 AM
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GeneralSir_vendetta/r/MensRights15/04/23 06:10 PM
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The future isn't shaped by a few individuals but by the hands of many.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 08:43 PM
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Let me make one thing perfectly clear, we, men, have lost our way too...is in our nature to protect and preserve that which we care for...our genetic continuity...we either adapt, or everyone loses.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 08:14 PM
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Is up to us, the good men, to convince women that we are good, we not evil, and we care about them.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 07:29 PM
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Romance isn't dead, men and women have lost their way in the name of equal rights...we have them, and love doesn't need to die because of it, love exists because we exist, both men and women...without love, is nothing.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 07:04 PM
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I think it's just a "pride" thing. When women are quick to search for help or even demand it, men are less likely to seek support and try to deal with the situation by themselves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/23 06:52 AM
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Hopefully, this is the start of Facebook starting to monitor these groups for breaches of privacy laws, and defamation. Is about time that this "circus" stops.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 05:38 AM
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Been saying all along that feminist has themselves to blame for these far-right views. What they expecting to happen when them, themselves, are spreading misandry 🙄
/r/MensRights06/06/23 11:47 AM
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Yes, this, I have seen first-hand women getting downvoted for going against the "herb"
/r/MensRights02/06/23 12:49 PM
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All this stuff is probably pushed forward by Kamala Harris, Joe Biden is probably unaware that he's signing away whatever little rights men had.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 05:22 AM
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I'm not sure what you mean, but men can experience hormone changes if they don't have sex for prolonged periods of time, which can affect their mood, but I don't think that's a hormone circle as such, men's sex drive is considerably higher than women's, no sex, for a long time, will have an impact
/r/MensRights01/06/23 11:50 AM
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Amazing, how this has been achieved?, are few such groups in the UK which need to go down ashwell
/r/MensRights31/05/23 03:06 PM
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Yes, or you could just call it manipulation. If you have to constantly prove your love to someone, and your partner is constantly making you feel like you not doing enough, or everything you do is wrong, you are being manipulated. Using love as a weapon is the lowest form of manipulation and anyone that does that to you is simply not a very nice person, and probably narcissistic.
/r/MensRights25/05/23 02:08 PM
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If you read into it, is basically just radical feminism, which is becoming extremist.
/r/MensRights25/05/23 07:25 AM
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Is the fear factor, promoting men as sexual pests, violent wild creatures that will ruin your life. All this comes from the current state of feminism. understanding modern feminism
/r/MensRights25/05/23 07:00 AM
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Modern feminism is radical, look at the three schools of feminism, and then look at the fourth-wave ideologies and philosophies. The only two schools that fit into the fourth-wave are radical and Marxist, the liberal school simply doesn't fit in.
/r/MensRights25/05/23 05:14 AM
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I been trying to reach that gap myself with my poetry, which I taking a break from because I need to recharge, we are on the same page mate.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 08:17 PM
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I get you, but first, we need to get men out of isolation and submission, lots of men can't interact with other men for that reason, most of my comments are about awareness
/r/MensRights24/05/23 08:04 PM
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I actually completely agree, I was just pointing out what's stopping that from happening.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 07:41 PM
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Sorry, sometimes I just keep typing and I forget about them..😅
/r/MensRights24/05/23 02:23 PM
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Unity amongst men is at a record low, a division forming between men that are trying to go against the system, and men that are happily accepting things for what they are is becoming more and more obvious. You have 3 types of men in today's society. Submissive; Acceptance that their place in society isn't important, and submitting to the system. Isolationists; Can't be bothered fighting the system, or submitting, so they isolate themselves from society. Liberalism; Going against the system, and …
/r/MensRights24/05/23 11:12 AM
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The legal system in the UK doesn't favour men at all. Your options are either shut up or complain and be accused of misogynism. The number of men having their lives and reputation ruined just for fun is scary, not legal support, and no one cares .
/r/MensRights24/05/23 10:49 AM
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Do what?
/r/MensRights24/05/23 10:14 AM
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And who will be these "experts"?, women?
/r/MensRights24/05/23 08:32 AM
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Can you imagine two men doing each other's hair?, or going to a spa together? Women can form that kind of intimate bond, but men can't.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 05:50 AM
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You just need to expend 10 minutes browsing any social media platform, and guaranteed you'll come across a misandry post, article, comment, or video. How can you deny something that you can clearly see with your own eyes?
/r/MensRights24/05/23 05:27 AM
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Men tend to unite under a single goal, that's what feminists don't get, it is the "pack mentality". Bromance is such a stupid word in my opinion, men can form close friendships, but not fall in love with each other as women do at a platonic level, at least that is family, sons, fathers, brothers... Brothers in arms is something that is more accurate for men, that's when we unite.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 05:08 AM
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You'll be better off putting the link to the article instead of Twitter. link
/r/MensRights23/05/23 05:57 PM
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I honestly don't give a shit about misandry or misogynist, but I do care about what's right, and what's wrong. Some things in today's society are unfair to men, undeniably regardless of the constant propaganda undermining it. I take responsibility by acknowledging that the problem is real.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 05:47 PM
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That's interesting, assuming that a judge has to remain impartial throughout the trial, and base judgment on the evidence presented, theoretically it shouldn't matter if it is a woman or a man judge. This will need some serious research into convictions by gender, time of the conviction based on individual judges, and length, which that extract doesn't show. I'm not even sure if such research is possible without going into serious academic-level studies.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 03:11 PM
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I'm 6'.0 tall myself, and it seems to be a big selling point, it's surprising how important your height is for women, as soon as you mention your height their attitude completely changes. But, I prefer chubby girls myself, never been into the "supermodel" look, I like curves in women. It seems that men aren't that restricted by things like weight, while women are more influenced by masculinity, height, muscles, and so on.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 11:36 AM
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To be honest, is a trend of that kind of movies and series in which men are abused, either by being used or by being abused, shit lots of them on Prime and Netflix. I'm still unsure if they making this stuff for Awareness, or just to normalise domestic abuse against men.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 09:15 AM
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Is a massive grey area in this department, I can talk to you about the experiences of a few friends. The first one was literarily used, manipulated, humiliated, and got punched several times by his partner, he made the mistake of leaving his flat to go to live with her and found himself trapped in the relationship without a place to go. Eventually, with the help of a few of his friends, he managed to find a spare room and left, nothing was reported to the police. The second one was ex-military, …
/r/MensRights23/05/23 05:22 AM
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Here is the place, and often you see posts with men doing exactly that, always well received without judgement. MRA have an unfair reputation, the guys here care about other guys, and we all feel it when someone have issues.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 02:12 PM
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder without a doubt, but that's often more the case with men than women, for a man Beauty is significantly more important, when a woman can get past the looks if it's something to gain. Not saying every woman is the same, but I will say around 80%, if you manage to find one in the 20% area, you should consider yourself lucky.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 02:03 PM
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When a woman says "Looks don't matter", she means you have a car, a house, and lots of money. Let's not fool ourselves here.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 11:46 AM
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Housekeeping is a different subject, even though you see more and more men getting involved in it, a man cooking or doing household chores isn't that unusual anymore. But yes, skills and also drive, men have a much higher drive to achieve perfection than women do. Especially professionally.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 05:06 AM
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I think if someone said to me, that's not bad cooking, for a man, I will take it as a compliment....keeping in mind that the best, top chefs around the world are all men.
/r/MensRights21/05/23 05:08 AM
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The whole fourth-wave ideology is about "empowerment", not about equality, they aren't even trying to hide it.
/r/MensRights21/05/23 04:48 AM
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This is interesting because feminism sees patriarchy as the biggest threat to women's rights, but what they fail to see, or understand, is that the patriarchal controls the laws
/r/MensRights20/05/23 06:08 AM
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I try, I going to use the UK as an example because it's what I'm more familiar with. All the laws that benefit women are introduced to parliament and passed by each of the houses before it becomes law, both the House of Commons and the House of Lords are male-dominated. The patriarchy decides what rights women are allowed to have, not women themselves.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 05:56 AM
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Think about who makes all the laws and enforces them.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 05:44 AM
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Moving on with the times, we are in an era that is all about rights and equality. women and children's rights, and equality. trans and homosexuals rights, and equality. black people's rights, and equality. ethnic minority's rights, and equalities. religious beliefs rights, and equalities. Everything in today's society is about rights and equality, even trees, animals, fish...Everything has rights, except men.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 05:42 AM
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Yes, that's the irony, patriarchy itself wants traditional values, and that's how the very powerful and rich control other men. Here is the real kicker. Feminism is controlled by the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 05:26 AM
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Because feminism isn't interested in total equality, because that will mean losing their privileges. Feminism as a movement is only interested in equality for women, but not for men, and why is that?
/r/MensRights20/05/23 05:02 AM
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That's something that I have been contemplating for a while, the welfare system in most Western countries is designed for men to support women directly through higher incomes or indirectly through taxes and maintenance support. The husband is expected to.be the main provider in the household, when the woman is expected to do part-time, or don't work at all. The father is expected to support their family, even if separated, or no longer in a relationship. Single mothers that don't want a partner,…
/r/MensRights20/05/23 04:40 AM
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Various factors. Covid pandemic, all the lockdowns and restrictions made it hard for men to socialise and date. financial pressure, poor wages and increasing cost of living. Social media's relentless attack on men, makes most men feel inadequate or not good enough.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/23 09:14 AM
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Sorry for the late response, i been a bit busy, now back to carry on with the series. It sounds like he had some kind of mental health issue which is often ignored with boys, something that I definitely want to cover with my poetry, a bit more information about Alex and his issues will help a lot.
/r/MensRights19/05/23 05:03 AM
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That 10k will go straight into child maintenance, to don't mention she will also get child benefits, is a scam to use men.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 03:01 PM
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I think it just fits in men's rights, some of these men will fall for the scam and end up taking responsibility for a kid that's not theirs, under UK law it means child maintenance, which will be taken directly from their wages without their consent.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 11:46 AM
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Neither will most people. But let's say that for example, a woman makes false accusations against you, which happens, then you go to social media and complain about her, under these new laws your post will be automatically removed because you are showing signs of misogynism, and the owners of the app doesn't want to end up fine or in prison. No black and white.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 10:21 AM
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There we go, now social media is going to be completely controlled and dominated by feminism, and the silencing era is starting. How are they going to decide what's misogynism or not? And what about misandry?
/r/MensRights16/05/23 08:20 AM
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That's an amazing insight into how you guys feel, will you mind if I use it for some of my poetry?
/r/MensRights15/05/23 05:31 PM
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I don't particularly care about fathers Day myself, just another excuse to waste money, just as commercialised as mothers day, I was responding to the OP, you need to chill out a bit.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 03:20 PM
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I'm not completely sure what you trying to prove, except the fact that people don't give a shit about fathers day...🤷‍♂️
/r/MensRights15/05/23 03:13 PM
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They have their own lives and if they need something I help them, and when we always celebrated mothers days, on fathers Day we used to get a pizza, that I paid for myself.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 03:08 PM
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I have two kids, both over 20 years old, and yes, I know their names, what size clothes they use, what allergies they have, where their doctors are, the same as mine, and what's their favourite foods, I changed their nappies, and I looked after them till they were 18. Assuming is dangerous, and so is stereotyping.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 02:55 PM
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Don't let your emotions bottle up, is better to talk about them like you doing right now, Reddit is a good place to talk about your feelings anonymously.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 05:19 AM
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Good to know that is men in Russia fighting for men's rights ashwell, you more than welcome to share your stories in here.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 04:27 PM
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I doubt she'll have any regrets, she grew up with the mentality that men deserve that treatment, with your mental health issues, I will say don't do it, it may do you more harm than good.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 03:13 PM
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Spot on, I will also add that often young boys are seen as a potential danger to society when they grow older, their behaviour is constantly checked for signs of misogynism, which is often misunderstood, the term "boys will be boys" is there for a reason. It has been a trend for at least 40 years of "re-educating" young boys to be more compliant with feminism and is starting to show.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 02:31 PM
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This has been going on since the 80's, at least 40 years, the curiosity here is that stories about men being raised by feminism are just starting to emerge, mostly from men in their 40's.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 01:33 PM
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This is the only subreddit that's vocal about men's rights, it gets a lot of attention for that reason, you also have to remember that are literarily shit loads of subreddits around that their whole purpose is to prosecute men, a bit like some kind on Witch-hunt for entertainment, and they all come here hunting for juicy content to bitch about.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 01:10 PM
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That's the idea, but I need more stories, they need to be rich and detailed for me to be able to dig into the emotions of that person.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 12:41 PM
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I'm interested in the manipulation aspect of your story, but I need a bit more about your son's mental health condition to be able to dig deeper into your emotions, I believe I can use it for my poetry, but I need a bit more.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 09:26 AM
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Is a great story, will you mind if I use it for some of my poetry?
/r/MensRights13/05/23 01:31 PM
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Fathers are the providers, so nothing is given to us, we men, are just starting to notice the unfairness of it.
/r/MensRights13/05/23 01:17 PM
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Hey, I'm interested in hearing more about the farm and your childhood there, if possible.
/r/MensRights13/05/23 01:03 PM
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How it affected your childhood to don't have any male influences on your life? also very interested in hearing more about your son, and finally how counselling made you realise that you were manipulated by your wife.
/r/MensRights13/05/23 12:44 PM
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Hey, can I get a few more details about how it made you feel when you realised that your mother hated you for being a man?, also your experiences in the army, if possible.
/r/MensRights13/05/23 12:19 PM
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Therapy can be counter-productive if the focus is on a specific person, in this case, you, the bigger picture is ignored and the solution is eliminating the threat. This happens when is "lazy" Therapy involved, which you will get at universities and charities, they often employ cheap therapist with lacks professionalism.
/r/MensRights13/05/23 11:21 AM
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Feminism has made women terrified of the patriarchy, if you want to use the elephant metaphor, in this context, both men and women are the flies, patriarchy and matriarchy are the elephant.
/r/MensRights13/05/23 10:48 AM
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That's the difference, isn't it? I won't say I'm anti-feminism, even though I could easily become one since I was raised by a single-mother feminist woman, that literarily made me hate myself for being a man. But I believe in men's rights because mine were denied.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 04:56 PM
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I created the community. r/Humanity_Echo_Chamber Keeping it private for now until I find a strong Mod team, and also have a control run first.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 06:27 AM
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Someone mentioned echo chambers, which I think might work, something like; Humanity_echo_chambers
/r/MensRights11/05/23 05:36 AM
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Just trying to find a way to focus on the issues between MRA and Feminism, but keeping politics out of it, maybe the answer is creating an Echo Chamber, and that will also be a good name for a subreddit.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 05:20 AM
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Yes, that's the general direction I thinking ashwell, as compassion for others, without making it sound religious, or too spiritual. Getting slowly somewhere.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 04:43 AM
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Autocracy is spreading across the EU, it has been for at least a decade, if it has something to do with feminism or not, I can't say, more research is needed.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 02:07 PM
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Facebook encourages this kind of behaviour, let's not forget that Facebook itself is a dating site, you just need to look at all the "fake profiles" going around there, mostly women.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 08:13 AM
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I'm already thinking along the line of "social issues", covering everything from men's and women's rights to racism, young people's concerns, mental health, and legal advice. This will allow me to prohibit political views without having to specifically mention MRA, or feminism. Yes, send me a message.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 06:26 AM
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Yes, I need to do some research on this before I commit to anything, getting as much information as possible will help.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 05:49 AM
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Is going to require some serious brainstorming, maybe along the lines of "women and men support", or "women and men rights", or even simplified further and go for something like "gender discussions", but I agree it won't be easy, and likely to fail.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 05:38 AM
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Yes, I noticed that too, which is why ironically, I think that a subreddit that specifically doesn't allow either feminism or MRA discussions, or debates, may be the solution for the "neutral zone" issue.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 05:16 AM
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I'm aware mate.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 07:59 PM
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To be honest, as I read all these comments I started to deviate more and more from the idea of a neutral zone in which MRA and the feminist movement can have a civilised discussion, instead I starting to think in a completely different continent in which men and women can discuss their issues. If you get the metaphor.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 06:19 PM
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Perhaps the approach should be something along the lines of "Women and Men rights", instead of MRA and Feminism debates. I get the feeling that a lot of women are scared of going against the feminist movement, probably why they come here instead.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 05:44 PM
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Yes, that's the issue, the feminism subreddit is extremely intolerant of views that aren't popular with their users, probably scared of losing popularity?, or backslashing from other subreddits?
/r/MensRights09/05/23 05:23 PM
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Let me quickly explain something, that Charity doesn't deal with men's domestic abuse, only women and children. Isn't any charity that deals with domestic violence in which the man is the victim, only charities that deal with homeless men, and ex-military.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 04:56 PM
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To be honest, I don't get it, are they seriously trying to blame men for breast cancer?
/r/MensRights09/05/23 04:43 PM
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Yes, I starting to get that feeling already
/r/MensRights09/05/23 04:06 PM
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Doesn't matters, made a couple of comments and the post was removed, lol. But yeah, I get what you mean.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 02:25 PM
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On it.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 02:05 PM
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Lol, you are probably not far off, since most feminists identify themselves as man.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 12:16 PM
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Yes, the more comments I read, the more unrealistic is becoming, obviously open debate isn't something that can be achieved, even though I believe a lot of MRA activists will be willing to try.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 11:47 AM
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Yes, it will be tricky, but instead of banning, comments that aren't in context with the debate could simply just be deleted.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 08:27 AM
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That made me laugh, I guess downvoting and banning you is the equivalent of being sent to the "doghouse".
/r/MensRights09/05/23 07:07 AM
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I'm not saying it will be easy, hint, that's why I said I won't have the time to moderate it. But I'm tired of trying to have civilised discussions and getting downvoted or banned, and I'm sure some people from the feminist side feel the same.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 06:11 AM
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I wasn't sure if it was one around already, I'll check it out
/r/MensRights09/05/23 05:58 AM
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Trolling is done to cause a reaction, sometimes positive, sometimes negative. Maybe what we perceive as Trolling is just people trying to create awareness. Maybe this isn't always the case, but we need to see the difference between a troll, and an activist.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 07:52 AM
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Will do that, Young men are struggling to fit into a society which is constantly prosecuting them just for being a man. I honestly worried about the well-being and mental health of young people trying to navigate the constant misandry.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 02:03 PM
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I totally agree.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 02:58 PM
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So it seems that feminists need to join this discussion and explain themselves.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 02:50 PM
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The brainstorming is thinking about what both men and women want. We both want equality?
/r/MensRights06/05/23 02:47 PM
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I see what you trying to do, interesting experiment, let's see what happens.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 02:28 PM
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I tried to have civilised discussions with them before on their territory, but the result is always being downvoted, or banned... I know they're here, and yes, let's have a civilised discussion without downvoting, or banning.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 02:21 PM
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I'm all for the "let's work together" thing, the issue is that when MRA is actively trying to make an effort, the feminist side isn't. Lots of subreddits in Reddit are designed exclusively to ....how can I say it..."the prosecution of men"?
/r/MensRights06/05/23 01:59 PM
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Which we know isn't true, so let them say what they want.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 12:25 PM
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How else can you achieve the empowerment of women?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/23 08:40 AM
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Anything that exposes inequality between men and women is seen as "anti-feminist".
/r/MensRights06/05/23 06:12 AM
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You can be surrounded by people, and still feel lonely.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 05:28 AM
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I wanted to get this one into the series because suicide is such an important issue among men, but I had to take myself to a very dark place, didn't like it at all.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 12:54 PM
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Thank you, this one was hard to write, I had to go somewhere that made me feel extremely uncomfortable, that's why I decided to put the NSFW warning.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 12:34 PM
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I have already been banned from a few of that groups, some of them without even commenting, and even banned from the feminism subreddit... Which as you say, is a bit stupid, because they come here instead to check what we saying. Is more a case of not wanting your views spread in the perfect little world that they created for themselves.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 05:27 AM
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You need to see a therapist more as a rope, that's the help, but you still have to climb the rope by yourself.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/23 05:16 AM
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You are obviously lagging on self-esteem, most likely to do with child abuse, you need to start believing in yourself, focus on your good qualities, and be confident. Do all that, and you will find what you looking for.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 07:33 PM
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Unbelievable that this outrageous bullying is allowed, a young man was condemned to death, without a trial. You lot should be ashamed of yourselves.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 05:04 PM
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"A student falsely accused of rape was relentlessly bullied until he committed suicide." Aren't the women that bullied this poor young man into suicide even ashamed of themselves?
/r/MensRights04/05/23 04:52 PM
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I'm pretty much the same, full respect for hard-working women. But I have a real issue with the..... Sisterhood of the self-entitled.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 04:07 PM
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Very often, but that's the issue, women that use feminism and the system to take advantage of men. Self-entitlement. But is also important to remember, and I keep repeating this. Not all women are the same.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 03:46 PM
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This is just generalising, yes, some women will abuse the system, and use men (the real issue), but other women are self-sufficient, work hard, and don't abuse the system.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 02:02 PM
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I agree, the only place for MRA is in the centre, with allowances for left-centre and right-centre, but it can't go far-wing, left or right.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/23 11:36 AM
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The approach to the MRA movement needs to change, the movement needs to go centre-left to be taken seriously. Too liberal, no good Too Conservative, no good Far-right won't work because it encourages misogynism and extremist views. Far-left won't work either because it plays into the hands of the Far-right branches of the feminist movement.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/23 11:07 AM
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Is "organising ourselves" what they are scared of, MRA by nature is wild, with different views and approaches of how to achieve equality. If the MRA movement gets organised, with clear goals, it will start to gather momentum, that's what they're trying to stop.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 08:29 AM
1

You can be centre-left, which I think is what fits better on the MRA movement without going full right wing.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 07:06 AM
3

Sounds good to me, but it will have to be clean and well-regulated, otherwise, all the censoring starts and we are back to zero, but I'm definitely on board with this idea. What I will want to see is a focus on the real inequality issues facing men in today's society. homeless man interviews and stories. Fathers struggle to have a relationship with their kids because of laws and inequalities between mother and father. false accusations impact on men's mental health. soldier's stories about the t…
/r/MensRights04/05/23 05:04 AM
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You don't have to be anti anything, but if you believe our concerns and issues are fair, and worth fighting for, you are welcome.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 07:16 PM
8

Some of the greatest philosophers, writers, inventors, and geniuses in history are men.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 05:55 PM
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They aren't going to like this, women are just happy with their entitlement, and when it comes to equality the rights don't apply to men. Equality for all isn't something taken into account when it comes to their privileges.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 04:57 PM
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Thank you, feel free to use them as you wish, no credit is necessary, I writing these poems for Awareness of men's issues and discrimination, this is for all of us.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 02:14 PM
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All authentic work, no AI involved in this poetry.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 02:07 PM
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No, all these poems are written by me.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 01:58 PM
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UK -Equal parental rights between mother and father. -Equality with help and support when facing rough sleep. -Inequality with laws and rights between men and women.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 05:15 PM
2

Just try to find some identity, I know is hard because you have nothing to identify with, but pursuing your goal to try to find out where you came from, will help you with your identity problems.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 05:03 PM
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Controversial isn't always a bad thing and not a reason to stop voicing our concerns, or stop fighting for our rights.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 03:50 PM
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You are probably extremely confused, and you had this "feeling " since you were a child of not belonging, my advice will be to carry on trying to find your roots and try to get some sense of identity.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 06:40 AM
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You'll get a few negative comments because some of the men here had terrible experiences with women, don't take it personally, also most men will run as soon as you start talking about feelings.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 04:37 AM
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My concern is that if a judge can't decide if it is enough evidence, without the no proven option they may feel pressured to a guilty verdict, as I said..It can't go either way.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 04:34 PM
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This can honestly go either way, the no-jury thing will help a bit, but the not-proven thing could lead to a lot more convictions, not sure about this.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 04:23 PM
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That article is about Andrew Tate, which seems to be gathering some popularity amongst young boys in the UK, I'm not going to get too deep into it. I had an "interesting" argument on another post about this, my argument was that is actually misandry that's causing misogynism in the first place, got downvoted to hell.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 05:40 AM
3

The mainstream media is to blame for this thought, it kind of reflects the "hate culture" going on at the moment. I think the case with Johnny Depp and Amber Heard showed the world that false accusations are real and not a fairy tale that men created. More defamation lawsuits are needed.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 05:27 AM
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Political correctness at its best, is a bit like Google wanted to sound like isn't discriminating against women and instead is discriminating against men😂
/r/MensRights29/04/23 05:18 AM
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You get confused people on both sides, extremism is mostly caused when Isn't a clear goal, the goal should ALWAYS be equality.
/r/MensRights28/04/23 04:42 AM
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To be honest they should be looking more into what's going on right now instead of looking at legislation, I'm quite involved in men's rights in the UK, and the number of men complaining about criminal damage, and harassment by this "vigilante groups" is alarming..keeping in mind that often are false accusations, not always, but often enough to be concerning.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 05:13 PM
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Is a form of passive-aggressive control, making you feel that everything is your fault and that you are responsible for other men's behavior makes you submissive. Psychologically this will be seen as "abuse", but when it comes to men isn't recognized as such.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 04:02 PM
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The scary thing is, that all that stuff is already going on, vandalism of private property, stalking, harassment. Even though that may sound like some kind of twisted movie, women's vigilante forces already exist in the UK, completely protected by the law.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 02:38 PM
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So basically... "Go ahead ladies, is OK to take justice into your own hands" The UK is becoming a joke.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 02:06 PM
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The psychology behind this is that both men and women will seek the "alpha male" because it will increase their chances of survival, this isn't an exclusive gender issue, so we need to be careful here because very quickly we going to be accused of misogynism, or patriarchy.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 09:48 AM
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I don't think it is?...men and women alike will seek their strongest chance of survival, this isn't necessarily a gender issue, is more along the lines of human psychology.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 08:43 AM
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Is a well-known conundrum, in an extreme survival situation, in which death is imminent, our instinct is to seek the strongest person that will give us the highest chance of survival.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 08:34 AM
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Is a bit like the "desert island" conundrum, if you are stuck on a desert island and your chances of survival are minimum, or not very good, presented with a life or death situation, if you can only choose "one" person to be with you, you'll choose whoever gives you the better chance of survival, often another man. Women are the same, if suddenly the world descended into chaos, feminism will simply stop existing.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 06:22 AM
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I was thinking of doing a series of poems about men's rights and struggles in society, will keep posting them as I get through them. It will be in three parts. Part one will be "the father, war, my son" Part two will be "the homeless, the soldier, the orphan" Part 3 will be "the false accusations, divorce, the lawyer. Part 3 will be obviously super heavy, which is why I decided to leave it to last.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 04:56 AM
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Not idea, I just wrote it...but I guess will be more on the lines of humorous sarcasm
/r/MensRights26/04/23 08:52 PM
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Maybe they need to define first what's considered "misogynist" before start saying whether's a hate crime or not, complaining about women that are encouraging hate themselves isn't misogynism.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 02:33 PM
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You are probably not far off, but as others said, if you going to provide numbers and percentages they need to be backed up with stats, especially in Reddit.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 02:14 PM
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No, it isn't, but sadly this is the current situation in the UK, fathers are pushed out because women are simply better off financially on their own. The benefits system in the UK is completely broken and favors the mother, lots of kids here in the UK growing up without a dad.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 01:48 PM
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Personally, I think is just as simple as stopping child maintenance (from the father's side), and stopping child benefits until the dispute is resolved in court, a lot of this is triggered by the fact that a woman gets more money being a single parent than being with their partners.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 09:51 AM
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I think you are more informed than you give yourself credit for, thank you for your input.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 09:00 AM
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Also, I will be interested in some kind of input about the difference between genuine feminists, and wannabe feminists from your perspective, if possible, just for my own research.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 06:15 AM
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I can do my part here, but you guys need to take action ashwell, and start "exposing" the wannabe feminist.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 05:45 AM
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That's because they make more noise than genuine believers in the feminist cause, also keeping in mind that most of them are not interested in feminism, just interested in using it for their gain. I trying to bring awareness to this issue.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 05:31 AM
1

Spot on, I mentioned in another comment the "wannabe" feminist, which in my opinion are the ones causing all the problems.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 05:26 AM
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This is sadly quite a common reoccurrence in the UK. To explain it simply. The mother takes full control of the kid's education by constantly going against the father, the father starts to get more and more isolated from his kids and is pushed out of fatherhood so he becomes nothing more than a bank account.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 04:51 AM
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Being "slutty" as you called it, improves the chances of a woman finding the male that she will consider as the best match for her, because we men are attracted to feminism...you get the irony?
/r/MensRights25/04/23 04:37 PM
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That only proves that feminism encourages women to be single, if a woman wants to find a partner, then she needs to be feminine, correct?
/r/MensRights25/04/23 04:26 PM
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Ah..religion, I get your point, and I understand what you trying to say, but my focus is more on feminism not allowing women to be feminine. I will say that's a subject better suited for another post, not sure if it will fit on MRA, but may fit on other subreddits.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 04:13 PM
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I am also inclined to a similar view, in my opinion, the fourth-wave of feminism has outlived its course, and now we are left with a lot of unsure women that aren't sure what they fighting for anymore, that's my conclusion anyway, and yes, MRA have to be careful that we don't fall in the same trap.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 03:54 PM
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So what's feminine to you? how do you define being "feminine"?
/r/MensRights25/04/23 03:19 PM
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Is a lot of peer pressure to follow the "empowerment" of women, but it seems that women, in general, are confused about what that means exactly. I honestly think this should be the end of the fourth-wave, and move on to the next thing.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 02:49 PM
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My theory is that's a fear factor about not fitting in, or not being part of the gang, you see this happen a lot on social media.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 02:33 PM
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If you are happy, they should leave you alone, at least here you can talk about it, and no one will judge you or criticise you.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 01:17 PM
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And now they are against any woman that doesn't follow their ideologies, extremism has taken over the feminist movement
/r/MensRights25/04/23 11:56 AM
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Which is obviously wrong, you should be allowed to live your life however you want, as far as your rights are respected.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 11:13 AM
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Everyone is entitled to be who they want to be.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 10:30 AM
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The difference here is..that women are feminine, you talking about men trying to be feminine..which is another subject completely.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 10:19 AM
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But you won't demand that they change, or bully them until they do...right?
/r/MensRights25/04/23 10:11 AM
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What is the reason for women to complain about other women being too "feminine"?
/r/MensRights25/04/23 09:57 AM
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So they are just "wannabe" feminists?
/r/MensRights25/04/23 09:43 AM
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I know women are bitchy with each other, but only feminist complaints about other women being too feminine..which is quite ironic.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 09:05 AM
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Or just be "feminine", which makes you wonder what the feminist movement is trying to achieve?
/r/MensRights25/04/23 06:37 AM
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What's incredible is that feminism is oppressing women ashwell, not just men.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 06:26 AM
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Depending on where he lives, that may not be a bad thing...some charities will only provide services if you have been left homeless against your will, wrong, but that's how the system works.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 05:30 AM
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I'm not sure where you live, but if you live in the UK you can get in contact with PATH, or Shelter, both charities that can help you to find your own place, don't just leave your home, because you won't get any help at all.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 04:20 PM
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That's something that I trying to get to the bottom of it. Let's say "X" says something that from a perspective makes sense, and then "Y" dismiss the argument with a counter-argument that from a different perspective makes sense, then "W", in this case, the subreddit, completely dismisses the argument by downvoting the view that they don't like. It happens on all social media platforms but is much more obvious on Reddit.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 06:54 AM
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Don't even get me started with that series....to summarise.... "Men are evil rapers, that will force you to have kids against your will, keep you imprisoned and kill you if you disobey....and take your kids away to give them to other women" Never seen anything so toxic in my life, and probably one of the reasons why misandry is on the rise right now.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 02:44 PM
0

Easiest explanation; No one knows why.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 02:25 PM
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This interesting, for those of you that don't know what this is about; https://www.hamhigh.co.uk/things-to-do/21377542.penis-monologues-provide-poignant-stories-male-vulnerability/
/r/MensRights23/04/23 01:12 PM
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Probably a better understanding of men's struggles, a lot of the guys in groups such as this one had previous negative experiences with women. demasculinization is also a massive issue, or trying to feminine men to fit into what a man should be like according to feminist ideologies, which is technically an "utopia", and not realistic, men aren't animals that can be tame. Furthermore, understanding that men have feelings, emotions, and needs, we experience life the same way as women do.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 10:41 AM
3

Will it shock you even further if I talk you that my girlfriend is actually a feminist?
/r/MensRights23/04/23 08:04 AM
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You stereotyping me based on me being on a men's rights subreddit, I'm here so I'm a loser... I have two kids, one 21 and the other one just 20, both boys, I'm 48, and I have a partner.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 07:00 AM
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The standards have been set too high for the average man to reach the high expectations that women have ..or you can't see that? You are talking about the "perfect man", and aren't many of those around...the kind of men you talking about are in their 40's - 50's, and most of them already have a family, with a wife, and kids.. You guys aren't giving young men a chance, because they don't have the required maturity yet.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 06:04 AM
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It seems to me that your stereotype is; A kind, mature, well-educated man with strong values. But that may not be the same for other women, some women may prefer a childish, selfish, poorly educated man that they can "mother".
/r/MensRights23/04/23 05:54 AM
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What's substandard to you? Keep in mind that all men are different, some are kind, others aren't... some are childish, and others are mature... Some have a high sex drive, others aren't... Some are tall, and others are small... We come in all sizes and colours, and we all have different personalities... So what's the "stereotype" that fits into your criteria of the "perfect man"?
/r/MensRights23/04/23 05:09 AM
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I don't blame women in general at all, extremism is what's causing this, we men need to start to see the difference, otherwise, we encouraging hate towards women ourselves.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 04:55 AM
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Not as easy as it sounds, but thank you, trying every day.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 04:15 PM
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That's an interesting view, when you have been raised by a mother that hates men, as a young child your whole identity is fuck up, you don't know who you are, and that damage is transferred into your adulthood, most of us that have been raised by an abusive mother never recovers from it.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 03:24 PM
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My advice will be, to start developing your own views, because of my childhood I could easily ended up hating women, and I did for a while when I was younger....but as you mentioned in your post, we all are people, and we all different regardless of our gender.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 02:42 PM
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Just getting us ready for the massive drafting of young Russian men, this propaganda is directed at "us", not Russians...trying to avoid criticism by making us believe that they are "asking" them to join...we know better Putin.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 12:06 PM
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Guess what?, my mum was a feminist and I'm a man....the psychological damage she did to me when I was little was quite bad, a feminist mother trying to educate a boy to hate men is a form of abuse that no one ever mentions. Good for you to break away from it and start developing your own views, keep going.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 11:45 AM
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I think is good that some women are starting to be more vocal about the radicalization of the feminist movement, which is dangerously heading in the direction of extremism.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 11:15 AM
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I'm sure some women are happy with the ideology of being strong, independent, and self-reliable...but some women aren't, some women want a family and the stability that a man brings to their lives, are that women wrong, and should be "educated"? because if you believe that, you have radical views.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 10:52 AM
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If it's any consolation, some universities are already starting to take action against it, have a read; https://www.reddit.com/r/unitedkingdom/comments/12pa8zl/culture_wars_in_academia_university_blocks/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/MensRights22/04/23 09:44 AM
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I am surprised that this kind of conduct is allowed in universities, professors and lecturers should be aware of the consequences of using their personal views in seminars. If you getting a degree in politics or philosophy then yes, learning about feminism makes sense as part of the curriculum, but economics?..why?
/r/MensRights22/04/23 09:09 AM
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It is few charities that deal with men's inequalities and rights..but curiously, they are either charities for the homeless or military charities for soldiers....
/r/MensRights22/04/23 06:21 AM
0

If you feel that way, you suffer from depression, lack of energy, not caring, anxiety and social isolation are common signs for men that are struggling with mental health issues. Consider asking for therapy and antidepressants with your doctor.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 05:57 AM
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This is an interesting point, especially looking at cultural divisions between men, I don't think "caring" is the right word to use here. Racism, homophobia, and patriotism still cause divisions among men, for men's rights to gather some momentum and to be taken seriously by society, we need to eliminate division and encourage unity.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 05:43 AM
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I noticed that MRA is been treated a bit like how the feminist movement was treated in the 1900's.... lot of silencing and censoring going on, history repeating itself.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 05:27 AM
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Is lots of stories like this around, men need to start making noise about this issue, will love to hear more stories like this from other men on your situation.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 04:03 PM
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I'm aware, but it's recently that the numbers are truly getting unproportional. It's worrisome, to be honest.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 02:22 PM
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Yes, it is discrimination going on, but it's only becoming more apparent recently, probably to do with the economy, and cost of living crisis.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 02:17 PM
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The UK government expend, apparently, 50 million on homeless prevention, yet, the number of homeless men in the streets is increasing at an alarming rate.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 11:07 AM
1

Explain to me why so many men around the world are against "drafting", but women don't seem to care.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 10:20 AM
1

You see, in the West people can refuse to go to war, and they don't need to choose prison, I feel sorry for you guys because you're as much of a victim in this war as everyone else, hang on there, we know you suffering.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 07:47 AM
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Visual representation of how inequality is a fairy tale created by extremist feminists to empower women above men.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 05:38 AM
1

Because I'm pointing out that young Russian men, that could be your son, or your brother, or even your partner are "forced" to go to war, and die?
/r/MensRights21/04/23 05:32 AM
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Women aren't a threat to men, just some men are tired of constantly having to worry about what they doing or saying, the false accusations mostly, are driving good men away, so women eventually are going to be left with the men that they've trying to avoid in the first place.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 04:52 AM
1

That's right, so good men don't want to date anymore, and good women don't want to date anymore....and that's pretty much why dating apps are a zoo..see my point?
/r/MensRights21/04/23 04:44 AM
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Maybe I come from a different generation, but I was educated to be a "gentleman".
/r/MensRights20/04/23 05:14 PM
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If I see someone in distress, my instinct is to help, if it was a young man you wouldn't question it, but if it's a young girl...you do, that's wrong.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 04:59 PM
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You should do that, helping a little girl in distress is more important than being prosecuted for doing it...is a sad world when men have to question the morality of helping a kid.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 04:20 PM
1

I did..200,000 Russian men have already been drafted into the Ukraine war, with another 500,000 in reserve...don't believe the propaganda on your own country.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 10:04 AM
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Sadly self-defence isn't something that applies to men when it comes down to women...if you defend yourself against another man, the law is on your side, but if you defend yourself against a woman, you are automatically the criminal. And women have the balls to say that we have the same rights, sure.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 09:06 AM
2

So you telling me that isn't any drafting of young men in the Russian army going on right now?...please..
/r/MensRights20/04/23 07:18 AM
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Is discrimination on both sides....let's not forget what the "red army" does, should we? they draft young men that have never held a gun in their entire lives into the front line, against their will, without training..just to die, not to fight.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 06:17 AM
2

The Russian soldiers are drafted into the front line, and they aren't even given the option to go to prison..picking the red army as an example is your stupidest comment yet.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 05:53 AM
3

Yes, and you can see why extremism amongst feminists is on the rise, some of the more popular feminist advocates have extremist views. Is important that we also understand that feminism has three schools, liberal, radical, and extremist, radical and extremist ideologies are on the rise when liberal views are dying. Well done with the research though, something I have been wanting to do but don't have the time.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 05:26 AM
2

Why do we have to choose between going to war or prison?..that's the most ridiculous thing I ever heard.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 04:45 AM
4

That's exactly why I think extremist feminism is so toxic, they harming other women too, not just men and their actions are ruining women's lives ashwell...if enough men and women can see this, will be better for everyone.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 08:12 PM
4

Someone asked how you define an abusive relationship, this is how, most common among men.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 07:19 PM
1

I think is more to do with society, men are strong, brave, providers, and defenders...accepting that you have been in an abusive relationship is just plain weakness, I wonder how many men commit suicide exactly for this reason.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 06:07 PM
2

Yes, lots of that going on ashwell, and I honestly don't feel like having to write a whole essay every time I comment, can get my point across without researching all night about the subject.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 05:49 PM
1

I know how it feels, but knowing it and accepting it is two different things, most men can't accept it.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 05:43 PM
2

Yes, I find that also a bit irritating with Reddit..you constantly think about saying the wrong thing, which is stupid because we all have different views.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 05:40 PM
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Most men won't talk about it, accepting that you have been in an abusive relationship is extremely hard for men to accept, denial is the best option....lots of men are in abusive relationships, and don't even know it.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 05:33 PM
6

Not all women are the same, and I'm not implying for a second that's the case, most of my comments, and views are focused on extremist feminism toxicity in today's society, just to be clear.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 03:46 PM
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Well, when they wonder where all the good men have gone, they can look at their behaviour and maybe realise why they're gone, well said by the way.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 01:09 PM
4

Oddly, yes, by other men..but feminists still have a few issues understanding that men have the same rights as they do.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 01:00 PM
21

Women can wear our clothes, and is accepted..but if a man wears a dress, has makeup on, or paints his nails..society goes nuts. This is a subject that needs to be addressed on men's rights. (protection of minority rights)
/r/MensRights19/04/23 11:52 AM
24

Yep, I going for the caveman look ashwell..is oddly liberating
/r/MensRights19/04/23 11:21 AM
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If enough men do it..they will get the point.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 10:29 AM
11

The fact that we can have a civilised discussion right now, and no one is downvoting you.. show very clearly the difference between the men's rights movement and the feminist movement... I let you think about that one.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 09:57 AM
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Well..it won't be men, and most women are too busy living their lives to get involved in it..so...
/r/MensRights19/04/23 09:22 AM
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I think the OP is referring to feminist, and not all women..we are aware that not all women are the same.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 09:18 AM
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Downvoting is something that most feminists do to hide your comments, to be honest, I don't get it, is almost like they feel that they don't have a solid argument against it, so they downvote you instead..doesn't stops me normally though .
/r/MensRights19/04/23 09:00 AM
8

That's where you are wrong, the majority of men are not particularly interested in going to war and getting themselves killed....that's a misconception that women have about men, the main motivator throughout history has always been protecting their loved ones, that's what makes men do "heroic" acts.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 08:14 AM
2

Watch it mate, is lots of "hidden" men's rights messages in that movie.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 06:17 AM
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I don't think is anything you can do, it has to come from him, he needs to make that decision....only thing you can do is "discretely" point out that he is in a toxic relationship.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 05:52 AM
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I don't think you are alone, look around you when you go outside, you can see more and more men wondering around alone with long beards, and eating alone in cafes and restaurants..and they look happier than men in a relationship.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 05:38 AM
3

As I already explained, are those in power exploiting men's nature and instinct to control us...or do I need to use the word "patriarchy"..because I trying not to.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 05:22 AM
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I have a few friends that they aren't even trying to date anymore out of fear of false accusations, entrapment, and manipulation... What women are going to do when we all decide that our "men's caves" are more appealing?
/r/MensRights19/04/23 05:14 AM
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I talking about how those in power have been using our nature against us... One of the biggest war propaganda ever used has always been the same. "We need to protect our women and children against other men", has always been used by recruiters to encourage men to go to war.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 04:50 PM
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This takes me back to a comment that I made another time... Is our nature to be protective of those that we love, it has been the case ever since humans started to exist..is our instinct as "males", has been abused by society throughout history, and is expected a man to sacrifice himself, is accepted..but isn't the same for women, the expectations are that we need to protect them and they don't need to sacrifice anything. Ask yourself this question; What will happen if men stop protecting women …
/r/MensRights18/04/23 03:18 PM
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Was just about to say exactly this, you beat me to it.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 03:03 PM
3

I was suffering from chronic depression and anxiety for nearly 5 years due to a racist attack, and severe PTSD that stopped me from socialising, or even getting outside my home..I was accused by my ex of being a lazy person, she treated me no worse than a dog, just feeding me and ignoring me, not getting any help for my mental health issues, and just saying that I needed to "man up"....she eventually kicked me out of our home, let me in the streets with no place to go, no friends, no one to help…
/r/MensRights18/04/23 02:12 PM
8

Because it exposes men's rights too much, anything to do with men struggles in society is automatically censored but the mass media....
/r/MensRights18/04/23 01:53 PM
0

Well..extremism is normally few, very loud individuals making a lot of noise
/r/MensRights18/04/23 01:12 PM
12

Joker is probably the one that represents male depression the best, also the struggles that men experience in society.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 09:04 AM
7

The thing is, that when women had some success in their fight against inequality and rights, men haven't, we still going to war to kill other fellow men, and getting killed by other men in the name of politics, and we still have no paternity rights, we still suffer discrimination, we still don't have the same rights as women ..men rights have been ignored throughout history, and still are.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 08:18 AM
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Why not?, feminism has male advocates too, and I think is room for some of the most Liberal schools of both feminism and men's rights to meet somewhere in the middle and find some common ground.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 05:38 AM
2

I'm not sure how it works in USA, but in the UK she should be declaring a change of circumstances, for taxes and benefits support, if she doesn't, she's technically breaking the law, but like I said, I don't know about the USA
/r/MensRights18/04/23 05:29 AM
-1

transgenderism has been around for a very long time, since the 50s, and what's born out of feminism and the "gender identity" movement..but for some reason it has become all suddenly a serious social issue, why is that?
/r/MensRights17/04/23 11:46 AM
-3

As always, it is the most extremist branches of feminism causing all the social issues, but regardless, transmen are still biologically men, just with different cultural beliefs and gender identities, it is up to other men to step in and fight with them, and not against them.
/r/MensRights17/04/23 10:29 AM
6

If you believe in equality and men's rights, we should also support transmen in their fight to have the same rights as everyone else. Transmen are under attack currently by society, and feminists are assaulting their rights, for lack of a better word..if we fighting for equality, we fighting for equality for "all", not just few.
/r/MensRights17/04/23 09:16 AM
12

That's called "entrapment", and it sounds like you probably have enough evidence to go to court and clear your name.
/r/MensRights17/04/23 05:32 AM
2

I kind of did, men should be allowed to be who they want to be, not who society expects us to be to "fit" in..I didn't say we need to behave in a specific way, just be yourself.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 05:40 AM
1

At the contrary of feminism, masculinism doesn't have clearly defined branches, or "schools", most men are not completely sure what they fighting for exactly, it needs to be more direction, which is what I trying to point out with my post.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 05:35 AM
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Just trying to present a more liberal take on masculinity ideologies, more in touch with modern times, masculinism isn't moving with the times, we are stuck in a philosophical approach that is quite old fashion.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 05:24 AM
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Masculinity should be more in touch with men's feelings and emotions, this is the area that as you can see by my post still taboo and not recognised, I will have a read, thanks for the suggestion.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 05:14 AM
1

Not a feminist by a long shot, believe me.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 05:09 AM
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Yes, that's the problem, we shouldn't. A transman should be able to just live the way he wants, men's rights should cover the entire male population, regardless of sexual tendencies, nationality, colour of skin, disability, or religious beliefs. We shouldn't be restricted by what society expects from us as "male"
/r/MensRights16/04/23 05:05 AM
1

The problem is that for real change to happen, men attitude towards masculinism needs to also change. This is exactly what's stopping men rights from evolving and gathering momentum, a more philosophical approach with clearly defined ideologies will open the doors for masculinism as a political movement. I may do a post exactly about this when I have the time.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 11:11 AM
5

It depends if it is related to health and safety, working around dangerous machinery for example, but HR should be able to make an exception if based on cultural or religious beliefs.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 09:49 AM
8

If anything, this shows that "equality" has a long way to go, this AI's collects data from millions of sources, social media, Google searches, and conversations..they're like kids constantly learning, and we are the teachers, and this is what they are learning.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 06:35 AM
6

An interesting book that was written in 1971 by a woman, right at the start of the fourth-wave of feminism, if you want to understand why feminism is going wrong at the moment, have a read, or listen to it.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 05:50 AM
15

This is great news for homosexuals, which are ofcourse also men.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 05:19 AM
1

Crazy, but it may work, not the stupidest idea I heard by a long shot.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 04:41 PM
1

Men admire and appreciate other men, even if you feel unappreciated at home, don't forget that, reach out to your friends.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 03:47 PM
2

I think this is mostly because most men see showing emotions as a sign of weakness, so we keep them inside, we let them build until we can't take it anymore, and that's how most suicides happen. Is so important that men feel like they are allowed to show feelings and emotions, we are men, but we are also humans.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 03:27 PM
1

Adoption you said?
/r/MensRights14/04/23 03:18 PM
1

This news will never reach the mainstream media and will be ignored, categorised as fake news, or banned as "hate content"..as always.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 07:55 AM
1

Just out of curiosity, what's your take on gay people that wants to have a child?..like for example a lesbian couple?
/r/MensRights14/04/23 05:34 AM
1

I stop responding long ago...the term "man up" is extremely old fashion.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 05:26 AM
2

So basically, screw other women that want to have a child, but they can't..you sure you are a feminist?
/r/MensRights13/04/23 04:11 PM
2

Won't be more humane to just give the baby for adoption so other less fortunate women, that can't conceive a baby for whatever reason, can have a child?..but..ok
/r/MensRights13/04/23 03:43 PM
3

It all comes down to stereotyping. Man = danger
/r/MensRights13/04/23 11:37 AM
4

Does it matter? The woman was assuming that because he was a man that little girl was in danger, if a woman put her arm around a child, no one will ask the same question.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 09:08 AM
6

That's just how feminists stereotype men, we are all rapists, violent, and child abusers. If you want to put your arm around a child affectionately, just do it, and ignore them.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 08:55 AM
1

"This site can't be reached"
/r/MensRights13/04/23 06:25 AM
1

The link is not working, just letting you know.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 05:53 AM
3

The right to terminate a human life should be free and available everywhere.?, that's practically what you saying.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 05:27 AM
1

I agree with you, but I was referring specifically to the women strikes, they aren't going to achieve anything by striking.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 05:24 AM
6

They aren't going to achieve anything that hasn't already been achieved..Women and men already have the same rights, equality has been achieved, is nothing left to fight for
/r/MensRights12/04/23 06:18 PM
9

Easy solution then.. stop tipping women when you go to a restaurant. This kind of feminists propaganda only hurts themselves
/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:44 AM
1

Oh, OK, it's hard to know sometimes if it's a genuine comment or just "bait," which seems to be a common reoccurrence in this kind of subreddits. My apologies.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 08:47 AM
1

Yes, isn't that what I just said in my post? Men don't get a chance to prove or disprove any allegations against them in such groups. Most of the times they aren't even aware that their personal details and pictures are circulating all over social media. How can you prove that you didn't do something when you were not even aware that you were accused in the first place?
/r/MensRights12/04/23 08:34 AM
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That's the issue, right there, extremist feminist are completely abusing the fourth-wave, they are dangerous and hateful, and their goal isn't equality, is supremacy..this is an internal issue in the feminist movement, that "they" need to resolve before men are forced to start their own political movement to sort them out..liberal feminist needs to step in and take some control on this mess.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 05:34 AM
4

Just don't fall for it. it is always a "bait," which is easy to spot.. if you get lured into a conversation in which you feel that you are being provoked, walk away
/r/MensRights11/04/23 06:49 PM
1

To be honest, I'm not completely informed of USA laws and how willing the judge will be to go on his favour, so this is probably as far as I go with advice, I hope it goes well.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 05:57 PM
3

No.. they don't, or you haven't read my post?
/r/MensRights11/04/23 05:30 PM
2

So.. they don't apply to men anymore because "historically" we already had it?..and that makes perfect sense to you?
/r/MensRights11/04/23 05:20 PM
1

What does that have to do with human rights? Are you implying that they don't apply to men?
/r/MensRights11/04/23 05:09 PM
1

If the mother was willing to negotiate shared custody, then yes..but I sounds to me that she's the one trying to take the child completely from his father.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 05:06 PM
4

Is mostly on English language, in other languages like Spanish for example, you have "Hombre" ( for men), and "Mujer" (for women)..and is the case with all Latin languages..
/r/MensRights11/04/23 10:35 AM
3

You could also argue that the word women is a deviant word from men.. Wo-"men" But don't let the feminist hear this, we won't hear the end of it..😱
/r/MensRights11/04/23 10:20 AM
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That's probably because men tendency is to "father" their partners, is built on us to be "protective," and a "provider," going back all the way to Neanderthal time s when we had to protect our sprog against many dangers, including protecting our partners..men don't mind childish women, in fact we prefer it.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 09:26 AM
6

He should be applying for 100% custody and settling for 50/50 if offered..by applying only for 50%, it may be seen as he isn't that committed to looking after the child, which may go against him.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 08:50 AM
3

To be honest, I have a beard that I trim with an electric shaver, and I drink red wine or spirits.. They can target the popular demographic male population, but masculinity isn't that narrow, this is probably the perfect example of how feminist don't understand men at all.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 05:33 AM
2

I didn't mean you personally, I meant the OP, I will edit my comment to avoid confusion.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 02:25 PM
2

The problem is that the OP is coming to a "men rights" subreddit, implying that because it is only 2-10% of false accusations, it doesn't matter if that "men" lives are destroyed or even leads to suicide ..rape is wrong, is a crime, and shouldn't happen..but neither it should "false accusations"..two wrong don't make a right
/r/MensRights10/04/23 02:03 PM
2

I'm aware, that's why I am putting down the numbers, and not the percentages.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 01:40 PM
6

The study refers to 2,643 cases, which 8% were found to be false accusations..that's 211 men lives ruin, 211 families destroyed..it was 84,767 rape reports on 2023 in the USA alone..that's 6781 men lives ruin, 6781 families destroyed..if you want to go globally..well..we probably talking millions
/r/MensRights10/04/23 01:23 PM
9

Just out of curiosity.. does it matter what percentage it is?..this false accusations ruin men's lives, break families, and lead to men committing suicide..you can't just casually say is only 2-10%..it should be 0%.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 12:59 PM
3

I didn't say it was "right," I said, "Is the solution"..Facebook won't take any action against such groups because they're "private" groups, even that they clearly are breaching privacy and defamation laws in most countries.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 12:33 PM
11

You don't need an expensive one. You need a "good" one. If that lawyer was recommended by a police woman, it means that it has a good record on cases like yours .
/r/MensRights10/04/23 12:22 PM
9

The solution is to fight fire with fire. We men need to start making such groups ourselves, exclusively to defame and discredit women doing that to us, name and shame, and make sure such women can't date any men themselves.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 10:21 AM
2

You agree that we all have the same rights, which is what people like me and other men here believe in..most of us have nothing against women, we don't hate them, we fighting against feminist extremists and how they're treating men..that isn't misogynist, is a political movement
/r/MensRights10/04/23 10:04 AM
13

Go legally, get yourself a good lawyer, self-pity won't help you with this, you already guilty until proven innocent simply for being a man..focus on clearing your name instead of what's "just", society already decided that you guilty
/r/MensRights10/04/23 09:21 AM
6

The problem is that we are in the "information era", all our views, all our beliefs, our lives are dictated by what we see and hear on social media..is currently the most powerful tool to change political views on a mass scale, feminist knows this, and is being severely exploited by radical, and extremist feminist..so to answer your question..no, isn't just reddit.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 09:08 AM
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Good point, I should probably phrased it differently, but I didn't want to sound like a misogynist..ironically..
/r/MensRights10/04/23 07:36 AM
4

Feminism is going wrong. The so-called "Fourth-wave" is making women behave like a bunch of bounty hunters, some kind of Spanish inquisition in which men are the "witches," and we all need to burn ..feminists don't understand, or want to understand, that their current hate attitude towards men in general is what's causing misogynism in the first place
/r/MensRights09/04/23 01:28 PM
1

I believe you are talking about "fake fish" or something like that.. I did find out about such groups through my current partner. Similar to you, my picture ended up on one of such groups, without permission or consent. Basically, my ex decided to try to screw me over by trying to stop me from dating other women.. such pages on Facebook are dangerous and poorly monitored. They definitely shouldn't be allowed.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 05:28 AM
5

This is all about the empowerment of women, but where does it stop? You already can see more and more companies giving jobs based on the "gender" and not qualifications. The current "political correctness trend" is to prioritise women over men on support of equality, and that's causing inequality itself by discriminating men with exactly the same qualifications.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 09:21 AM
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